Sexology

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EP270 - Find Out the Secret of How to Squirt with Caitlin V Feb 22, 2022

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Welcome to episode 270 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Caitlin V to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss female ejaculation, why ejaculation doesn’t always mean orgasm for women, the barriers that stop women from ejaculating and looking at ways women can learn to ejaculate.

Caitlin V is a sex and relationship coach who helps men become amazing lovers and incredible partners. Formerly a sexual health researcher and policy analyst, she was catapulted into internet stardom after a video featuring her went viral.

She works with clients all over the world on ending premature ejaculation, preventing erectile dysfunction, and developing unshakable sexual confidence. Combining personal experience with evidence-based science in her coaching, Caitlin’s mission is to create a sex and pleasure-positive world.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Caitlin went viral on YouTube
Is it possible for every woman to be able to ejaculate?
Why ejaculation doesn’t always mean orgasm for women
How women can feel a build of pressure over time around the issue of ejaculation
Looking at the barriers that stop women from ejaculating
Analyzing the G Spot and its role in ejaculation
Good fingering techniques you can use
Understanding the importance of communicating what you want to your partner
Can women learn to ejaculate by themselves?
Looking at good stroking techniques you can use
Other key factors needed to ejaculate such as high level of arousal

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EP269 - The Ultimate Guide to Fingering with Searah Deysach Feb 15, 2022

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Welcome to episode 269 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Searah Deysach to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss using full body exploration to lead to fingering, paying attention to non-verbal cues and ways you can use teasing to really get your partner in the mood.

Searah Deysach is a sex educator and the owner of Early to Bed and FtM Essentials. In addition to running her retail store & websites, she lectures to community groups and colleges around the state on topics relating to masturbation, sex toys and positive sexuality.

She is committed to working to create a culture where everyone has access to honest information about sexuality and all folks have access to the services, they need to protect their reproductive rights.

In this episode, you will hear:

Using full body exploration to lead to fingering
The importance of light touch and strokes
How you can anticipation and excitement before fingering
Why slowing down to build up is important
How long should we be exploring other parts of the body?
The importance of communication with your partner
Building up excitement with your clothes still on
Ways you can use teasing to really get your partner in the mood
Paying attention to non-verbal cues
Engaging in after-care after orgasm
Ways to add excitement without it becoming the main event

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EP268 - Tips to Give Him the Best Handjob of His Life with Ashley Manta Feb 08, 2022

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Welcome to episode 268 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Ashley Manta to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss ways to build excitement and arousal with handjobs, techniques you can use to stimulate testicles and looking at masturbation techniques such as “The Bottle Rocket”.

Ashley Manta is an award-winning sex educator and coach and has become a sought-after authority on mindfully combining sex and cannabis as part of her CannaSexual® brand. She is the author of The CBD Solution: Sex, published in 2020 in conjunction with Merry Jane and Chronicle Books. She completed her certification as a Bodysex® Facilitator after studying with legendary pleasure pioneer Betty Dodson.
She is the host of Elevated Intimacy podcast and her online course portal, Elevated Intimacy Academy, provides self-paced sex education. She facilitates retreats and workshops at resorts and festivals around the world. She also offers an online sex magick, embodiment, and empowerment intensive called Activating Your Cosmic Pussy. She is a brand ambassador for Sybian.

In this episode, you will hear:

Ways to build excitement and arousal with handjobs
How sexting can help in the sexual build up

Why it’s important to have lube
Looking at some of the best lubes on the market
The importance of having respect for yourself and your partner
Understanding your partners boundaries
Techniques you can use to play with and stimulate testicles

Ways you can stimulate the foreskin
Looking at masturbation techniques such as “The Bottle Rocket”
How you can build excitement for yourself as a giver
Looking at other male pleasure products to further enhance a handjob

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EP267 - All You Need to Know About Erotic Spanking with Taylor Sparks Feb 01, 2022

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Welcome to episode 267 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Taylor Sparks to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss why impact play is hot for so many people, how impact play can create an extra layer of erotic intimacy and looking at tools you can use such as toys and spanking benches.

Among many things, Taylor Sparks (aka Mariposa) is a passionate erotic educator and sex goddess, certified in both holistic aromatherapy and human behavior. With over a decade of experience in the natural skin care/cosmetics industry, Ms. Sparks launched OrganicLoven.com, one of the largest BIPOC owned online intimacy shops. Organic Loven specializes in improving adults’ sexual health/wellness and enhancing their sex lives via their organic intimate body products, body-safe sex toy materials, sex-positive books, and erotic educational seminars.

Ms. Sparks’ expertise has contributed to articles in Bustle, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Men’s Health, Oprah, Shape, Women’s Health magazines and more. Prior to launching Organic Loven she developed a line of 16 head-to-toe organic body care products for elite endurance athletes, called Skin Care for Athletes Tri-Body Products. These products were featured in Muscle & Fitness Hers and the ESPN Magazines, sponsored numerous triathlons, 5ks and marathons as well as 5 Olympic athletes in both the summer and winter Olympics.

Taylor has also become renowned in the adult travel industry and is a powerful public speaker both nationally and internationally. Her flagship seminar entitled,” How To Make Good Pussy, Better”, is extremely popular and focuses on the benefits of organic intimate body products and body safe sex toys. Taylor is socially and environmentally conscious and a strong supporter in all things organic, natural and eco-friendly...including Love.

In this episode, you will hear:

Why impact play is hot for so many people
The importance of clear communication around spanking
How impact play can create an extra layer of erotic intimacy

Looking at the areas of sensitivity best for impact play
Tools you can use such as toys and spanking benches
Analyzing the differences between giving and receiving impact play
Tips for the best way to use your hand for spanking
The mistakes people often make with impact play

Understanding it’s ok to take things slowly and pause if needed

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EP266 - How to Become Sexually Dominant with Fredrick Zal Jan 25, 2022

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Welcome to episode 266 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Fredrick Zal to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the similarities between the kink and punk rock scenes, how you can explore kink to know if you prefer being a submissive or dominant and ways you can step out of your comfort zone to explore kink.

Fredrick’s sexuality education work has focused upon erotically marginalized communities, partnerships, and individuals since 2006 by "Teaching the Art within Sexual Acts" in private lessons, semi-public and private events, and workshops in Oregon, Washington, California, British Columbia, and via Zoom worldwide.

They teach mindfulness, ritual, communication, consent, sexual attitudes reassessment, tantra, kink, and other embodied erotic pathways with an ever broadening understanding of power differentials, socio-political impacts over the centuries, and ways to truly dismantle what they feel in their blood and bones to be a corrupt and flawed acculturalized system.

When not teaching or doing sexuality research; Fredrick endeavors to focus life around what they love, which is the arts, getting outside for adventures, sharing quality time and food with friends, practicing 茶道 (Chado, Japanese Tea Ritual), and movement such as yoga and dance.

In this episode, you will hear:

Looking at the similarities between the kink and punk rock scenes
Understanding that it’s normal to have interest in kink
How kink is centered around a heart and mind connection
Ways in which we can cultivate our emotions to fully embody kink
Looking at the differences between tops and bottoms
How you can explore kink to know if you prefer being a submissive or dominant
Understanding the powerplay dynamics and their relationship to kink
Looking at ways you can step out of your comfort zone to explore kink
The importance of after care and clear communication

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EP265 - Everything You Need to Know to Become an Amazing Sensual Kisser with Darshana Avila Jan 18, 2022

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Welcome to episode 265 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Darshana Avila to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss why is good kissing important for sex, understanding porn is not sex education, and how you can be more thoughtful in your communication.

Darshana Avila is nurturing a culture of Erotic Wholeness. As an internationally recognized speaker, coach and facilitator, Darshana supports women and couples in exploring and reshaping their relationships to intimacy, sex and eroticism. She created the Map of Erotic Wholeness as a path to personal liberation in service to our collective sexual liberation.

Darshana believes “we are erotic by nature,” and is dedicated to helping people feel truly at home in their bodies, at ease with their sexuality and in alignment with their hearts. Her unique style of somatic sex and intimacy coaching weaves together a trauma-informed, nature-based, justice-oriented approach, inviting more presence, pleasure and passion into the lives and relationships of those she guides.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Darshana became interested in this line of work
Understanding that trauma gets healed in the community
Ways in which you can learn to open up your sexual self
Understanding porn is not sex education
Why is good kissing important for sex?

How to communicate to your partner the types of kissing you like
The importance of build-up and foreplay for great sex
Recommendations for whole body experience to build u to great sex
Looking at the different types of kissing and styles
How you can be more thoughtful in your communication

The best ways you can explore touch

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EP264 - How to Give Head That Will Blow Their Mind with Dr. Alison Ash Jan 11, 2022

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Welcome to episode 264 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome back Dr. Alison Ash to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how you can give a killer blowjob, incorporating play into great oral sex, and understanding that you can still get an STI just through oral sex.

Dr. Alison Ash is at trauma-informed sex and intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences.

She designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them.

In this episode, you will hear:

How you can give a killer blowjob
The importance of your appreciating your lover and communicating that to them
Incorporating play into great oral sex
How to overcome things like gag reflex when giving a blowjob
When is the best time to also use your hands when giving a blowjob?
How you can also stimulate testicles when giving a blowjob
The importance of being sensitive when stimulating testicles
Overcoming the issue of not liking the taste of semen
Is it possible to change the taste of semen?
Understanding that you can still get an STI just through oral sex

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EP263 - How to Become a Cunnilingus Master with Dr. Alison Ash Jan 04, 2022

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Welcome to episode 263 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Alison Ash to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the do’s and dont's of cunnilingus, recommendations for the receiver to feel comfortable receiving oral sex, and what are some of the best positions for oral sex.

She designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them.

In this episode, you will hear:

The do’s and dont's of cunnilingus
How you can fine tune your rhythm with your partner
Dispelling the misconceptions around the smell of a vagina
Ways in which you can help put your partner at ease
Recommendations for the receiver to feel comfortable to receive oral sex
Looking at techniques such as “writing the alphabet with your tongue”
When is the right time to move onto penetration?
What are some of the best positions for oral sex?
Looking at experimenting with the 69 position for oral sex

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Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills: A 2-month experiential course

Jan 11- March 8th 2022

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EP262 - Special Q&A from Listeners Dec 28, 2021

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Welcome to episode 262 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where I answer questions from our listeners. In this episode, we touch upon subjects such as tackling anxiety-based issues such as not feeling big enough for your partner, misconceptions about the importance of penis size and what to do if your partner wants to join OnlyFans.

In this episode, you will hear:

Knowing when the right time is to touch your partners clit
Tackling anxiety-based issues such as not feeling big enough for your partner
Overcoming performance anxiety
Looking at spontaneous and responsive desire

What to do if your partner wants to join OnlyFans
Understanding the motivations behind wanting to start an OnlyFans page
The importance of starting slow if your partner does start an OnlyFans page
How you can build up your sexual confidence
Misconceptions about the importance of penis size

Understanding your relationship with your body
Ways in which you can overcome sexual shame

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EP261 – Can Experiencing Grief and Loss Actually Lead to Increased Desire? with Krista St-Germain Dec 21, 2021

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Welcome to episode 261 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Krista St-Germain to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how Krista became interested in becoming a life coach for widows through the tragic passing of her husband, the myths and misconceptions around grief, and ways you can invite pleasure after grief, inside and outside the bedroom.

Krista St-Germain is a Master Certified Life Coach, grief expert, widow, mom and host of The Widowed Mom Podcast. When her husband was killed by a drunk driver in 2016, Krista’s life was completely and unexpectedly flipped upside down. After therapy helped her unfurl from the fetal position, Krista discovered Life Coaching, Post Traumatic Growth and learned the tools she needed to move forward and create a future she could get excited about — now she coaches and teaches other widows so they too, can love life again.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Krista became interested in this work through the tragic passing of her husband
What is grief and how is it defined?
The myths and misconceptions around grief
Understanding that grief is not uniform and different for each person
How people can begin again to lean into pleasure while experiencing grief
The ways in which grief can impact people’s sexual health
Resources and places you can go if you want to seek out pleasure after grief
Looking at the term “Widhoe” and Krista’s thoughts on it
Other ways you can invite pleasure after grief, inside and outside the bedroom
Recommendations for dating in today’s digital world of apps
Learning to be honest and open with people when dating and not be afraid to even talk about things like STI’s