Sexology

EP508 - What Women Really Want in Bed: The Sex Education Men Never Got Sep 15, 2026

What do women actually want in bed, and why do so many couples misunderstand each other’s sexual needs?

In Episode 508 of the Sexology Podcast, Dr. Nazanin Moali is joined by gynecologist and sexual medicine specialist Dr. Maria Sophocles to explore the “bedroom gap,” the disconnect between what partners believe women want sexually and what women may actually experience.

Many couples can discuss money, parenting, work, and family but struggle to have an honest conversation about sex. Dr. Sophocles explains why these conversations feel so difficult and how silence, embarrassment, and cultural expectations can create unsatisfying sexual patterns in long-term relationships.

Together, they challenge common myths about penetration, orgasm, penis size, and what “good sex” is supposed to look like. They also examine how pornography and popular culture can shape unrealistic sexual expectations and leave couples focused on performance instead of mutual pleasure.

The conversation explores how menopause, hormonal changes, painful sex, and shifts in desire can affect intimacy. You will also learn how couples can communicate more openly, introduce novelty, redefine satisfying sex, and create sexual experiences centered on pleasure for both partners.

In this episode, you will learn:

• What the bedroom gap is and why it develops

• What women may actually want from sex and intimacy

• Why couples struggle to communicate about sexual needs

• How to discuss sex without blame, shame, or defensiveness

• Why penetration should not be treated as the main event

• How pornography shapes expectations about sex and orgasm

• Why penis size matters less than many people believe

• How to make sex more pleasure-focused and less performance-driven

• How menopause and hormonal changes can affect sexual desire

• Why sex may become painful during midlife

• How couples can bring novelty into long-term relationships

• Why mutual pleasure belongs at the center of sex education

About Dr. Maria Sophocles

Dr. Maria Sophocles is a board-certified gynecologist and sexual medicine specialist who has worked in women’s healthcare for nearly 30 years. She specializes in menopause management, female sexual health, painful sex, and helping women advocate for their health and sexual pleasure.

She is the founder of Women’s Healthcare of Princeton and a Menopause Society Certified Practitioner. Her TED Talk, “What Happens to Sex in Midlife? A Look at the Bedroom Gap,” has been viewed more than one million times. She is also the author of the forthcoming book The Bedroom Gap.

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EP507 - Should You Have Sex When You're Not in the Mood? Sep 08, 2026

Should you have sex when you’re not in the mood? You should never feel pressured or obligated to have sex, but you also may not need to wait for spontaneous desire before beginning to connect.

In this episode of the Sexology Podcast Caroline Hood joins Dr. Nazanin Moali to explain how responsive desire works and why sexual desire often changes in long-term relationships. They explore the important difference between being willing to become intimate and forcing yourself to have sex when you do not want to.

Caroline explains why some people experience desire only after affection, touch, or sexual stimulation begins. She also discusses how couples can schedule intimacy without making it feel obligatory, create the conditions that allow desire to grow, and communicate about sex without introducing pressure or rejection.

The conversation also explores sexuality after motherhood, the Madonna-whore narrative, emotional disconnection, and the importance of expanding our definition of what counts as sex. If you have been wondering why you are rarely “in the mood,” this episode offers a more compassionate way to understand your desire.

In this episode, you will learn:

• The difference between spontaneous and responsive desire

• Whether it is healthy to have sex when you are not initially in the mood

• Why sexual pressure and obligation reduce desire

• How to schedule sex without making it feel like another chore

• How couples can create more space for intimacy

• Why low desire does not always mean a lack of attraction

• How motherhood can affect sexuality and identity

• How the Madonna-whore narrative shapes women’s sexuality

• Why emotional connection matters for sexual desire

• How to communicate sexual needs without blame or pressure

• Why expanding your definition of sex can create more pleasure

• How fulfilling sexual experiences can help desire grow over time

About Caroline Hood

Caroline Hood is a writer and speaker exploring desire, intimacy, sex, play, and the cultural narratives surrounding long-term relationships. Her work combines humor, introspection, practical guidance, empowerment, and a little tough love.

Caroline challenges the assumption that sex inevitably becomes less satisfying over time. In Because I Want To, she encourages readers to reconnect with their desire, deepen intimacy, and build a more exciting and fulfilling sexual relationship.

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EP506 - Why You Don’t Want Sex: What Your Nervous System Is Trying to Tell You Aug 31, 2026

Why can trauma make you lose interest in sex, disconnect from your body, or freeze during intimacy? In this episode of the Sexology Podcast, somatic instructor Liz Tenuto, also known as The Workout Witch, explains how trauma affects the nervous system, sexual desire, pleasure, and our ability to feel safe in the body.

Liz shares her personal journey of living with PTSD, chronic pain, sleep difficulties, and the long-term effects of trauma. She explains how gentle somatic exercises and small, intentional movements may help reduce habitual tension, regulate the nervous system, and rebuild a sense of safety and connection with the body.

We also explore the fawn and freeze responses during sex, why anxiety can be mistaken for a lack of desire, and how trauma survivors can begin reconnecting with sexual sensation without forcing themselves to move faster than their bodies are ready for.

Liz opens up about healing after an abusive marriage, coming out, and discovering her sexuality later in life. She shares how becoming more connected to her body helped her understand what she genuinely wanted from relationships, sex, and intimacy.

In this episode, you will learn:

How trauma can affect sexual desire and physical sensation
What somatic healing is and how somatic exercises work
How stress and trauma become connected to chronic tension
What the fawn response looks like in relationships
Why someone may freeze or disconnect during sex
How the nervous system influences arousal, pleasure, and libido
Ways to ground yourself when sexual triggers arise
How to distinguish desire from anxiety or hyperarousal
Why slowing down can help rebuild safety and pleasure
How trauma survivors can reconnect with their bodies
What it can mean to discover your sexuality later in life

About Liz Tenuto

Liz Tenuto, also known as The Workout Witch, is a somatic instructor who specializes in practices designed to address the physical effects of chronic stress and trauma. Her mission is to make somatic healing approachable, accessible, and easy to incorporate into everyday life.

Drawing from both professional knowledge and personal experience as a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and domestic violence, Liz helps people understand how trauma can influence the body, nervous system, relationships, and capacity for pleasure.

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Can a Relationship Survive Infidelity? How to Rebuild Trust After an Affair. Aug 25, 2026

How do you rebuild trust after infidelity? Can a relationship survive an affair, and can emotional intimacy and sexual desire return after betrayal?

In this episode of the Sexology Podcast, Dr. Nazanin Moali speaks with renowned couples therapist and sex therapist Dr. Laurie Watson about infidelity recovery, forgiveness, attachment wounds, and rebuilding trust after cheating.

Dr. Watson explains why relationship problems involving sex are rarely just about sex. She explores how emotional attachment and sexual attachment intersect, creating a pursue and withdraw cycle in which one partner feels rejected while the other feels pressured, overwhelmed, or disconnected.

You’ll also learn why people cheat, how an affair affects emotional and sexual intimacy, and what it takes to repair a relationship after betrayal. Dr. Watson shares practical guidance for understanding attachment patterns, healing relationship wounds, restoring trust, and reconnecting sexually after infidelity.

Whether you are recovering from an affair, struggling with mismatched sexual desire, or feeling emotionally disconnected from your partner, this episode offers a compassionate roadmap for rebuilding safety, intimacy, and connection.

ABOUT DR. LAURIE WATSON:

Dr. Laurie Watson, PhD, LMFT, LCMHC, is a nationally recognized sex therapist, couples therapist, author, and podcaster. She is the co-author of Brave Love; Great Sex: Unlocking the Passion and Connection You Crave with Emotionally Focused Therapy and author of Wanting Sex Again. Laurie is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Supervisor and an ICEEFT Certified Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist. She co-hosts the Brave Love; Great Sex podcast with George Faller, which has more than 15 million downloads and over 500 episodes. She is also the founder and director of Awakenings Center for Couples & Sex Therapy in North Carolina, where she has spent decades helping couples build stronger emotional and sexual connection.

N THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:

• Why sexual desire changes in long term relationships

• How the pursue and withdraw cycle affects sex and intimacy

• The relationship between emotional and sexual attachment

• How to recognize the mega attachment pattern

• Why people cheat, even when they still love their partner

• Whether a relationship can survive infidelity

• What forgiveness after an affair really means

• How to repair attachment wounds after betrayal

• How to rebuild trust after cheating

• Ways to restore emotional and sexual intimacy

• How Dr. Watson’s REV Method helps couples reconnect

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EP504 - Why Emotionally Unavailable People Feel So Irresistible Aug 18, 2026

Welcome to Episode 504 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to welcome back Dr. Richard Espinoza, who speaks to me about how attachment styles shape our dating patterns, relationships, and sexual connections.

In this episode, Dr. E and I discuss why we can have such intense chemistry with people that we may not be compatible with at all. We look at how our early attachment experiences influence who we find familiar and attractive as adults, why emotionally unavailable partners can sometimes create an intoxicating sense of desire, and how the nervous system can mistake anxiety, uncertainty, or old relational patterns for chemistry.

Richard “Dr. E” Espinoza, PsyD, is a leading clinical psychologist based in Los Angeles, specializing in trauma and resilience. His practice places a strong emphasis on serving the LGBTQ+ community and its allies, striving to empower individuals from diverse backgrounds through comprehensive psychological assessments, transformative talk therapy, and dedicated activism. Dr. Espinoza is an esteemed professor and captivating speaker, where he shares practical insights on self-discovery and personal growth, along with creating accessible self-help resources designed to inspire personal transformation and a deeper sense of fulfillment.

In this episode, you will hear:

Why Unavailable Partners Feel So Attractive
When Chemistry Is Actually Anxiety
Understanding The Four Attachment Styles
How Childhood Shapes Your Dating Type
Why Familiarity Does Not Equal Compatibility
How Attachment Patterns Affect Sex
Using Sex For Reassurance And Validation
Why Insight Alone Does Not Create Change
Creating Corrective Emotional Experiences
Rethinking Attraction Through LA Love Lab

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EP503 - Why So Many People Secretly Want to Let Go of Control Aug 11, 2026

Welcome to Episode 503 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Midori who speaks to me about exploring kink, dominance, submission, and finding authentic ways to embrace our desires.

In this episode, I speak with Midori about why we’re seeing a rise in women getting curious about dominance and BDSM, particularly women in their 40s and beyond. We discuss how difficult cultural assumptions can open up opportunities for greater sexual self-exploration, and that it’s OK to be dominant without being mean, scary or playing a stereotypical dominatrix.

Midori is an internationally recognized sexologist, kink educator, coach, and author. She's the founder of ForteFemme Women's Dominance Intensive, the groundbreaking program she's run for over 20 years, and the author of The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage, the first English-language book on Shibari, along with contributions to several academic volumes. She also trains therapists and wellness professionals as Curriculum Director for the Kink Informed Certification through the Sexual Health Alliance, and presents regularly at the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT). Through workshops and private coaching, she helps adults bring more creativity, confidence, and erotic fulfillment into their lives.

In this episode, you will hear:

Women Exploring Dominance Later In Life
Moving Beyond Traditional Sexual Roles
Understanding Ravishment Fantasies
Why Submission Can Feel Liberating
Exploring Erotic Humiliation Safely
Finding Your Dominant Archetype
Introducing The You Will Game
Communicating And Co-Creating Kink
Challenging Common BDSM Misconceptions
Finding Safe And Trustworthy Kink Resources

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EP502 - Why You're Attracted to the Wrong People (And How to Change It) Aug 03, 2026

Welcome to Episode 502 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Jane Garnett, LMFT who speaks to me about how our attraction patterns develop and whether we change who we are drawn to.

In this episode, Jane and I discuss why we can have so much attraction to people who are emotionally unavailable or unable to give us the secure relationship we want. We also look at how attachment styles, cultural conditioning, unmet emotional needs, and past relationship experience can influence what is exciting or desirable.

Jane Garnett is an Oxford-educated speaker, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), EMDR practitioner, and author of This Time with Feeling (May 12, 2026). With nearly 20 years in private practice, her work often centers on high-functioning individuals whose lives look successful on the outside but are shaped by patterns of emotional disconnection, anxiety, or underlying dissatisfaction. As a psychotherapist, Jane helps people rewrite the beliefs that subconsciously shape their lives, recognize the scripts they inherited, listen to the body’s signals, and make choices that create actual safety and connection— helping them shift not just their circumstances, but their relationship to themselves and their lives.

In this episode, you will hear:

Changing Our Attraction Patterns
Understanding Unhealthy Relationship Templates
When Chaos Feels Like Chemistry
Attraction To Emotionally Unavailable Partners
Cultural Messages About Desire
Exploring The Meaning Of Fantasy
Affairs As A Form Of Splitting
Learning To Choose Yourself
Regulating The Nervous System
Rewiring Relationships Through EMDR

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EP501 - Why You Lost Your Sex Drive During Perimenopause (And How to Get It Back) Jul 28, 2026

Welcome to Episode 501 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Heather Florio and Dr. Fenwa Milhouse who speak to me about sexual health, desire, and pleasure during perimenopause and menopause.

In this episode, we discuss how changes in levels of oestrogen and testosterone can affect the brain, genitals, arousal and sex drive. We examine why hormones alone are rarely the cause of low libido, and how relationship dynamics, painful sex, body image, stress, shame, and the natural shift from spontaneous to responsive desire can all impact someone’s sexual experience.

Heather Florio is the second-generation CEO of Desert Harvest, a women's-health company her family founded in 1993. She writes the monthly Dear Sexpert column for BELLA Magazine, sits on BELLA's Medical Advisory Board, and is a Forbes Leading Woman in Business (2022). Late-diagnosed autistic.

Dr. Fenwa Milhouse—widely known as “Your Favorite Urologist”- is a board-certified urologist and fellowship-trained sub-specialist in Urogynecology and Reconstructive Pelvic Surgery.

She is the current President of the Chicago Urological Society—making history as the first Black woman to hold this position.

In this episode, you will hear:

Hormonal Changes During Perimenopause
Understanding Multifactorial Low Desire
Barriers To Menopause Treatment
Spontaneous Versus Responsive Desire
Painful Sex And Vaginal Health
Systemic And Vaginal Hormone Therapy
Choosing Safer Personal Lubricants
Medications For Low Libido
GLP-1s And Sexual Desire
Rediscovering Pleasure After Menopause

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EP500 - What 500 Conversations About Sex Taught Me Jul 21, 2026

Welcome to Episode 500 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I am excited to be joined by some of my most memorable guests, who speak to me about the biggest lessons on pleasure, desire, intimacy, and connection from the past nine years.

In this special milestone episode, I revisit conversations that challenged common assumptions about what fulfilling sex is supposed to look like. We explore why foreplay often begins long before anyone enters the bedroom, how every human body experiences pleasure differently, and why there is no single correct way to orgasm. We also look at what research can teach us about sexual positions, pelvic floor contractions, stimulation, and the importance of adapting sexual experiences to our individual bodies.

I also reflect on the deeper lessons these 500 conversations have taught me about becoming a more attentive and connected partner. We discuss moving beyond sexual autopilot, questioning techniques learned through pornography, understanding our fantasies without shame, and keeping desire alive in long-term relationships. Thank you for making these 500 episodes possible and here’s to the next 500!

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EP499 - You Don't Have a Low Libido. Here's What's Really Happening Jul 14, 2026

Welcome to Episode 499 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Dr. Michelle Sands, who speaks to me about the connection between hormones, stress, the nervous system, and women’s sexual desire.

In this episode, Dr. Sands explains why a loss of desire is not always a libido problem. We discuss how changes in estrogen, progesterone, testosterone, circulation, sleep, and vaginal health can affect arousal and sexual comfort, particularly during perimenopause and menopause. We also talk about why pain during sex can naturally reduce desire and why women should not assume that they are broken or failing their partners.

Dr. Michelle Sands, ND, is a #1 bestselling author, licensed naturopathic physician, speaker, female hormone expert, and epigenetics coach. She is passionate about helping women harness the power of nature to elevate their genetic expression and live vibrant, fulfilling lives by supporting their physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual health.

In this episode, you will hear:

Libido As A Vital Sign
Hormonal Changes During Menopause
Understanding Painful Sex
Stress And Cortisol Dysregulation
Advocating For Hormone Care
Rethinking Hormone Replacement Therapy
Scheduling Intimacy Without Pressure
Supporting Arousal And Blood Flow
Restoring Nervous System Balance
Sexual Health And Longevity

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EP498 - What Women Really Mean When They Want a Man to "Take Charge" Jul 07, 2026

Welcome to Episode 498 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Amanda Dames who speaks to me about soft dom dynamics, masculinity, and communication in kink.

In this episode Amanda and I discuss what it really means to be a soft dom and how this style of dominance is different than the harsh, controlling stereotypes often associated with dom-sub dynamics. We talk about the basis for soft domination, on care, attunement, emotional safety and the desire to bring out the best in a partner, as opposed to control, punishment or ego.

As a Certified Somatica® Sex and Relationship Coach and Certified Sexologist, Amanda helps clients uncover a holistic and balanced relationship with intimacy. She understands that there is no one-size-fits-all approach, which is why she developed her own consulting method to support each person in discovering their unique path to fulfillment. Amanda’s work as The Kink Consultant is rooted in the path she took to embrace her own sexuality. Understanding the source of her kinks and core desires was the first step in her journey toward self-acceptance. She now uses this same approach to help individuals and couples embrace their kinky side with curiosity, confidence, and compassion.

In this episode, you will hear:

Understanding Soft Domination
Healthy Power Exchange
Care Versus Control
Masculinity And Safety
Toxic Manosphere Culture
Emotional Attunement
Foreplay Outside The Bedroom
Building Erotic Polarity
Communication And Safe Words
Aftercare And Feedback

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EP497 - Can You Be Spiritual and Sexual? Jun 30, 2026

Welcome to Episode 497 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Shoshanna Blanca who speaks to me about bridging sexuality and spirituality, healing sexual shame, and reclaiming the body as sacred.

In this episode, I speak with Shoshanna about her provocative and deeply personal project, Jesus Christ Pornstar, and the spiritual journey that inspired it. She shares how psychedelic experiences helped her reimagine the relationship between the body, pleasure, faith, and divinity. Together, we also discuss how sexuality and spirituality do not have to exist in opposition, especially for people who have grown up with shame-based messages about desire, pleasure, and the body.

Shoshanna Blanca is a feminist writer, sex educator, performance artist and model who deconstructs shame-based narratives around sexuality through body liberation, spirituality and visual storytelling. Through her work, she inspires audiences to reject limiting ideas of beauty, modesty and self-expression and reclaim confidence, authenticity and ownership of their bodies.

In this episode, you will hear:

Bridging Sexuality And Spirituality
Healing Sexual Shame
Reclaiming The Body As Sacred
Jesus Christ Pornstar
Psychedelics And Spiritual Awakening
Religion And Erotic Freedom
Women’s Desire And Empowerment
Sexual Repression And Pain
Reinterpreting Biblical Messages
Finding Sex-Positive Faith

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The Biggest Lies Men Are Taught About Sex Jun 23, 2026

Welcome to Episode 496 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by David Chambers, who speaks to me about male sexual performance anxiety and creating more connected sexual experiences.

In this episode, David and I talk about the pressure many men feel to perform during sex. We discuss how focusing on erections, penis size, orgasm and technique can disconnect men from their bodies and partners, turning intimacy into something they must successfully deliver.

David Chambers, known as The Authentic Man, is a UK-based dating, relationship and intimacy coach for men. With more than a decade of experience, he helps men build deeper relationships, develop healthier masculinity and create more fulfilling sexual lives. His approach centres on self-awareness, emotional intelligence, authenticity and self-leadership.

In this episode, you will hear:

The Pressure To Perform During Sex
Why Sex Is Not A Competition
Anxiety Around Penis Size
How Shame Affects Male Confidence
Overcoming The Fear Of Losing An Erection
Communicating Sexual Anxiety With A Partner
Moving Beyond Penetration
Building Greater Sexual Presence
Maintaining Intimacy As Men Age
Co-Creating More Connected Sexual Experiences

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EP495 - Peptides, Hormones & Libido: The New Frontier of Women’s Sexual Health Jun 16, 2026

Welcome to Episode 495 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Dr. Debra Durst who speaks to me about biohacking sexual health, hormone optimization, and libido after 40.

In this episode, Dr. Durst and I talk about how sexual health can shift during perimenopause, menopause, and midlife, but why that does not mean people have to simply accept a decline in desire, arousal, lubrication, orgasmic strength, or overall sexual satisfaction. We also discuss how hormone changes, low testosterone, stress, burnout, medication, childbirth, and aging tissue can all play a role in sexual concerns, and why many women are often left without enough clear answers from traditional healthcare settings.

Dr. Debra Durst, MD is a nationally recognized physician, entrepreneur, and thought leader in sexual wellness, hormone optimization, regenerative medicine, and longevity care. She is frequently featured across television, podcasts, YouTube, print, and digital media for her bold, science-based approach to modern healthcare. Dr. Durst spent her early career working as a clinical pharmacist. She then utilized her pharmacy foundation to further pursue her Medical degree at Thee Ohio State University.

In this episode, you will hear:

Biohacking Sexual Health After 40
Why Libido Can Change With Age
Hormones And Sexual Desire
Perimenopause, Menopause, And Intimacy
Advocating For Better Care
Female Sexual Health Beyond Reproduction
Regenerative Sexual Wellness Treatments
The O-Shot And Laser Therapy
Peptides And PT-141
Finding The Right Provider

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Limerence vs Love: Why We Obsess Over Emotionally Unavailable People Jun 09, 2026

Welcome to Episode 494 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Amanda McCracken, who speaks to me about breaking the cycle of infatuation, limerence, perfectionism, and longing for emotionally unavailable love.

In this episode, Amanda shares the deeply personal story behind her book When Longing Becomes Your Lover and how writing the book helped her understand the dating patterns that kept pulling her toward unavailable partners. We speak to the difference between real love and the emotional intensity that often pretends to be love, particularly when anxiety and fear and the chase become familiar aspects of attraction.

Amanda McCracken is an award-winning journalist passionate about experiences that highlight the intersection of wellness, travel, and relationships. Her work has appeared in the New York Times, Washington Post, Guardian, Vogue, National Geographic, NPR, Elle, Outside, Self, Runner's World, ESPN, and many others. She published her first essay about longing in 2013 which led to additional articles featuring anecdotes and deep research and interviews with the BBC and Katie Couric.

In this episode, you will hear:

Understanding Limerence And Infatuation
Chasing Emotionally Unavailable Partners
Mistaking Anxiety For Love
Purity Culture And Sexual Boundaries
Hookup Culture And Uncertainty
The Role Of Social Media
Listening To The Body
Building Trust Before Love
Choosing Consistency Over Intensity
Breaking The Cycle Of Longing

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EP493 - The Forgotten Sex Study That Changed Women’s Pleasure Forever Jun 02, 2026

Welcome to episode 493 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Rosa Campbell, who speaks to me about Shere Hite, The Hite Report, and the ongoing struggle to centre women’s sexual pleasure.

In this episode, Rosa introduces us to Shere Hite’s groundbreaking 1976 book, The Hite Report, which gathered women’s honest experiences of sex, orgasm, desire, and dissatisfaction at a time when their voices were rarely included in sexology research. We discuss how Hite challenged the assumption that penetration should define sex, revealing how many women felt trapped inside sexual scripts that prioritised male pleasure over their own.

Rosa Campbell is a writer and historian based in London. She works on the global history of feminism and is a Leverhulme Early Career Fellow at King's College London and holds a PhD from the University of Cambridge. Beyond academia, she writes often for a public audience. She is the author of the The Book that Taught the World to Orgasm and then Disappeared: Shere Hite and The Hite Report out now withMelville House in the US/UK and New South in Australia/NZ.

In this episode, you will hear:

Understanding The Hite Report
Shere Hite’s Groundbreaking Research
Listening To Women’s Sexual Experiences
Challenging Penetration-Centred Sex
The Politics Behind Sexual Pleasure
How Feminist Work Was Silenced
Why The Orgasm Gap Persists
Faking Orgasm And Emotional Safety
Learning Beyond Sexual Scripts
Creating More Fulfilling Sex Lives

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EP492 - How to Get Laid Using Your Intuition with Susanna Brisk May 25, 2026

Welcome to episode 492 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Susanna Brisk, who shares with me her insights on reconnecting to desire, the energetic body and sexual intuition.

In this episode, Susanna and I talk about how sexuality is much more than just technique. We discuss the energetic body, the unconscious agreements we bring to our relationships, and how shame, religious guilt, trauma, gender roles and cultural expectations can subtly impact desire.

Susanna Brisk is a Sexual Intuitive® who teaches people how to trust what they feel, even when it contradicts what they believe. Her work centers on restoring self-trust by translating the body’s intuitive signals into clear, actionable insight. Born in Estonia and raised in Australia after emigrating through the U.N. Refugee Program, Susanna has lived a wide-ranging life—from being scouted as a model and booking national TV commercials to working as a writer, stand-up comic, actor, and solo performer.

In this episode, you will hear:

Understanding The Energetic Body
Desire And Body Connection
Shame, Guilt, And Sexuality
Toxic Masculinity And Femininity
Power Dynamics In Relationships
Submission, Choice, And Consent
Abandoning Yourself Sexually
Wants, Needs, And Turn-Ons
Rethinking Intimacy And Pleasure
Self-Intimacy Touch Practice

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EP491 - What Makes a Good Lube? Expert Alexander Giebel Shares The Best Components For Intimacy Essentials May 19, 2026

Welcome to Episode 491 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Alexander Giebel, who speaks to me about the history of lubricants, how to choose the right lube, and why quality is important for sexual health.

In this episode, Alexander shares how his interest in sexual health started during the HIV crisis of the 1990s, when condoms became a cornerstone of safer sex education. Working on those, he became fascinated with the silicone lubricant used on condoms, and eventually helped bring silicone-based personal lubricant to the broader market.

Alexander Giebel is the founder and CEO of pjur group, one of the world’s leading manufacturers of premium personal lubricants. As the inventor of the first silicone-based lubricant, he established a completely new category in sexual wellness when he founded pjur in 1995. Today, pjur products are available in over 70 countries across five continents, with the company remaining proudly founder-owned.

In this episode, you will hear:

The History Of Lubricants
Silicone-Based Lubricants
Lubricants And The HIV Crisis
Medical-Grade Product Standards
Reading Lubricant Labels
Water-Based Vs Silicone Lubes
Avoiding Irritation And Discomfort
Choosing Lube For Anal Play
Lubricant And Toy Compatibility
Genital Skincare And Marketing Claims

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EP490 - From Pain to Pleasure: Transformative Steps for Sexual Wellness with Dr. Jordan Barber May 12, 2026

Welcome to Episode 490 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I am excited to be joined by Dr. Jordan Barber, who speaks to me about pain during sex.

In this episode, Dr. Barber and I discuss why so many people are told that “everything looks normal” when they are experiencing very real pain during sex. He explains how standard medical testing often misses muscle and nerve function, and why painful sex is rarely caused by one single factor.

Dr. Jordan Barber is a Doctor of Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine (DAOM) specializing in integrative pain care with a focus on pelvic floor dysfunction, chronic pelvic pain, and complex musculoskeletal conditions. His clinical work centers on advanced dry needling and neuromodulation-based acupuncture, targeting both tissue and nervous system drivers of pain. With over two decades of experience, he works at the intersection of traditional Chinese medicine and modern pain science to help patients restore function and break persistent pain patterns.

In this episode, you will hear:

Understanding Painful Sex
Muscle Pain Versus Nerve Pain
Why Tests Can Look Normal
Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy
Trauma And Pelvic Pain
Dry Needling Explained
Vagus Nerve Stimulation
Hormones And Lubrication
Building The Right Care Team

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EP489 - Frustration and Disappointment: How to Revive a Sexless Marriage with Elana Auerbach May 05, 2026

Welcome to Episode 489 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Elana Auerbach, who speaks to me about navigating sexless marriages and reviving physical intimacy.

It is incredibly common for long-term relationships to experience a decline in physical intimacy over time. Often, couples fall into a routine where life gets busy, and cultivating a sexual spark drops to the bottom of the priority list. During our conversation, we explore why this happens and how unspoken frustrations and rejections can build up over time like invisible panes of glass between partners.

Elana Auerbach is a lover, mother, mentor, activator, and priestess. She spent her childhood and young adulthood on what she calls 'the conveyor belt of life,' being the good girl and doing what others expected of her. This looked like graduating Phi Beta Kappa from UCLA, working on Wall Street for a Japanese investment bank, and marrying someone with whom she felt no chemistry.

It all fell apart in 2001 when Elana realized she’d been living a lie and found the courage to leave her marriage. She entered a world of sensuality and sex in a San Francisco pleasure-centered community. This is where she met Bill, who would become her loverman for life.

In this episode, you will hear:

Defining Sexless Relationships
The Myth of Spontaneous Desire
Understanding Responsive Desire
Navigating Discrepancies in Libido
The Impact of Unspoken Rejection
Introducing the Sure Thing Practice
Exploring Sensuality Without Pressure
Honoring Boundaries and Communicating Nos
Overcoming the Burden of Sexual Shame
Taking Accountability for Intimacy Goals

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EP488 - The Sensitivity Solution: Tackling Delayed Ejaculation Apr 28, 2026

Welcome to Episode 488 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Dr. Arthur Burnett who speaks to me about delayed ejaculation and loss of penile sensitivity.

In this episode Dr. Burnett and I discuss a topic that has been highly requested by many of our listeners and clients. We look at the complicated factors behind delayed ejaculation and the annoying loss of sensitivity some men experience. Dr. Burnett shares his urologic expertise on the role of physical health conditions such as diabetes or sensory neuropathies as well as the much-debated role of testosterone levels.

Arthur L. “Bud” Burnett II, M.D., MBA, FACS, is a trail-blazing and globally recognized urologist, educator, and researcher at Johns Hopkins University, where he has worked for more than 40 years. He serves as the Patrick C. Walsh Professor of Urology, Director of the Male Consultation Clinic.

As a barrier-breaking leader, he is recognized as the first Black person to have achieved milestones in the urology profession as professor of urology at Johns Hopkins University, President of the Sexual Medicine Society of North America (SMSNA), and Board Member of the American Urological Association.

In this episode, you will hear:

Multilayered Causes of Delayed Ejaculation
Impact of Diabetes and Neuropathy on Sexual Health
The Role of Testosterone in Ejaculatory Function
Potential Side Effects of Weight Management Drugs
Retraining Sensitivity Altered by Masturbation Habits
How Alpha Blockers and Antidepressants Affect Climax
The Connection Between OCD and Ejaculatory Control
Debunking Myths About Attraction and Performance
Constructive Ways Partners Can Offer Meaningful Support
Safe Practices for Using Constrictive Devices and Toys

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EP487 - When Desire Fades: Exploring the Hidden Reasons Apr 21, 2026

Welcome to episode 487 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I am excited to be joined by Courtney Fae Long, who speaks to me about understanding and resolving lost desire in long-term relationships.

In this episode, we talk about a common problem that many couples in long-term relationships have: the natural change and sometimes loss of sexual desire. When a partner's interest seems to fade, it's easy for our minds to jump to the worst possible conclusions. But in reality, it's often because of mismatched expectations, not a lack of attraction. Courtney and I talk about the myth of rushing through physical intimacy and why treating sex like a race often makes people feel disconnected.

Courtney Fae Long, MSW, LC, CHt, is the creator of Sex Life Makeover and TEDx speaker whose work has been featured in NBC, Forbes, MSN, and Psychology Today. She specializes in highly sexual women who feel frustrated and unfulfilled. She holds a Master’s Degree in Social Work (MSW) and certificates in Sexuality Education and Sex Therapy from the University of Michigan and has been teaching for 25+ years. Courtney brings a lighthearted, joyful approach to sex.

In this episode, you will hear:

● The Myth of Sex in Football Style

● Physiological Requirements for Extended Warm-ups

● Going from Hustle Culture to Presence

● The Idea of Foreplay All Day

● Changing the Way We Do Date Night

● How Mothering Changes Kill Sexual Desire

● The Risks of Pretending to Enjoy and Have Orgasms

● Talking About Changing Sexual Preferences

● Growing the Parasympathetic Nervous System

● The Twenty-Minute Cuddle and Connect Exercise

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EP486 - Beyond Impulse: Understanding Out-of-Control Sexual Behaviors Apr 14, 2026

Welcome to Episode 486 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Juliane Maxwald who speaks to me about understanding our sexual symptoms as deeper unconscious communications.

In this episode, we talk about how sexual problems are rarely just about sex. In this day and age, people are always looking for a quick fix or a medical solution to their personal problems. Julianne beautifully explains that symptoms like low desire or trouble getting an erection are often our bodies telling us about deeper emotional needs, unresolved trauma, or hidden worries.

Juliane Maxwald, MA, LP, CST, is a licensed psychoanalyst, couples therapist and AASECT-certified sex therapist based in New York City. She has over fifteen years of experience working with individuals and couples across a wide range of concerns, including sexuality and intimacy, trauma, addiction and compulsive behaviors, mood and anxiety disorders, and relational and family-of-origin dynamics.

Her work is grounded in contemporary psychoanalysis and informed by trauma theory, somatic awareness, and relational, sex-positive frameworks. Juliane specializes in helping people move beyond symptom-focused treatment—whether the symptom shows up as sexual difficulty, burnout, overwork, emotional numbing, or relational conflict—and toward a deeper understanding of the unconscious patterns shaping their lives.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Reconceptualizing Sexual Dysfunction as Emotional Communication

· The Risk of Excessive Medicalization of Personal Issues

· Getting to Know the Unconscious Messages Behind Low Desire

· Anxiety about performance and the need for approval

· Using Relaxation Techniques Such as Beach Showers

· How Repetition Compulsion Relates to Past Trauma

· Examining the Underlying Factors of Compulsive Sexual Behaviors

· Unpacking the Hidden Themes in Pornography Usage

· Sexual Behavior That Is Out of Control as a Way to Control Emotions

· Getting over sexual shame with curiosity and kindness

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EP485 - How to Give an Amazing Blowjob Apr 07, 2026

Welcome to Episode 485 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Sienna Sinclaire, who speaks to me about the art of oral sex and navigating the mental blocks that often surround it.

In this episode, we talk about real ways to improve your skills and boost your confidence. The goal is to treat sexual encounters like a playground for exploration. You can do this by using your hands as a tool and trying out different temperatures, like ice and warm water. We also talk about common worries about smell and body image, stressing the importance of being able to read and write about health issues and accepting yourself instead of feeling ashamed.

Sienna Sinclaire is an award-winning author, creative director, certified sex coach, and lifestyle entrepreneur redefining modern sensuality through storytelling, design, and immersive brand experiences.

As the visionary behind Sienna Sinclaire Studios, Naughty Girl Shop, and Naughty Girl Motel, she has built a world where fashion, travel, artistry, and empowerment collide. Her work celebrates women who want to live boldly, merging glamour, self-love, and sensual confidence into an unapologetic lifestyle. Through her signature blend of luxury branding, cinematic storytelling, and experiential design, Sienna invites audiences into a universe that blurs fantasy and reality, inspiring others to create a life that turns them on.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Unlearning Outdated Sexual Scripts

· Navigating Performance Anxiety Blocks

· Importance Of Active Feedback

· Utilising Hands For Enhanced Pleasure

· Addressing Body Image Insecurity

· Facts About Natural Scent

· Experimenting With Temperature Sensations

· Limitations Of Pornographic Education

· Exploring Diverse Genital Anatomy

· Integrating Pleasure Enhancement Tools

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EP484 - Understanding Bisexuality: When Your Wife Loves Women Too Mar 31, 2026

Welcome to Episode 484 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Genevieve Lejeune, who speaks to me about the evolution of sexual identity and the importance of creating safe spaces for exploration.

In this episode, we discuss the emotional complexities that arise when a partner begins to question or redefine their sexual orientation. This journey can often feel destabilizing for both individuals in a relationship, triggering fears of inadequacy or the worry that the relationship might be coming to an end. Genevieve and I discuss how to navigate these transitions by prioritizing emotional safety and curiosity over panic and control.

Genevieve Lejeune is the founder of Skirt Club, a private members club for bi-curious & bisexual women. With more than 25,000 members globally, women are more interested in each other than ever. She was the first to curate luxurious global events where women can put their own desires first, and gain confidence from the bedroom to the boardroom. A leading figure in the movement for women’s sexual empowerment, Genevieve has been interviewed for high-profile publications such as Marie Claire, Elle Magazine, Cosmo, Bloomberg, Rolling Stone and the Sunday Times.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding Sexual Identity Evolution

· Managing Relationship Fears And Insecurity

· The Origin Of Skirt Club

· Benefits Of Women Only Spaces

· Avoiding Performative Sexual Pressure

· Communication Strategies For Couples

· The Role Of Emotional Safety

· Exploring Physical Desire And Affection

· Navigating Monogamy And Fluidity

· Resources For Bisexual Exploration

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EP483 – Purity Culture to Polyamory: How She Built a Mono-Poly Relationship Mar 24, 2026

Welcome to Episode 483 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to have Courtney Boyer on the show. In this episode, Courtney talks to me about how she transitioned from living in a strict purity culture to living in a polyamorous lifestyle.

Courtney discusses her childhood in a strict religious setting where her worth and safety were closely linked to her ability to control her sexual urges. We talk about the "myth of the perfect Christian wife" and how many women in these communities feel pressured to keep up the act of sacrifice.

Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S., is a therapist-turned-relationship coach, writer, and speaker whose work centers on love, desire, and authenticity. She has been featured in The New York Post, Cosmopolitan, The Huffington Post, and BBC Radio Live. Drawing on her background in mental health and sex therapy, she brings a unique blend of professional expertise and lived experience to conversations around relationships and identity. When she isn’t writing or coaching, Courtney can be found chasing joy—traveling, reading, or savoring delicious coffee and deep conversation. She is passionate about helping women break free from shame, reclaim their bodies and voices, and create relationships rooted in honesty and autonomy.

In this episode, you will hear:

· How Purity Culture Affects How You Feel About Yourself

· Disputing The Myth Of The Ideal Christian Wife

· Going From Being Monogamous To Being Polyamorous

· How To Handle The Dynamics Of A Mono-poly Relationship

· Setting Limits In Parallel Polyamory

· The Significance Of Representation In Non-monogamy

· Reclaiming Joy Through Bodily Embodiment

· Building Self-trust After Being Controlled By Religion

· Why Women Should Date Men Who Are Older Than Them

· Finding Your Own Reason To Open Up

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EP482 - Your Sexual Nervous System and Stages of Foreplay Mar 17, 2026

Welcome to Episode 482 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Jessica Idoine who speaks to me about the role of the nervous system in erotic connection and how couples can move from the stress of daily life into a state that supports intimacy and foreplay.

Jessica and I talk about why a lot of people find it difficult to shift from the hectic nature of daily obligations to erotic connection. We examine how the nervous system is crucial to sexual responsiveness and why arousal and pleasure depend on a transition from a fight-or-flight response to a more relaxed, present-moment state.

Jessica is a licensed and certified relationship and sex therapist, retreat facilitator, and founder of Expansive Connections Retreats. She helps couples and individuals cultivate deeper intimacy, emotional safety, and honest communication through a trauma-informed, somatic, and evidence-based approach. With specialized experience supporting LGBTQIA+ clients, neurodivergent couples, and non-traditional relationships, Jessica is known for reframing relationship myths, normalizing complex dynamics, and offering practical, accessible tools for navigating intimacy, conflict, and long-term connection.

In this episode, you will hear:

· The Nervous System’s Role In Sexual Arousal

· Why Stress Blocks Erotic Connection

· Moving From Fight Or Flight To Rest And Digest

· Practical Co-Regulation Rituals For Couples

· The Power Of Non-Demand Touch And Connection

· Navigating Desire Mismatch In Relationships

· How To Communicate A Loving “No” To Sex

· Recognizing Signs Of Nervous System Shutdown

· Using Rituals To Transition Into Intimacy

· Small Shifts That Help Couples Feel Safer And More Connected

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EP481 - Kink Curious: Play Without Shame Mar 10, 2026

Welcome to Episode 481 of the Sexology Podcast! I'm thrilled to have Gigi Engle join me today as she talks about kink, how it's frequently misinterpreted, and how people can explore their desires with open communication, curiosity, and safety.

Gigi and I discuss what kink actually entails and why it is much more expansive than the preconceived notions that many people have about it. She describes how the term "kink" serves as a catch-all for a variety of relational and sensory experiences, ranging from more symbolic forms of erotic expression to power dynamics and sensation play.

Gigi Engle is a COSRT-registered, MNCIP, ACS, CSE, CSC, GSRD-accredited, award-winning author, certified sex & relationships psychotherapist, and sex educator. She works clinically as an associate clinician at The Therapy Yard, where she specializes in supporting GSRD (Gender, Sexuality, and Relationship Diverse) clients, including members of the LGBTQIA+ community, kinky folx, and people in polyamorous and open relationships.

Gigi is the author of two books: Kink Curious and All The F*cking Mistakes. Kink Curious is available for pre-order and comes out January 21st.

In this episode, you will hear:

· The True Meaning of Kink

· Distinctions Between Fetish and Kink

· Reasons Behind Many People's Unrealized Kinkiness

· The Evolution of Kinks

· Psychology of Symbolic and Sensory Play

· Kink Exploration's Emotional Safety

· The Significance of Safe Words and Consent

· Comprehending the Concept of an Enthusiastic Maybe

· Managing Shame Regarding Sexual Desires

· How Couples Can Respectfully Discuss Kinks

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EP480 - The Impact of GLP-1’s and ED: Helpful or Hurtful Mar 03, 2026

Welcome to Episode 480 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Dr. Taylor P. Kohn who speaks to me about the impact of GLP-1 receptor agonists on sexual health and erectile function.

In this episode, we discuss the growing curiosity around GLP-1 medications and whether they influence erectile dysfunction, libido, and overall sexual performance. Dr. Kohn shares insights from his large claims database study examining young men without diabetes who initiated GLP-1 treatment. We also talk about reassuring findings, including the low overall rate of new erectile dysfunction diagnoses, while also unpacking the difference between correlation and causation.

Dr. Taylor P. Kohn, MD, M.Phil. is an Assistant Professor in the Scott Department of Urology at Baylor College of Medicine, specializing in Male Infertility and Sexual Dysfunction.

Dr. Kohn began his academic career at Baylor University where he developed a love for biomedical research. In 2013, he was awarded a prestigious Fulbright Scholarship, enabling him to pursue a Master of Philosophy (M.Phil.) in Instrumentation at the University of Manchester in the United Kingdom, studying protein distribution in Alzheimer’s disease using imaging mass spectrometers.

In this episode, you will hear:

· GLP-1 Medications And Erectile Dysfunction Risk

· Libido Changes And Reward System Questions

· Microvascular Health And Cardiovascular Links

· Weight Loss, Muscle Mass, And Hormone Regulation

· Testosterone Optimization Through Lifestyle

· Psychological Contributors To Erectile Challenges

· Treatment Ladder For Erectile Dysfunction

· Shockwave Therapy And Regenerative Options

· Penile Injections And Prosthesis Outcomes

· Stress Reduction And Sexual Confidence Building

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EP479 - Contempt and Distance: The Silent Bedroom Killer Feb 24, 2026

Welcome to Episode 479 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Zach Brittle who speaks to me about negative sentiment override and how relationship dynamics shape our erotic connection.

In this episode, Zach and I discuss how the emotional tone of a relationship deeply influences intimacy inside and outside the bedroom. We look at the concept of Negative Sentiment Override, a term from John Gottman’s research, and discuss how couples can find themselves stuck in patterns where even neutral moments feel charged with criticism or defensiveness.

Zach has been teaching, coaching, mentoring and counseling couples for nearly 20 years. He is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in Washington and a Certified Gottman Therapist (CGT) and Relational Life Therapist. He is the host of Marriage Therapy Radio and the author of the best selling relationship guide The Relationship Alphabet and the Marriage Therapy Journal. His writings and insights have also been featured in Vanity Fair, Men’s Health, Real Simple, The New York Times and the Washington Post. Zach has been happily married to his wife Rebecca for 25 of 28 years. They live in Seattle with their two adulting daughters.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding Negative Sentiment Override

· Positive Versus Negative Emotional Filters

· The Pasta Example And Neutral Events

· Emotional Safety And Sexual Vulnerability

· Gender Socialization And Desire Patterns

· Slowing Down Between Impulse And Response

· Taking Responsibility In Relationship Conflict

· Contempt And The Illusion Of Superiority

· Redefining What Sex Is For

· Scheduling Erotic Play And Expanding Intimacy

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EP478 - Your Sex Life: Before & After Children Feb 17, 2026

Welcome to Episode 478 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by EJ and Tarah Kerwinwho speak to me about sex and parenting, how becoming parents reshaped their intimacy, desire, and how they maintain their emotional connection to each other.

In this episode, EJ and Tarah speak to me about what it was like to go from a playful, spontaneous sex life to feeling completely overwhelmed after the birth of their twins; navigating sleep deprivation, and the resurfacing of past trauma. They also talk openly about the grief that can accompany shifts in identity, libido, and partnership, and how isolating that transition can feel when couples are not talking about it.

EJ and Tarah Kerwin are the founders of Relationship Renovation and hosts of the Relationship Renovation Podcast, where they share raw honesty, humor, and decades of combined experience as relationship coaches to help couples deepen intimacy, build emotional safety, and navigate the complexities of long-term partnership.

Known for their vulnerability and willingness to share their own relationship challenges, EJ and Tarah offer practical tools, research-backed insights, and real-life stories that resonate with couples around the world.

In this episode, you will hear:

· The Impact Of Parenting On Sexual Desire

· Navigating Postpartum And Identity Shifts

· Grief Around Changing Intimacy

· Higher And Lower Desire Dynamics

· Emotional Safety In Long Term Relationships

· Pressure Windows And Sexual Expectations

· Rebuilding Intimacy Through Communication

· Processing Trauma Within Partnership

· Non Sexual Affection And Erotic Connection

· Creating Systems To Prioritize Your Relationship

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EP477 - How to Have Awkward Conversations About Sex Feb 10, 2026

Welcome to episode 477 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Laurie Gerber, who speaks to me about how to communicate about sex, sexual preferences, and talking about difficult topics like STIs with more confidence and clarity.

In this episode, Laurie and I discuss why silence is one of the biggest obstacles to fulfilling sexual and romantic relationships. Laurie shares powerful insights from her work with clients, especially around why sex is a key differentiator between friendship and romantic partnership, and why ongoing conversations matter more than crisis-driven ones.

Laurie Gerber is the creator of Master the Art of Love, an online digital course for women over 50 who are ready to date like they mean it. She’s the host of the podcast “Love at Any Age,” through which she coaches the audience, based on the wholehearted belief that everyone deserves healthy, lasting love, and it’s never too late.

For over 20 years, first as President of the Life Coaching division at Handel Group® and then as founder of Laurie Gerber Coaching Inc. she has been life and love coaching thousands of individuals and couples. Laurie is currently licensing The Handel Method® and uses it in her online and one-on-one coaching to help people achieve their dreams, with a focus on love.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Why Silence Is The Biggest Mistake

· Sex As A Learnable Skill

· Making Sex An Ongoing Conversation

· Choosing The Right Time And Setting

· Asking Permission To Talk About Sex

· Practical Hacks To Start Conversations

· Navigating STI Disclosure With Confidence

· Setting Sexual Boundaries Early

· Desire Mismatches And Rejection

· Rituals, Scheduling, And Prioritizing Sex

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EP476 - Destination Sexy: Your Passport to Pleasure Feb 03, 2026

Welcome to Episode 476 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Ally Iseman, who speaks to me about desire discrepancy, long-term intimacy, and how travel can become a powerful doorway back to erotic connection.

In this episode, Ally and I discuss one of the most common struggles couples bring into therapy: loving their partner while feeling disconnected from sex and intimacy. We talk about why desire naturally shifts over time, how novelty + security can feel like they are pulling in opposite directions, and why sexless periods are often symptoms rather than the core issue.

Ally Iseman is a non-monogamy educator, erotic lifestyle consultant, and ICF-certified relationship coach who has spent over a decade helping individuals, couples, and moresomes create authentic, fulfilling relationships on their own terms. As the founder of Passport 2 Pleasure, an inclusive relationship education platform, Ally champions open communication and conscious connection within sex-positive and non-traditional relationship dynamics.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding Desire Discrepancy

· Why Novelty Fuels Erotic Energy

· Sexless Relationships As A Symptom

· Reframing Masturbation And Shame

· Travel As Foreplay For Connection

· Escape Versus Exploration In Trips

· Sensuality Beyond Sexual Acts

· Creating Mystery Through Planning

· Managing Expectations And Pressure

· Curiosity As A Relationship Skill

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EP475 - How to Get the Sex Life You Crave Jan 27, 2026

Welcome to Episode 475 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I am excited to be joined by Caitlin V, who speaks to me about erectile unpredictability, performance anxiety, and supporting men’s sexuality through a holistic, shame-free lens.

A quick note for my single listeners in California, if you're craving intentional, psychologically grounded ways to meet people. We have a beautiful offering coming up through LALOVELAB.com; a company I co-created with my colleague Dr. Richard Espinoza. Our next matchmaking event is Saturday February 7th at 4:00pmhosted at the Craft Contemporary Museum in LA. It's thoughtfully curated experience designed by us to help you connect with intention, not apps.

In this episode, Caitlyn and I discuss how many men are struggling with sexual performance earlier in life and why this is not a personal failure or a flaw. We also talk about how cultural expectations, lack of accurate sex education, and constant exposure to unrealistic sexual imagery can shape anxiety around erections, desire, and confidence.

Caitlin V is one of today’s leading voices in modern sexuality and the host of the HBO Max series Good Sex. A researcher and coach with a background in public health, she has empowered millions to transform their sex lives through her coaching, courses, and viral online content. Her evidence-based, shame-free approach bridges clinical research with real-world intimacy, showing how better sex can make us better humans. Featured in O Magazine, GQ, Variety, and more, Caitlin champions a vision of sexuality that makes us not only better lovers--but more compassionate humans.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding Erectile Unpredictability

· Performance Anxiety And Its Root Causes

· Porn, Arousal, And Unrealistic Expectations

· Treating Men’s Sexuality Holistically

· Breaking Shame And Silence Around Sex

· Talking To A Partner With Confidence

· Rebuilding Erotic Connection As A Couple

· Reducing Pressure And Outcome Focus

· Sex Toys And Supportive Tools For Men

· Practical Exercises For Emotional Intimacy

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EP474 - How Dolphins Create a Path to Healing Jan 20, 2026

Welcome to Episode 474 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Amy Quinn and Malia Carvallo, who speak to me about healing sexuality, pleasure, and connection through embodiment, community, and altered states of consciousness.

A quick note for my single listeners in California, if you're craving intentional, psychologically grounded ways to meet people. We have a beautiful offering coming up through LALOVELAB.com; a company I co-created with my colleague Dr. Richard Espinoza. Our next matchmaking event is Saturday February 7th at 4:00pmhosted at the Craft Contemporary Museum in LA. It's thoughtfully curated experience designed by us to help you connect with intention, not apps.

In this episode, we explore how pleasure and erotic energy can be deeply healing when approached with intention, safety, and compassion. Amy and Malia share their personal journeys into healing work, including dolphin-assisted experiences, somatic practices, and psychedelic-informed therapy.

Amy Ruffolo Quinn, is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Certified Eating Disorder Specialist with a private practice in El Segundo, California. She is also the founder of Your Beautiful Beginning, LLC, where she leads Wild Dolphin Wellness Retreats that weave together somatic healing, nature, and the medicine of joy. Malia Carvalho is a somatic guide, trauma-informed tantra educator, and founder of The Dreamweaver Collective. Through a unique blend of Kundalini Fusion, somatic yoga, nervous-system regulation, sound healing, microdosing support, and integrative embodiment work, she helps women reconnect with their pleasure, creativity, and personal power.

In this episode, you will hear:

● Healing Sexuality Through Embodiment

● Releasing Shame Around Pleasure

● Dolphin-Assisted Healing Experiences

● Psychedelic-Informed Therapy And Integration

● The Role Of Breath In Pleasure

● Presence, Surrender, And Letting Go

● Relational Healing And Community Support

● Erotic Energy As A Healing Force

● Creating Safe Containers For Exploration

● Joy As A Pathway To Wholeness

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EP473 - Your How to Guide for Sex on Psychedelics Jan 13, 2026

Welcome to Episode 473 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Dr. Nicole Thompson, who speaks to me about psychedelic-informed sexuality, chemsex, and harm reduction in erotic spaces.

A quick note for my single listeners in California, if you're craving intentional, psychologically grounded ways to meet people. We have a beautiful offering coming up through LALOVELAB.com; a company I co-created with my colleague Dr. Richard Espinoza. Our next matchmaking event is Saturday February 7th at 4:00pm hosted at the Craft Contemporary Museum in LA. It's thoughtfully curated experience designed by us to help you connect with intention, not apps.

In this episode, we discuss how psychedelics intersect with sexuality, pleasure, and relationships, beginning with a reframe of what we even mean by “drugs” and altered states. We also talk about how substances such as MDMA, psilocybin, and ketamine can act as non-specific amplifiers, and why intention, set, and setting matter so deeply when people are exploring erotic connection in altered states.

Dr. Nicole Thompson is a queer sex and relationship psychotherapist providing psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy, researcher, and host of the top-5% global podcast Modern Anarchy. As the founder of The Pleasure Practice, she supports individuals in crafting expansive sex lives and intimate relationships grounded in desire, freedom, and authenticity. Her work weaves together psychology and embodiment, exploring how pleasure, psychedelics, and relational healing open pathways to liberation.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Psychedelics And Erotic States

· Chemsex And Harm Reduction

· Set, Setting, And Intention

· Consent In Altered States

· Managing Jealousy And Activation

· Grounding And Co-Regulation Tools

· Comparing MDMA, Psilocybin, And Ketamine

· Safety, Dosing, And Preparation

· Integration After Psychedelic Sex

· Sober Psychedelic Sex Practices

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EP472 - Goals to Set for Sexual Health in 2026 Featuring Top Sexperts Jan 06, 2026

Welcome to Episode 472 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Anya Laeta, August McLaughlin, Bel Di Lorenzo, Dr. Elliot Justin, Dr. Evan Goldstein, Dr. Maria Sophocles, Nicoletta Heidegger and Suzannah Weiss as part of this special episode on setting goals for sexual health in 2026.

As we move into the new year, I want to slow things down a bit and move away from rigid resolutions that are often rooted in pressure, shame, or performance. In this episode, I’m bringing together voices you already know and trust to help reframe sexual health goals as supportive practices rather than benchmarks to pass or fail.

Throughout this episode, we discuss your capacity for pleasure, enhancing communication, and letting go of narrow definitions of what sex is supposed to look like. We also look at nervous system safety, pelvic floor health, pleasure practices, sex technology, and intimacy in midlife. This episode aims to remind you that great sex isn’t about fixing yourself; it's about developing skills, remaining connected to your body, and allowing yourself the freedom to grow at your own pace.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Setting Shame Free Sexual Intentions

· Using Your Voice In Intimacy

· Expanding Pleasure Capacity

· Building Nervous System Safety

· Body Acceptance And Arousal

· Pelvic Floor Health And Pleasure

· Pleasure Over Performance

· Normalizing Change Across Life Stages

· Creating Sustainable Pleasure Practices

· Redefining What Counts As Sex

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EP471 - Intimacy and Desire: A Guide to Finding Connection Dec 30, 2025

Welcome to Episode 471 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Ita O’Brien, who speaks to me about intimacy coordination, embodied consent, and creating safety and authenticity in intimate storytelling.

In this episode, I sit down with Ita to discuss what an intimacy coordinator actually does and why this role has become so essential in film, television, and theatre. We talk about how intimacy coordination brings structure, clarity, and care to intimate scenes, not only to protect performers, but to serve the story, the characters, and the creative vision.

Ita O’Brien is an intimacy coordinator and movement director for film, television, and theater. For more than a decade, she has been developing “intimacy on set” guidelines: best practices for working on scenes with sexual content and nudity in film, TV, and theater. O’Brien pioneered the role of intimacy coordinator, which is used in production companies including HBO and Netflix. Her work has been featured in publications such as The Guardian, The New York Times, and NBC. She’s contributed to the intimate content praised in shows such as Normal People, Sex Education, and I May Destroy You.

In this episode, you will hear:

· What An Intimacy Coordinator Does

· Creating Safety On Set

· Consent As A Creative Foundation

· Embodiment And Somatic Awareness

· Choreographing Intimate Scenes

· Anatomy And Authentic Storytelling

· Power Dynamics And Character Choice

· Training And Professional Standards

· Emotional Safety In Long Term Relationships

· Bringing Intimacy Practices Into Daily Life

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EP470 - Pleasure and Sensuality: Cultivating Healing Dec 23, 2025

Welcome to Episode 470 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Margeaux Feldman, who speaks to me about trauma, chronic illness, intimacy, and pleasure, inspired by their book Touch Me. I’m Sick.

In this episode, we discuss the personal and academic journey that led them to write Touch Me. I’m Sick., which began as a PhD dissertation and evolved into a deeply human book about sickness, trauma, disability, and love. Margeaux shares how their own experience with chronic illness shifted their work away from purely academic analysis and toward something more accessible, relational, and rooted in lived experience.

Margeaux Feldman is a writer, a public educator, and an artist. They hold an MFA in Creative Writing from CalArts and a PhD in English Literature and Sexual Diversity Studies from the University of Toronto. Margeaux's first book Touch Me, I'm Sick: A Memoir in Essays was just published with Beacon Press. They also created the popular meme account @softcore_trauma on Instagram, where they share memes and writing that testifies to their experiences living with trauma and chronic illness.

In this episode, you will hear:

· The Origin Story Of Touch Me. I’m Sick.

· Chronic Illness And Trauma Connections

· Redefining Intimacy And Care

· Independence, Codependence, And Interdependence

· Wellness Culture And Performativity

· Trauma, Pleasure, And Ambivalence

· Dissociation As A Survival Strategy

· “Ugly Sex” And Sexual Healing

· Somatic Therapy And Embodiment

· Pleasure As A Political Act

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EP469 - The Cycle Experience: Improving Sexual Pleasure Dec 16, 2025

Welcome to Episode 469 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Laura Federico and Morgan Miller who speak to me about cycle tracking, hormones, and the mind body connection in sexuality and health.

In this episode, we discuss what inspired Laura and Morgan to write their book “The Cycle Book” and how their personal and professional experiences shaped their approach. We talk about the profound gaps in education around hormones, menstruating bodies, and sexual health, and how this lack of information often leaves people feeling confused, dismissed, or disconnected from their own bodies.

Laura Federico is a psychotherapist and AASECT-certified sex and relationship therapist in private practice, and Morgan Miller is a certified professional midwife, lactation consultant, activist, and birth center founder in private practice.

Developed by Laura & Morgan, The Cycle Book helps you find clarity, the right treatment, and real relief, so you can finally feel like yourself again. We’re in the midst of a hormonal health awakening. For too long, those navigating PCOS, perimenopause, endometriosis, PMDD, and other hormonal symptoms have been dismissed and left without real support. The Cycle Book’s effective and trusted approach helps decode your body’s patterns. Rooted in science and beautifully crafted, this 12-month undated workbook blends expert insight with clean, functional design.

In this episode, you will hear:

· What Cycle Tracking Really Means

· Hormones And The Mind Body Connection

· Personal Journeys Into Cycle Awareness

· Endometriosis And Medical Dismissal

· Tracking Desire And Sexual Arousal

· Understanding Vaginal Dryness And Lubrication

· Perimenopause And Hormonal Shifts

· Tracking What Feels Good Not Just Pain

· Using Data To Advocate In Healthcare

· Why Analog Tracking Can Be Powerful

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EP468 - Guiding Intimacy Through Pain: A Sexual Journey Dec 09, 2025

Welcome to Episode 468 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Dr. Alyssa Yee, who speaks to me about the realities of vulvar and vaginal pain, the challenges of diagnosis, and how partners can offer meaningful support.

In this conversation, we discuss the wide range of painful symptoms many vulva owners experience, from burning and sharp stinging at the vestibule to deeper pelvic discomfort that can appear during or after sexual activity. Dr. Yee helps clarify how conditions such as vestibulodynia, hormonal disruptions, pelvic venous disorders, and endometriosis often go unrecognized or are dismissed in medical settings, leaving patients feeling isolated and unsure where to turn for help.

Dr. Alyssa Yee is a Sexual Medicine Physician and Reconstructive Urologist who completed her clinical fellowship at San Diego Sexual Medicine in 2021-2022 under the mentorship of Dr. Irwin Goldstein. In her fellowship, she was awarded the SMSNA Foundation Research grant to investigate the pathophysiology of neuroproliferative vestibulodynia–a painful sexual condition of the vulva. Drawing from her research, Dr. Yee innovated the first sub-epithelial complete vestibulectomy surgery, allowing for decreased blood loss and post-operative pain with excellent response.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding Vulvar And Vaginal Pain

· Why Pain During Sex Is Often Normalized

· Common Symptoms Of Vestibulodynia

· How Hormones Influence Genital Pain

· Inflammation And Nerve Related Causes

· Endometriosis Symptoms And Misdiagnosis

· Why Patients Feel Gaslighted In Medical Settings

· How Partners Can Offer Support And Validation

· Effective Treatment Options And Hormonal Therapies

· Resources For Finding Knowledgeable Providers

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EP467 - The Orgasm Gap: A Guide to Help Men Close It Dec 02, 2025

Welcome to Episode 467 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Suzannah Weiss who speaks to me about understanding and addressing the orgasm gap in long term relationships.

In this conversation, we look at why orgasm inequality persists even among couples who consider themselves progressive, communicative, and sexually informed. We discuss how cultural narratives, media scripts, and outdated beliefs continue to shape expectations around women’s pleasure, often leaving vulva owners feeling inadequate or unseen in intimate relationships.

Suzannah Weiss is a writer, sexologist, and psychotherapist in Los Angeles. She is the author of Eve's Blessing: Uncovering the Lost Pleasure Behind Female Pain and Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject. She runs a psychotherapy practice focused on sex and couples' therapy and neurodiversity. She is also a certified sex educator, sexual assault counselor, and birth doula.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding the Origins of the Orgasm Gap

· Cultural Versus Biological Explanations

· How Porn Shapes Early Sexual Scripts

· Prioritizing Clitoral Stimulation

· Working With Vibrators and Sexual Aids

· Techniques for Sharing Pleasure Preferences

· The Role of Fantasy in Partnered Sex

· Mindfulness and Embodiment Practices

· Reducing Performance Pressure for Both Partners

· Building Relaxation and Trust Before Sex

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EP466 – Polysecure: Attachment Theory in Non-Monogamy Nov 25, 2025

Welcome to Episode 466 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Jessica Fern who speaks to me about consensual non-monogamy, secure attachment, and the inner work required to build healthy open relationships.

In this conversation, Jessica shares her personal journey into non-monogamy and the ways her clinical work pushed her to explore the topic more deeply. We talk about emotional exclusivity, the origins of Polysecure, and how people can distinguish between personal triggers, relational dynamics, and the messages they have absorbed from society. Jessica offers thoughtful insights on insecurity, jealousy, and the importance of intentional repair when conflict arises.

Jessica Fern holds a Master’s degree in Conflict Resolution, is a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, a trained Internal Family Systems (IFS) practitioner, and an integrative therapist drawing on 25 years of experience in somatic, narrative, psychotherapeutic, and spiritual healing modalities. She is the internationally recognized author of Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Nonmonogamy, The Polysecure Workbook, and Polywise: A Deeper Dive Into Navigating Open Relationships.

In this episode, you will hear:

• Jessica’s Early Exploration Of Non Monogamy

• Unconscious Beginnings And Identity Formation

• How Clinical Work Sparked Conscious Alignment

• Emotional Exclusivity And Realistic Expectations

• Origins And Meaning Of The Term Polysecure

• Hearts Model For Secure Attachment

• Differentiating Me We Or Society

• Conflict Repair And Nervous System Regulation

• Assessing Readiness For Opening Relationships

• Misconceptions Around Jealousy And Compersion

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EP465 - Childhood Wounds: Why Your Bedroom Patterns Are a Mirror Nov 18, 2025

Welcome to Episode 465 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Jessica Baum, who speaks to me about how attachment styles shape our sexual connection and intimacy within long-term relationships.

In this episode, we explore how attachment theory helps us understand why so many couples struggle with maintaining desire over time. We discuss how patterns rooted in early childhood, such as anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment, influence not only our emotional connection but also our erotic lives. Jessica explains how couples often repeat familiar relational scripts, sometimes mistaking intensity or chaos for passion, and how real intimacy requires safety, awareness, and conscious effort.

Jessica Baum is a licensed psychotherapist whose journey began with a lifelong curiosity about the “Whys” of life, why we feel, connect, and experience the world the way we do. This passion led her to specialize in trauma, attachment theory, and interpersonal neurobiology. Jessica believes that connection to ourselves and others is at the heart of healing, and she uses a range of modalities to help individuals and couples return to wholeness. She is the founder of the Relationship Institute of Palm Beach, a private group practice, and she leads a global coaching company offering support to clients worldwide.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding Attachment and Sexuality

· The Link Between Love and Desire

· How Attachment Forms in Infancy

· Traits of Anxious and Avoidant Styles

· Recognizing Pockets of Disorganization

· How Childhood Shaped Adult Intimacy

· Repairing Attachment Through Awareness

· Creating Safety for Passionate Sex

· Somatic Tools for Healing

· Moving Toward Secure Attachment

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EP464 - Sexual Expression: Lessons in Life and Love Nov 11, 2025

Welcome to Episode 464 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Riana Milne, who speaks to me about emotional disconnection, communication breakdowns, and their impact on sexual desire in relationships.

In this episode, Riana and I explore how emotional safety and communication are at the heart of sexual connection. We discuss why unresolved conflicts and stress responses, like fight, flight, or freeze, can suppress desire, and how couples can learn to reconnect through conscious communication and emotional regulation.

Riana Milne MA is a Certified, Global Life and Love Trauma Recovery Coach, a Cert. Clinical Trauma & Addictions Professional, a Certified Mindfulness Coach, #1 Bestselling Author, the Host of her Podcast called Lessons in Life & Love'', an Educational Speaker, and Licensed Mental Health Counselor for over 21 years living in Palm Beach County, Florida. Riana specializes in helping those who have had past Childhood or Love Relationship Trauma to Heal, Transform & Thrive; leading them to Create the Life They Desire & to Have the Love They Deserve! She offers Coaching programs for both Straight & LGBTQ Singles & Couples globally for ages 16-76.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Emotional Safety As The Foundation Of Desire

· Why Communication Comes Before Sexuality

· How The Brain Reacts To Conflict And Stress

· Understanding Fight, Flight, And Freeze In Relationships

· The “Tea Break” Technique For Conflict Resolution

· Why Couples Must Approach Problems As A Team

· The Role Of Fun And Dating In Rekindling Intimacy

· Healing Childhood And Love Trauma Patterns

· Balancing Household Roles To Create Partnership

· How To Rebuild Connection After Disconnection

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EP463 - Virtual Vibes: Sexting and Consent Nov 04, 2025

Welcome to Episode 463 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by, Hily Dating App's sexologist and sexuality educator, Dr. Mindy DeSeta, who speaks to me about flirting, sexting, and the art of digital consent in modern dating.

In this conversation, we discuss how to move from casual conversations to more intimate ones, without it feeling awkward or forced. Dr. DeSeta shares how flirting and sexting are forms of vulnerable communication, not just sexual expression, and why pacing, consent, and emotional awareness are vital. We also touch upon the nuances of reading digital signals, how to avoid common mistakes like jumping ahead too soon, and what healthy, sexy communication looks like in both text and real life.

Dr. Mindy DeSeta has a Doctorate in Clinical Sexology and is a Board Certified Sex Therapist and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor. She has been in private practice since 2017 when she founded her concierge and bespoke mental health practice, Insight Counseling Center Miami. From 2025, Dr. DeSeta works with Hily Dating App as sexologist and sexuality educator consulting on product development, research and communication with the users.

In this episode, you will hear:

· The Art Of Transitioning From Flirting To Sexting

· How To Gauge Interest And Enthusiasm Digitally

· Why The Lost “Courting Process” Still Matters

· Recognizing Red Flags During Text Conversations

· Handling Awkward Gray Zones In Online Dating

· The Psychology Behind Unsolicited Explicit Photos

· Understanding Digital Consent And Its Importance

· Introducing Hily’s “Consent Guard” Feature

· How Asking For Consent Can Be Sexy And Empowering

· Tips To Create More Authentic And Respectful Connections

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EP462 - Your Brilliant Body: The Heart-Sexuality Split Oct 28, 2025

Welcome to Episode 462 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Ali Mezey, who speaks to me about ‘The Heart Sexuality Split’, a powerful framework she uses to help clients understand how love, desire, and trauma shape our most intimate connections.

In this conversation, we explore the concept of ‘The Heart Sexuality Split’, how many people find themselves loving but not desiring their partners. Ali explains her Personal Geometry model, which uses physical mapping to externalize inner dynamics, offering profound insight into where we may feel emotionally blocked or disconnected. She also shares her own story of growing up in a sexualized environment, the early disconnection between heart and body, and her journey toward reintegrating love, desire, and authenticity.

Ali Mezey is a Body Therapist, Family Constellation Work Facilitator, Sexologist and Media Maker with over 40 years of experience. Ali has worked in renowned rehab centers in Los Angeles for sex, drug, and alcohol addiction. She developed her groundbreaking body-based method Personal Geometry® to address the challenges of working with sexual trauma, compulsivity, dysfunctions and discontents. She works internationally with individuals, couples, in groups, speaking publicly and as a teacher of Personal Geometry® and hosts The Brilliant Body Podcast.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding The Heart–Sexuality Split

· How Early Experiences Shape Our Erotic Blueprint

· The Role Of Trauma And Cultural Conditioning

· Religion, Shame, And Disconnection From The Body

· Using Personal Geometry To Map Relationships

· How Emotional Incest Impacts Adult Intimacy

· Bridging Love, Lust, And Long-Term Relationships

· Integrating Spirituality With Sexuality

· A Guided Mapping Practice You Can Try At Home

· Finding Wholeness Through Embodied Awareness

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EP461 - How to Choose and Use Your Sex Toys Oct 21, 2025

Welcome to Episode 461 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Alicia Sinclair a renowned sex coach and founder of several leading sexual wellness brands, including B Vibe and Le Wand.

Alicia and I explore how sex toys can be a tool for enhancing both psychological and physical arousal, whether through role play, sensation play, or simply adding novelty to the bedroom. We also unpack the common fears and misconceptions couples have when introducing toys into their relationship, and how to approach these conversations with openness and curiosity rather than insecurity.

Alicia is a multi-award-winning Sex Tech CEO, founder, and renowned sex coach. She brings over two decades of expertise in designing innovative products, leading transformative training programs, and advocating for sex positivity.

Her mission is to champion sexual wellness as a vital part of a healthy lifestyle, empowering people to explore pleasure without shame. Prior to founding her three brands, Alicia was the VP of worldwide sales and business development at a luxury intimate wellness brand, where she created and developed a sex education boot-camp to help educate retailers, and worked with the Dept. of Justice to help the FBI develop communication channels between the government and the adult industry as part of the Child Protection & Obscenity Enforcement Act.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Importance Of Communication Before Introducing Sex Toys

· How Sex Toys Can Enhance Intimacy And Pleasure

· Overcoming Feelings Of Inadequacy Or Jealousy Around Toys

· Starting With Beginner-Friendly Products Like Bullet Vibrators

· Why Material Safety Matters In Sex Toy Selection

· Exploring Role Play And Fantasy Through Props

· Common Mistakes Couples Make When Introducing Toys

· Latest Innovations: AI And Suction Technology In Sex Tech

· The Role Of Sex Toys In Empowering Sexual Equality

· Alicia’s Journey And Mission To Make Pleasure Accessible

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EP460 - Cock Energy: Sex Rituals to Reconnect Oct 14, 2025

Welcome to Episode 460 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Lianna Walden, who speaks to me about how men and couples can deepen intimacy and connection through embodiment, sexual energy work, and practical worship rituals.

In this conversation, Lianna and I explore the often-overlooked challenges men face in today’s evolving sexual landscape. We discuss her concept of “lingham activation”, a tantric-inspired approach to connecting with sexual energy through breathwork, embodiment, and intentional control. Lianna explains how many men have become disconnected from their bodies due to technology, stress, and societal conditioning.

Lianna Walden works in the intimate and sexual realm - guiding individuals and couples through deep, embodied transformation in their relationships, sexuality, and sense of self. With over 20 years of experience in transformation, relationship healing, and embodied leadership, she brings a multidimensional approach to personal growth and empowerment.

Her work is far from conventional. Lianna works outside the box - supporting sexual exploration, theexpression of taboo desires, and radical self-acceptance. She helps clients open to new ways of experiencing and expressing who they truly are - emotionally, erotically, and energetically.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding The Concept Of Lingham Activation

· How Men Can Reconnect With Sexual Energy Through Breathwork

· Overcoming Disconnection Caused By Technology And Stress

· The Importance Of Embodiment In Deepening Intimacy

· Step-By-Step Ejaculation Control Practice For Men

· Using The “One To Ten” Scale To Build Awareness During Self-Pleasure

· Exploring The Million Dollar Point And Squeeze Technique

· The Power Of Practical Worship And Genital Adoration

· Creating Rituals And Shrines To Honor Sexual Connection

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EP459 - Sexual Confidence: Porn, Kink and Hypnotherapy Oct 07, 2025

Welcome to Episode 459 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Matthew Bennett, who speaks to me about life as a porn creator, the realities of OnlyFans, and how kink skills can translate into everyday life and even the workplace.

In this conversation, Matthew opens up about his unexpected journey into adult content creation, sharing both the challenges and rewards of working on platforms like OnlyFans and JustForFans. We talk about how fetish and kink content often push against mainstream limitations, the misconceptions around creator earnings, and the importance of understanding consent and boundaries when producing explicit material.

English Leather Master (often known as ELM), also known to friends and family as Matthew, is an ICF (International Coach Federation) PCC-accredited life and executive coach and a BSCH (British Society of Clinical Hypnosis) registered hypnotherapist. He also trains individuals in both coaching and hypnosis. Matthew works extensively with LGBTQ+ and kinky communities around the world, supporting people in creating more fulfilling lives. His passion lies in helping others unlock the skills they already possess to enhance their chances of success and happiness across all areas of life.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Matthew’s Journey Into Porn Creation

· The Rise And Limitations Of OnlyFans

· Why Fetish Content Pushes Against Mainstream Rules

· Myths About How Much Money Creators Make

· The Pros And Cons Of Porn Consumption

· How Kinks Like Balloons And Car Pedals Find Their Audience

· The Difference Between Studio Porn And Creator Porn

· Why Communication Is Key To Being A Good Lover

· Using BDSM Consent Models In The Workplace

· Creating A Life Without Shame Around Sexuality

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EP458 - Dating and Sex: A Divorce Attorney’s Guide Sep 30, 2025

Welcome to Episode 458 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Sarah Intelligator, a divorce attorney and author who brings such a fascinating perspective on dating, relationships, and why so many marriages end the way they do.

Sarah shares how two decades in family law, and her own journey through divorce and remarriage, have shaped her perspective on why relationships break down. She has seen the same patterns repeat themselves in countless cases, and she is passionate about helping people understand those pitfalls before it’s too late.

Sarah Intelligator is a divorce attorney in Los Angeles, California. She earned a Juris Doctorate from Southwestern Law School. She graduated from UCLA, cum laude, with a Bachelor of Arts in English. Practicing Family Law since 2008, Sarah has also been a yoga instructor since 2000. She organically bridged her two worlds, coining the term: “Holistic Divorce and Family Law.” In helping others through their divorces, Sarah realised that she could help them avoid divorce altogether.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Common Patterns Behind Divorce

· The Importance Of Sexual Compatibility

· Resentment As A Hidden Relationship Killer

· How Children Shift Intimacy In Marriage

· Emotional Needs And The Roots Of Affairs

· Changing Old Dating Patterns

· Core Values Versus Shifting Needs

· The Trap Of Fairy Tale Expectations

· How Communication Protects Connection

· Choosing Partners From A Place Of Worth

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EP457 - Is It Cheating? The Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell Agreement Sep 23, 2025

Welcome to Episode 457 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Kevin Patterson who speaks to me about polyamory, representation, and emotional literacy.

In this conversation, Kevin shares his journey into consensual non-monogamy and the inspiration behind Poly Role Models, a project designed to broaden representation of polyamory beyond narrow stereotypes.

Kevin Patterson is an active member of the Philadelphia polyamory community. He's been practicing ethical nonmonogamy since August of 2002 after opening up a relationship that eventually became his marriage. In April of 2015, Kevin was inspired to start Poly Role Models, an interview series for people describing their experiences with polyamory. Poly Role Models was part of a drive and a desire to change the way our lives and communities are viewed. To continue that discussion of polyamorous representation, Kevin has extended the blog's work into the writing of the book, Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Origins Of Poly Role Models

· Breaking Stereotypes In Polyamory

· Representation Beyond White Narratives

· Cheating Versus Consensual Non-Monogamy

· The Pitfalls Of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell

· Race And Identity In Non-Monogamy

· Navigating Jealousy With Emotional Literacy

· Building Healthier Conversations In Relationships

· Creating Safer And More Inclusive Spaces

· Kevin’s Work In Fiction And Superhero Storytelling

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EP456 - Expert Insights: What Women Wish Men Knew About Sex Sep 16, 2025

Welcome to Episode 456 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Allana Pratt, Annette Benedetti, Caitlin V, Dr. Margaret Cochran, Rob Kancler, Susan Bratton, and Sylvia Solit who help me answer one powerful question: What’s one thing women wish men knew about sex, but almost never say out loud?

Across this conversation, our guests share profound insights into how women truly experience desire and intimacy. You’ll hear why slowing down, building safety, and creating emotional connection are essential foundations for passion.

We discuss the hidden fantasies and longings that many women never voice, the importance of curiosity and play, and how sex is far more than just physical technique, it’s a whole-body, mind, and spirit experience. Our guests also emphasize how communication itself can be deeply erotic, and that balancing sensitivity with power opens the door to deeper intimacy.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Allana Pratt On Safety And Slow Build-Up

· Annette Benedetti On Hidden Desires

· Caitlin V On Whole-Body Sex

· Dr. Margaret Cochran On Why Talk Is Sexy

· Rob Kancler On Sensitivity And Power

· Susan Bratton On Seduction And Play

· Sylvia Solit On Sex As A Continuum

· Women’s Bodies And Arousal Timing

· Overcoming Shame And Cultural Scripts

· Integrating Emotional And Spiritual Connection

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EP455 – Soloamory: The Ultimate Self-Love Relationship Sep 09, 2025

Welcome to Episode 455 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Dr. Elisabeth Sheff who speaks to me about consensual non-monogamy, polyamory, and soloamory.

In this episode, Dr. Eli shares her personal journey navigating relationships with both monogamous and polyamorous partners, and how those experiences shaped her professional research. We talk in-depth about "soloamory" which refers to prioritizing one's relationship with themselves, often in the form of self-love. It is a form of autosexuality/autoromance and a conscious choice to live a single life, valuing autonomy and personal growth over traditional relationship milestones like marriage or cohabitation.

Dr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff is a researcher, expert witness, coach, speaker, and educational consultant. With a PhD in Sociology and certification as a Sexuality Educator from AASECT, Dr. Eli specializes in gender and sexual minority families, consensual non-monogamy, and kink/BDSM. Sheff is the foremost academic expert on polyamorous families with children, and her 25+ year Polyamorous Family Study is the only longitudinal study of poly families with children to date.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Defining Consensual Non-Monogamy

· Understanding Polyamory And Soloamory

· How Early Relationships Shape Our Beliefs

· Mono-Poly Relationship Dynamics

· Distinguishing Between Jealousy And Insecurity

· Why Some People Are Wired For Multiplicity

· The Role Of Autonomy In Healthy Relationships

· Healing Through Solo Amory And Self-Love

· The Importance Of Therapy And The Right Therapist Fit

· Resources And Tools From Dr. Elizabeth Sheff

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EP454 - A Sexual Revolution: Hookups, Hiccups and Happenstances Sep 02, 2025

Welcome to Episode 454 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Sam L. Feldman, who speaks to me about ethical non-monogamy, swinging, and the evolution of sexual liberation across the decades.

In this episode, Sam shares insights from his book Hookups, Hiccups and Happenstances, which reflects on the changing landscape of sexuality from the 1960s and 70s through to today. We discuss the social shifts that empowered women during this period, the origins of swinging, and how personal boundaries and communication have shaped Sam’s own 62-year marriage.

Married for 61 years and counting, Sam is an excellent spokesperson on love and the many ways it can be explored. A number of the “hookups” he writes about in his book come from his real experiences of being in “the right place at the right time” during the Sexual Revolution. He also says he invented a sex position in this era. The position he's dubbed "the corkscrew” takes three people, unlike his other favorite position: 69.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Evolution Of Sexual Liberation In The 60s And 70s

· Origins Of Swinging And Key Clubs

· Women’s Empowerment And Reproductive Rights

· Sam’s 62-Year Marriage And Communication Pact

· Seven Rules For Navigating Non-Monogamy

· Boundaries Between Love And Sex

· Transparency And Openness In Long-Term Relationships

· How Date Nights Strengthen Connection

· Addressing Jealousy In Non-Monogamy

· Swinging Culture And Common Misconceptions

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EP453 - Just Watch Me: A Hotwifing Story Aug 26, 2025

Welcome to Episode 453 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Serenity Cox and partner Timothy of WIFEY, who speak with me about their journey into the hotwifing lifestyle and how it has shaped their relationship.

In this episode, Serenity and Timothy share how their interest in hotwifing began as fantasy and roleplay, before eventually evolving into real-life exploration. We discuss the turning point in their relationship during the pandemic, how they navigated their first experiences, and the emotional challenges and growth that came with moving from imagination into reality.

Serenity Cox is a Canadian adult performer and content creator who transitioned from a successful career as an ER nurse to becoming one of the industry’s most sought-after stars. Since starting her career, she has gained massive popularity through independent content creation and collaborations with major studios, earning multiple awards, including the 2024 xHamster Creator of the Year and the 2025 XBIZ XMA Fan Award for ‘Favorite MILF Performer’.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Defining Hotwifing

· Fantasy vs. Reality in Relationships

· The Pandemic as a Turning Point

· Emotional Challenges and Surprises

· Importance of Reconnection Rituals

· Navigating Jealousy in Non-Monogamy

· Safety Practices and STI Testing

· Communicating Fantasies with a Partner

· Managing Cultural Stigma Around CNM

· Resources for Exploring Hotwifing

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EP452 - Relationship Anarchy: Breaking the Norms Aug 19, 2025

Welcome to Episode 452 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Roy Graff who speaks to me about relationship anarchy, consensual non-monogamy, and the importance of communication in alternative relationship structures.

In this episode, Roy shares his deeply personal journey from decades of serial monogamy to embracing polyamory as an orientation and ultimately finding resonance in the philosophy of relationship anarchy. We explore the difference between open relationships and ethical non-monogamy, the role of emotional maturity, and how boundaries and communication can transform romantic connections.

Roy Graff is a Psychosynthesis Relationship Counsellor based in London, UK. Drawing on his training and over nine years of experience facilitating workshops and group work, Roy supports clients in exploring the full spectrum of their physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual dimensions. His practice is inclusive and affirming of Gender, Sex, and Relationship Diversity (GSRD), welcoming LGBTQ+ individuals and those in non-monogamous relationships. In addition to his counselling work, Roy is a relationship coach specializing in alternative and non-traditional relationship dynamics, helping individuals and partners build resilience, improve communication, manage conflict, and deepen empathetic, conscious connections.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Roy’s Journey From Serial Monogamy To Polyamory

· How Relationship Anarchy Challenges Social Norms

· The Difference Between Ethical And Unethical Non-Monogamy

· Why Communication Is The Foundation Of Alternative Relationships

· Navigating Jealousy And Emotional Triggers

· The Role Of Boundaries In Polyamorous Dynamics

· Strategies For Sharing Information About Other Partners

· Understanding The “Relationship Escalator”

· How Solo Polyamory Works In Practice

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EP451 - Coloring Outside the Lines: Freedom in Polyamory Aug 12, 2025

Welcome to Episode 451 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Dr. Joli Hamilton who speaks to me about navigating non-monogamy, jealousy, and building healthy polyamorous relationships.

In this conversation, I invite Joli to share the very human, very messy path she took from a long-term monogamous marriage into consensual non-monogamy. We talk about how a simple crush, paired with new language for polyamory, sparked courageous but complicated conversations, the pitfalls of working with clinicians who default to monogamy, and the painful social narratives that cast open-relationship exploration as “cheating” even when no boundaries are crossed.

Dr. Joli Hamilton is the relationship coach for couples who color outside the lines & founder of The Year of Opening. She is a depth psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and AASECT (pronounced ay-sect) certified sex educator. Joli co-hosts the Playing with Fire podcast. Joli’s been featured in The New York Times, CNN, Vogue, Cosmo, and NPR. She’s spent the past two decades studying and reimagining what love can be if we open our imaginations to possibility. Joli helps people create non-monogamous partnerships that are custom-built for their authentic selves, no more shrinking, pretending, or hiding required.

In this episode, you will hear:

· From Monogamy To Non-Monogamy: A Real-Life Origin Story

· Why Honesty Without Skills Still Hurts

· The Therapist Fit Problem In CNM

· Naming Feelings vs. Trying To Erase Them

· Jealousy Happens - Bans Make It Worse

· Agreements, Not Assumptions

· Breakup And Aftercare In Polyamory

· Parenting And Cohabitation Considerations

· Nervous System Tools For Regulation

· Defining Your Own CNM Script Over Time

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EP450 – Monogamish: Exploring Intimacy and Freedom Aug 05, 2025

Welcome to Episode 450 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Carrie Jeroslow who speaks to me about exploring monogamish relationships, communication, and relationship diversity.

In this conversation, Carrie unpacks the term “Monogamish,” originally coined to describe a space between strict monogamy and fully open relationships, and shares how transparency, not secrecy, became the cornerstone of her own early experiences with non‑monogamy. We talk through the realities behind the “ish”: clunky starts, learning curves, aftercare, and the deep inner work that jealousy often invites.

International Best-Selling Author and Relationship Diversity Advocate, Carrie Jeroslow, is passionate about bringing intentionality into intimate relationships by releasing the programming of what we’re taught relationships SHOULD be and shifting to what we really WANT them to be. This highly personal process requires getting to know one's ever-evolving self as intimately as possible. She believes that when we learn and accept who we truly are, we can be more authentic in our relationships with others, which brings an unparalleled sense of joyfulness and fulfillment to our lives as a whole.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Defining Monogamish

· Honesty Over Secrecy

· Aftercare And Debriefs

· Becoming Intimate With Jealousy

· Updating Inherited Beliefs

· Boundaries You Can Revisit

· Move At The Slowest Partner’s Pace

· Culture, Labels, And Flexibility

· Communication As A Core Skill

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EP449 - Sex and Self-Image: A Pleasure Journey Jul 29, 2025

Welcome to Episode 449 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Jackie Goldschneiderwho speaks to me about eating disorders, body image, recovery, and how all of this intersects with sexuality and pleasure.

In this conversation, Jackie shares the raw, unglamorized realities of living with anorexia for two decades, much of it while in the public eye. We explore her “inherited food trauma,” the cultural pressure of the 90s, and how secrecy, rules, and constant tracking kept her illness alive. Jackie opens up about the pivotal moment at 45 when health scares and a second rock bottom pushed her to choose recovery, tell her husband, and assemble a true treatment team to address the mental, physical, and emotional layers of healing.

Jackie Goldschneider is an author, activist, speaker and a longtime cast member of The Real Housewives of New Jersey. Before joining the show, Jackie was an attorney and freelance journalist, and has contributed extensively to publications including Good Housekeeping, HuffPost and Scary Mommy, and wrote a weekly parenting column for New Jersey's The Record newspaper for several years. Her debut memoir, The Weight of Beautiful, was published by ‎Simon and Schuster in September 2023. Since then, Jackie has been a nationally recognized advocate for eating disorder recovery.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Inherited Food Trauma And Early Body Shame

· Fifteen Years Of Anorexia Hidden In Plain Sight

· Strategic Eating To Outsmart Cameras And Castmates

· Recovery As A Lifelong, Nonlinear Commitment

· Malnutrition’s Toll On Hormones, Estrogen, And Libido

· Therapy, Dietitian, And MD: A Three-Person Care Team

· Boundaries Around Body And Food Comments Are Essential

· Reclaiming Pleasure, Playfulness, And Nakedness In Sex

· Breaking Secrecy By Confiding In A Loved One

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EP448 - Connection and Pleasure: Reclaim Lost Desire Jul 22, 2025

Welcome to Episode 448 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Dr. Kate Balestrieri, who speaks to me about navigating low desire and reigniting intimacy in long‑term relationships.

In this conversation, Kate and I normalize the reality that everyone, including sex therapists, experiences fluctuations in sexual desire. She shares the multifaceted story behind her own temporary drop in libido, touching on burnout, perimenopause, pandemic stress, and relationship “growing pains.”

Dr. Kate Balestrieri, Psy.D is a Licensed Psychologist (Clinical and Forensic) in CA, FL, NY and IL. She is a Certified Sex Therapist, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist – Supervisor, and PACT III trained couples’ therapist.

The Founder of Modern Intimacy, a nationwide therapy practice, Dr. Balestrieri is a passionate advocate for mental, relational and sexual health. Throughout her work, Dr. Balestrieri focuses on helping people build resilience and recovery from what ails them to move from a position of pain or discomfort to one of thriving, holistically in their lives. Dr. Balestrieri is the author of What Happened to My Sex Life? A Sex Therapist’s Guide to Reclaiming Lost Desire, Connection and Pleasure, and is the host of the Get Naked with Dr. Kate podcast.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Normalizing Fluctuating Desire

· Multifaceted Roots Of Low Libido

· Love–Lust Divide In Long‑Term Bonds

· Stress And Burnout As Desire Dampeners

· Role Of Novelty And Mystery

· Dangers Of Obligatory Or “Pity” Sex

· The 30% Orgasm Gap Explained

· Embodiment And Pleasure Practices

· Rekindling Passion With Intentional Effort

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EP447 - The Mother of Sex Coaching: Wanting Love, Finding Yourself Jul 15, 2025

Welcome to Episode 447 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Dr. Patti Britton, who speaks to me about her new memoir Chasing Sex, the life events that shaped her as a pioneer in sex coaching, and how we can all cultivate pleasure and transcendent intimacy at any age.

In this heartfelt conversation, Patti traces the winding path from her “little girl named Patti” to the globally known “Dr. Patti.” She opens up about the matriarchs who modeled sexual confidence, the traumas she survived, and the counter-culture influences that called her to sexology. You’ll hear how writing her memoir became a race against time to preserve her stories, and why she now gifts readers “52 Lessons for Life” drawn from those pages.

Dr. Patti Britton is a nationally board-certified, world recognized Clinical Sexologist, known as the “Mother of Sex Coaching”. She’s the author of hundreds of articles, book chapters, forewords, and five major books in sexology. She is a proud member of the LA writers’ community, having studied Method Writing for over 20 years. She is published in several anthologies with a variety of her stories. Her memoir, Chasing Sex, Wanting Love, Finding Myself was released in 2024 from Balboa Press.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Dr. Patti Britton’s Matriarchal Role Models

· From Trauma to Thriving: Finding an Authentic Sexual Voice

· Why She Wrote Chasing Sex in Her Seventies

· Pleasure Framed as a Fundamental Human Right

· The Five-Level Touch Continuum Explained

· Transcendent Sex vs. “Good Enough” Sex

· Aging, Orgasm, and Embracing New Erotic Scripts

· Tips for Men: Shift From Performance to Sensation

· Keeping Desire Alive Through Novelty and Play

· Patti’s Free “52 Lessons for Life” and Ongoing Legacy

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EP446 - Feminist Porn: Producing Pleasure Jul 08, 2025

Welcome to Episode 446 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Inka Winter, who speaks to me about her journey from surviving a sex cult to pioneering feminist, female-gaze erotica that centers women’s pleasure and authentic consent.

Inka Winter is an erotic filmmaker and founder of ForPlay Films, an independent, all-woman porn production company. Spending her formative years living in an alternative artist commune in Austria gave Inka a critical eye for what constitutes sexy, consensual female pleasure and set the foundation for her creative endeavors in erotic filmmaking. Her background in costume design and styling informs her aesthetic and translates to the editorial feel of her films.

In our conversation, Inka opens up about growing up in an Austrian commune that devolved into an authoritarian sex cult. She describes the rigid hierarchy, the separation of children from parents, and the constant pressure to conform to cult-mandated ideas of “free love.” We discuss the lingering impact of early exposure to sexual activity, the leader’s eventual arrest, and the complex process of unraveling trauma, reclaiming agency, and seeking reparations decades later.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Childhood In Authoritarian Sex Cult

· Leader’s Arrest & Commune Collapse

· Processing Trauma Through Therapy

· Documentary Mirror Of Lived Reality

· From Fashion Design To Erotic Filmmaking

· Defining The Female Gaze On Screen

· Consent-Driven, Performer-Led Scenes

· Holistic Porn As Sex Education

· Debunking Porn “Addiction” Myths

· Empowering Women’s Pleasure & Fantasy

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EP445 - How to Have Mindful Masturbation Jul 01, 2025

Welcome to Episode 445 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Darshana Avila, who speaks to me about mindful masturbation as a form of self-care and erotic exploration.

In this conversation, Darshana and I dive into why so many of us default to the same quick, goal-oriented masturbation routine and how that habit is wired into our neural pathways. We explore the power of slowing down, setting an intention, and treating solo pleasure as a ritual, complete with an opening, body-centered exploration, and a conscious closing.

Best known for her contributions to Netflix's Sex, Love & goop, trauma informed,pleasure centric, culturally relevant erotic education is Darshana's sweet spot. Supporting women & queer community, individually or alongside their partners, is her deepest passion She's a certified Somatic Experiencing Practitioner & Sexological Bodyworker, guiding & serving through her private practice, public speaking & online offerings.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Defining Mindful Masturbation

· Neural Pathways And Habit Loops

· Intentional Rituals For Solo Sex

· Full-Body Touch Before Genitals

· Navigating Boredom And Plateaus

· Sensate Focus Vs. Visual Stimulation

· Fantasy As A Creative Arousal Tool

· Scheduling Familiar And New Practices

· Challenging Inner Critic Narratives

· Pleasure As Personal And Collective Liberation

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EP444 - Exploring Sex Tech Trends and Listeners’ Most Asked Q&A Jun 24, 2025

Welcome to Episode 444 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Lisa Schaefer VP of Marketing at Promescent, who speaks to me about the biggest trends reshaping sexual-health products and sex-tech innovation.

In the first half of the episode, I dive into three listener questions and unpack why fantasy is perfectly healthy, offer concrete scripts for sharing kinks without shame, and celebrate self-pleasure as a lifelong birth-right, while sprinkling in resources, exercises, and confidence-building tips you can try tonight.

Then, Lisa joins me to map out the fast-evolving landscape of pleasure products, from wearable vibrating rings that turn penis-owners into “hands-free” vibrators, to blood-flow-boosting arousal gels that help close the orgasm gap, to tech-driven “pleasure-mapping” apps and menopause-friendly solutions.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Listener Q&A On Fantasy & Orgasm

· Talking Cross-Dressing With Your Partner

· Celebrating A High Midlife Libido

· Why Fantasy Is Totally Normal

· Scripts To Share Your Kink Shame-Free

· Rise Of Wearable Male Vibrators

· Arousal Gels That Boost Blood Flow

· Pleasure-Mapping Apps & Sex Tech

· Menopause-Focused Products On The Horizon

· Communication As The Ultimate Toy

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EP443 - Somebody Hold Me: Single and Touch Starved Jun 17, 2025

Welcome to Episode 443 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Epiphany Jordan who speaks to me about the essential role of nonsexual, nurturing touch in our lives and how it intersects with wellness, relationships, and even trauma recovery.

In this rich and deeply personal conversation, Epiphany shares her journey from studying sacred sexuality to creating structured touch experiences aimed at fostering connection and healing. We explore the cultural, religious, and psychological factors that shape how we experience touch, especially in societies where physical affection is often conflated with sexuality.

Epiphany Jordan, MPH, CPH, is on a mission to rebrand human touch. From 2013-2020, she provided platonic touch therapy in a ritualized setting with her business, the Austin-based Karuna Sessions. She is also the author of Somebody Hold Me: The Single Person's Guide to Nurturing Human Touch. Somebody Hold Me addresses the touch deficit singles face, and offers multiple solutions. She has appeared on several podcasts discussing human touch, and spoke about solving loneliness with human touch at Austin’s SXSW Interactive Festival in 2019. In 2023, she completed her Master of Public Health with a concentration in Social Marketing from the University of South Florida, and researched rebranding human touch as part of her program.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Why Touch Is A Mammalian And Biological Need

· How Nonsexual Touch Can Heal Emotional Wounds

· Cultural And Religious Impacts On How We View Touch

· The Problem With Conflating Touch And Sex

· The “Branding Problem” Of Physical Touch In Society

· Four Reimagined Touch Archetypes For Modern Relationships

· How Touch Supports Trauma Healing And Psychedelic Integration

· Structured Ways To Practice Safe, Intentional Touch

· The Four S’s Framework: Safe, Slow, Specific, Structured

· Why Asking For Touch Can Be A Radical Act Of Vulnerability

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EP442 - Dance Naked: The Joy of Sexual Fantasies Jun 10, 2025

Welcome to Episode 442 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Eleanor O’Brien who speaks to me about exploring erotic fantasies through creativity, theater, and self-expression.

In this conversation, Eleanor shares how her personal journey with fantasy evolved from taboo-fueled curiosity to embodied empowerment. We explore the fascinating world of erotic storytelling, from her theater adaptations of fantasy monologues to the value of devising your own erotic scenes through selfies, writing prompts, and roleplay.

Eleanor O’Brien is the artistic director of Dance Naked Creative, a sex-positive theater and event company. She is a writer, performer and facilitator. She is the creator of solo shows Plan V, How to Really, Really? Really! Love a woman, GGG: Dominatrix for Dummies and Lust & Marriage.

She directed and starred in the Inviting Desire series, ensemble productions that include A Theatrical Aphrodisiac, Lubricate Your Libido, Pleasure, Permission, Possibility...and The Dawn of Sex. She has produced & directed the community cabarets What Is Erotic?, Revelations, and Sex We Can! and is the founder of the biennial sex and culture theater festival Come Inside. She hosts the monthly erotic open mic Stand Up Smut, and teaches workshops exploring the intersection between sexuality and creativity. She is the captain of the Erotic Creators Club on Patreon.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Erotic Fantasy As A Tool For Self-Discovery

· How Nancy Friday’s Work Sparked A Creative Revolution

· The Healing Power Of Erotic Theater

· Ways To Cultivate An Erotic Inner Life

· How To Use Fantasy As Connection, Not Escape

· Role Of Taboo And Power Dynamics In Desire

· Creating Erotic Rituals With A Partner

· Why Investment Behaviors Are Arousing

· Moving Beyond Porn To Create Personal Erotica

· How Set And Setting Can Enhance Arousal

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EP441 - Falling In Love Again: Bringing Erotic to Your Everyday Jun 03, 2025

Welcome to Episode 441 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell who speaks to me about cultivating intimacy in long-term relationships, navigating sexless marriages, and reigniting erotic connection between partners.

In this episode, we explore what truly keeps the spark alive in long-term relationships and why the common advice of compromise may actually undermine deep connection. Dr. Stockwell introduces her approach of Uncompromising Intimacy, which champions full self-expression over self-suppression in partnerships.

Alexandra Stockwell, MD, aka “The Intimacy Doctor,” is widely known for her ability to catalyze immediate and profound shifts in high achieving couples who want it all–genuine emotional connection, sensual passion, and erotic intimacy.

A physician coach and Intimate Marriage Expert, Dr. Alexandra is the best-selling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program, host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, a wife of 28 years and a mother of 4. Couples who work with her discover the key to passion, fulfillment, intimacy, and success isn’t compromise–it’s being unwilling to compromise--because when both people feel free to be themselves, the relationship is juicy, erotically alive, and deeply nourishing.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding The Concept Of Uncompromising Intimacy

· Why Compromise May Hinder Erotic Connection

· Recognizing Early Signs Of A Sexless Marriage

· Emotional Safety As A Foundation For Sexual Intimacy

· How Curiosity Revives Connection Outside—and Inside—the Bedroom

· Practical Tips For Couples Who Feel Like Roommates Or Siblings

· The Power Of Slowing Down And Tuning Into Arousal

· How To Rebuild Sexual Connection After Years Of Disconnection

· Navigating Past Hurts, Affairs, And Emotional Wounds In Intimacy Work

· Why Ongoing Communication About Sex Is Essential For Lasting Passion

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EP440 - Sexual Power: Go All Night Long May 27, 2025

Welcome to Episode 440 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Jeff Abraham, CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, whose lead product is Promescent. Jeff speaks to me about the deeply misunderstood topic of premature ejaculation (PE) and the emotional, relational, and physiological dimensions behind it.

In this enlightening conversation, Jeff and I unpack the complex web of stigma, shame, and misinformation that surrounds early ejaculation. We discuss the difference between perceived and clinically defined PE, the real physiological roots beyond just anxiety or lack of willpower, and the often-overlooked arousal gap between partners.

Once retired, Jeff found his encore career in the sexual wellness space, bringing sharp business instincts, integrity, and a bold sense of mission to Promescent.

Originally from a struggling town in Pennsylvania, Jeff built a successful recruiting career in Silicon Valley, placing top engineers at tech giants like AMD, Motorola, and Lam Research. During his career, he was instructed by a major car manufacturer to discriminate against women and people of color in the hiring process, an order he refused to follow. Instead, Jeff took a stand and filed an anti-discrimination lawsuit against the company. Against the odds, he won, driven by a core belief in doing the right thing.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding The Root Causes Of Premature Ejaculation

· Why Most PE Cases Are Physiological, Not Psychological

· How Porn Skews Our Expectations Of Sexual Performance

· Defining PE: Clinical Criteria Vs. Subjective Experience

· Closing The Arousal Gap For Mutual Satisfaction

· Why Communication Is Crucial For Sexual Confidence

· How Promescent’s Patented Formula Avoids Numbing Your Partner

· Tips For Introducing Delay Sprays Without Hurting Feelings

· The Psychological Boost Of Feeling In Control During Intimacy

· Why Quality Sex Toys And Lubes Are Investments In Your Wellbeing

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EP439 – The Number One Mistake People Make in the Bedroom May 20, 2025

Welcome to Episode 439 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm thrilled to have a panel of leading sex therapists and relationship and intimacy experts from around the world. They’ll discuss the most common mistakes people make in the bedroom and how to address them. A big thank you to Dr. Emily Jamea, Ariel Anderssen, Dr. Lori Bisbey, Catherine Auman, Candia Raquel, Dr. Stephanie Bathurst, Dr. Avrum Weiss, and Elliot Katz.

In this episode, we explore the habits that often go unnoticed but can have a lasting impact on sexual satisfaction and emotional connection. You'll hear a variety of insights, from the importance of non-verbal communication and slowing down intimacy, to the roles of sensuality, presence, and emotional security. Each expert brings their unique lens, offering practical tips and surprising truths drawn from decades of experience.

Whether you're in a long-term relationship or just looking to deepen your sexual self-awareness, this episode offers honest, shame-free advice. From addressing awkward moments with humor to reframing masculinity and creating space for meaningful conversation, this is an invitation to rethink how we approach pleasure, intimacy, and connection.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Importance Of Reading Non-Verbal Cues

· How Sincere Appreciation Boosts Intimacy

· The Need To Prioritize Presence Over Performance

· Why Slowing Down Can Deepen Pleasure

· Connection Between Excitement And Blocked Orgasms

· How Playfulness Can Ease Bedroom Awkwardness

· The Role Of Masculinity In Creating Safety

· Why Scheduling A Sexy Talk Matters

· How Porn Has Shaped Misleading Expectations

· Using Sensuality To Awaken The Body’s Reflexes

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EP438 - Sex and Conflict: The 4-Minute Exercise May 13, 2025

Welcome to Episode 438 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill, who speak to me about emotional regulation, co-regulation, and their transformative journey in creating a stronger sexual connection through emotional attunement.

In this heartfelt episode, Glenn and Phyllis share their personal story of early sexual struggles and emotional disconnect in their marriage, which eventually led them on a lifelong quest for answers. Married since 1982, they recount decades of feeling lost and misunderstood, highlighting how a lack of emotional education contributed to sexual dissatisfaction and relational distance.

Dr Glenn & Phyllis Hill spent the first 30 years of their marriage living in disconnect. Their first sexual experience sent them into years of avoidance and pain. Dr Glenn was so determined to find out what went wrong that he went back to school & became a Marriage & Family Therapist and a Clinical Sexologist. But, it wasn't until he dug deep into emotional regulation that he discovered the source of all of their disconnect. From there, Dr Glenn & Phyllis created The Connection Codes- a framework to help couples connect emotionally and physically using their 4-minute exercise.

In this episode, you will hear:

· The Hills’ Personal Journey

· Why Emotional Education is Critical for a Healthy Sex Life

· The Impact of Emotional Wounding on Physical Intimacy

· How Emotional Dysregulation Disrupts Sexual Desire and Connection

· The “Four-Minute Tool” for Tuning Into Core Emotions

· Co-Regulation and Building Emotional Safety With Your Partner

· The Power of Naming Emotions Like Sadness, Hurt, and Joy

· How Sexual Banter Can Foster Intimacy Outside the Bedroom

· Practical Advice for Communicating Emotional Overwhelm

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EP437 - Tell Me What You Want: Tips for Talking About Sex May 06, 2025

Welcome to Episode 437 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Brittany Steffen, LMFT, who speaks to me about how couples can navigate and deepen their sexual communication.

In this episode, Brittany and I discuss the kinds of conversations couples should be having but often aren’t, especially when it comes to sex. We talk about the importance of discussing how and when to initiate sex, redefining what “counts” as sex, and how understanding each other’s intentions can greatly enhance intimacy.

Brittany Steffen is the owner and founder of Steffen Counseling Services. She earned her graduate degree in marriage and family therapy from Seattle Pacific University in 2012 and has worked as a therapist in the Seattle area for over a decade. In 2018, she began the process of becoming an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist to meet the growing demand for specialized sex therapy services.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Top Three Conversations Every Couple Should Have About Sex

· How To Navigate Desire Discrepancy Without Blame

· Shifting From Yes/No Sex to a Menu of Possibilities

· Why Defining “Sex” Broadly Can Improve Intimacy

· Understanding the Emotional Weight of Sexual Rejection

· How To Talk About Fantasies Without Pressure or Shame

· Requests vs. Demands: A Key Distinction in Sexual Communication

· Common Traps That Lead to Sexual Conflict in Long-Term Relationships

· How Self-Reflection Can Improve Your Sex Life

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EP436 - How to Have a Sex Party Apr 29, 2025

Welcome to Episode 436 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman, co-founders of the Somatica Institute, who speak to me about sex parties. In this episode, we discuss the evolving landscape of sexual exploration, intentional relationship structures, and how sex parties can be transformative when approached with clear communication, consent, and a sense of curiosity.

Danielle and Celeste share their personal journey of entering the world of sex parties, offering valuable insight into how these experiences can deepen intimacy, spark erotic creativity, and provide healing opportunities for individuals and couples alike.

Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, M.A., are pioneers in intimacy, sexuality, and relationship coaching. Co-founders of the Somatica® Institute, they’ve transformed how love and connection are taught through their experiential, science-based Somatica Method. Together, they’ve trained over 1,000 coaches and helped countless individuals and couples embrace vulnerability, rediscover desire, and create deeply fulfilling relationships.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding the Modern Role of Sex Parties

· Exploration of Monogamy, Polyamory Relationships

· The Importance of Clear Communication and Consent

· How Sex Parties Can Strengthen Emotional Intimacy

· Navigating Jealousy, Compersion, and Erotic Curiosity

· Preparation Tips for First-Time Attendees

· How to Host a Consent-Centered and Inclusive Event

· The Emotional Core Behind Erotic Desires

· Addressing Relationship Misconceptions Around Opening Up

· Resources for Finding and Learning About Sex-Positive Communities

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EP435 - Successful Threesomes: How to Have and Get One Apr 22, 2025

Welcome to Episode 435 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Tia Lynn, a seasoned intimacy coach and host of the Sexy Biz Babe Podcast, who speaks to me about navigating threesomes, one of the most common fantasies among couples - and how to approach them with intention, clarity, and care.

In our conversation, we explore the difference between fantasy and desire, and why not every fantasy needs to be acted upon. Tia offers practical advice on how couples can decide whether a threesome is right for them, including how to assess trust, emotional safety, and shared curiosity. We also talk about the importance of open dialogue, emotional preparation, and creating safe, judgment-free zones to explore these conversations.

Tia Lynn is a TEDX speaker, host of the Sexy Biz Babe podcast and a Sex & Intimacy coach. She loves to help high-achieving women tap into their feminine energy, reignite their sexy confidence to have the best sex of their life. Her methods are known to increase self-confidence, income, and better sex!

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding the Fantasy vs. Reality of Threesomes

· How to Know If You and Your Partner Are Ready

· Importance of Trust, Communication, and Consent

· Common Emotional Pitfalls to Avoid

· Tips for Bringing Up the Topic with Your Partner

· Where and How to Meet a Potential Third

· Screening for Safety and Emotional Compatibility

· Setting Boundaries and Managing Jealousy

· Initiating Intimacy Without Awkwardness

· Why Aftercare Is Just as Important as the Act Itself

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EP434 - How to Give a Life-Changing Prostate Orgasm Apr 15, 2025

Welcome to Episode 434 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Rain DeGrey, who speaks to me about the world of prostate massage and milking - what it is, how it works, and the deeper cultural and psychological barriers we often encounter around anal play, particularly for men.

In our conversation, Rain breaks down the differences (and similarities) between prostate massage and milking, highlighting how both are often misunderstood. We explore how performance anxiety, shame, and cultural taboos can shape our sexual experiences - and how embracing pleasure as a valid goal can be deeply healing.

Rain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter, podcaster and performer that has been writing articles and teaching classes focusing on kink, relationships, and sex education since 2009. After getting her start as a fetish model, Pro Domme, and competitive wrestler, she was motivated to branch out into education, something she is extremely passionate about. Demystifying sexuality and presenting in a clear humorous way are trademarks of her teaching style. She believes strongly in making sex education fun and engaging.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding Prostate Massage vs. Milking

· Why Performance Pressure Reduces Pleasure

· The Myth of Proven Health Benefits

· Pleasure as a Valid, Healing Goal

· How Anxiety Impacts Sexual Function

· Practical Safety Tips for Anal Play

· The Link Between Shame and Patriarchal Norms

· Prostate Play Without Penetration

· Navigating Prostate Stimulation with Toys

· The Value of Sex Education and Ongoing Learning

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EP433 - Sexual Pleasure: Your Guide to Stronger Orgasms Apr 08, 2025

Welcome to Episode 433 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Anna Lee, the CEO and co-founder of Lioness, who speaks to me about the intersection of pleasure, science, and innovation - and how we can redefine the way we understand and experience orgasms.

In this episode, Anna shares her fascinating journey from working in big tech to creating Lioness, a company rooted in data-driven pleasure and sexual wellness. We dive into how her cultural upbringing shaped her early relationship with sexuality and how she turned a personal healing journey into a revolutionary tool that helps people explore their bodies.

Anna Lee is the co-founder and CEO of Lioness, the startup that built the world’s first and only smart vibrator that helps improves sexual pleasure through biofeedback orgasm data and research. Anna was previously a mechanical engineer at Amazon, launching the Amazon Dash Button and the Kindle Voyage. She was most recently named one of Newsweek’s 10 Innovators Disrupting Healthcare as well as Forbes 30 Under 30. Realizing the underrepresentation of women engineers in sextech and the lack of research, Anna has made it a mission to expand understanding and research in sexual pleasure.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Anna Lee’s Journey From Tech to Pleasure Innovation

· How Lioness Tracks and Visualizes Orgasm Patterns

· The Role of Engineering in Designing for Female Pleasure

· The Cultural Taboo Around Female Masturbation

· Cannabis and Caffeine as Orgasm Enhancers

· The Science Behind Pelvic Floor Contractions

· Data Insights on Age and Orgasm Strength

· Addressing the Orgasm Gap with Research and Tech

· The Importance of Curiosity in Sexual Wellness

· Empowerment Through Pleasure and Knowledge

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EP432 - The Dick Whisperer: Does Size Really Matter Apr 01, 2025

Welcome to Episode 432 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by William Moore, who speaks to me about his incredible journey from LGBTQ+ advocacy to pioneering innovations in male enhancement procedures.

In this powerful episode, William shares his story of growing up in rural Alabama and eventually becoming a national LGBTQ+ rights advocate, culminating in a landmark U.S. Supreme Court case that changed anti-discrimination laws forever. He also takes us into the world of male enhancement, where he developed PhalloFILL - a minimally invasive girth enhancement technique that has transformed the lives of countless men, both physically and emotionally.

William Moore is the founder of the Dallas-based biohacking clinic AdvancedYOU and the visionary Founder of PhalloFILL®, the leading network for non-surgical penile girth enhancement. After launching in 2021, PhalloFILL now spans nearly 30 U.S. markets, Mexico City, and Montreal, solidifying its status as the largest and most accessible treatment for penile girth enhancement. Beyond the clinics, Moore is the President of the Texas Med Spa Association, advocating for LGBTQ+ rights and healthcare equality.

In this episode, you will hear:

· William’s Journey From Rural Alabama to Advocacy

· LGBTQ+ Rights Victory at the Supreme Court

· The Birth of PhalloFILL Male Enhancement Procedure

· Why Girth Matters More Than Length in Pleasure

· Risks of Unsafe Filler Practices in Enhancement

· The Role of Confidence in Sexual and Social Life

· Scientific Innovation Behind the PhalloSleeve Device

· Real-Life Impact on Relationships and Self-Esteem

· Training Physicians Nationwide for Safe Procedures

· Breaking Taboos Around Male Body Conversations

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EP431 - Sexual Biohacking: Enhance Your Performance Mar 25, 2025

Welcome to Episode 431 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Susan Bratton as we explore the fascinating world of sexual biohacking—how we can extend our sexual vitality and pleasure throughout our lives. Susan is an expert in sexual wellness and longevity, and she shares valuable insights on how we can enhance our "sex span" alongside our health span.

A lifelong entrepreneur, Susan is CEO of two companies. The 20, founded in 2019, is a supplement company specializing in libido support for sexual vitality. Based on the 80/20 rule, which states that 80% of your results are due to 20% of your efforts - if only you know what 20% to choose. The 20’s blood flow supplement, libido vitamins, and sexual energy bars FLOW and DESIRE make the “what to choose” dilemma a no-brainer by providing the just-right balance of vitamins and botanicals to deliver noticeable results.

Through Personal Life Media, founded in 2006, Susan has authored and published 34 books and programs, including Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, The Steamy Sex Ed®️ Video Collection, and her Amazon #1 International Bestseller, Sexual Soulmates: The Six Essentials for Connected Sex. Over 1,250,000 copies of her books have been enjoyed by lovers worldwide.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding Sexual Biohacking and Its Benefits

· How Blood Flow Affects Arousal and Pleasure

· The Role of Hormones in Sexual Wellness

· Regenerative Therapies for Sexual Health

· Tools and Techniques for Female Rejuvenation

· Male Enhancement Methods and Their Effectiveness

· The Science Behind the "Use It or Lose It" Concept

· Psychological Factors That Impact Desire

· Practical Tips for Boosting Libido and Function

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EP430 - Pain and Pleasure: Exploring Needle Play Mar 18, 2025

Welcome to Episode 430 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Lynn Lohide, a professional body piercer and needle play educator. Lynn speaks to me about the fascinating world of needle play - what it is, how it's practiced safely, and the deeper emotional and psychological connections people have with it.

In our conversation, Lynn shares how their journey into professional piercing led them to discover the erotic and ritualistic aspects of needle play. We explore the ways in which controlled pain can serve as a tool for self-discovery, healing, and even reclaiming one's body.

Lynn has been professionally piercing since 2011, facilitating body suspensions since 2013, and doing play piercings since 2013. They have a passion for everything hook and piercing related, and since their first piercing they have been immensely drawn to the craft.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding What Needle Play Is and Its Various Forms

· The Overlap Between Professional Piercing and Kink Exploration

· How Needle Play Can Be Used for Healing and Self-Empowerment

· The Role of Trust, Consent, and Safety in Needle Play

· The Psychological and Emotional Impact of Engaging in This Practice

· The Historical Ties Between Needle Play and Queer Leather Culture

· Common Myths and Misconceptions About Needles in BDSM

· How Individuals Can Explore Needle Play for the First Time

· The Importance of Education and Safe Practices in Needle Play

· Resources for Learning More About This Fascinating Kink

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EP429 - Asking For It: BDSM Bound Mar 11, 2025

Welcome to Episode 429 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Ariel Anderssen, who shares her incredible journey from growing up in a strict religious community to becoming a BDSM model and advocate. We explore the origins of kink, whether it’s something we’re born with or develop over time, along with the role of trust, communication, and appreciation in BDSM relationships.

Ariel opens up about her early fascination with power dynamics, how she discovered the BDSM community, and how modeling helped her embrace her sexuality. We also discuss the impact of growing up in a restrictive religious environment, the misconceptions surrounding BDSM, and why trust and mutual respect are at the core of these dynamics.

Ariel Anderssen is a BDSM model and author with a lifetime's interest in submission and masochism. She released her first book, playing to lose, in 2023, where she charts her journey from a strict religious upbringing to becoming a shame-free, widely recognised BDSM performer. She's currently writing her second book.

In this episode, you will hear:

· How Early Fantasies Can Shape Adult Sexuality

· Nature vs. Nurture: Are We Born Kinky?

· Ariel’s Transition from a Religious Upbringing to the BDSM Scene

· The Role of Trust and Communication in BDSM Dynamics

· How Nude Modeling Helped Ariel Heal Her Relationship with Her Body

· Breaking Free from Shame and Embracing Kink

· Misconceptions About BDSM in Popular Media

· Tips for Dominants to Create a More Fulfilling Experience for Their Partners

· The Importance of Aftercare and Emotional Connection in BDSM

· Where to Find Resources for Exploring Kink Safely

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EP428 - How to Give a Yoni Massage: Tantric Vulva Massage Mar 04, 2025

Welcome to Episode 428 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Dr. Alexandria Saunders, who speaks to me about the transformative practice of Yoni massage within Tantra. We explore how this sacred technique can deepen intimacy, heal past trauma, and help individuals reconnect with their bodies in a more profound and holistic way.

In this episode, Dr. Alexandria shares how her journey into Tantra began through yoga and how she seamlessly integrates spiritual and sexual wellness into her work. We discuss the misconceptions surrounding Tantra, emphasizing that it’s more than just sexual positions - it's a philosophy that celebrates the body and pleasure as pathways to deeper awareness.

Dr. Alexandria Saunders is a sexologist, tantra coach, and pleasure activist dedicated to cultivating spaces of safety. With a doctorate in sexology and countless clinical and spiritual trainings and certifications, Alexandria allows her wisdom to guide her toward offering the medicine of her heart, which is to help others heal trauma and reintegrate their sexuality so they can wholly embody pleasure. As a medicine woman, Alexandria walks with people as they discover the depths of bliss hidden behind their scars. Healing trauma, reintegrating sexuality, and embodying pleasure are all guideposts of her work.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding Yoni Massage And Its Role In Tantra

· The Connection Between Sexuality, Spirituality, And Healing

· How Trauma And Cultural Conditioning Affect Our Relationship With Pleasure

· Practical Steps To Incorporate Yoni Massage Into Solo And Partnered Practices

· The Importance Of Presence, Breathwork, And Energy Awareness

· How To Navigate Vulnerability And Emotional Releases During The Practice

· Addressing Body Shame And Cultivating Self-Acceptance

· Why Removing Goal-Oriented Thinking Enhances The Experience

· Tips For Givers On Maintaining Presence And Intuition In Touch

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EP427 – Tantra: The Art of Conscious Intimacy Feb 25, 2025

Welcome to Episode 427 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Catherine Auman, a marriage and family therapist with extensive expertise in Tantra. We look into the fascinating world of Tantra and its role in deepening intimacy, exploring how couples can move beyond routine interactions to cultivate more sensual and spiritual connections.

In this episode, Catherine shares her personal journey into Tantra, how she integrates it into couples therapy, and why it’s a transformative tool for fostering intimacy. We discuss the importance of embodiment, the challenge of transitioning from daily responsibilities into a sensual mindset, and practical beginner-friendly meditation techniques.

Catherine Auman, LMFT (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist) is a spiritual psychotherapist and the Director of The Transpersonal Center in Los Angeles, California. She has advanced training in traditional psychology as well as the wisdom traditions. Catherine lived for a year at the Osho ashram in India – a full-time immersion in tantra and meditation – and she has studied and practiced tantra, love, sex, intimacy, and seduction with numerous teachers.

In this episode, you will hear:

● Catherine’s Journey into Tantra and Marriage & Family Therapy

● Understanding Tantra as a Path to Deepened Intimacy

● The Role of Embodiment in Sensual Awareness

● How Modern Culture Disconnects Us from Our Bodies

● Simple Tantric Practices to Bring Consciousness into the Body

● The Importance of Tuning Into Sensations Rather Than Focusing on Orgasm

● Yab-Yum: A Powerful Position for Heart-Centered Connection

● The Concept of Holding Space Without Performance Anxiety

● How Rituals Can Transform Intimate Experiences

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EP426 - Tantric Practices: Fostering Stronger Connections Feb 18, 2025

Welcome to Episode 426 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Pauline Ryeland, an expert in Tantra, intimacy coaching, and libido work. Pauline shares her deep knowledge of Tantra as a way of life, explaining how we can use practices like eye gazing and breathwork to strengthen emotional and physical intimacy with our partners.

Pauline Ryeland, Intimacy Whisperer ® has been working as an Intimacy, Sex & Libido Coach & Educator for over 13 years. She is certified as a Somatic Sexological Body Worker, Tantra Teacher & Facilitator and a Master Trainer & Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and a Havening Techniques™ Trauma Specialist.

Pauline recently wrote a book titled, Empowered Conscious Sexuality - From Prude to Pleasure and works as a Transformational Coach and Leader, having worked with thousands of individuals and couples around challenges they may be experiencing with intimacy, sex, libido, relationships and everything in between. She is passionate about educating people in the bedroom and leading people to living their best lives.

In this episode, you will hear:

● The Power Of Eye Gazing In Creating Deeper Connection

● How Breathwork Can Enhance Intimacy And Arousal

● The Undressing Ceremony As A Sensual Prelude To Connection

● Overcoming The Initial Awkwardness Of Tantric Practices

● Using Tantric Breathing To Transition From Stress To Sensuality

● Rituals For Awakening Sexual Energy And Desire

● How To Address Low Libido Through Mindset And Practice

● Breaking Out Of Routine To Reignite Passion In Relationships

● Healing Emotional Blocks That Impact Sexual Intimacy

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EP425 - Dating Burnout: Finding Your Person and Falling In Love Feb 11, 2025

Welcome to Episode 425 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be speaking with Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu, co-hosts of the Dateable Podcast, to dive into the complexities of modern dating. We explore how dating has evolved over the years, why many people struggle to transition from endless texting to real dates, and how societal shifts have changed what we look for in a partner. With more choices than ever, dating can feel overwhelming, but Julie and Yue share insights on how to navigate this landscape with clarity and confidence.

Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu are active daters turned dating insiders, and top influential voices of modern dating, relationships, and connection in the digital world. They’re the authors of How To Be Dateable: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love and the co-hosts of the hit podcast Dateable, which has been named one of the top podcasts about modern dating and relationships by the New York Times, The Huffington Post, Oprah Daily, and more. They’re also the hosts and executive producers of the dating experiment show Exit Interview.

Julie brings her background in human-centered design and qualitative research, while Yue shares her experience as a dating coach.

In this episode, you will hear:

Why Modern Dating Feels Harder Than Ever
The Paralysis Of Choice In The Age Of Dating Apps
How To Break Free From Endless Texting Without Meeting
Why Ghosting Happens And How To Emotionally Detach From It
The Importance Of Vulnerability In Building Genuine Connections
Understanding Your Dating Archetype And How It Impacts Your Love Life
How To Navigate Online Dating Without Feeling Burnt Out
When And Why Taking A Break From Dating Can Be Beneficial
Practical Tips For Making Dating Apps Work For You

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EP424 - Looking for Sex & Finding Love: Serial Dating in 2025 Feb 04, 2025

Welcome to Episode 424 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be speaking with Evan Marc Katz, a dating coach with over two decades of experience helping smart, successful women find lasting love. In this episode, we dive deep into the complexities of modern dating, exploring how attraction, chemistry, and long-term compatibility play a role in finding the right partner.

Evan Marc Katz became the world’s first dating coach in 2003, specialising in helping smart, successful women create lasting love. He is the author of four books, his Love U podcast has over 2 million downloads, and he has been featured in hundreds of media outlets, including Today, The New York Times, and The Wall Street Journal.

It’s an unlikely career for a man - especially one who was once called a “serial dater” by CNN - yet that’s exactly what makes Katz so unique. By helping women understand men - what they think, how they act, and what they want - he encourages them to raise the bar on what they expect from relationships and never again settle for anything less than they deserve.

In this episode, you will hear:

· The Importance Of Choosing The Right Partner Over Just Chemistry

· How Attraction Can Sometimes Lead To Poor Relationship Choices

· Why Many Women Feel They "Attract The Wrong Men"

· The Role Of Childhood Patterns In Dating Decisions

· How To Identify Red Flags Early In The Dating Process

· Why Slowing Down Dating Can Lead To Better Long-Term Results

· The Difference Between Men Looking For Sex Versus Love

· How To Set Boundaries Without Losing Connection

· The Importance Of Sexual Compatibility In A Relationship

· Practical Tips For Navigating Online Dating Successfully

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EP423 - Dating Dilemmas: Anxiety, Ghosting, and Finding Connection Jan 28, 2025

Welcome to Episode 423 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome back Dr. Richard Espinoza, he joins me to speak to about he complexities of modern dating, from ghosting to online matchmaking, and everything in between.

In this episode, we discuss why ghosting has become so prevalent, how attachment styles shape our approach to vulnerability, and why online dating can often feel like a rollercoaster. We also reflect on the importance of self-awareness when navigating relationships, and share tips on determining your readiness for dating.

Richard “Dr. E” Espinoza, PsyD, is a leading clinical psychologist based in Los Angeles, specializing in trauma and resilience. His practice emphasizes serving the LGBTQ+ community and its allies, striving to empower individuals from diverse backgrounds through comprehensive psychological assessments, transformative talk therapy, and dedicated activism. As an esteemed professor and captivating speaker, Dr. Espinoza shares practical insights on self-discovery and personal growth. He also creates accessible self-help resources, designed to inspire personal transformation and a deeper sense of fulfillment.

In this episode, you will hear:

The Prevalence Of Ghosting And Its Psychological Impact
How Attachment Styles Affect Vulnerability In Dating
Why Many People Struggle To Build Lasting Connections Online
Tips For Assessing Your Readiness For A Relationship
The Importance Of Open Conversations About Sex Early In Dating
Addressing Misconceptions About Open Relationships
Why Matchmaking Services Can Be Helpful But Have Mixed Results
The Value Of In-Person Events For Building Genuine Connections
How Cultural And Personal Values Shape Relationship Expectations
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EP422 - Bad Sex: Why Are Successful Women Having It Jan 21, 2025

Welcome to Episode 422 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome back my good friend Veronica Cisneros, who joins me to speak to about how evolving gender roles are influencing relationships and intimacy, particularly in cases where women take on the role of primary breadwinners.

Veronica sheds light on the ripple effects these changes can have - how they may foster feelings of resentment, diminish intimacy, and lead to relational obstacles like stonewalling. This discussion highlights the value of self-awareness, honest dialogue, and healing from past emotional wounds to nurture a deeper, more fulfilling connection with partners.

Listeners also learn about EmpowerX, Veronica’s program designed to help women strike a harmonious balance between career success and personal happiness. Sexology Podcast listeners can use code: THANKYOU100 and save $100

In this episode, you will hear:

· The Impact Of Shifting Gender Roles On Relationships

· Navigating Masculine Energy And Intimacy Challenges

· Resentment And Its Role In Relationship Disconnect

· How Financial Power Dynamics Affect Libido

· Addressing Stonewalling And Communication Barriers

· Reclaiming Desire Through Self-Reflection

· Balancing Professional Success And Personal Fulfilment

· EmpowerX: A Blueprint For High-Achieving Women

· Healing Past Pains To Foster Emotional Connection

· Rediscovering Pleasure And Intimacy In Relationships

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EP421 - Train Your Vagina: Gymnastics, Milking and Fluttering Jan 14, 2025

Welcome to Episode 421 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Bel Di Lorenzo, who speaks to me about the practice of pompoir, also known as vaginal gymnastics. Bel shares her journey into discovering and mastering this ancient technique, which involves gaining control over the vaginal muscles to enhance sexual pleasure and health.

Bel Di Lorenzo is a women’s sexual health advocate, and the author of the bestselling book, The Gohddess Method. Her science-based approach is designed to help women master “vaginal gymnastics”: pelvic floor muscle exercises that enhance female pleasure and amplify orgasms.

Their mission is to help women all over the world understand and master their bodies to enhance their well-being, pleasure, and overall lives. They are obsessed with self actualization, and want to push research to better investigates how the female anatomy can thrive. As sex nerds they have been teaching hundreds of thousands of women the art of Vaginal Gymnastics through a practical, science-backed approach.

In this episode, you will hear:

· The Origins And Cultural Significance Of Pompoir

· Transforming Sexual Health With Vaginal Gymnastics

· Breaking Down The Science Behind Pompoir

· Overcoming Sexual Trauma And Building Confidence

· Practical Exercises For Pelvic Floor Mastery

· Enhancing Relationships Through Intimacy And Control

· From Beginners To Experts: Tailored Training Programs

· Combining Fitness Principles With Sexual Empowerment

· Historical Legends Of Sexual Dexterity And Power

· Unlocking New Levels Of Feminine Sensuality

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EP420 - Exploring Sexual Intimacy: Preferences, Desires and Fantasies Jan 07, 2025

Welcome to Episode 420 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome a returning guest, Dr. Alison Ash who speaks to me about the fascinating realm of sexual fantasies, preferences, and the art of open communication with partners. Dr. Aly offers practical tools and exercises to help you uncover your deepest desires and navigate the delicate process of sharing these fantasies.

Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she understands the complex societal challenges that lead to unsatisfying and disempowering intimate experiences.

She has pioneered research on the orgasm gap, heterosexual dynamics, and queer and trans experiences. She has extensive training in Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, and Somatica Method. Dr. Aly designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers coaching to support her clients to cultivate and sustain nourishing emotional and sexual intimacy.

In this episode, you will hear:

● How Common Fantasies Include Bdsm, Group Play, and Taboo Themes

● Guilt Around Fantasies is Normal; Understanding Emotions Helps

● Communicating Fantasies Requires Empathy and No-pressure Framing

● Saying “No” Strengthens Trust and Intimacy in Relationships

● Roleplay and Erotica Are Safe Ways to Explore Desires

● Creativity in Fantasies Can Be Expanded Through Journaling

● Respecting Boundaries Prevents Resentment and Deepens Connection

● Why Desire Discrepancy Requires Open, Pressure-free Dialogue

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EP419 - Expert Insights: Avoid These Top Mistakes in Your Sex Life Dec 31, 2024

Welcome to Episode 419 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a special New Year's Episode, where I’m excited to be joined by six experts to uncover the most common mistake people make in their sex lives.

We’ll explore strategies for achieving a more exciting and passionate sex life, as well as sharing personal advice, emphasizing the importance of seeking help early for sexual concerns and the availability of various resources to improve sexual health.

The episode will feature insights from Dr. Stephanie Buehler, a psychologist and sex therapist whose current focus is on helping therapists and healthcare providers get the education and training they need to help clients with sexual concerns.

Raven O'Rourke, LCSW, MPH, a certified sex therapist working with high-achieving professionals in Tennessee. Lorean "L" Cassidy, a recent graduated with a Master's degree in Sexology and has been working as a sexual health educator in New York City for three years.

Mallory Hanfling, LCSW, a sex therapist in Philadelphia specializing in work with the late-in-life or firefly community. Dr. Evan Goldstein, Founder & CEO of Bespoke Surgical and the Co-Founder of Future Method and Adam Fields, M.A., LMFT, CST, an AASECT certified sex therapist, specializing in treating desire problems, couples affected by infidelity, compulsive sexual behavior, erectile difficulties and a myriad of other sexual issues.

In this episode, you will hear:

· How Unrealistic Expectations and Silence Hinder Sexual Satisfaction

· Why Communication is Key to Resolving Sexual Issues

· Seeking Help Early to Address Sexual Challenges

· Avoid Comparing Sex Lives to Media or Others

· How Planned Intimacy Strengthens Long-term Relationships

· Why Sex is About Connection, Not Just Orgasm

· Defining Your Own Sexual Norms and Preferences

· Understanding That Gradual Preparation is Crucial for Safe Anal Sex

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EP418 - The Hottest Sex Positions: Unlock Your Best Erotic Self Dec 24, 2024

Welcome to Episode 418 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Keeley Rankin, a returning guest, to talk about sexual positions and how exploring them can enhance intimacy and pleasure. Keeley shares practical insights from her new course, “Sex Class,” designed to help people connect more deeply with themselves and their partners.

Keely Rankin, a leading sex and relationship coach based in San Francisco, has been helping men, women, and couples overcome intimacy challenges and achieve fulfilling sexual experiences since 2010. She holds a master’s degree in Counseling Psychology with a focus on marriage and family therapy from John F. Kennedy University. Keely is the co-founder of BetterSexEd.org and the co-creator of Sex as Meditation, an innovative workshop series that integrates mindfulness with sexuality.

Her credentials include being a Certified Somatica Method Practitioner (a relational and experiential body-based therapy), Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Certified Queer Conscious Educator, and training in Hakomi Therapy, a somatic and mindfulness-based method. She is also trained in Recreation of the Self, a system designed to help individuals live authentically and maintain deep, undivided relationships.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Practical Tips For Choosing Positions

· Common Mistakes Couples Make

· Building Confidence In The Bedroom

· Adapting Positions For All Body Types

· Communicating Effectively With Your Partner

· Managing Premature Ejaculation

· Addressing Delayed Orgasm

· Adding Playfulness To Intimacy

· Tools Like Swings And Wedge Pillows

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EP417 - Come Play with Me: How to Sext Like an Expert Dec 17, 2024

Welcome to Episode 417 of the Sexology Podcast! In this episode, I'm excited to be joined by Dr. Debby Herbenick, who speaks to me about sexting, its role in sexual development, and how we can navigate this topic with care and understanding.

Dr. Debby Herbenick is an internationally recognized sexual and reproductive health professor, researcher, and educator.

She is a Provost Professor at the Indiana University School of Public Health and director of the Center for Sexual Health Promotion.For more than 20 years, she has dedicated her efforts to understanding how people experience their bodies and sexual lives.

Among her 200+ peer-reviewed scientific publications, she has published on population-level sexual health issues (including Zika knowledge and adolescent/young adult sexuality education), college sexual health, and changing sexual behavior trends. Dr. Herbenick has also developed and validated measurement scales to assess genital self-image (which can be thought of as how people feel about their genitals and is relevant to people’s willingness to seek healthcare) as well as sexual pleasure.

In this episode, you will hear:

● Sexting As Part Of Adolescent Development

● State Laws And Legal Risks Of Sexting

● Educating Teens To Reduce Risky Behaviors

● Open Communication Between Parents And Teens

● Sexting Risks And Practices For Adults

● Privacy Protection And Harm Reduction Tips

● AI-Generated Nudes And Their Impact

● Trusted Adults To Support Teens’ Education

● Dr. Herbenick’s New Book On Teen Sexual Health

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EP416 - The Vagina Business: Closing the Orgasm Gap Dec 10, 2024

Welcome to Episode 416 of the Sexology Podcast! In this episode, I had the pleasure of speaking to Dr. Marina Gerner to discuss her fascinating book on femtech - short for female technology. Together, we explored some groundbreaking innovations in women's health tech, such as smart bras designed for heart monitoring and devices aimed at preventing birth injuries.

Dr. Gerner shared the challenges that femtech continues to face, including biases in funding and the persistent societal taboos surrounding women's health. Our conversation highlighted just how critical this technology is for advancing women’s health, while also emphasizing the need for increased visibility and investment in this space.

Marina Gerner is an award-winning journalist who has written about finance, tech and culture for publications including The Economist, Financial Times, Wired, The Times, Wall Street Journal, and more. Hailed as "a Renaissance woman of the modern age," she brings a unique interdisciplinary perspective. Marina is also an Adjunct Professor at NYU Stern School of Business and holds a PhD from the London School of Economics. Born in Kyiv, she has lived in Frankfurt, New York, and London.

In this episode, you will hear:

● A Quick Overview of Her Book on Femtech

● The Systemic Biases Against Female Health Products

● Innovations Like the Smart Bra for Heart Health

● The Challenges Facing Female Health Innovators

● Why Sexual Pleasure is a Vital Part of Health

● Underfunded Areas Like Pregnancy Loss and Incontinence

● Breaking Through Taboos in Women’s Health

● Social Media Censorship Challenges for Female Health Products

● Exciting Future Trends in Sex Tech

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EP415 - The Lives of Sex Working Parents Dec 03, 2024

Welcome to Episode 415 of the Sexology Podcast! I’m thrilled to be joined by Alyssa Brayboy, an incredibly talented independent filmmaker and sex worker. In this episode, she talks about her beginnings in Virginia to her life in Los Angeles, sharing her unique journey of navigating the entertainment world while embracing sex work as a way to support her artistic passions.

Our conversation looks into the misconceptions surrounding sex work, the complexities of juggling multiple roles, and how sex work has profoundly shaped Alyssa's perspective. Alyssa also opens up about her documentary, A Sex Worker's Guide to Parenting, which shines a light on the specific struggles sex-working parents face, including navigating co-parenting, legal hurdles, and finding community support.

Alyssa Brayboy is an independent filmmaker and the Co-Founder and President of Buttons, a Black and Latina female-owned production company that focuses on amplifying underrepresented and diverse voices in front of, and behind the camera. Alyssa has been an independent full service escort for 6 years and is a member of Sex Workers Outreach Project Los Angeles (SWOPLA).

In this episode, you will hear:

· Alyssa's Background and Journey to Filmmaking

· Starting a Production Company

· Diving into Sex Work

· First Experiences in Sex Work

· Challenges and Realizations

· Public Perception and Stigma

· Outing and Personal Safety

· The Sex Worker's Guide to Parenting

· Future of Sex Work Rights and Representation

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EP414 - Not Your Average Sex Worker: Myths & Facts Nov 26, 2024

Welcome to Episode 414 of the Sexology Podcast! I’m thrilled to be joined by Amy Taylor, who speaks about her fascinating and multifaceted career, including her experiences in sex work.

In this conversation we touched on her decision to enter the industry, the autonomy and financial independence it brought her, and the profound challenges she faced—such as the trauma of being outed by a pimp. Together, we explored the pervasive stigma surrounding sex work and the misconceptions that often obscure the humanity and depth of individuals in the industry. Amy’s story is one of resilience, personal growth, and a commitment to advocacy, which made this dialogue incredibly meaningful.

Amy Taylor is an MBA, MENSA member, commercially licensed pilot who’s flown cargo, charter and been a flight instructor. She’s been featured on and inside Elle, L’Officiel, Sports Illustrated, GQ, FHM, Maxim, Muscle & Fitness, Men’s Health, Women’s Fitness, and Playboy. Now in her 40s, she’s just getting started! When she’s not in the skies or in front of a camera, you can find her staying fit, having fun with family and friends, and generally just enjoying this gift called life, in Manhattan or wherever life takes her.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Amy's Path to Sex Work

· Combating Stigma and Advocating for Change

· Navigating Personal Struggles and Legal Issues

· Thoughts on Legalization and Society’s Role

· Exploring the Dehumanization of Women

· Breaking the Stigma Around Sexuality

· The Nuances of Client Relationships

· Personal Insights and Reflections

· Advocacy and Humanizing Sex Workers

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EP413 - Sex Worker’s Rights: From Oppression to Opportunity Nov 19, 2024

Welcome to Episode 413 of the Sexology Podcast! I’m thrilled to be joined by Soleil Merroir a certified sex therapist, supervisor, and sex worker, who brings a rare perspective on the intersection of therapy and sex work. Soleil opens up about her journey from a strict upbringing in a fundamentalist Christian cult to becoming a clinical social worker who integrates her professional identities as both a therapist and sex worker. This unique blend of experiences informs her work and advocacy for sex worker rights and mental health care improvements.

Angie/ Soleil (she/ they) is a licensed clinical social worker, AASECT certified sex therapist and supervisor, group facilitator, and sex worker. While their sex therapy and sex work clientele never overlap, a similar wealth of psychological, emotional and erotic knowledge integrates into every aspect of their work.

Soleil strives to combine technology and sexuality efficiently and creatively, including sex tech and VR/ XR intersections, as well as digital teaching, client and play offerings. In addition to sexuality, they are a new mom, and love art, music, dance, nature, cultural exploration and learning Spanish.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Soleil Miroir's Background and Journey

· Understanding Sex Work and Its Diversity

· Personal Experiences and Empowerment in Sex Work

· Navigating Dual Identities

· Challenges and Misconceptions in Therapy

· Systemic Oppression and Its Impact

· Equitable Care Certification

· Supporting Sex Workers and Advocacy

· Creating Equitable Care Certification

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EP412 - What You Don’t Know: Women, Sex, Power, and Pleasure Nov 12, 2024

Welcome to Episode 412 of the Sexology Podcast! I’m thrilled to have Suzannah Weiss with us today as we delve into her powerful new book, Subjectified. In this episode, we explore the book’s central themes, focusing on empowering women to reclaim their sexuality and self-determination. Suzannah also shares her personal journey of healing from an eating disorder, a struggle intricately linked to societal pressures around sexualization.

Suzannah Weiss is a writer and sexologist based in Los Angeles. She is the author of Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject, which describes her search for sexual empowerment and her vision for a world where women are subjects, not just objects, of desire. She has written over 8800 articles, which have appeared in publications such as The New York Times and The Washington Post.

As a sex educator certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, Suzannah has taught courses and given talks on topics including consent, orgasms, childbirth, non-monogamy, and neurodiversity. She is regularly quoted as an expert in publications like Cosmopolitan and Men's Health as resident sexologist for Biird and also works as a sex/love coach, birth doula, and sexual assault counselor.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Reflecting on ‘Subjectified’: A Discussion on Body and Identity

· How Societal Standards Influence Self-Perception and Self-Worth

· Reconnecting With and Celebrating the Body

· Examining the Male Gaze and Its Effect on Women’s Body Image

· Healing Through Self-Acceptance and Embracing Body Positivity

· Challenging and Redefining Harmful Beauty Norms

· Navigating Media’s Role in Shaping Self-Perception

· Embracing Authenticity in Personal Appearance Choices

· Advice for Nurturing Personal Sexual Empowerment

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EP411 - Hidden In Plain Sight: Men’s Fears With Women Nov 05, 2024

Welcome to Episode 411 of the Sexology Podcast! I’m excited to have Dr. Avrum Weiss joining us today. Dr. Weiss is a psychologist, author, and speaker, known for his work on men's emotional experiences and fears in relationships, and his latest book, Hidden In Plain Sight: How Men’s Fears of Women Shape Their Intimate Relationships.

In this episode, we explore the complex and often misunderstood fears that heterosexual men experience in relationships, especially when it comes to showing vulnerability. Drawing from his background as a psychotherapist, Dr. Weiss shares how deeply these fears are rooted in early life and shaped by societal messages about masculinity.

We discuss everything from evolutionary influences and the role of early maternal attachment to the cultural pressures men face. Dr. Weiss offers practical strategies, including the value of men’s groups, to help foster emotional openness. We also look at how understanding these fears can create more empathy between partners and lead to stronger, more resilient relationships.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Insights From Dr. Weiss's Book

· The Roots of Men’s Fears in Relationships

· A Look at the Still Face Experiment

· Evolutionary Views on Male Vulnerability

· Concerns About Control and Abandonment

· How Masculinity is Culturally Reinforced

· Therapeutic Approaches and Support Groups

· Why Taking Risks and Embracing Vulnerability Matters

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EP410 - Get Hard Again: Everything You Need to Know Oct 29, 2024

Welcome to Episode 410 of the Sexology Podcast! I’m thrilled to be joined today by Dr. Elliot Justin, Founder and CEO of FirmTech. In this conversation, we explore Dr. Justin’s inspiring journey - from launching FirmTech to developing innovative, sophisticated solutions for men’s sexual health. We’ll also explore the creation of his breakthrough product, a cutting-edge and remarkably comfortable cock ring designed to support both function and comfort.

Dr. Justin is an Emergency Medicine (EM) specialist and healthcare technology consultant in erectile neuromodulation, cardiovascular disease, and diabetes. He spent 25 years practicing EM and directing ERs. In 2004, he started the second oldest telemedicine company, SwiftMD.

In 2008, he established Pegasus Emergency Group, an EM company that staffed more than 30 ERs nationwide and won awards for its customer service. Dr. Justin has founded six healthcare companies and exited four of them, as well advising as several service, telemedicine, and tech startups.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Innovative Approaches to Men’s Sexual Health

· The Benefits of Regular Sexual Activity

· Navigating Challenges in Sexual Health Conversations

· Addressing Ejaculation Concerns

· Impact of Medications and Illness on Sexual Health

· Cock Rings: Uses and Benefits

· Objective Measurements for Men's Health

· Counseling’s Role in Sexual Health

· Managing Performance Anxiety and Relationship Issues

· Adding Variety to Sexual Experiences

· Addressing Erectile Dysfunction Over 50

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EP409 - Sperm Health: Male Fertility Facts Oct 22, 2024

Welcome to episode 409 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Gabriela Rosa. In this conversation, we discuss the often-overlooked issue of male fertility, highlighting the need for comprehensive diagnostic approaches and lifestyle changes.

Gabriela Rosa is a fertility specialist, reproductive health educator, and Harvard University-awarded scholar and an accomplished and experienced business leader and entrepreneur. Gabriela created the world’s first entirely virtual and holistic fertility clinic. As the founder and CEO of The Rosa Institute, which currently serves patients in every continent (other than Antarctica), Gabriela leads a team of holistic specialists.

Her treatment methodology has become an authority in its industry for identifying and addressing biochemical obstacles that guide couples in overcoming infertility and recurrent miscarriage, despite previous reproductive difficulties and failed treatments. Through various programs, Gabriela and her team have educated over 140,000 couples in more than 110 countries. She is also the host of the TalkSex with Gabriela RosaTM podcast.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Personal Fertility Journey

· Challenges in Male Fertility

· Systemic Issues in Fertility Treatments

· Importance of Comprehensive Testing

· Personal Experiences and Insights

· Male Fertility: Key Factors and Recommendations

· Case Studies and Success Stories

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EP408 - From Humility to Humor: One Man’s Testicular Cancer Journey Oct 15, 2024

Welcome to episode 408 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Justin Birckbichler. In this conversation, we discuss his personal journey with testicular cancer. Justin shares the importance of self-examination, recounts his diagnosis at 25, and the subsequent emotional and physical challenges.

Justin Birckbichler is the Director of Project Management at Savvy Cooperative, an innovative healthcare platform that connects patients with healthcare companies to provide valuable insights and feedback. In this role, Justin oversees the planning, implementation, and tracking of multiple projects that aim to empower patients to share their experiences and knowledge with the healthcare industry.

As a survivor of testicular cancer, he started the blog "A Ballsy Sense of Tumor" to share his story and raise awareness about men’s health issues. He has further spread his message by performing a TEDx talk on the importance of early detection of testicular cancer. Outside of the health field, Justin enjoys spending time with his family, traveling, and cooking.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Discovering Testicular Cancer

· Diagnosis and Immediate Actions

· Emotional Impact and Coping Mechanisms

· Prevalence and Awareness of Testicular Cancer

· Fertility Concerns and Solutions

· Using Humor to Cope

· Encouraging Men to Prioritize Health

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EP407 - Delayed Orgasms: Reaching Sexual Satisfaction Oct 08, 2024

Welcome to episode 407 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Justin Houman. In this conversation, we discuss the often overlooked issue of delayed orgasm in men. Dr. Houman explains the primary causes, including aging, erectile dysfunction, and mental factors, and provides insights into the differentiation between physiological and psychological issues.

Dr. Justin Houman is a urologist and fellowship-trained Male Reproductive Medicine and Surgery specialist, whose practice is focused on men’s health, include male hormone management, sexual and ejaculatory dysfunction, male fertility, male incontinence, and Peyronie’s disease. As a minimally-invasive microscopic surgeon, he specializes in microsurgical varicocelectomies, vasectomy reversals, sperm retrievals, penile implants, Peyronie’s disease, and male incontinence. Dr. Houman’s practice is centered on enhancing men’s quality of life through hormone management, improving sexual function, and achieving reproductive goals.

In his academic pursuits, Dr. Houman has published multiple manuscripts on Men’s Health, male fertility, and the health effects of wearable technology.

Dr. Houman’s studies have been published in peer-reviewed journals such as the Journal of the American Medical Association and the Journal of Sexual Medicine. He has also presented his research at the national and international levels.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding Delayed Orgasm

· Causes of Delayed Orgasm

· Penile Sensitivity and Aging

· Psychological vs. Physiological Factors

· Impact of Medications

· Alternative Therapies and Placebo Effect

· Emerging Treatments and Techniques

· Addressing Sexual Health Concerns

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EP406 - Unspoken Issues: Male Adult Entertainers Oct 01, 2024

Welcome to episode 406 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Justin Dubin, MD. In this conversation, we discuss the prevalence of erectile dysfunction among both the general male population and male porn stars, findings from Dr. Dubin's research studies, and the unrealistic expectations set by the porn industry.

Dr. Justin Dubin is a Urologist who specializes in Men's Health at Memorial Healthcare System in South Florida. Justin grew up in Wayne, NJ and graduated from Johns Hopkins University in 2010 with a BA in Biology and Minor in Entrepreneurship and Management. He then attended Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson Medical School which he graduated from in 2016.

Dr. Dubin completed his training in Urology at the University of Miami in 2021 and his Andrology fellowship at Northwestern University in 2022. Dr. Dubin is passionate about men’s health and education with the goal of improving both the lives of men and their partners.

He has published multiple papers on both male infertility and sexual health, has been quoted in the NY Times, Insider, GQ and Men’s Health and is the current co-host of the men’s health podcast Man Up: A Doctor’s Guide to Men’s Health through which he hopes to destigmatize men's health topics and motivate men to improve their overall lives.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Dr. Justin Dubin's Background and Research

· Understanding Erectile Dysfunction

· Factors Contributing to Erectile Dysfunction

· Porn Stars and Erectile Dysfunction

· Addressing Erectile Dysfunction with Medication

· Penile Size and Cosmetic Enhancements

· Female Sexual Dysfunction in Adult Entertainment

· Penile Size and Sexual Satisfaction

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EP405 - Male Sexual Health: Codes of Longevity Sep 24, 2024

Welcome to episode 405 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Tracy Gapin, a board-certified urologist and founder of the Gapin Institute. In this discussion, we’re exploring the core habits men can build to support their sexual health, while also recognizing how closely it's linked to overall well-being. We’re focusing on key elements like gut health, regulating blood sugar, balancing hormones, and managing stress—all of which are essential for maintaining sexual vitality.

Tracy Gapin, MD is the founder and CEO of the Gapin Institute, the Leader in Precision Medicine. He’s a board-certified urologist and world renowned men’s health & performance expert with over 25 years of experience focused on men’s health optimization, performance and longevity. Recognizing our traditional healthcare system is broken, he created the proprietary Gapin Precision Method and G1 Program for High Performance Health, designed to help entrepreneurs optimize their mind and body so they can be the best version of themselves.

He’s a member of the American Academy of Anti-Aging, Age Management Medical Group, and the International Peptide Society. He’s a thought leader, a TEDx speaker, and the author of the best-selling books Male 2.0 and Codes of Longevity. He’s been featured on NBC, Entrepreneur Magazine, and Dave Asprey’s Biohacking Conference.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Foundational Habits for Male Sexual Health

· Understanding Sexual Health Beyond the Physical

· The Importance of Vascular Health

· Hormones and Sexual Performance

· The Role of Cortisol and Stress

· Diet and Nutrition for Sexual Health

· Blood Sugar Regulation: Carbs and Protein

· Hydration and Blood Sugar's Impact on Sexual Health

· Fasting: Benefits and Best Practices

· The Truth About Ozempic and Weight Loss

· Early Signs of Sexual Health Issues in Men

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EP404 - Guess What We Discovered: Understanding the Penis Sep 17, 2024

Welcome to episode 404 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Daniel Watter. In this conversation, we discuss his insightful book: “The Existential Importance of the Penis: A Guide to Understanding Male Sexuality”. Dr. Watter explains how childhood trauma can influence sexual dysfunction, why men might experience erectile unpredictability in deepening relationships, and how existential crises can lead men to seek a functioning penis at great lengths.

Dr. Watter is an AASECT-certified sex therapy supervisor and has been elected to Fellowship Status in the International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health (ISSWSH) and the Sexual Medicine Society of North America (SMSNA). In addition to his clinical practice, Dr. Watter has held several faculty appointments. Currently, he is a faculty member at the University of Michigan School of Social Work’s Sexual Certification Program and the Modern Sex Therapy Institutes.

A frequent lecturer at professional meetings throughout North America, Dr. Watter is the author of more than 30 professional articles and book chapters on topics such as sexual function and dysfunction, and ethics in healthcare practice. He is the author of the recently released book, “The Existential Importance of the Penis: A Guide to Understanding Male Sexuality”.

In this episode, you will hear:

● Understanding Male Sexual Communication

● War Veterans and the Existential Crisis of Losing the Penis

● Medical Interventions and Psychological Impacts

● The Deepening Relationship and Erectile Unpredictability

● Existential Psychotherapy and Sexual Addiction

● Sexual Addiction and Existential Psychotherapy

● Confrontation with Mortality and Sexual Behavior

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EP403 - Play Well with Others: Kink for the Curious Sep 10, 2024

Welcome to episode 403 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Jean Franzblau.In this conversation, we discuss the meaning of kink, sexual shame, and the misrepresentation of kinky behaviors in media. They also discuss the importance of consent, safe words, and the impact of cultural norms on sexual expression.

As an Intimacy Coordinator for TV and film, Jean Franzblau helps actors perform sexy scenes with respect and care. This year she made a decision to disclose her private backstory. She is the writer and performer of My Mother Doesn't Know I'm Kinky.

It's an award-winning solo play which is now on tour. Passionate to share what she has learned, she created the Sexual Bucket List online class. You can find Jean featured in Rolling Stone and as a guest expert on Keeping Up with the Kardashians.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding Kink and Its Cultural Context

· Media Representation of Kink

· Personal Experiences and Reflections on Kink

· Sexual Shame and Healing

· Discovering Kinks and Early Memories

· Communicating Desires in Relationships

· Tools for Safe Exploration of Kinks

· Understanding Slow Healing Kink

· Resources and Tools for Exploring Kink

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EP402 - Just The Tip: Women In Control Sep 03, 2024

Welcome to episode 402 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with a professional dominatrix and author - Tina Horn. In this conversation, we discuss her book, Why Are People Into That?: A Cultural Investigation of Kink, the evolution of Internet platforms for sex workers, and the politics surrounding sex work and bodily autonomy.

Tina Horn is a writer, educatrix, and media-maker. Her book of fetish cultural criticism based on her long-running indie podcast Why Are People Into That?! will be out in June 2024 from Hachette.

Tina is the creator/writer of the sci-fi sex-rebel comic book series Safe Sex (Image), and the cult detective thriller Deprog; she was also the host/cowriter of the phone sex podcast Operator (Wondery). Her reporting on sexual subcultures has appeared in Rolling Stone, Playboy, Hazlitt, Glamour, Jezebel and elsewhere; she is the author of two nonfiction books and has contributed to numerous anthologies including We Too: Essays on Sex Work and Survival, which she also coedited.

Tina has lectured on adult entertainment politics and queer BDSM identities at universities and community centers all over North America, and works as an on-set consultant for theater, film, and television including the dominatrix scenes of Pose. She is a LAMBDA Literary Fellow, an AVN nominee, the recipient of two Feminist Porn Awards, and holds an MFA in Creative Nonfiction Writing from Sarah Lawrence.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding Anal Sex Myths

· Anatomy and Safe Practices

· Exploring Anal Play

· Fisting and Safety

· Diet and Hygiene for Anal Health

· Hemorrhoids and Anal Sex

· Anal Orgasms and Prostate Stimulation

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EP401 - A Little Behind: Exploring Anal Play and Pleasure Aug 27, 2024

EP401 - A Little Behind: Exploring Anal Play and Pleasure

Welcome to episode 401 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Evan Goldstein. In this conversation, we discuss his new comprehensive book on anal sex ‘Butt Seriously’, safe practices for anal engagement, the impact of diet on anal health, and the exploration of anal orgasms.

Dr. Evan Goldstein is the leading anal health expert in the United States, founder of Future Method, and one of the few surgeons in the world whose practice, Bespoke Surgical, is dedicated to treating and restoring the human butt. He holds a perennial spot on the list of top doctors for the New York metro area, and Crain’s New York Business lists him as one of its notable LGBTQ+ leaders and executives.

He has been featured in national publications including GQ, Well+Good, Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, New York Magazine, Forbes, Fast Company, Out, and Shape; is a popular podcast guest; and in demand as a speaker for both medical and sex-positive industries.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding Anal Sex Myths

· Anatomy and Safe Practices

· Exploring Anal Play

· Fisting and Safety

· Diet and Hygiene for Anal Health

· Hemorrhoids and Anal Sex

· Anal Orgasms and Prostate Stimulation

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EP400 - Sex Connection: Passion and Presence Aug 20, 2024

Welcome to episode 400 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm thrilled to be speaking with Susan Morgan Taylor. In our conversation, we delve into the sexual polarity that draws partners together, highlighting the significance of embodying and shifting between masculine and feminine energies. We also explore ways for couples to reconnect, focusing on the importance of conscious intimacy practices and effective communication, including the idea of 'sacred dialogue'.

Susan Morgan Taylor graduated from UC Santa Barbara in 1998 and soon after became a licensed massage therapist. However, her true calling lay elsewhere. In 2008, she began formal training in alternative energy healing and the intuitive arts, leading her to a new path as a spiritual teacher, somatic sex therapist, and intuitive healer. Susan's journey was filled with challenges, mistakes, and growth. Her friend and mentor, Teresa Tingle, played a crucial role in her development, providing guidance that went beyond classroom learning. By 2008, Susan was working professionally as a medical intuitive and spiritual guide.

In 2011, Susan earned a master’s degree in Professional Counseling and pursued sex therapy, building a successful practice in Austin, TX. After ten years, she transitioned to focus solely on intimacy and somatic sex coaching for couples and individuals, continuing her dedication to healing and personal growth.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding the Loss of Sexual Charge

· Reviving Sexual Polarity

· Embodied Intimacy Practices

· Creating Space for Passion

· The Dance of Desire and Communication

· Clarifying Sexual Intentions

· Navigating Oral Sex Preferences

· Blowjob Tips for Enjoyment

· Cultivating Self-Pleasure

· Reigniting Passion in Relationships

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EP399 - The Love Prescription: Intimacy for Your Heart & Body Aug 13, 2024

Welcome to episode 399 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Veronica Cisneros. In this conversation, we explore personal anecdotes from both our marriages, looking at the dynamics of long-term relationships, and share tips for maintaining a strong, passionate connection.

Veronica Cisneros is a licensed marriage and family therapist with over seven years of experience. She is also the owner of a group private practice, a mother of three, and has been married for 21 years. Veronica specializes in helping housewives transform their marriages, communicate effectively, and build confidence. She understands the challenges of cutting through communication barriers, having experienced them herself. Despite having what seemed like an ideal life, she and her husband felt disconnected, with conversations often revolving around avoidance, kids' hobbies, and schedules.

In her private practice, Veronica has assisted numerous couples facing similar struggles. Her proven strategies and step-by-step skills have helped hundreds of women reignite their marriages. Known for encouraging women to step outside their comfort zones, Veronica does not offer superficial solutions. Instead, she teaches life-changing healing methods.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Veronica's Love Story: Meeting Willie

· Maintaining the Spark in Marriage

· Navigating Resentment and Roles in Marriage

· Personal Growth Amidst Challenges

· Curiosity and Relationship Agreements

· Defining Cheating in Relationships

· Navigating Fidelity Conversations

· Understanding Family Scripts

· Setting Boundaries and Communication

· Self-Discovery and Independence

· Feeling Sexy and Confident

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EP398 - Sexual Grief: Trauma, Loss & Heartbreak Aug 06, 2024

Welcome to episode 398 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Edy Nathan. In this conversation, we explore the idea of sexual grief. Edy explains how this term is tied to the traumatic events that can shape one's sexual identity and desire. Drawing from her clinical experience, Edy provides a thorough look at how sexual grief appears and impacts people.

Edy Nathan is a licensed clinical social worker in private practice in New York City. Edy’s work focuses on topics surrounding the tough conversations people don’t like to have — grief, sex, and trauma. Her work in grief, trauma, and sexuality offers insight into the way loss affects the soul and the brain. She uses these insights to breathe new meaning into the lives of those stagnated by loss or trauma.

Edy has master’s degrees in psychology, drama, and social work, and post-graduate work in sex therapy and sex education. She is a Certified Sex Therapist, certified Hypnotherapist, EMDR clinician, drama therapist, Psychology Today blogger, motivational speaker, and workshop leader. Edy is the author of “It’s Grief: The Dance of Self-Discovery through Trauma and Loss.”

In this episode, you will hear:

· Edy's Journey to Discussing Sexual Grief

· Defining Sexual Grief

· Identity and Sexual Trauma

· Developmental Sexual Grief

· Sexual Grief and Trauma

· Clinical Responses

· First Sexual Experiences

· Hostage Situation in Grief

· Curiosity and Exploration

· Conservative Backgrounds and Shame

· Recovering from Sexual Grief

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EP397 - Navigating Libido Differences: The Highly Sensitive Partner Jul 30, 2024

Welcome to episode 397 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Irene Fehr. In this conversation, we discuss the various forms of sensitivity, including sensory, energetic, and emotional, and how these impact a person's daily life and intimate relationships.

Irene Fehr, MA, CCPC, SEP, Sex & Intimacy Coach helps couples make love and sex work in a long-term relationship and bring sex and passion into sexless ones. Weaving together somatic coaching, mindfulness, emotional communication work and experience around the intricate dynamics of women's sexual desire in a long-term relationship, Irene has developed and successfully applied her holistic Connection SexTM approach with couples who come to her as a last resort before divorce to turn their relationships around towards to include sexual intimacy and passion. Irene is no stranger to her clients’ issues.

Her personal story of losing her libido and ending up in a sexless marriage all by the time she was 29 has been featured worldwide in more than 40 podcast interviews and in articles in major publications such as HuffPost, Cosmopolitan, Refinery29, Bustle, EliteDaily, and ScaryMommy.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding Highly Sensitive Individuals

· Sensory Sensitivity Explained

· Energetic and Emotional Sensitivity

· Impact of Trauma on Sensitivity

· Recognizing a Highly Sensitive Partner

· Navigating Sensitivity in Relationships

· Pre-Sex Needs for Highly Sensitive People

· Couple Dynamics and Sensitivity

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EP 396 – Your Blueprint for Pleasure: Fantasy to Reality Jul 23, 2024

Welcome to episode 396 of the Sexology Podcast! In today's solo episode, we’re excited to delve into the fascinating world of sexual fantasies. We’ll be featuring insights from esteemed sex therapists and educators who will provide a deep understanding of this intriguing topic.

We'll explore various theories about where these fantasies come from, including Freud's theories on evolutionary psychology and the perspectives offered by social learning theories. These insights will help us understand the complex nature of our fantasies and their origins.

In addition, we’ll be sharing a wide range of sexual fantasies that have been submitted anonymously by our audience. Our goal is to reduce stigma and diminish feelings of shame surrounding these experiences, offering a safe space for open and honest discussion.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Exploring Sexual Fantasies

· Freud: The Way Fantasies Reveal Childhood Desires

· Evolutionary Psychology: Fantasies and Reproductive Success

· Social Learning: How Our Environment Shapes Fantasies

· Integrative Approach: Combining Psychological Theories

· Common Fantasies: Group Sex and Taboo Themes

· How Cultural Backgrounds Shape Fantasies

· Normalizing Fantasies for Self-Acceptance

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EP395 - Hello Down There: Your Pelvic Floor Health Jul 16, 2024

Welcome to episode 395 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Amanda Olson. In this conversation, we discuss the importance of pelvic floor health and its impact on sexual health, the functions of pelvic floor muscles and the role of specific products from her company, Intimate Rose, in addressing these issues.

Dr. Olson earned her Bachelor of Science degree from Pacific University, and a Doctorate Degree in Physical Therapy from Regis University, graduating as a member of the Jesuit National Honor Society. She holds a Certification of Achievement in pelvic floor physical therapy (CAPP-PF) from the American Physical Therapy Association, and the Pelvic Floor Practitioner Certification (PRPC) through the Herman and Wallace Pelvic Institute. She is also a certified Stott Pilates instructor and RRCA certified running coach.

She is the president and chief clinical officer of Intimate Rose where she develops pelvic health products and education. She is passionate about empowering women and men with pelvic health issues including pelvic pain, incontinence, pregnancy, and post-partum issues. Dr. Olson teaches internationally on various pelvic health topics including pelvic floor dysfunction in runners. She has written newspaper and magazine articles on pelvic floor dysfunction, and running and also authored the book Restoring the Pelvic Floor For Women.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Creating Tools for Pelvic Health

· Understanding Pelvic Floor Function

· Pelvic Floor Health Across Genders

· Impact of Aging on Pelvic Health

· Pelvic Floor Exercises and Techniques

· When to See a Pelvic Floor Therapist

· Tips for Maintaining Pelvic Health

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EP394 - Exploring the World of Swiping: Discover Your Online Love Tale Jul 09, 2024

Welcome to episode 394 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Richard Espinoza. In this conversation, we discuss the evolving landscape of online dating and its impact on modern relationships and societal views. Dr. Espinoza shares insights from his work with the LGBTQ+ community, the challenges and psychological impacts faced by individuals using dating apps, and the importance of effective communication and introspection in forming meaningful relationships.

Richard “Dr. E” Espinoza, PsyD, is a leading clinical psychologist based in Los Angeles, specializing in trauma and resilience. His practice emphasizes serving the LGBTQ+ community and its allies, striving to empower individuals from diverse backgrounds through comprehensive psychological assessments, transformative talk therapy, and dedicated activism.

As an esteemed professor and captivating speaker, Dr. Espinoza shares practical insights on self-discovery and personal growth. He also creates accessible self-help resources, designed to inspire personal transformation and a deeper sense of fulfillment.

In this episode, you will hear:

· The Evolution of Online Dating

· Psychological Challenges of Online Dating

· The Impact of Ghosting

· Safety Concerns in Online Dating

· Introspection and Self-Understanding

· Sexual Compatibility in Online Dating

· Alternatives to Online Dating

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EP393 - Re-framing Erotic Connections: Increasing Oral Pleasure and Joy Jul 02, 2024

Welcome to episode 393 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Charlotte Mia Rose and Chris Maxwell Rose from Pleasure Mechanics. In this conversation, we discuss their backgrounds in erotic massage and sexological bodywork, the importance of enthusiastic consent, overcoming hesitations related to body image and cultural conditioning, and specific techniques for improving oral sex experiences.

After pioneering the field of Sexological Bodywork, partners Chris Maxwell Rose and Charlotte Mia Rose co-created PleasureMechanics.com in 2006 and devoted their lives to generating online resources to support folks in cultivating more erotic pleasure, joy and connection.

Known for their passionate compassion and game-changing re-frames, Chris and Charlotte guide folks to expand their pleasure and erotic experiences through their erotic touch training and effective erotic education at PleasureMechanics.com. You'll also find their podcast Speaking of Sex with the Pleasure Mechanics on all platforms or at PleasureMechanics.com

In this episode, you will hear:

· The Origin Story of Pleasure Mechanics

· Understanding Oral Sex and the Arousal Gap

· The Importance of Erotic Massage

· Overcoming Shame and Hesitation

· Creating a Safe Space for Sexual Conversations

· The Power of Enthusiastic Consent

· Exploring Personal Preferences in Oral Sex

· Grounding Techniques for Better Oral Sex

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EP392 - Orgasms Matter: The Power of Pleasure Jun 25, 2024

Welcome to episode 392 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with August McLaughlin. In this conversation, we discuss the complexities and richness of orgasms, how societal myths influence sexual experiences, and the importance of sexual education. August shares her journey and insights on overcoming taboos around discussions of sex and pleasure. We also talk about accidental orgasms, sleepgasms, and the impact of mindset and fantasy on sexual experiences.

August McLaughlin is a journalist, author, sex educator and host/producer of the true story podcast, Girl Boner Radio, which was named “one of the best sex podcasts you should be listening to” by Romper and a top feminist podcast by Bellesa.

August's articles and expertise have been featured in a range of publications, including Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post, O: The Oprah Magazine and Shape. And her Girl Boner book, called a "refreshingly inclusive...welcome addition to sexual health literature" by Publisher's Weekly, is currently in its second printing.

In this episode, you will hear:

· The Importance of Orgasms

· Overcoming Orgasm Myths

· The Power of Fantasy and the Mind

· Exploring Different Types of Orgasms

· The Debate on Female Ejaculation

· Accidental Orgasms: Stories and Experiences

· Sleepgasms and Sexual Curiosity

· Erotic Audiobooks and Sexy Experiments

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EP391 - Intimacy Through Tantra: Discovering Your Deepest Desires Jun 18, 2024

Welcome to episode 391 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Magda Kay. In this conversation, we discuss the differences between sex and intimacy, the significance of mindfulness and energy work in Tantra, and Magda's experiences in tantric communities. Magda also emphasizes the importance of genuine connection and communication in relationships, alongside practical advice on incorporating tantric rituals into daily practice.

Magda Kay is an Intimacy Expert, Tantra Teacher & Conscious Relating Coach, author, and founder of the School of Intimacy. More than 10 years ago she quit her corporate job, and embarked on a journey that led her through ashrams, yoga training, Tantric communities, and ceremonies.

Through hours of daily devotion and practices into her deepest parts, facing the wounds and fears, and it also revealed her highest calling: to share and teach others how to access their deepest desires and ability to create transformative intimacy in their lives. Her work combines the gifts of the East and the West, a blend of Tantric and yogic philosophies with psychology and human behavior.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Magda's Journey to Tantric Teaching

· Overcoming Sexual Challenges

· Exploring Tantric Communities

· Intimacy vs. Sex

· Understanding Tantra

· Western Perception of Tantra

· Energy and Enlightenment

· Tantric Practices for Couples

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EP390 - Radical Honesty: Why Men & Women Cheat Jun 11, 2024

Welcome to episode 390 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Kirk Honda. In this conversation, we discuss the complex and often misunderstood topic of infidelity. Dr. Honda debunks several pervasive myths, such as 'it takes two to cheat,' 'once a cheater, always a cheater,' and gendered reasons for cheating. We also explore the notion of forgiveness, the multifaceted process of recovery, and the critical role of therapy for both the individual and the couple.

Dr. Kirk Honda, PsyD, LMFT, is the esteemed host of The Psychology in Seattle® podcast and YouTube channel. The mission of this platform is to enhance the world by delivering educational and engaging content focused on psychology, psychotherapy, and culture.

Established in 2008, the podcast and YouTube channel have expanded significantly, now boasting over 4,000 episodes, 350,000 YouTube subscribers, and thousands of paying members on Patreon and YouTube. Currently, we release approximately 12 episodes per week. Dr. Honda holds a Doctorate in Psychology and a Master’s in Marriage and Family Therapy. With a career spanning back to 1996 as a psychotherapist and 1998 as a professor, he brings extensive experience and insight to the show.

In this episode, you will hear:

● Common Myths About Cheating

● The Impact of Infidelity on Relationships

● How Patriarchy Historically Blames Women for Men's Infidelity

● Navigating the Aftermath of Cheating

● Factors Contributing to Infidelity

● Understanding that forgiveness is an intentional process

● The Complexities of Forgiveness

● Looking at Infidelity as an Opportunity to Strengthen Relationships

● Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity

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EP389 – Secretly Suffering: How to Reboot Your Sexless Relationship Jun 04, 2024

Welcome to episode 389 of the Sexology Podcast! I'm Dr. Nazanin Moali, and today I'll be delving into the crucial topic of sexless relationships, discussing their prevalence, effects, and solutions.

In this solo episode, I'll explore the significant impacts of a sexless relationship, the contributing factors, and potential solutions. I’ll also share perspectives from our viewers' experiences, explore the concept of asexuality, and emphasize the importance of communication and therapy.

Key highlights include feelings of resentment, lowered self-esteem, emotional and physical disconnection, and an increased risk of affairs and divorce. Additionally, I’ll provide practical advice and resources for seeking therapy and maintaining intimacy.

Be sure to check out my YouTube video; "The Top 10 Effects of a Sexless Relationship on Men" for more insights into this important issue.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Defining a Sexless Relationship

· Impact on Self-Esteem and Emotional Health

· Physical Health Consequences of a Sexless Relationship

· How to Overcome Emotional and Physical Disconnection

· What leads to Separation, Divorce, and Affairs

· Analyzing Unhealthy Coping Mechanisms

· Parenting and Family Dynamics

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EP388 - Testosterone Therapy: The Sexier, Smarter, Stronger You May 28, 2024

Welcome to episode 388 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Amy Pearlman. In this conversation, we discuss the implications of testosterone on fertility, the potential side effects, and the importance of medical supervision. Dr Pearlman also speaks about the role of lifestyle changes and supplements in managing low testosterone and highlights the value of holistic care.

Dr. Amy Pearlman is a board-certified urologist with a dedicated focus on male sexual and hormonal health, as well as genital reconstruction. She is renowned for her expertise in providing both medical and surgical therapies for men experiencing erectile dysfunction, penile curvature, and testosterone deficiency. Additionally, Dr. Pearlman offers transfeminine gender-affirming genital surgery.

Her approach to healthcare extends beyond surgical proficiency. Dr Pearlman is passionate about educating individuals on the fundamentals of their bodies, promoting healthy behaviors, and empowering people to live their most authentic lives.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding Testosterone Therapy: Benefits and Candidates

· Exploring Testosterone Therapy Side Effects and Formulations

· Addressing Fertility Concerns with Testosterone Therapy

· Lifestyle, Diet, and Supplements: Enhancing Testosterone Naturally

· Navigating Testosterone Therapy: Administration and Patient Experiences

· Erectile Dysfunction and Testosterone: Medical and Psychological Aspects

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EP387 - Deserving of Love: Navigating Dating with an STI May 21, 2024

Welcome to episode 387 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Courtney Brame, founder of Something Positive for Positive People, a non-profit organization dedicated to helping those diagnosed with genital HSV2 (herpes) navigate the stigma and mental health challenges that come with the diagnosis.

As founder of Something Positive for Positive People, Courntey combines his expertise as a 500-hour registered yoga teacher with his passion for destigmatizing herpes. Through SPFPP, he offers restorative yoga and meditation in support groups, enhancing holistic well-being for those living with herpes.

As the host of the SPFPP podcast, Courtney shares inspiring stories of individuals navigating herpes stigma. He extends his advocacy to sexual health education and STD prevention, promoting stigma-free communication among healthcare providers and organizations. Driven to create a world where herpes discussions are empowering and stigma-free, Courtney's work at SPFPP is reshaping sexual health dialogue, offering a blend of wellness practices and empathetic advocacy to build a more understanding community.

In this episode, you will hear:

· The Genesis of Something Positive for Positive People

· Navigating Herpes Stigma and Mental Health

· Expanding Support Through Yoga and Community

· Understanding Herpes: Symptoms, Transmission, and Treatment

· Breaking Down Myths and Addressing Stigma

· The Importance of Disclosure and Navigating Relationships

· Resources and Support for Living with Herpes

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EP386 - Experts Advice on Male Sexual Health May 14, 2024

Welcome to episode 386 of Sexology Podcast! Today we are delving into the often-taboo topic of erectile dysfunction (ED), featuring insights from clinical psychologists, sex therapists, physical therapists, and coaches.

Across this episode, we will cover the psychological and physical aspects of ED, offering practical tools and strategies for managing this condition. Guest experts, including Dr. Eric FitzMedrud, Dr. Judson Brandeis, Caitlin V, Dr. Susie Gronski, and Darshana Avila, share their top tips for addressing ED, focusing on holistic and embodied approaches to sexual wellness.

We also look at the importance of addressing sexual shame, relationship dynamics, and emotional well-being as integral components of tackling ED. We encourage you to consider therapy, coaching, and educational courses as pathways to improve your sexual health and confidence.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Tackling Erectile Dysfunction: Breaking the Silence

· Expert Insights: Psychological Perspectives on ED

· Holistic Approaches to Sexual Wellness

· Exploring Physical and Lifestyle Factors

· Physical Therapy and Emotional Intimacy in Sexual Health

· Addressing Erectile Dysfunction: Emotional and Psychological Strategies

· Navigating Solutions: Therapy, Coaching, and Courses

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EP385 - Sexual Arousal in Men: Intimacy Using Natural Strengths May 07, 2024

Welcome to episode 385 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Nadège. In this episode, Nadège speaks to us about arousal in cisgender men and how to embrace and enhance it by breaking societal norms and constraints. Nadège emphasizes the importance of not shaming sexual fantasies as a step towards achieving quicker arousal.

Nadège is a sex scholar, bestselling author, and speaker dedicated to teaching others how to feel healthier and empowered in their sexuality.

From a young age, Nadège has been unapologetically curious about sex. Whenever a friend faced heartbreak or a sexual dilemma, she became the go-to person for advice. Over time, Nadège was labelled variously as a slut and a trailblazer—titles she embraces with pride.

Over the years, Nadège realized the unique gift they possess in sex education, a gift they are passionate about sharing with the world. On an average day, you’ll find Nadège in her home office, hair in a power ponytail, as she uses her nerd powers for good. When Nadège is not busy researching sex, you can find her at a friend's house geeking out about food, Astrology, or pop culture!

In this episode, you will hear:

· Fantasies and Arousal: Embracing Your Desires

· Exploring Arousal for Men: Breaking Down Barriers

· Communication and Connection: Key to Sexual Satisfaction

· Challenging Societal Norms: Redefining Masculinity in Sex

· Navigating Relationship Dynamics and Sexual Compatibility

· Seeking Help and Embracing Change: The Path to Sexual Fulfillment

· Preventative Measures and Mental Reframes for Arousal Issues

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EP384 - Mental Wellness and a Thriving Sex Life: Overcoming Medication Side Effects Apr 30, 2024

Welcome to episode 384 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Josephine McNary. In this episode, Dr. McNary's insightful discussion sheds light on a topic often overlooked in healthcare conversations. By addressing the sexual side effects of medications, she highlights the significance of holistic patient care. Her emphasis on strategies for managing these side effects underscores the importance of proactive healthcare planning and patient education.

Moreover, Dr. McNary's focus on the crucial role of communication between patients and healthcare providers reinforces the foundation of a strong patient-provider relationship. This open dialogue can lead to better understanding, increased trust, and improved overall health outcomes.

Lastly, the mention of the potential for sexual function to return to baseline after discontinuation of medication offers hope and encouragement to those facing these challenges. It serves as a reminder that while side effects may be temporary, the benefits of proper medication management and healthcare support can lead to a positive outcome.

Dr. McNary is a board-certified general psychiatrist, working with a variety of patients in her outpatient practice. She specializes in medication management and is particularly interested in the use of complementary medicine for mood and anxiety disorders.

Dr. McNary has her BA and MA degrees from Stanford University and her MD from Tulane University. From there, she completed her psychiatry residency at the UCLA Neuropsychiatric Institute, where her training included women’s mental health, mood and anxiety disorders, cognitive behavioral therapy, and couples and family therapy.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding Sexual Side Effects of Medication

· Personal Experiences and the Importance of Sexual Health

· Navigating Medication Side Effects and Sexual Health

· The Reversibility of Sexual Side Effects and Patient Advocacy

· Strategies for Managing Medication Side Effects

· The Importance of Open Communication and Support

· Exploring Solutions and Resources for Sexual Health

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EP383 - Everyone Has Baggage: Unlocking the Secrets to Second Marriages Apr 23, 2024

Welcome to episode 383 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Larry Waldman, a recently semi-retired certified school psychologist and licensed clinical, forensic psychologist from Phoenix, Arizona. In this episode, Dr. Waldman discusses the challenges faced in second marriages, highlighting the importance of maintaining positive interactions, how to manage conflicts constructively, and the role sexual compatibility plays in a long-lasting relationship.

Dr. Waldman emphasizes positive interactions, constructive conflict resolution, and sexual compatibility as key elements for success in second marriages. Couples can strengthen their bond through appreciation, kindness, and respect, while addressing conflicts through active listening and compromise. Open communication and understanding of each other's needs help sustain a healthy marriage, fostering a strong and fulfilling partnership.

Dr. Waldman trained as a public speaker and has presented for PESI. His signature presentations are: The Business of Private Practice—The Graduate Course You Never Had and Teaching Parents to Parent. He has made over 150 paid presentations in his career to attorneys, chiropractors, psychologists, family therapists, counselors, social workers, school psychologists and school counselors.

In this episode you will hear:

· Exploring the Dynamics of Successful Marriages

· Key Factors in Marital Failures and Solutions

· The Role of Sexual Compatibility in Relationships

· Addressing Sexual Issues and Enhancing Communication

· Insights into Second Marriages and the Importance of Self-Reflection

· Secrets to a Lasting Marriage: Selflessness and Evolution

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EP382 - Open Your Imagination: Positive Feelings About Your Partners Other Intimacies Apr 16, 2024

Welcome to episode 382 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to chat with Dr. Joli Hamilton. In our conversation we delve into the intricate dynamics of jealousy within relationships, whether they be monogamous or non-monogamous. Dr. Hamilton's insights shed light on the nuances of sexual jealousy, distinguishing it from mere envy and highlighting its role as a multifaceted emotional response that signifies a perceived risk to the bond we hold dear.

As we discuss this sensitive topic, we uncover strategies to navigate the profound emotional hurdles that jealousy can present, while also confronting the societal stigmas and misconceptions that often surround this complex emotion. Join us as we unravel the layers of jealousy and explore ways to foster healthier and more secure connections in our intimate relationships.

Dr. Joli Hamilton is the relationship coach for couples who color outside the lines & founder of The Year of Opening. She is a research psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and AASECT certified sex educator. Joli also co-hosts the Playing with Fire podcast with her anchor partner, Ken. Joli’s been featured in The New York Times, Vogue, Cosmo, and NPR.

She’s spent the past two decades studying and reimagining what love can be if we open our imaginations to possibility. Joli helps people create non-monogamous partnerships that are custom-built for their authentic selves, no more shrinking, pretending, or hiding required.

In this episode you will hear:

· Defining and Understanding Sexual Jealousy

· The Complex Emotions Tied to Jealousy

· Cultural Perceptions and Personal Experiences of Jealousy

· Exploring Jealousy in Monogamous vs. Non-Monogamous Relationships

· The Journey of Navigating Jealousy and Embracing Compersion

· Intergenerational Trauma and Its Impact on Relationships

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EP381 - No Question Off Limits: A Sex Educator Tells All Apr 09, 2024

Welcome to episode 381 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Danielle Bezalel, MPH. Dainelle is a sex educator and podcaster, and in this conversation, she highlights the importance of medically accurate sex education, the challenges and rewards of teaching sex ed to different age groups, addressing myths and misinformation, and the role of consent and pleasure in education.

Danielle Bezalel wears many hats as the brains behind the Sex Ed with DB Podcast. This intersectional, feminist podcast is a platform where Bay Area voices share their real stories, aiming to revolutionize the way we discuss sex.

In 2014, she proudly graduated from UC Berkeley with a degree in Film and Media Studies. Later, she pursued her Masters of Public Health from Columbia University, specializing in sexuality and reproductive health, which she successfully completed in May 2023.

When she's not busy with her podcast, Danielle enjoys showcasing her singing talents as part of her folk band, Happnstance, based in San Fransisco. Her passions extend to documentaries that drive social change, empowering young women through sex education, exploring the world through travel, and indulging in all kinds of chocolate.

In this episode you will hear:

Daniel's Journey into Sex Education
Challenging Norms and Starting a Podcast
The Impact of Misinformation and Cultural Beliefs
Teaching Sex Ed: From Schools to Podcasts
Navigating the Complex Landscape of Sex Education in the US
The Importance of Accurate Sex Education for Adults

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EP380 - Unlocking Menopausal Sexual Wellness: Strategies for Hot Flash Hell, Painful Sex, and Orgasmic Joy Apr 02, 2024

Welcome to episode 380 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Lauren Streicher, MD an expert in women's health and menopause. In this episode we discuss the common changes women face during perimenopause and menopause, including genital urinary syndrome of menopause (GSM), painful intercourse, diminished libido, and hot flashes.

Dr. Streicher emphasizes that while menopause brings various challenges, effective solutions exist for each symptom. She highlights the importance of hormone therapy (HT) for relieving symptoms and improving quality of life, as well as the use of lubricants, vaginal estrogens, and other medical interventions for managing painful intercourse.

Lauren Streicher, MD, is a clinical professor at Northwestern University and founding Medical Director of the Northwestern Medicine Center for Sexual Medicine and Menopause, she also serves as a menopause practitioner and Senior Research Fellow at the Kinsey Institute. Besides her roles in academia and research, she advises organizations like The Kinsey Institute and Midi Health, focusing on patient education.

A best-selling author, Dr. Streicher, has written extensively on women's health, including menopause guides and sexual health books. Her latest work, set for a 2024 release, continues her focus on post-menopausal sexual wellness. Streicher also hosts a podcast on menopause and writes for various publications, contributing her expertise to a wide audience.

In this episode you will hear:

Unveiling the Mysteries of Menopause and Sexual Health
Offering Solutions for Menopause Symptoms: From Hot Flashes to Intimacy Issues
The Impact of Hormone Therapy on Menopause Symptoms
Exploring Interventions for Menopausal Symptoms Beyond Hormone Therapy
Lifestyle Changes, Lubricants, and Medical Interventions for Menopause Relief
Exploring the World of Menopause Retreats and Resources

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EP379 - Exploring Menopause and Sexual Health with Dr. Sadaf Lodhi Mar 26, 2024

Welcome to episode 379 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Sadaf Lodhi, who discusses the inadequacies of sexual education within the medical field, especially concerning women's sexual health issues during premenopausal and postmenopausal stages.

Dr. Sadaf Lodhi, with over two decades as an OBGYN in New York, champions women's holistic health, blending her professional expertise with personal insights as a Muslim woman. She extends her practice beyond conventional medicine, focusing on comprehensive well-being and sexual empowerment, encouraging self-discovery and autonomy in sexual matters.

Dr. Lodhi's educational path includes an honors degree in Biochemistry from the University of Michigan, Dearborn, and a Doctorate of Osteopathic Medicine from Michigan State University College of Osteopathic Medicine, earned in 2000. After completing her residency at St. Joseph Mercy in Michigan, she moved to New York, engaging in diverse medical roles across private practices, hospitals, and clinics serving underprivileged communities.

Her career is marked by a commitment to diagnosing and managing gynecological issues, advocating for reproductive wellness, and offering tailored care in sexual health and infertility. Dr. Lodhi stands out for her dedication to nurturing pregnant patients through to childbirth.

In this episode you will hear:

The Gap in Sex Education for Healthcare Professionals
Challenges and Misconceptions Around Menopause
Addressing Sexual Dysfunction and Solutions in Menopause
Exploring FDA Approved Medications and Interventions for Women's Libido
The Importance of Vulvar Health and Preventive Measures
Addressing Sexual Dysfunction and Advocating for Women's Sexual Health

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EP378 - Intimacy After Menopause: Myths, Adaptations, and Tips for Deeper Connections Mar 19, 2024

Welcome to episode 378 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Shyama Mathews. In this episode, Dr. Mathews discusses women's sexual health and wellness during premenopausal and menopausal stages. She also highlights the importance of patience, exploring new ways of stimulation, and the use of lubricants and sex toys to enhance the sexual experience during these years.

Dr. Shyama Mathews champions the philosophy that "Care Comes First," with a profound commitment to the well-being of women who often endure significant discomfort, pain, and sacrifices in their quality of life to meet the daily needs of their families and careers.

Dr. Mathews is a staunch advocate for patient EDUCATION and EMPOWERMENT, holding the conviction that patients must be fully informed to make the best decisions for their health. She understands that without a comprehensive knowledge of their bodies and the nature of their symptoms, women cannot actively participate in selecting the most appropriate treatment options.

By comprehensively discussing the risks and benefits of both medical and surgical interventions, she empowers women to feel confident in their health decisions, Dr. Mathews’ practice is built on the belief that women deserve a physician who not only cares deeply but also equips them with the knowledge and confidence to take charge of their health.

In this episode you will hear:

· Exploring Women's Sexual Health in Menopause
· Debunking Myths Around Menopause and Sexuality
· Medical Interventions and Lifestyle Changes for Menopausal Symptoms
· The Importance of Lubricants and How to Choose the Right One
· Exploring Sex Toys and Techniques for Enhanced Intimacy
· Supporting Partners Through Menopause: Resources and Advice
· Rekindling Passion and Addressing Misunderstandings in Relationships

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EP377 - Boosting Confidence and Intimacy: Strategies for Improving Self-Image Mar 12, 2024

Welcome to episode 377 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Melissa Vogel. In this episode, Melissa shares her personal journey from losing herself post-pregnancy to rediscovering her strength and confidence by embracing a holistic approach to wellness. She highlights the importance of weight training, especially for women entering menopause, and offers insights into how women can navigate fasting in tune with their menstrual cycles.

Melissa Vogel is the owner and operator of Melissa Vogel Fitness, LLC. With over 20 years of experience as a certified Personal Trainer and Group Fitness Instructor, she helps busy moms get fit through mindset work, vision, balance, nutrition, and exercise.

Melissa hosts the Bomb Mom Podcast, featuring various speakers on health topics to inspire listeners to achieve their goals.

She fearlessly discusses taboo subjects to empower others to prioritize their health. Melissa, a model, actress, and busy mom of six, continues to inspire women on their fitness journey.

In this episode you will hear:

Melissa's Journey to Becoming a Women's Coach
The Impact of Body Image on Confidence and Relationships
Understanding The Challenges of Aging and Fitness
Why It’s Important To Accept Your Body
The Role of Therapy and Affirmations in Building Confidence
How You Can Track Nutrition and Exercise
The Benefits of Fasting and Weight Training
Overcoming Body Image Issues and Menopause

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EP376 - How Cougar Culture is Redefining Modern Love: The Surprising Benefits of Dating Younger Men Mar 05, 2024

Welcome to episode 376 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome back Dr. Sara E. Hill. In this episode, Sara discusses the dynamics, stigmas, and societal perspectives surrounding age gap relationships, particularly focusing on older women dating younger men.

Dr. Hill explores the double standards that exist for women compared to men in these relationships and the reasons behind the predatory language often used. She emphasizes the importance of mutual attraction, genuine connection, and the benefits both parties find in such relationships, including open-mindedness and emotional maturity.

Dr. Sarah Hill, a distinguished research psychologist and professor, possesses extensive knowledge in the fields of women's health and sexual psychology. Her expertise lies at the convergence of evolutionary biology, social psychology, and neuroscience.

Dr. Hill's research endeavors focus on unraveling the intricate connections between hormones, the immune system, and the environment, particularly in relation to behaviors related to relationships and health, with a specific emphasis on women. The Department of Psychology at TCU in Fort Worth, Texas, serves as the home for Dr. Hill's esteemed research laboratories.

In this episode you will hear:

Exploring the Topic of Age Gapping
Double Standards in Age Gap Relationships
Understanding the Dynamics of Age Gap Relationships
The Stigma and Internalized Judgement in Age Gap Relationships
Average Age Difference in Age Gap Relationships
Stereotypes and Power Imbalance in Age Gap Relationships
Benefits and Drawbacks of Age Gap Relationships
Healthy Patterns in Age Gap Relationships

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EP375 - Overcoming Sexual Rejection: Resilience and Growth with Marissa Nelson Feb 27, 2024

Welcome to episode 375 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Marissa Nelson. In this episode, Marissa discusses the issue of sexual rejection based on a story she shared in her TED Talk, how trauma and other life changes can impact sexual functioning and the importance of seeking support from a sex therapist or coach.

Marissa Nelson, an experienced therapist, has helped numerous couples overcome life's challenges and strengthen their connection. With her extensive knowledge of couples' issues and her approachable style, she makes couples and sex therapy engaging, warm, and enjoyable.

Marissa is highly regarded internationally and is the founder of IntimacyMoons Couples Retreats, which have been recognized as one of the top couples retreats worldwide by reputable sources such as The New York Times, Women's Health, Fodor's Travel, and Travel Curator. She has also been featured in more than 100 national and international media publications, including the Washington Post, Wall Street Journal, CBC, CNN Health, Glamour, Latina, and Black Enterprise.

Marissa holds licenses and certifications from reputable organizations such as the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (AAMFT) and the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT).

In this episode you will hear:

Discussing Sexual Rejection
Understanding Sexual Resilience
Impact of Sexual Rejection
Strategies for Overcoming Sexual Rejection
The Importance of Communication in Sexuality
Exploring Sexual Misconceptions
Overcoming Difficulties and Resuming Conversation
Moving Forward from Sexual Rejection

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EP374 - Unraveling the Secrets to a Thriving Relationship Feb 20, 2024

Welcome to episode 374 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh. In today's episode, Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh discusses her book and her new model of emerging love. The model focuses on six main ingredients for a successful relationship: attraction, trust, shared vision, respect, compassion, and acts of being loving towards one another. She expands on the role of attraction and the concept of building on physical chemistry to create sexual harmony.

Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh, a distinguished expert in Sexuality, Relationships, and Intercultural Fluency, is recognized for her global contributions as a speaker, author, and consultant. Dr. Nasserzadeh's media presence is notable, having created and hosted "The Whispers" for BBC World Service, a pioneering program on sexuality in the Middle East, and featured in major outlets like CNN, NPR, and Harper’s Bazaar.

She is also an accomplished author, with her latest book, "Love By Design," based on extensive research. Her involvement extends to various professional organizations, including AASECT and ISSWSH, contributing significantly to the field.

Currently based in Los Angeles, California, Dr. Nasserzadeh maintains an active international profile, engaging in speaking engagements and cultural research. She serves on the United Nations Population Fund's task force on Religion and Sexual & Reproductive Health Rights. Her work primarily focuses on coaching and consultancy, emphasizing future-oriented strategies and personal development, distinct from psychotherapy or mental health counseling.

In this episode you will hear:

The Importance of Chemistry in Relationships
Exploring the Concept of Sexual Harmony
Media Impact on Our Perception of Relationships
Importance of Self-Knowledge in Building Relationships
The Role of Chemistry in Long-Term Relationships
Six Ingredients for a Thriving Relationship
Understanding the Role and Meaning of Sex in Relationships
The Importance of Touch in Relationships

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EP373 - Navigating Self-love and Communication for Intimacy Enhancement Feb 13, 2024

Welcome to episode 373 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Rena Martine. In today's episode, Rena discusses her personal journey that led her from a conventional career as a Deputy District Attorney specializing in hard crimes to her current path as an intimacy coach and sexual wellness advocate. She discusses the importance of self-compassion, body adoration, media awareness, and perspective in cultivating a healthier self-image and deeper intimacy in sexual relationships.

Rena Martine, a native Los Angeleno, now resides in Echo Park, near her partner. Passionate about smelly cheese, dramatic cinema, and 60’s music, she enjoys dancing and spending time with her Siamese cat, Lucha ("Chooch"). Rena often connects with loved ones, radiating happiness and occasionally enjoying a cocktail.

Holding a Juris Doctor from Loyola Law School and a Bachelor of Arts in Sociology from California State University Los Angeles, Rena excelled as a law review editor and author. She also earned a certificate in Positive Psychology from the University of Pennsylvania. As a Certified Life Coach with Lumia Coaching and a Master Coach recognized by High Impact Coaching, she is committed to her career, continually enhancing her knowledge and skills through ongoing research and client interactions.

In this episode you will hear:

Rena Martine's Journey into Sex Coaching
The Gap in Sexual Self-Help Books
Unveiling Rena's New Book
The Impact of Self-Image on Sexuality
How to Have Sensitive Conversations
Transitioning from Prosecution to Pleasure Advocacy
The CAMP Method for Body Love
The Influence of Media on Body Image

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EP372 - Decoding the Art of Shibari: An Intimate Journey into Trust, Communication, and Connection Feb 06, 2024

Welcome to episode 372 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Amanda Pasciucco. In today's episode, Amanda emphasizes the importance of trust, communication, and thorough knowledge of knot tying for both the rigger and the receiver. The conversation touches on the history of Shibari, its cultural relevance, and its sensual, alluring nature. She also warns of potential risks and mistakes, suggesting that the art should be learned from a master or an experienced practitioner.

Dr. Amanda Pasciucco, known as "The Sex Healer," is a renowned catalyst for reigniting passion in romantic and sexual relationships. With over 15 years of experience, she has helped thousands of individuals and couples transform their sexual lives. As a Latina international clinician and speaker, Dr. Pasciucco has been featured in prestigious publications such as Psychology Today, Good Therapy, and PsychCentral, as well as prominent media outlets like CNN, TLC, and Playboy.

Her expertise extends to working with high-profile clients, including musicians, celebrities, reality TV stars, public figures, and Olympic athletes. Through online therapy, she provides discreet care to all those in need, ensuring confidentiality and privacy in accordance with the ethical code of licensed professionals.

Dr. Pasciucco's success is evident in the consistent 5-star reviews she and her team receive from clients. Her charismatic and straightforward approach, combined with the integration of tantra techniques, sex therapy, and somatic experience, serves as a powerful motivator for individuals seeking personal growth and fulfillment in their intimate lives.

In this episode you will hear:

Understanding Shibari: The Art of Japanese Rope Bondage
The History and Popularity of Shibari
Setting Up a Shibari Scene: Precautions and Preparations
Understanding the Attraction and Benefits of Bondage
Setting Up a Shibari Scene: Precautions and Preparations
The Artistry and Complexity of Shibari
Why Communication and Trust is key in Shibari
The Importance of Aftercare in Shibari

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EP371 - Can Pornography Empower Women? Jan 30, 2024

Welcome to episode 371 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Erika Lust. In today's episode, Erika discusses her journey and perspective on creating ethical adult films. A political science student interested in gender studies and sexuality; Erika was dissatisfied with the male-centric portrayal of women in conventional pornography. She believes ethical porn production caters to the woman's gaze, portrays relatable pleasure, and presents a broader scope of sexual experiences.

Erika Lust, an acclaimed independent erotic filmmaker, is renowned for her sex-positive adult cinema that challenges gender stereotypes and rejects harmful fetishizations. With a focus on relatable characters and realistic intimate scenes, she offers a groundbreaking alternative to mainstream porn. Over the past two decades, the Lust brand has flourished, with Erika directing six feature films and series, as well as over 130 short films and producing approximately 150 more.

In 2015, Erika delivered a compelling TEDx talk titled 'It's Time for Porn to Change', emphasizing the need for transformation within the industry. Her story was showcased in the Netflix documentary series 'Hot Girls Wanted: Turned On ("Women on Top")', directed by Rashida Jones, and 'Principles of Pleasure', directed by Niharika Desai. Recognized for her influence, Erika was named one of the BBC 100 Women's most influential women of the year in 2019. Her alternative approach to pornography gained further recognition in 2022, as it was featured in The New York Times and the BBC Three & HULU series 'Planet Sex with Cara Delevingne'. Additionally, she delivered a TEDx Talk in Athens, urging adults to engage in 'The Porn Conversation' with younger generations.

In this episode you will hear:

Erika's Journey to Becoming a Porn Director
The Problem with Mainstream Porn
Creating a New Perspective in Porn
The Evolution of Porn Industry
Understanding the Importance of Storytelling in Porn
Overcoming Stigma Around Working in the Porn Industry
The Impact of Commercialization on Porn
Analyzing The Future of the Porn Industry

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EP370 - Sexual Authenticity: Bridging Faith and Intimacy with Natasha Helfer Jan 23, 2024

Welcome to episode 370 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Natasha Helfer. In today's episode, we discuss the negative impact of sexual shame often fostered in religious societies, touching on topics such as: religious trauma, community expectations on sexual behavior and the shunning of self-determination.

Natasha Helfer is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist with over 20 years of experience in treating individuals, couples, and families. She creates an approachable and safe space, often using humor, for discussing sensitive topics. Helfer specializes in assisting clients with interpersonal relationships, sexual development, and navigating religious or spiritual journeys. She is adept at supporting individuals whether they choose to remain in or leave their faith communities, respecting all religious choices.

Helfer is a seasoned speaker, presenting at national and professional conferences, universities, and hosting retreats, training, and workshops. She has a broad experience working with thousands of clients in both private practice and agency settings and is open to speaking engagements. She advocates for sexual health in marginalized populations, including LGBTQ+, religious minorities, and women, and works to de-stigmatize sexual lifestyle choices influenced by cultural, personal, or religious biases.

She offers both in-office and online therapy, coaching, and consultation services to a diverse clientele, including national and international clients. Helfer is also available for training and consultation with ecclesiastical leaders and mental health professionals on specific cases.

Additionally, Helfer serves as a supervisor for AASECT, guiding professionals seeking AASECT certification.

In this episode you will hear:

The Role of Fear and Guilt in Sexual Behavior
Understanding the Impact of Cultural and Religious Messages on Sexuality
Exploring the Spectrum of Religion and Sexuality
The Misconceptions and Myths Surrounding Sexuality
Creativity in Sexual Pleasure
The Role of Fantasy in Sexuality
How Fear and Guilt impact Sexual Behavior
Understanding the Impact of Sexual Shame on Mental Health
The importance of Education in Sexual Safety

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EP369 - Unlocking Pelvic Power: Overcome Erectile Dysfunction & Enhance Intimacy at Any Age Jan 16, 2024

Welcome to episode 369 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Stephanie Bathurst. In today's episode, we discuss various aspects of pelvic floor function, emphasizing how aging and factors like obesity, constipation, and physical trauma can weaken it, consequently affecting sexual health and leading to issues like erectile dysfunction and chronic pelvic pain.

Dr. Stephanie Bathurst is a dedicated clinician and coach, celebrated for her role as the founder of Bathurst Family Therapy™. She thrives in her role as a support system and guide for healing, aspiring to assist others through the information and advice shared on her site, fostering self-discovery.

Dr. Bathurst specializes in working with couples and relationships, focusing on identifying and eliminating destructive communication patterns. She develops personalized plans to assist her clients in shaping their ideal-self within their partnerships. Her expertise extends to working with various relationship dynamics, including ethical non-monogamy, multi-amorous, kink, BDSM, swinging, and open relationships, and she embraces clients of all races, gender expressions, and sexual orientations.

Excitingly, Dr. Bathurst offers Couples Retreats in Oahu, HI, which present a unique integrative and holistic approach to relationship and sexual re-attachment. These retreats combine structured therapeutic techniques with the relaxing ambiance of a vacation, as seen in the sample itinerary and video available through a provided link, specifically tailored for married couples.

In this episode you will hear:

The importance of pelvic floor health and its impact on sexual health
How pelvic floor consists of muscles and ligaments supporting reproductive organs
Why a weak pelvic floor can lead to sexual challenges like erectile dysfunction
How decline in collagen production from mid-twenties impacts pelvic floor function
Understanding Peyronie's Disease, a condition causing painful curvature in the penis
How obesity, constipation and prolonged pelvic pain can weaken the pelvic floor
Why incorrect Kegel exercises can lead to problems
How floor exercises can help with prostate health & recovery post-prostate surgery
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EP368 - Embracing Intimacy Across Cultures: Navigating Desire and Tradition in Relationships Jan 09, 2024

Welcome to episode 368 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Katherine Bejanyan. In today's episode, we discuss how cultural and religious backgrounds shape individual expectations in relationships, the impact of early family dynamics, societal norms on intimacy, and the importance of effective communication.

Katherine Bejanyan is deeply passionate about relationships and is dedicated to helping others in this realm. Her professional activities include providing relationship counseling for both couples and singles.

In her role as a relationship expert and consultant for an exclusive dating agency, Bejanyan offers specialized guidance and insights. Additionally, she contributes her knowledge and perspectives on relationships through her writings for the Huffington Post.

Her primary objective is to continuously deepen her understanding of relationships and enhance her skills in assisting others with their relationship challenges.

Understanding more about relationships in cross-cultural contexts
How cultural backgrounds significantly shape our expectations
The way early family dynamics and societal norms deeply influence personal beliefs
Common relationship challenges; handling family expectations and finances
How misunderstandings in intimacy and sexual expectations are common
The importance of effective communication, particularly in addressing differences
Key strategies for repairing relationship ruptures

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EP367 - Balancing Parenthood & Intimacy: Keeping The Spark Alive Jan 03, 2024

Welcome to episode 367 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Ricky Arenson. In today's episode, Dr. Arenson will be sharing his expertise on his recently published book titled "Women are Superior to Men." We will delve into the motivations and revelations that inspired his work, as well as delve into the complexities of relationships and the significance of comprehending dynamic interactions.

Dr. Ricky Arenson, raised under the shadow of Table Mountain in Cape Town, was deeply influenced by the societal divisions of Apartheid, fueling his commitment to bridging gaps in today's "identity politics." Diagnosed with ADHD in childhood, he channeled his energy into creative pursuits like drawing and poetry, developing a unique perspective that later enriched his personal and professional life.

Meeting his wife in medical school, Dr. Arenson's relationship blossomed from her initial academic encouragement into a deep admiration for her roles as a wife and mother. This experience shaped his views on gender roles, inspiring him to advocate for the joys and magic of enduring love and marriage.

An award-winning teacher and dual specialist in Endocrinology and Geriatric Medicine, Dr. Arenson is passionate about teaching relationship management as a key to happiness. His career, marked by significant roles in medical leadership, has been a journey in learning about humility, humanity, and the pursuit of happiness.

In his free time, Dr. Arenson enjoys family time, tennis, fitness, stand-up comedy, and finding creative ways to balance work and leisure.

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The importance of understanding relationship dynamics
Why partners need to give each other attention to maintain intimacy
The challenges modern parents face in balancing children's needs
How hormones play a lesser role in libido than factors like relationship quality
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EP366 – Sex Tips for the New Year Dec 26, 2023

Welcome to episode 366 of Sexology Podcast! Today we're delving into New Year's resolutions and their impact on relationships. Our expert guests share tips to revitalize your connection, making 2024 a year of passion.

In this episode you will hear from Dr. Laurie Petito, Dr. Jess O'Reilly, David Khalili, Ken Page, Dr. Lonnie Barback, Dr. Laurie Mintz, Diane Gleim and Gigi Engle who share their insightful thoughts on new year's tips and resolutions for 2024 that include:

New Year's resolution tips on sexual health and advocacy
Tips to simplify complex sexual health and relationship subjects
Key skills for overall life satisfaction and improved relationships
Effective communication tips for partners
The importance of conversations in a relationship
Understanding porn literacy
Crucial skills often overlooked in relationships
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EP365 - Desire Discrepancy with Amy Baldwin and April Lambert Dec 19, 2023

Welcome to episode 365 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Amy Baldwin and April Lampert of the Shameless Sex Podcast. In this episode, we delve into the significance of embracing shifts in our sexual identity, suggestions for discovering trustworthy adult toys, and confidently expressing our desires without any sense of shame.

Amy is an expert in the field of Sex and Relationship Coaching and Sex Education. She is dedicated to spreading the message of embracing pleasure-focused sexuality education without any shame.

On the other hand, April is not only a motivational speaker but also a prominent figure in the sex-toy industry, having established herself as a sex toy mogul. Together, April and Amy have joined forces to create the Shameless Sex Podcast.

This podcast aims to inspire individuals to love themselves unconditionally, embrace their sexual empowerment, and foster shame-free intimacy. With a playful twist, they share real-life experiences and divulge all the details.

In this episode, you will hear:

The importance of embracing changes in one's sexual identity.
How April worked with Amy worked together in an adult store.
The way Shameless Sex aims to reduce shame and help people live a freer sex life.
Looking at the issues that long-term relationships often face.
The significance of introducing sex toys in long-term relationships.
Recommendations for finding reliable sex toys.
The importance of communication especially when discussing desires.
Why you should give a sex toy at least three tries before deciding on one.
Exploring different ways to orgasm and creating new neuropathways in the brain.
Owning one's desires and communicating them without shame.

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EP364 - Why Vacation Sex is What You Need for Your Relationship with Emily Jamea Dec 12, 2023

Welcome to episode 364 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Emily Jamea. In this episode, we discuss the special nature of vacation sex, emphasizing the benefits of breaking routine, reducing stress, and fostering emotional connection.

With over fifteen years of experience in sex and relationship therapy, Dr. Emily Jamea, a licensed marriage and family therapist, LPC, and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, has earned recognition for her expertise, featured in esteemed publications such as Oprah Magazine, CNN, USA Today, NBC, CBS, Men’s Fitness, SELF, and Women’s Health. Actively contributing to Psychology Today and HealthyWomen.org, Dr. Jamea explores the correlation between flow and sexual satisfaction in her academic research.

As the host of the popular Love & Libido podcast, she shares insights and regularly writes columns for Healthy Women and Psychology Today. Engaging with her audience on social media (@dremilyjamea), she is set to release her upcoming book, "Anatomy of Desire" (Flatiron), in 2024. A sought-after speaker nationally and internationally, Dr. Jamea delivers impactful presentations to diverse audiences, including the general public, educators, and health professionals.

In line with her mission to make her expertise accessible, she offers online workshops. Dr. Jamea, an honors graduate from The University of Texas at Austin, holds a Master’s in counseling and a PhD in Clinical Sexology. Alongside her thriving private practice, she leads a fulfilling personal life as a happily married individual with two children. Embracing opportunities to travel, she nurtures her passions for painting and salsa dancing whenever time allows.

In this episode, you will hear:

How vacation sex is often special due to a break from the routine.
The way reduced stress on vacation contributes to higher sexual desire.
How emotional positively affects sexual experiences.
Learning to communicate expectations about sex on vacation.
Why it’s important to start small with sexual novelty.
Analyzing flow state science and deep embodiment.
The importance of discussing desired emotions and experiences
How you can maintain the vacation sex energy at home.

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EP363 - Learn to Give Amazing Head with Heidi Gee Dec 05, 2023

Welcome to episode 363 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Heidi Gee. In this episode, we discuss overcoming discomfort with oral sex, how to approach the 69 position and learning to gently approach to clitoris.

Heidi Gee is a dedicated Sexologist and Relationship Therapist, who brings over 15 years of experience to her passionate mission. In her unwavering belief, EVERYONE, irrespective of background, gender, religion, sexual preference, or pizza topping choice, deserves a fulfilling relationship and sex life.

Driven by personal growth, navigating heartbreaks, and overcoming challenges, Heidi found her calling – supporting others in their journeys towards healthy relationships with themselves, others, and sex. Beyond her professional expertise, Heidi is also a qualified reiki master, adding a holistic touch to her approach.

During her downtime, Heidi immerses herself in music, theatre, and art. Her love for travel and a fondness for Italian, Indian, and Mexican cuisine are complemented by Café Sydney, her preferred local restaurant. Leading by example, Heidi embraces a healthy lifestyle, incorporating daily meditation, mindfulness practices, and pole dancing for fitness.

As she signs off, Heidi emphasizes the importance of prioritizing self-care for a healthy mind, heightened self-awareness, and an enhanced sex life, encouraging others not to wait until New Year's for resolutions.

In this episode, you will hear:

Discomfort with oral sex: Heidi mentions insecurities related to genital appearance
Encouragement to focus on the present moment
The impact of porn and media on people’s sexual expectations
Communication in relationships: Emphasis about preferences
Hygiene tips: Caution against using harsh soaps, emphasis on a healthy diet
Approaching 69 position: Suggestion to ease into the position gradually
Gentle approach to clitoris: Emphasis on being gentle, exploring different areas
Tips for improving oral sex skills
Exploring the entire body for a holistic experience

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EP362 - Empower Yourself with a Yoni Massage with Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn Nov 28, 2023

Welcome to episode 362 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn. In this episode, we discuss Yoni Massage, how it enables women to relinquish control and gain a profound understanding of their bodies, redirecting the emphasis towards exploration instead of climaxing and the crucial importance of sexual communication in attaining sexual liberation.

Dr. Tara is a tenured professor of relational and sexual communication at California State University Fullerton (recieved her tenure at the age of 33), an award-winning researcher, a sex and relationship coach, and the host of Luvbites by Dr. Tara Podcast that focuses on sexual wellness and sexploration. Her work has been featured in KTLA News, Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health Magazine, Insider, and other media outlets. She's also on the advisory board for the MŌN app and Superstars app.

In 2022, Dr. Tara gave a TEDx Talk titled Become Sexually Powerful that highlights her 5,000-participant study examining predictors of sexual satisfaction, and her journey from an anxious immigrant to a confident Sexpert. Her life's goal is to normalize sex talks, and help people live a more passionate life and feel more sexually fulfilled through confidence and communication coaching.

In this episode, you will hear:

Analyzing and understanding Yoni Massage
How Yoni massage is associated with Hinduism and Buddhism
The beauty of tantric massage, both the original or more westernized versions
How Yoni massages allow women to surrender and understand their bodies
Building confidence and the empowerment of receiving pleasure without reciprocity
Shifting the focus on exploration rather than climaxing
Massaging techniques for the pubic area, vulva, clitoris, and optional penetration
Understanding the potential hesitations around Yoni Massage
The importance of advocating for pleasure and fostering honest communication
The vital role of sexual communication in achieving sexual liberation

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EP361 - Discovering the Healing Power of Intimacy: Exploring Trauma, Body-Centered Practices, and Therapy Connections in Conversation with Michelle Renee Nov 21, 2023

Welcome to episode 361 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Michelle Renee. In this episode, we discuss Michelle’s journey going through an unhealthy relationship and problematic childhood, addressing trauma and building communication skills and learning to transition to a sexual environment you can be comfortable in and confident with.

Michelle Renee, a West Michigan native, delves into the personal nature of her work, shaped by generational experiences. Raised in a household with communication challenges, she reflects on her parents' tumultuous relationship and her own journey through an 18-year marriage that led to self-discovery.

After her mother's death in 2002 and a complicated relationship with her father, Michelle found a turning point in a sex education workshop in 2014. This marked the beginning of her transformative journey toward self-love, body acceptance, and courageous life choices.

Michelle's career shift into professional cuddling became a catalyst for healing from past wounds. She later expanded her expertise through Surrogate Partner Therapy training, becoming a leader in the field. Michelle founded local Sex Geekdom hubs, contributed to professional groups, and in 2023, became the San Diego Section Leader for AASECT.

As an intimacy guide, Michelle supports clients across the spectrum of human connection, emphasizing the importance of platonic to erotic relationships. Her passion lies in assisting individuals with trauma history, a commitment that echoes her mother's self-work.

In this episode, you will hear:

How surrogate partner therapy involves collaboration with a talk therapist
How she discovered sexuality exploration through Betty Dodson's work
Why Michelle engaged in professional cuddling to learn about boundaries
The importance of advocating for one's needs and understanding mutual touch
Asexuality spectrum: Enjoying sex without experiencing sexual attraction
How learning sexual skills can be challenging in high-pressure environments
The need for choices and understanding oneself in the context of erotic energy
Addressing trauma and building communication skills
Learning to engage on a basic human level for physical contact

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EP360 - Intimacy Redefined: Breaking Free from Trauma Bonds with Dr. Laura Copley Nov 14, 2023

Welcome to episode 360 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Laura Copley. In this episode, we discuss Dr. Laura Copley's book, "Loving You is Hurting Me”, how Trauma bonding is about deep emotional connections and why solo relationship effort can yield positive results.

Trauma, heartache, betrayal, and abandonment can leave lasting scars that break the heart, clouds the mind, and shatter the soul. Dr. Laura Copley understands how painful and damaging your trauma wounds are and is trained to guide you toward healing.

Dr. Laura brings life transformation and Post-Traumatic Growth to your fingertips by offering one-on-one guidance, small group mentoring, powerful courses, online workshops, in-person conferences, live Q&A, and community support for those to connect who are on similar self-healing journey.

A globe-trotter at her core, Laura’s mission has taken her all over the world where she has made profound healing impacts in the lives of her clients and students. After her adventures speaking, advocating, and healing around the world, Laura returns to the heart of the Shenandoah Valley, where she is creating her dream lifestyle with her baby girl and golden retriever on her riverfront farmette overlooking the Blue Ridge Mountains.

In this episode, you will hear:

The need to view individuals as whole beings, not just oppressors or victims
How Trauma bonding is about deep emotional connections
The ways safety and trust play a significant role in sexual connection
How the embodiment of emotions can enhance sexual experiences
Strategies for breaking the toxic hook pattern include mapping the cycle
How solo relationship effort can yield positive results
Openly discussing trauma and vulnerabilities strengthens emotional bonds
Details on Dr. Laura Copley's book, "Loving You is Hurting Me”

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EP359 - Discover the Foundation for Thriving Long-Term Relationships with Dr. Alexandra Solomon Nov 07, 2023

Welcome to episode 359 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Alexandra Solomon. In this episode, we discuss how sexual self-awareness involves understanding societal messages, the evolving nature of sexuality in long-term relationships and the need to break free from narrow sexual scripts.

Over the last two decades, Dr. Alexandra H. Solomon has become one of today’s most trusted voices in the world of relationships, and her work on Relational Self-Awareness has reached millions of people around the world.

Dr. Solomon is a licensed clinical psychologist at The Family Institute at Northwestern University, and she is on faculty in the School of Education and Social Policy at Northwestern University where she teaches the internationally renowned course, Building Loving and Lasting Relationships: Marriage 101.

In addition to writing articles and chapters for leading academic journals and books in the field of marriage and family, she is the author of two bestselling books, Loving Bravely and Taking Sexy Back. Dr. Solomon regularly presents to diverse groups that include the United States Military Academy at West Point and Microsoft, and she is frequently asked to talk about relationships with media outlets like The Today Show, O Magazine, The Atlantic, Vogue, and Scientific American.

In this episode, you will hear:

The importance of relational self-awareness in a healthy relationship
Relational self-awareness involves looking at one's own behavior in a relationship
How sexual self-awareness involves understanding societal messages
The importance of unlearning and relearning about one's sexuality
How different sexual scripts can affect relationships
The evolving nature of sexuality in long-term relationships
Reminiscing can be a way to connect and maintain desire in a relationship
Encouraging men to move away from performance-based sex
The need to break free from narrow sexual scripts

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EP358 - Diving Deep Into The World Of Death Fetishes Oct 31, 2023

Welcome to episode 358 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Victoria Hartmann. In this episode, we discuss Victoria's background in studying necrophilia to aid criminologists, understanding the ethics and consent in the fantasies and experiences of necrophiliacs and the need for more research and understanding of paraphilias and their origins.

Dr. Hartmann holds two doctorate degrees, including a Ph.D. in Human Sexuality with an emphasis on Clinical Sexology, as well as a Master’s in Public Health. Her primary focus is forensic sexology, and the preservation of erotic artifacts, including the archiving of sexually explicit films. Her Doctoral work centered on the effects of dark web violent and explicit films.

She authored the book “I Love Dead People – Inside the Mind of Death Fetishists” based on her doctoral thesis and has proposed a new theoretical framework for classifying paraphilias.

She is an expert explicit material valuator; she is the current Director of the Erotic Heritage Museum in Las Vegas and serves on the ASRI (AstroSexological Research Institute) Advisory Board.

In this episode, you will hear:

Victoria's background in studying necrophilia to aid criminologists
Differentiating necrophilia from related criminal acts, such as sexual murder
Ethics and consent in the fantasies and experiences of necrophiliacs
Challenges in classifying and assessing necrophilia and paraphilias clinically
The complexities of necrophilia and difficulty in designing a classification tool
The need for more research and understanding of paraphilias and their origins
Therapist recommendations for addressing fetishes like necrophilia
Information on Victoria Hartmann's podcast, "Sex Nerd Podcast," her book "I Love Dead People Inside the Minds of Death Fetishists,"

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EP357 - Touch Mastery: Revitalize Intimacy in Relationships Oct 24, 2023

Welcome to episode 357 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Darshana Avila. In this episode, we discuss the importance of touch in human connection and intimacy, why we need healthy and attuned touch in relationships and the importance of relaxed arousal for a satisfying sexual experience.

Darshana Avila believes that the foundation of her work in Sex and Intimacy is based on mutual trust. She practices transparency about her identities, recognizing that this disclosure empowers potential clients to make informed decisions about their comfort level and compatibility with her values. Darshana offers a wealth of articles and training resources aimed at dismantling oppression on her Resources page.

Darshana Avila is a cisgender woman of Eastern European Jewish heritage with white skin, able-bodied, and straight-passing. She identifies as bisexual and queer and uses she/her or they/them pronouns. Her life journey has spanned various chapters, including living in liberal pockets of the United States, South America, and Southeast Asia.

She holds a college education and typically enjoys relatively easy access to spaces, resources, and opportunities, despite some of her identities also facing marginalization and persecution. Presently, she resides on land belonging to the Ohlone people, acknowledges this, and pays Shuumi land tax accordingly. Additionally, Darshana allocates a portion of her income to support various socially just and antiracist organizations.

In this episode, you will hear:

The importance of touch in human connection and intimacy
Introducing gentle verbal redirection for better touch
Normalize asking for consent and use words to ensure safety
Expand vocabulary for talking about what feels good
The need for healthy and attuned touch in relationships
Feedback in heterosexual relationships can be challenging due to social conditioning
Consider factors like pressure, speed, and direction for sensation
The importance of relaxed arousal for a satisfying sexual experience
Explore sex toys as tools for increased pleasure

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EP356 - Treating Erectile Dysfunction: The Best Options Available Oct 17, 2023

Welcome to episode 356 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Cory Torgerson. In this episode, we discuss how erectile dysfunction is on the rise, affecting both older and younger men, the way porn addiction can contribute to this issue and how unrealistic expectations about sex can also impact erectile function.

Dr. Torgerson has been frequently invited to teach and lecture on these topics across North America. His entire medical education and surgical training was completed at the prestigious University of Toronto, within their Toronto hospitals and the University Health Network. Dr. Torgerson has received national recognition from his patients and colleagues for his incredible surgical skills. He is certified by the Royal College of Physicians and Surgeons of Canada in head, neck, facial surgery. In order to obtain this certification, Dr. Torgerson was required to complete additional years of training. Dr. Torgerson’s skills have been showcased on Global News, 16×9, The Marilyn Denis Show, The Morning Show, City News, and E! Beauty Channel Beauty News.

We invite you to experience the rewards of a welcoming environment where you can expect to be listened to, understood, and delighted with the outcome. Dr. Torgerson is here to help empower you to make the changes you desire to lead a truly beautiful life.

Considered a leading facial plastic surgeon in Toronto, Canada, Dr. Torgerson is able to provide his patients with a completely fresh and artistic approach to plastic surgery. With a finely honed gift for pinpointing specific areas that need to be treated, Dr. Torgerson is able to creatively and successfully provide the highest level of facial and nasal plastic surgery.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Erectile dysfunction is on the rise, affecting both older and younger men
Understanding vascular issues are a common cause of erectile dysfunction
The way porn addiction can contribute to erectile dysfunction
How unrealistic expectations about sex can also impact erectile function
The way lifestyle choices like diet and exercise can help prevent erectile dysfunction
Looking at supplements available for erectile dysfunction and their effectiveness
How testosterone replacement therapy can help improve erectile function
Understanding the The Big Shot non-surgical male enhancement procedure

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EP355 - Deciphering Pleasure: A Comprehensive Guide to Achieving Multiple Orgasms and Mastering Ejaculation Control Oct 10, 2023

Welcome to episode 355 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Matthias Rose. In this episode, we discuss ejaculatory control and its benefits, the challenges in redefining the concept of orgasm and the initial challenges people may face when learning ejaculatory control.

Since 2012, Matthias Rose has been a prominent figure in neo-tantric sacred sexuality and classical tantric spirituality, serving as a teacher, guide, healer, and practitioner. His transformative journey with Tantra has taken him beyond traditional teachings, leading him to provide guidance primarily focused on relationships, sexuality, masculinity, and spirituality through a tantric lens.

As a Relationship Coach, Matthias Rose collaborates with individuals seeking to revamp their relational lives, including finding new partners, healing existing relationships, or exploring fresh possibilities. His expertise spans ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, trust repair, deepening emotional and sexual intimacy, and aligning with one's authentic self while embracing masculine or feminine aspects. He draws wisdom from his life's experiences, marked by mistakes and personal growth, offering insights with a genuine presence and loving non-attachment, emphasizing the essence of loving with an open heart.

In his role as a Sexuality Guide, Matthias Rose underscores the pivotal role of sexuality in personal development. He has gained expertise in various areas of human sexuality, attracting individuals seeking guidance in these specific realms.

In this episode, you will hear:

Understanding ejaculatory control and its benefits
Separating ejaculation from orgasm is possible through techniques like Tantra
Emotional connection and pleasure in cultivating non-ejaculatory orgasms
How ejaculatory choice involves delaying or choosing whether to ejaculate
The challenges in redefining the concept of orgasm
How ejaculatory orgasms and non-ejaculatory orgasms are distinct experiences
Evolving definition of masculinity and the value of open heartedness
The initial challenges people may face when learning ejaculatory control
Matthias’s personal journey and how he rediscovered this practice through Tantra

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EP354 - Mastering Male Stamina: Enhancing Performance in Intimate Relationships Oct 03, 2023

Welcome to episode 354 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with David Chambers. In this episode, we discuss the challenges faced by individuals in their pursuit of enhanced sexual experiences. We explore a myriad of factors, ranging from psychological challenges such as performance anxiety and body image concerns to physical issues like cardiovascular health and the impact of medications.

David Chambers embarked on his journey into the world of relationship coaching driven by a sincere desire to escape the anguish of failed relationships, conquer commitment fears, and infuse his life with genuine joy.

Growing up in a single-parent, female-dominated household, he grappled with understanding masculinity and healthy romantic partnerships. His twenties were characterized by empty encounters aimed at gaining validation and confidence, alongside an aversion to commitment rooted in the dread of rejection or making the wrong choice. Consequently, his relationships were marred by toxicity, conflict, stress, and infidelity.

In 2007, David initially entered the realm of relationship and dating coaching, only to realize that merely teaching men superficial confidence and conversation skills fell short of creating lasting change. Recognizing the need for inner transformation, he embarked on a transformative global journey, learning from expert coaches, collaborating with best-selling authors, and undergoing profound personal growth.

David's mission is to share the wealth of dating and relationship insights he's gained, guiding men on their path to self-healing and self-mastery. "The Authentic Man" seeks to unearth the root causes hindering men from forging profound relationships, dismantling these barriers, and leading them toward lasting, fulfilling relationships and fulfilling, intimate, and passionate lives.

In this episode, you will hear:

Challenges faced by penis owners in lasting longer during partner sex
How relationships and partner interactions can affect sexual performance
Discussion on the significance and non- significance of penis size
Understanding psychological challenges: performance anxiety, worries about size
The potential negative effects of steroid use on sexual performance
How distraction is a common problem in sexual experiences
Suggestions to improve presence during sex include breath practices
How masturbation can lead to quick arousal leading to premature ejaculation
The ways meditation, deep breathing and yoga can enhance sexual experiences
How being present doesn't necessarily exclude fantasies

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EP353 - Unraveling Male Sexuality: Desire, Drive, and the Dynamics of Intimacy Sep 26, 2023

Welcome to episode 353 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Eric FitzMedrud. In this episode, we discuss Dr. FitzMedrud's book The Better Man, exploring the intricacies of consent, emotional processes and emotional skills and addressing low interest in sex through open communication and cooperation.

Dr. Eric FitzMedrud hails from Minneapolis, where his formative years were enriched by the diversity that sparked his passion for issues of inclusivity. Following his high school years, he embarked on a transformative journey to India as part of the Rotary International Youth Exchange Program. In Colorado, where he pursued his college education, he encountered the love of his life, his future wife. His horizons expanded further during his college years when he embarked on a Semester at Sea, offering him a broader perspective on the world.

Dr. FitzMedrud's path to becoming a licensed psychologist (PSY23669) evolved from a scholarly interest in spirituality and human development during his undergraduate Religious Studies studies. He later shifted his focus to one-on-one work, completing prerequisite courses at Loyola University in Chicago for a year and ultimately earning his Clinical Psychology Ph.D. in 2008.

Passionate about his profession, Dr. FitzMedrud derives immense satisfaction from the meaningful and impactful work he does, helping others lead more purposeful and connected lives. Below, you will find a concise overview of various positions he has held throughout his career, as well as a brief insight into his therapeutic approach.

In this episode, you will hear:

Dr. Eric FitzMedrud discusses his book The Better Man and shares therapy experiences
Exploring the intricacies of consent, emotional processes and emotional skills
Examining the concept of sexual desire as a basic need
Debunking common misconceptions surrounding love and intimacy
A closer look at prevalent myths about romance and sexuality
Understanding deliberate approaches to maintaining intimacy
The significance of embracing novelty and navigating through awkwardness
Emphasizing the importance of emotional communication
Addressing low interest in sex through open communication and cooperation

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EP352 - Embracing Vulnerability: The Power of Skinny Dipping Sep 19, 2023

Welcome to episode 352 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Keira Barr. In this episode, we discuss ways in which couples can approach skinny dipping, analyzing the things that may hold you back from new experiences and how you can transition more holistic view of sex and sexuality.

Dr. Keira Barr is a prominent leader in women’s medicine – creating a bridge between hormones, skin and mind-body medicine to optimize women’s mid-life experience. A fierce patient advocate and completely dedicated to uncovering the root cause of hormonal imbalances, Dr. Barr empowers women worldwide to take control of their health and their hormones in menopause.

She is an international speaker, best selling author, clinical educator, and considered a leading authority on women’s health. As a former Assistant Clinical Professor at UC Davis in the departments of dermatology and pathology, editorial reviewer of multiple leading medical journals, medical advisor within the personal care and tech communities, and researcher in clinical trials.

Dr Barr is dedicated to providing the most-cutting edge and innovative solutions for women. Her work has been featured in the MindBodyGreen, Bustle, Reader’s Digest, Glamour, SELF, Oprah Magazine, and more.

In this episode, you will hear:

Ways in which couples can approach skinny dipping
Advice for people wanting to get comfortable in their own skin
How skinny dipping can potentially enhance intimacy
The importance of engaging in skinny dipping as a couple
Enjoying the novelty of skinny dipping to enhance arousal
Analyzing the things that may hold you back from skinny dipping
Understanding the window of tolerance
How you can work towards being more open to new ideas
Transitioning to a more holistic view of sex and sexuality
Further recommendations and tips

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EP351 - Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity with Dr. Doug Weiss Sep 12, 2023

Welcome to episode 351 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Douglas Weiss. In this episode, we discuss betrayal in relationships, how therapeutic polygraphs can help in rebuilding trust and the value of intentional rituals and emotional intimacy to create a strong relationship.

Dr. Douglas Weiss is a psychologist and the founder of Heart to Heart Counseling Center, which specializes in the treatment of sexual addicts, intimacy anorexics and their spouses. He has counseled with sex addicts and their partners for almost three decades. Heart to Heart Counseling Center maintains weekly 3 and 5 Day Intensives that couples fly in from all over the world to attend, dozens of weekly groups, hundreds of weekly appointments with 16 counselors on staff. Dr. Weiss personally continues to provide 5 Day Intensives at the Center. Dr. Weiss has been in recovery for over 34 years, he and all of the counselors at Heart to Heart verify their sobriety with regular polygraphs.

Dr. Weiss has authored more than 40 books and offers 30 therapeutic DVDs for men, women and marriages. He is proud to be the first author to write a book for the partners of sex addicts. Dr. Weiss was the first to coin the term Intimacy Anorexia which is the withholding of emotional, physical and spiritual intimacy in marriage.

He’s been the expert guest on numerous national shows including Oprah, Dr. Phil and Good Morning America. He has had two documentaries, Lifetime TV Network and a British documentary produced about his practice. He is also the President of the American Association for Sex Addiction Therapy (AASAT) which is a certification training program for sex addiction, partners of sex addicts, and intimacy anorexia.

In this episode, you will hear:

Understanding more about betrayal in relationships
How infidelity can cause intense trauma and various reactions from individuals
Why therapeutic polygraphs can help in rebuilding trust and establishing boundaries
The need for reassurance and commitment in moving forward
The role of self-care and not taking on new responsibilities during healing
Looking at anger as a work exercise
Why we need intimacy-building practices and disciplines in relationships
The value of intentional rituals and emotional intimacy

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EP350 - Unlocking Pleasure: Orgasms, Toys, & Communication Sep 05, 2023

Welcome to episode 350 of the Sexology Podcast! I am absolutely delighted to have Sophie Saint Thomas as our guest today. In this episode, we will delve into the fascinating topic of multiple orgasms, explore the rich tapestry of sexual experiences beyond the realm of orgasms, and uncover the crucial role that psychological arousal plays in enhancing overall pleasure.

Sophie Saint Thomas is a New York City-based journalist and author originally from the U.S. Virgin Islands. She is published in GQ, Playboy, VICE, Cosmopolitan, Forbes, Allure, Glamour, Marie Claire, High Times, Nylon, Refinery29, Complex, Harper’s Bazaar, PRIDE Magazine, SELF, and more. Her writing focuses on sex, drugs, and rock ‘n’ roll as well as the occult and other subcultures.

Saint Thomas is the author of multiple books, including Finding Your Higher Self: Your Guide to Cannabis for Self-Care, The Little Book of CBD for Self-Care, and Sex Witch: Magickal Spells for Love, Lust, and Self-Protection.

In this episode, you will hear:

Understanding what constitutes a multiple orgasm
Different interpretations: blending of orgasms or having multiple orgasms in one sexual encounter
Looking at the diversity of sexual experiences beyond just orgasms
The pressure some individuals feel to have explosive orgasms during sex
Emphasis on the importance of focusing on pleasure beyond just achieving orgasms
The role of psychological arousal in enhancing pleasure
Understanding that men may also fake orgasms
The concept of women having secrets in different historical contexts
Challenges in communication with partners who may not understand a partner's needs
Sophie's advice to relax and not put too much pressure on oneself regarding orgasms

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EP349 - How to Tease Your Partner with Ruth Ramsay Aug 29, 2023

Welcome to episode 349 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Ruth Ramsay about strip teasing, ways to create a contrasting story or role to spice things up, how you can experiment with personas for excitement and the importance of prior communication to prevent discomfort.

In 2001, Ruth Ramsay began her journey at the London School of Striptease, forsaking journalism for the empowering allure of the art. Over 12 eventful years, she danced, performed globally, taught, modeled, and advocated for adult entertainment workers' rights. She also championed erotic rights for people with disabilities, earning an Erotic Award.

During this time, Ruth learned unexpected lessons in sexual empowerment. As a striptease teacher, she saw students bloom and audiences embrace their sexuality. This journey boosted confidence and joy across life's facets.

After meeting her soulmate, Ruth left the erotic industry, prioritizing her stepfamily and fitness training. When her stepchildren left for university, she turned to transformational life coaching, lighting the way for others on matters of sexual happiness and identity.

Ruth seamlessly merges her experiences with coaching, providing a safe space for clients to explore desires. Her journey amplifies her non-judgmental approach. Her dance background nurtured unflappability and compassion. Guiding individuals toward sexual and overall empowerment now brings her the fulfillment dance once did.

In this episode, you will hear:

Crafting a narrative breaks routine which can be exciting for a long-term relationship.
Ways to create a contrasting story or role to spice things up.
How Ruth shifted from strip tease artist to sex educator and coach
The challenges in teasing relationships, emphasizing timing and communication.
Looking at teasing and seduction adds playfulness and depth.
How you can experiment with personas, and scenarios for excitement.
Make sure to prioritize your pleasure and excitement too.
How the narrative approach engages both partners and builds anticipation.
Embrace creativity, communication, and vulnerability for reconnection.
The importance of prior communication to prevent discomfort.
Why you should keep learning and experimenting in teasing to deepen understanding.

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EP348 - Decoding Desire: Erotic Equation Explained Aug 22, 2023

Welcome to episode 348 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Pamela Madsen about the concept of the erotic equation, practicing arousal, expanding pleasure and insights on erotic learning and the ongoing nature of exploration.

At the age of 43, Pamela Madsen's life seemed fulfilling: a devoted marriage that had its roots in young love, two cherished sons, and a thriving career as a prominent advocate addressing fertility challenges. However, beneath the surface, a persistent and restless yearning for something more, something profoundly personal, stirred within her. Despite her deep affection for her husband and a firm stance against infidelity, Pamela recognized an undeniable truth – the need for a significant and transformative change.

In her captivating autobiography titled "Shameless," Pamela Madsen shifts the spotlight onto her own journey. Within its pages, she candidly shares the path she navigated towards a newfound sense of completeness encompassing her sexuality, personal identity, and spiritual being. The memoir delves into intricate and intimate experiences, recounting her encounters with sexual healers – individuals who not only imparted intense pleasure but also became her confidants and allies on this quest for self-discovery.

The essence of this narrative lies in the tale of a woman who, in the process of embracing her true self, encountered profound self-love. "Shameless" not only encapsulates Pamela Madsen's evolution but also extends a compelling invitation to women everywhere to embark on their own voyage of self-discovery and self-love.

In this episode, you will hear:

Understanding the concept of the "erotic equation"
The importance of creating excitement and novelty in relationships
Using games with partners to explore an eroticism
Looking at touch as a foundation of the erotic experience
Exploring massages, breathing, sound, and movement for heightened arousal
Paying attention to direction of touch (for self or partner).
The significance of open communication, intentionality, and feedback in touch
Practicing arousal, creating new normal's, and expanding pleasure
Insights on erotic learning and the ongoing nature of exploration.

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EP347 - Unveiling the Allure: The Psychology Behind Sex in Public Aug 15, 2023

Welcome to episode 347 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey about sex in public, ways to incorporate novelty in relationships, understanding a culture's role in shaping attitudes towards public sex and balancing the thrill of exhibitionism with ethical and legal considerations.

Dr Lori Beth Bisbey is an Advanced GSRD (gender, sex, relationship diversity) therapist, sex & intimacy coach and psychologist whose expertise lies in working with individuals, couples, and groups to explore their sexuality, gender and relationship styles, discover a deeper level of sexual congruence, heal from past trauma, as well as create more meaningful, pleasurable, exciting, and authentic intimate relationships.

On a mission to create an open dialogue about sex, relationships, and self-expression, Dr Lori Beth is the specialist relationship therapist guiding couples on Open House: The Great Sex Experiment (Firecracker Films, Channel 4) and the host of the popular podcast The A To Z Of Sex®. She’s also a passionate speaker, dynamic workshop/retreat facilitator, and sought-after expert in the media on the topics of sex, relationship style, intimacy, and trauma.

Dr Lori Beth Bisbey has been working with people since 1987 to help them resolve trauma and PTSD and create and maintain superb relationships that contain sizzling sex and without the shame. She grew up in the US and did all over her work for her PhD except her dissertation research there. She emigrated to the United Kingdom in 1990 to marry her first husband, lived in the southeast for 32 years until moving to Scotland in November 2022.

In this episode, you will hear:

Ways to incorporate novelty in relationships
Understanding a culture's role in shaping attitudes towards sex in public
How the desire to have sex in front of others can be exhibitionism
Knowing the distinction between exhibitionism as a fetish and non-consensual acts
The importance of consent in public sexual activities
Understanding the risks of public sex, including legal consequences
Balancing the thrill of exhibitionism with ethical and legal considerations
The importance of open communication with partners about fantasies
Recommendations for erotica authors and series
Enhance fantasies by engaging in erotic talk with your partner

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EP346 - Tantric Secrets: Unleashing Erotic Energy & Intimacy Aug 08, 2023

Welcome to episode 346 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Andrea Balboni. In this episode, we discuss how tantric practices involve a mindful approach to intimacy and sex, emphasizing presence and deep connection with your partner.

Andrea Balboni, is a certified Sex, Love & Couples Coach at Zoë Clews & Associates.

She specializes in helping couples create a thriving connected relationship and deeply satisfying intimacy. She also works with single individuals to build their confidence in dating and help them create new healthy relationships.

Andrea believes that modern relationships offer us an opportunity to experience pleasure, love and connection as well as an opportunity to heal and to grow.

Conflict and challenge can transform into deep connection, understanding and love of another – and also offer valuable insights for a richer self-knowing and awareness within.

Andrea looks forward to supporting you in creating a healthy partnership that feels both nourishing and exciting and is pleasure-filled so that it nourishes you body, heart, mind and soul.

In this episode, you will hear:

How tantric practices involve a mindful way of practicing sex and intimacy
The way tantric sex focuses on bringing presence to sexual experiences
Why eye gazing is a powerful but challenging practice in tantra
Understanding tantric practices require an open mind and willingness to learn
How you can foster greater intimacy and connection with your partner
The way tantric practices involve slowing down and extending foreplay
How tantric practices can lead to deeper relaxation and heightened pleasure
Why tantric massage is a way to explore sensuality and connection

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EP345 - Heating Up & Cooling Down: The Thrill of Temperature Play Aug 01, 2023

Welcome to episode 345 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Leigh Cowart. In this episode, we discuss the fascinating world of temperature play and its role in enhancing sensation and pleasure during erotic encounters. Temperature play involves using heat and cold as sensory and emotional intensifiers, ranging from ice cubes, hot wax, fire play, to getting in and out of a hot tub or experiencing cold rain.

Leigh Cowart is a researcher and journalist with more than ten years of experience. They have been writing for Popular Science since 2021. They cover bodies, brains, and what science can teach us about our inner lives.

Cowart’s work has appeared in The Washington Post, New York Magazine, Buzzfeed News, Hazlitt, Wired, and other outlets. Their book, Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose, has been featured in The New York Times, NPR, The Wall Street Journal, The New Yorker, and others. Before becoming a journalist, Cowart was immersed academia, doing research on subjects like sexual dimorphism in leaf-nosed bats and resource allocation in flowers.

Currently, their principal area of interest involves the intersection of inner life and the practical existence of being a body. Cowart’s recent book is an exploration of all the ways humans engage in pain on purpose, why we do it, and what we get out of it. According to The Wall Street Journal, “[t]here’s possibly no one alive more qualified to write about pain than Leigh Cowart.”

In this episode, you will hear:

How temperature play involves using heat and cold as a sensory intensifier
It can include using ice cubes, hot wax, fire play
Entry-level practices for temperature play
Why safety and trust with a partner are important for exploring temperature play
Looking at various products and materials can be used for temperature play
Why communication and consent are crucial in temperature play
How Ice play, in particular, can be intense and erotic
Why education is essential for safe and enjoyable temperature play
Looking at Leigh’s book "Hurt So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose"

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EP344 - Breaking Bedroom Barriers: A Guide to Sexual Communication Jul 25, 2023

Welcome to episode 344 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Melanie Curtin. In this episode, we discuss her study on sex problems and experiences with 3000 participants, highlighted the top issues faced by both men and women in their sex lives. For women, pain and difficulty in reaching orgasm were common concerns, while premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction were prominent issues for men. The study also revealed how communication about these challenges played a crucial role in sexual relationships.

Melanie is a sex researcher and men’s coach with a Master’s in Communication from Stanford University.

She is a columnist at Inc. magazine, and has been published or seen on TODAY, Huffington Post, Forbes, Business Insider, The New York Observer, and more.

She has been coaching men for over six years, and specializes in bringing a woman’s perspective to men, so they can connect and succeed with women in fun, inviting, and meaningful ways that lead to fulfilling sex and relationships.

In this episode, you will hear:

A look at Melanie’s Curtin study on sex problems and experiences
The issues the study looked at and how people faced in their sex lives
How women's top sex problems were pain and trouble orgasming
Why men faced insecurities about their performance
Understanding sexual intimacy and challenges faced by men in relationships
How the fear of not getting an erection can lead to erectile dysfunction
Why men may avoid physical intimacy if they fear performance issues
How delayed ejaculation can be related to emotional safety
How men can reclaim their power and address the "nice guy" syndrome
The need for healthy boundaries and personal growth

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EP343 – Exploring the Sensual Whispers: Unpacking ASMR in Intimacy Jul 18, 2023

Welcome to episode 343 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Suzannah Weiss. In this episode, we discuss the growing popularity of ASMR in the realm of sex and sexuality, ways to incorporate ASMR into your sex life and additional resources for further exploration.

Suzannah Weiss's writing on gender, sexuality, love, and social justice has been widely published across various platforms. With over 8,700 articles to her name, her work has appeared in notable publications such as The New York Times wedding section, Glamour, Teen Vogue, Vice, Complex, Refinery29, Bustle, The Washington Post, and New York Magazine.

Aside from her writing career, Suzannah is also a sexologist and AASECT-certified sex educator. She offers private coaching and courses to help individuals enhance their sex lives and relationships. Additionally, she provides mentorship for writers, consulting for PR professionals, and works as a birth doula.

Suzannah holds a Bachelor of Science in Cognitive Neuroscience and a Bachelor of Arts in Gender and Sexuality Studies, Modern Culture and Media from Brown University. Her diverse background includes experience in tech marketing, scientific research, and academic publishing. In her spare time, she enjoys writing poetry, erotica, and memoirs, and has multiple books in progress, with the first set to be released in 2024.

In this episode, you will hear:

Understanding more about ASMR (Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response)
How it’s associated with sleep and relaxation but is gaining popularity in sexuality
Ways to incorporate ASMR into sex life such as whispering in each other's ears
Looking at the potential benefits of using ASMR during sex such as relaxation
How you can determine if you enjoy ASMR or not
Suggestions for introducing ASMR to a partner
Recommendations for using specific toys and vibrators with low settings
How there is no specific gender differences found in ASMR preferences
Why experimentation, communication, and consent are key for ASMR

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EP342 - Sparking Passion: Unleashing the Power of Sexual Tension in Relationships Jul 11, 2023

Welcome to episode 342 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome back Alicia Davon to the podcast. In this thought-provoking conversation we focus on the significance of sexual tension within long-term relationships, the conscious scheduling of pleasurable moments, and a willingness to embrace novelty in all its forms.

Alicia Davon is a highly accomplished individual, possessing a Master's degree in Integral Psychology with a specialized focus on exploring and understanding women's romantic and sensual expression. Her academic journey and professional background led her to become a trained therapist, equipping her with the necessary skills to make a positive impact on people's lives.

Before encountering her partner Erwan, Alicia was already making a significant difference by leading numerous women's groups. These groups were entirely dedicated to empowering women to embrace and enhance their pleasure and find fulfillment in various aspects of life, be it in their careers or relationships.

It was around 15 years ago that Alicia's path crossed with Erwan's, and this encounter proved to be a transformative one. They soon joined forces, combining their knowledge and expertise to create something truly remarkable - The Pleasure Course. This unique course has had a profound influence on the lives of thousands of individuals, guiding them towards achieving their ideal and fulfilling love lives.

In this episode, you will hear:

The importance of sexual tension building in long-term relationships.
How Sexual tension is the presence of desire, turn-on, and romantic interest
Why many couples face challenges due to getting stuck in routine
Alicia advises acknowledging the issue and discussing it openly with the partner
Prioritizing fun and connection without distractions for better pleasure
Try new and different things to bring novelty and excitement to the relationship
How novelty doesn't always mean extreme acts; it can be romantic gestures
Cultivating desire is possible through open communication, scheduling pleasurable time, and embracing novelty.

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EP341 - Passion Unleashed: Exploring Novelty in Your Sexual Bucket List Jul 04, 2023

Welcome to episode 341 of Sexology Podcast! Today we start our summer series on enhancing intimacy and exploring novelty in your sexual life.

In this episode, we look back on previous episodes and embark on a journey to ensure you have the most exciting and sexiest summer ever, emphasizing the often-overlooked importance of novelty in long-term relationships and discussing the benefits it can bring to your connection with your partner.

Throughout this series, we'll be rubbing shoulders with experts who have unlocked the secrets to a fulfilling and passionate connection. They will impart their invaluable advice and share practical tips to guide you on this enthralling path of self-discovery and rekindling the spark with your beloved.

But wait, there's more! As a token of gratitude for you, our cherished listeners, we've prepared an exclusive PDF packed with tantalizing information. This gem, which would typically be reserved for our premium programs, is now yours to download for free! So be sure not to miss this golden opportunity to elevate your sensual experiences to a whole new level.

So, get ready for a thrilling exploration of enhanced intimacy and sexual discovery as we break free from sexual stagnation and embrace new experiences together.

In this episode, you will hear:

Why Novelty is important in long-term relationships
How trying new activities outside the bedroom can improve sexual experiences
Learning to communicate openly about new sexual desires
Why safety is important for advanced activities like wax play and anal sex
The ways role-playing can bring novelty and excitement to relationships
Considerations for threesomes: Being comfortable and enjoying the experience
How ex toys in intimate moments can enhance sexual satisfaction
The best positions for clitoral stimulation and engorgement

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EP340 - Love, Lust & AI: Navigating Erotic Roleplay with Chatbots Jun 27, 2023

Welcome to episode 340 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Amy Marsh to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the topic of erotic AI, companionship tools and how Amy became interested in the topic after reading about the experiences of chatbot users of a program called Replica who were being shamed in the media for enjoying erotic roleplay.

Dr. Marsh is a clinical sexologist, AASECT-certified sexuality counselor, certified hypnotist and hypnosis instructor who has worked in the field of human sexuality since 2008. Personally, Dr. Marsh prefers to be known as “Avnas,” zir chosen name. Ze identifies as a nonbinary femme.

Dr. Marsh’s private practice is eclectic: combining sexuality counseling with hypnosis, guided imagery, adult sex education, sand tray play, and attention to social justice activism and community wellness. Though online only, Dr. Marsh’s “office” is a “no-shame zone.” You are invited to share in an atmosphere of warmth, humor, and “unconditional postitive regard” (quote from Carl Rogers).

As a sexologist, Dr. Marsh has special interests in erotic hypnosis, spectro-sexuality, objectum sexuality, LGBTQIA++ rights, “sacred sexualities,” and more. Ze teaches online professional courses in Hypnosis for Sex Problems at zir Intimate Hypnosis Training Center.

In this episode, you will hear:

How chatbots are used to develop a relationship, have sex through sexting or voice.
The misconceptions about AI companionships
How chatbots sometimes make things up to keep the conversation going
The way agency arises in the chatbot's choice of response
Understanding the downsides of using companion bots
How Amy’s book "How to Make Love to a Chatbot" is a good starting place
Engaging with chatbots requires intentionality to avoid creating a relationship
How erotic role play is often behind a paywall in chatbots
Why it can be easy to become attached to a chatbot

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EP339 - Expert Insights on Communicating About Intimacy, Kinks, and Fetishes Jun 20, 2023

Welcome to episode 339 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Stephanie Ganowski the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how to have conversations about boundaries and communicating sexual desires in a relationship.

Stephanie Ganowski is a Clinical Sexologist & Sex Coach for men, living in NYC. Her mission is to help men replace their sex pressures with sex pleasures.

Growing up, Steph was severely introverted and shy. She felt very challenged when it came to making friends and feeling confident in herself. She constantly questioned herself and her actions, while remaining hyper curious about those around her. Due to her low self-esteem, she allowed people into her life who “matched” the way she treated herself. Afterall, it felt “right” and comfortable. This included the men she attracted romantically.

Eventually, the prolonged mistreatment from men (and herself) was jolted by 5 incredibly caring, supportive, hilarious guys, she randomly befriended on Instagram, during a hard time. This was a huge wakeup call for Steph. It made her realize that not all men were “assholes” like she had thought. It was her mindset and lack of social skills that put her in the place she had been in.

“But what about these “asshole” guys from her past experiences? What’s going on with them? They must have pain too…” This curiosity led her to want to understand her relationship with men more closely and understand men in general. Step one for Steph, was to start working with men, 1:1, gain their trust, reach their vulnerable side and find a way to help them. Through understanding men and helping them heal and see progress in their lives, Steph would also learn to how to heal and bring people together. Her goal is to eventually get to the place where she can also help women who feel the same way about men, as she once did.

In this episode, you will hear:

How communicating about sex and intimacy can lead to trust, passion, and desire.
The best time to bring up a fetish or kink to a new partner
How to prepare for communicating about vulnerable topics
Why communication with a partner should focus on emotions and understanding
Open-ended questions should provide a space for exploration without immediate implementation.
How anal sex requires warming up with foreplay, lube, and a slow progression
Why it's important to take care of partners' emotions and not take things personally
How going to a dominatrix with a partner can be a helpful alternative to hands-on participation

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EP338 - Sexuality, Race, and Consent: Transformative Conversations with Psychoanalyst Avgi Saketopoulou Jun 13, 2023

Welcome to episode 338 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Avgi Saketopoulou to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss Avgi’s book, Sexuality Beyond Consent, and look at the complexity of eroticism and sexuality.

In her office situated in Union Square, Avgi Saketopoulou treats a diverse range of clients, including children as young as age 3, adults, couples, and polycules. She specializes in addressing various issues such as trauma, anxiety, depression, and relationship difficulties. With extensive experience in working with variant genders and queer sexualities, she provides comprehensive care for individuals across different age groups. Her practice embraces individuals from racially and ethnically diverse backgrounds.

Avgi Saketopoulou received her clinical psychology training in New York after moving to the United States from Greece and Cyprus. She subsequently completed training as a psychoanalyst at the New York University Postdoctoral Program in Psychotherapy and Psychoanalysis.

In addition to her clinical practice, Avgi Saketopoulou is actively involved in academia. She teaches at the NYU PostDoctoral Program in Psychotherapy and Psychoanalysis and holds positions in various psychoanalytic institutes, including the William Alanson White Institute, the Stephen Mitchell Relational Center, and the National Institute for Psychotherapies. She offers courses that incorporate an intersectional perspective on psychosexuality and gender.

Contributing to the field, Avgi Saketopoulou publishes her own research, serves on the editorial boards of academic journals, leads study groups, and provides supervision for colleagues' clinical work. In October 2021, she co-chaired the inaugural conference "Laplanche in the States: the Sexual and the Cultural," the first US-based event dedicated to the work of Jean Laplanche. She is also a co-executor of the Muriel Dimen Literary Estate, which administers Dr. Dimen's archive, as well as manages the Muriel Dimen Prize (through Div 39) and the Muriel Dimen Grant through NYU Postdoc.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Avgi's book was inspired by Jeremy O. Harris' play "Slave Play."
Why transformational experiences stem from pushing limits, not safety.
The way “Limit Consent" acknowledges trauma's impact on boundaries.
Avgi Saketopoulou explores art's risk-taking potential for new experiences.
Why consent is important in exploring the limits of desires and identities
How race and sexuality intertwine historically, shaping desire and limit consent.
The way limit consent enables transformative overwhelm in erotic encounters.

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EP337 - Exploring Erotic Role-Playing: Enhancing Intimacy & Adventure in Relationships Jun 06, 2023

Welcome to episode 337 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Katie Runyan to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss role play and its benefits for enhancing sexual intimacy in relationships, using role play on date nights and the best way to introduce roleplay to your partner.

Katie Runyan is a co-founder of FaithfulFling and lives in KCMO with her husband Jon and four teenage children. She loves donuts, napping, writing and helping relationships all around the world create a spark in the bedroom by having a healthy, passionate and thriving sex life!

The idea for Faithful Fling came as a result of their own role-playing over the years. They recognized that it had increased their connection, improved their sex life, and brought back some novelty to their relationship. It gave them an avenue to improve sensitive and intimate communication as well. They figured if it worked for them, it could work for any committed relationship that was willing to give it a try. They envisioned a scenario where they would do all of the work and their customers would have all of the fun.

They could add to the value by building in lots of fun and surprises that would keep everyone interested and excited to see what would happen next. They loved the idea and nothing else on the market provided the same level of excitement, surprises, and level of detail as what they wanted to provide, so they finally took the leap and launched FaithfulFling.com in February of 2022. They are so proud to help other marriages improve their sex life, put a spark back between the sheets, and put some effort into their marriage again.

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In this episode, you will hear:

How role play and its benefits can enhance sexual intimacy in relationships.
Using the erotic mind with a partner to allow for vulnerability and communication.
Looking at popular role play scenarios include naughty nurse and patient.
How role play adds novelty and playfulness to date nights.
Why curiosity instead of defensiveness can lead to better results.
Committing to the role to make roleplay more immersive and realistic.
The best way to introduce roleplay to your partner.

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EP336 - Mastering Quickies: Unforgettable Passion in Minutes for the Modern Couple May 30, 2023

Welcome to episode 336 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Lola Jean to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the topic of quickies, how they can bring couples closer together, understanding communication is key in navigating the core of the quickie and how you can add novelty to the excitement.

Lola Jean is a sex educator, mental health professional, fetish wrestler, Domme, writer, and world record holder for volume squirting. She has been actively involved in the field of sex education for over a decade.

Lola Jean's journey to becoming a sex educator began when she was in college. After completing her degree in psychology and gender studies, she started working as a mental health professional and soon realized that there was an immense need for more comprehensive sex education. She decided to fill this gap by offering her own workshops and courses on the subject.

Lola Jean's most popular workshop is called "No Frills Sex Education", which covers topics such as anatomy, consent, communication skills, pleasure-based learning, sexual health and safety tips, and much more. She also offers other courses such as "Quick 'N' Dirty" and "Free Courses". Her workshops have had a positive impact on many people's lives by providing them with the knowledge they need to make informed decisions about their sexual health.

In addition to her work as a sex educator, Lola Jean is also an accomplished fetich wrestler and world record holder for volume squirting (solo). She has been featured in several publications such as The New York Times Magazine and VICE Magazine.

In this episode, you will hear:

How quickies can have benefits for busy couples looking to carve out time for intimacy without pressure and with the added feeling of being desired.

The buildup of tension and anticipation through sexting and touching can enhance the experience of a quickie.

Suggestions for physical touching during a quickie include possessive touch, bated breath, and the "skin to skin" position.

Communication and negotiation are important for initiating a quickie to ensure both partners get what they want and to avoid coercive behavior.

Use of language and words during a quickie should be discussed ahead of time to avoid landmine words that could turn off a partner.

The novelty of discreet locations outside of the bedroom can also add excitement to quickies.

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EP335 - Steamy Encounters: Unleashing the Sensual Art of Shower Sex May 23, 2023

Welcome to episode 335 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Ness Cooper to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss shower sex experiences, benefits, drawbacks, techniques, and accommodating diverse preferences and situations.

Ness Cooper is a Sex and Relationship Expert with over ten years of experience. She has helped individuals, couples, and those in polyamorous relationships find fluidity in intimacy and pleasure. She has a background in counselling with a focus on sex and relationships and has trained in the UK as well as internationally.

Ness has trained in youth sex education and is part of the esteem network by acet. Her favorite study has been studying with the Kinsey Institute of Human Sexuality, and therapy courses run by TASHRA. Ness is kink positive and has trained in kink education and has a paper on BDSM and disabilities coming out in 2022.

She runs a popular Sex Toy review blog. Ness is regularly quoted in the press and has been mentioned in a book about female sexual fantasies "Garden of Desire". Not only does Ness coach people in human sexuality, but she also teaches other professionals on various subjects around sexual wellbeing.

Wanting to learn as much as possible, she has also trained in Pelvic Floor Biomechanics, sea sponges, pessaries, and mental health safeguarding.

In this episode, you will hear:

How most people prefer shower sex over beach sex based on a recent poll.
The benefits of shower sex including different sensations, temperature variations, privacy, and different positions.
Establishing boundaries in shower sex, consider order of entry, temperature preferences, lubricant choice, and sex toy integration.
Recommended sex toys for shower use include heated vibrators, glass and metal toys, suction handrails, and specialized furniture.
Health concerns during shower sex may include proper cleaning of the shower head
How positions such as spooning while standing can be a good introduction to shower sex.
The importance of aftercare for vulva owners and neurodivergent individuals.

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EP334 - Breaking the Man Code: Daring to Challenge Gender Norms for Unrivaled Relationship Bliss May 16, 2023

Welcome to episode 334 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome David Khalili to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the challenges men face due to traditional ideas of masculinity and how this impacts their relationships and communication with partners.

David F. Khalili, MA, LMFT is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist whose practice is focused on working with men, adolescents, couples therapy, and multi-ethnic individuals. He received his master's degree in counseling psychology from Golden Gate University and a master's degree in Sexuality Studies from San Francisco State University.

During his graduate studies, David completed his practicum internship at UCSF AIDS Health Project and followed up with a post-graduate psychodynamic intensive program at The Psychotherapy Institute. Additionally, he has extensive experience working with teenagers, as well as with those experiencing grief, trauma and substance abuse issues. His expertise also lies in working with multi-ethnic individuals and those who have recently immigrated or are first-generation American born.

David specializes in issues ranging from sex and sexuality, sexual disorders and anxiety, to trauma and PTSD, and men's groups. His approach focuses on helping his clients improve their self-awareness - guiding them to understand how they relate to themselves and their life experiences, and how to reach the goals they desire.

In this episode, you will hear:

The limitations traditional masculinity imposes on men in terms of emotional expression.
How traditional masculinity encourages men to only rely on themselves
How men often experience a narrow spectrum of emotions and struggle to communicate their feelings with their partner
The impacts David had growing up in a multicultural household, witnessing the impact of cultural expectations on the expression of emotions.
The way toxic positivity and uncommunicated expectations can cause resentment and psychological distress in relationships.
Understanding the concept of "soul murder" where individuals kill off parts of themselves to conform to societal norms.
How sexual response cycles can help individuals better accept and manage their emotions and reactions in relationships.

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EP333 - Embracing the Spectrum: Bisexual Insights, Intimacy, and Breaking Free May 09, 2023

Welcome to episode 333 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome back Zachary Zane. In this episode, we discuss his new book Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto, the importance of including men in the sex positivity movement and increasing bisexual male visibility in media and society.

Zachary Zane is a Brooklyn-based columnist, speaker, activist, and sex expert whose work focuses on sexuality, lifestyle, and culture.

He has a weekly sex advice column at Men’s Health titled “Sexplain It,” where he answers a diverse range of questions pertaining to masculinity, ethical non-monogamy, sexual insecurities, and the LGBTQ community. He answers questions with actionable advice that isn’t just “communicate with your partner,” because let’s be real, we all know that already.

He also has a monthly column at Queer Majority called “Zach and the City,” which explores romance and sexuality through Zane’s fabulous life. Set against the backdrop of New York City, Zane uses his personal experiences as a young and adventurous queer socialite to unpack the current state of cosmopolitan sex, love, and dating.

He currently writes for The Washington Post, Rolling Stone, and Prevention. He was formerly a digital associate editor at OUT Magazine and a contributing editor at Pride.com, Plus Magazine, and The Advocate Magazine. He’s been featured in numerous other publications as well, including Playboy, NBC, SELF, Allure, Dazed, AskMen, Slate, Into, Them, Cosmopolitan, Hornet, NewNowNext, LGBTQ Nation, MerryJane, and Bustle.

In this episode, you will hear:

Why Zachary wrote his memoir focusing on bisexual men overcoming sexual shame.
How even growing up in a sex-positive and queer-affirming household, he still experienced sexual shame.
The importance of including men in the sex positivity movement, as they are often left out due to societal expectations and stereotypes.
The challenges bisexual men face when dating, such as disbelief, condescension, or assumptions that they will later come out as gay.
The importance of bisexual representation in media to help normalize the identity and combat stereotypes.
Advice for individuals exploring their sexuality, suggesting not focusing on a label initially and focusing on understanding their feelings and attractions instead.

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EP332: Navigating Temptations, Trust, and Desire in the Social Media Era May 02, 2023

Welcome to episode 332 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome back Dr. Greg Matos. In this episode, we discuss monogamy in the 21st century, ways in which you can manage temptation and the impact platforms like OnlyFans are having on relationships.

Dr. Greg Matos is a board-certified Couple and Family Psychologist who served over a decade in the U.S. Marine Corps and Navy, becoming a Lieutenant Commander. Greg was awarded the Bronze Star with Combat Valor and the Department of State’s Award for Heroism. He’s the author of Shattered Glass: The Story of a Marine Embassy Guard.

After the military, Dr. Greg began specializing in systems work and Gottman-Method Couples Therapy. He founded a charity on TikTok @abetterloveproject to share science-based advice on love and life with his 40,000 audience members. You can join him for a casual chat and mindful breathing every day on TikTok.

In this episode, you will hear:

A look into the Better Love Project and why Dr. Greg started it
Analyzing monogamy in the 21st century
The way in which social media has affected relationships
Looking at the impacts of opening your relationship
Understanding how micro-cheating works
Balancing your desire whilst in a monogamous relationship
Ways in which you can manage temptation
The importance of knowing your core values
Keeping communication open with your partner for the long haul
The impact platforms like OnlyFans are having on relationships
Building trust and commitment for a healthy relationship

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EP331: Unlocking Love: Attachment Styles, Sexuality, and Conquering Abandonment Fears Apr 25, 2023

Welcome to episode 331 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Morgan. In this episode, we discuss attachment theory, the way different attachment styles affect sexual dynamics and ways in which you can communicate your insecurities.

Meet the relationship coach who's changing the game. With deep expertise in attachment theory and a proven track record of success, she's dedicated to helping women raise their self-worth and find the healthy relationship they deserve.

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In this episode, you will hear:

Looking at the definition of attachment theory
How attachment theory can be the missing piece to the dating puzzle
What is insecure attachment style?
The way different attachment styles affect sexual dynamics
The importance of communication and emotional connection
Recommendations on what you can do daily with secure attachment
Ways in which you can communicate your insecurities
Knowing what is useful to share with your partner
Understanding what it is you need to feel better and more comfortable

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EP330: Can Exploring a Fetish Improve Our Relationship? with Niki Davis-Fainbloom Apr 18, 2023

Welcome to episode 330 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Niki Davis-Fainbloom. In this episode, we discuss the common misconceptions around fetishes, dealing with internalized shame and understanding that not all fetishes are sexually connected.

Niki Davis-Fainbloom is a Canadian-born, New York-based sex educator, writer, and coach. Since receiving her Master’s degree studying the psychology of sexual dysfunction from NYU, she has facilitated hundreds of sexual education workshops at locations including Planned Parenthood, New York University, and The United Nations.

Her writing has also been featured in publications such as Mind Body Green, Cosmopolitan, Refinery 29, and Pornhub Sexual Wellness Center. Her work uses up-to-date research, humor, and practical advice to help people develop the skills to have healthier and more satisfying romantic and sexual relationships.

She is an expert in fetishes, and much of her coaching involves working with folks with unique desires as well as navigating ethical non-monogamy and pleasure.

In this episode, you will hear:

What inspired Niki to delve into this line of work
Looking at the common fetishes people may desire
Understanding the misconceptions around fetishes
Analyzing uncommon fetishes such as sneeze fetishes
The importance of knowing you’re not alone if you do have a fetish
How you can communicate to your partner you have a fetish
Why there can be a lot of internalized shame around fetishes
Communities you can seek out to bond with others around this
How not all fetishes are sexually connected
The importance of consent around fetishes

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EP329 - The Truth About Masturbation While in a Relationship with Dr. Eric Sprankle Apr 11, 2023

Welcome to episode 329 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Eric Sprankle. In this episode, we discuss Eric’s upcoming book on masturbation, the misconceptions about masturbation, and how masturbation positively and negatively affects relationships.

Dr. Eric Sprankle is an Associate Professor of Clinical Psychology and Co-Director of the Sexuality Studies program at Minnesota State University, Mankato. He is a licensed clinical psychologist and an AASECT-certified sex therapist affiliated with the Minnesota Sexual Health Institute. He is also the Director of the Secular Therapy Project, a subsidiary of Recovering from Religion.

Dr. Sprankle received his doctorate in clinical psychology from Xavier University in 2009, completed a postdoctoral fellowship in sexual health at the University of Minnesota Medical School in 2011, and was awarded tenure in the Department of Psychology at Minnesota State University in 2017.

He currently leads the Sexual Health Research Team at Minnesota State examining sexuality, stigma, and secularism, and has published articles on the effects of sexually explicit material, older adult sexuality, and sex worker affirmative therapy.

In this episode, you will hear:

Looking at the content of Eric’s upcoming book around masturbation
How Eric became interested in this subject area
The misconceptions around masturbation
Analyzing the differences between low, moderate and excessive masturbation
Is masturbation beneficial for your wellness?
Understanding the context of masturbation
Masturbating healthily while in a relationship
Making sure your value systems around masturbation align with your partners value system
Communicating to your partner about masturbation
How masturbation can positively and negatively affect relationships

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EP328 - Carnal Weapon: The Power Struggle of Sex in Relationships with Veronica Cisneros Apr 04, 2023

Welcome to episode 328 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Veronica Cisneros. In this episode, we discuss the weaponization of sex, the need for mutual pleasure in a healthy relationship and learning to step out of your comfort zone for excitement.

Veronica Cisneros is a force to be reckoned with. With a sparkling personality and a passion for helping couples feel heard, loved, and respected, she's transformed countless marriages from feeling like they're on life-support to thriving in a place of deep understanding and connection.

As a licensed marriage and family therapist, marriage coach, course creator, retreat host, and podcast host, she's leaving her mark on the world – and inspiring her listeners to live their best lives.

But it wasn't always this way. For years, Veronica found herself losing herself in an effort to meet the needs of her family. She was on the brink of losing her marriage – until she took the reins and fought back. Today, she's a true inspiration – and proof that with hard work and dedication, anything is possible.

In this episode, you will hear:

What does it mean to weaponize sex?
How many women don’t feel seen in their relationship
Understanding what sex represents to your partner
Ways of not letting day to day life get in the way of sex
The need for mutual pleasure in a healthy sexual relationship
Knowing the best place to start to improve sex in a relationship
The importance of communication and improving communication
Learning to step out of your comfort zone for excitement
What you will experience at Veronica’s retreat

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EP327 - The Connection Between Love and Sex in Healthy Relationships with Dr. Alexandra Solomon Mar 28, 2023

Welcome to episode 327 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Alexandra Solomon. In this episode, we discuss maintaining great sex in a long-term relationship, boosting your sexual confidence and learning to step into your erotic self.

Over the last two decades, Dr. Alexandra H. Solomon has become one of today’s most trusted voices in the world of relationships, and her work on Relational Self-Awareness has reached millions of people around the world.

Dr. Solomon is a licensed clinical psychologist at The Family Institute at Northwestern University, and she is on faculty in the School of Education and Social Policy at Northwestern University where she teaches the internationally renowned course, Building Loving and Lasting Relationships: Marriage 101. In addition to writing articles and chapters for leading academic journals and books in the field of marriage and family, she is the author of two bestselling books, Loving Bravely and Taking Sexy Back.

Dr. Solomon regularly presents to diverse groups that include the United States Military Academy at West Point and Microsoft, and she is frequently asked to talk about relationships with media outlets like The Today Show, O Magazine, The Atlantic, Vogue, and Scientific American.

In this episode, you will hear:

Maintaining great sex in a long-term relationship
Understanding the dynamics of sex and intimacy
Cultivating self-awareness and relational safety
How you can repair damaged parts of your sex life
Ways in which you can boost your sexual confidence
Tools you can use to better communicate with your partner
Cultivating the positive aspects of your relationship inside and outside the bedroom
Learning to step into your erotic self

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EP326 - Overcoming Self-Consciousness and Embracing Your Desires with Dr. Shemeka Thorpe Mar 21, 2023

Welcome to episode 326 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Shemeka Thorpe. In this episode, we discuss sexual self-consciousness, incorporating your spirituality into your sex life and recommendations to improve your sexual confidence.

Dr. Shemeka Thorpe is an alum of Florida State and UNCG, a North Carolina native, and a proud Ravenclaw with first-generation college student status.

A lover of the beach who also loves to read books, her passion for research began during her undergraduate studies. Earning her PhD in Community Health Education has enabled this public health professional's goal facilitating positive sexology narratives about Black people rather than deficit-based ones; she strives to create representative teams that consider community needs when disseminating important information from academic journals into meaningful impacts on population health outcomes.

With over 10 years of research under her belt, she is a wheelhouse of knowledge when it comes to sexuality education. As someone deeply embedded in the community and highly active on social media, not only has she been able gather insights from conversations with Black women - but all these experiences also inform her ongoing studies.

Furthermore, this expertise also sees her playing an important role by sitting on editorial review boards for two well-respected journals dedicated to comprehensive sexology counsels and sexual wellness as a whole.

In this episode, you will hear:

What sexual self-consciousness means
Recommendations to improve your sexual confidence
Overcoming the shame spiral that can happen around sex
Looking at studies of black women’s sexual experiences
How many black women defined pleasure as liberating
Analyzing the different sexual experiences of queer and straight people
Understanding the difference between pleasure and orgasm
Incorporating your spirituality into your sex life
The importance of sexual mindfulness

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EP325 - Rising to the Occasion: The Pros and Cons of Erectile Dysfunction Medicines Mar 14, 2023

Welcome to episode 325 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Elliot Justin, M.D., FACEP. In this episode, we discuss the benefits of using a cock ring, readjusting your erectile expectations as you get older and how toys such as vibrators have become more normalized to use for men and women.

Elliot Justin, M.D., FACEP, is an Emergency Medicine Specialist and enthusiastic cock ring user for more than 10 years. In his extensive career as a medical professional, he’s seen inadequate resources dedicated to evaluating men’s sexual health issues.

He believes that before there’s erectile dysfunction, there’s erectile fitness. His interest in regenerative medicine and his passion for regular playful lovemaking and its health benefits inspired him to start FirmTech Inc., the world’s first smart male underwearables company.

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In this episode, you will hear:

How Elliot became interested in this line of work
The benefits of using a cock ring
Pros and cons of using medication such as Viagra
The relationship between erectile dysfunction and anxiety
Readjusting your erectile expectations as you get older
Looking at other sex tech products available to improve erections
How toys such as vibrators have become more normalized to use for men and women
Why you shouldn’t compare your sex life to pornography
The way in which sex toys for men are slowly becoming more mainstream
Changes you can make such as exercise or better diet to further improve your sex life

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EP324 - Breaking the Silence: A Journey of Healing from Sexual Shame with a Queer Muslim Activist Mar 07, 2023

Welcome to episode 324 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Amir Yassai. In this episode, we discuss Amir’s journey of coming out as a queer Muslim, understanding how sexual shame develops, and recommendations on how you can feel more sexually empowered.

Amir Yassai is a queer Muslim unicorn who won’t shy away from any conversation. Comedy is at the center of everything he does.

Chatting with Amir will be like chatting with an old friend with a lot more sass. He actively battles against racism, transphobia, and body shaming in the queer community.

His courage in speaking out against discrimination and prejudice makes him one of the most engaging people you could talk to: like catching up with your best friend, but spicier!

In this episode, you will hear:

Looking at Amir’s journey as a queer Muslim
Overcoming the challenges of coming out as a queer Muslim
How Amir’s relationship with his parents has evolved over the years
Understanding how sexual shame develops
How Amir found a community to help with the challenges of being a queer Muslim
Knowing that it’s ok to have a variety of sexual attractions
The importance of having open communication with your sexual partners
Steps you can take to heal from sexual shame
Why it’s healthy to have sexual fantasies
Recommendations on how you can feel more sexually empowered

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EP323 - Exploring New Frontiers: The Benefits of Role Play in Your Sex Life Feb 28, 2023

Welcome to episode 323 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Amanda Louder. In this episode, we discuss ways you can start to engage with roleplay, learning to better communicate with your partner, and how small things like props can make a big difference.

Amanda Louder is a Certified Life Coach who empowers women to embrace their sexuality while maintaining strong relationships with themselves and God.

In addition to being a coach, Amanda is also a wife to Kevin, and mom and stepmom to 5 kids, ranging in ages from 13-22. Amanda knows just how challenging it can be for modern Christian families to find a balance between traditional values and leading an enjoyable life filled with meaningful connections.

When she's not coaching or catering to her family, you'll likely find Amanda at home enjoying one of her favorite hobbies: reading books, watching sports games involving loved ones; fishing by the lake; or camping under open skies surrounded by nature.

Learn more about what motivates this inspiring woman through @AmandaLouderCoaching on Instagram, her 'Sex For Saints' podcast series dedicated to talking about sex and marriage topics or visit her website.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Amanda became involved in this line of work
Learning to better communicate with your partner
The importance of building and expanding on trust in a relationship
Tips for ways you can start to engage with roleplay
How small things like props can make a big difference
Making sure that consent is working both ways
The benefits of the stop light system for engaging in new sexual activities
Maintaining Christian values while having a good sex life

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EP322 - Getting to Know Your P Spot ft Dr. Stefan Buntrock Feb 21, 2023

Welcome to episode 322 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Stefan Buntrock. In this episode, we discuss prostate orgasms and stimulation, the sex toys available to reach a prostate orgasm, and we also analyze the g-spot and female ejaculation.

Dr. Stefan Buntrock is a board-certified urologist in Göttingen, Germany. He is a Fellow of the European Board of Urology (FEBU) and received European certification as a sexologist and Fellow of the European Committee of Sexual Medicine (FECSM).

For many years as chief physician at the Klinik am Kurpark, one of the largest German rehabilitation clinics for urology, he treated many patients after radical surgical interventions on the prostate and bladder.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Dr. Stefan became interested in this line of work
Looking at the research for men reaching orgasm through prostate stimulation
Analyzing sex toys and vibrators for men
Understanding the g spot; Does it exist? How does it work?
Is the g spot linked to female ejaculation?
Understanding what a prostate massage is
Looking at the the types of stimulation that can cause a prostate orgasm
How this area is very mis-understood by the wider public

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EP321 - How To Experience Your First Breath Orgasm with Anya Laeta Feb 14, 2023

Welcome to episode 321 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Anya Laeta. In this episode, we discuss the different ways people can experience an orgasm, understanding orgasmic breathing and we also hear a sample of a breathing exercise from Anya.

Given that sex was a shameful and taboo topic in her culture, it is miraculous that her attitude toward sex was always one of curiosity and experimentation. Despite being open-minded and comfortable with sex, all her relationships would start lacking passion and excitement after about a year or so. Anya would conclude that she “fell out of love” and looked for a new relationship. Only to repeat this pattern all over 6-12 months later.

Not being able to have a sustainable, fulfilling sex life made her feel like a failure in relationships. It is this challenge that ultimately led her to study human sexuality, Tantra, and relationship psychology.

Understanding how her erotic mind, desire, arousal, sexual polarity, and anatomy work empowers Anya to create and re-create excitement, passion, and sexual satisfaction every day.

She would be lying if she said it’s easy. Yet, having a roadmap to do it made it possible for Anya to have a happy and sexy long-term relationship that she was dreaming about.

Today Anya is honored to help you meet your erotic potential and relationship needs.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Looking at the different ways people can experience an orgasm

· Analyzing emotional v genital-based orgasms

· Looking at the way your brain wires your thinking of orgasms

· Understanding the concept of embodiment

· What is orgasmic breathing?

· Can anyone practice orgasmic breathing?

· How you can learn to deepen your breath to enhance your sexual experience

· A sample of a breathing exercise from Anya

· Using music to enrich your breathing exercises

· The different ways vulva and penis owners can benefit from these exercises

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EP320 - 3 Penetration Styles for Better Sex Feb 07, 2023

Welcome to episode 320 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Miranda (@PleasureBhabie). In this episode, we discuss how Miranda became involved in Sex Education, looking at the best techniques for thrusting, using lube to your advantage and cultivating your sexual energy for great sex.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Miranda became involved in Sex Education
Looking at the best techniques for thrusting
Common mistakes men make with thrusting
Why don’t need to “Jackhammer” your partner for them to orgasm
Using lube to your advantage
Looking at some of Miranda’s favorite choice of lubes
Understanding the importance of consent and communication
How to use sexual positions to their best effect
Cultivating your sexual energy for great sex
Why women shouldn’t have to fake an orgasm

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EP319 - How To Celebrate Your Lover’s Pussy ft Kevin Anthony Jan 31, 2023

Welcome to episode 319 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Kevin Anthony. In this episode, we discuss pussy worship, how you can use pussy worship to please your partner, analysing the scent of a pussy and taking the pressure off women to have an orgasm.

Kevin Anthony 'The Truth Warrior' is a former tech guy who turned Men's Relationship Coach and Certified Tantra Counselor. Kevin is truly a modern-day warrior who brings both his heart and sword of truth to everything he does.

Kevin has spent over 20 years on a personal quest to redefine and discover what it means to be a man and a warrior. In an era of social programming and mass confusion of what it means to be a man and a warrior in life, relationships, and sex - he is consistently challenging his edge and searching for the truth so that he can help others.

He is the co-creator of the course Sexual Power and Mastery with his lover and wife Céline, "The Intimacy Angel," which is the complete training to develop man's stamina, boost his confidence, and enhance his sexual abilities. He and his wife also co-host "The Love Lab Podcast."

His passion is helping other men find and discover their hero's journey of being a warrior; to learn how to be deeply connected to their partner and allow intimacy to show up in all areas of their life while still feeling balanced as a man.

In this episode, you will hear:

· How many women haven’t properly looked at their own pussy

· Analyzing the scent of a pussy

· Why it’s important to embrace the natural smell of pussy

· The importance of present with your partner

· Why you need to show your partner your invested in pussy worship

· Taking the pressure off women to have an orgasm

· Ways in which to make your partner comfortable and more relaxed

· Understanding pussy worship doesn’t need to lead to orgasm

· How you can immerse yourself in experiencing pleasure through pussy worship

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EP318 - How to Become an Expert in Sexting ft Hayley Quinn Jan 24, 2023

Welcome to episode 318 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Hayley Quinn. In this episode, we discuss how couples in long term relationships can take advantage of sexting, the importance of consent when sexting, and how you can learn to develop your erotic vocabulary.

Dating coach Hayley Quinn’s original content, active social media presence, and unique delivery style helps global brands connect to a new audience and drive engagement.

Hayley has worked with numerous premium brands from Neutrogena, to Match, to Glamour, Logitech G, Ogilvy and Hotels.com. Hayley’s skills as a broadcast presenter, mean she can act as an experienced “safe pair of hands” to represent your brand on radio days, TV segments or social media content. She is a skilled copywriter and regularly works with brands to hone their press releases and provides expertise on how to utilize dating content to get your brand into the media. She is also a highly experienced public speaker who can engage on live events, and panels.

As well as being an internationally recognized dating coach and founder of the UK’s largest dating coaching company, Hayley is a published author. Her debut fiction book “The Last First Date” (Harper Collins) and non-fiction “Do This, Not That: Dating” (Simon & Schuster) are due for publication in January 2023.

Hayley has appeared on TV and radio shows across the UK, USA and beyond: providing lively debate and content on love and dating. She’s appeared on shows ranging from BBC News, to Celebs Go Dating, to The Apprentice and is a safe pair of hands for live TV and broadcast. She is also experienced helping behind the scenes with show content.

In this episode, you will hear:

How couples in long term relationships can take advantage of sexting
Seducing your partner via sexting
The way in which sexting can help recapture desire
Why audio and voice notes might be the best tool for you to use
Security measures you can take if sending sexy pictures
The importance of consent when sexting
Context is key! Take things one step at a time
Learning to develop your erotic vocabulary
Bridging the gap if one partner is more confident than the other sexting
The need and importance of positive reinforcement

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EP317 - How to Drive Your Partner Wild with These Foreplay Tips! Ft Sebastian Harris Jan 17, 2023

Welcome to episode 317 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Sebastian Harris. In this episode, we discuss how you can keep a long term relationship hot, the importance of seduction, tips on how you can get better at seducing your partner and how to create more space in your relationship to allow for sexy time!

Sebastian Harris is a dating coach and sex coach who is on a mission to help men to live more fulfilling dating and sex lives.

In this episode, you will hear:

What inspired Sebastian to write his book Rise of the Phoenix: How to Get the Hottest Girls in a World That Wants You to Fail
Keeping a long-term relationship hot
Why it’s important for you to seduce your partner
Mistakes men often make when it comes to seduction
How it’s easy to get lazy in a long-term relationship
Tips on ways to break out of the laziness
Steps you can take to really turn your partner on
Keeping communication open so you can be honest about what is and isn’t working
Creating space in your relationship to allow for sexy time
Looking at the pillars of seductive touch

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EP316 - Everything You Would Need to Know About Cuckolding ft Dr. David Ley Jan 10, 2023

Welcome to episode 316 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. David J. Ley to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss cuckolding, analyzing the misconceptions, the role that cuckold porn plays and, tips and suggestions on how you can explore cuckolding.

David Ley is a clinical psychologist, sex therapist and author, based in Albuquerque, New Mexico. He's the author of several books and research articles on sexuality, including his first book, Insatiable Wives, Women who Stray and the Men Who Love Them, which was the first book to examine the cuckolding and hotwife phenomenon.

With Justin Lehmiller and Dan Savage, he published the first psychological study of the cuckold fantasy. Dr. Ley is a frequent guest in media around the world, with appearances in the New York Times, CNN and Time Magazine, as well as Hustler and Playboy magazines.

In this episode, you will hear:

How David became interested in Cuckolding
How is Cuckolding defined?
The difference between Cuckolding and Hotwifing
Analyzing the misconceptions around Cuckolding
Looking at what makes up healthy sexuality
The role that masturbation plays in this issue
Who initiates Cuckolding?
How Cuckold porn is one of the most popular categories
Ways in which people are now rejecting shame
How Cuckolding is losing its stigma
Tips and suggestions on how you can explore Cuckolding

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EP315 - Can Your Parent's Sexual Trauma Be Passed Down To You? Jan 03, 2023

Welcome to episode 315 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a special solo episode where we discuss the issue of if your parent's sexual trauma be passed down to you, understanding how sexual trauma works, the role that epigenetics plays in this issue and the importance of having time to breath and regroup following trauma.

We also discuss ways you can make sexy new year's resolutions for 2023, how you can communicate with your partner about things you would like to improve or explore in your relationship and understanding what a real sexy win for yourself would be in 2023.

In this episode, you will hear:

A look back at the last six years of Sexology Podcast
Plans for 2023 and future episodes
Answering a question from a listener about sexual trauma
Understanding how sexual trauma can be passed on from parent to child
The role that epigenetics plays in this issue
Looking at studies from other people affected by trauma and traumatic events
The importance of having time to breath and regroup following trauma
How the book “The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma” is a great resource on this subject matter
Ways you can make sexy new year's resolutions for 2023
How you can communicate with your partner about things you would like to improve or explore in your relationship
Ways you can be successful in following through on a resolution
Understanding what a real sexy win for yourself would be in 2023
Knowing when the right time is to see a Sex Therapist or Sex Coach
Understanding the differences between a Sex Therapist and Sex Coach
Forging the road ahead to your sexy new goals

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EP314 - Top 3 Mistakes To Avoid When Going Down on Woman ft Jason Julius Dec 27, 2022

Welcome to episode 314 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Jason Julius to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss oral sex, the common mistakes men make when giving oral sex, analyzing tongue movements, and the best positions to take for oral sex.

Jason Julius is a sex coach with over 15 years of experience teaching couples all over the world how to have incredible experiences in the bedroom. Surprised with how little information there is in the mainstream world around sex, female orgasms, and sexual performance Jason sought out uncommon techniques and practices that would help the average man or woman elevate their intimate experiences.

Jason is known for creating a clean, respectful, mature, intelligent conversation around having great sex. Jason wanted to create a place for people to discover a deeper level of understanding, especially when it comes to the mental aspects of female orgasms.

Jason began posting intimate details of his experiences and has since amassed a loyal following on YouTube of others seeking a deeper understanding of what it takes to be an amazing lover. Frustrated by the negative beliefs that are perpetuated by the adult film industry, Jason separates what he teaches by creating content without nudity, done in a tasteful way that reaches people who are genuinely looking to please their partner and have more confidence in themselves when it comes to sex.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Jason became involved in this line of work
The importance of being present with your partner during oral sex
Should you use breath as teasing?
The common mistakes men make when giving oral sex
What gets in the way of men experiencing enthusiasm
Understanding the more you give the more you get back
Analyzing tongue movements
How sexy language can amplify the experience further
Do men care about the shape of vulvas?
Looking at squirting
The best positions to take for oral sex
What’s a reasonable amount of time for a man to give oral sex?
Is face sitting enjoyable?

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EP313 - The Truth About Contraception, Abortion and Miscarriage ft Dr. Kathryn LaRoche Dec 20, 2022

Welcome to episode 313 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Kathryn LaRoche to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the misconceptions around contraception, taking care of yourself if you think you’re pregnant and ways in which men can support their partners.

Dr. Kathryn J. LaRoche, PhD, MSc is an Assistant Professor of Public Health at Purdue University. She is a public health social scientist and applied anthropologist who carries out community-engaged, action- and intervention-oriented research about sexual and reproductive health with a focus on abortion and pregnancy.

She has published her work extensively in journals like Contraception and Women’s Health Issues, and she has led and contributed to projects in Canada, Australia, and the United States.

In 2022, she received the Carole Joffe and Stanley Henshaw Early Achievement in Social Science Research Award from the National Abortion Federation for her contribution to generating abortion-related knowledge.

In this episode, you will hear:

Looking at the misconceptions around contraception
How there isn’t a one size fits all solution
The educational issues around contraception
Ways you can take care of yourself if you think you’re pregnant
Navigating abortion in areas of the world where it’s not legal
Understanding there are professional organizations who can help you
How to properly deal with an unplanned pregnancy
Making sure you communicate effectively with your partner
Ways in which young men can support their partners

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EP312 - What Happens to Your Body When You Lose Your Virginity ft Dr. Ashley Townes Dec 13, 2022

Welcome to episode 312 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Ashley Townes to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss virginity, the social construct and values around virginity, the importance of safety and prevention, and how you can create a better construct and narrative around virginity.

Dr. Ashley Townes (she/her/hers) is a sexuality educator and researcher. As a native of Cincinnati, Ohio, she attended the University of Cincinnati, where she earned both her Bachelor of Science and Master of Public Health degrees. She later earned a PhD in Health Behavior and Epidemiology from Indiana University-Bloomington.

Dr. Townes has over 15 years of experience providing sexuality education across a variety of academic and public health entities. Dr. Townes currently works in a postdoctoral research role in Atlanta, GA. Ashley’s research focuses on the sexual experiences of Black women, including partnered experiences, accessing health information, and utilizing sexual health services.

As a young investigator, she has been a part of at least 15 peer-reviewed publications, serves on the Editorial Board for the American Journal of Sexuality Education, contributes to the Live Alive Wellness Blog created by Pure Romance, and has been featured in a variety of media, including Mind Body Green, Woman’s Day, Cosmopolitan, and MTV News). Her career interests are aimed at providing quality sexuality information and working towards health equity.

In this episode, you will hear:

How is virginity defined?
Looking at the issue of “repairing virginity”
Understanding the social construct and values around virginity
Analyzing the female hymen
Creating a better construct and narrative around virginity
Improving your sexual experiences as you encounter them for the first time
How communication is key to unlocking better sexual experiences
Safety first! Make sure your fully up to speed with condoms and prevention

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EP311 - The Politics of Sexual Pleasure ft Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons Dec 06, 2022

Welcome to episode 311 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons to the podcast. In this episode, we look at racial trauma, how it impacts men and women differently, and how our cultural scripts can affect our sexual pleasure.

Dr. Candice Hargons (she/her) is an award-winning associate professor in the counseling psychology program at the University of Kentucky, where she studies sexual wellness and healing racial trauma – all with a love ethic. She is the PI of the SAMHSA funded Neighborhood Healers Project, which seeks to advance mental health literacy and utilization among Black Lexingtonians.

She is also a co-I on projects funded by NIDA, HRSA, and NIMHD examining substance use outcomes, treatment, and sexual health disparities. Additionally, she leads the Big Sex Study, a mixed methods, community-based participatory action research project investigating Black sexual wellness.

She is the founding director of the Center for Healing Racial Trauma, and the host of the How to Love a Human Podcast. Her new sexual liberation podcast, F*ck the System, launches January 2023.

In this episode, you will hear:

Looking at racial trauma
The different impacts of racial trauma between men and women
Understanding sexual liberation
How our cultural scripts can affect our sexual pleasure
Analyzing the orgasm gap
How is pleasure defined?
Practice makes perfect! How you can continue to improve your sex life over time
Discovering your sexual identity
Looking at sex in deep and intimate relationships
Exploring and cultivating fantasies
Recommendations for parents improving their sex lives

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EP310 - Do Americans Have Less Sex? Ft Dr. Ali Mushtaq Nov 29, 2022

Welcome to episode 310 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Ali Mushtaq to the podcast. In this episode, look at the underlying reasons why Americans are having less sex, analyse the differences between genders on this issue and differentiating sexuality v eroticism.

Ali Mushtaq has his PhD from University of California: San Francisco in Sociology. Ali has over 10-years' experience in both qualitative and quantitative research methods and taught numerous college-level courses to hundreds of students.

As a former leather title holder, Ali has used his platform to speak on multiple social issues and address social inequality. Through his written work, press engagements, modeling, and his courses, he continues to address diversity, inclusion, and equity in hopes of creating a better world.

Through his teachings, his main goal is to help professionals in media, market research, business, and others learn techniques to be inclusive as well as help others empower themselves.

In this episode, you will hear:

Are Americans having less sex?
Is celibacy on the rise?
Looking at the underlying reasons why Americans are having less sex
How issues such as depression can affect sexual activity
Is this a global trend or just an American issue?
Analyzing the differences between genders on this issue
Understanding the pros and cons of having less sex
Differentiating sexuality v eroticism
Looking at issues such as consent and the Me-Too movement
How we have more people identifying as non-binary than in previous years

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EP309 - How To Have Great Sex in Long Term Relationships Ft Yana Tallon-Hicks Nov 22, 2022

Welcome to episode 309 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Yana Tallon-Hicks to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how you can bring back passion in a relationship, overcoming low desire and recommendations for ways to explore new sexual interests.

Yana Tallon-Hicks, MA is a couples & relationships therapist and a consent, sex & sexuality writer and educator living in Western Massachusetts. Her work centers around the belief that pleasure-positive & consent-based sex education can positively impact our lives and the world.

Yana’s workshops for youth & workshops for adults work to create a welcoming & comfortable space to explore crucial aspects of our holistic, sexual selves such as pleasure, communication, consent & the body. Her workshops such as Consent & Cookies, Polyamory & Open Relationships, Hitting the Spot: Pleasure-Based Sex Education, and Pleasure-Based Consent have taken place at Duke University, Marlboro College, Oh My Sensuality Shop, Hampshire College, Smith College, Bennington College, Brandeis University, and Simmons University, along with a growing list of other colleges & universities across New England and the U.S.

Her popular workshop Consent Cookies: A confidence-building workshop for teens has been taught at various high schools & teen youth groups. Though much of her published sex advice is written for an adult audience, Yana also has years of experience working with teens. Her workshops for youth are tailored to be approachable & age-appropriate and focus on essential components of healthy sexuality and relationships for young people including consent, communication, safer sex & body-ownership.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Yana became interested in writing her book: Hot and Unbothered: How to think about, talk about, and have the sex you really want.
Recommendations for people wanting to explore their sexual interests
Looking at kink and the safest way to explore it
The importance of community when exploring kink
Ways you can overcome low desire
Maintaining excitement in a long-term relationship
Understanding how you and your partners needs will change over time
Overcoming sexual dissatisfaction in a relationship
How you can re-energize yourself to become interested in sex again
Having a great sex life if you’re both parents

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EP308 – The 3 Best Sex Positions for Female Orgasm Ft Dr. Amir Marashi Nov 15, 2022

Welcome to episode 308 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Amir Marashi to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the best sexual positions for orgasms, how can we intensify orgasms, and how sex toys can improve orgasms.

Dr. Marashi is a board-certified OB/GYN, author, and founder of Cerē. Dr. Marashi has over twenty years of experience in the medical field, and was the first doctor in the U.S. to host an official cosmetic gynecology rotation for OB/GYN residency training.

In 2020, Dr. Marashi published A Woman’s Right to Pleasure, a distinctive collection of over 200 works and original texts from over 60 of the world’s most important and well-recognized female-identifying artists, writers and creative thinkers from around the globe.

In this episode, you will hear:

Why sex is important in a relationship
Do we experience orgasms differently when masturbating?
The common barriers that get in the way of women having great orgasms
Looking at the best sexual positions for orgasms
Why cowgirl and women on top is great for orgasms
How can we intensify orgasms?
What can you do outside the bedroom to improve your sex life
How sex toys can improve orgasms
Looking at the toys Dr. Marashi has worked on

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EP307 - What Exactly Happens at a Sex Club? Ft Keeley Rankin Nov 08, 2022

Welcome to episode 307 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Keeley Rankin to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss what happens at sex clubs, what you can expect from the experience, setting expectations and the importance of setting boundaries.

As a leading sex and relationship coach based in San Francisco, Keeley Rankin has been successful in helping men, women and couples overcome intimacy issues and enjoy the best sex of their lives since 2010. She received a master’s degree in Counseling Psychology with a focus on marriage and family therapy from John F. Kennedy University. Keeley is a co-founder of BetterSexEd.org and Co-Creator of the innovative group workshop series, Sex as Meditation, which integrates mindfulness and sex.

Keeley is also a Certified Somatica Method Practitioner (a relational and experiential body-based therapy), Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Certified Queer Conscious Educator, trained in Hakomi Therapy (somatic and mindfulness-based method), and Recreation of the Self, a system for re-empowering our ability to live from an undivided state of selfhood in relationship with others.

Since 2009, she has assisted world-renowned psychotherapist, John Welwood in bridging the gap between the psychological and spiritual. She lead educational workshops on male sexual difficulties for therapists and coaches and created engaging video series courses that help people overcome sexual dysfunction from the convenience of their own homes.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Keeley became interested in this line of work
What can you expect if you attend a sex club?
Looking at the differences between sex clubs and swinging
The importance of setting expectations when going to sex clubs
Making sure you set boundaries
How your female partner will likely get most of the attention at a sex club
Analyzing the risk of STI’s and how you can protect yourself
Why Keeley became disconnected from sex clubs

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EP306 - Understanding 3 Common Sexual Dysfunctions in Men ft Dr. Susie Gronski Nov 01, 2022

Welcome to episode 306 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Susie Gronski to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss male sexual health, the common challenges men face with penile issues, understanding erectile dysfunction and looking at the factors that cause low desire in men.

Specializing in men’s pelvic and sexual health, Susie Gronski, PT, DPT is a licensed doctor of physical therapy, certified pelvic rehabilitation practitioner, international teacher, author and creator of one-to-one and self-paced health programs that help men with pelvic pain become experts in treating themselves.

Her passion is making you feel comfortable about taboo subjects like sex and private parts. Social stigmas aren’t her thing and neither is medical fluff. She provides real advice, just like a friend who knows the lowdown down below. She’s determined to make sure you know you can get help for painful ejaculation, problems with the joystick, discomfort or pain during sex and controlling your pee... without being embarrassed…

So, if you’re having some trouble ‘down there’, she’s the person to get to know.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Dr. Susie became interested in this field
Learning to spice things up and try different sexual experiences
How many women need clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm
The common challenges men face with penile issues
Is it true you can break your penis?
Looking at the factors that cause low desire in men
How is erectile dysfunction defined?
Understanding Kegel exercises
Why men should become more acquainted with their soft penis

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EP305 - Why Not Ask a Doctor? Ft Dr. Stephen Foster Oct 25, 2022

Welcome to episode 305 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Stephen Foster to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how Stephen become interested in this area of research, looking at the internalized concept of masculinity and understanding honor culture among men.

Dr. Stephen Foster is a social psychologist at Penn State York. His academic work is primarily centered around the intersection of culture, stigma, and health behaviors, including vaccine attendance, screening attendance, and various forms of help-seeking.

Other research interests include conflict resolution in relationships, sexual function, and subjective socioeconomic status.

In this episode, you will hear:

How did Stephen become interested in this area of research?
How erectile dysfunction is defined
Understanding why people do things against their best interest
Looking at the internalized concept of masculinity
Ways we can motivate people to ask for help
Are people more comfortable asking for help from same or different gender?
Understanding the importance of communication to help address these issues
Looking at other findings in Stephen’s study
Is opening up to your partner about this well received?
Understanding honor culture among men

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EP304 - How Erectile Dysfunction Affects a Woman Ft Dr Rachel Needle Oct 18, 2022

Welcome to episode 304 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Rachel Needle to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the impact erectile dysfunction can have on a woman in a relationship, helpful tips for what you can do as a partner to help and looking at the variety of factors that can cause erectile dysfunction.

Dr. Rachel Needle is a Licensed Psychologist and Certified Sex Therapist in private practice and the founder and executive director of the Whole Health Psychological Center. She is also the owner and Co-Director of Modern Sex Therapy Institutes which provides continuing education to Mental Health and Medical professionals and Sex Therapists around the world. MSTI provides certifications in Sex Therapy, Couples & Sex Therapy, LGBTQIA Affirmative Therapy, Alternative Relationships, Medical Sexology, and Transgender Affirmative Mental Health Care, Sexual Trauma, Problematic Sexual Behavior, Sex Counseling, and Sex Educator, and a Ph.D. in Clinical Sexology.

Dr. Needle is often interviewed by and quoted in national media outlets. She has been featured in a number of popular magazines such as Details, Glamour, Cosmopolitan, Men’s Health, Details, and Shape, and papers including the Washington Post and the Palm Beach Post. She has written several articles for Glamour Magazine’s online Blog: Smitten.

Dr. Needle is a business coach and consultant and helps therapists build and thrive in private practice both in person and online! She is the co-owner of My Private Practice Collective which has a facebook group and offers a course on how to start, grow, and thrive in private practice. The course helps therapists successfully start and build either an in person, online, or combination therapy practice!

In this episode, you will hear:

How erectile dysfunction can affect a woman in a relationship
Other sexual activities you can explore if struggling with erectile dysfunction
Experimenting with sex toys
Helpful tips for what you can do as a partner to help
Looking at the variety of factors that can cause erectile dysfunction
How you can improve your communication during this process
The importance of giving our partners direction

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EP303 - What Research Says About Safe Choking Ft Debby Herbenick Oct 11, 2022

Welcome to episode 303 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Debby Herbenick to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss choking during sex, analyzing the resources available in this area, and why communication is vital when engaging in choking.

Debby Herbenick is a tenured professor at the Indiana University School of Public Health and director of the Center for Sexual Health Promotion.

For more than 20 years, she has dedicated her efforts to understanding how people experience their bodies and sexual lives.

Among her 190+ scientific publications, she has developed and validated measurement scales to assess genital self-image (which can be thought of as how people feel about their genitals), the quality of sexual experiences, and measures related to sexual pleasure.

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In this episode, you will hear:

How Debby became interested in the topic of choking during sex
Analyzing the research and resources available on choking
Understanding what it means to be safe
How you can weigh your own safety against any risks
The way in which meme culture has affected choking
Why communication is vital when engaging in choking
Looking out for things like skin color changes when choking
What Debby’s students think about choking

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EP302 – Does Better Sleep Translate to a Better Sex Life? with Terry Cralle, MS, RN Oct 04, 2022

Welcome to episode 302 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Terry Cralle, MS, RN, to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how sleep affects sex, knowing when it’s poor sleep that’s affecting your sex life and how regular sex can help with better sleep.

Terry Cralle, MS, RN, is a Registered Nurse based in Washington, DC. She is certified in clinical sleep health and has co-authored two books on sleep; Snoozby and the Great Big Bedtime Battle (Rowe Publishing, 2015), the first nonfiction book directly messaging the benefits of sufficient sleep to young children and Sleeping Your Way to the Top (Sterling Publishing, 2016), the ultimate guide to success through sufficient sleep.

As the cofounder of a four-bed sleep disorders center and a nationally recognized sleep health and wellness consultant, educator, advisor and advocate, Terry’s work in the field of sleep medicine has spanned over 25 years. Terry is a certified professional in healthcare quality and holds bachelor’s degrees in Sociology and Nursing as well as a master’s degree in Healthcare Management.

She serves on the Start School Later Board of Directors and is a spokesperson for the Better Sleep Council. Terry works with a variety of organizations throughout the U.S. and Europe to promote sleep health and wellness.

In this episode, you will hear:

How does sleep affect sex?
Knowing when it’s poor sleep that’s affecting our sex lives
Overcoming being in survival mode through lack of sleep
How regular sex can help with sleep
The importance of investing in a good bed / mattress for sleep
Understanding that sleeping apart doesn’t mean your relationship is in a bad place
When is it appropriate to go for a sleep study?
Recommendations for couples to improve sleep together
How you can make sleep your me time

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EP301 - What Does It Mean To Be Bad in Bed? Ft Dr. Albert Wong Sep 27, 2022

Welcome to episode 301 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Albert Wong back to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the common mistakes couples in long term relationships make around sex, how you can listen to your body to know your needs and ways in which you can give compassionate feedback.

Dr. Albert Wong is the Director of the Trauma Certificate Program at Somatopia and and the former Director of Somatic Psychology at John F. Kennedy University.

A leading educator in the field of somatics, he trains students in somatic psychology, healing trauma, and the mind-body connection through his online platform, Somatopia, and maintains an online private practice centered around somatic psychology.

In this episode, you will hear:

What do people mean when they say, “my partner is bad in bed”?
Common mistakes couples in long term relationships make around sex
The ingredients needed to improve a relationship
Recommendations for rituals you can incorporate into your relationship
How you can listen to your body to know your needs
Understanding the importance of communication
The importance of being selfull
Ways in which you can give compassionate feedback
Analyzing the practicalities of feedback

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EP300 - Between the Sheets: Desire Issues and Open Relationship Red Flags Sep 20, 2022

Welcome to episode 300 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a special episode where Dr Nazanin Moali answers your questions around desire discrepancy, improving an unhealthy open relationship, overcoming performance challenges and how pornography can cause erectile dysfunction.

Dr. Moali also reflects hosting Sexology Podcast for five years and how the podcast has changed Dr. Moali as a clinician.

In this episode, you will hear:

Analyzing a desire discrepancy between a couple
Ways to manage differences in sexual drive between partners
Understanding your baseline desire
Overcoming challenges of remaining present during sex
The importance of mindfulness for better sex
How you can use sensate focus touch
Create rituals before having sex
How you can seduce your partner in a way they like
Overcoming the challenges of open relationships
Identifying the red flags of an unhealthy open relationship
The importance of creating co-consent for an open relationship
Understanding the need for your own privacy & boundaries
Looking at how pornography can cause erectile dysfunction
Does porn only affect erectile dysfunction when watched or can audio only porn do the same thing?
Understanding that porn is not real life and is an unrealistic expectation of how your actual sex life will be
Managing your sexual fantasies alongside porn through masturbation
Reflecting on hosting Sexology Podcast for five years
How the podcast has changed Dr. Moali as a clinician

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EP299 - The Surprising Psychology of Dominance ft Stefani Goerlich Sep 13, 2022

Welcome to episode 299 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Stefani Goerlich back to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how Stefani became interested in writing her book Praise for The Leather Couch, the misconceptions around dominance in the bedroom and how people get more turned on when there is consent.

Stefani holds a Masters in Social Work from Wayne State University, where she specialized in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. She has over fifteen years’ experience in working with poly/kinky individuals, swingers, commercial sex workers, and child and adult survivors of sexual trauma including human trafficking.

Stefani has served as a guest lecturer on minority sexual communities at Northwestern University and is a frequent conference presenter on topics related to Kink Aware Practice and consent. An award winning author, she currently working on her second book entitled The Leather Couch: Clinical Practice with Kinky Clients.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Stefani became interested in writing her book Praise for The Leather Couch
The misconceptions around dominance in the bedroom
Looking at dominance v domestic violence
Analyzing the consent issues in Fifty Shades of Grey
Looking at the different types of dominance, sadism, topping, BDSM, etc.
How do people discover what kind of dominance they like and don’t like
Understanding the importance of consent
How people get more turned on when there is consent
The importance of communication and clear understanding

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EP298 - Should I End My Relationship or Go to a Sex Therapist ft Nicoletta Heidegger Sep 06, 2022

Welcome to episode 298 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Nicoletta Heidegger to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss dealing with erotic conflict, exploring other relationship types such as polyamorous and figuring out when’s the right time to end a relationship.

Nicoletta Heidegger is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (#110256) and sexologist practicing in Los Angeles, California.

Nicoletta received her BA in Psychology from Stanford University, her MA in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University, and her Masters of Education in Human Sexuality from Widener University.

She sees therapy clients virtually and at her unique ranch office in Los Angeles, where she offers sex therapy, outdoor sessions, and Equine Facilitated (also called Equine Assisted) Psychotherapy and Learning. Nicoletta also creates weekly content via her growing hit show Sluts and Scholars: a sex positive, shame-free educational podcast.

In this episode, you will hear:

Dealing with erotic conflict
Discovering your partner likes something sexual you’re not interested in
What to do when your partner reveals they have a fetish to you
How to communicate if your partner revels a different sexual side to you
Exploring other relationship types such as polyamorous
The different types of modality people can explore
Looking at equine assisted therapy
What we can learn from equine assisted therapy
Figuring out when’s the right time to end a relationship

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EP297 - The Problem with Being Too Perfect in the Bedroom Ft Dr. Tom Murray Aug 30, 2022

Welcome to episode 297 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Tom Murray to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the way in which over control gets in the way of great sex, understanding the issue of forced celibacy and exercises you can do to improve your sex life.

Dr. Tom Murray, author, international trainer, educator, and couples and sex therapist-supervisor, is a widely sought-after expert in sexuality and intimate relationships. For 20+ years, Murray has worked with everyday folks to embrace their weirdness, shed labels and shame, lean into anxiety, and build better and stronger relationships.

Murray has appeared in numerous venues, including the Huffington Post and The Daily Mail, as well as radio, television and podcasts, including the Practice of Being Seen and Shrink Rap Radio.

Murray directs A Path to Wellness Integrative Psychiatry. He authored Making Nice with Naughty: An intimacy guide for the rule-following, organized, perfectionist, practical, and color within the line types.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Tom became interested in this subject area
The way in which over control gets in the way of great sex
Why sex needs mystery
The pressure we put on ourselves to be “Sexually perfect”
Recommendations for dealing with an over developed desire to control things
Analyzing the monogamous agreement
Understanding the issue of forced celibacy
The pleasures of mutual masturbation
Looking the issues around the “Neutral Face”
How you can learn to better show your emotions
Exercises you can do to improve your sex life

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EP296: 6 Different Types of Intimacy to Explore with Your Partner ft Mary Jo Rapini Aug 23, 2022

Welcome to episode 296 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Mary Jo Rapini to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the difference between intimacy and sex, analyzing intellectual intimacy and how you can gain better access to your emotions.

Mary Jo Rapini, MEd, LPC is a psychotherapist specializing in intimacy, sex and relationships. She lives in Houston, Texas and maintains a private practice as a relationship, intimacy/sex psychotherapist.

Rapini is a renowned lecturer, author and television personality. Currently, you can find Mary Jo on Fox 26 Houston with her segment on healthy relationships on Mondays and “Ask Mary Jo” on Thursdays. She has been a contributor on air for CNN’s Prime News and has been on CBS Up to the Minute, Fox National Morning News, Montel, Steve Harvey, the Today Show and Dateline.

Rapini contributes and writes a love/relationship expert page for Your Tango. She also contributes to magazines including Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health, Men’s Health, Playboy, First, Seventeen, Teen, Redbook and Self. She has written for Huffington Post and the New York Times.

Rapini is the author of Is God Pink? Dying to Heal, and a co-author of Start Talking: A Girl's Guide for You and Your Mom about Health, Sex or Whatever and Re-Coupling; a Couple’s 4 Step Guide to Greater Intimacy and Better Sex.

In this episode, you will hear:

Looking at the difference between intimacy and sex
Understanding the different types of intimacy
How you can gain better access to your emotions
The importance of not rushing to find solutions if you’ve been emotionally hurt
Analyzing intellectual intimacy
How you can manage different religious and political beliefs in a relationship
The difference between physical and sexual intimacy
How men and women engage differently with intimacy

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EP295 - Unpacking Embodied Sexuality and Religious Shame ft Jenny McGrath Aug 16, 2022

Welcome to episode 295 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Jenny McGrath to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss her study Transnationalizing Purity, understanding purity culture and how purity shows up in the bedroom for adult women.

Jenny McGrath (She/Her) MA, LMHC, is a somatic psychotherapist, movement educator, and researcher based out of Seattle. She works primarily with white, cisgender women who grew up in fundamentalist Christianity who are healing from religious sexual shame and sexual abuse. She researches purity culture and its impact on individual and collective bodies.

Her current study, Transnationalizing Purity, looks at the intersections of those socialized within purity culture and their decisions to do development or ministry work internationally.

She recently released an online course, Embodied Sexuality, that offers comprehensive teachings about the impact of purity culture as well as sex education that most folks who grew up in abstinence only education never learned.

In this episode, you will hear:

Insights into Jenny’s recent study
Understanding Transnationalizing Purity
Looking at Jenny’s story of purity and the impact it had on her
The common themes that emerged from the study
Looking at the experience of going on purity missions
Understanding purity culture
The role that shame plays around purity culture
The consequences women face for breaking their purity
How purity shows up in the bedroom for adult women
Looking at sexual embodiment
Learning to tune into your body and be curious

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EP294 - Secrets to Sustaining a Passionate Marriage with a Conservative Upbringing ft Sheila Wray Gregoire Aug 09, 2022

Welcome to episode 294 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Sheila Wray Gregoire to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the inspiration behind her book, The Great Sex Rescue, how you can honor religion with a great sex life, and how men can empower women to say no.

Sheila Wray Gregoire is the face behind ToLoveHonorandVacuum.com, the largest single-blogger marriage blog. A sought-after speaker, she’s also an award-winning author of nine books, including The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex and The Great Sex Rescue. Sheila has a Master's in Public Administration and Master of Arts in Sociology both from Queen’s University.

Sheila built the successful blog, To Love, Honor, and Vacuum, with traffic of one million page views a month. Her email list is 45,000 strong and her social media reach is over 100,000. Her podcast, Bare Marriage, has more than 5,000 downloads each week. She is an award-winning author with seven royalty published books. A sought-after speaker, Sheila has spoken at churches and conferences around the globe. She is a frequent contributor at Family Life Canada events.

Her latest book, “The Great Sex Rescue” was featured in the New York Times Book Review, Publishers Weekly, and the Washington Post. She has bylines at Religion News Service, Relevant Magazine, and other news sources. Sheila and her husband Keith, a pediatrician, live in Belleville Ontario.

They have two grown daughters and one very adorable grandson and granddaughter who live down the road. She enjoys hiking, birdwatching, RV camping trips, and board games. And she knits - even in line at the grocery store.

In this episode, you will hear:

The inspiration behind the book, The Great Sex Rescue
Looking at the common beliefs that hurt sex
Understanding sex isn’t just vaginal penetration
The difference between sex and intimacy
The dynamic between sexual and relational satisfaction
Ways in which couples can find good resources to educate themselves
How you can honor religion with a great sex life
Overcoming orgasm anxiety
Tips for women on how to better communicate with male partners
How men can empower women to say no

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EP293 - 4 Natural Remedies for Erectile dysfunction According to the Research with Dr Kristian Leisegang Aug 02, 2022

Welcome to episode 293 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr Kristian Leisegang to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the issues around erectile dysfunction, analyzing the studies conducted around this issue and looking at the ways in which lifestyle changes such as a better diet can help with erectile dysfunction.

Dr Kristian Leisegang is currently the Director of the School of Natural Medicine (SoNM), University of the Western Cape (UWC), Cape Town, South Africa, with over 12 years academic and clinical experience. He is a clinically trained and registered homeopathic Doctor in South Africa, and further obtained a PhD in Medical Science.

His learning and teaching focus in on clinical science modules and diagnostic training to natural medicine students, as well as research supervision for post-graduate students in Masters and PhD programs.

Kristian is actively involved in medical research, with a broad focus on obesity and underlying phenomenon such as insulin resistance, chronic inflammation and oxidative stress within the context of male reproductive function. This includes hypogonadism (low testosterone in males), sexual function and fertility potential. He also actively researching natural medicines within this context.

Kristian has published more than 38 peer-reviewed scientific papers in international journals, alongside 10 invited academic book chapters. He has presented his research at international scientific meetings.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Dr Kristian became involved with natural medicine
What is erectile dysfunction and how is it defined?
Looking at studies conducted around this issue
The ways in which lifestyle changes such as a better diet can help with erectile dysfunction
How things like smoking, drugs and alcohol can impact erectile dysfunction
Is acupuncture effective in treating erectile dysfunction?
The importance of relaxation and reducing stress

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EP292 - 7 Powerful Sex Tips for Men According to Sexperts Jul 26, 2022

Welcome to episode 292 of the Sexology Podcast! Today we’re doing something a little bit different as we seek the advice of sexual experts on the best tips for men to have better sexual experiences.

Don’t forget you can join me for my live workshop this weekend on how to achieve optimal sex performance:

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In this episode, you will be hearing sex tips from:

Michael Castleman

https://www.mcastleman.com

Michael Castleman is a journalist and novelist, author of more than 2,000 newspaper, magazine, and Web articles, 14 consumer health books, and four mystery novels.

He is "one of the nation's leading health writers" (Library Journal). For 35 years, he has been a prolific freelance medical journalist focused on optimal health, mainstream medicine, alternative therapies, nutrition, fitness, and sexuality.

Dr. Jed Kaminetsky

https://www.universityurology.com

Recognized as a Top Urologist in NYC, Dr. Jed Kaminetsky, M.D. is a Clinical Assistant Professor at NYU Medical Center and a Board Certified Urologist at University Urology, one of the largest urology practice in the New York City area.

He pioneered the minimally invasive Rezum BPH treatment, is highly skilled in treating all urologic disorders and excels in minimally invasive prostate surgeries and penile implants.

Katie Ziskind

https://wisdomwithinct.com

Katie Ziskind is a licensed marriage and family therapist in Florida and Connecticut, a yoga therapist for complex trauma, and she is Gottman level two certified.

Katie Ziskind runs, Wisdom Within Counseling, a group practice, and is passionate about helping distant couples who have stopped expressing themselves emotionally and have stopped sexually connecting.

Tim Norton

https://www.timnortontherapy.com

Tim Norton is a Los Angeles-based sex therapist working in private practice, and host of a podcast on erectile issues and male sexuality - Hard Conversations.

He obtained his bachelor’s and master’s degrees from the University of Southern California.

Erik Everhard

https://www.erikeverhard.com

Erik Everhard is one of the top paid and most recognized performers in adult films of the last two decades. He has won numerous Male performer awards and been enshrined in the hall of fame of the AVN and XRCO organizations.

Caitlin V

https://www.bettersexcoach.com

Caitlin V is a sex and relationship coach who helps men become amazing lovers and incredible partners. Formerly a sexual health researcher and policy analyst, she was catapulted into internet stardom after a video featuring her went viral.

Fredrick Zal

http://www.tantrickink.com

Fredrick’s sexuality education work has focused upon erotically marginalized communities, partnerships, and individuals since 2006 by "Teaching the Art within Sexual Acts" in private lessons, semi-public and private events, and workshops in Oregon, Washington, California, British Columbia, and via Zoom worldwide.

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EP291 – Erectile Dysfunction, Cancer and Sex Toys for Men with Dr Lauren Walker Jul 19, 2022

Welcome to episode 291 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr Lauren Walker to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how recovering from prostate cancer can take 3-5 years, the common sexual changes after recovering from prostate cancer and looking at useful sex toys that are available and appropriate.

Dr Lauren Walker is a therapist, researcher, author and entrepreneur. Dr Walker translates science about sexuality into real life and helps people grow in the areas of sexuality, intimacy, relationships and self-care. Dr Walker is passionate about reducing the stigma associated with sexuality, mental health and health.

Dr Walker completed her PhD in 2013, she completed a specialized clinical fellowship in sexual dysfunction after cancer treatment. Dr Walker received mentorship from nationally recognized experts in sexual medicine.

Dr Walker recently received Calgary's Avenue Magazine's Top 40 Under 40 award. This prestigious award distinguishes recipients as rising stars; high achievers who are impacting their field and the broader community, and who are moving the city of Calgary forward.

She has also developed several innovative sexual health programs for cancer patients and also directs the Oncology Sexual Health Lab at the University of Calgary. There she is on the faculty as an Adjunct Associate Professor where she conducts research on sexuality. Dr Walker has over 40 scientific publications on the topic of cancer and sexuality and is co-author of a book for prostate cancer patients - Androgen Deprivation Therapy: A Guide for Prostate Cancer Patients and Their Loved Ones.

Though not sure the "perfect balance" really exists, she tries to balance her career, with being a wife and also a mom to a vibrant toddler. Dr Walker loves skiing, golf, and working out, listening to music, and enjoying food with her friends.

In this episode, you will hear:

How did Dr Walker become interested in this line of work?
Analyzing the findings of Dr Walker’s research
Ways in which Dr Walker helped partners navigate the journey back into sex
How recovering from prostate cancer can take 3-5 years
Does pumping help to re-engage sexual activity?
The common sexual changes after recovering from prostate cancer
Is pain during sex common for prostate cancer survivors?
Do implants work and are they effective?
Is caregiver actually a useful term to give to partners?
Looking at useful sex toys that are available and appropriate

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https://www.drlaurenwalker.com

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EP290 - Erectile Dysfunction & Jealousy with Gavin Vance Jul 12, 2022

Welcome to episode 290 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Gavin Vance to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss erectile dysfunction, how he became interested in this area of work, and the roles jealousy and infidelity play around this issue.

Gavin Vance is a Ph. D candidate studying evolutionary psychology under the supervision of Dr Todd K. Shackelford. Gavin received his Bachelor of Science in Psychology from The University of Michigan – Flint in the Fall semester of 2017, and his Master of Science in Psychology from Oakland University during the Summer semester of 2020 after defending his master’s thesis.

Gavin's research interests, broadly, focus on human evolved psychology, patterns of romantic relationships, and human mate preferences. In particular, he is interested in studying men’s evolved sexual psychology and the consequences of these psychological adaptations on men’s behavior in romantic relationships.

Gavin has published two manuscripts investigating the relationship between ED and men’s abusive, partner-directed behaviors, with several additional manuscripts currently submitted to various research journals. He has also published a manuscript investigating mate preferences in older men and women. Gavin's dissertation work focuses on women’s physiological adaptations to prevent pregnancy during rape and assesses vaginal acidity and lubrication in response to sexually coercive audio stimuli. Gavin hopes to eventually become employed as a tenure-track faculty member at a research university.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Gavin became interested in erectile dysfunction
How do you define erectile dysfunction?
Looking at the hypothesis of what causes erectile dysfunction
Analyzing the recruitment process for getting people involved in the study
How they made sure respondents answered honestly
The way relationship dynamics can affect erectile dysfunction
Looking at the connection between infidelity and erectile dysfunction
The ways in which jealousy can show up around erectile dysfunction
Analyzing personality traits that may lean toward erectile dysfunction

Find Gavin Vance Online

gvance@oakland.edu

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EP289 - How to Have a Sex Life When You Have Kids with Melissa Dumaz Jul 05, 2022

Welcome to episode 289 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Melissa Dumaz to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the common issues for parents and intimacy, being creative with your ideas for having sex and how you can adapt your sex life around your kids.

Melissa Dumaz is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, best selling author, and podcaster. She specializes in guiding clients through the complexities of overcoming trauma, grief & loss, improve their relationship satisfaction, and supportive therapy for moms in all stages of motherhood.

Melissa passionately supports high-achievers that hide their pain and neglect themselves with the everyday stressors of their personal and/or professional lives. As a big advocate for self-care she weaves that component into her work with all of her clients. Melissa sees clients through her Practice, U Help You, where she offers EMDR therapy; and believes that a healthy you starts with you making new (healthier) choices to live your best life!

In this episode, you will hear:

What are the common issues for parents and intimacy?
How parents may unconsciously weaponize sex
Why communication is so important to keep your sex life healthy
Ways parents can find time for sex
Being creative with your ideas for having sex
Understanding that successful sex doesn’t always have to mean penetration
How you can adapt your sex life around your kids
Tips to maintain your sex life in your kid shares your bed with you
Ways in which to overcome issues of sexual frustration
How you can keep your sex life great whilst not going out much

Find Melissa Dumaz Online

https://www.uhelpyou.com

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EP288 - 3 Tips for Building an Erotic Love Map with Dr. Greg Matos Jun 28, 2022

Welcome to episode 288 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Greg Matos to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss erotic love maps, how challenges outside the bedroom can affect your sex life and how you can re-connect with your partner if there’s a disconnect.

Dr. Greg Matos is a board-certified Couple and Family Psychologist who served over a decade in the U.S. Marine Corps and Navy, becoming a Lieutenant Commander. Greg was awarded the Bronze Star with Combat Valor and the Department of State’s Award for Heroism. He’s the author of Shattered Glass: The Story of a Marine Embassy Guard.

After the military, Dr. Greg began specializing in systems work and Gottman-Method Couples Therapy. He founded a charity on TikTok @abetterloveproject to share science-based advice on love and life with his 40,000 audience members. You can join him for a casual chat and mindful breathing every day on TikTok.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Dr Greg became interested in this line of work
The ways in which trauma affects relationships
Why it’s so important to be able to connect emotionally
Looking at erotic love maps and how they work
How you can keep improving communication with your partner
Analyzing the success of great sex in long term relationships
How challenges outside the bedroom can affect your sex life
Ways in which you can devise rituals for initiating sex
The importance of sexual attunement
How you can re-connect with your partner if there’s a disconnect
The importance of curiosity and staying open to new experiences

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EP287 - The Top Dating Trends You Need to Know According to Research ft Dr. Aditi Paul Jun 21, 2022

Welcome to episode 287 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Aditi Paul to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how Dr Aditi became interested in hook-up culture, looking at the dating anxiety that exists within Gen Z and ways we can create successful hook-up dates.

Aditi Paul is a professor and mixed-methods researcher based in New York City.

She uses her multidisciplinary background in computer science and communication studies to examine the impact of using human-centered technologies like social networking sites and online dating services.

Aditi’s research has been published in top academic journals and has been featured in prominent media outlets such as The Washington Post, Women’s Health, The Telegraph UK, Huffington Post, NBCNews.

Her new book, "The Current Collegiate Hookup Culture: Dating Apps, Hookup Scripts, and Sexual Outcomes," is out on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, & Walmart.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Dr Aditi became interested in hookup culture
How are dating apps changing hookup culture?
Do dating apps help cultivate positive sexual experiences?
Looking at the dating anxiety that exists within Gen Z
The ways in which hookup sex is being re-defined
Analyzing the ways dating has evolved over the past 10 years
How we can create successful hookup dates
How only 19% of straight women are being reciprocated with oral sex
The ways in which porn is damaging our sexual expectations
Looking at the use of recreational drugs as a sexual enhancer
How Sugar Daddy’s and Sugar Babies are very much a thing in 2022

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EP286 - Is Swinging Right for Your Relationship? with Gigi Engle Jun 14, 2022

Welcome to episode 286 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Gigi Engle to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss swinging, the way in which the media portrays swinging versus the reality and the importance of consent when exploring swinging.

Gigi Engle, ACS, CSE, CSC, is an award-winning feminist author, certified sex

educator, and psychotherapist in training.

As a sex expert with ethical non-monogamy app, 3Fun, she promotes and teaches pleasure-based sex education, GSRD relationships, and safer sex practices.

Gigi’s work regularly appears in many publications including Cosmopolitan, Marie Claire, Elle Magazine, Teen Vogue, Glamour, and Women's Health. Her articles have been shared over 150 million times.

In 2019, Gigi was named Journalist of The Year at the Sexual Freedom Awards.

She is originally from Chicago and currently lives in London, UK.

In this episode, you will hear:

What is swinging?
Looking at how people discover they’re swingers
The way in which the media portrays swinging versus the reality

Why you shouldn’t open your relationship to save your relationship
The difference between swinging and polyamory
How we receive a lot of sex negative messaging throughout our lives
Where can people go to explore swinging?
Looking at the dynamics of who initiates swinging

The importance of consent when exploring swinging
How single women tend to be better welcomed than single men

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EP285 - How to Get Over Jealousy in Your Relationship with Kate Loree Jun 07, 2022

Welcome to episode 285 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Kate Loree, LMFT to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how Kate became involved in the non-monogamous community, looking at why more people are opting for non-monogamy, and how you can manage jealousy in non-monogamous relationships.

Kate Loree, LMFT, is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in non-monogamous, kink, LGBTQ, and sex worker communities and the author of Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships.

In addition to her master’s in marriage and family therapy, she also has an MBA and is a registered art therapist (ATR). She is an EDSE certified sex educator and an EMDR certified therapist with additional training in the Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM) for the treatment of trauma. She has been practicing psychotherapy since 2003.

She cohosts her own sex-positive podcast, Open Deeply, with Sunny Megatron, has been featured in Buzzfeed videos, and has been a guest on Playboy Radio and many podcasts, including American Sex, Sluts and Scholars, and Sex Out Loud. She has written for Good Vibrations and Hollywood Magazine and is a frequent public speaker.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Kate became involved in the non-monogamous community
Understanding that non-monogamy is more popular than people realize
Looking at the different categories of people identify as non-monogamous
How people can be sexually non-monogamous and emotionally monogamous
The way in which the non-monogamous community has become diverse
Looking at why more people are opting for non-monogamy
Understanding the maturity needed to make non-monogamy work
How you can manage jealously in non-monogamous relationships
Learning to communicate effectively with your partners around jealousy

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EP284 - How to Have a Non-Monogamous Relationship with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova May 31, 2022

Welcome to episode 284 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Zhana Vrangalova to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss non-monogamous relationships, ways you can take small steps into non-monogamy and understanding the role of jealousy on this journey.

Dr. Zhana is an NYU adjunct professor of human sexuality and the creator of Open Smarter, an online course that guides couples and individuals through a safer opening up journey. She holds a PhD in Developmental Psychology from Cornell University, and her scholarly work on non-traditional relationship styles has been published in several peer-reviewed journals.

She's also a lifelong non-monogamist with extensive experience in many types of nonmonogamy. In January 2022, Ashley Madison commissioned a YouGov survey on nonmonogamy in consultation with Dr Zhana.

Follow her on Instagram or Twitter @drzhana, and join her FREE online monthly Open Smarter Socials events to discuss all things non/monogamy with non-judgmental people from all over the world.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Dr Zhana became involved in non-monogamy work
Understanding that non-monogamy isn’t for everyone
Looking at the limitations of monogamy
How a lot of needs for non-monogamy are biological
Ways you can take small steps into non-monogamy
Understanding the role of jealousy
How you can start opening conversion about non-monogamy if you have a partner
Ways couple can assess if they want to open up the relationship
Understanding if you’re personality type will lend itself to non-monogamy

Find Dr Zhana Online

https://www.drzhana.com

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EP283 - How to Have Multiple Orgasms with Kenneth Play May 24, 2022

Welcome to episode 283 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Kenneth Play to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how Kenneth became a Sex Hacker, ways you can achieve multiple orgasms and cultivating energy for amazing foreplay.

Kenneth Play is an international sex expert and sex educator. Named the world’s greatest sex hacker by GQ, he has been featured by more than one hundred media outlets, including The New York Times, Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, Huffington Post, and Nightline.

Kenneth has been a guest lecturer on female sexual pleasure at New York University and San Jose State University. His work has helped millions of men gain lasting confidence and competence. AskMen described Kenneth’s most recent course as having "at least one nugget of sexual learning you’ve almost certainly never encountered before, if not several."

In this episode, you will hear:

How Kenneth became a Sex Hacker
Can anyone have multiple orgasms?
Looking at the different types of orgasms
How women can continue having an orgasm when the clit is very sensitive
Ways you can best equip yourself with the tools needed for great orgasms
The importance of foreplay for achieving multiple orgasms
Cultivating energy for amazing foreplay
Understanding a Lady Boner is
The importance of learning skills so you’re not shooting in the dark

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https://kennethplay.com

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EP282 - What You Need to Know to Have Hot Period Sex with Dr. Jennifer Lincoln May 17, 2022

Welcome to episode 282 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr Jennifer Lincoln to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss having sex on your period, how you can pay attention to your desire cycle, and how it’s normal for many women to feel more turned on during their period.

Jennifer Lincoln, MD, IBCLC, is a board-certified generalist obstetrician/gynecologist and attending physician in Portland, Oregon. She primarily works on labor and delivery as an OB hospitalist and loves the excitement and pace this work brings. Jennifer is also an International Board-Certified Lactation Consultant.

Jennifer received her undergraduate degree from Washington College in Chestertown, Maryland, where she graduated Summa Cum Laude. She received her medical degree from Tulane University in New Orleans, Louisiana, where she was a member of Alpha Omega Alpha, the nation’s honor medical society. She completed her residency at Oregon Health and Science University in Portland, Oregon.

Jennifer enjoys educating women about their bodies and their pregnancies. She has particular interests in adolescent medicine, breastfeeding advocacy, and supporting women in labor in an informed, relaxed manner. She currently serves on the Board of Directors for the Northwest Mothers Milk Bank as well as for the Society of OB/GYN Hospitalists.

She is happily married to a pediatrician and has two sons, one in elementary school and the other a preschooler, who teach her more everyday than any textbook could.

In this episode, you will hear:

Can we have sex during our period?
What are the benefits of having sex on your period?
How having sex on your period can act as a natural lubricant
Can you get pregnant while having sex on your period?
How it’s normal for many women to feel more turned on during their period
Exploring oral sex while on your period
Looking at “Menstrual Masking”
Can you reduce your period flow?
How having sex on your period can be great in the shower
Ways you can increase novelty into the relationship through period sex
Learning to pay attention to your desire cycle

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https://www.drjenniferlincoln.com

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EP281 - How to Create Your Sexual Bucket List with Layla London May 10, 2022

Welcome to episode 281 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Layla London to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss Layla’s journey to creating a sexual bucket list, why novelty is important to keep sex exciting and why stepping outside your comfort zone is important to explore sexuality.

Layla London is the girl next door who recently decided to explore her sexuality. After a 3.5-year, self-imposed, dry spell she woke up one day and said "What the heck am I doing to myself? Why have I just shut off that side of my sexuality? I need physical contact badly."

She decided to stop "wasting the pretty" and get out there! Having set out on her "sexual road trip" she is scratching things off her sex bucket list. Layla is getting laid, exploring "kinks" (a word she really didn't know anything about before this), having fun, sifting through the emotions it stirs up in her, blogging and podcasting about it anonymously

In this episode, you will hear:

How Layla dealt with celibacy
Why novelty is important to keep sex fresh and exciting
How celibacy drove Layla to explore her sexuality
Why Layla decided to create a sexual bucket list
The ways in which porn helped Layla explore her sexuality

Understanding the difference between ethical porn and sex education videos
Learning to communicate effectively with your partner about what you want
Looking at what Layla liked and disliked from her sexual exploration
The things that are still on Layla’s sexual bucket list
What are the common things on people’s sexual bucket list

Why stepping outside your comfort zone is important to explore sexuality
The importance of sexual negotiation and doing it in good faith

Find Layla London Online

https://www.thecuriousgirldiaries.com

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EP280 - How to Initiate Sex May 03, 2022

Welcome to episode 280 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where we discuss the best ways to initiate sex.

In this episode, you will hear:

How couples in long term relationships can learn new ways to initiate sex
Ways you can add novelty into your relationship
The importance of reciprocation for a healthy sexual relationship
Understanding the arousal gap between men and women

Analyzing the responsive model of desire
How partners can become resentful of things that happen in a relationship
Using communication to improve your sex life with your partner
How a good sexual plan can be a game changer
Learning to take things slow so you can last longer

Overcoming issues of partners liking other people’s Instagram photos, leading to issues of anxiety and insecurity
The importance of having a relationship agreement
Setting realistic goals and expectations that you can both achieve

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EP279 - How to Have a Threesome with Stella Harris Apr 26, 2022

Welcome to episode 279 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Stella Harris to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how you can have a successful threesome, looking at cuckolding and hotwifing and how you can first bring up with your partner you want a threesome.

Stella Harris is a certified intimacy educator, coach, and mediator, who uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella has appeared at conferences across the US and Canada, and regularly provides workshops and guest lectures to colleges and universities.
Stella’s writing has appeared widely, including a weekly sex advice column in her local paper. Highlights of her media appearances include speaking as an expert on Banana Slug sex and appearing on the evening news discussing the importance of sex education in schools.

Stella is the author of two books, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships, and The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes.

In this episode, you will hear:

What do we mean when we say threesome?
Looking at cuckolding and hot hotwifing
Why it’s important to plan your threesome
The importance of clear communication and agreements when negotiating a threesome
Looking at play party spaces

How you can first bring up with your partner you want a threesome
Understanding that a threesome in real life is not what like you see in porn
The importance of aftercare after a threesome
Engaging in other activities after a threesome such as a coffee or meal
Why you should take things very slowly and test the waters before going deeper

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EP278 - Learn Step by Step How to Have an Extended Massive Orgasm with Alicia Davon Apr 19, 2022

Welcome to episode 278 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Alicia Davon back to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss extended massive orgasms, how you can achieve them, tips for the giver and how you can work through anxiety to have an extended massive orgasm.

Alicia Davon holds a Master’s degree in Integral Psychology with a focus on women’s romantic and sensual expression. She trained as a therapist before meeting Erwan and led numerous women’s groups devoted to female pleasure and life fulfilment from career to relationship. She met Erwan 15 years ago and started teaching with him soon after.

Together with her partner Erwan, Alicia developed The Pleasure Course, which has helped thousands achieve their ideal love lives. They provide a safe place to explore psychological inquiry, pleasure, and sexuality.

In this episode, you will hear:

Working through anxiety to have an extended massive orgasm
Looking at the first time Alicia achieved an extended orgasm
Understanding your body to allow involuntary genital contractions
Incorporating your fantasies for extended orgasms
Tips for the giver to help achieve extended orgasms

Practical tips for best movements and touch around the genitals
Knowing when it’s best to incorporate lube
Communicating effectively with your partner about what’s working and what’s not
Understanding the signs of when your close to an extended orgasm

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EP277 - How to Unlock Her Desire with Touch with Searah Deysach Apr 12, 2022

Welcome to episode 277 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Searah Deysach to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the areas where vulva owners can improve their skills on touch, analyzing the mixed messaging that’s out there around the vulva, and how you can tune into your erotic self.

Searah Deysach is a sex educator and the owner of Early to Bed and FtM Essentials. In addition to running her retail store & websites, she lectures to community groups and colleges around the state on topics relating to masturbation, sex toys and positive sexuality.
She is committed to working to create a culture where everyone has access to honest information about sexuality and all folks have access to the services, they need to protect their reproductive rights.

In this episode, you will hear:

Looking at some of the areas Vulva owners can improve their skills on touch
The importance of giving yourself enough time to explore your Vulva
How you can explore other areas of your body alongside your Vulva
Looking at some of the best touches, techniques and strokes you can use
The best way to use lube with your Vulva
Analyzing the mixed messaging that’s out there around the Vulva
Ways in which masturbation can help you explore different parts your yourself
How you can practice mindful masturbation
Tuning into your erotic self
Recommendations for good sex toys you can use

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EP276 - How to Create Your Own Sexual Fantasies with Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus Apr 05, 2022

Welcome to episode 276 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss why having fantasies is important, analyzing the over-empowerment or “rape” fantasy and understanding the importance of allowing your fantasies to expand.

Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus, a certified sex therapist, is the Clinical Director of Maze Women’s Sexual Health, the largest independent sexual health center in the country. She’s the author of Sex Points: Reclaim Your Sex Life with the Revolutionary Point System. She earned her Ph.D. in Human Sexuality and a Master’s in public health at the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality; she holds a master’s degree in social work from Columbia University and a master’s degree in Jewish Studies from the Jewish Theological Seminary.

Dr. Marcus has worked as the executive director of not-for-profit institutions and corporations, medical practices, and laboratories. She has lectured internationally on women’s issues, gives frequent Grand Rounds to medical health providers, as well as lecturing to sex therapists around the world.
She has been a guest on numerous radio and television shows, including CNBC, CBS News, Huffington Post Live, and NPR and been profiled in the New York Times Magazine, Time Magazine, and Westchester Magazine, among others.

In this episode, you will hear:

Why having fantasies is important
How many women fear their whole sex life is broken if one thing isn’t working
How fantasies are one of the most powerful tools you can use for great sex
Looking at how the brain functions with sexual fantasies
Understanding how we form sexual fantasies

Analyzing the over-empowerment or “rape” fantasy
Understanding that the over-empowerment fantasy is completely normal
How sexual fantasies can improve sex with your partner
Ways in which you can get inspired for new sexual fantasies
Understanding the importance of allowing your fantasies to expand

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EP275 - 7 Must Haves for Building a Great Sex Life with Jeff Abraham Mar 29, 2022

Welcome to episode 275 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Jeff Abraham back to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how you can improve your sex life with your partner, the importance of open and honest communication and how you can overcome a lack of creativity in the bedroom.

Jeff Abraham is the CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, whose lead product, Promescent, is addressing a global need for men suffering from Premature Ejaculation and Erectile Dysfunction. He and his team are dedicated to bringing innovative products to market that solve sexual performance issues for both men and women.
With over 10-years' experience in the field of sexual wellness, Jeff has seen and heard from thousands of couples and is a great thought leader in the space.

In this episode, you will hear:

The importance of open and honest communication with your partner
Understanding that we can’t be mind readers and anticipate all of our partners needs
How you can overcome a lack of creativity in the bedroom
Analyzing the dynamic between male and female characteristics
Why models on TV, social media etc are not a real representation of the human body
Ways in which you can reassure your partner when exploring new sexual areas
How you can use lube to greatly increase your sex life
Understanding that masturbation is healthy and can be a part of your sexual palette

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EP274 - How to Peg Your Partner Like a Pro with Luna Matatas Mar 22, 2022

Welcome to episode 274 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Luna Matatas to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how you and your partner can master pegging together, the importance of after-care when pegging and tips for beginners when exploring anal sex for the first time.

Luna Matatas is a Sex and Pleasure Educator with over 15 years of experience teaching sex and empowerment workshops. She celebrates body confidence, self-adoration and building shame-free pleasure in and out of the bedroom.

She teaches a wide range of topics; including threesomes, BDSM and sexual confidence. Luna hosts The Plug Podcast, an anal sex podcast by b-Vibe. She created Peg the Patriarchy® and Meditate Medicate Masturbate® brands as part of her sex-positive and feminist merchandise.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Luna became interested in this line of work
Looking at Prostate Play
Understanding that straight men can also enjoy anal sex
Exploring pegging and how you and your partner can master it together
Understanding the importance of after care when pegging

Looking at the best practices before moving into anal penetration
Understanding the difference between pain and discomfort around anal sex
Ways you can master muscle movements with your own anus
Tips for beginners when exploring anal sex for the first time
Why bigger isn’t always better when it comes to anal sex

Looking at toys you can use such as butt plugs
Knowing the best ways to stay cleanly when exploring anal sex

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EP273 - The Best Ways to Enjoy Anal Sex Safely with Dr. Evan Goldstein Mar 15, 2022

Welcome to episode 273 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Evan Goldstein to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the best ways to explore anal sex, looking at the common mistakes people make when starting out and understanding it takes time to train your anus to make it ready for sex.

Dr. Evan Goldstein is the Founder & CEO of Bespoke Surgical and the Co-Founder of Future Method. As the preeminent expert and thought leader in the field, Dr. Goldstein is com- mitted to education and awareness—not only bringing the important issues sur- rounding gay sexual health to the forefront, but also eliminating the stigmas at- tached to it.

Relating to a wider audience, Dr. Goldstein leaves the medical jargon behind and communicates in a straight-forward, direct manner, breaking down taboos and allowing for more conversational and open discussions with the aim to educate. Dr. Goldstein has extensive experience educating and shedding light on health care issues relating to the gay community, and has been published in several na- tional media outlets including NBC.com, HuffPost, GQ, Men’s Health, The Advo- cate, well+good, Shape, and more.

Supporting many LGBTQ-focused non-profits, Dr. Goldstein is dedicated to rais- ing awareness and is involved with GLSEN, ACRIA, HRC, and is a member of Callen- Lorde’s exclusive Howard J. Brown Society. Dr. Goldstein is also the founder of the Bespoke Surgical college scholarship grant for LGBTQ students, which launched in December 2017.

Dr. Goldstein received his osteopathic doctorate from the University of Medicine and Dentistry School in 2002. Receiving the highest osteopathic education was pivotal in shaping his integrated whole-life approach towards his practice of pri- vate surgical care. Dr. Goldstein completed his residency in General Surgery at Maimonides Medical Center, exposing him to a high level of surgical acuity and a vast array of pathology.

Dr. Goldstein and his partner Andrew Yu reside on the Upper West Side of Man- hattan with their eight-year-old twin boys, Phoenix and Sebastian. Dr. Goldstein is an avid tennis player and skier, and enjoys attending concerts, collecting art and classic cars, and spending time with his family.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Dr. Goldstein became interested in this line of work
The importance of knowing your entitlement to pleasure
Ways in which Dr. Goldstein works with the entire anal community
Why many people get anal sex wrong a lot

Looking at the common mistakes people make when exploring anal sex
Understanding it takes time to train your anus to make it ready for sex
Why starting out with toys is essential for anal sex
The pros and cons of using toys over your fingers
Looking at douching and recommendations for best practices

Knowing the best practices to reduce chances of catching STI’s via anal sex
Is it common to bleed after anal sex?
Should you use numbing creams for anal sex?
Looking at medical interventions that can help with better anal sex

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EP272 - The Best Sex Positions According to Sexperts with Shae Alexander Mar 08, 2022

Welcome to episode 272 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome La' Shae Alexander to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how exploring different positions can improve your sex life, why missionary is an underrated position and incorporating power play into certain positions.

California Native, Renaissance Woman, Momepenuer, Writer, Real Estate Associate and Philanthropist. Shae wears many hats, all of which she like to wear in a nice dress and open toe heels. She is a blend of beauty, brains, and wit.
Her fresh perspectives on life, women and empowerment gives new meaning to what it means to have beauty, class, sensuality and soul. Modern day renaissance woman, Shae is on a journey like no other. Enjoy her raw and authentic take on life and share with her endless soul filling conversations.

In this episode, you will hear:

Why exploring different positions can improve your sex life
How you may prefer different positions as you get older
Looking at good instructions for your partner on the best positions
Why missionary is an underrated position
Looking at the best positions for clitoral stimulation
How you can use good positioning to build tension and excitement
Which positions are best for connecting with the G Spot
How deep breathing can further help your positions
Incorporating power play into certain positions

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EP271 - How to Last Longer Tips from an Adult Film Actor with Erik Everhard Mar 01, 2022

Welcome to episode 271 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Erik Everhard to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the common mistakes people make when trying to last longer, analyzing the importance of conscious choice and what men can do to delay ejaculation.

Erik Everhard is one of the top paid and most recognized performers in adult films of the last two decades. He has won numerous Male performer awards and been enshrined in the hall of fame of the AVN and XRCO organizations.
In 2010 he embarked on a transformational journey studying NLP at one of the top institutions in America. Since then he has dedicated his time and effort to helping high achievers by teaching them elite level sexual skills in order to master the bedroom like they dominate the boardroom.

In this episode, you will hear:

The common mistakes people make when trying to last longer
How you need to train your body to be ready for great sex

Looking at the arousal gap between women and men
Ways you can overcome being nervous in the bedroom
Analyzing the importance of conscious choice
Understanding even top-level athletes struggle with performance anxiety
How you can successfully navigate foreplay

The importance of creating the right mental state for great sex
How you can turn ‘I hope to have great sex’ into ‘I know I can have great sex’
What can men do to delay ejaculation?
Ways we can manage and overcome any pain in the bedroom
Why having lots of bad sex is worse than having no sex

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EP270 - Find Out the Secret of How to Squirt with Caitlin V Feb 22, 2022

Welcome to episode 270 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Caitlin V to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss female ejaculation, why ejaculation doesn’t always mean orgasm for women, the barriers that stop women from ejaculating and looking at ways women can learn to ejaculate.

Caitlin V is a sex and relationship coach who helps men become amazing lovers and incredible partners. Formerly a sexual health researcher and policy analyst, she was catapulted into internet stardom after a video featuring her went viral.

She works with clients all over the world on ending premature ejaculation, preventing erectile dysfunction, and developing unshakable sexual confidence. Combining personal experience with evidence-based science in her coaching, Caitlin’s mission is to create a sex and pleasure-positive world.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Caitlin went viral on YouTube
Is it possible for every woman to be able to ejaculate?
Why ejaculation doesn’t always mean orgasm for women
How women can feel a build of pressure over time around the issue of ejaculation
Looking at the barriers that stop women from ejaculating
Analyzing the G Spot and its role in ejaculation
Good fingering techniques you can use
Understanding the importance of communicating what you want to your partner
Can women learn to ejaculate by themselves?
Looking at good stroking techniques you can use
Other key factors needed to ejaculate such as high level of arousal

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EP269 - The Ultimate Guide to Fingering with Searah Deysach Feb 15, 2022

Welcome to episode 269 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Searah Deysach to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss using full body exploration to lead to fingering, paying attention to non-verbal cues and ways you can use teasing to really get your partner in the mood.

Searah Deysach is a sex educator and the owner of Early to Bed and FtM Essentials. In addition to running her retail store & websites, she lectures to community groups and colleges around the state on topics relating to masturbation, sex toys and positive sexuality.

She is committed to working to create a culture where everyone has access to honest information about sexuality and all folks have access to the services, they need to protect their reproductive rights.

In this episode, you will hear:

Using full body exploration to lead to fingering
The importance of light touch and strokes
How you can anticipation and excitement before fingering
Why slowing down to build up is important
How long should we be exploring other parts of the body?
The importance of communication with your partner
Building up excitement with your clothes still on
Ways you can use teasing to really get your partner in the mood
Paying attention to non-verbal cues
Engaging in after-care after orgasm
Ways to add excitement without it becoming the main event

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EP268 - Tips to Give Him the Best Handjob of His Life with Ashley Manta Feb 08, 2022

Welcome to episode 268 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Ashley Manta to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss ways to build excitement and arousal with handjobs, techniques you can use to stimulate testicles and looking at masturbation techniques such as “The Bottle Rocket”.

Ashley Manta is an award-winning sex educator and coach and has become a sought-after authority on mindfully combining sex and cannabis as part of her CannaSexual® brand. She is the author of The CBD Solution: Sex, published in 2020 in conjunction with Merry Jane and Chronicle Books. She completed her certification as a Bodysex® Facilitator after studying with legendary pleasure pioneer Betty Dodson.
She is the host of Elevated Intimacy podcast and her online course portal, Elevated Intimacy Academy, provides self-paced sex education. She facilitates retreats and workshops at resorts and festivals around the world. She also offers an online sex magick, embodiment, and empowerment intensive called Activating Your Cosmic Pussy. She is a brand ambassador for Sybian.

In this episode, you will hear:

Ways to build excitement and arousal with handjobs
How sexting can help in the sexual build up

Why it’s important to have lube
Looking at some of the best lubes on the market
The importance of having respect for yourself and your partner
Understanding your partners boundaries
Techniques you can use to play with and stimulate testicles

Ways you can stimulate the foreskin
Looking at masturbation techniques such as “The Bottle Rocket”
How you can build excitement for yourself as a giver
Looking at other male pleasure products to further enhance a handjob

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EP267 - All You Need to Know About Erotic Spanking with Taylor Sparks Feb 01, 2022

Welcome to episode 267 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Taylor Sparks to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss why impact play is hot for so many people, how impact play can create an extra layer of erotic intimacy and looking at tools you can use such as toys and spanking benches.

Among many things, Taylor Sparks (aka Mariposa) is a passionate erotic educator and sex goddess, certified in both holistic aromatherapy and human behavior. With over a decade of experience in the natural skin care/cosmetics industry, Ms. Sparks launched OrganicLoven.com, one of the largest BIPOC owned online intimacy shops. Organic Loven specializes in improving adults’ sexual health/wellness and enhancing their sex lives via their organic intimate body products, body-safe sex toy materials, sex-positive books, and erotic educational seminars.

Ms. Sparks’ expertise has contributed to articles in Bustle, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Men’s Health, Oprah, Shape, Women’s Health magazines and more. Prior to launching Organic Loven she developed a line of 16 head-to-toe organic body care products for elite endurance athletes, called Skin Care for Athletes Tri-Body Products. These products were featured in Muscle & Fitness Hers and the ESPN Magazines, sponsored numerous triathlons, 5ks and marathons as well as 5 Olympic athletes in both the summer and winter Olympics.

Taylor has also become renowned in the adult travel industry and is a powerful public speaker both nationally and internationally. Her flagship seminar entitled,” How To Make Good Pussy, Better”, is extremely popular and focuses on the benefits of organic intimate body products and body safe sex toys. Taylor is socially and environmentally conscious and a strong supporter in all things organic, natural and eco-friendly...including Love.

In this episode, you will hear:

Why impact play is hot for so many people
The importance of clear communication around spanking
How impact play can create an extra layer of erotic intimacy

Looking at the areas of sensitivity best for impact play
Tools you can use such as toys and spanking benches
Analyzing the differences between giving and receiving impact play
Tips for the best way to use your hand for spanking
The mistakes people often make with impact play

Understanding it’s ok to take things slowly and pause if needed

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EP266 - How to Become Sexually Dominant with Fredrick Zal Jan 25, 2022

Welcome to episode 266 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Fredrick Zal to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the similarities between the kink and punk rock scenes, how you can explore kink to know if you prefer being a submissive or dominant and ways you can step out of your comfort zone to explore kink.

Fredrick’s sexuality education work has focused upon erotically marginalized communities, partnerships, and individuals since 2006 by "Teaching the Art within Sexual Acts" in private lessons, semi-public and private events, and workshops in Oregon, Washington, California, British Columbia, and via Zoom worldwide.

They teach mindfulness, ritual, communication, consent, sexual attitudes reassessment, tantra, kink, and other embodied erotic pathways with an ever broadening understanding of power differentials, socio-political impacts over the centuries, and ways to truly dismantle what they feel in their blood and bones to be a corrupt and flawed acculturalized system.

When not teaching or doing sexuality research; Fredrick endeavors to focus life around what they love, which is the arts, getting outside for adventures, sharing quality time and food with friends, practicing 茶道 (Chado, Japanese Tea Ritual), and movement such as yoga and dance.

In this episode, you will hear:

Looking at the similarities between the kink and punk rock scenes
Understanding that it’s normal to have interest in kink
How kink is centered around a heart and mind connection
Ways in which we can cultivate our emotions to fully embody kink
Looking at the differences between tops and bottoms
How you can explore kink to know if you prefer being a submissive or dominant
Understanding the powerplay dynamics and their relationship to kink
Looking at ways you can step out of your comfort zone to explore kink
The importance of after care and clear communication

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EP265 - Everything You Need to Know to Become an Amazing Sensual Kisser with Darshana Avila Jan 18, 2022

Welcome to episode 265 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Darshana Avila to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss why is good kissing important for sex, understanding porn is not sex education, and how you can be more thoughtful in your communication.

Darshana Avila is nurturing a culture of Erotic Wholeness. As an internationally recognized speaker, coach and facilitator, Darshana supports women and couples in exploring and reshaping their relationships to intimacy, sex and eroticism. She created the Map of Erotic Wholeness as a path to personal liberation in service to our collective sexual liberation.

Darshana believes “we are erotic by nature,” and is dedicated to helping people feel truly at home in their bodies, at ease with their sexuality and in alignment with their hearts. Her unique style of somatic sex and intimacy coaching weaves together a trauma-informed, nature-based, justice-oriented approach, inviting more presence, pleasure and passion into the lives and relationships of those she guides.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Darshana became interested in this line of work
Understanding that trauma gets healed in the community
Ways in which you can learn to open up your sexual self
Understanding porn is not sex education
Why is good kissing important for sex?

How to communicate to your partner the types of kissing you like
The importance of build-up and foreplay for great sex
Recommendations for whole body experience to build u to great sex
Looking at the different types of kissing and styles
How you can be more thoughtful in your communication

The best ways you can explore touch

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EP264 - How to Give Head That Will Blow Their Mind with Dr. Alison Ash Jan 11, 2022

Welcome to episode 264 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome back Dr. Alison Ash to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how you can give a killer blowjob, incorporating play into great oral sex, and understanding that you can still get an STI just through oral sex.

Dr. Alison Ash is at trauma-informed sex and intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences.

She designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them.

In this episode, you will hear:

How you can give a killer blowjob
The importance of your appreciating your lover and communicating that to them
Incorporating play into great oral sex
How to overcome things like gag reflex when giving a blowjob
When is the best time to also use your hands when giving a blowjob?
How you can also stimulate testicles when giving a blowjob
The importance of being sensitive when stimulating testicles
Overcoming the issue of not liking the taste of semen
Is it possible to change the taste of semen?
Understanding that you can still get an STI just through oral sex

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EP263 - How to Become a Cunnilingus Master with Dr. Alison Ash Jan 04, 2022

Welcome to episode 263 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Alison Ash to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the do’s and dont's of cunnilingus, recommendations for the receiver to feel comfortable receiving oral sex, and what are some of the best positions for oral sex.

Dr. Alison Ash is at trauma-informed sex and intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences.

She designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them.

In this episode, you will hear:

The do’s and dont's of cunnilingus
How you can fine tune your rhythm with your partner
Dispelling the misconceptions around the smell of a vagina
Ways in which you can help put your partner at ease
Recommendations for the receiver to feel comfortable to receive oral sex
Looking at techniques such as “writing the alphabet with your tongue”
When is the right time to move onto penetration?
What are some of the best positions for oral sex?
Looking at experimenting with the 69 position for oral sex

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EP262 - Special Q&A from Listeners Dec 28, 2021

Welcome to episode 262 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where I answer questions from our listeners. In this episode, we touch upon subjects such as tackling anxiety-based issues such as not feeling big enough for your partner, misconceptions about the importance of penis size and what to do if your partner wants to join OnlyFans.

In this episode, you will hear:

Knowing when the right time is to touch your partners clit
Tackling anxiety-based issues such as not feeling big enough for your partner
Overcoming performance anxiety
Looking at spontaneous and responsive desire

What to do if your partner wants to join OnlyFans
Understanding the motivations behind wanting to start an OnlyFans page
The importance of starting slow if your partner does start an OnlyFans page
How you can build up your sexual confidence
Misconceptions about the importance of penis size

Understanding your relationship with your body
Ways in which you can overcome sexual shame

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EP261 – Can Experiencing Grief and Loss Actually Lead to Increased Desire? with Krista St-Germain Dec 21, 2021

Welcome to episode 261 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Krista St-Germain to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how Krista became interested in becoming a life coach for widows through the tragic passing of her husband, the myths and misconceptions around grief, and ways you can invite pleasure after grief, inside and outside the bedroom.

Krista St-Germain is a Master Certified Life Coach, grief expert, widow, mom and host of The Widowed Mom Podcast. When her husband was killed by a drunk driver in 2016, Krista’s life was completely and unexpectedly flipped upside down. After therapy helped her unfurl from the fetal position, Krista discovered Life Coaching, Post Traumatic Growth and learned the tools she needed to move forward and create a future she could get excited about — now she coaches and teaches other widows so they too, can love life again.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Krista became interested in this work through the tragic passing of her husband
What is grief and how is it defined?
The myths and misconceptions around grief
Understanding that grief is not uniform and different for each person
How people can begin again to lean into pleasure while experiencing grief
The ways in which grief can impact people’s sexual health
Resources and places you can go if you want to seek out pleasure after grief
Looking at the term “Widhoe” and Krista’s thoughts on it
Other ways you can invite pleasure after grief, inside and outside the bedroom
Recommendations for dating in today’s digital world of apps
Learning to be honest and open with people when dating and not be afraid to even talk about things like STI’s

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EP260 – What It's Like to Reclaim a Vibrant Sex Life After Trauma with Dr. Holly Richmond Dec 14, 2021

Welcome to episode 260 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Holly Richmond to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss Dr. Holly's new book “Reclaiming Pleasure”, looking at ways to combat shame and guilt and how sexual trauma mis-informs our sexuality.

Dr. Holly is one of North America’s leading sex therapists, serving women, men, couples and gender-diverse individuals for relationship and sexuality issues. She counsels a broad range of clients including Hollywood’s elite and prominent corporate clientele and offers consultation services with psychotherapy interns and other therapists.

Dr. Holly works from a sex positive approach, meaning: “all sex is good sex as long as it’s consensual and pleasurable.” She is committed to helping her clients feel better—mind and body—not just behave differently.

Her therapeutic relationships are built on strong rapport, trust, non-judgment and acceptance, though she is directive and results oriented, not simply supportive. Her objective is to help clients meet their goals and move through the therapy process as quickly as possible.

Dr. Holly’s forthcoming book, Reclaiming Pleasure: A Sex-Positive Guide for Moving Past Sexual Trauma and Living a Passionate Life (New Harbinger, Oct. 2021) is a groundbreaking examination of both somatic and psychological factors in survivor’s’ recovery.

In this episode, you will hear:

Why Dr. Holly decided to write her book “Reclaiming Pleasure”

Looking at ways to connect people easier
Analyzing the issue of trauma re-enactment
Understanding the difference between trauma re-enactment and a healthy sex life
Looking at ways to combat shame and guilt
How many people struggle with performance anxiety

Understanding the fight, flight, freeze and fawn responses and their relationship to trauma
How we can learn to reconnect with ourselves
Looking at exercise couples can take part in together
Learning to schedule sex with your partner for a better sex life
How sexual trauma mis-informs our sexuality

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EP259 - How to Improve Your Sex Life After Dealing with Trauma with August McLaughlin and Jamila Dawson Dec 07, 2021

Welcome to episode 259 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT and August McLaughlin to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss triggers and how are they defined, looking at the relationship between sex and trauma and understanding the importance of practicing self-compassion.

Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT is the co-author of the innovative book: With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships. A licensed therapist with an expertise in sexuality, trauma, and relationships, Jamila has been a sex educator since 2005 and has practiced psychotherapy since 2015. She is the founder and owner of the psychotherapy practice Fire & Flow Therapy. She has collaborated with Buzzfeed, MEL, Playboy, Harper’s BAZAAR and other media outlets and has appeared on numerous podcasts, including Girlboner and Sex with Dr. Jess. Jamila uses her Instagram & Facebook accounts to share practices, tools, and reflections on sexuality, relationships, and mental health. She divides her time between Las Vegas and Los Angeles.

August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized journalist and host and producer of the podcast, Girl Boner Radio, a true story-driven podcast where she explores sexual empowerment, relationships and pleasure. Her articles have been featured by Cosmopolitan, the Washington Post, Salon and more. Her 2018 release, Girl Boner, was featured in the New York Times and called “equally fun, risqué, and informative” by Publishers Weekly. She has presented at colleges, recovery centers, and the CDC headquarters, attended the 2016 United State of Women summit as a nominated changemaker and gave a TEDx talk on her experience overcoming an eating disorder she was diagnosed with while working abroad in the fashion industry.

In this episode, you will hear:

What are triggers and how are they defined?
How Jamila and August and became interested in this line of work
Looking at the relationship between sex and trauma
Understanding that issues around trauma are common
Looking at how fight, flight and fawning works with trauma
What is fawning and how is it related to trauma?
The importance of practicing self-compassion
Analyzing pleasure traps
Understanding that you deserve to have pleasure
Finding peace in alternative sexual behaviors

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EP258 - How Eating Disorders Affect Your Sex Life with Robyn Goldberg Nov 30, 2021

Welcome to episode 258 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Robyn Goldberg to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the relationship between food and sexuality, looking at food addiction and the issues it can cause and why Robyn decided to write her new book, The Eating Disorder Trap.

Robyn Goldberg is a registered dietitian nutritionist, certified eating disorder registered dietitian supervisor, certified intuitive eating counselor and a Health at Every Size® (HAES) clinician. Robyn has spent years learning from some of the best in the industry and continues to seek professional mentoring, attends innovative conferences and stays abreast with the most current literature.

Robyn began her career at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center in Los Angeles as the in-patient dietitian in the Department of Cardiology. For the last 23 years, Robyn Goldberg has had a private practice in Beverly Hills, CA, where she specializes in medical conditions, eating disorders, disordered eating, dual diagnosis, pre-pregnancy nutrition and women seeking fertility treatment.

Robyn consistently educates professionals, students, and RDNs about how to best incorporate intuitive eating and Health at Every Size® approaches into their work and lives. She teaches nutrition classes on a wide array of topics for the Motion Picture Industry’s Wellness Program.

Actively involved in the nutrition and body positive community, Robyn is also a member of organizations including: Association of Size Diversity and Health (ASDAH), Academy of Eating Disorders (AED), International Association of Eating Disorder Professionals (iaedp) and the International Federation of Eating Disorder Dietitians (IFEDD). She also serves as a Nutrition Consultant for the Celiac Disease Foundation. Robyn also leads several body image and eating disorder groups in sober living settings in the Los Angeles Area.

Robyn is a nationally renowned contributing author registered dietitian nutritionist. She has been quoted as an expert in various publications including The New York Times, The Huffington Post, Diabetes Forecast, Shape Magazine, Fitness, Oxygen, Life & Style, Natural Solutions, Beverly Hills Weekly and Today’s Dietitian. In addition, Robyn has also served as an eating disorder specialist on the nationally televised show “The Insider” and an expert on The Associated Press (AP).

In this episode, you will hear:

How is our relationship between food and sexuality related?
Why it’s important to look at the relationship between food and sexuality
How our hormones can change if we restrict them for a long time
Looking at food addiction and the issues it can cause
Who is at risk of developing an eating disorder?
What to do if you don’t like your body
Connecting with your partner on this issue to improve your sex life
Looking at how Robyn works with people to feel better within their own bodies
How dieting can have a negative impact on eating disorders
Why Robyn decided to write her book, The Eating Disorder Trap

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EP257 – Exploring and Celebrating Trans Sexualities with Lucie Fielding, MA Nov 23, 2021

Welcome to episode 257 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Lucie Fielding, MA (she/they) to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss Lucie's new book: Trans Sex: Clinical Approaches to Trans Sexualities and Erotic Embodiments, looking at erotic privilege and genital curiosity and how we can cultivate erotic embodiment.

Lucie Fielding, MA (she/they) is a white, queer, non-binary femme, and a Resident in Counseling, practicing in Charlottesville, VA. She received her Master’s in Counseling Psychology at Pacifica Graduate Institute (2018). Lucie also holds a PhD in French from Northwestern University (2008), where she specialized in eighteenth-century literature, histories of sexualities, and erotic literature.

Her background in literature and history attunes her to the many ways that image, metaphor, and cultural scripts shape and inform the narratives we carry with us as we move through the world as well as how these narratives inscribe themselves on our bodies. She is the author of Trans Sex: Clinical Approaches to Trans Sexualities and Erotic Embodiments (Routledge, May 2021).

In this episode, you will hear:

How Lucie became inspired to write: Trans Sex: Clinical Approaches to Trans Sexualities and Erotic Embodiments
Looking at the politics of desirability
The benefits of trans for trans dating
How biases that exist in society effect who we see as desirable
Looking at erotic privilege and genital curiosity
How we can cultivate erotic embodiment
Overcoming the unrealistic expectation that trans people should disclose upfront
How the frameworks in Lucie’s book can also apply to cis people

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EP256 - Is It True That All Women are a Little Bisexual? with Dr. Mimi Hoang Nov 16, 2021

Welcome to episode 256 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Mimi Hoang (she/her) to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the common misconceptions around bisexual people, the pressures bisexual people face when getting into a same-sex relationship and looking at the ways in which Dr. Mimi has helped uplift the bisexual community.

Dr. Mimi Hoang (she/her) is an internationally-recognized psychologist, educator, author, and grassroots activist specializing in the lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersex, and asexual (LGBTQ+) and Asian Pacific Islander (API) communities. Since the 1990s, she has co-founded three organizations in Los Angeles for bisexual, pansexual, fluid, and other nonmonosexual (AKA "bi+") individuals, authored multiple publications, and earned a seat at the landmark 2013 White House Bisexual Community Roundtable.

Dr. Mimi's steadfast leadership has earned her multiple awards, a feature in Jan Dee Gordon's LGBTQ of Steel photography book, and being named “One of the Most Significant Women in the Bisexual Movement.” She currently works as a Staff Psychologist at Loyola Marymount University (LMU), Clinical Supervisor of the LGBTQIA+ Affirmative Therapy Center at Airport Marina Counseling Services, and is the creator of the "Bi on Life" self-empowerment series and Bi+ Women's Space, a virtual support group for bi+ women in Los Angeles.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Dr. Mimi became interested in this line of work
The ways in which Dr. Mimi has helped uplift the bi community
Overcoming the mental health challenges around coming out as bi-sexual
How many people try to invalidate bisexuality as a pathway to becoming gay or lesbian
How the percentage of people in the US identifying as LGBTQ+ has doubled since 2012
Looking at the common misconceptions around bisexual people
Why it’s important to understand that bisexuality is not experimentation
The pressures bisexual people face when getting into a same sex relationship
Recommendations for communities and support groups for bisexual people

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EP255 - Common Myths and Misconceptions About Bisexual Men with Zachary Zane Nov 09, 2021

Welcome to episode 255 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Zachary Zane to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss Zachary’s journey of coming out as bi-sexual, the differences between bisexuality and pansexuality and recommendations on where to start dating if you’re just starting to experiment with bisexuality.

Zachary Zane is a Brooklyn-based columnist, speaker, activist, and sex expert whose work focuses on sexuality, lifestyle, and culture.

He has a weekly sex advice column at Men’s Health titled “Sexplain It,” where he answers a diverse range of questions pertaining to masculinity, ethical non-monogamy, sexual insecurities, and the LGBTQ community. He answers questions with actionable advice that isn't just "communicate with your partner," because let’s be real, we all know that already.

He also has a monthly column at Queer Majority called “Zach and the City,” which explores romance and sexuality through Zane’s fabulous life. Set against the backdrop of New York City, Zane uses his personal experiences as a young and adventurous queer socialite to unpack the current state of cosmopolitan sex, love, and dating.

He currently writes for The Washington Post, Rolling Stone, and Prevention. He was formerly a digital associate editor at OUT Magazine and a contributing editor at Pride.com, Plus Magazine, and The Advocate Magazine. He's been featured in numerous other publications as well, including Playboy, NBC, SELF, Allure, Dazed, AskMen, Slate, Into, Them, Cosmopolitan, Hornet, NewNowNext, LGBTQ Nation, MerryJane, and Bustle.

As a leading bisexual activist, Zane has spoken across the country at universities and panels alike, discussing issues pertaining to the bisexual community, sex-positivity, and ethical non-monogamy. He previously had a biweekly column at Bisexual.org that ran for 18 months.

He attended the "Bisexual White House Briefing" at the White House (under Obama), and has been featured as an expert on a number of podcasts including Dan Savage's "Savage Lovecast."

In this episode, you will hear:

Looking at Zachary’s journey of coming out as bi-sexual
Understanding that being bi-sexual is not just a steppingstone to being gay
How many straight people experiment with bisexuality but are ashamed to talk about it
The misconceptions that exist around bisexual men
How the gay community isn’t always welcoming to bisexual men
Looking at the differences between bisexuality and pansexuality
The ways in which coming out as bisexual can affect a person's self-image
Recommendations on where to start dating if you’re just starting to experiment with bisexuality
The role that monogamy and non-monogamy plays in bisexual relationships
Looking at the development of the bisexual community in cities like New York and Los Angeles

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EP254 - Revving Up Men's Sex Drive Nov 02, 2021

Welcome to episode 254 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where Dr. Nazanin Moali discusses ways in which men can rev up their sex drive, how sexual desire differs between different genders and ways in which you can address and overcome issues of when your partner starts to drift from you sexually.

In this episode, you will hear:

The challenges men face with low libido
Looking at the misconceptions that men always being ready and wanting sex
What is sexual desire?
How sexual desire differs between different genders

Looking at hyperactive sexual desire disorder
The biological factors that can affect men’s sexual desire
Ways in which eating disorders can affect sexual desire
Overcoming issues of when your partner starts to drift from you sexually
How to best communicate with your partner when you lose the sexual spark

The ways in which becoming a parent can affect libido
Looking at medications that can lead to low libido through side effects
The relationship of inter-personal factors and how the quality of your relationship relates to the quality of your sex

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EP253 - If You’ve Lost Your Libido, Here’s How To Get It Back! with Dr. Brandye Wilson-Manigat Oct 26, 2021

Welcome to episode 253 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Brandye Wilson-Manigat, MD to the podcast. In this episode, we talk about the physiological causes of low desire, ways you can support your partner if they suffer from low libido and challenging the myth that your sex drive will decrease as you get older.

Dr. Brandye Wilson-Manigat, MD, aka "Dr. Brandye" is touted by patients and peers alike as one of the best OB/GYN physicians and surgeons. She has been published in respected medical journals and is frequently called upon by local and national TV, print, radio, and online media to give a fresh perspective and new information on women’s health trends.

Dr. Brandye is a practicing physician and founder of Brio Virtual Gynecology - a reproductive wellness company focused on helping women to maintain their reproductive health, through workshops, telemedicine consultations, and second-opinion visits. Dr. Brandye is the chief medical advisor of DrBrandyeMD.com, where she helps women embrace their feminine essence, so they feel good both inside and outside of the bedroom. She is seen as the leading expert in women’s vitality and libido health.

Born and raised in South Central Los Angeles, CA, Dr. Brandye earned her undergraduate degree from the University of California at Riverside, her Doctorate of Medicine degree from the David Geffen School of Medicine at UCLA/Charles R. Drew University of Medicine and Science, and completed her residency training at Rochester General Hospital in Rochester, NY. She is currently practicing in Pasadena, CA

In this episode, you will hear:

What are the physiological causes of low desire?
Looking at available FDA approved medication for women suffering from low libido
Analyzing the “Pink Pill” and its effectiveness
Understanding the importance of good sleep and general well-being for increased libido
Learning how to best communicate these issues to your partner
Ways you can support your partner if they suffer from low libido
Knowing when to and not to try and instigate sex with your partner
Challenging the myth that your sex drive will decrease as you get older
Why great sex is for people of all ages not just younger people
How women who have great sex, can become more successful in their careers
Looking at Dr. Brandye’s coaching and what she offers

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EP252 - Sex Myths You Need to Unlearn with Dr. Lindsey Brooks Oct 19, 2021

Welcome to episode 252 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Lindsey Brooks to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss Lindsey's journey into sexual empowerment, the importance of giving women space to explore their bodies and looking at masturbation in a new light.

Dr. Lindsey Brooks is a sex therapist turned sex educator. She has her Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology, is a certified sex therapist, and has been providing therapy since 2005.

She is thrilled to now be bringing her knowledge beyond the therapy room with Sexual Empowerment School where she teaches women how to build their sexual self-knowledge, develop pleasure-positive mindsets, and learn sexual communication skills through her on-line workshops and resources.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Lindsey started her journey into sexual empowerment
Looking at the things Lindsey wished women knew more about when it comes to sex
How many women are ambivalent to sexual pleasure
The importance of giving women space to explore their bodies
Looking at masturbation in a new light and why it’s not something to be ashamed of
How masturbation can be a great tool to explore your sexual pleasure
Why masturbation isn’t inferior to sex
Challenging the myth that women should orgasm through penetration
What counts as a “normal” libido or sexual desire
The importance of framing conversations correctly to best communicate with your partner
Ways you can avoid getting into a nagging cycle or arguments with your partner
How you can plant your own seeds in the garden of desire

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EP251 - Goddess' Guide to Cultivating Sexual Health with Dr. Stephanie Estima Oct 12, 2021

Welcome to episode 251 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Stephanie Estima to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how Stephanie shifted her life balance to a better place, the ways in which our diet and sexual health are connected and recommendations to help correct some mistakes you may not realize you’re making.

Stephanie is a board-certified Doctor of Chiropractic with a special interest in metabolism, body composition, hormones, and functional neurology. She’s the host of an award-winning podcast, and author of an international best-selling book. She’s also the founder of a membership program that discusses nutrition, fasting, exercise, hormones, and the female psyche.

Stephanie is currently building out a certification program for doctors and healthcare providers outlining cell metabolism, exercise physiology, brain aging, and best clinical practices for female patients.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Stephanie shifted her life balance to a better place
The ways in which our diet and sexual health are connected
Why women are inherently sexual beings
Overcoming binge eating
The importance of getting proteins into our body for a good diet
How our sleep and sex life is connected
Recommendations to help correct some mistakes you may not realize you’re making

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EP250 – 7 Secrets of Effective Sexual Communication from the Sexperts Oct 05, 2021

Welcome to episode 250 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to have a variety of guests on the show who share their tips on the best practices for effective sexual communication. In this episode you will hear from Guy Blaise, Diane Gleim, Tara Galeano, Maci Daye, Ari Tuckman, Kristopher Lovestone and Martha Kauppi.

In this episode, you will hear:

How effective communication with your partner can lead to great sex
Understanding how to bridge a conversation about certain areas such as anal sex, threesomes etc
Capitalizing on joy and happiness in a relationship for better sex
Learning how to ask your partner what it is they desire

How mindfulness can also help improve your communication and sex life
Ways in which you can be authentic with your partner on exploring new sexual areas
The importance of knowing what it is you want from your partner
How you can bridge the gap with your partner when things are getting in the way of great sex

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Guest Resources

Guy Blaise

https://www.thefrenchperspective.com

Diane Gleim, LMFT, CST, CST-S

https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/underneath-the-sheets/202109/sexual-desire-discrepancies-how-communicate

Tara Galeano

https://rediscoveringmybody.com

Maci Daye, LPC, CHT, CST

https://www.passionandpresence.com/mini-retreat/

Ari Tuckman PsyD, MBA

https://adultadhdbook.com

Kristopher Lovestone

http://consciouscock.com/book

Martha Kauppi, LMFT

https://instituteforrelationalintimacy.com/handling-sexual-challenges-like-a-rockstar/

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EP249 – The Ultimate Sex Diet with Christine DeLozier Sep 28, 2021

Welcome to episode 249 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Christine DeLozier, L.Ac. to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the relationship between diet and sexual health, the best foods to help improve sexual health and recommendations on how to improve your diet.

First and foremost, Christine DeLozier, L.Ac., is a lover of science, of nature and of food. As an acupuncturist and herbalist in private practice, she specializes in sexual health, treating males, females, and all orientations and identities. Acupuncture is great for sexual function, but to address the underlying mechanics of consistently great sex, the key is diet. For this reason, she works with patients to develop dietary habits that support their sexual goals.

Christine attended the University of Rochester, studying Biology and Psychology. As a young single mom, she worked as a waitress and studied full-time. She started in a program which trains students to be research scientists, but ultimately decided against a career in research. The experience, though, gave her an appreciation for the scientific method, which is employed throughout this book. She has exhaustively reviewed epidemiological and clinical research on nutrition and sexual function to shape the advice presented here.

Christine holds Master’s degrees in Acupuncture, Traditional Chinese Medicine, and Counseling. During her education, she studied Chinese dietary therapy, and earned a certification as a Holistic Nutritional Counselor.

Early in her practice, she treated numerous men for erectile issues with acupuncture, who ended up having significant improvements in sexual satisfaction. After seeing how meaningful this improvement was to their lives, she specialized in sexual health, expanding her practice to all who seek it. She wanted to do more to help them connect with their partners and bring joy to their relationships. Since then she has treated adults looking to have great sex of all orientations.

Always rather obsessed with diet, nutrition, and natural health, Christine’s philosophy is rooted in an evidence-based understanding of the physiological effect of food on the body, while honoring the wisdom of traditional Chinese medicine. She treats every patient holistically, as an individual and wishes to use her unique skill set to help others in a kind, loving way.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Christine became involved in this line of work
Understanding our relationship between diet and sexual health
What are some of the best foods to help improve sexual health?
When do we know we’re on the right track with our diet?

Looking at some of the foods athletes eat to keep healthy and how this can be used to improve sexual health
Is there a big difference between the right diet for men and women?
Do foods like oysters really improve sexual health?
Looking at what spices we can integrate into our diet
Recommendations to improve one habit from your diet to improve sexual health

Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this episode. Use the link below to get 10% of your first month of online therapy with BetterHelp:

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Find Christine DeLozier Online

https://christinedelozier.com/

Masterclass

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EP248 - Female Orgasms with Dr. Heather Bartos Sep 21, 2021

Welcome to episode 248 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Heather Bartos to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss orgasms and our relationship with them, off-shoot health benefits of orgasms and tips for women who have never experienced an orgasm.

Dr. Heather Bartos is a board-certified OB-GYN, author, speaker, mom and everyday gal, Dr. Heather Bartos is a leading voice in the field of women’s health, and particularly women’s sexual health. She is also a US Navy Veteran, former Associate Professor of Obstetrics & Gynecology and is currently medical director of her “village for women’s health,” Be.

Women’s Health & Wellness outside Dallas, Texas. Featured in publications from Glamour and Huffington Post to Reader’s Digest, Women’s Health and ABC News, Dr. Bartos loves talking all things women and sex on her podcast, The ME Spot.

In this episode, you will hear:

Looking at orgasms and our relationship with them
How many people skip through foreplay when trying to achieve an orgasm
The importance of allowing your body the time to loosen up for an orgasm
What happens in our brains when we experience an orgasm?
Looking at the other off-shoot health benefits of orgasms
The changes female bodies experience when going through menopause
How your diet is important to experiencing great orgasms
Looking at PRP treatments
Tips for women who have never experienced an orgasm

How our biggest sex organ is our brain

Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this episode. Use the link below to get 10% of your first month of online therapy with BetterHelp:

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Free Masterclass:

Live Masterclass for Couples in Long-Term Relationships

Tired of Leftover Sex? The Roadmap to Reviving Your Sex Life with Your Partner

In this Masterclass, we will:
1. Identify the main causes of sexual dissatisfaction in your relationship: Together we will assess and discuss common causes of sexual dissatisfaction and how you can uncover the root causes for each.

2. Incorporate specific strategies and tackle the root causes:
We will introduce the most effective ways of improving your connection with your partner.

3. Bring excitement back to your relationship with the help of tangible tools: We will talk about the latest research on sexual boredom and how to bring thrill and excitement back into your relationship.

https://sexologypodcast.com/masterclass

Find Dr. Heather Bartos Online

http://themespotpodcast.com

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EP247 - The Role of an Intimacy Coordinator with Marci Liroff Sep 14, 2021

Welcome to episode 247 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Marci Liroff (she/her) to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how Marci transitioned from casting director and acting coach to intimacy coordinator, why intimacy coordinators are not the “sex police” and the ways she helps the film crew coordinate sex scenes.

A veteran Casting Director, Marci (she/her) has been casting film and television for the last 40 years. Her extensive credits span more than 50 films. While working at the renowned office of Fenton-Feinberg Casting she, along with Mike Fenton, cast such films as Bob Clark’s A Christmas Story and Porky’s; the Academy Award-nominated Poltergeist; Steven Spielberg’s E.T.– The Extra Terrestrial and Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom; and Ridley Scott’s Blade Runner.

After establishing her own casting company in 1983, MARCI LIROFF CASTING, Marci cast many successful films including Footloose, St. Elmo’s Fire, Pretty in Pink, The Iron Giant, The Spitfire Grill (which she produced as well), Untamed Heart, Freaky Friday, Mean Girls, Insomnia, Ghosts of Girlfriends Past, Mr. Popper’s Penguins, and Vampire Academy. For the last 10 years, Marci has been coaching and teaching actors to prepare for upcoming auditions and jobs.

Her years of work in film and television production, along with her communication skills and keen eye, make Marci a perfect fit in the world of intimacy coordination. She recently intimacy coordinated the feature film The Virgin of Highland Park and served as the IC for the second season of the Starz show Hightown.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Marci transitioned from casting director and acting coach to intimacy coordinator
Why intimacy coordinators are not the “sex police”
The ways Marci helps the film crew to coordinate sex scenes
Looking at the relationship between intimacy coordinators and directors
Issues that can arise on set and how Marci deals with them
Analyzing the importance of consent
How consent is being incorporated into specifics in contracts around sex scenes
The importance of reading your contract as an actor
Navigating intimate scenes where minors are involved, E.G Stranger Things
The toughest scenes that Marci has coordinated

Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this episode. Use the link below to get 10% of your first month of online therapy with BetterHelp:

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Free Masterclass:

Live Masterclass for Couples in Long-Term Relationships

Tired of Leftover Sex? The Roadmap to Reviving Your Sex Life with Your Partner

In this Masterclass, we will:
1. Identify the main causes of sexual dissatisfaction in your relationship: Together we will assess and discuss common causes of sexual dissatisfaction and how you can uncover the root causes for each.

2. Incorporate specific strategies and tackle the root causes:
We will introduce the most effective ways of improving your connection with your partner.

3. Bring excitement back to your relationship with the help of tangible tools: We will talk about the latest research on sexual boredom and how to bring thrill and excitement back into your relationship.

https://sexologypodcast.com/masterclass

Find Marci Liroff Online

https://www.marciliroff.com

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

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EP246 - What Really Happens Behind the Scenes of a Hollywood Sex Scene with Chantal Cousineau Sep 07, 2021

Welcome to episode 246 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Chantal Cousineau (she/her) to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss Chantal's role as an intimacy coordinator, how sexual assault leads to issues of trauma and looking at new practices that are coming onto sets to help prevent these issues.

Chantal Cousineau (she/her) was born in Canada. Raised in a large and loving French-Canadian family, she spent her childhood training tirelessly to become a Tae Kwon-Do champion. Achieving her first-degree black belt at the age of 15, she quickly dominated competitions, winning gold at the Canadian and North American Championships. She started modelling at the age of 17 and soon landed before the lens of famed photographers shooting for Abercrombie & Fitch, Aveda, Italian Vogue, Elle, Cosmopolitan, Roots, and many more. She moved to Los Angeles twenty years ago and has since carved out a successful career as an actor shooting television commercials.

She has become a grounded voice within the advocacy community, helping 1,300+ survivors of sexual harassment, assault, and abuse share their #MeToo experiences since 2017. A longtime member of SAG-AFTRA, Chantal serves on several union committees to consult on ways the industry can expand its best practices to move closer towards equal treatment, pay parity, representation, and improving safety standards on sets. Chantal has combined her many years of experience as a performer with her survivor advocacy work to pivot to her new career as an intimacy coordinator. Her most recent intimacy coordinator credits include This Is Us (NBC), The Terminal List (Amazon), and the independent feature film Sharp Stick, which was directed by Lena Dunham.

Chantal is a dual citizen of Canada and the US and speaks both French and English fluently.

In this episode, you will hear:

Looking into Chantal’s role as an intimacy coordination and what it entails
How Chantal became intimacy coordinator and the journey that led her to this role
Analyzing the dynamic of an intimacy coordinator has with other people on set

How sexual assault leads to issues of trauma
How Chantal had a Me-Too experience
The importance of self-care
How many victims of sexual assault do not report it to the police
The ways in which Chantal holds stories of sexual assault for victims

Looking at ways in which young actresses are vulnerable to issues of sexual assault
New practices that are coming onto sets to help prevent these issues

Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this episode. Use the link below to get 10% of your first month of online therapy with BetterHelp:

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Find Chantal Cousineau Online

https://www.intimacyprofessionalsassociation.com

Expanding Imagination Checklist

https://oasis2care.com/free-erotica/

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EP245 - What It's Like to Design Sex Toys for a Living with Dr. Soum Rakshit Aug 31, 2021

Welcome to episode 245 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Soum Rakshit to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss sex toys, how Dr. Soum Rakshit transitioned from electrical engineering to co-founding MysteryVibe, what goes into the design of a sex toy and how you can communicate to your partner that you want to incorporate sex toys into your sex life.

Dr. Soum Rakshit is the Co-Founder & CEO of award-winning sexual health company, MysteryVibe. Their mission is to make sexual health accessible to all — across all ages, genders & orientations.

From his research & experiences over the past 2 decades, Soumyadip deeply understands that a major challenge in most people’s lives is keeping the ‘mystery’ alive in a long term relationship. This is especially the case after major life events like childbirth, menopause, cancer treatment or surgery.

That’s why he decided to combine his defence electronics expertise with medical experts to create devices that address major sexual health issues like ED, dryness & pain during intercourse. At the same time, working closely with sexual health experts, his team has been at the forefront of researching & developing content that act as catalysts for people to start much-needed conversations to reignite their sex life.

In his role as CEO of MysteryVibe, he focuses on pushing the boundaries on R&D, customer experience and supporting their long- term goal of making sexual health an integral part of our overall health. Soumyadip passionately believes that by empowering people with actionable knowledge & purposeful innovation is the way to make this happen.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Dr. Soum Rakshit transitioned from electrical engineering to co-founding MysteryVibe

Ways to keep sex and mystery in the bedroom after big life events; kids, marriage etc
The public’s perception of sexual health companies in 2021
Why more investors are investing in sexual health companies
Looking at what goes into the design of a sex toy
Communicating to your partner you want to incorporate sex toys into your sex life

Using complex technology to create simple solutions for people
Looking at Pleasure Finder and how you can use it
Looking at some of Dr. Soum Rakshit’s favourite sex toys

Find Dr. Soum Rakshit Online

https://mysteryvibe.com

Crescendo from MysteryVibe

Expanding Imagination Checklist

https://oasis2care.com/free-erotica/

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EP244 - Painful Orgasms & Intercourse with Dr. Paul Yong Aug 24, 2021

Welcome to episode 244 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Paul Yong to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss pain after orgasms, the effects of endometriosis and the relationship between hormones and testosterone around this issue.

Dr. Paul Yong (MD, PhD, FRCSC) is a Gynaecologist at the BC Women’s Centre for Pelvic Pain & Endometriosis and directs the Research Program at the BC Women’s Centre for Pelvic Pain & Endometriosis. Dr. Yong’s clinical practice is focused on pelvic pain, with a particular interest in endometriosis, painful periods, sexual pain, co-existing bladder and bowel problems, and pain related to the musculoskeletal system.

His clinical research interests are in endometriosis and pelvic pain, and his translational research interests include bio-banking of endometriosis, gene sequencing in endometriosis, and investigating nerve formation in the pelvis as a cause of pain. Dr. Yong is also involved in teaching and is Assistant Professor in the UBC Department of Obstetrics & Gynaecology, Division of Gynaecologic Specialties.

In this episode, you will hear:

Looking at pain post orgasm
How common is it to have pain after orgasms?
Is this more prevalent in men or women?
Looking at endometriosis
How long does pain usually last for people experiencing pain post orgasm?
Recommendations for those struggling with this
Looking at treatments for endometriosis
Can endometriosis turn into a chronic pain?
Recommendations for women experiencing pain during intercourse
The relationship between hormones and testosterone around these issues

Find Dr. Paul Yong Online

https://yonglab.med.ubc.ca

Expanding Imagination Checklist

https://oasis2care.com/erotic-awakening/

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

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EP243 - Revenge Porn with Dr. Kate Balestrieri Aug 17, 2021

Welcome to episode 243 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Kate Balestrieri to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss revenge porn, safety measures we might be able to take to protect ourselves, looking at the psychological profile of people leaking sexual images and the importance of parents to talk to their kids about this issue.

Dr. Kate Balestrieri, Psy.D., CSAT-S, is a Licensed Psychologist (Clinical and Forensic) in CA, FL and IL. She is a Certified Sex Therapist, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist – Supervisor, and PACT II trained couples’ therapist. Dr. Balestrieri earned her Doctorate of Clinical Psychology from the Illinois School of Professional Psychology, Chicago, and completed her Post-Doctoral Fellowship though the Northwestern University Feinberg School of Medicine with a concentration in Forensic Psychology. In over 14 years of clinical experience, she has conducted clinical and forensic evaluations, provided expert witness testimony in court, and been a treatment provider in clinical, forensic, and correctional settings.

The Founder of Modern Intimacy and Co-Founder of Triune Therapy Group, Dr. Balestrieri is a passionate advocate for mental health, relational and sexual health and wellness. In her private practice, Dr. Balestrieri works with adults, individuals and couples, primarily around treating trauma, substance abuse and addiction, intimacy disorders (sex/love addiction and sexual dysfunction), eating disorders and body image issues, bipolar disorder, Posttraumatic Stress disorder, depression, and anxiety. She also conducts comprehensive personality assessments, differential diagnosis evaluations, and screenings for the presence of alcohol/drug addiction, compulsive relationship behavior, and other psychosexual evaluations.

Throughout her work, Dr. Balestrieri focuses on helping people build resilience and recovery from what ails them to move from a position of pain or discomfort to one of thriving, holistically in their lives. In that effort, Dr. Balestrieri works with individuals astutely to help mitigate anger management concerns, establish healthy boundaries, build effective communication strategies, and improve relationship patterns.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Dr. Kate became interested in the sexuality field
Looking around the issues that lead to revenge porn
How can we protect ourselves from revenge porn?

Communicating with your partner about what happens to photos, videos etc
Looking at the psychological profile of people leaking sexual images
How many victims of revenge porn don’t come forward and report it
Is narcissism a character trait of someone leaking images?
Safety measures we might be able to take, E.G using secure apps

Looking at how authorities around the world are putting in legislation to deal with revenge porn
The importance of parents to talk to their kids about this issue
Understanding the consequences of leaking sexual images

Find Dr. Kate Balestrieri Online

https://www.modernintimacy.com

Expanding Imagination Checklist

https://oasis2care.com/erotic-awakening/

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

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EP242 - Is Watching Porn Bad? with Diane Gleim, LMFT Aug 10, 2021

Welcome to episode 242 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Diane Gleim to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss whether it's bad to watch porn, the emergence of ethical porn, how many people fantasize about sex with multiple people, and the relationship between porn and masturbation.

Diane Gleim is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Supervisor practicing in northern California. Her clients include anyone with a sexual concern: individuals and couples ages 18-80 and beyond, and the LGBTQ+, kinky, and poly populations. She treats the many diverse issues related to sexual identity, sexual expression, sexual behavior, and sexual relationships.

In addition to her private practice, Diane’s work also includes training mental health professionals on a variety of topics related to sex and therapy and writing the blog Underneath the Sheets on Psychology Today’s website. She has been voted Sonoma County’s Best Sex Therapist for 4 years. Finally, Diane has appeared in various media including podcasts, her local media publications, and in Mel Magazine, The Buzz by Pure Romance, Quartz, and CNN.com.

In this episode, you will hear:

Looking at the definition of porn
The ambiguous areas of porn
Analyzing the “suspension of disbelief”
How can we create piece of mind for ourselves when consuming porn?
Looking at the emergence of ethical porn
The contributing factors behind people reacting negatively to porn
Understanding it’s ok to like different types of porn
How many people fantasize about sex with multiple people
Communicating your porn consumption to your partner
The relationship between porn and masturbation
Why robust arguments in a relationship can be healthy long term

Find Diane Gleim Online

https://www.dianegleimmft.com

Expanding Imagination Checklist

https://oasis2care.com/erotic-awakening/

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

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EP241 - What Research Says About Porn with Dr. Alan McKee & Katerina Litsou Aug 03, 2021

Welcome to episode 241 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the relationship between pleasure and pornography, how our erotic template fits into porn and analyzing the negative connotations that usually come with porn.

Alan McKee is a Professor in Digital and Social Media in the Faculty of Arts and Social Sciences at UTS. He is an expert on entertainment and healthy sexual development. He has published on healthy sexual development, and entertainment education for healthy sexuality in journals including the New Media and Society, Archives of Sexual Behavior, the International Journal of Sexual Health, the Journal of Sex Research and Sex Education.

Katerina Litsou is a senior research assistant and a doctoral researcher at the University of Southampton. She has a bachelor of psychology and a master of sexology. Her current research focuses on female sexuality and the use of pornography.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Alan & Katerina became interested in this field
How porn can be a feminist political act
Looking at the data from various studies on porn
How is porn defined in the research?
Analyzing the negative connotations that usually come with porn
The relationship between healthy masturbation and porn
The importance of transparency and consent
Looking at the correlation between pleasure and porn
How many women feel porn isn’t politically correct
Looking at how our erotic template fits into porn
Analyzing the pros and cons of amateur porn

Find Alan McKee Online

https://twitter.com/profalanmckee

Find Katerina Litsou Online

https://twitter.com/kleechou

Expanding Imagination Checklist

https://oasis2care.com/free-erotica

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

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EP240 - 5 Beliefs That Could Negatively Impact Your Dating Life! with Majo Molfino Jul 27, 2021

Welcome to episode 240 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Majo Molfino to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how Majo decided to write Break the Good Girl Myth, the most challenging myths for sex and sexuality and learning to understand your past and move forward.

Majo Molfino guides women toward more power and meaning through her unique blend of storytelling, design, psychology, and mindfulness. Her work can be seen through her podcast (which features women such as Sophia Amoruso and Byron Katie and has over one million downloads), her book (which helps women shed the good girl myths the patriarchy has imposed upon them), and her leadership program IGNITE.

She also has a Master’s in learning, design, and technology from Stanford University and a bachelor’s degree in psychology with a minor in cultural studies from McGill University.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Majo decided to write Break the Good Girl Myth
How these myths get in the way of having the relationships they want
Looking at the five good girl myths
The most challenging myths for sex and sexuality
Analyzing the myth of harmonies and boundaries
The importance of giving our partners sexual feedback
How 50% of women are not talking about the pain they experience during sex
Learning to be comfortable making mistakes and see what shows up
Looking at the short-term benefits of the good girl myths
Learning to understand your past and move forward

Find Majo Molfino Online

https://goodgirlmyth.com

Dating Anxiety Checklist

https://oasis2care.com/dating-anxiety

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

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EP239 - Want to Feel More Confident in the Bedroom? with Erica Lemke-Pembroke Jul 20, 2021

Welcome to episode 239 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Erica Lemke-Pembroke to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss Erica’s journey to getting to her place of confidence, the importance of self-love and self-respect and how you can build your confidence to feel sexier.

Erica Lemke-Pembroke, MA, is a certified life coach, licensed, specialty-certified New Life Story ® wellness coach and sexual confidence coach. Erica has a master's degree in community counseling with a concentration in marriage and family therapy. She also holds a bachelor's degree in kinesiology and a certificate in gerontology. Her desire to work with clients from a holistic perspective has been a driving force throughout her life. Guiding others to connect with themselves: body, mind and soul came from a lifetime of creating this within herself.

Erica became certified as a life coach through Coach Training Alliance, and deepened her studies with a license, specialty-certification as a Mentor Coach and New Life Story ® Wellness Coach. This furthered her studies in neuroscience, strategic coaching and positive psychology. Combining these disciplines with her passion for keeping one's sensuality and sexuality integral to the whole person, Erica continues her mission to helping women become their most sexually confident selves.

Erica is a Californian currently living in Utah. She enjoys intimate conversations about sex, everything outdoors, dancing every single day, creating Haiku poetry and spending quality time with friends and family.

In this episode, you will hear:

A look at Erica’s journey to getting to her place of confidence
The pressure we feel to look a certain way to be sexy
How sexy is more about how you feel than how you look
How you can build your confidence to feel more sexier
Signs to look for if you’re struggling with low confidence
The importance of self-love and self-respect
How does a lack of confidence show up in the bedroom?

Find Erica Lemke-Pembroke Online

https://feelsexyagain.com

Dating Anxiety Checklist

https://oasis2care.com/dating-anxiety

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

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EP238 - The Secret To Dating and Mating Like a French Person with Guy Blaise Jul 13, 2021

Welcome to episode 238 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Guy Blaise to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the cultural differences between dating in the US and France, looking at the issue of unsolicited dick picks and why paying more attention to your partner will get you better sex.

Guy Blaise is an author and Frenchman currently living in America. He lived in Eastern France and Paris, where he witnessed the dating experiences of the strong women in his family and listened closely to the advice his grandmother routinely gave them about love.

After two decades of living in America and struck by the differences between two cultures’ approaches to romance and sex, Guy started writing books offering his insights and started The French Perspective blog.

In this episode, you will hear:

The biggest differences between dating in the USA and France
Analyzing the cultural differences between dating in the USA and France
How we are living in a “Plenty of Fish / Tinder” culture of dating
The social attitudes of men in the USA compared to France
Looking at the issue of unsolicited dick picks
The difference of how American women deal with dicks compared with women in France
How unsolicited dick picks can be red flags for not being good at consent
Looking at the differences between the way French men make love to women compared with American men
Why paying more attention to your partner will get you better sex
Understanding that sex doesn’t start and end in the bedroom
Knowing that no relationship is perfect and requires constant work to keep sex great
The importance of women taking agency of what they want

Find Guy Blaise Online

www.thefrenchperspective.com

Dating Anxiety Checklist

https://oasis2care.com/dating-anxiety

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

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EP237 - Dating with a Broken Heart with Dr. Marissa Tunis Jul 06, 2021

Welcome to episode 237 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Marissa Tunis to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss ways in which we can get closure from a breakup, analyzing what gaslighting is and how we can stop the cycle of repeating the same mistakes when it comes to relationships.

Dr. Marissa Tunis is a licensed psychologist, dating coach, and founder of Datefully, dating coaching based in psychology. She is based in Los Angeles and sees clients across the country who are struggling with heartbreaks, dating anxiety and relationship issues.

She hosts a weekly live-streamed digital talk show on the Meet Me app, Live with Dr. Marissa, which addresses the topics of love, dating and mental health.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Dr. Marissa became interested in this line of work
Ways in which we can get closure from a breakup
How we can learn to heal after a very bitter breakup
How long should we wait after a breakup to start dating again?
Learning to take time for yourself after a breakup
The way in which a bitter breakup can lead to trauma
Analyzing what gaslighting is
The negative ripple effects that come from gaslighting
How many people don’t even know they are gaslighting
The importance of trusting your own judgments and gut feeling
Why do we keep making the same mistakes?
How we can stop the cycle of repeating the same mistakes

Find Dr. Marissa Tunis Online

https://www.datefully.com

Dating Anxiety Checklist

https://oasis2care.com/dating-anxiety

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EP236 - How to Respond When Your Kids Start Masturbating with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers Jun 29, 2021

Welcome to episode 236 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers back to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss her new book, Shameless Parenting, look at the issue of sexual shame, and give recommendations on how to talk to your kids about sex.

Dr. Tina is a vibrant thought leader around issues of sexuality, intimacy, and spirituality. Her life’s work is centered around rooting out the causes of sexual shame and providing tools that disarm and demystify all the negative messages that we receive in American culture and so often in religious circles. She regularly speaks at events, conferences, intimacy retreats, churches, and universities around the country.

Dr. Tina is a sex therapist, former professor of Marriage and Family Therapy at Seattle Pacific University, founder of the Northwest Institute on Intimacy, AASECT-certified supervisor, mother, wife, and author. She is currently doing work on her next book, which is intended to help parents raise their children free of sexual shame and appropriately teach them about healthy sexuality over each stage of their development.

In this episode, you will hear:

Why Dr. Tina wrote her new book, Shameless Parenting
Where does our sexual shame come from?
How our sexuality is fluid and changes over time
Learning the best ways to talk to your kids about sex
How if don’t talk to them about sex, they will pick up other values and info about sex from online, social media, etc.
What age is appropriate for kids to start being curious about sex?
The difference between self-soothing and masturbating
Teaching the values of privacy around sex to our kids
Recommendations on how to talk to your kids about sex

Find Dr. Tina Online

https://www.tinaschermersellers.com

Talking to Your Child About Sex: A Checklist for Parents

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EP235 - Between the Sheets: Penis Edition! Jun 22, 2021

Welcome to episode 235 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where I talk about the issues of delayed ejaculation.

In this episode, you will hear:

The challenges overall of erectile functioning
Looking at the time it takes for men on average to ejaculate
Contributing causes to delayed ejaculation
How side effects from medication can affect this issue
The role guilt and shame can play around delayed ejaculation
How we can internalize negative experiences
How masturbation can affect delayed ejaculation
Looking at the frequency of masturbation
Being honest and authentic with your partner
Opening up about your sexual desires and fantasies to your partner
Overcoming any issues of shame and embarrassment
Incorporating sex toys into your sex life
How you can maintain erections during penetrative sex

Sexology Podcast

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EP234 - Does Size Matter? with Kristopher Lovestone Jun 15, 2021

Welcome to episode 234 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Kristopher Lovestone to the podcast. In this episode, Kristopher talks to me about his book, Conscious Cock: The Empowered Sexuality Manual For Men, the role porn plays in distorting our view on penis size and expectations and why women are more interested in men being good lovers than just having a big penis.

The “Einstein of relationships”, Kristopher Lovestone is an ingenious certified sex educator who is breaking new ground in sex education for men and couples. After surviving six divorces during his childhood he went on to rewrite the rules of the relationship game so that people can actually win.

His ingenious & practical approach transforms people’s ability to get what they really want in their long-term relationship. Through state-of-the-art communication tools, cutting-edge sex & intimacy education and innovative relational strategies, he empowers people to exit relationship exhaustion & cultivate the intimacy of their dreams with their partner.

His techniques have yielded him a wildly successful 15-year marriage that gets hotter every year, and you can find his teachings in his book, Conscious Cock: The Empowered Sexuality Manual For Men.

In this episode, you will hear:

What we can learn from Kristopher’s book - Conscious Cock: The Empowered Sexuality Manual for Men
Why men are still invested in penis size
How many women are more interested in men being good lovers than just having a big penis
The role porn plays in distorting our view on penis size and expectations
Why good foreplay is more important than penis size
Ways in which you can improve your foreplay
How less can be more when it comes to sex
Understanding that having a big penis doesn’t automatically mean you’re good in bed
Looking at orgasms without ejaculation
Learning to last longer in bed for more fulfilling sex

Kristopher Lovestone

https://www.consciouscock.com/

Tips for Lifelong Erectile Health

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Bedroom To Fizzle

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EP233 - Penis Health: Identify & Prevent Problems with Dr. Jed Kaminetsky Jun 08, 2021

Welcome to episode 233 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Dr. Jed Kaminetsky to the podcast. In this episode, Dr. Kaminetsky speaks to me about the impact of testosterone on sexual health, the challenges some people face with their bodies not producing enough testosterone and analyzing men’s orgasms.

Dr. Jed Kaminetsky, M.D. is a Clinical Assistant Professor at NYU Medical Center and a Board Certified Urologist at University Urology, one of the largest urology practice in the New York City area. He pioneered the minimally invasive Rezum BPH treatment, is highly skilled in treating all urologic disorders and excels in vasectomies, minimally invasive prostate surgeries and penile implants.

His academic interests in male and female sexual dysfunction have been published in medical journals which led to a nationwide recognition and development of various treatment schemes for patients with sexual, erectile dysfunction and androgen deficiency.

In this episode, you will hear:

The impact of testosterone on sexual health
Looking at supplements, how they work and potential side effects
Ways to make lasting change for better sexual health
Looking at the impact of a healthy lifestyle; good diet, exercise, work-life balance
How early can you expect to see changes after making lifestyle changes
The challenges some people face with their bodies not producing enough testosterone
The effect of Covid-19 on testosterone levels
How prostrate treatment can impact sexual health
The side effects of prostate treatment
Analyzing men’s orgasms
Looking at the best first lines of treatment for prostate issues

Find Dr. Jed Kaminetsky

https://www.universityurology.com

Tips for Lifelong Erectile Health

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Bedroom To Fizzle

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EP232 - How Your Attachment Style Can Ruin Your Sex Life with Dr. Morgan Anderson Jun 01, 2021

Welcome to episode 232 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Dr. Morgan Anderson to the podcast. In this episode, Dr. Morgan talks to me about attachment styles and how they impact our sex lives, the benefits of emotionally safe sex and how experiences from our childhood can affect our attachment style.

Are you ready to take the mystery out of having great relationships and to gain the knowledge you need to step confidently into the next level of your life? Dr. Morgan Anderson, gives you real talk on all things dating, relationships, and sex. Dr. Morgan is a relationship coach, psychologist and creator of the E.S.L relationship method. She brings humor, truth and knowledge to the complex world of dating and relationships.

Dr. Morgan's Podcast "Let's Get Vulnerable" will provide you with tangible strategies that you can implement immediately to improve your life and attract the exact relationship you desire. Episodes will feature expert advice from your host and psychologist, Dr. Morgan Anderson, interviews with incredible people offering you their stories and wisdom, and LIVE coaching sessions where you will have an exclusive glimpse into the growth process as it is unfolding.

Episodes are recorded in a live format to give you the feel of a live talk show; episodes are non-scripted and unedited. The content of the episodes is bound to make you laugh, cry, improve your relationships and go confidently after your dreams like never before. So what are you waiting for? Let’s Get Vulnerable.

In this episode, you will hear:

What is an attachment style?
How experiences from our childhood can affect our attachment style
Looking at repetition compulsion
Why people becoming more attracted to a person when they start to withdraw
Analysing the different types of attachment
How people can become avoidantly attached
Looking at disorganised attachment
How porn can be used as crutch to avoid vulnerability
Paying attention to our internal reactions
The benefits of emotionally safe sex
Looking at secure attachment
The role jealousy can play around these issues

Find Dr. Morgan Anderson online

https://www.drmorgancoaching.com

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EP231 - How to Choose the Right Sex Toy with Dr. Megan Stubbs May 25, 2021

Welcome to episode 231 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Dr. Megan Stubbs to the podcast. In this episode, Megan talks to me about sex toys, the evolution of them over the years, how they can improve your sex life, and recommendations for the best ones to check out.

Holding degrees in Human Sexuality and Biology, Dr. Megan Stubbs is an energetic multi-media savvy Sexologist. She has been building a brand that has sexual wellness, education, and pleasure at the forefront. With her respective degrees, she is able to combine two of her favorite things, science and sex, into a cohesive platform to impact her audience. She offers presentations on a wide variety of topics ranging from positive body image to sexual assault prevention. She is mindful of inclusion and brings a sensitivity to ethnic diversity rooted in her own complex heritage.

Her programming is designed to entertain and educate with actionable steps and information the participants can use as soon as they leave. Her advice is frequently quoted in national media outlets, she writes for many online and print publications, appears on television, speaks on radio, and presents at public and private events. Her new book, Playing Without a Partner: A Singles' Guide to Sex, Dating, and Happiness, is available now.

In this episode, you will hear:

Looking at the history of sex toys
The evolution and changes to sex toys over the years
How sex was unknowingly used as treatment for women hundreds of years ago
The ways in which sex toys can improve your sex life
How sex toys can be an addition to your existing sex life
The ways in which sex toys can break sexual boredom
How couples can use sex toys together
Can sex toys become addictive?
Looking at health considerations when using sex toys
Using lubricant alongside sex toys
Good practices for using, cleaning and maintaining your sex toys
Looking at the rising popularity of CBD oils
Recommendations for good vibrators to check out

Find Dr. Megan Stubbs online

https://www.sexologistmegan.com

101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot

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EP230 - Can Polyamory Really Work? with Martha Kauppi May 18, 2021

Welcome to episode 230 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome back Martha Kauppi, LMFT to the podcast. In this episode, Martha speaks to us about her new book, Polyamory: A Clinical Toolkit for Therapists (and Their Clients), looking at consensual non-monogamy, examining common myths around polyamory, and the relationship and sexual dynamics of polyamory.

Martha Kauppi, LMFT, is an educator, AASECT-certified sex therapist and supervisor, and AAMFT-approved supervisor. She specializes in relational sex therapy, including alternative family structures, and trains therapists to work effectively at the intersection of sex issues and relationship challenges.

Martha’s mission is to make sex a safe topic in therapy rooms everywhere by developing unique educational experiences and immediately applicable learning materials for therapists. She has a book coming out in August 2020 about working effectively with clinical challenges related to polyamory.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Martha became interested in writing her new book; Polyamory: A Clinical Toolkit for Therapists (and Their Clients)
Looking at consensual non-monogamy
How people are more open to polyamory now than in previous years
Deconstructing the stigma attached to polyamory
Examining common myths around polyamory
Recommendations for people considering opening their relationship
Looking the relationship and sexual dynamics of polyamory
How misconceptions around polyamory lead to a fear of it
Looking at differentiation
How therapists can better understand these issues to know when it’s right to recommend polyamory

Find Martha Kauppi online

https://instituteforrelationalintimacy.com

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EP229 - Unleashing Your Relationship Potential with Alicia & Erwan Davon May 11, 2021

Welcome to episode 229 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome back Alicia & Erwan Davon to the podcast. In this episode Alicia & Erwan speak to me about how can we cultivate sexual spark in our long-term relationships, flirt in a long-term relationship and discovering your sexual energy.

For over 25 years Erwan who was joined by Alicia in 2003 have been working successfully with singles and couples, teaching their signature process – the Davon Method to hundreds of students in groups, retreats, and individual sessions and helping them create the relationships of their dreams.

Erwan and Alicia have a unique approach to relationship coaching that combines their educational backgrounds in psychology and aspects of Zen Buddhism to provide a holistic method to effectively improve connection with the self and others.

Erwan studied psychology after a difficult childhood and an early introduction to therapeutic work. He went on to live and study in a Zen Monastery, direct a yoga ashram, and began teaching personal development at one of the world’s largest personal grown organizations. Erwan’s passion for helping and teaching people led him to found Erwan Davon Teachings in 1995, specifically to help people improve their relationships.

Alicia Davon holds a Master’s degree in Integral Psychology with a focus on women’s romantic and sensual expression. She trained as a therapist before meeting Erwan and led numerous women’s groups devoted to female pleasure and life fulfilment from career to relationship. She met Erwan 15 years ago and started teaching with him soon after.

Together, Erwan and Alicia developed The Pleasure Course, which has helped thousands achieve their ideal love lives. They provide a safe place to explore psychological inquiry, pleasure, and sexuality.

They have spent years perfecting their curriculum and techniques and are excited to share their expertise with newcomers so they can help improve chemistry, connection, communication, and passion in others’ lives!

In this episode, you will hear:

How can we cultivate sexual spark in our long-term relationships?
Learning to bring more sexual energy into your relationship
How we can de-prioritize sex in our relationships
Understanding the need to put aside time for sexual development
How you can flirt in a long-term relationship
Finding synergy between feminine and masculine energy
Discovering your sexual energy
Tapping into embodiment
How you can learn to lean into pleasure
The common mistakes couples make around these issues
How you can read in-between the sexual lines of your partner

The Pleasure Course

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Find Alicia & ErwanOnline

https://erwandavon.com/consult

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EP228 - What Research Says About Sexual Boredom with Leonor de Oliveira May 04, 2021

Welcome to episode 228 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Leonor de Oliveira, MSc to the podcast. In this episode, Leonor de Oliveira speaks to me about the issue of sexual boredom, looking at hypersexuality and how infidelity can affect sexual boredom.

Leonor de Oliveira, MSc in Psychology, is a Clinical Psychologist credited by the Portuguese Board of Psychologists and Sexual Therapist by the Portuguese Society of Clinical Sexology. Currently integrates Porto University’s Centre for Psychology as a researcher, and the Doctoral Program in Human Sexuality as a student. Her main research topic is sexual boredom and its relationships with individual, relationship, and systemic aspects. She runs the social media account on Instagram @prontoadespir, where she promotes evidence based sexual education and advocates for sexual rights. Outside of the sexuality field she has mainly worked in the context of crisis intervention and short-term therapy in EAP settings.

* The literal translation of “Pronto a despir” is “ready to undress” - a word play with the French expression “Prêt-à-porter” that means “ready to wear”. This project started as a blog in 2014 and last year made its comeback on Instagram.

In this episode, you will hear:

How did Leonor become interested in sexual boredom?
The importance of love and connection
Creating space for passion and sexual excitement
How is sexual boredom defined?
The need to show up to help overcome sexual boredom
Looking at hyper sexuality
Why novelty and stimulation may not be enough to improve sexual boredom
The ways infidelity can affect sexual boredom
Discussion around the movie “Unas” and it’s portrayal of these issues

Find Leonor de OliveiraOnline

https://www.instagram.com/prontoadespir

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EP227 - Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex with Dr. Ian Kerner Apr 27, 2021

Welcome to episode 227 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome back Dr. Ian Kerner to the podcast. In this episode, Dr. Kerner talks to me about his new book; So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex: Laying Bare and Learning to Repair Our Love Lives, overcoming psychological sexual rigidity, expanding into verbal foreplay and ways you can bring new sexual ideas to your partner.

Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT is a licensed marriage and family therapist and nationally recognized sexuality counselor who specializes in sex therapy, couples therapy and working with individuals on a range of relational issues. Ian is the New York Times best-selling author She Comes First (Harper Collins), which has been translated into more than a dozen languages. He regularly consults for articles in major publications such as The Atlantic and The Economist, and he also writes on the topic of sex for CNN Health.

He is the co-director of the sex therapy program at the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy, one of New York's oldest and most respected not-for-profit mental health training and treatment facilities. In addition to being a Clinical Fellow of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (AAMFT), Ian is certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists and he is also a member of the Society for Sex Therapy and Research (SSTAR) and The American Family Therapy Academy (AFTA). Ian was born and raised in New York City, where he maintains a private practice and lives with his wife and two sons, and their beloved dogs, Jitterbug and Oscar.

In this episode, you will hear:

How many couples can’t remember when asked, when the last time they had sex was
Can sexual chemistry be created if there’s never been much attraction?
Looking at psychological sexual rigidity
Learning to adapt and change your erotic template
The need to have good foreplay to allow for better sex
Expanding into verbal foreplay
Not setting yourself unrealistic expectations
How our busy lives effects our sexual well-being
Ways you can bring new sexual ideas to your partner
Understanding not to give up straight away and give things time
Knowing these issues are common and something everyone struggles with

Find Dr. Ian Kerner Online

https://www.iankerner.com

Free Masterclass

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In this Masterclass we will

Define “Boredom” as it relates to your Intimate Life

We will explain the latest research findings on boredom in the bedroom as, more often than not, it is not as simple as feeling tired of monotonous routine.

Identify the main source of intimacy dissatisfaction in your relationship

We will first discuss the most common causes of intimacy dissatisfaction in relationships and then explore the roots of these issues.

Tackle your specific intimacy challenges

We will guide and walk you through addressing identified problems and explore the most effective ways to improve connection with your partner.

Giveaway

We have 5 copies of Dr Kerner’s new book to giveaway! To enter the competition and win a copy, simply subscribe to Sexology Podcast, write a review on iTunes, Stitcher etc and send a screenshot of the review to - https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast/.

Winners will be announced on our email newsletter on May 11th, 2021.

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EP226 - Why Good Sex Matters with Dr. Nan Wise Apr 20, 2021

Welcome to episode 226 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Nan Wise to the podcast. In this episode, Dr. Nan talks to me about her book, Why Good Sex Matters, how you can learn to access your pleasure and analyzing the difference between sexual stimulation and satisfaction.

Dr. Nan Wise is a certified sex therapist, certified relationship specialist, neuroscience researcher, and author of Why Good Sex Matters: Understanding the Neuroscience of Pleasure for a Smarter, Happier, and More Purpose-Filled Life. Driven by the desire to understand how the brain operates to create moods and behaviors, she returned to academia and completed her Ph.D. in 2014. Her dissertation work, Genital stimulation, imagery, and orgasm in women: an fMRI analysis, resulted in three published studies. Her research has addressed gaps in the scientific literature regarding the neural basis of human sexuality, and as a result, garnered international attention.

Dr. Nan's clinical approach addresses how the brain/body/mind operates, highlighting the key role that our evolutionarily wired-in, core, embodied emotions play in our physical and mental well-being. Imbalances in these core emotional systems contribute to anxiety, depression, stress-related disorders, and sexual dysfunction--all of which can impair our ability to experience pleasures- in and out of the bedroom. This inability to experience satisfying pleasures-- the state of "anhedonia"- - contributes to what she has called the pleasure crisis, evidenced by soaring epidemics of mood disorders, stress-related illnesses, and a widespread sexual recession. As Dr. Nan teaches, the ability to experience healthy pleasures--those that feel good and are good for us-- is not a luxury, but a necessity for overall well-being.

Dr. Nan has discussed the pleasure crisis on The Today Show as well as contributed her expert opinion to outlets such as The BBC, National Geographic, The Atlantic, Time, Women’s Health, The Washington Post, HuffPost, Well + Good, Romper, Bustle, and has a regular column in Glamour, Ask Dr. Nan in which she addresses sexual health and relationship topics. She lives in West Orange, NJ.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Dr. Nan became interested in this field to write the book
Analyzing Anhedonia - The inability to feel pleasure
Learning to access your pleasure
Why your brain is your ally when improving your sexual pleasure
Looking at the difference between accessing pleasure and sexual pleasure
Overcoming low desire
Why some people are ambivalent towards pleasure
Fulfilling your sexual potential
The difference between stimulation and satisfaction

Find Dr. Nan Wise Online

https://askdoctornan.com

Free Masterclass

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EP225 - Self Compassion and Sexual Health with Chris Germer, PhD Apr 13, 2021

Welcome to episode 225 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Chris Germer, PhD to the podcast. In this episode, Dr. Germer talks to me about self-compassion, the power of kindness and how you can learn to let go of your expectations.

Chris Germer, PhD is a clinical psychologist and lecturer on psychiatry (part-time) at Harvard Medical School. He co-developed the Mindful Self-Compassion (MSC) program with Kristin Neff in 2010 and MSC has since been taught to over 150,000 people worldwide. They co-authored two books on MSC, The Mindful Self-Compassion Workbook and Teaching the Mindful Self-Compassion Program.

Chris spends most of his time lecturing and leading workshops around the world on mindfulness and self-compassion. He is also the author of The Mindful Path to Self-Compassion; he co-edited two influential volumes on therapy, Mindfulness and Psychotherapy, and Wisdom and Compassion in Psychotherapy; and he maintains a small private practice in Arlington, Massachusetts, USA.

In this episode, you will hear:

What is self-compassion?
How most people are compassionate to others than themselves
How self-compassion is a skill anyone can learn
The importance of asking yourself – What do I need?
Looking at the shame spiral
How self-compassion is the antidote to shame
Why people who are self-compassionate experience better sexual satisfaction
How you can break your cycle and become self-compassionate
The power of kindness and how it empowers you
Why quick fixes “3 Steps to fix your sex life etc” are not congruent with self-compassion
Learning to let go of your expectations

Find Chris Germer, PhDOnline

http://www.chrisgermer.com

Free Checklist - 25 Ways to Increase Desire

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If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr.Moali

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EP224 - How Does Cannabis Affect Sex? with Dr. Jordan Tishler Apr 06, 2021

Welcome to episode 224 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Jordan Tishler to the podcast. In this episode, Dr. Tishler tells us how he became interested in working with cannabis for sex, the impact it has on sexual experiences and the best ways you can pursue using medical cannabis.

Dr. Jordan Tishler is a Cannabis Specialist. Through his training in Internal Medicine and years of practice as an Emergency Physician, Dr. Tishler brings his knowledge, reason, and caring to patients here at inhaleMD, and through his advocacy work at the local and national levels.

Dr. Tishler graduated from both Harvard College and Harvard Medical School, trained at the Brigham and Women’s Hospital, and is faculty at both the Brigham and Women’s Hospital and Harvard Medical School. He has spent many years working with the underserved, particularly providing care for Veterans. Having treated countless patients harmed by alcohol and drugs, his observation that he had never seen a cannabis overdose led Dr. Tishler to delve deeply into the science of cannabis safety and treatment.

Dr. Tishler is a frequent speaker and author on a variety of topics related to the medical applications of cannabis. He is the President of the Association of Cannabis Specialists which aims to educate clinicians, lawmakers, and the industry about best practices and needed tools for proper patient care.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Dr. Tishler became interested in this line of work
Can you be addicted to cannabis?
How we can reap the benefits of cannabis in a safe way
Is cannabis a gateway drug?
The impact cannabis has on sexual experiences
Looking at the different ways in can affect people
Why orgasms shouldn’t be the only goal for good sex
The difference between low libido and erectile dysfunction
Do CBD oils work?
The best ways you can pursue using medical cannabis

Find Dr. Tishler Online

https://inhalemd.com

Bedroom to Fizzle

I’m thrilled to announce a wonderful opportunity for Sexology's listeners. Bedroom Fizzle to Sizzle is a new course for couples I have been developing. Through this four-week, online program you will learn the skills needed to sexually reconnect with your partner and establish a lasting and fulfilling sex life. And from now until April 10th we are offering a chance for our listeners to become Founding Members.

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This digital course will break the cycle of sexual avoidance and frustration for many couples. This is my passion and what wakes me up early every morning with my mind racing a million miles a minute.

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EP223 - Low Sexual Desire & Erotic Fiction with A.B. Kelleher Mar 30, 2021

Welcome to episode 223 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome A.B. Kelleher to the podcast. In this episode, A.B. Kelleher speaks to me about his book Little Green Pills, how he became interested to write the book, learning to cultivate your imagination for better sex and analyzing why shame stops people from cultivating their sexual fantasies.

A.B. Kelleher is the author of Little Green Pills - It all started in a clinical trial to help women with low libido. But when a black-market version of synthetic testosterone starts spreading like wildfire, the effects don't stop with amped-up love lives.

As a sexual revolution that makes the 1960s look like Victorian England sweeps the US, and social roles radically shift, the government creates the Reproductive Health Administration (RHA) to suppress trafficking in Little Green Pills. As the newest iteration of the "War on Drugs" fails miserably, life for RHA Director Eric Veritan is about to get dangerously interesting.

In this episode, you will hear:

How A.B Kelleher became interested in writing Little Green Pills
The relationship between sex drive and testosterone
How sex can make almost anything more interesting!
Approaching erotica for the first time with Little Green Pills
Learning to cultivate your imagination for better sex
How you can best augment your fantasies
Why some people feel ashamed for what turns them on
Analyzing shame stories and what stops people from cultivating their sexual fantasies
How medical treatments alongside therapy can work great to improve your sex-life

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EP222 - Genital Herpes & Your Sex Life with Bianca Hughes Mar 23, 2021

Welcome to episode 222 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Bianca Hughes to the podcast. In this episode, Bianca talks to me about the myths and misconceptions around genital herpes, navigating sexuality with religion and learning to make peace with your diagnosis.

Bianca specializes in perfectionism, helping people embrace their imperfections and authentically be themselves. She helps clients work through concerns of self-worth, unhealthy relationships, identity, or feeling overwhelmed. Her approach within therapy is direct but open, meeting clients where they are, providing them freedom to change when they’re ready. She believes in empowering and equipping people with skills, tools, and resources they can utilize for life.

In addition, her passion is to eliminate mental health stigmas, which are prevalent within the black community. As well as eliminating the gap between Christianity and therapy. Bianca is a licensed professional counsellor in Georgia, podcast host, speaker and authenticity coach.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Bianca became interested in working in this area
How Bianca found the courage to tell her story
The myths and misconceptions around genital herpes
Analysing the risks of genital herpes
Ways in which you can share with a potential partner you have genital herpes

Understanding that STI’s are very common
How Bianca navigates her sexuality with her religion
Why women should fully embrace their sexual power
Learning to make pace with your diagnosis
Distinguishing between identity and diagnosis... You are not you’re diagnosis

OMGyes

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Confidently Living with Genital Herpes with Bianca Hughes

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EP221 - Your Body Is Talking. Are You Paying Attention? with Tara Galeano Mar 16, 2021

Welcome to episode 221 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome back Tara Galeano to the podcast. In this episode, Tara talks to me about her new book; “Rediscovering My Body”, how sex can be a form of healing and looking at the processing that needs to take place to heal sexual dysfunction.

Author Tara Galeano has worked with women for over two decades to get their sexy back. She knows that there is pleasure in the body, beyond our wildest dreams, and every woman can access it. In the "Rediscovering My Body" book, Tara teaches women how to show up for pleasure in their lives. She rediscovered her own body after leaving her twenty-five-year marriage. Realizing that she had given so much of herself away, she knew that she needed to come back to the body's inherent wisdom.

Through reconnecting with her body, Tara was able to understand what was right and pleasurable for her, how best to proceed from this wisdom, and most importantly, how to teach these lessons to other women who are clamoring for the same truths so that they too could transform their lives and reclaim their sensuality. Now Tara has embodied this path and is moving forward to share this with women everywhere!

In this episode, you will hear:

Why Tara decided to write her new book “Rediscovering My Body”
Learning to deal with residual emotions
How sex can be a form of healing
The way in which self-love fosters healing
The barriers that get in the way of women experiencing embodiment
How you can change the conversation you have with your body
Reacquainting with your body
Understanding the need to have patience and give yourself time
Overcoming frustration
Working on open communication with your partner
Acknowledging and working on emotions that can resurface
The processing that needs to take place to heal sexual dysfunction

OMGyes

Thank you to our sponsor OMGyes! OMGyes.com is a website devoted to sexual pleasure for people with vulvas and their partners. OMGYES conducts and publishes the first-ever nationally representative large-scale studies about specific pleasure strategies, in partnership with Indiana University and Kinsey Institute researchers.

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EP220 - Reclaiming Your Pleasure After Cancer Treatment with Dr. Anne Katz Mar 09, 2021

Welcome to episode 220 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Anne Katz to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Anne speaks with me about re-engaging with your sexuality after Cancer, how sexual health for cancer survivors can become a lost priority and learning to re-write your sexual script.

Dr. Anne Katz is the certified sexuality counsellor and Clinical Nurse Specialist at CancerCare Manitoba in Winnipeg, Canada. Dr. Katz is the immediate past editor of the Oncology Nursing Forum, the premier research journal of the Oncology Nursing Society. She was inducted into the American Academy of Nursing in 2014.

She is the author of 14books for health care providers and health care consumers on the topics of illness and sexuality as well as cancer survivorship. Her latest book, the second edition of Woman Cancer Sex, was published in late 2020 and she is completing her latest book about sexuality and illness.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Dr. Anne became involved in this line of work
Re-engaging with your sexuality after cancer
The first steps women can take on this journey
How sexual health for cancer survivors can become a lost priority
The way in which guilt can show up around sexuality and cancer
Analyzing the sexual pain survivors experience
Learning to re-write your sexual script
Exploring non- penetrative sex
Looking at treatments and medications available
Re-connecting with your body for better sex
How people can benefit from sensate focus exercises

OMGyes

Thank you to our sponsor OMGyes! OMGyes.com is a website devoted to sexual pleasure for people with vulvas and their partners. OMGYES conducts and publishes the first-ever nationally representative large-scale studies about specific pleasure strategies, in partnership with Indiana University and Kinsey Institute researchers.

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EP219 - Yes, You Are Right. The System Is Rigged Against You! with Katherine Angel Mar 02, 2021

Welcome to episode 219 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Katherine Angel to the podcast. In this episode Katherine talks about her new book, Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again, what the inspiration was behind the book, looking at issues of consent and how you can empower your desires.

Katherine Angel is the author of Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again (Verso), Daddy Issues (Peninsula Press, Verso), and Unmastered: A Book on Desire: Most Difficult to Tell (Penguin, FSG). She runs the MA in Creative and Critical Writing at Birkbeck College, University of London, and has a PhD from Cambridge University.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Katherine began working on her new book
What is the most idealistic way to approach consent?
The lack of representation of consent within sex education
Why many women aren’t full connected with their sexual selves
Looking at why women are frightened to talk about sexual pleasure
How do different cultures around the world play into these issues?
Cultivating your sexuality and vulnerability
Overcoming sexual shame
How you can empower your desires

OMGyes

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EP218 - Why is Sex Important in a Relationship? with August McLaughlin Feb 23, 2021

Welcome to episode 218 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome August McLaughlin to the podcast. In this episode August speaks with me about sexual connections in long term relationships, accessing your sexual power and ways in which we can discover our sexual values.

August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized journalist, media personality, author of Girl Boner and host and producer of the podcast, Girl Boner Radio, which has been compared to “Sex in the City” meets NPR’s “Fresh Air.”

Her articles and expertise have been featured in a range of publications including Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post, DAME Magazine, O: The Oprah Magazine, Forbes, Shape and Bustle. Known for melding personal passion, artistry and activism, August uses her skills as a journalist and podcaster to encourage others to embrace their bodies, sexuality and selves, making way for fuller, more authentic lives.

In this episode, you will hear:

How important is sexual connection a long-term relationship?
Understanding the good sex can take effort & planning
Ways in which we can discover our sexual values
Overcoming issues of resentment
Looking at issues of rejection
Learning to access your sexual power
How we can deal with things like negative body image
Sex frequency – Quality over quantity!
Exploring masturbation
How honest and open communication with your partner will improve your sex life
Why lube can be a great way to improve your sex life
Developing a mutual sexual plan that works for you and your partner

Find August McLaughlin

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EP217 - Psychedelic Assisted Therapy with Dee Dee Goldpaugh Feb 16, 2021

Welcome to episode 217 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dee Dee Goldpaugh, LCSW to the podcast. In this episode Dee Dee talks to me about psychedelic assisted therapy, how it can be used safely, and the benefits people can experience from it when done properly with a therapist.

Dee Dee Goldpaugh, LCSW (they/them/theirs) is a psychotherapist in private practice in New York City and Woodstock, NY. Their practice specializes in queer, sex and body-positive psychotherapy, and psychedelic integration, a form of therapy that assists clients in processing and applying the lessons from transpersonal and mystical experiences to their lives. Dee Dee has taught and written widely on the topic of psychedelics and sexuality.

As a survivor of sexual violence, Dee Dee sought healing with plant medicines in Peru to heal PTSD and has since become an advocate for therapist education, cognitive liberty, and the decriminalization of psychedelic medicines. They are a leader in their field on the topic of psychedelic integration and healing sexual trauma.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Dee Dee became interested in psychedelic assisted therapy
The internal experiences Dee Dee personally went through
Looking at the healing piece of psychedelics
The benefits people can experience from psychedelic assisted therapy
Exploring embodied pleasure and out of body experiences

Good practices therapists do adopt to use psychedelic assisted therapy safely
Ways in which psychedelics can help with touch and sensitivity
Is psychedelic assisted therapy a common practice?

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EP216 - Valentine’s Day Ideas from a Sexpert Feb 09, 2021

Welcome to episode 216 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where I look at different things you can do to spice up your sex life for this year's valentine's day!

In this episode, you will hear:

How can we keep things exciting in a long-term relationship?
Understanding your sex life requires time, effort and energy
Why most people aren’t having exciting novel sexual experiences
Analyzing the link between passion and great sex
How it’s easy for us to become lazy in a settled relationship
Viewing valentine's day as an opportunity to spice things up
Paying attention to what’s going on in your relationship
Incorporating passion to make sexually exciting experiences
The importance of managing conflicts within your relationship
Investing time to overcome relationship issues
Doing fun things like naked happy hour
Looking at The Royal Treatment and how it works
Exploring power exchange within give and take

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Club House

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EP215 - Navigating First Time Sex in a New Relationship with Connell Barrett Feb 02, 2021

Welcome to episode 215 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Connell Barrett to the podcast. In this episode, Connell speaks with me about ways we can navigate our first-time having sex in a new relationship, the importance of play and Why being present is so important.

Dating coach Connell Barrett has one mission: help men defeat loneliness and attract their soulmates, as their most authentic, confident selves. The founder of Dating Transformation and a coach with The League dating app, Connell spent years training with the world’s best relationship and self-development experts.

Connell’s next project? Showing men a new way to date with his forthcoming book, Dating Sucks But You Don’t, the complete dating guide for men in the #MeToo era, to be published in May by Simon & Schuster.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Connell became interested in this line of work
Creating flirtatious conversation
Learning to talk more around emotion and less around logic
The importance of play and how you can engage in play
Understanding the need to make yourself vulnerable
Ways you can learn to bring your guard down
Looking at the concept of “Freedom from outcome”
Why being present is so important
How to navigate the morning after first time sex
Ways you can still be a good person if it’s just a hook up

Find Connell Barrett online

https://datingtransformation.com

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Sex Quiz for Women

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EP214 - Birth Control: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly with Dr. Sarah E. Hill Jan 26, 2021

Welcome to episode 214 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Sarah E. Hill to the podcast. In this episode, Dr Hill speaks with me about the issues around birth control and sex, how birth control affects sexuality, the side effects of birth control and recommendations on the best practices for women to follow.

Dr. Sarah E. Hill is at the forefront of research on the effects of the pill on women’s psychology. A star psychologist with a PhD from the University of Texas, she is currently a researcher and professor with more than 50 published scientific articles to her name.

Her ground-breaking research on women, health, and sexual psychology has garnered more than half a million dollars in grant funding and has been featured in The New York Times, The Washington Post, Scientific American, The Economist, and many others.

Most recently, Sarah has authored “This is your brain on birth control: the surprising science of women, hormones, and the law of unintended consequences”, which has been published in several languages around the world and featured on TV shows like “Today” and Great Britain’s “This Morning”.

In this episode, you will hear:

How she became interested in birth control and its relation to sex
The different ways birth control can affect women’s moods
What is contained within birth control pills?

The ways in which women’s bodies can be impacted by birth control
Looking at the side effects of birth control
How birth control effects sexuality and desire
Taking a look at the role natural selection plays in this issue
Should you take testosterone if you have low desire?

Recommendations from Dr. Hill on the best practices for women to follow

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https://www.sarahehill.com

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Promescent Giveaway!

We are so excited to celebrate our 4th anniversary! As a token of our appreciation, we’re teaming up with Promescent to give away a bundle box (worth $154). The box includes:

Delay Spray
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We’re also giving away two Amazon Gift Cards! To enter, simply write a review in iTunes take a screenshot of the review and send it to drmoali@oasis2care.com or send via a DM on Instagram.

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EP213 - Awakening Deep Intimacy with Maci Daye Jan 19, 2021

Welcome to episode 213 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Maci Daye to the podcast. In this episode, Maci speaks to me about ways to make sex more exciting in a long-term relationship, re-engaging with your partner to have more passionate sex and the importance of healing in a relationship to improve sexuality.

Maci Daye is a licensed professional counselor, certified Hakomi therapist, and certified sex therapist. In addition to clinical practice, she is on the faculty of the Hakomi Institute and teaches in the United States and Europe.

She is the creator of Passion and Presence® couples’ retreats and a frequent conference presenter. She regularly leads courses in the USA, Australia, New Zealand, and Europe. She holds graduate degrees from Harvard and Georgia State Universities.

In this episode, you will hear:

Looking at the various stages couples go through with their sex life
Ways to make sex more exciting in a long-term relationship
Understanding the issue of “Left-over sex”
Re-engaging with your partner to have more passionate and meaningful sex
How mindfulness can help to improve your sex life
Ways in which previous emotional wounds can play out in sexuality
How being in a relationship is about being comfortable to be seen
Cultivating your erotic sexuality after years of left-over sex
The need sometimes to stop and start a clean slate from scratch
The importance of healing in a relationship to improve sexuality

Find Maci Daye online

https://macidaye.com

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Promescent Giveaway!

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EP212 - Becoming an Extraordinary Lover with Dr. Peggy Kleinplatz Jan 12, 2021

Welcome to episode 212 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Peggy Kleinplatz to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Kleinplatz talks to me about learning to be present to have more fulfilling sex, how you can learn to be more present and how this is possible for anyone to achieve.

Peggy J. Kleinplatz, Ph.D., is Professor in the Faculty of Medicine and Director of the Optimal Sexual Experiences Research Team at the University of Ottawa, Canada. Please see She is a Certified Sex Therapist and Educator.

Kleinplatz has edited four books including Sadomasochism: Powerful Pleasures with Charles Moser, Ph.D., M.D., Sexuality and Ageing (2015) with Walter Bouman, M.D. and notably New Directions in Sex Therapy: Innovations and Alternatives, winner of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counsellors and Therapists (AASECT) 2013 Book Award.

In 2015, Kleinplatz received the AASECT Professional Standard of Excellence Award. She is the author with A. Dana Menard, Ph.D. of Magnificent Sex: Lessons from Extraordinary Lovers (2020), winner of the Society for Sex Therapy and Research Consumer Book Award for 2021.

In this episode, you will hear:

Looking at the findings of the studies Dr Kleinplatz conducted
How many people feel a poorer sex life is just a trade-off of getting older
Ways in which you can learn to fully be present during sex
The importance being present has for fulfilling sex
How did Dr Kleinplatz define what good sex is in their study?
The ways in which group therapy can help to overcome these issues
Why group therapy may work better for you rather than a one to one
Understanding that learning to be present isn’t about sexual technique
Why better sex through being present is possible for anyone to achieve

Find Dr. Peggy Kleinplatz

https://optimalsexualexperiences.com

Quiz: What Kind of Lover are You?

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EP211 - Men Fake Orgasms, Too with Michael Castleman Jan 05, 2021

Welcome to episode 211 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Michael Castleman to the podcast. In this episode Michael talks to me about male orgasms, the ways in which men can fake orgasms, contributing factors that lead to men not being able to ejaculate and we look at Michael’s new book, Sizzling Sex for Life.

Michael Castleman has been at the forefront of health, wellness, and sexuality journalism for almost 50 years. His two previous sexuality guides—Sexual Solutions (Simon & Schuster, 1991) and Great Sex (Rodale, 2004) have sold more than 600,000 copies. His 12 other books on optimal health, mainstream medicine, alternative therapies, nutrition, and fitness, have sold more than 1.5 million copies.

For the past 15 years, Castleman’s writing has focused almost exclusively on sexuality, sex research, and sex therapy. His twice-monthly blog on PsychologyToday.com, “All About Sex,” launched in 2009, attracts some 700,000 views a month—with total views topping 50 million. His free Q&A site, GreatSexGuidance.com, launched in 2010, has become one of the Internet’s most authoritative sources of personalized sex advice. For 10 years (1998-2007), he answered all the sex questions submitted to Xandria, then a major marketer of sex toys. He has also answered sex questions for WebMD, AARP.com, and several other web sites. Fort five years (1991-1995), he replied to the sex questions readers asked the Playboy “Advisor.” In total, he has answered more than 12,000 sex questions—and sometimes still gets new ones.

In addition, Castleman has published more than 2,500 newspaper, magazine, and web articles in publications including, the New York Times, LA Times, Smithsonian, Reader's Digest, Prevention, Family Circle, Redbook, Self, Glamour, Cosmopolitan, Good Housekeeping, Ladies' Home Journal, Men's Health, Men's Fitness, Men's Journal, Parenting, Child, Natural Health, Mother Jones, The Nation, and Salon.com.

Castleman grew up in a Long Island suburb of New York City. He graduated Phi Beta Kappa from the University of Michigan (1972) and earned a Masters in journalism at UC Berkeley (1978). He lives in San Francisco.

In this episode, you will hear:

How common are orgasm challenges for men?
Is it easier for women to fake orgasms?
Ways in which men can fake orgasms
How some men can orgasm without ejaculating
The contributing factors that lead to men not being able to ejaculate
The need for partners to be understanding and not blame themselves
Looking at the “Delivery boy syndrome”
How are sexual desires change as we grow older and the need to adapt
How sex toys can improve sexual stimulation and sexual satisfaction
The side effects some drugs can have around this issue
Looking at Michael’s new book “Sizzling Sex for Life”

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EP210 - How to Make Orgasms Last Longer with Alicia & Erwan Davon Dec 29, 2020

Welcome to episode 210 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Alicia & Erwan Davon to the podcast. In this episode Alicia & Erwan speak to me about extended orgasms, accessing a higher level of arousal and ways in which you can learn to have an extended orgasm.

For over 25 years Erwan who was joined by Alicia in 2003 have been working successfully with singles and couples, teaching their signature process – the Davon Method to hundreds of students in groups, retreats, and individual sessions and helping them create the relationships of their dreams.

Erwan and Alicia have a unique approach to relationship coaching that combines their educational backgrounds in psychology and aspects of Zen Buddhism to provide a holistic method to effectively improve connection with the self and others

Erwan studied psychology after a difficult childhood and an early introduction to therapeutic work. He went on to live and study in a Zen Monastery, direct a yoga ashram, and began teaching personal development at one of the world’s largest personal grown organizations. Erwan’s passion for helping and teaching people led him to found Erwan Davon Teachings in 1995, specifically to help people improve their relationships.

Alicia Davon holds a Master’s degree in Integral Psychology with a focus on women’s romantic and sensual expression. She trained as a therapist before meeting Erwan and led numerous women’s groups devoted to female pleasure and life fulfilment from career to relationship. She met Erwan 15 years ago and started teaching with him soon after.

Together, Erwan and Alicia developed The Pleasure Course, which has helped thousands achieve their ideal love lives. They provide a safe place to explore psychological inquiry, pleasure, and sexuality.

They have spent years perfecting their curriculum and techniques and are excited to share their expertise with newcomers so they can help improve chemistry, connection, communication, and passion in others’ lives!

In this episode, you will hear:

How did Alicia Davon & Erwan Davon become interested in this approach?
Learning to access a higher level of arousal
Were they easily orgasmic before they started doing this?
Ways in which you can learn to have an extended orgasm
The key differences between extended orgasm and orgasmic meditation
Understanding the need to get over internal issues rather than focusing on technique
The differences between how men and women will get to grips with extended orgasms
Learning to give yourself lots of time to be present and fully experience pleasure
How you can achieve extended orgasms via any kind of sex
Finding your own path to pleasure

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EP209 - Orgasms: You Can Have One, Too! with Dr. Yekaterina Bakhta Dec 22, 2020

Welcome to episode 209 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Yekaterina Bakhta to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Bakhta speaks with me about the issues around achieving orgasms, why some women lose their sexual drive and looking at available medicines and treatments that can improve sexual desire.

Dr. Yekaterina Bakhta is a board-certified ObGyn who provides exceptional care to women of all ages. Uniquely experienced in treating female sexual dysfunction, she cares for patients with painful intercourse, low libido and difficulty with orgasm.

Striving to perfect female beauty and function inside and out, Dr. Bakhta utilizes the newest medications, cutting edge technology and innovative surgical techniques. . She offers a variety of treatments to enhance the female form and is developing advances in cosmetic gynecology and esthetics.

Dr. Bakhta’s extensive training in minimally invasive surgical techniques include vaginal reconstruction, labioplasty, incontinence procedures as well as laparoscopic and hysteroscopic surgeries. Well respected by both colleagues and patients, she is regularly recognized and awarded for her surgical skills and patients quick post-operative recovery.

She enjoys all aspects of Obstetrics and Gynecology, including wellness, contraception, and surgery. In addition to adult gynecology, Dr. Bakhta has a special interest in adolescent gynecology and gently cares for young women.

Dr. Bakhta is a graduate of University of California Los Angeles, receiving Bachelor of Science degree with honors in Biology. She received her Doctor of Medicine from the University of Southern California Keck School of Medicine.. Upon graduation, Dr. Bakhta was honored by the Alpha Omega Alpha Medical Honor Society for her dedication to the medicine and her pursuit of healing knowledge. She then completed residency training with Kaiser Permanente Los Angeles Medical Center. She received board certification from the American Board of Obstetrics and Gynecology and is an active fellow of ABOG and member of the American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology. Dr. Bakhta has been named “Leading Physician of the World” by International Association of ObGyn and has been listed as the “Top Doc” in Los Angeles.

Dr. Bakhta is passionate about providing the highest level of care to her patients and empowering women to take control of their health and sexual well-being. Her patients love her for her kindness, gentle exams and sensitivity. She is very personable, and her congenial bedside manner makes it easy for patients to open up regarding sensitive subjects.

She is devoted to providing excellent care for the Los Angeles community and hopes to continue guiding her patients through the stages of their lives.

In this episode, you will hear:

Why do some women lose their sexual drive?
Understanding that courtship and affection are important for female arousal
Why context around sex is very important
How guilt can override sexual desire
Looking at the hormonal change's women go through that affect sexual desire
Natural ways you can improve your libido
Available medicines and treatments that can improve sexual desire
Understanding potential side effects of potential treatments
Looking at the issues around achieving orgasms

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EP208 - Islam, BDSM and Social Justice with Dr. Ali Mushtaq Dec 15, 2020

Welcome to episode 208 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Ali Mushtaq to the podcast. In this episode Ali talks to me about BDSM and social justice, incorporating spirituality into sexuality and steps you can take if you’re interested in exploring BDSM.

Dr. Mushtaq has his PhD in Sociology from University of California: San Francisco and Masters in Social and Demographic analysis from University of California: Irvine. He is Mr. Long Beach Leather 2016 and has been profiled by numerous editorials, including the New York Times. Ali also has written several op-eds and scholarly articles that focus on race and sexuality. He is also a former college professor and has taught numerous courses that have focused on sexual identity and research methods. Currently, he is coauthoring a book on Black women AIDS activists and is on contact with Lexington Press.

Dr. Mushtaq also founded and owns Getting Wolfie LLC, which provides education related to diversity and empowerment. In addition to courses that focus on developing inclusive methods in marketing, he is also develops socially inclusive BDSM education courses that focus on sexual empowerment.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Dr. Ali became introduced and interested in BDSM
Looking at Dr. Ali’s experience of coming out
The community's reaction to Dr. Ali becoming interested in BDSM
The misconceptions that exist around BDSM
Bridging the gap between BDSM and social justice
Informing people about the history and dynamics of BDSM
Incorporating spirituality into sexuality
How communities can be more inclusive for people of different ethnicities
Steps you can take if you’re interested in exploring BDSM
Analyzing the common question of when does BDSM become abuse?
Understanding the need to frequently check in on consent

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EP207 - Breaking Up with Evangelical Christianity and Reclaiming Your Sexuality with Lucy Rowett Dec 08, 2020

Welcome to episode 207 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Lucy Rowett to the podcast. In this episode Lucy speaks to me about reclaiming sexuality after being raised as an Evangelical Christian, learning to challenge negative sex messages and dispelling the myth that having sexual feelings is sinful.

Lucy Rowett is a sexologist and intimacy coach based in Brighton, UK. She describes herself as an Evangelical Sexologist and pleasure advocate, who is passionate about empowering women to liberate their bodies and souls from the shackles of shame. She uses a fusion of "neck up" and "neck down" approaches, combining sexology and accurate sexuality education with somatic practices, taoism, tantra, and embodiment.

As a sexpert, she has been quoted in many online publications such as Kinkly, Men's Health, Glamour, Dame, O Diaries, Oprah Magazine, Brides, Tinder Swipe Life, and The Body. She grew up in London in the 90s and 00s in the Church, and got the full whammy of Purity Culture, which she spent years deconstructing. She is passionate about exploring the intersections of faith, sexuality, and shame. She is also a fanatic tea connoisseur, devourer of books, lover of dancing, and slave to cats.

In this episode, you will hear:

Lucy’s experience growing up from a religious background
Looking at Evangelical Christianity
Understanding the myth’s around purity culture
The impact sex had on popular culture in the 90’s / 00’s
How Lucy decided Evangelical Christianity wasn’t the right path for her

Combining sexuality and spirituality
Learning to challenge negative sex messages
How to positively question people in positions of authority
Going through the process of faith de-construction
Learning to understand and use Tantra to connect with your sexual self

Dispelling the myth that having sexual feelings is sinful

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EP206 - Are You Dating A Sexual Narcissist? with Dr. Kathryn Klement Dec 01, 2020

Welcome to episode 206 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Kathryn Klement to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Klement speaks with me about sexual narcissism, its effects on relationships, early signs and red flags and exploring sexual boundaries with your partner.

Dr. Kathryn Klement (they/them) is an Assistant Professor of Psychology of Women & Gender at Bemidji State University. Their primary teaching interests are human sexuality, gender, and research methods. Their major research interests include sexual violence, how transphobia relates to other systems of oppression, and transgender patients’ experiences in healthcare. They have also published work related to consensual BDSM (bondage/discipline, dominance/submission, and sadism/masochism), sexual consent, and sexual entitlement.

In this episode, you will hear:

What is sexual narcissism?
Identifying sexual narcissism in relationships

The effect patriarchy has on this issue
Looking at the research Dr. Klement conducted
Early signs and red flags for sexual narcissism
Exploring your boundaries for sex and sexuality
Understanding your partners boundaries and creating a sexual pact

Understanding that can’t use sex to change a person into how you want them to be

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EP205 - Charm School: Learning to Talk to Women with Tripp Kramer Nov 24, 2020

Welcome to episode 205 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Tripp Kramer to the podcast. In this episode Tripp speaks with me about how men can learn to better talk to women, the traps men fall into when trying to initiate sex too quickly, and understanding the role and importance of emotional safety.

Tripp Kramer is an internationally known dating coach and founder of Tripp Advice, a men's dating advice company. He is also the creator of the popular YouTube channel "Tripp Advice", which teaches men how to become more attractive to women and host of his own weekly podcast entitled "How To Talk To Girls". Tripp currently resides in Chicago Illinois.

In this episode, you will hear:

The common mistakes men make when talking to women
Looking at the negative experience's men have when trying to talk to women
The importance of being authentic and true to yourself
Looking at the issue of rejection and how to deal with it
Why you need to listen as much as you talk
The traps men fall into when trying to initiate sex too quickly
Why women will often respond negatively to rushing into sex
Understanding emotional safety

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EP204 - Rekindling Your Sexual Spark with Ian Kerner, PhD Nov 17, 2020

Welcome to episode 204 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT to the podcast. In this episode Ian speaks with me about the psychological reasons men have low desire, the negative consequences shame can have on your sex life and learning to reconnect with your sexual self.

Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT is a licensed marriage and family therapist and nationally recognized sexuality counselor who specializes in sex therapy, couples therapy and working with individuals on a range of relational issues. Ian is the New York Times best-selling author She Comes First (Harper Collins), which has been translated into more than a dozen languages. He regularly consults for articles in major publications such as The Atlantic and The Economist, and he also writes on the topic of sex for CNN Health. He is the co-director of the sex therapy program at the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy, one of New York's oldest and most respected not-for-profit mental health training and treatment facilities.

In addition to being a Clinical Fellow of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (AAMFT), Ian is certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists and he is also a member of the Society for Sex Therapy and Research (SSTAR) and The American Family Therapy Academy (AFTA). Ian was born and raised in New York City, where he maintains a private practice and lives with his wife and two sons, and their beloved dogs, Jitterbug and Oscar.

In this episode, you will hear:

Looking the psychological reasons men have low desire?
Why we as individuals want to self-actualize more
Learning to expand your erotic space that will lend itself to desire
How your self image can affect how you are in the bedroom
Looking at the sexual boredom study Ian previously conducted
The negative consequences shame can have on your sex life
Why we might have become disconnected from our sexual selves
Learning to reconnect with your sexual self
The role that porn plays around this issue

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EP203 - Sexual Arousal & Desire with Dr. Judson Brandeis Nov 10, 2020

Welcome to episode 203 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Judson Brandeis to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Brandeis talks to me about the issues of low testosterone, how can you increase your testosterone levels and analyzing how a healthy lifestyle will lead to a better sex drive.

Dr. Judson Brandeis is a board-certified urologist specializing in men's sexual medicine. Brandeis has always been on the cutting edge of Urology. Dr. Judson Brandeis has been voted by SF Magazine as a Top Urologist in the SF Bay Area from 2014 to 2020. In February of 2019, he opened his male-oriented office in San Ramon to focus his practice entirely on men’s sexual health and rejuvenation. BrandeisMD is a national leader in technology and innovations in sexual medicine. Dr. Brandeis is the National Director of Clinical Excellence for GAINSWave and created and runs the SWEET Study, the largest study of Shockwave Therapy for ED ever.

Brandeis has appeared on The Doctor's TV Show and recent podcasts with Michael Ruscio and Ben Greenfield. He has also been featured in Maxim, Fatherly, Bustle, and Askmen.

In this episode, you will hear:

The differences between men and women’s sexual drive
Looking at testosterone levels and how they relate to a healthy sex life
What are the causes of low testosterone?
Changing your testosterone levels through diet and exercise
Analyzing reasons why Viagra may not be working for you
The importance of relaxation for a healthy erection
Understanding how a healthy lifestyle will further boost your efforts for a higher sex drive
Looking at the importance of nighttime erections

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EP202 - Keep That Gun in the Holster, Cowboy! with Jeff Abraham Nov 03, 2020

Welcome to episode 202 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Jeff Abraham to the podcast. In this episode Jeff speaks to me about premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction, common questions that men bring up when talking about these issues and we take a look at the scientific studies and credentials around Promescent.

Jeff Abraham is the CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, whose lead product, Promescent, is addressing a global need for men suffering from Premature Ejaculation and Erectile Dysfunction. He and his team are dedicated to bringing innovative products to market that solve sexual performance issues for both men and women. With over 10-years experience in the field of sexual wellness, Jeff has seen and heard from thousands of couples and is a great thought leader in the space.

In this episode, you will hear:

Common questions that men bring up about their sexuality when talking about premature ejaculation
The differences between men and women on what is a priority for good sex
The frustration that can build when you feel your partner isn’t present during sex
Taking a look at the arousal gap
Looking at available solutions for premature ejaculation
Understanding the importance of giving and receiving for great sex
Taking a look at the scientific studies and credentials around Promescent
Are there side effects such as numbness when using Promescent?
Boosting your confidence for better sex

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Episode 201 - Halloween Sex Tips from Sexperts Oct 31, 2020

Welcome to a bonus Halloween episode of the Sexology Podcast! On this episode, I talk about how you can get playful with Halloween themes in the bedroom with my guest, sex therapist and host of Sex Talk with Erika, Erika Miley.

Erika Miley is the founder and practice owner of The Center for Mental and Sexual Health. She believes in accessible, confidential, and comfortable therapy. Erika graduated from Whitworth University with a Master’s of Education in Clinical Mental Health. She has worked in public agencies, prisons, and in her own private practice. Erika’s specialty lies in Sexuality, working with monogamous and non-monogamous couples, non-binary genders, as well as people who suffer from anxiety and depression.

In this episode, you will hear:

The importance of incorporating fun in your sex life during these turbulent times
Tapping into different dynamics to surprise your partner
Role playing by dressing up in costumes
Changing locations for something exciting and new
How to work in exhibitionism in a safe and legal way
Paint your partner’s body and let them paint yours with edible paint
Halloween is the perfect time to introduce your fantasies to your partner
Temperature play with candles, oils, and ice
Incorporating food into your play
Do a sexy scavenger hunt
Attend a virtual women-led sex party
Use Halloween-themed sex toys

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EP200 - Top 10 Sex Tips According to Our Listeners Oct 27, 2020

Today on the Sexology Podcast we are celebrating our 200th episode! We’ll be revisiting past episodes that our listeners selected as the ones that helped them the most and provided the best sex advice.

In this episode, you will hear clips from:

Dr. Lonnie Barbach, a clinical-social psychologist, has received numerous awards for her work on sexuality and has written a dozen books on relationships, sexuality and menopause in addition to a number of video tapes and audio tapes.

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/04/02/how-to-please-your-lover-by-dr-lonnie-barbach

Dr. Alison Ash is a sex and intimacy coach and educator, lecturer at Stanford University, author, and founder of TurnON.love.

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/12/03/art-and-science-of-seduction-with-dr-alison-ash/

Caitlin V is a sex and relationship coach who helps men become amazing lovers and incredible partners.

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/08/20/how-to-last-longer-in-bed/

Dr. Cat Meyer, PsyD, LMFT is a licensed couples therapist, sex therapist, yoga instructor, published researcher, and reiki practitioner dedicated to evolving the relationship we have surrounding sexuality and our bodies.

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/01/07/ep158-7-ways-to-upgrade-your-sex-life-according-to-sexperts/

Emily Nagoski is the award-winning author of the New York Times bestseller, Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life and The Come As You Are Workbook, and co-author, with her sister Amelia, of Burnout: The Secret to Solving the Stress Cycle.

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/03/12/female-orgasm-with-dr-emily-nagoski/

Stephen Snyder MD is a sex therapist, relationship therapist, and sexual medicine specialist who has dedicated his entire career to helping individuals and couples with sex and relationship concerns.

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/07/28/ep187-the-key-to-great-sex-in-long-term-relationships-with-dr-stephen-snyder/

Tammy Nelson, Ph.D. is a Board Certified Sexologist and Certified Sex Therapist as well as a Relationship Therapist and author of several books for couples including Getting the Sex You Want, The New Monogamy, When You’re the One Who Cheated and Integrative Sex and Couples Therapy.

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/11/05/ep149-the-monogamy-paradox-with-dr-tammy-nelson

Carol Queen is an American author, editor, sociologist and sexologist active in the sex-positive feminism movement. Queen has written on human sexuality in books such as Real Live Nude Girl: Chronicles of Sex-Positive Culture.

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/01/28/how-to-overcome-sexual-shyness-with-carol-queen-phd/

Ari Tuckman, PsyD, CST has given more than 350 presentations across America and in nine countries. His fourth book, ADHD After Dark: Better Sex Life, Better Relationship, examines how ADHD impacts a couple’s sexual and relationship satisfaction and how to improve both.

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/09/03/sex-relationships-adhd-with-dr-ari-tuckman/

Barbara Carrellas is the founder of Urban Tantra® and the author of Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-first Century, Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide to Sex, Relationships and Oh So Much More, and Luxurious Loving.

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/01/14/tantric-orgasm-with-barbara-carrellas

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EP199 - How To Overcome Religious Shame with Dr Tina Oct 20, 2020

Welcome to episode 199 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Tina speaks with me about overcoming religious shame around sex, taking a look at the historical context of abstinence and learning how to remain within your religion whilst having a healthy sex life.

Dr. Tina is a vibrant thought leader around issues of sexuality, intimacy, and spirituality. Her life’s work is centered around rooting out the causes of sexual shame and providing tools that disarm and demystify all the negative messages that we receive in American culture and so often in religious circles. She regularly speaks at events, conferences, intimacy retreats, churches, and universities around the country.

Dr. Tina is a sex therapist, former professor of Marriage and Family Therapy at Seattle Pacific University, founder of the Northwest Institute on Intimacy, AASECT-certified supervisor, mother, wife, and author. She is currently doing work on her next book, which is intended to help parents raise their children free of sexual shame and appropriately teach them about healthy sexuality over each stage of their development.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Tina became interested in this line of work
Looking back at abstinence only teachings
How couples struggle holding out on sex until after marriage
Understanding the historical context around the issue of sex and religion
Remaining in your religion whilst having a healthy sex life
Learning to appreciate your body
How to begin the process of not being ashamed of wanting to have sex

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EP198 - Are We Ready to Have Sex with Robots? Featuring Dr. Rebecca Gibson Oct 13, 2020

Welcome to episode 198 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Rebecca Gibson to the podcast. In this episode Rebecca speaks with me about sex robots, how people become attracted to them, why they won’t help you with relational skills and what the future holds as technology and AI continue to improve.

Rebecca Gibson is an adjunct professor at American University and Indiana University South Bend. Her published works include "Desire in the Age of Robots and AI: An Investigation in Science Fiction and Fact" (Palgrave Macmillan 2019) and "The Corseted Skeleton: A Bioarchaeology of Binding" (Palgrave Macmillan 2020).

She holds a PhD in Anthropology from American University, and when not writing or teaching can be found reading mystery novels amidst a pile of stuffed animals.

In this episode, you will hear:

What are sex robots?
How did Rebecca become interested in this line of work?
Why is there a lack of male sex robots?
Looking at the reasons why people become attracted to sex robots
How the Turning Test is being used to make sex robots more interesting
How sex robots fill a gap for people who can’t get access to sex
The way in which many sex robots reflect their creators
Why sex robots won’t help you with relational skills
What is going to be the future trends of sex robots?

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EP197 - Sex and Creativity with Dr. Stephen Diamond Oct 06, 2020

Welcome to episode 197 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Stephen Diamond to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Diamond talks to me about how we can best use the daimonic in our lives, analyzing the underlying reasons for our sexual fantasies and different ways we can engage with our fantasies.

Dr. Stephen Diamond is a licensed clinical and forensic psychologist practicing in Los Angeles, CA. A former pupil and protégé of existential psychoanalyst Rollo May, he is the author of Anger, Madness, and the Daimonic: The Psychological Genesis of Violence, Evil, and Creativity (State University of New York Press, 1996). Dr. Diamond has contributed chapters to the bestselling anthology Meeting the Shadow: The Hidden Power of the Dark Side of Human Nature (1990), Spirituality and Psychological Health (2005), the Encyclopedia of Psychology and Religion (2009), Writing Music (2018), a chapter titled "Existential Therapy: Confronting Life's Ultimate Concerns" to the textbook Contemporary Theory and Practice in Counseling and Psychotherapy (SAGE, 2015), and, most recently, a chapter titled “Existential Explorations of Psychopathy” for a forthcoming forensic psychology text.

His writing has also appeared in various professional journals such as the San Francisco Jung Institute Library Journal, Psychological Perspectives, the Journal of Applied Psychoanalytic Studies, PsycCRITIQUES, Existential Analysis, and Dasein, and he has lectured and taught at diverse institutions including Pacific Graduate School of Psychology (Palo Alto University), J.F.K. University, Argosy University, the C.G. Jung Institute-Zurich, Ryokan College, Loyola Marymount University, and the Existential Academy in London.

Dr. Diamond appears frequently as a guest expert in made-for-television documentaries about high-profile criminal cases. Presently, he authors a long-running blog titled “Evil Deeds” for Psychology Today, serves on the editorial board of JHP, and maintains a private psychotherapy practice. He is a contracted provider of psychotherapy for Kaiser Permanente Medical Group, and is also currently employed as a Consulting Psychologist for a private subacute psychiatric hospital in Sylmar, CA.

In this episode, you will hear:

Taking a look at the daimonic quality of sex
How aspects of the daimonic can take over or possess us
How can we channel the daimonic for our creativity?
Understanding what our sexual fantasies and desires might mean
Learning to embrace and not shut out your fantasies
Connecting with your erotic self
The difference between thinking about a fantasy and acting one out
Different ways we can engage with our fantasies
Analyzing the underlying reasons for our sexual fantasies
How using the daimonic can be a source of energy

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EP196 - Dating in the Time of Coronavirus with Cyndi Darnell Sep 29, 2020

Welcome to episode 196 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Cyndi Darnell to the podcast. In this episode Cyndi talks to me about dating in the time of coronavirus, exploring your sexuality during a pandemic and improving intimacy during this challenging time.

Cyndi Darnell is a NY based, internationally renowned sex & relationships therapist & clinical sexologist. Originally from Australia, her approach spans the clinical to the esoteric. Her academic work is published in the Journal of Sex Education (UK) & Sexual & Relationship Therapy (UK).

She holds a board affiliate position for the University of Wisconsin - Stout Graduate Certificate in Sex Therapy Program. She’s a clinical associate with Pink Therapy UK and faculty on Pink Therapy's Foundation Certificate in Gender, Sexuality & Relationship Diversity Therapy and at New York’s Omega Institute.

Her online courses and podcast The Erotic Philosopher meet today’s adult sex education needs by bridging the gaps in peoples’ knowledge regarding pleasure, relationships, passion and desire. As a trusted media source, her wisdom has been published in media outlets globally including The Washington Post, O -The Oprah Magazine, New York Magazine, Huffington Post, Bustle, Vice, Cosmo, Sydney Morning Herald, The Guardian and Aussie TV series LukeWarmSexfor ABC. She’s spearheading progressive sex & relationships seminars and workshops for adults that deeply change people’s lives. In 2015 she was the only sexologist named on MindBodyGreen’s Top 100 Women to Watch.

She maintains a global consulting practice in NYC and online and offers insight into the quandaries of the erotic to transform fear into freedom.

In this episode, you will hear:

Should we be dating during a pandemic?
Looking at the different types of dating currently available to us
Recommendations for improving communication skills
Exploring your sexuality during a pandemic
Is it safe to have hook up sex?
Can we pursue longer term relationships through Covid?
How we can improve intimacy during this challenging time
Will our dating lives change forever?
What a new normal might look like for dating
Finding ways to not get overwhelmed by the restrictive nature dating during a pandemic
Using the time we have to reflect on what we really want from our sexuality and relationships

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EP195 – Tips for Creating the Perfect Dating Profile During COVID with Erika Ettin Sep 22, 2020

Welcome to episode 195 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Erika Ettin to the podcast. In this episode Erika talks to me about online dating, the best practices you can use to meet people online and things to consider for yourself and the person you’re engaging with when dating online.

Erika Ettin is the Founder of A Little Nudge, a consulting company that helps people navigate the world of online dating, from first click to first date. She is also the author of the book Love at First Siteand the co-host of the popular dating podcast So, We Met Online…

Erika studied economics at Cornell University and received her MBA from Georgetown. She started A Little Nudge in 2011 (after a seven-year career as an economist). She is responsible for many relationships, marriages, and the confidence some people simply need to “get out there.”

A Little Nudge has been featured in media around the country, including The New York Times, The Washington Post, NPR, Good Day Philadelphia, CBS, and Ask Men, and she currently writes a weekly syndicated dating column.

In this episode, you will hear:

How well does online dating work?
Does online dating work better dependent on your sexuality?
Looking at the issue of perceived flaws
Understanding that you need to need cast a wide net to get a good amount of quality responses
The common mistakes people make when dating online
The importance of being authentic and truthful when representing yourself
Be positive about yourself but don’t over-do it
Seeking out niche sites for those into Kink, BDSM etc
Being honest about your intentions whether it’s a one-night stand or long-term relationship

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EP194 – Between the Sheets V3 Sep 15, 2020

Welcome to episode 194 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where I answer your questions about ways in which you can improve your sex life. We’ll look at issues such as sexual trauma re-enactment, improving your sex life after the honeymoon period and the importance of intimacy after sex.

In this episode, you will hear:

Why we engage in trauma re-enactment and ways to overcome those behaviors
Learning to confront what happened in the past
The importance of body work that can be healing
How power play and BDSM can help overcome trauma
Looking at the dynamics of bisexuality
Understanding when the right time is to start taking medication
Improving your sex life after the “Honeymoon Period”
The importance of communicating effectively and directly with your partner about what you want sexually
How masturbation can affect our sleep cycles
Using masturbation as a crutch to get better sleep
The importance of intimacy after sex
Looking at cultural differences in sex

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EP193 - What You Need to Know about STIs with Ariel Watriss Sep 08, 2020

Welcome to episode 193 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Ariel Watriss to the podcast. In this episode, Ariel speaks to me about how she became involved working around the STIs, misconceptions people still have about STIs and analyzing the risks around sex.

Ariel Watriss (she/hers) is a nurse practitioner currently working in college health at Tufts University Health Services. She started there in 2013 and in June 2018 was promoted to be the Sexual health specialist for the clinic.

She received her bachelor’s and master’s degrees in nursing from the MGH Institute of Health Professions School of Nursing in 2011. Prior to her time at Tufts, she worked at the Fenway Community Health Center in their research department, the Fenway Institute. She was the primary clinician providing care to study participants and performed medical procedures in multiple HIV prevention biomedical studies, including HIV PrEP studies.

Before attending nursing school, she ran the HIV counseling, testing and family planning programs at the Sidney Borum Jr Health Center (a health center for disenfranchised and LGBTQ youth). She was the recipient of the American College Health Association (ACHA) 2015 Affiliate New Professionals Award for the New England area.

Her professional passions include LGBTQIA health, sexual health, and helping young adults navigate their own health advocacy. She has presented talks at national and regional conferences on HIV PrEP/PEP/sexual health, and has served as a panelist on CDC HIV prevention education programs.

In this episode, you will hear:

How did Ariel get into this work?
Misconceptions around STIs
Looking at the issue of shame and best ways to counteract it
Analyzing the risks around sex
The basic information that people need to be well informed
Looking at the hierarchy of concerns around STIs
How there is a lot of confusion and stigma around herpes
Looking at the treatments available for STIs in 2020
Why an STI diagnosis is not a death sentence or the end of your sex life
Learning when to best communicate you have an STI to a partner of prospective partner
Navigating hook up culture with STIs

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EP192 - Sexual Enhancement Medication & Procedures with Amir Mohebbi Sep 01, 2020

Welcome to episode 192 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome back Amir Mohebbi to the podcast. In this episode Amir and I talk about medical treatments for sexual dysfunctions, looking at the issues that cause sex to be painful and learning to change your lifestyle to improve your sex life.

Amir Mohebbi is a proud Iranian-American currently completing his psychiatry residency at St. Louis University. He trained under mentorship from world-renowned forensic psychiatrists, Drs. William J. Newman and Brian J. Holoyda, whom co=authored a review related to his interests in sleep medicine and forensics entitled “Sexsomnia as a Defense in Repeated Sex Crimes”.

Amir presented his work alongside an expert panel consisting of forensic psychiatrists at the American Psychiatric Association 175th Annual Meeting in San Francisco, CA. He earned his medical degree from St. Louis University and holds a Bachelor of Science degree in Biology from the University of California, Irvine.

In this episode, you will hear:

Is there a medical treatment for those who find sex painful?
Looking at the issues that cause sex to be painful
How menopause can affect sex and sexuality
Looking at medical prescriptions and if they can help
Analyzing the effectiveness of Viagra and other medicines for erectile dysfunction
Understanding that Viagra won’t help with the root cause of the issue
How a healthy lifestyle can drastically improve erections
Adapting your sexual life around hormonal changes
How chronic iron deficiency can affect sexual desire
Learning to change your lifestyle to improve your sex life

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EP191 - What You Need to Know About Male Sexual Abuse with Dr. Kelli Palfy Aug 25, 2020

Welcome to episode 191 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Dr. Kelli Palfy to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Palfy talks to me about male sexual abuse, the stigma around this issue and understanding that recovery is possible.

Dr. Palfy has a unique background in working with victims of sexual abuse. She obtained her Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology from the University of Alberta in 2016. When conducting her doctoral research, she examined the reasons why males do not commonly disclose sexual abuse. She was well-prepared to research this topic from the experience she gained in her prior profession in law enforcement. From 1995 - 2011 when she was a respected member of the Royal Canadian Mounted Police. During this, her prior career she focused on sex crimes investigations and specialized in the global sexual victimization of children where she gained experience in identifying the sophisticated grooming tactics used by perpetrators.

Dr. Palfy brings the many facets of her unique combination of professional experience and perspective to her practice. She is now a trained trauma therapist and public speaker. As a private practitioner, she works with male survivors of sexual abuse, as well as first responders and couples. She is trained in the use of Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT) and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). Outside of her professional life she is an avid outdoor adventurer, enjoying hiking, cycling, swimming, kayaking, and paddle boarding. She treasures her time with good friends and her pets.

In this episode, you will hear:

How did Dr Palfy become interested in this work?
The stigma that men face around this issue
The misconceptions men encounter around this topic
Looking at how the abusers can often be someone we know
Understanding that physical pleasure doesn’t mean consent
Looking at the sexual orientation piece of survivors
The dysfunctional ways survivors are coping after trauma
Sexual dysfunctions that can manifest in survivors
How to communicate being a survivor to your partner
Understanding that recovery is possible
Learning to commit to trauma treatment and the benefits it has

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EP190 - Stay Firm: Secrets of a Lasting Erection with Tim Norton, LCSW Aug 18, 2020

Welcome to episode 190 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Tim Norton to the podcast. In this episode Tim speaks with me about erectile dysfunction, ways in which you can begin to tackle this issue, connecting with how sex feels rather than how we perceive it to be and myth busting the idea that bigger is always better when it comes to penis size.

Tim Norton is a Los Angeles-based sex therapist working in private practice, and host of a podcast on erectile issues and male sexuality - Hard Conversations. He obtained his bachelor’s and master’s degrees from the University of Southern California.

Tim is a proud member of American Association of Sex Counselors, Educators, and Therapists (AASECT), the Los Angeles Sexological Association, and works part-time with the Pain Psychology Center in Beverly Hills.

In this episode, you will hear:

Distinguishing between erectile dysfunction and dissatisfaction

The psychological barriers that can get in the way of a good erection
Ways in which you can start to tackle and overcome this issue
Connecting with how sex feels rather than how we perceive it to be
How our busy lives can get in the way of good erections
Learning how to get in a better mental space for better erections

Looking at penis size – does it matter?
Ways you can teach yourself to last longer in bed
Tackling self-esteem issues that could be getting in the way

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EP189 – Lead From Your Masculine Core in the Bedroom with GS Youngblood Aug 11, 2020

Welcome to episode 189 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome GS Youngblood, to the podcast. In this episode GS Youngblood talks to me about leading from your masculine core, the importance of sexual leadership and understanding the masculine blueprint.

GS Youngblood coaches men in relationships on how to live, love, and lead from their Masculine core. He specializes in “nice guys” who are with strong women. His teachings combine deep embodiment work with the framework of the Masculine blueprint from his book “The Masculine in Relationship”. Learn more at gsyoungblood.com.

His writings are filtered through the laboratory of his and his clients’ real-world, long term relationships (including the successes and spectacular failures) to see what actually works and what doesn’t. Through this lens of Masculine leadership, he also pulls in principles from a variety of fields: psychology, martial arts, tango, meditation, and BDSM.

Reception to the book has been phenomenal. Both from men (“You just described my married life to perfection…” and “This is the best book I’ve EVER read on masculinity in a relationship”) and women (“I just picked up your book off my coffee table that my husband bought and it’s like you’ve been listening to me talk for the last few years! Insane how much you get it.”)

In this episode, you will hear:

How GS became interested in this area of work
Looking at masculinity core
How men can learn to be within their own power
Defining masculine energy
The importance of sexual leadership
Understanding women can be disinterested in only certain types of sex
Learning how to properly communicate these issues to your partner
Understanding if this is your issue or your partners or both
Looking at the masculine blueprint

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EP188 - How to Have "The Talk" with Your Child with Dr. Lanae St. John Aug 04, 2020

Welcome to episode 188 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Dr. Lanae St. John, to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Lanae speaks with me about how to have better conversations with our kids around sex, empowering them with the tools and knowledge they will need and how parents can better understand sexual orientation and gender identity.

Dr. Lanae St John, known as The MamaSutra, is a board-certified sexologist, certified sex coach, and sexuality educator. She is author of “Read Me: A Parental Primer for “The Talk”. Lanae lives in the San Francisco Bay Area with her significant other and two daughters.

In this episode, you will hear:

The hurdles we face talking to our kids about sex
Being aware and noticing the issues around you
How a shame spiral can easily develop
The importance of talking to your partner about sex
Taking a genital self-exam
Overcoming issues of using sexual language with kids
How Dr. Lanae turned the narrative around
Looking at incorporating fantasy
Teaching kids that pleasure from sex is okay
Empowering our kids with the knowledge and tools they’ll need
Learning to have a constructive conversation around STI’s
How parents can better understand sexual orientation and gender identity

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EP187 - The Key to Great Sex in Long-Term Relationships with Dr. Stephen Snyder Jul 28, 2020

Welcome to episode 187 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Dr. Stephen Snyder to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Snyder talks to me about having better sex in long term monogamous relationships, creating better psychological arousal and recommendations to improve your sex life.

Stephen Snyder MD — sex therapist, relationship therapist, and sexual medicine specialist — has dedicated his entire career to helping individuals and couples with sex and relationship concerns. Over 30+ years, he’s helped over 1,500 individuals and couples regain closeness and satisfaction in their relationships.

Dr. Snyder is Associate Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at the Icahn School of Medicine at Mount Sinai in New York City and the author of one of the most acclaimed sex and relationship books of our time, LOVE WORTH MAKING: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-Lasting Relationship (St Martin’s Press, 2018).

As an MD sex therapist, Dr. Snyder has a unique combination of skills that enables him to handle the most complex, difficult situations. He received his medical degree from the University of California, San Francisco (M.D. 1983), trained in internal medicine at Mt Zion Medical Center in San Francisco (1983-84), then in psychiatry at the Payne Whitney Clinic, New York Hospital / Cornell University Medical Center (1984-87) and as a Fellow in Behavioral Medicine at Mount Sinai School of Medicine in NYC (1987-89).

Dr. Snyder was Director of the Psychiatric Consultation Service at Mount Sinai Medical Center from 1990-2000. Since 2000, he has been in full-time private practice in Manhattan, specializing in sex and relationship concerns.

Dr. Snyder is an active member of the Society for Sex Therapy and Research (SSTAR); has been a presenter, workshop leader, and discussant at the Society’s national meetings; and has served on its Professional Book Award Committee and as Chairman of its Consumer Book Award committee.

In this episode, you will hear:

What are the barriers experience people in monogamous relationships face?
How do you define good sex?
Looking at psychological arousal
How passion is erotic selfishness
Creating psychological space for arousal
The role that fantasy plays in this issue
Why women lose interest in sex in long term relationships
Recommendations to improve your sex life in a long-term relationship
The fear men hold about disappointing their partners
Looking at the issue of erectile dysfunction

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EP186 - Does Your Sex Drive Have an Expiration Date? with Dr. Lyndsey Harper Jul 21, 2020

Welcome to episode 186 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Dr. Lyndsey Harper to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Harper talks to me about how to increase your sexual desire at any stage in life, evidence-based ways to increase your libido and we take a look at her wonderful app – Rosy.

Lyndsey Harper, MD is the Founder and CEO of Rosy, an app for women with decreased sexual desire. Dr. Harper created Rosy out of frustration when she couldn’t find a modern and accessible resource to help her many patients with this problem. Rosy is a resource to connect the 25 million women in the US with decreased sexual desire with hope, community, and research-backed solutions to improve their lives.

Dr. Harper completed Ob/Gyn residency in 2011 at Baylor Scott & White Health in Dallas, Texas, and Dr. Harper saw patients in private practice for seven years and now is a hospitalist. Dr. Harper is Associate Professor of Ob/Gyn for Texas A&M College of Medicine, a Fellow of The American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, and a Fellow of the International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health.

In this episode, you will hear:

Does menopause effect your sex life?
Looking at the feeling of having your desire stolen from you
Are hormonal treatments effective?
How sex can be become a physically painful experience
They key ingredients for people having a fulfilled sexual life
The importance of communication
How you can advocate for yourself
Learning to be brief and direct
Evidence based ways to increase your libido
Looking at Dr. Harper’s fantastic app – Rosy

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EP185 - Madonna and Whore Complex with Dr. Peyman Raoofi Jul 14, 2020

Welcome to episode 185 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Peyman Raoofi to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Raoofi speaks with me about the Madonna and whore complex, its complexities for relationships, how we can learn to adjust our own behaviors and learning to see your partner in a different light.

Dr. Peyman Raoofi, licensed clinical psychologist in California, holds a Doctorate and Master's degree in Clinical Psychology from Alliant International University and a Bachelor's degree in psychology from California State University, Northridge with Summa Cum Laude Honors.

He is currently working in his own private practice with individuals, couples and families. In addition Dr. Raoofi is contracted with multiple Long Term Care Facilities and Nursing Homes as consultant psychologist.

He has many years of experience working with children on the spectrum of Autism/Asperger, and Mental Retardation. Throughout his trainings for intense psychosocial interventions he has been trained for ABA methodologies and DTT program in treating children with challenging behaviors. He has trainings from Johns Hopkins University and Yale University on science of well-being and health psychology. In addition Dr. Raoofi has worked as a social worker with geriatric population at an Adult Day Health Care Center.

UNICEF, Relief International and Human Rights Council are other organizations that Dr. Raoofi has been actively involved to help disadvantaged children on a global level. He is a lifetime member of the Psi Chi National Honor Society in Psychology, Golden Key International Honor Society, recipient of Gold honor of the US President’s Volunteer Service Award from President George W. Bush and President Obama's Call to Service Award. He also has been recognized as an Honorary Ambassador by UNICEF and recognized as a Mental Health Hero by Chicago School of Psychology.

Dr. Raoofi is currently serving on the Boards of Iranian Psychological Association of America (IPAA), Los Angeles County Psychological Association (LACPA) and Profamily Group.

Dr. Raoofi is an International speaker and has been a guest speaker in many universities including MIT, UCLA, Cal State Los Angeles, Chicago School of Psychology, California School of Psychology, Pepperdine University and Sharif University. He has been a guest on multiple TV and Radio shows such as Voice of America, BBC, Spectrum News, Radio Hamrah, and KIRN 670AM.

In this episode, you will hear:

What is the Madonna and whore complex?
How cultures can affect this issue
The way in which more male dominated cultures are more affected
Overcoming seeing your partner as a sexual being as well as mother, carer etc
Can this complex be cured?
Understanding the importance of not solely focusing on one role, E.G Being a father
Knowing it’s okay to indulge in sexual exchange and selfishness with your partner
Paying attention to your own patterns and learning to adjust
Learning to see your partner in a different light

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EP184 - Sex Too Sweet with Janis Roszler & Donna Rice Jul 07, 2020

Welcome to episode 184 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to welcome Janis Roszler & Donna Rice to the podcast. In this episode they speak with me about their new book Intimacy & Diabetes, the common challenges people face around sexuality and diabetes, removing shame from diabetes and navigating your sense of fun and spontaneity with a chronic illness.

Romantic relationships play an important role in our everyday lives. But when diabetes enters the picture, it can complicate even the most loving and open relationships. Many people don’t know that diabetes can impact physical and emotional intimacy—and intimacy-related issues can be especially difficult to discuss with a partner or a doctor. But don’t let diabetes hinder the romance! Intimacy & Diabetes is here to give you practical information and expert advice to tackle this sensitive subject. This comprehensive, interactive guide covers everything you need to know to enjoy a fulfilling sexual and emotional life despite the challenges of diabetes. Inside you’ll find:

The common physical and emotional sexual complications of diabetes and treatment options for men and women An overview of diabetes nutrition, physical activity, weight loss, and diabetes medications Information on how aging impacts diabetes management and intimacy Guidance on how to talk to your doctor about intimacy-related issues Ideas and techniques for building sexual intimacy and communicating effectively with your partner Tips to help you avoid dangerous or money-wasting fraudulent sexual treatments A collection of delicious, diabetes-friendly recipes to help spice up your love life.

Authors Janis Roszler and Donna Rice use humor, helpful examples, and insightful questions to present key topics about sexual health in an engaging, approachable way. This book is perfect for anyone (regardless of gender, sexual orientation, age, or health status) looking to rekindle intimacy with their partner or be proactive about their sexual and emotional wellbeing. Intimacy & Diabetes is your key to a happy, healthy intimate life with diabetes.

In this episode, you will hear:

How did Janis & Donna become interested in this topic?
Understanding the need for providers to bring up the conversation to clients
The common challenges people face around sexuality and diabetes
How many aspects of diabetes are based on genetics and not behavioral issues
Removing shame from diabetes
Dealing with blame around chronic illnesses
The challenges people face getting into a new relationship with diabetes
Navigating your sense of fun and spontaneity with diabetes
Looking at medications and their effectiveness

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EP183 - Kindle with Candle with Miss Couple Jun 30, 2020

Welcome to episode 183 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Miss Couple to the podcast. In this episode Miss Couple speaks to me about wax play, incorporating wax play into your sexual make-up and maintaining your connectivity to sexuality.

Described by Playboy as “equal parts Betty Grable and ‘90s Ani DiFranco,” Miss Couple is a Sexual Empowerment Coach known for class, professionalism, and a forward-thinking mindset.

Miss Couple has been interviewed as an authority in the field by Cosmopolitan, VICE, People Magazine, The Daily Beast, Huffington Post, and numerous other media outlets.

She is best known for her psychological perspective on intimacy and her ability to make others feel comfortable discussing difficult topics. Miss Couple comes to the field of coaching with a diverse background and draws from the skill-sets that she has accumulated through her education in psychology, time as an award-winning ballroom dancing instructor, and experience as a world-renowned BDSM expert, to provide a well-rounded perspective.

Miss Couple is devoted to normalizing modalities of connection that have been obscured, ridiculed, or simply misunderstood. She caters to a variety of clients, from individuals looking to explore their sexuality or relationship with power, newlyweds looking to build a strong foundation, empty nesters looking to spice things up, couples who are navigating non-monogamy, and more. Through virtual coaching, she provides space to build trust so that clients feel comfortable sharing and receiving feedback. Her biggest goal is to help empower people to create relationships, and ultimately lives, they crave.

In this episode, you will hear:

How can people build confidence to have conversations around kink?
Understanding that whilst stimulating, porn is a production and not a reflection of reality
What is wax play?
Incorporating wax play into your sexual make-up
Learning how to do wax play safely
Exploring the power play dynamics around wax play
Using wax play for a greater sense of pleasure in a relationship
Maintaining your connectivity to sexuality
Ways you can prepare as a couple for successful wax play and other sexual experiences

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EP182 – Swinging, Designer Relationships & Polyamory with Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb Jun 23, 2020

Welcome to episode 182 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome back Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Rhoda speaks with me about open relationships, recommendations on how you can start your journey into an open relationship and maintaining sexual safety.

Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb has been counseling and coaching individuals and couples in the area of human sexuality for over 28 years and in private practice for over 14 years specializing in open relationship styles (polyamory, swinging, designer relationships), BDSM, ABDL, kink and fetishes. She received her PhD in clinical sexology, is an AASECT certified sex therapist, clinical sexologist, and sexuality coach specializing in areas of alternative sexuality.

She published her first book in 2017 called, No More Hiding: Permission to love your sexual self. It is an innovative guide for those seeking help on how to be their authentic sexual self.

In 2019 she launched a training/coaching program called Monogamy to Open to provide those transitioning from monogamy to the many types of open relationships a path that will provide the knowledge and guidance necessary to be successful.

In this episode, you will hear:

The similarities and differences of open relationships?
Looking at some of the tough expectations of monogamy
What personality types opt for open relationships?
The pros and cons of open relationships
The differences between polyamory and swinging
How there is still a lot of social stigma around open relationships
Recommendations if you’re interested to start swinging
Understanding you can go at your own pace
How many people stay in swinging for the community
Recommendations for sexual safety through this journey

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Website: https://www.drrhoda.com

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EP181 - Your Ultimate Guide for Anal Pleasure with Tristan Taormino Jun 16, 2020

Welcome to episode 181 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Tristan Taormino to the podcast. In this episode Tristan speaks with me about anal pleasure, how we can start our journeys into the world of anal play, recommendations on sex toys and understanding to not put pressure on yourself as you start this journey.

Tristan Taormino is a sex educator, media maker, and speaker. She is the author of eight books and editor of 25 anthologies including the award-winning The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women and The Ultimate Guide to Kink. She keynotes, lectures, and teaches workshops around the world on sexual pleasure and health, relationships, and social justice. She is the host of the long-running podcast Sex Out Loud. She is the creator of Sex Educator Boot Camp, a professional training program, and she runs a coaching and consulting business for sexuality professionals.

In this episode, you will hear:

How can you introduce anal pleasure into your sexual life?
Exploring anal sex as a couple
The myths and misconceptions around anal sex
How anal sex can be more intense than vaginal sex
What does anal play involve?
Recommendations for the best anal sex toys to use
How to make anal sex non-painful
Understanding to not compare yourself to porn stars
Learning the best practices for anal
How to start your journey into the world of anal
The best ways to communicate you’re interested in anal sex to your partner
The importance to take your time and not put pressure on yourself

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http://sexoutloudradio.com

The Ultimate Guide To Anal Sex For Women

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EP180 - Unlearning Religious Shame with Dr. Sunny Motamedi Jun 09, 2020

Welcome to episode 180 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am pleased to welcome Dr. Sunny Motamedi to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Motamedi talks to me about how religion affects people’s sexuality, the connection between shame and religion and steps you can take to heal sexual shame.

Dr. Motamedi is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and has been blessed to be conducting therapy for 20 years. She has a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology from the Chicago School of Professional Psychology and additional training in Marriage and Family Therapy. Throughout her training she has received training in a vast array of areas within psychology including trauma therapy, couples therapy, sex therapy and mindfulness.

Growing up in Iran, Dr. Motamedi has had a lifelong interest on the effects of culture and religion on sexuality. She developed her unique method of body work that she uses on her clients, known as the Sunny Healing Method, a bottom-up approach. She uses the body to release trauma from the tissue and different parts of the body through chakra opening, visualizations and affirmations.

Dr. Motamedi is actively practicing in California helping both couples and trauma survivors.

In this episode, you will hear:

How does religion affect people's sexuality?
The way in which religion can separate body and spirit
Looking at the connection between shame and religion
Seeking support and navigating through these issues
Steps you can take to heal sexual shame
Changes you’ll need to make in your life to make progress
How we can regulate our bodies
How a relationship can play a role in the healing process
Creating a safe space as a couple
Understanding the nature and beauty of truly seeing another person's soul
Determining what’s a good affirmation through this process

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EP179 - When Your Partner is Sexually Assaulted with Dr. Miklos Hargitay Jun 01, 2020

Welcome to episode 179 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Miklos Hargitay to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Hargitay speaks to me about the issues of when your partner is sexually assaulted, how couples can work through this together and understanding the importance of communication.

Dr. Miklos Hargitay earned his PsyD from William James College in Clinical Psychology and his BA from the University of California -Santa Barbara in Anthropology. Dr. Hargitay has specialized training in trauma-informed therapy with survivors of sexual violence.

He has diverse clinical experience, including work in crisis centers, college counselling, and medical settings. Dr. Hargitay is committed to helping adults talk through difficult emotions and topics with compassion and care, such as anxiety and depression, trauma, relationships, and sex.

In this episode, you will hear:

The common sexual symptoms survivors may experience
Why sexual desire may increase after an assault
Questions the partner might have if their partner is a victim of abuse
How couples can work through this together
Looking at sensate focus
Looking out for triggers and how to overcome them
Learning to deal with sexual frustration if your partner isn’t comfortable to have sex yet
The importance of the fidelity agreement
Learning how to best communicate with your partner about these issues

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https://www.mtcollective.org/

Transformative Power of Sensate Focus

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EP178 – Recovering From Shame After Trauma with Dr. Holly Richmond May 26, 2020

Welcome to episode 178 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Holly Richmond back to the podcast. In this episode she speaks with me about shame after sexual trauma, how survivors can regain their desire, learning to re-engage with positive sexual experiences and the importance of seeking out sex positive therapists.

Dr. Holly Richmond is a Somatic Psychologist, Certified Sex Therapist (CST), and Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT). She is one of North America’s leading sex therapists serving Hollywood’s elite as well as prominent corporate clientele, nationally and internationally. With offices in New York, Los Angeles and Portland, Dr. Holly is a trusted authority on sexual health issues with a significant media following.

She is regularly quoted in publications and media outlets including The New York Times, CNN, Shape, NBC, Wired, Forbes, Health, Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, and Women’s Health. She is a sought-after consultant in the sex tech industry and is seen as a pioneer in bridging the gap between sexual health and entertainment. Dr. Holly’s ‘Next-Sex’ platform and forthcoming book reflect her keen interest in the exploration of sex and technology, and how they work together as human sexuality evolves in the 21st century.

In this episode, you will hear:

Why do survivors experience shame around sex?
Misconceptions around the causes of rape
How people feel sexual shame after trauma in their bodies?
Learning to show up for your body
Navigating having positive sexual experiences
Unhealthy habits survivors can pick up
How desire disappears as survivors restrict their sexuality
Looking at sexual dysfunctions
Why it’s important to seek out a sex positive therapist

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http://drhollyrichmond.com

http://www.next-sex.com

Episode 106 with Dr. Holly

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EP177 - Conquering Body Shame with Dr. Anita Johnston May 19, 2020

Welcome to episode 177 of the Sexology Podcast, my guest today is Dr. Anita Johnson. In this episode, she speaks with me about the issues of body shame, how it affects people’s lives and learning to change your relationship with your body from within.

Anita Johnston, Ph.D., is a Depth Psychologist and author of Eating in the Light of the Moon, which has been published in six languages. She is the co-creator of the online course, Light of the Moon Café which is an interactive “workbook” and women’s support circle for Eating in the Light of the Moon, and she is the author of a book chapters and other professional journal articles.

She has been working in the field of women’s issues and disordered eating for over 35 years and is currently the Clinical Director of ‘Ai Pono Hawaii which has outpatient eating disorder programs in Honolulu, the Big Island of Hawaii, and a residential treatment program in Maui.

Dr. Johnston provides individual consultations online, and conducts Soul Hunger workshops and professional trainings around the world, using metaphor and storytelling, along with her training as a clinical psychologist, to address the complex issues that underlie struggles with eating, weight, and body image.

In this episode, you will hear:

How body image shame affects people's lives
The way in which young women are exposed to many forms of sex before their first kiss
How we internalize sexual messaging in today’s culture
Knowing that you can set the pace for your sexual life
Why sex gets better as you get older
Learning to change your relationship with your body from within
Why if somebody is making negative comments about you, it’s says more about them than you
How we’re overcoming generations of sexual conditioning

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http://www.DrAnitaJohnston.com

http://www.LightoftheMoonCafe.com

Schoolgirls; Young Women, Self-Esteem, and the Confidence Gap

Episode 42 with Anita

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EP176 – How to Make Cyber Sex Hot with Dr. Carolina Pataky May 12, 2020

Welcome to episode 176 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Dr. Carolina Pataky to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Carolina speaks to me about virtual sex, ways in which people are having virtual sex in 2020, the importance of security and privacy and how to keep virtual sex playful.

Co-founder of the Love Discovery Institute, Dr. Carolina Pataky is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Clinical Sexologist and Certified Sex Therapist. Recognized as one of South Florida’s leading authorities on intimacy, relationships and self-discovery. Her focus is to give individuals and couples of any sexual preference the tools to learn how to love themselves unconditionally, receive love, and create fulfilling and joyful relationships that will last a lifetime. Through private sessions, couples’ intensives and luxury retreats, she provides individual and couples coaching sessions, sex therapy, and psychotherapy practices that support clients through the journey of finding the right path to healthy love.

In This Episode You Will Hear:

How are people having virtual sex in 2020?
Knowing when it’s a good time to initiate virtual sex with a new partner?
Why it’s important to not assume what your partner may or may not feel around virtual sex
Overcoming fear of rejection
Setting yourself up for success
Looking at security and privacy issues, when is the right time to trust a new partner?
How to keep virtual sex playful and fun
Why less is more when it comes to virtual sex
Overcoming being self-conscious on camera
How to not have awkwardness after climaxing on a virtual sex call

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https://twitter.com/carolinapataky

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EP175 - Can Prescription Medications Cause Sexual Dysfunction? with Amir Mohebbi May 05, 2020

Welcome to episode 175 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Amir Mohebbi to the podcast. In this episode Amir speaks with me about sex and medicine, looking at the side effects medications can have on your sex life and how to approach this issue with your physician.

Amir Mohebbi is a proud Iranian-American currently completing his psychiatry residency at St. Louis University. He trained under mentorship from world-renowned forensic psychiatrists, Drs. William J. Newman and Brian J. Holoyda, whom co=authored a review related to his interests in sleep medicine and forensics entitled “Sexsomnia as a Defense in Repeated Sex Crimes”.

Amir presented his work alongside an expert panel consisting of forensic psychiatrists at the American Psychiatric Association 175th Annual Meeting in San Francisco, CA. He earned his medical degree from St. Louis University and holds a Bachelor of Science degree in Biology from the University of California, Irvine.

In This Episode You Will Hear:

How common is it for anti-depressants to cause issues with sexuality?
Learning to accept medication as part of your sexual makeup
Taking a look at psychiatric medicines
Do men and women get the same side effects from medication?
How sex and masturbation can be used as a coping strategy
Looking at the side effects medicine can have on your sex life
The importance of finding the correct information in this area
How to approach this issue with a physician

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EP163 – Sexsomonia

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EP174 - Learning to Experience Orgasms Apr 28, 2020

Welcome to episode 174 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where I delve into the subject of experiencing orgasms, overcoming performance anxiety, the importance of communication and steps you can take to improve your orgasms.

In This Episode You Will Hear:

How anyone can achieve having great orgasms
Cultural factors that play into this issue
Steps you can take to improve orgasms
Analyzing how long this has been a problem
How a lack of sex education can lead to issues with orgasms
Are you getting aroused during sex?
Looking at the quality of your relationship with your partner
Can medication affect sexual performance?
How ageing affects our sex drive
The ways in which mental health can affect orgasms
The importance of giving good sexual feedback
Wanting to explore sexual areas your partner doesn’t
Learning to properly understand your body
Overcoming performance anxiety
Improving your communication skills

Resources:

Sex & Recreational Drug Use

Becoming Cliterate

Come As You Are

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EP173 – How To Have A Successful Threesome with Dr. Rachel Needle Apr 21, 2020

Welcome to episode 173 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Dr. Rachel Needle to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Needle speaks with me about threesomes, how common fantasizing about them is, learning to manage your emotions and being honest about your motivation.

Dr. Rachel Needle is the founder and Executive Director of the Whole Health Psychological Center. She is a Licensed Psychologist, Certified Sex Therapist, and an entrepreneur. Dr. Needle has specialized training in the areas of Substance Use Disorder, Trauma, Sex, and Relationships. She received her M.S. and Psy.D. in clinical psychology from Nova Southeastern University, her B.A. in psychology from Barnard College, Columbia University, and completed an internship in clinical psychology at University of Medicine and Dentistry of New Jersey: Robert Wood Medical School in Piscataway, New Jersey.

Dr. Needle is an Adjunct Professor of Psychology in the Department of Behavioral Sciences, in the Masters in Forensic Psychology, and in the Doctorate in Criminal Justice programs at Nova Southeastern University. She is the founder and CEO of the Advanced Mental Health Training Institute and Co-Director of Modern Sex Therapy Institutes which provide continuing education, certifications, and a Ph.D. in Clinical Sexology to Mental Health and Medical professionals and Sex Therapists around the world.

Dr. Needle has presented her research and clinical work at national and international conferences. She is often interviewed by and quoted in national media outlets. She has been featured in a number of popular magazines such as Details, Glamour, Cosmopolitan, Men’s Health, Details, and Shape, and papers including the Washington Post and the Palm Beach Post. She has written several articles for Glamour Magazine’s online Blog: Smitten.

In This Episode You Will Hear:

How common are threesome fantasies?
Deciding when it’s a good time to act on these fantasies
The way in which we have a blurred view of threesomes because of porn
Learning to manage your emotions
Understanding the challenges of having a threesome
How the fantasy might be more attractive than the reality
Where to find a third partner
Recommendations for managing jealousy around threesomes
Being honest about your motivation
Understanding it’s a process and not to give up if you didn’t enjoy the first time

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www.drrachel.com

www.modernsextherapyinstitutes.com

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Bonus Episode: How Not To Kill Your Partner During Quarantine Apr 17, 2020

Welcome to this bonus episode of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Barry Davis to the podcast. In this episode Barry speaks with me about how we can better manage as couples being in lockdown, tips for those who are struggling and what we can all do as frustration starts to build up.

Divorce Mediator, Barry Davis has been a full-time mediator since 2003 and specializes in working with divorcing couples. His passion for helping couples through this difficult time, his extensive mediation and counseling training (including two advanced degrees) and his fifteen years as a businessperson, equip him to deal with both the practical and the emotional aspects of divorce.

His approach is to assist couples in working through their specific issues as constructively as possible by helping them minimize negative tactics, emphasize productive ways to make decisions and focus on the big picture (such as the best interests of the children and/or not wasting a couple’s entire net worth on a costly court battle). By utilizing a multi-faceted approach that includes identifying the couple’s true issues and concerns, facilitating productive communication and educating the couple concerning possible outcomes, Barry has been able to achieve success in the majority of mediations he facilitates.

After completing an undergraduate degree in sociology at University of California, Santa Barbara, Barry embarked on a thirteen-year career in the telecommunications industry where he established a track record of success in sales management, marketing and business development with the two industry leaders, AT&T and MCI.

Education Institute.

In This Episode You Will Hear:

How we can better manage being in lockdown as a couple?
The challenges relationships will face being in a confined space
Looking at what distinguishes negative conflict
Tips for couples who are struggling with lockdown
What we can all do as frustration starts to build up
Thoughts on potential separations that could happen during lockdown
How some couples might be able to use the time to turn things around
Recommendations for couples who want to get through this positively

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Find Barry here:

https://davismediation.com

Man’s Search For Meaning

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EP172: Got Pervertables? Yes, You Do! Apr 14, 2020

Welcome to episode 172 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am thrilled to welcome Marla Renee Stewart, MA to the podcast. In this episode Marla speaks to me about pervertables, how you can use them to improve your sex life and tips and techniques for improving virtual sex.

Marla Renee Stewart, MA is a professional sex, intimacy and relationship coach, sexologist, and sex educator. Not only is she a Lecturer at Clayton State University, she is also the Co-Founder of the Sex Down South Conference and the Sexual Liberation Collective.

She also created the sexual education company, Velvet Lips, 9 years ago to empower people of all ages to embrace, educate and enjoy their sexuality and their sexual lives. She has studied human sexuality for more than 18 years at San Francisco State University and Georgia State University, respectively, and has expert knowledge in a wide variety of subjects. She has published academic articles and continues to do sexuality research.

She has conducted workshops at conferences, not-for-profit and private organizations, and has been featured on many radio shows, television shows, documentaries, books, magazines and has been invited to speak at Universities around the world. She also sits on the board for the SPARK Reproductive Justice Now! and Diverse Sexualities Research and Education Institute.

In This Episode You Will Hear:

What is a pervertable?
Incorporating everyday items into your sex life
Which items work and don’t work for anal pleasure
Being more creative sexually whilst on lockdown
Using music to enhance your sexual pleasure
Learning to bring the sense of adventure to your home
Cultivating sexual confidence
Overcoming layers of shame and guilt that might be getting in the way
How you can up level your sexual pleasure even if it’s a good level
Tips & techniques for improving virtual sex

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http://velvetlipsllc.com/

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EP171 - How To Become An Irresistible Seducer with Dr. Jess Apr 07, 2020

Welcome to episode 171 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Dr. Jess O’ Reilly to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Jess speaks with me about seductive communication, keeping things sexy while separated and cultivating your core erotic feelings.

Dr. Jess O’Reilly began working as a sexuality counselor in 2001 and she has never looked back! Her PhD studies involved the development of training programs in sex education for teachers and her education and undergraduate degrees focused on equity and sexual diversity.

Her training includes courses in counselling skills, healthy relationships, resolving sexual concerns, sex education, clinical sexology, sexual development, sex and disability, group therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.

Alongside her academic and television credits, Dr. Jess is also an accomplished author with three best-selling titles. Her latest, The New Sex Bible, has received rave reviews from professionals and clients alike and her first book Hot Sex Tips,Tricks and Licks is in its fourth print! Look for her monthly column in Post City or catch her on Tuesday mornings on Global TV’s The Morning Show, Wednesdays on 102.1 The Edge and Saturdays on PlayboyTV.

Dr. Jess’ work experience includes contracts with school boards, social services agencies, community health organizations and private corporations. A sought-after speaker, her sessions always attract a full-house at conferences and entertainment events alike.

In This Episode You Will Hear:

Taking a look at seductive communication
Assessing our own strengths and weaknesses around seduction
Exploring sexting and teledildonecs
Looking at and understanding the best platform for you to use
Keeping things sexy whilst separated
Making the most of sex toys
Understanding what your partner is most receptive to
Cultivating your core erotic feelings
The need to change our lifestyles to have better sex
Making scheduled sex work
Tips for busy couples who want to re-kindle their sex lives

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https://www.sexwithdrjess.com

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EP170: How to Master Communication in an Open Relationship with Martha Kauppi, LMFT Mar 31, 2020

Welcome to episode 170 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome back Martha Kauppi, LMFT to the podcast. In this episode Martha speaks to us again about polyamory, why opening a relationship doesn’t have to mean separation, how there are different types of polyamory and the importance of self-regulation throughout this process.

Martha Kauppi, LMFT, is an educator, AASECT-certified sex therapist and supervisor, and AAMFT-approved supervisor. She specializes in relational sex therapy, including alternative family structures, and trains therapists to work effectively at the intersection of sex issues and relationship challenges.

Martha’s mission is to make sex a safe topic in therapy rooms everywhere by developing unique educational experiences and immediately-applicable learning materials for therapists. She has a book coming out in August 2020 about working effectively with clinical challenges related to polyamory.

In This Episode You Will Hear:

How can someone know if polyamory is right for them?
Why opening a relationship doesn’t have to mean separation
Looking at the different structures and dynamics of polyamory
How there is different types of polyamory
Is there a customary way of going polyamorous?
Developing meaningful relationships within polyamory
Using apps such as Ok Cupid to meet other polyamorous people
Approaching the other partner around going polyamorous
The importance of self-regulation throughout this process

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https://instituteforrelationalintimacy.com

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/02/26/does-polyamory-work

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EP169 - Sexuality and Autism Spectrum Disorder with Dr. Eileen Crehan Mar 24, 2020

Welcome to episode 169 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Dr. Eileen Crehan to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Crehan speaks to me about sexuality and autism, how an autism diagnosis might get in the way of sexual desire, the importance of being pro-active about what you want sexually and recommendations for individuals with ADS who would like to have fulfilling sex lives.

Dr. Crehan is a clinical psychologist and specialist in autism spectrum disorder. In particular, she focuses on adolescents and adults with autism spectrum disorder and promoting healthy development in the domains of sexuality, physical health, and social abilities. Dr. Crehan’s lab at Tufts University integrates the perspective and insights of autistic individuals through an advisory board and by surveying autistic adults about their priorities for research on autism across the lifespan.

Currently, she is focused on exploring best structures for sexuality education programming, adapting teaching materials to the learning needs of autistic individuals with a range of intellectual and language abilities, and disseminating sexuality education curricula using telehealth systems.

In This Episode You Will Hear:

How does an autism diagnosis impact one’s pursuit of romantic and sexual relationships?
How an autism diagnosis might get in the way of sexual desire
What are some of the myths about sexuality when it comes to this population?
Practical measures people with autism can take to better pursue a healthy sex life
How can a parent of a child with ASD talk about sex with their child?
Making sure to find the correct and right resources
Understanding that people with autism can have a great sex life
Looking at online dating sites for those with autism
The importance of being pro-active about what you want sexually
What are your recommendations for individuals with ADS who would like to have fulfilling sex lives?

Find Dr. Eileen Crehanhere:

eileen.crehan@tufts.edu

https://www.facebook.com/crehanlabtufts

Sex & Autism Resources:

https://researchautism.org/sex-ed-guide/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RgsUbkqJ8ro

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Bonus Episode: Sex in the Time of Coronavirus Mar 20, 2020

Welcome to this bonus episode of the Sexology Podcast. In this episode, we answer some of the burning questions that you have around sex in the time of coronavirus.

In this episode we discuss:

Is it okay to have sex?
What are some of the ways to have hot sex that minimizes your exposure?
How to effectively manage your anxiety during this time so it wont ruin your sex life
How to use this time of quarantine to elevate your sex life

Previous episodes mentioned in this show:

Learn how to practice Orgasmic Breathing

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/01/14/tantric-orgasm-with-barbara-carrellas/

How to master peaking

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/07/30/self-pleasure-and-peaking/

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EP168 - Sex Tech Revolution with Andrea Barrica Mar 17, 2020

Note: This episode was pre-recorded two months ago. Like the rest of the world, we are experiencing the reality and stress of the current COVID-19 situation. Our hearts go out to those who have been directly affected by this pandemic, and we are deeply saddened by its impact on our community. We will be releasing an episode soon addressing COVID-19 and sex. We hope all of you are taking the necessary precautions to keep you and your loved ones safe.

Welcome to episode 168 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Andrea Barrica to the podcast. In this episode Andrea speaks to me about the sex tech revolution, overcoming negative stigma around sexual wellness and why we need more advocacy in this area.

Andrea Barrica is CEO and Founder of O.school, a judgment-free media platform to learn about sexuality and pleasure. As a queer woman of color, she’s been fighting to bring more humanity to the tech industry, and her mission is to create the world’s most trusted sexual wellness brand to help people increase their sexual health, power, and confidence. Previously, Andrea co-founded the leading financial solution for growing startups, inDinero.com, which now employs 150+ employees globally. She also served as a venture partner at 500 Startups, a global venture capital fund, where she worked with hundreds of startup companies.

Andrea was raised in a religious, conservative Filipino family that only taught abstinence and she only had fear-based sex education in public schools. Seeking support and information, Barrica could not find reliable resources and experienced harassment online. Determined that no one else should have to struggle like she did, Barrica launched O.school in 2017 to change the way people learn about sexuality.

In This Episode You Will Hear:

How can sex tech improve women’s sex lives?
Overcoming negative stigma around investing in your sexual health
How did Andrea get involved in this field?
The first things Andrea explored when examining sexual wellness products
How did Andrea raise the money needed?
Why we are behind in innovation and solutions when it comes to sexual wellness
Why it’s difficult to teach people about sexual wellness
What does Andrea see in the future of sexual wellness
The need for more advocacy in this area
Why Andrea started the O School

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https://www.o.school

http://www.andreabarrica.com

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EP167 - How to Talk to Your Kids About Porn with Elizabeth Schroeder, EdD, MSW Mar 10, 2020

Welcome to episode 167 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Elizabeth Schroeder, EdD, MSW to the podcast. In this episode Elizabeth speaks with me about sex education, the importance of good communication with your children about sex and ways in which parents can learn more to help their children.

Elizabeth Schroeder, EdD, MSW (she/her/hers), is an award-winning educator, trainer, program consultant and author specializing in sexuality education pedagogy and programming, LGBTQ+-affirming best practices, and working with adolescent cisgender boys. She has provided consultation to and direct education and training for schools, parent groups and youth-serving organizations in countries around the world for over 25 years. Most recently, Dr. Schroeder was the lead author on Rights, Respect, Responsibility, the first-ever K-12 sexuality education curriculum that is completely mapped to the National Sexuality Education Standards, for which she also served as a co-author.

Dr. Schroeder is the former executive director of Answer, a national sexuality education organization dedicated to providing and promoting comprehensive sexuality education to young people and the adults who teach them. She has also served as the associate vice president of education and training at Planned Parenthood of New York City, and, before that, manager of education and special projects at Planned Parenthood Federation of America.

Dr. Schroeder was a co-founding editor of the American Journal of Sexuality Education, and has authored or edited numerous publications, including Sexuality Education: Theory and Practice with Dr. Clint Bruess and the four-part book series, Sexuality Education: Past, Present and Future with Dr. Judy Kuriansky. She is a frequently sought-out spokesperson in the news media on issues relating to sexual health education and youth development, having appeared on BBC’s “The Why Factor,” several NPR affiliates, and in The New York Times, CNN Online, The Huffington Post, among others. Dr. Schroeder speaks at conferences around the world on sexuality and adolescent development.

She holds a Doctorate of Education in Human Sexuality Education from Widener University and a Master of Social Work from New York University.

In This Episode You Will Hear:

What are some of the struggles with current sex education?
Ways in which parents can learn more to help their children
How can parents talk to their children about porn?
When is the best time to speak to your children about sex?
How porn can become sex education if we don’t communicate to children

How can parents monitor their children access to sexually explicit content online?
The importance of creating ongoing dialogue around sex education
How sexuality education can help reduce the incidence of rape and sexual assault?
Being upfront and honest with children about rules and paramters

Find Elizabeth Schroederhere:

www.drschroe.com

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http://www.sexologypodcast.com

How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex with Tara Spears LMFT

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EP166 - Sexual Orientation OCD with Dr. Menije Boduryan-Turner Mar 03, 2020

Welcome to episode 166 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Menije Boduryan-Turner to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Menije speaks with me about sexual orientation OCD, distinguishing between anxiety and sexual arousal and looking at what treatment entails.

Dr. Menije of Embracing You Therapy is a leading expert on OCD who is passionate about helping you be in charge of your life, not OCD. In therapy, her goal is to break the cycle and help her clients regain their power and strength. Dr. Menije works collaboratively with her clients to tolerate the comfort, the unknown, and the uncertainty. Dr. Menije knows that her clients are completely capable of busting out of their comfort zone, taking ownership of their dreams, and creating a new sense of self.

Dr. Menije is a licensed psychologist in private practice in Los Angeles, CA. She has been treating OCD and OCD Spectrum Disorders since 2012. She completed the Behavioral Training offered by the International OCD Foundation’s Training Institute. She utilizes Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), which are both evidence-based treatment for anxiety disorders.

In This Episode You Will Hear:

What is sexual orientation OCD?
How many times this issue can go undiagnosed
Why sexual arousal to the opposite of your orientation doesn’t automatically make you gay /straight /bi
How does one distinguish between sexual orientation OCD versus being gay and in denial?
Looking at the issue of denial
How our sexualities are fluid and not set in stone
How can one distinguish between anxiety and sexual arousal?
What are some of the common misconceptions about sexual orientation OCD?
The role anxiety plays around this issue
What does the treatment entail?
Making sure your therapist is a specialist in OCD

Resources:
How OCD Can Affect Your Sex Life
Sex and OCD

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https://embracingyoutherapy.com

https://www.instagram.com/dr.menije

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EP165 - Between The Sheets V2 Feb 25, 2020

Welcome to episode 165 of the Sexology Podcast! Today we have a solo episode where we hear from listeners about their experiences of sexual fantasies, erectile dysfunction and coming out later in life.

In This Episode You Will Hear:

Learning to not add unnecessary pressure to yourself
Looking at achievements we to aim for in relationships
Understanding and talking about the monogamous agreement
Making long distance relationships successful
Understanding your sexual fantasies
Ways you can play out your fantasies
Approaching your partner with your fantasies
Looking at erectile dysfunction and what can be done
The importance of seeing a sex therapist to overcome sexual issues
Exploring mutual masturbation
Looking at premature ejaculation and it’s causes
How you can improve upon premature ejaculation
How longer intercourse doesn’t always mean better sex
Coming out later in life
Recognizing signs that you might be gay and how you can come out earlier in life

References

Sexology Podcast EP133: Penile Implant Surgery with Dr. Jeffrey Loh-Doyle

Sexology Podcast EP58: Keeping a Long Distance Relationship Hot
Huffpost: 11 Sex Tips For People In Long-Distance Relationships

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EP164 - Reconnecting With Your Sexual Self with Dr. Jen Feb 18, 2020

Welcome to episode 164 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Jennifer Gunsaullus, PhD to the show. In this episode Dr. Jen speaks with me about reconnecting with your sexual self, why people feel discomfort around sex and looking at the main motivators for sex.

Sociologist and intimacy coach, Jennifer Gunsaullus, PhD, is the author of the new book, From Madness to Mindfulness: Reinventing Sex for Women. Dr. Jenn is a national speaker on sexual consent, couples intimacy, women’s empowerment, gender communication, erotic play, and mindful sex.

She has presented two TEDx Talks, is the co-host of the podcast Sex Talk with Clint & the Doc, and has over 1.6 million hits on her In the Den with Dr. Jenn YouTube video series.

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Why sex matters?
What are some of the messages that contribute to people feeling discomfort with sexuality?
The importance of critical thinking
How can we expand our comfort zone around sex?
Ways in which we can honor own bodies through sex
What are some of the main reasons that motivate people to have sex and which ones are often more present in a long-term relationship?
Looking at sexual archetypes and how one can discover their sexual archetype

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EP163 - What's YOUR Sexual Story? with Dr. Molly Winterrowd Feb 11, 2020

Welcome to episode 163 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Dr. Molly Winterrowd to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Winterrowd speaks with me about how attitudes and beliefs impact the quality of our sex lives, creating more space in your life for sex and how to know if we need a sexual attitude adjustment.

Dr. Molly Winterrowd is an advocate in providing affirmative care, is dedicated to creating a safe space where individuals and partners experiencing challenges with their sexuality or gender are able to explore these aspects openly and honestly with care and compassion. Dr. Winterrowd believes that individuals are courageously vulnerable in therapy, and it is a privilege to be trusted to explore others’ deepest needs. In our work together, she helps to navigate how to fulfill these needs most functionally within clients’ lives. Dr. Winterrowd strives to create a safe space where open communication and honesty are welcomed and embraces a holistic approach that combines various therapies to help individuals and couples achieve greater levels of satisfaction in their relationships as well as lives.

Currently, Dr. Winterrowd is a Postdoctoral Fellow in Human Sexuality at the Center for Sexual and Reproductive Health and is devoted to helping clients to overcome sexual and relationship challenges by improving the connection with partners, enhancing relational intimacy by focusing on desires, and identifying new ways in which to bond that fulfill each person’s needs. Dr. Winterrowd helps individuals navigate the physical and emotional process encountered by sexual pain challenges, erectile dysfunction, or struggling with out of control sexual behaviors that are causing emotional pain and difficulties in their relationships. Dr. Winterrowd received her Bachelors of Arts Degree in Psychology and Comparative Sociology from University of Puget Sound, her Master of Arts Degree in Clinical Psychology from George Fox University, and Doctoral Degree in Clinical Psychology from George Fox University.

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How does one’s attitudes and beliefs impact the quality of her/his sex life?
What are some of the limiting beliefs that you have come across in your clients who are struggling with sexual dysfunction?
How creating more space for sex can lead to better sexual experiences
How does our language impact our sexual attitudes?
The correlation between the way we consume food and sex
How does one assess if her/his attitudes are getting in the way of a fulfilling sex life?
Looking at the benefits of sexual examination and exploration
How do we know if we need a sexual attitude adjustment?

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EP162 - Can You Have Sex in Your Sleep? Feb 04, 2020

Welcome to episode 162 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Amir Mohebbi to the podcast. In this episode Amir speaks with me about Sexsomnia, the behavioral patterns around this issue and what treatment can look like.

Amir Mohebbi is a proud Iranian-American currently completing his psychiatry residency at St. Louis University. He trained under mentorship from world-renowned forensic psychiatrists, Drs. William J. Newman and Brian J. Holoyda, whom co=authored a review related to his interests in sleep medicine and forensics entitled “Sexsomnia as a Defense in Repeated Sex Crimes”.

Amir presented his work alongside an expert panel consisting of forensic psychiatrists at the American Psychiatric Association 175th Annual Meeting in San Francisco, CA. In 2020, he will join a panel consisting of sleep medicine experts at the SLEEP 2020 conference hosted by the American Academy of Sleep Medicine and the Sleep Research Society in Philadelphia, PA. He earned his medical degree from St. Louis University and holds a Bachelor of Science degree in Biology from the University of California, Irvine.

In This Episode You Will Hear:

What is Sexsomnia?
Looking at the behaviors people are showing and engaging in
Sexual acts people can perform in their sleep
Looking at this through a psychiatric lens
What treatment for Sexsomnia looks like

The relationship between this condition and criminal law
How this issue stretches back hundreds of years
Why lawyers are very skeptical of Sexsomnia
Evaluations that can be made around Sexsomnia
Taking a look at ictal orgasms

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EP161 - How to Overcome Sexual Shyness with Carol Queen, PhD Jan 28, 2020

Welcome to episode 161 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Carol Queen, PhD to the podcast. In this episode Carol speaks with me about overcoming sexual shyness, things we can do to expand our horizons and tools we can add to our sexual toolbox.

Carol Queen is an American author, editor, sociologist and sexologist active in the sex-positive feminism movement. Queen has written on human sexuality in books such as Real Live Nude Girl: Chronicles of Sex-Positive Culture. She has written a sex tutorial, Exhibitionism for the Shy: Show Off, Dress Up and Talk Hot, as well as erotica, such as the novel The Leather Daddy and the Femme.

Queen has produced adult movies, events, workshops and lectures. Queen was featured as an instructor and star in both instalments of the Bend Over Boyfriend series about female-to-male anal sex, or pegging. She has also served as editor for compilations and anthologies.

In This Episode You Will Hear:

The ways in which people experience sexual pleasure
How people integrate their sexuality into relationships
Looking at various we can give and receive pleasure
How we can more tools to our sexual toolbox
Building good compatibility with good communication
Where does our sexual shyness come from?
Getting over our sexual shyness
How erotic audiobooks can expand our sexual horizons
Looking at our fantasies and how they play out
Why going too far outside your comfort zone isn’t always the best thing

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EP160 - Everything You Need to Know About Virtual Reality Porn Jan 21, 2020

Welcome to episode 160 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Ela Darling to the podcast. In this episode Ela speaks with me about how she became involved in virtual reality porn, it’s social implications and how she sees it expanding in the future.

Ela Darling is a former librarian who has since become the leading voice in the intersection of Virtual Reality and the Adult Industry. As the world's first VR camgirl, Darling is a pioneer in the field of Virtual Reality pornography, having worked with a variety of elite adult companies, on both sides of the camera.

After a decade as an adult film performer, she is now the Director of Marketing for ViRo Club, a private, inclusive, judgement-free adult VR play space.

In This Episode You Will Hear:

How Ela went from being a librarian to working in the adult movie industry
What is Virtual Reality porn?
How did Ela transition to webcamming?
The impact bringing the camera into the experience has for VR porn
Taking a look at Telidildonics
Who are the people watching VR porn?
Looking at the content of VR porn
The importance of the plot within porn
How Ela see’s this technology expanding in the future
The social implications of VR
Looking at the pros and cons of VR as it grows

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EP159 - Tantric Orgasm with Barbara Carrellas Jan 14, 2020

Welcome to episode 159 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Barbara Carrellas to the podcast. In this episode Barbara speaks to me about Tantra, how you can enjoy it with a partner and we also take a look at Energygasms and Sex Magic.

Barbara is the founder of Urban Tantra®, a hot and healing approach to sexuality that adapts and blends a wide variety of sacred sexuality practices from Tantra to BDSM. She is the author of Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-first Century—now in its second edition, Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide to Sex, Relationships and Oh So Much More, and Luxurious Loving.

She was named Best Tantric Sex Seminar Leader in New York City by Time Out/NY Magazine for her Urban Tantra workshops, and received a Lifetime Achievement Award at the Sexual Freedom Awards in London. She is a proud graduate of the Coney Island Sideshow School with a double major in fire eating and snake handling.

In This Episode You Will Hear:

What is Tantra?
Ways you can approach Tantra?
How can one enjoy tantric sex with a partner? What are some of the rituals involved?
Learning how to slow our minds and bodies down
Looking at breathing exercises
Are men able to maintain erections with Tantra?
Why erections alone are not the focus point
What is an Energygasm? How can one achieve it?
The relationship between energy and thought
What is sex magic and how can that be a form of relaxation?

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EP158 - 7 Ways to Upgrade Your Sex Life According to Sexperts Jan 07, 2020

Welcome to episode 158 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a special anniversary episode celebrating three years of Sexology Podcast. In this episode we hear from Dr. Cat Meyer, Tara Galeano, Jessica Graham, Dr. Ari Tuckman, Wendy Maltz LCSW, Rachel Grant and Jonathan Miller on their best sex tips.

Dr. Cat Meyer, PsyD, LMFT is a licensed couples therapist #88224, sex therapist, yoga instructor, published researcher, and reiki practitioner dedicated to evolving the relationship we have surrounding sexuality and our bodies. She hosts an online women's sexuality + embodiment program called LOVE.body

Tara Galeano helps women reimagine their bodies after cancer and rekindle their sexuality. She is a certified sex therapist and teaches the class, Rediscovering My Body after Cancer, to amazing, courageous women who have had cancer.

Jessica Graham is a meditation teacher, sex, relationship, and spiritual guide for couples and individuals, speaker, and author of Good Sex: Getting Off Without Checking Out.

Ari Tuckman, PsyD, CST has given more than 350 presentations across America and in nine countries. His fourth book, ADHD After Dark: Better Sex Life, Better Relationship, was just published and is the first to examine how ADHD impacts a couple’s sexual and relationship satisfaction and how to improve both.

Wendy Maltz LCSW, DST, is an internationally recognized sex therapist, author, and speaker, with more than thirty-five years of experience treating sex and intimacy concerns.

Rachel Grant is the owner and founder of Rachel Grant Coaching and is a Sexual Abuse Recovery Coach. She is also the author of Beyond Surviving: The Final Stage in Recovery from Sexual Abuse.

Jonathan Miller helps high-performing couples upgrade their communication skills to have fight-free relationships. As a speaker, coach and trainer, Jonathan is dedicated to empowering others to communicate mindfully.

In This Episode You Will Hear:

Learning about mirror work
Embracing new things in your life
Looking at self-love
The importance getting more sleep can have on your sex life
Understanding the need for more intimacy
Looking at trust and surrendering
Paying attention to external factors that can affect our sex life

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EP157 - Engineer An Orgasmic Year For Yourself Dec 31, 2019

Welcome to episode 157 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Xanet Pailet to the podcast. In this episode Xanet speaks to me about she overcame a sexless marriage, looking at the barriers of sexual shame and taking the power back over arousal.

Xanet Pailet is the best-selling author of Living an Orgasmic Life. Xanet is a recovered NYC health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades. After experiencing her own sexual healing and awakening in 2011, she transitioned her career into a full-time sex and intimacy educator and coach.

Xanet believes that pleasure is our birthright and she is passionate about helping women and men find their way back into their bodies, their desires, and their pleasure. Xanet works with couples who are in sexless marriages and women who have experienced abuse and trauma. She helps them heal their wounds, release their shame, and reconnect with their sexuality.

Xanet is a certified Somatica Sex and Intimacy Coach, Sexological Body Worker, Holistic Pelvic Care Practitioner, Tantra Educator and Somatic Experiencing Trauma practitioner. She is on the faculty of 1440 Multiversity, Ecstatic Living Institute and the Somatica Institute.

In This Episode You Will Hear:

How Xanet pursued overcame a sexless marriage
The tremendous amount of shame that surrounds sex
The way in which couples lose intimacy when they stop having sex
How many people don’t see themselves as sexual beings
The negative messages women receive throughout life about sex
Overcoming the barriers of sexual shame
How women are programmed to say no to sex
Taking a look at the Madonna–whore dilemma
How women get sexualised in a negative way
Looking at the issue of verbal harassment
Dealing with the issue of slut shaming
Learning to take the power back over your own arousal

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EP156 - What It's Really Like to Get a Labiaplasty Dec 24, 2019

Welcome to episode 156 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Dr. JoAnna Nguyen to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Nguyen speaks to me about labia surgery, why people have the surgery, how common it is and looking at the process of the surgery.

Dr. JoAnna Nguyen is a board-certified plastic and reconstructive surgeon in Los Angeles, California, with expertise in all fields of plastic surgery, including aesthetic, reconstructive, pediatric, hand, and burn surgery. She has a particular interest in aesthetic surgery of the eyes and face, breast surgery and labiaplasty. Dr. Nguyen is also passionate about skincare and has extensive experience with non-surgical treatments such as lasers, peels, and topical treatments.

Dr. Nguyen was born and raised in beautiful Southern California. Spoiled by the perennial sunny weather in Huntington Beach, her curiosity for the seasons led her to the the East Coast, where she attended Boston University. There she graduated Summa Cum Laude with dual degrees in Psychology and Biology with a Specialization in Neuroscience. After volunteering with a non-profit organization that provides plastic surgery to children in need, Dr. Nguyen’s interest in plastic surgery was ignited.

Having experienced her fair share of Boston weather, Dr. Nguyen was drawn to the sunshine of Miami where she received her Doctorate in Medicine (M.D) from the Univeristy of Miami Miller School of Medicine. She returned home to Southern California to complete a one year clinical research fellowship in reconstructive plastic surgery at the University of Southern California. During that year, she was the driving force behind 23 research projects, presented at numerous national meetings, and published over 11 manuscripts.

She then went on to complete six years of formal plastic and reconstructive surgical training at the prestigious plastic and reconstructive surgery program at USC. During her training, Dr. Nguyen operated at premier hospitals on the west coast, including Cedars-Sinai Medical Center and USC Keck Medical Center. Dr. Nguyen lives with her husband and daughter in Los Angeles and in her free time, she enjoys exercising, cooking, listening to music, and traveling.

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Is there a medical guideline to how labia should look?
How labia surgery is much more common now than in the past
How can women realize the difference between a medical and aesthetic issue?
Is this a common surgery in Los Angeles?
Looking at the process of the surgery
The risk involved with the surgery
Looking at sexual health issues, are there side effects?
The age range of people participating in this surgery
Can you have this surgery after having a child?

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EP155 - Sexual Anatomy and Arousal with Fiona O'Farrell LMFT Dec 17, 2019

Welcome to episode 155 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Fiona O'Farrell to the podcast. In this episode Fiona speaks with me about paper dolls, how they can be used as a vehicle for self-pleasure and understanding you can still be sexual when not reproductive.

Fiona O'Farrell is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Sex Educator and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist. In her practice, she works with clients on issues relating to sexual identity, dismantling sex negative messages, and enhancing pleasure and intimacy.

She is the coordinator of the Sexuality Therapy and Sex Education Certificate Programs at Antioch University in Seattle and teaches classes in human sexuality, sex therapy, and relationship therapy. Fiona is dedicated to expanding sex ed resources to be inclusive of body diversity and challenge binary thinking.

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How paper dolls allows for diversity
Having many options available as an add-on
Using paper dolls for sexual arousal
Accessing good materials to process self-image
Understanding you can still be sexual when not reproductive
The reactions Fiona sees from participants?
How you can use paper dolls as a vehicle for self-pleasure

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EP154 - What Does the Research Say About Consensual Non-Monogamy? Dec 10, 2019

Welcome to episode 154 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Amy C. Moors, Ph.D to the podcast. In this episode, Amy speaks with me about consensual non-monogamy, looking at the quality of attachment, and recommendations for how to deal with minority stress.

Amy C. Moors, Ph.D., is an Assistant Professor of Psychology at Chapman University and a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute, Indiana University. She also serves as the co-chair of the American Psychological Association’s Division 44 Consensual Non-Monogamy Task Force. Prior to joining Chapman, she was the Director of the Social Science Research and Evaluation Program in the College of Engineering at Purdue University. She is an interdisciplinary researcher with backgrounds in psychology and women’s studies (Ph.D., University of Michigan), higher education (postdoctoral fellow, National Center for Institutional Diversity) and social science evaluation (researcher, University of Michigan's ADVANCE Program).

Dr. Moors’s research interests lie at the intersection of gender, sexuality, interpersonal relationships, and inclusion. In one area of research she focuses on diverse expressions of sexuality, including same-sex/gender relationships and consensually non-monogamous relationships. In another line of research, she focuses on ways to promote inclusion in higher education. She has published more than 40 articles and has received several grants to fund her work. Recently, Dr. Moors was recognized as a “Rising Star” by the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality.

In This Episode You Will Hear:

How Dr. Amy became interested in this line of research
What is consensual non-monogamy?
What the research says about the benefits of consensual non-monogamy
The pressures we face to be the best at everything in life from lover to parent
Expanding your tribe whilst being more sexually fulfilled
Looking at the quality of attachment
How the going assumption has been that monogamy is superior
Dealing with the stigma surrounding this issue
Recommendations to deal with minority stress

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EP153 - Art and Science of Seduction with Dr. Alison Ash Dec 03, 2019

Welcome to episode 153 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it is my pleasure to welcome Dr. Alison Ash to the podcast. In this episode she speaks with me about the art and science of seduction, differentiating between friendliness and flirting, and how anyone can develop seduction skills.

Dr. Alison Ash is a sex and intimacy coach and educator, lecturer at Stanford University, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, Aly has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences.

Aly designs workshops and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them.

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How Alison began working in sex education
Differentiating between friendliness and flirting
Mistakes people often make when flirting
Learning to seduce yourself
Looking at sleaze free seductions
The importance of safety + turn on
Understanding the founding principles of seduction
Balancing out escalation and de-escalation
Learning about the three-part invitation
How anyone can develop seduction skills
Recommendations if you want to go down this path

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EP152 - The Good Girl’s Guide to Casual Sex Nov 26, 2019

Welcome to episode 152 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Dr. Shannon Chavez to the podcast. In this episode she speaks with me about casual sex, how to best use dating sites like Tinder and emotionally preparing yourself for casual sex.

Dr. Chavez is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist with a private practice, SHAPE (Sexual Health and Pleasure Enhancement) Center in Beverly Hills, California where she provides individual and couples therapy, sex and relationship coaching, and workshops on sexual health and wellness.

Her work focuses on adult sex education, integrating sexuality and spirituality, and sexual discovery towards personal growth. She frequently appears on national news, radio, and media as a sexual health expert.

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Limiting ideas that get in the way of women having casual sex
The importance of exploration and having fun
Learning to verbalize your wants and needs
How having casual sex can give you the opportunity to take different kinds of risks
How to best use dating sites like Tinder
Dealing with the issue of liking someone who only wants casual sex
Ways to initiate hook-up sex
Emotionally preparing yourself for casual sex
Making sure to manage your alcohol intake through this journey
Morning after etiquette to follow

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EP151 - Passionate Sex Starts Outside the Bedroom Nov 19, 2019

Welcome to episode 151 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Shane Birkel to the podcast. In this episode he speaks with me about relationship challenges that affect sexual function, how excitement lessens as bonds deepen and ways in which we can assess ourselves in this situation.

Shane Birkel is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in private practice near Boston. He works primarily with couples and is a certified Relational Life Therapist with Terry Real as his mentor.

Shane hosts a weekly podcast called the Couples Therapist Couch that is all about the practice of Couples Therapy. He is the creator of the Couples Therapist Inner Circle which is a membership site supporting therapists in their work with couples.

In This Episode You Will Hear:

Relational challenges that affect sexual function
How many people don’t realize the negative habits they have that will impact sex in a relationship
Looking at overdependence on our partners for how we feel about ourselves
The importance of showing up as yourself as your relationship evolves
Getting stuck doing the same things
Ways in which we can assess ourselves in this situation
Understanding that your partner cannot meet all of your needs
Learning to not put too much expectation on your relationship
How excitement lessens as bonds deepen
Looking at the issue of control

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https://shanebirkel.com

https://couplestherapistcouch.com

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EP150 - The Nice Guy Dilemma with Dr. Robert Glover Nov 12, 2019

Welcome to episode 150 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am joined by Dr. Robert Glover. In this episode we discuss the Nice Guy Syndrome, the issues nice guys have around sex, and the ways they can change things inside and outside the bedroom.

Dr. Robert Glover is an internationally recognized authority on the Nice Guy Syndrome and author of No More Mr. Nice Guy: A Proven Plan For Getting What You Want in Love, Sex and Life. He is a frequent guest on radio talk shows and has been featured in numerous local and national publications. Through his book, online classes, workshops, podcasts, blogs, consultation, and therapy groups, Dr. Glover has helped change the lives of countless men and women around the world.

As a result of his work, Dr. Glover has helped thousands of Nice Guys transform from being passive, resentful victims to empowered, integrated males. Along with these personal changes have come similar transformations in these men's professional careers and intimate relationships.
Dr. Glover is the creator of Dating Essentials for Men and the director of TPI University.He lives in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico.

In This Episode You Will Hear:

What is the nice guy syndrome?
What do nice guys struggle with?
How now guys are terrible receivers
The ways in which nice guys show up in the bedroom
Why nice guys have issues around sex
How nice guys struggle with being too routine
Looking at the issue of paying for forms of sexual pleasure over communicating what you want
Worrying too much about performance during sex
Learning to take off the pressure away from performance
How can nice guys change things in and outside of the bedroom?
Learning to ask for what you need

101 Ways To Keep Your Relationship Hot

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https://www.drglover.com/

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EP149 - The Monogamy Paradox with Dr. Tammy Nelson Nov 05, 2019

Welcome to episode 149 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Dr. Tammy Nelson to the podcast. In this episode she speaks with me about sexual boredom, contributing factors as to why people cheat, and the concept of new monogamy.

Tammy Nelson, Ph.D. is a Board Certified Sexologist and Certified Sex Therapist as well as a Relationship Therapist and author of several books for couples including Getting the Sex You Want, The New Monogamy, When You're the One Who Cheated, and the upcoming Integrative Sex and Couples Therapy due out in March.

She is the Director and Founder of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute in Washington DC., a training Institute, and Think Tank focused on obtaining and creating sustainable relationships. She is also an expert consultant for Ashley Madison, an online dating site for married people. She has been featured in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Business Insider, Time Magazine, and is the host of a popular podcast, The Trouble with Sex.

In This Episode You Will Hear:

The common mistakes people make to become sexually bored
How sexual boredom can be akin to eating the same food every day
Why being too comfortable in a relationship can cause sexual boredom
Contributing factors as to why people cheat
How desire can increase for a partner when they show interest in someone else
Increasing the quantity and quality of sex in a long-term relationship
Rebuilding sexual intimacy
How changes in personality and identity can lead to cheating
Looking at the concept of new monogamy
What’s the difference between new monogamy and old monogamy?
Managing your unrealistic expectations
The role that technology plays in these changes

Find Dr. Tammy here:

https://drtammynelson.com

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EP148 - Between the Sheets Oct 31, 2019

Welcome to episode 148 of the Sexology Podcast! Today’s episode is a solo episode during which I will respond to listeners’ pre-recorded questions. Here are the questions that I will answer in this episode:

Why do so many women have spanking fantasies?
How common are BDSM fantasies?
How hard should a “normal” erection be?
How do I know if I am “hard enough”?
What do I do if I can’t get “hard enough”?
How can you get your partner to initiate sex more often?
How do you ask your partner to have sex without sounding desperate?

If you’ve got questions, I have answers! Record your questions here: http://www.sexologypodcast.com/ or email it to drmoali@sexologypodcast.com

Resources mentioned in the episode:

Books:

Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies

https://www.amazon.com/Arousal-Secret-Logic-Sexual-Fantasies/dp/0312302428

Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life

https://www.amazon.com/Tell-Me-What-You-Want/dp/0738234958

Articles:

http://www.repositoryeffetti.it/2010/agoraDisfunzioneErettile/download/letteratura/efficaciaClinica/Mulhall_JSM2007.pdf

https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/jsm.12734

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EP147 - Why isn’t S/He Doing What I Want? Oct 29, 2019

Welcome to episode 147 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome CrisMarie Campbell and Susan Clarke to the podcast. In this episode they speak to me about the misconceptions people have around having good relationships, not over compromising in a relationship and finding your voice to communicate what you really want to your partner.

CrisMarie Campbell and Susan Clarke are the co-founders of Thrive Inc. They’ve spent 20 years helping men, women, couples, and teams to resolve difficult conflicts and create strong, thriving relationships. They’ve written two books: The Beauty of Conflict and The Beauty of Conflict for Couples.

They’ve given presentations on conflict resolution, communication, teamwork, and creative problem solving at Fortune 100 companies like Johnson & Johnson, Microsoft, AT&T and Nationwide, as well as, at organizations like the Gates Foundation, University of Washington Medical Center, and San Francisco Giants and many others.

They also run transformational retreats for couples several times a year, including Couples Mojo and Couples Alive.

In This Episode You Will Hear:

The misconceptions people have around having good relationships
Learning to not over compromise in a relationship
How the blame game comes into effect when you’re changing too much of yourself for a relationship
The art of communicating this issue with your partner
How having a good relationship doesn’t always mean you’re having good sex
Strategies to help keep your partner excited
Unconventional ways people can feel closer to their partner
Being stuck having left over sex
Learning to say how what you really want
Recommendations to properly understand what your partner is communicating to you

Find CrisMarie and Susan here:

https://www.thriveinc.com

https://www.facebook.com/thriveincmt

https://www.instagram.com/thriveinc

https://www.beautyofconflict.com

Find me on social media:

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care

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Work with me:

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/

Extra Content

Bonus episode, Sex & Anorexia Nervosa: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-anorexia-nervosa-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

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EP146 - Sex & Disability Oct 22, 2019

Welcome to episode 146 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Jose Luis Tapia-Fuselier Jr to the podcast. In this episode he speaks to me about sex and disability, the effect a chronic illness or physical disability will have on a person's sex life, and sex tips for individuals and couples.

Jose Luis Tapia-Fuselier Jr. (pronouns: he, him, his) is currently a third-year doctoral student in counseling education and supervision at the University of North Texas. Jose’s research is focused on clinical interventions for interabled couples in couples’ and sex therapy. Specifically, Jose focuses on the adjustment process after one partner acquires a disability. Jose provides individual, couples, play, and family therapy with a special focus in working with disabled people in three languages (English, Spanish, and American Sign Language) at a private practice.

Jose has spent time working with interabled couples at a private rehabilitation setting for people with brain injuries (TBI and Stroke). He has also presented at the national, regional, state, and local level on topics related to counseling disabled clients, interabled couples and sex therapy, and bilingual counseling and supervision.

Questions Asked & Topics Talked About:

Does having a physical disability change one’s sexuality? Is it possible for individuals with disability to have fulfilling sex lives?
How does chronic illness or disability affect couples’ relationship and sexual dynamics?
The research that Jose has done in this area
Taking a look at the different relationship dynamics
How couples can learn to enrich the emotional quality of their relationship after experiencing these changes?
Overcoming the challenges people face through therapy
What are some of sex tips that you have for these individuals and couples?

Find Jose here:

JoseTapia@my.unt.edu

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Extra Content:

Bonus episode, Sex & Anorexia Nervosa: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-anorexia-nervosa-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

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EP145 - Cultivating Positive Body Image Using BDSM Oct 15, 2019

Welcome to episode 145 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m pleased to welcome Elizabeth “Liz” Newsom, LCSW to the podcast. In this episode she speaks to me about using BDSM as a form of self-care and finding your healthier self, and provides recommendations on where to get started.

Elizabeth “Liz” Newsom, LCSW, is a sexuality/intimacy therapist/educator specializing in working with individuals who identify as kinky and/or consensually non-monogamous (poly, swingers, etc.); those who identify as gender non-conforming and/or have questions about sexuality; as well as those who need assistance with issues such as depression, anxiety, mood disorders, trauma, communication/anger/intimacy issues and much more. In addition to standard individual, family and relationship counseling, Liz is currently expanding her practice to include supervising and training new therapists with her sex positive inclusive therapeutic approach.

For the last few years she has been providing community/professional education regarding working with kinky clients, specifically with the intent of normalizing kink for professionals that work with kinky individuals and educating on the difference between domestic violence/assault and kink. Additionally, she has been providing support and education around parenting, relationship transitions, and co-parenting in the context of consensual non-monogamy. She is a member of several organizations including American Association of Sexuality Educators, Clinicians and Therapists (AASECT), World Professional Association of Transgender Health (WPATH), Texas Association Against Sexual Assault (TAASA) and a board member with National Coalition of Sexual Freedom (NCSF).

Questions Asked:

How can you use BDSM as a form of self-care?
What falls under the umbrella of BDSM?
What are ways in which people will find their healthier selves through BDSM?
Is it possible to find pleasure outside of your erotic template?
How did Liz’s clients find body acceptance through BDSM?
What are the first steps Liz would recommend doing?

Find Liz here:

www.realisticexpectations.net

Resources

https://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008

https://fetlife.com

Find me on social media:

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care

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Extra Content:

Bonus episode, Sex & Anorexia Nervosa: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-anorexia-nervosa-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

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EP144 - Getting Off Without Checking Out with Jessica Graham Oct 08, 2019

EP144 - Getting Off Without Checking Out with Jessica Graham

Welcome to episode 144 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Jessica Graham to the podcast. In this episode she speaks to me about incorporating fantasy in a healthy way, how sexuality is connected to spirituality, and using mindfulness to increase your desire

Jessica Graham is a meditation teacher, sex, relationship, and spiritual guide for couples and individuals, speaker, and author of Good Sex: Getting Off Without Checking Out. She is a contributing editor of the meditation blog, Deconstructing Yourself and co-founded The Eastside Mindfulness Collective. Jessica also founded Wild Awakening, to help people become more human through psycho-spiritual evolution using meditation and self-inquiry. Jessica is also an award-winning actor and filmmaker.

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In this episode, you will hear:

Why are so many partners checking out during sex?
Learning to incorporate fantasy in a healthy way
Exercises for body awareness
Incorporating healthy fantasies with your partner
How sexuality is connected to spirituality
Learning about the issue of orgasmic shame
How women are very cut off from their pleasure
Taking a look at the pleasure activism movement
Using mindfulness to increase your desire

Find Jessica here:

www.yourwildawakening.com

https://www.instagram.com/jessicaclarkgraham

https://www.amazon.com/Pleasure-Activism-Politics-Emergent-Strategy/dp/1849353263

Find me on social media:

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care/

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care/

Work with me:

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/

Bonus episode, Sex & Anorexia Nervosa: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-anorexia-nervosa-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

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EP143 - Saying Yes to Pleasure with Dalychia Saah Oct 01, 2019

Welcome to episode 143 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it is my pleasure to welcome Dalychia Saah to the podcast. In this episode she speaks to me about allowing yourself to have more pleasure, why we struggle to connect with our bodies and finding your erotic voice.

Dalychia Saah (she/her) is a sexuality educator, professor, writer, and speaker. Through her words and work, Dalychia facilitates space for people to connect deeper with their desires for their body, relationships, life, and our world. She is passionate about people unlearning oppressive norms that are externalized, inter-personalized, and internalized that keep us from moving towards a more liberated way of being. Dalychia believes that systematic forms of oppression can be overthrown by a reclamation of intra- and interpersonal power.

Dalychia is the co-founder of Afrosexology, a pleasure based sex education platform that creates educational content and workshops to center the pleasure, empowerment, and liberation of Black people. Afrosexology’s work covers topics such as masturbation, self love, enhancing communication in relationships, radical twerking, racialized sexual oppression, body agency and much more. Through Afrosexology, she has created space for tens of thousands of people of color to reclaim their sexuality and body agency.

Dalychia is a lecturer professor at the Brown School of Social Work at Washington University in St. Louis, where she teaches graduate level courses in social theory, social justice, and sexuality education. She is also a sought after facilitator and keynote speaker for conferences and events related to social justice and/or sexuality.

Her work and words have been featured in HuffPost, Teen Vogue, Allure Magazine, Vibe Magazine, Glamour Magazine, Harper’s Bazaar, Playboy Magazine, Broadly, and others. She has received the Phenomenal Woman Award, Spirit of Social Work Award, Rev. Robert Gilbert Advocacy Award, and Academy for Leadership & Civic Engagement Leadership Award.

In this episode, you will hear:

The internal and external oppressive challenges that get in the way of pleasure
A lack pleasure pride in our society
How we seek to create goals and aims out of every aspect of our lives
The detrimental effect of being too goal orientated
Why struggle to connect with our bodies
The power of self-care
Liberation through masturbation
Finding your erotic voice
Learning to overcome our fears of allowing ourselves pleasure

Resources

http://www.afrosexology.com

Bonus Episode, Sex & Anorexia Nervosa: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-anorexia-nervosa-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

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EP142 - Is It Okay to Fantasize About Others Even When You're in a Relationship? Sep 24, 2019

Welcome to episode 142 of the Sexology Podcast! Today's episode is a solo episode where I discuss fantasizing about others while you're in a relationship, understanding from the fantasy what you want more of in your relationship, the way our sub-conscious plays a role in this issue, and how this is a very common issue for lots of couples.

In this episode, you will hear:

Is it normal to fantasize about someone else while in a relationship?
The importance of communication and dialogue when defining the parameters of your relationship
The stigma attached to non-monogamous relationships
How our sub-conscious plays a role in this issue
Recognizing obsessional thoughts and what to do with them
Being true to your own values
Learning to not judge yourself for having certain thoughts
Removing yourself from situations where you might regret a decision later, e.g. drinking at a social event
Understanding from the fantasy what you want more of in your relationship
The role that guilt and shame plays with this issue
How this is a very common issue for lots of couples

Resources

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2017/03/07/sexuality-and-vulnerability-lesson-learned-as-a-dominatrix/

https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/not-attracted-to-partner-advice_us_5d716d09e4b0fd4168e7a673?guccounter=1

Bonus Episode, Sex & Anorexia Nervosa: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-anorexia-nervosa-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/

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EP141 - Rediscovering Your Intimate Self After Cancer Sep 17, 2019

Welcome to episode 141 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Tara Galeano, L.P.C., CST to the podcast. In this episode she speaks to me about the challenge's women face in regaining sexuality during and after cancer treatment, incorporating a holistic approach with feminine energy and the first steps women can take to regain their sexuality.

Tara Galeano helps women reimagine their bodies after cancer and rekindle their sexuality. She is a certified sex therapist and teaches the class, Rediscovering My Body after Cancer, to amazing, courageous women who have had cancer. For the past five years, she has taught this class at Boulder Community Health.

Currently, she is creating an online course based on this class to make the content more accessible to women everywhere. Tara is also inspired by her studies of Ayurveda, Sanskrit, and being a grandmother. She is currently writing a book based on the Rediscovering My Body class, so she may share widely with all those that are seeking sexual renewal after cancer.

In this episode, you will hear:

The challenges in regaining sexuality during and after cancer treatment
What is a dilator?
How dilator’s can be used as a wonderful tool
Overcoming breast cancer surgery and the feeling of loss
Incorporating a holistic approach and feminine energy
How do these issues vary between during and after treatment?
The effect this issue has on partners
Steps women can take if they experience low desire but want to remain sexual
Understanding that it’s an ebb and flow issue that will change over time
The feelings of guilt that can arise from not being sexual with your partner
The first steps women can take to regaining their sexuality

Resources

https://bouldersextherapy.com

Tara@BoulderSexTherapy.com

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

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EP140(a) - Sex Toys For Couple Play with Susan Bratton Sep 13, 2019

Welcome to episode 140 (a) of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m pleased to welcome Susan Bratton to the podcast. In this episode she speaks to me about sex toys, why couples are using them, how they can add sex appeal and changing the sexual dynamic of a relationship with a sex toy.

Susan Bratton is a champion and advocate for all who desire passionate relationships.

Considered the “Dear Abby of Sex,” Susan’s fresh approach and original ideas have helped millions of people of all ages and across the gender spectrum transform sex into passion.

Married to her husband Tim since 1993, Susan is an author, award-winning speaker, and serial entrepreneur who teaches passionate lovemaking techniques to her fans around the world. Susan has been featured in The New York Times and on CNBC and the TODAY show as well as appearing on ABC, CBS, The CW, Fox, and on NBC as the “Marriage Magician.”

Millions of couples and singles have been touched by her TV appearances and Better Lover YouTube channel. Through her Insider’s Club newsletter at Personal Life Media.com, Susan gives away, free of charge, countless MP3 audios, videos, articles, and ebooks.

In this episode, you will hear:

The reasons why couples are using sex toys
Helping to bridge the orgasm gap
Taking a look at certain sex toys such as cock rings
What to look for in a sex toy when purchasing one

Can sex toys change the dynamic of a couple's sex life?
Understanding the clitoral erection
Making the most of a clitoral erection
How sex toys can add sex appeal
Knowing the best times to approach using a sex toy with your partner

Resources

Personal Life Media
Instagram@SusanBratton
My YouTube 'Better Lover’ Channel

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

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EP140 - Kinky Couples with Stefani Goerlich Sep 10, 2019

Welcome to episode 140 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Stefani Goerlich to the podcast. In this episode she speaks to me about working with non-traditional couples, the sexual challenges they face and understanding what it means to be kink aware.

Stefani holds a Masters in Social Work from Wayne State University, where she specialized in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. She has over fifteen years' experience in working with poly/kinky individuals, swingers, commercial sex workers, and child and adult survivors of sexual trauma including human trafficking. Stefani has served as a guest lecturer on minority sexual communities at Northwestern University and is a frequent conference presenter on topics related to Kink Aware Practice and consent. An award winning author, she currently working on her second book entitled The Leather Couch: Clinical Practice with Kinky Clients.

In this episode, you will hear:

The non-traditional relationship Stefani sees in her practice
The stigma non—traditional relationships face when forming romantic relationships
Working with sex workers
Sexual challenges non-traditional couples face
Working around jealousy
The importance of negotiation and communication
What does it mean to be kink aware?
Things that get in the way of therapists working with people from the lense of kink awareness?
How 2-5% of the population need a form of kink to be sexually stimulated
Misconceptions around working with non-traditional couples

Resources

http://www.boundtogethercounseling.com

Bonus Episode, Anorexia Nervosa & Sex: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-anorexia-nervosa-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

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EP139 - Sex, Relationships & ADHD with Dr. Ari Tuckman Sep 03, 2019

Welcome to episode 139 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome back Dr. Ari Tuckman to the podcast. In this episode he speaks to me about his new book (adultADHDbook), navigating the challenges that couples with ADHD will go through, creating fairness and managing expectations and how an overall good relationship balance will lead to great sex.

Ari Tuckman, PsyD, CST has given more than 350 presentations across America and in nine countries. His fourth book, ADHD After Dark: Better Sex Life, Better Relationship, was just published and is the first to examine how ADHD impacts a couple’s sexual and relationship satisfaction and how to improve both.

In this episode, you will hear:

Looking at the survey Dri Ari conducted for his new book
Do men with ADHD experience more desire than women?
Navigating the challenges that couples with ADHD will go through
The role medication plays in this issue
Distractions during sex, looking at keeping focused and in the zone
Does having sex make you a better person?
How an overall good relationship balance will lead to great sex
Creating fairness and managing expectations
Looking at the parent / child dynamic
Other findings on how couples managed to make it work in the bedroom
How can a partner help work on someone else’s issue?

Resources

https://adultADHDbook.com

https://tuckmanpsych.com

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

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EP138 - Out Of Control Sexual Behavior with Michael Vigorito Aug 27, 2019

Welcome to episode 138 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I welcome Michael Vigorito to the podcast. In this episode he speaks to me about out of control sexual behaviour, examining the driving force behind it and understanding the best practices to deal with this issue.

Mr. Vigorito is a sex therapist, author and consultant. As a psychotherapist, he provides individual, couples and group psychotherapy for a range of sexual and behavioral health concerns. He developed a sexual health assessment and treatment protocol with Douglas Braun-Harvey, which was published in Treating Out of Control Sexual Behavior - Rethinking Sex Addiction (2016) (SSTAR 2018 Health Professional Book Award Winner).

As a sexual health consultant for Behavioral Health Systems Baltimore and University of Maryland - Prevention Research Center, Mr. Vigorito designed and implemented capacity-building initiatives to integrate sexual health into mental health and substance use disorder treatment. These programs offered trainings and technical assistance in conducting routine sexual health conversations, sexual risk-reduction counseling and LGBTQ cultural competency within behavioural health systems of care.

In this episode, you will hear:

Defining out of control sexual behavior
Examining the driving force behind this issue
How common is this issue?
Looking at boundary fidelities
The consequences of trying to over-control sexual thoughts
Is this a behavioral or addiction issue?
Understanding not to adopt a disease narrative
Using the framework of addiction issues to tackle this issue
Are STD’s common for people dealing with this issue?

Resources

http://michaelvigorito.com

Bonus Episode - Anorexia Nervosa & Sex: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-anorexia-nervosa-sex/

Bonus Episode - Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode - Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

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EP137 – How To Last Longer In Bed Aug 20, 2019

Welcome to episode 137 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Caitlin V to the podcast. In this episode she speaks to me about what men can do to last longer in bed, the underlying issues of premature ejaculation and techniques that men can learn to help with this issue.

Caitlin V is a sex and relationship coach who helps men become amazing lovers and incredible partners. Formerly a sexual health researcher and policy analyst, she was catapulted into internet stardom after a video featuring her went viral.

She works with clients all over the world on ending premature ejaculation, preventing erectile dysfunction, and developing unshakable sexual confidence. Combining personal experience with evidence-based science in her coaching, Caitlin’s mission is to create a sex and pleasure-positive world

In this episode, you will hear:

What can men do to last longer in bed?
Simple and effective techniques men can use
Understanding how your style of masturbation will affect your sex life
How society has the wrong expectation on the duration of sex
Learning to control your ejaculation, if only by a small amount
How many men don’t know treatment is available
Numbing techniques – picturing undesirable things whilst having sex
Why numbing techniques don’t offer the best solution
Why longer duration of sex doesn’t translate to better sex
The relationship between sexual positions and duration
Staying away from untested home remedies

Resources

www.bettersexcoach.com

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

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EP136 - Changing Your Sexual Schema Aug 13, 2019

Welcome to episode 136 of the Sexology Podcast! Today we have a solo episode where I discuss how you can change your sexual schema.

In this episode, you will hear:

How do you change your schema of sex?
A personal story from Nazanin to help further unpack this issue
How a lack of sex education impacted Nazanin’s life
The conflicting messages on sex from society and religion
How these messages become instilled as part of your development
The feelings of guilt from wanting to experience sex
The importance of values within acceptance commitment therapy
Analyzing your own biases around sex
Challenging the myth that you need to be married to have good sex
Taking a look at alternative rebellion
Writing down your own sexual thoughts and stories to help further express your sexual feelings

Resources

https://sexologypodcast.com

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

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EP135 - Sexual Avoidance with Sari Cooper Aug 06, 2019

Welcome to episode 135 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Sari Cooper to the podcast. In this episode she speaks to me about sexual avoidance, how it affects relationships and recommendations on how you can better understand and improve upon this issue.

Sari Cooper is the Director of Center for Love and Sex, a group practice specializing in sex therapy and sex coaching based in NYC. She is also the creator of Sex Esteem®️, LLC a company devoted to enriching people’s confidence and knowledge about their own or their kids’ sexuality through talks, webinars and her web show, Sex Esteem®️ with Sari Cooper.

She is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and a Certified Sex Therapy Supervisor who is frequently called upon on many media outlets to comment on relationships and sexuality issues. She has appeared on CBS This Morning, Dr. Oz and featured in The Wall Street Journal, Women’s Health, Bustle, HuffPost and Vice Media.

In this episode, you will hear:

How do you define sexual avoidance?
The implicit actions people take to avoid sex with their partners
The ways in which this issue affects relationships
How the incest taboo works in relation to this issue
The root causes of sexual avoidance
Creating spontaneity and excitement to maintain a healthy sex life
Reconnecting with the exciting parts of lust from the early stages of a relationship
How partners can view hobbies and interests as a threat
The need to break out of your comfort zone to explore new aspects of a relationship
How pain during sex can play into this issue
Recommendations on how to improve sexual avoidance

Resources

Web - www.centerforloveandsex.com

Email - sari@centerforloveandsex.com

Social Media - Facebook, Twitter and Instagram

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

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EP134 - Self Pleasure and Peaking Jul 30, 2019

Welcome to episode 134 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome back Dr. Steve Bodansky to the podcast. In this episode he speaks to me about the benefits of self-pleasure, overcoming shame and recommendations to discover your own erogenous zones.

Steve Bodansky together with his wife Vera have been teachers of Sensuality for the past 35 years. Steve received a Masters in Molecular Biology at SUNY at Albany and a Doctorate at More University in Sensuality with an emphasis on female orgasm. He first studied and then taught at More U. thru 1992.

For the past 27 years they have been coaching students as a couple and started writing books about optimum sensual pleasure. They have trained many people over the past 30 years with courses and personal training and continue to do so. A number of their former students have become sensual facilitators themselves.

In this episode, you will hear:

The benefits of self-pleasure
Incorporating mindfulness into self-pleasure
What is peaking?
Overcoming the shame associated with self-pleasure
Understanding the need for build-up to climax
The way in which pornography gives us a false view of the female orgasm
Recommendations to discover your own erogenous zones
The common strokes that are helpful for self-pleasure
Learning not to be dependable on sex toys

Resources

stevebodansky@gmail.com

http://www.extendedmassiveorgasm.com

Extended Massive Orgasm: How to Give and Receive Intense Sexual Pleasure

The Illustrated Guide to Extended Massive Orgasm

To Bed or Not to Bed

Instant Orgasm

Extended Massive Orgasm: The Novel

Extended Massive Life: A True Love Story and More

Pigetry

Universe of Love: Poems of Yin and Yang

Orgasm Matters

Love and Alzheimer’s

Switch Pitcher: Evolution of Darwin

Fall; or, Dodge in Hell: A Novel by Neal Stephenson

Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones by James Clear

Previous episodes with Steve Bodansky

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2018/09/11/sex-and-alzheimer/

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2018/02/20/extended-massive-orgasm-by-dr-steve-bodansky/

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

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EP133 - Penile Implant Surgery Jul 23, 2019

Welcome to episode 133 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Jeffrey Loh-Doyle, MD to the podcast. In this episode he speaks to me about the ways in which neurologists can help men with erectile dysfunction, the steps leading to a penile prosthesis and how the penile prosthesis works.

Jeffrey Loh-Doyle, MD, is a specialist in complex surgical reconstruction of the male urinary tract, male urinary incontinence, erectile dysfunction, sexual health, urethral stricture disease, and Peyronie’s Disease. He joins the USC Institute of Urology after completing his urology residency at USC and further fellowship training in male genitourinary reconstructive and prosthetic surgery under Dr. Stuart Boyd, a world-renown reconstructive cancer surgeon and authority on reconstruction of the lower urinary tract and urologic prosthestics.

Born and raised in Los Angeles, Dr. Loh-Doyle completed his undergraduate and medical school education in the prestigious Baccalaureate/MD program at the Keck School of Medicine of USC, where he achieved degrees in biological sciences, international relations, and doctor of medicine. Dr. Loh-Doyle’s areas of clinical and research interest include erectile dysfunction, male urinary incontinence, Peyronie’s Disease, reconstruction of the urinary tract, and urologic oncology. In addition to urology, he also has a keen interest in health policy and quality improvement and participated in a two-year health care administration scholars program run by the Los Angeles County Department of Health. He was awarded a grant to improve the peri-operative patient experience at Los Angeles County+USC, and he is an active participant in several committees aimed at improving the delivery of sophisticated healthcare to the underserved.

In this episode, you will hear:

The ways in which neurologists can help men with erectile disfunction
The steps leading to a penile prosthesis
How there is a psychogenic component to erectile disfunctions
Allaying the concerns about injecting into the penis
How the penile prosthesis works

The main candidates for this type of surgery
The possible risk and side effects
How common is it for people to have mechanical issues?
The level of satisfaction after surgery
How quickly people can resume sexual activity after surgery

Resources

https://keck.usc.edu/faculty-search/jeffrey-loh-doyle/

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

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EP132 - Women with Sexual Interest/Arousal Disorder Relational Challenges Jul 16, 2019

Welcome to episode 132 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m happy to welcome Dr. Natalie Rosen to the podcast. In this episode she speaks to me about female sexual interest arousal disorder (FSIAD), the impact of FSIAD on partners and understanding self-expansion and how it can help.

Dr. Natalie Rosen is an Associate Professor in the Department of Psychology and Neuroscience at Dalhousie University, Halifax, Nova Scotia. Her research interests focus on understanding how individuals, and especially couples, cope with sexual problems or changes to their sexual relationship, including low sexual desire. She is an Associate Editor of the journal Archives of Sexual Behavior and has published over 70 peer-reviewed articles and book chapters on sexual relationships. Dr. Rosen’s research is currently funded by the Canadian Institutes of Health Research, the Nova Scotia Health Research Foundation, the Social Sciences and Humanities Research Council of Canada, and the Canadian Foundation of Innovation. Dr. Rosen also maintains a small private practice focused exclusively on sex and couple therapy.

In this episode, you will hear:

What is female sexual interest arousal disorder (FSIAD)?
The key part that distress plays in this issue
Understanding that we all go through different periods of higher and lower desire
How common is FSIAD?
The impact of FSIAD on partners
How does this differ between same sex / different sex couples?
How sexual discrepancies exist between couples from the offset
The way in which FSIAD effects communication between partners
Recommendations for couples overcoming this issue
Understanding self-expansion and how it can help

Resources

http://natalieorosen.com

https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1476762090

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

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EP131 - Does Sexual Orientation Change Across The Life Span? Jul 09, 2019

Welcome to episode 131 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Jes L. Matsick, Ph.D and Anna C. Salomaa, M.S. to the podcast. In this episode they speak to me about defining sexual orientation, addressing the challenges around minority distress and the best practice for identifying sexual identity for clinicians.

Jes Matsick, Ph.D.

Jes L. Matsick, Ph.D. is an Assistant Professor of Psychology and Women’s, Gender, and Sexuality Studies at The Pennsylvania State University. She received her Ph.D. in Psychology and Women’s Studies at the University of Michigan. In her research, she studies sexuality, gender, and prejudice, and much of her work is centered on the perspectives and experiences of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) individuals. Dr. Matsick is the director of the Underrepresented Perspectives Lab at Penn State, where she trains undergraduate and graduate students to conduct psychological research with an emphasis on LGBTQ+ issues. Her lab uses social psychological and feminist theories and methodologies to examine contemporary social issues, such as heterosexism, bisexual prejudice, allyship, health disparities, and intergroup relations. Since 2010, she has published more than 25 scientific papers and book chapters in which she examines sexual diversity and the psychological experiences of adults with sexually stigmatized identities. In the classroom at Penn State, she teaches courses that draw on her expertise in sexuality, gender, and health (e.g., Psychology of Sexual Orientation and Gender Diversity, Women’s Health Issues, Human Sexuality, and Psychology of Gender). Dr. Matsick’s research has been funded by the American Institute of Bisexuality, the Gay and Lesbian Medical Association, and the Society for the Psychological Study of Social Issues.

Anna C. Salomaa, M.S.

Anna C. Salomaa, M.S. is in her final year as a doctoral candidate at The Pennsylvania State University in the Department of Psychology; her area of focus is clinical psychology. The overarching goal of her research is to translate mapping the complexities of sexuality to the improvement of sexual minority health. Her primary areas of expertise include (1) issues in measuring sexual orientation in clinical and research settings and (2) mechanisms behind and interventions against bisexual prejudice in lesbian, gay, and heterosexual individuals that contribute to health disparities in bisexual people. In 2019, she received the Pennsylvania Psychological Foundation’s Student Multicultural Award. Anna is also the recipient of the 2018 Bisexual Issues Committee Foundation Award by APA's Division 44 (Society for the Psychology of Sexual Orientation and Gender Diversity). Anna integrates her research focus into her clinical work with sexual and gender minority clients by facilitating nuanced identity development.

In this episode, you will hear:

How they became interested in this area of research
Addressing the challenges around minority distress
How do they define sexual orientation?
Measuring sexual orientation and asking the right questions for quality research
The way in which our sexual orientation can change over our lifetime
The fluidity of sexuality
How Bi-Sexual people will experience social isolation
How many people still view being Bi-Sexual as just a pre-cursor to becoming gay
What are some of the best practice for identifying sexual identity for clinicians?

Resources

https://psych.la.psu.edu/directory/jes-matsick-ph-d

https://psych.la.psu.edu/directory/acs312

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

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EP130 - How Kink And Vanilla Can Live Happily Ever After Jul 02, 2019

Welcome to episode 130 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Dr. Cat Meyer, PsyD, LMFT. In this episode Dr. Cat speaks to me about BDSM, what does a BDSM relationship look like? How many people like some aspects of BDSM and learning to negotiate the rules and expectations.

Dr. Cat Meyer, PsyD, LMFT is a licensed couples therapist #88224, sex therapist, yoga instructor, published researcher, and reiki practitioner dedicated to evolving the relationship we have surrounding sexuality and our bodies. Dr. Cat integrates various schools of thought including neuro science, somatic theory, psychology, EMDR trauma therapy, and sexual health in her work for private practice, workshops, and transformational retreats that are designed to help people create a deeply fulfilling, prosperous relational and sexual life. For personal therapy work, check her out at CatMeyer.com

She is the co-creator of Goddess Celebration, an annual large scale women’s day retreat held in Malibu, CA, dedicated to uplifting and celebrating the goddess in every women.

Dr. Cat is also host to the popular podcast Eat.Play.Sex on iTunes, in which she brings you expert guests talking on how to ignite your love life both mentally, physically, and relationally. She also gives daily advice and wisdoms about all things sex, love, and yoga on Instagram.

In this episode, you will hear:

What does a BDSM relationship look like?
The relationship BDSM has with sexual identity
The power play dynamics of BDSM
How many people like some aspects of BDSM
The feelings of shame that arise around this issue
When is a good time to bring up BDSM to your partner?
How to talk about BDSM to your partner
Negotiating the rules and expectations
The different types of relationships that can flourish with BDSM
The after-care process of BDSM

Resources

http://Sexloveyoga.com

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12119-019-09590-x

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

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EP129 - Healing from Childhood Sexual Abuse Jun 25, 2019

Welcome to episode 129 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Rachel Grant. We speak about healing from childhood sexual abuse, the sexual challenges survivors of sexual abuse face and going through the three stages of being a victim, survivor and beyond survivor.

Rachel Grant is the owner and founder of Rachel Grant Coaching and is a Sexual Abuse Recovery Coach. She is also the author of Beyond Surviving: The Final Stage in Recovery from Sexual Abuse.

She brings to the table a passionate belief that her clients do not have to remain trapped or confronted daily by the thoughts or behaviors that result from abuse. Through her own journey of recovery from sexual abuse, she has gained insight and understanding about what it takes to overcome abuse. This makes it possible for her to relate to and appreciate your struggles intimately.

Based on her desire to foster community, intimacy, and connection, she has dedicated much of her time to understanding relationships and communication and how they are impacted by abuse. For her, how we are relating to others is crucial to improving the overall quality of our lives. In addition to the lessons she's learned along the way, she has attended various lectures and trainings to further hone her skills.

Her program, Beyond Surviving, has been specifically designed to change the way we think about and heal from abuse. Based on her educational training, study of neuroscience, and lessons learned from her own journey, she has successfully used this program since 2007 to help her clients break free from the past and move on with their lives.

She holds an M.A. in Counseling Psychology. She provides a compassionate and challenging approach for her clients while using coaching as opposed to therapeutic models.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Rachel became interested in this work
How we are very quick to blame ourselves for sexual abuse
The sexual challenges survivors of sexual abuse face
Falling into the trap of doing things out of obligation
The importance of consent and negotiating
The impact of sexual abuse on a child’s developing brain
The impact of trauma on the brain
Can abuse affect sexual preferences and blueprint?
Understanding you don’t have to live with a sense of brokenness
Going through the three stages of being a victim, survivor and beyond survivor

Resources

www.rachelgrantcoaching.com

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care

https://twitter.com/oasis2care

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

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EP128 - Talking to Your Child About Sex Jun 18, 2019

Welcome to episode 128 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where I speak more in depth about talking to your kids about sex.

In this episode, you will hear:

The sex negative messages we receive as kids
What to do if you catch your child involved with sexual activity
Learning how to communicate the subject of sex to your child
The importance of talking about your values

Understanding that children are naturally curious about sex
The common sexual behaviours between child age groups
Be comfortable in using the correct names and terminology around sex
The importance of teaching them about personal boundaries
Providing clear information around safety

Having a good dialogue about sex on the internet
Understanding the importance of not providing negative information around body changes
Talking about basic self-contraception
Having a continued discussion around masturbation and consent
Explaining the various different sexual interests people will have

Resources

Age 10 & up:

What’s Happening to My Body? Book for Girls: Revised Edition by Lynda Madaras

What’s Happening to My Body? Book for Boys: Revised Edition by Lynda Madaras

It’s Perfectly Normal: Changing Bodies, Growing Up, Sex, and Sexual Health (The Family Library) by Robie H. Harris

Age 9 & up:

Changing Bodies, Changing Lives: Expanded Third Edition: A Book for Teens on Sex and Relationships by Ruth Bell

Age 7 to 11:

The Care & Keeping of Us: A Sharing Collection for Girls & Their Moms by Cara Natterson

Age 4 to 8:

Those are MY Private Parts by Diane Hansen

Age 4 & up:

It’s Not the Stork!: A Book About Girls, Boys, Babies, Bodies, Families and Friends (The Family Library) by Robie H. Harris

https://siecus.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/07/Guidelines-CSE.pdf

https://www.nctsn.org/resources/sexual-development-and-behavior-children-information-parents-and-caregivers

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression:https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care

https://twitter.com/oasis2care

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

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EP127 - Best Orgasmic Tips by Sexperts Jun 11, 2019

Welcome to episode 127 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a recap episode where I revisit some of our previous episodes to help bring you the best orgasmic tips.

In this episode, we will revisit:

Episode 39

Dr. Laurie Mintz is an author, therapist, professor and speaker whose life’s work has been committed to helping people live fuller, richer lives through the art and science of psychology.

As a tenured Professor at the University of Florida, she teaches the Psychology of Human Sexuality to hundreds of undergraduate students each year. She also teaches and mentors graduate students, helping them find their own niche as psychologists. Dr. Mintz has published over 50 research articles in academic journals and six chapters in academic books. She has received numerous professional and teaching awards, and is a Fellow of the American Psychological Association.

Full episode - http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2017/10/03/everything-you-need-to-know-about-orgasm/

Episode 06

Dr Barbach’s work as a couple’s therapist for more than three decades and the publication of Going the Distance: Finding and Keeping Lifelong Love crafted with David Geisinger, Ph.D., her partner of 32 years, has defined her as an acknowledged expert on intimate relationships. She is skilled in a variety of treatment modalities in treating individuals and couples with problems ranging from anxiety and depression to parenting and communication issues.

Full Episode - http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/04/02/how-to-please-your-lover-by-dr-lonnie-barbach/

Episode 124

Vanessa Marin is a licensed psychotherapist specializing in sex therapy. She’s here to help you stop feeling embarrassed about sex and start having way more fun in the bedroom.

She has bachelor’s degrees in Human Sexuality and Sociology from Brown University, and a master’s degree in counseling psychology. She writes for The New York Times, Allure, and Lifehacker, and has been featured over 1,000 times in major publications like O, The Oprah Magazine, Harper’s Bazaar, Refinery29, and Real Simple.

Full episode - http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/05/21/from-solo-sex-to-partnered-sex/

Episode 110

Dr. Janet Brito is an AASECT-certified sex therapist who also has a license in clinical psychology and social work. She is a graduate of Pacifica Graduate Institute and completed her postdoctoral fellowship from the University of Minnesota Medical School, one of only a few university programs in the world dedicated to sexuality training. Currently, she’s based in Honolulu, Hawaii and is the founder of the Center for Sexual and Reproductive Health, where she specializes in the areas of relationship and sex therapy, out of control sexual behavior, and gender and sexually diverse populations.

Full episode - http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/02/12/fake-orgasms/

Episode 65

Dr. Debra Wickman is a gynecologist with more than 20 years of experience. She completed a fellowship in Female Sexual Medicine at UCLA, and is also trained as a sexuality counsellor. Her model of diagnosis and treatment incorporates programs that uniquely educate, empower, and encourage personal growth, sexual discovery and healing for women.

Full episode - http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2018/04/03/holistic-sexual-medicine-with-debra-wickman-m-d/

Episode 59

Steve Bodansky together with his wife Vera have been teachers of Sensuality for the past 35 years. They met in 1980 and were married in 1983. Steve received a Masters in Molecular Biology at SUNY at Albany in 1979 and a Doctorate at More University in Sensuality in 1992 with an emphasis on female orgasm. He first studied and then taught at More U. thru 1992. Vera started doing one-hour orgasms demonstrations in 1980 and also received her doctorate in Sensual studies in 1992.

Full episode - http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2018/02/20/extended-massive-orgasm-by-dr-steve-bodansky/

Episode 114

Emily Nagoski is the award-winning author of the New York Times bestseller, Come As You Are: the surprising new science that will transform your sex life and The Come As You Are Workbook, and co-author, with her sister Amelia, of Burnout: the secret to unlocking the stress cycle.

Full episode - http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/03/12/female-orgasm-with-dr-emily-nagoski/

Resources

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

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EP126 - My Wife Doesn't Want To Have Sex, What Should I Do? Jun 04, 2019

Welcome to episode 126 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where I answer a listener's question on what to do when his wife doesn’t want to have sex anymore.

In this episode, you will hear:

The definition of a sexless marriage
How this is a global issue
How sex is a form of attachment
The way in which no sex can be a by-product of relationship dissatisfaction
Why couples refrain from sex
The need to repair the relationship before tackling the issue of lack of sex
Understanding the need to reflect on your own wants and needs
The importance of processing these emotions
Trying to pinpoint when these issues first arose
The different stages of love we experience in a relationship
The importance of communication throughout this process
Creating time in your life to work on this issue
Tips and recommendations to help begin improving such as date nights
Introducing novelty into the relationship to create excitement
Understanding and tackling sexual boredom

Resources

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

Helen Fisher Ted Talk - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OYfoGTIG7pY

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EP125 - What to Do When Chronic Illness Affects Your Sex Life? May 28, 2019

Welcome to episode 125 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Dr Melvin L. Phillips, Jr. to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Melvin speaks to me about chronic illness, the challenges of dealing with this issue, the uncertainty and anxiety it can create and tips on how to regain a sense of sexual normality.

Dr Melvin L. Phillips, Jr. is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in Washington, DC, Maryland, and Virginia. Dr Phillips has worked in several mental health and substance abuse treatment settings including outpatient community mental health, inpatient treatment, and private practice for the past 13 years.

He is a speaker and has lectured on topics including preventative services, anxiety and stress management, caregiving stress, depression in the elderly, mindfulness and cognitive strategies for chronic pain, revalidating sexuality for couples with chronic pain and illness, ethical decision making, and the assessment of mental disorders. He has published in the Journal of Baccalaureate Social Work, conducting a research study on LGBTQ-Affirmative Teaching at Historically Black Colleges and Universities: Understanding Program Directors Views.

He holds a Doctor of Education (Ed.D.) degree in Organizational Leadership with an emphasis in Behavioral Health from Grand Canyon University in Phoenix, AZ. In addition, Dr Phillips holds a Master of Social Work (MSW) degree from Norfolk State University and is an adjunct professor in the Master of Social Work Program with the School of Social Work at Western New Mexico University. Dr Phillips currently is currently in private practice in Washington, DC., where he treats chronic illness and sexual dysfunction.

In this episode, you will hear:

How the is a common issue but one of talked about enough
The challenges of dealing with chronic illness
The side effects of becoming hooked on medication
Learning to continue to enjoy pleasure through chronic illness
How people going through this feel a part of their relationship has been stolen from them
The uncertainty and anxiety it can create
The impacts on your desire level
Learning more about retrograde ejaculation
Tips on how to regain a sense of sexual normality
The importance of communication through this issue
The way in which sexual rigidity can cause further problems

Resources

www.ccccmentalhealth.com

www.drleephillips.com

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

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EP124 - From Solo Sex to Partnered Sex May 21, 2019

Welcome to episode 124 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Vanessa Marin to the podcast. In this episode she speaks about masturbation, the common myths surrounding female orgasm, how porn and the media only represent one kind of female body and experimenting with sex toys.

Vanessa Marin is a licensed psychotherapist specializing in sex therapy. She’s here to help you stop feeling embarrassed about sex and start having way more fun in the bedroom.

She has bachelor’s degrees in Human Sexuality and Sociology from Brown University, and a master’s degree in counseling psychology. She writes for The New York Times, Allure, and Lifehacker, and has been featured over 1,000 times in major publications like O, The Oprah Magazine, Harper’s Bazaar, Refinery29, and Real Simple.

Vanessa specializes in online programs that help you transform your sex life from ordinary to extraordinary, all from the comfort and privacy of your own home. Through courses like The Passion Project: A Couples’ Blueprint To Rediscovering Desire And Reigniting The Spark and Finishing School: Learn How To Orgasm, she finds immense joy in spreading the message that we all deserve more from our sex lives.

Vanessa’s business is actually a family affair! Vanessa’s sister Jennifer is her right-hand woman. And since her husband Xander joined to help manage the online portion of the business, they have joined forces to start talking about the challenges faced in modern day relationships - including their own - with the goal of exploring how a fulfilling sex life plays an integral role in a healthy relationship.

In this episode, you will hear:

The common myths surrounding female orgasm
The issue of women hating their bodies
How porn and the media only represent one kind of female body
The rise of plastic surgery to change the shape of genitalia
Redefining four play – why it’s not just a prelude to penetrative sex
What is a pre-orgasmic women?
The shame that still exists around masturbation
Ways to further explore your own journey with masturbation
How masturbation can be a form of self-love and self-care
Recommendations on discussing masturbation with your partner
Transferring new sexual skills from masturbation to sex with your partner
The importance of communication and specific instruction
Experimenting with sex toys

Resources

https://vmtherapy.com

https://vmtherapy.com/online-sex-therapy-programs/

The Vulva Gallery - www.instagram.com/the.vulva.gallery

Jennifer Gunsaullus Episode - http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2017/04/18/the-power-of-masturbation-with-dr-jennifer-gunsaullus/

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

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EP123 - Exploring Your Bi-Curiosity May 14, 2019

Welcome to episode 123 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Rae McDaniel to the podcast. In this episode they speak about the difference between being bisexual and heteroflexible, taking the first steps to explore your sexual curiosity and understanding the need to treat potential dates and partners with care and respect as you explore your sexual curiosity.

Rae McDaniel is a Gender and Certified Sex Therapist who works with folks feeling anxious and lost about a transition they’re experiencing in sex, gender, sexual identity, or relationships. Rae also provide consultation & training for professionals and organizations wishing to uplevel their knowledge and expertise in these areas. Rae is the founder of Practical Audacity, a therapy and healing collective in Chicago, Illinois.

Rae holds a Master of Education in Community Counseling from DePaul University in Chicago and is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Illinois. Rae graduated from the University of Michigan’s Sexual Health Certificate Program with specializations in Sex Therapy and Sexuality Education and is a Certified Sex Therapist through the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists.

In this episode, you will hear:

What is the difference between being bisexual and heteroflexible?
Does consuming the same sex porn make you homosexual?
The difficulties people experience when they find out their partner is consuming same sex porn
How western culture is more accepting of women being bisexual than men
The discriminations that still exist on society today for showing any affection to the same sex
How bisexuals struggle for support even within the LGBTQ community
Taking the first steps to exploring your sexual curiosity
Understanding the need to treat potential dates and partners with care and respect as you explore your sexual curiosity
How to start the dialogue with your partner around this issue if you’re in a monogamous relationship

Resources

http://www.practicalaudacity.com

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

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EP122 - The Awakening Of Feminine Sexuality May 07, 2019

Welcome to episode 122 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Gina Gutierrez to the podcast. In this episode she speaks about sexuality and desire, the differences between men and women when it comes to desire and arousal, the downsides of getting your sex education from porn and the need to make desire open, communicative and vocal.

Gina Gutierrez will probably ask you how you’re feeling when she meets you. As co-founder and CEO of Dipsea, Gina is an empathy-driven entrepreneur focused on helping women feel sexually, mentally, and emotionally empowered through audio storytelling. Dipsea’s stories help women tap into their sexuality on their own terms, unlock confidence, and develop a more holistic sense of well-being.

Armed with a degree in psychology from Duke, Gina saw her career as a brand strategist take off when she moved to the San Francisco Bay Area. There, she started working with leading startups and Fortune 500 companies, including Facebook, Google, Reebok, ThirdLove, and DoorDash. But many late nights spent talking with friends about their experiences with fun, sexy content made her realize something: there was actually very little of it made for women, especially not in audio format. So, in 2018, she and friend

Faye Keegan combined their left-brain and right-brain strengths to launch Dipsea. The design-forward, female-focused, sex-positive app delivers short-form audio stories that help women and couples tap their inner sexual powers accessibly.

Just one year since launch, Dipsea has already been featured by ELLE, Marie Claire, Vox, and TechCrunch, and has raised $5.5 million in funding. All this despite Gina and Faye being told that a startup focused on female pleasure and erotic content wasn’t “venture-backable.”

In this episode, you will hear:

The differences between men and women when it comes to desire and arousal
How ethics around porn can get in the way of desire
The main things people were searching for when it comes sexuality
The way in which porn has been designed predominantly for male desire
Why is the psychology of the brain overlooked for women?
The downsides of getting your sex education from porn
How psychological arousal and desire is missing for a lot of people today
What can we do to increase sexual desire?
The need to make desire open, communicative and vocal
How Gina and her team create the content for Dipsea Stories

Resources

Dipsea app – https://dipseastories.com/sexology

Episodes with Dr. Emily Nagoski:

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/03/12/female-orgasm-with-dr-emily-nagoski/

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2017/03/14/come-as-you-are-an-interview-with-dr-emily-nagoski/

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

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EP121 - Why Didn’t She Say Something? Apr 30, 2019

Welcome to episode 121 of Sexology Podcast. Today, I am delighted to welcome Dr. Carmon Roman to the podcast. In this episode, we will analyze why sexual assault survivors might not report the assaults. Furthermore, we’ll review the approaches to helping survivors during their journey of recovery.

Dr. Roman is a caring listener with over 25 years of experience in providing psychotherapy, in Mexico and California. She is also the host of a wonderful, bilingual weekly podcast, Emotions in Harmony, through which she weaves together the psychology and spirituality of both cultures.

In this episode, you will hear about:

History of Denim Day
Emotional barriers that might get in a way of reporting an assault
Best ways for victims to protect themselves if they choose to report
Role of family members in supporting survivors of sexual abuse
True vs. false beliefs that a survivor might develop as a consequent of the incident
The process of recovery

Resources

https://emotionsinharmony.org/

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2017/06/20/celibacy-desire-with-dr-carmen-roman/

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression:

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If you are experiencing strong emotions related to past or present trauma and you are looking for resources to get support, you can can visit RAINN’s online hotline (https://hotline.rainn.org/online/) or call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 800-656-4673.

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EP120 - How To Have Tough Conversations Around Sex Apr 23, 2019

Welcome to episode 120 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m delighted to welcome Jonathan Miller to the podcast, in this episode he speaks about ways in which can start to have difficult conversations around sex, the importance of communication and to be clear about what you want sexually and understanding the sensitive nature of these issues and the need to be mindful of your partner's thoughts and emotions.

Jonathan helps high-performing couples upgrade their communication skills to have fight-free relationships. As a speaker, coach and trainer, Jonathan is dedicated to empowering others to communicate mindfully.

He truly believes that the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our life, and communication is the main ingredient. Growing up, he was never taught to fully express himself or hear others in a way that fostered connection. He is now committed to sharing his newfound passion for clear communication using his world-class training methodology.

In this episode, you will hear:

Recommendations on what to talk about before having sex for the first time
The best time in a relationship to first talk about having sex
The importance of communication and to be clear about what you want sexually
Ways in which to talk about difficult sexual issues, such as having an STI
How to tell your partner that you slept with someone else
Understanding the need to take responsibility
How to first approach your partner about potentially opening up your relationship
An interactive role play between Nazanin and Jonathan dealing with these issues
Understanding the sensitive nature of these issues and the need to be mindful of your partners thoughts and emotions

Resources

www.mindfulcommunication.me

Bonus Episode: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/

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EP119: The Hottest Sex Scenes on Game of Thrones and What You Can Learn from Them Apr 16, 2019

Welcome to episode 119 of the Sexology Podcast. In the run up to season 8 of Game of Thrones, this week’s episode is a solo episode where I discuss the five hottest sex scenes from the show and what we can learn from.

In this episode, you will hear:

Why people associate Game of Thrones as a more sexually charged shows than other TV shows
Does the show give people a legitimacy to have taboo fantasies?
The top five categories of sexual fantasy
How physiological arousal doesn’t automatically correspond to your erotic template
How group sex / orgies are at the top of most people's sexual fantasy
Understanding the need to start slow when acting out role play with your partner
The importance of role play in a relationship to keep elements of danger and excitement
Understanding the attraction of a rape fantasy
The sexual power play dynamics Game of Thrones creates in its scenes
The role romance plays in a sexual fantasy
Understanding why the Jon Snow and Ygritte sex scene is the most popular

Resources

https://www.hbo.com/game-of-thrones

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2017/07/11/293/ EP27 - Sexuality in Game of Thrones

https://www.amazon.com/Arousal-Secret-Logic-Sexual-Fantasies/dp/0312302428

https://www.ledevoir.com/culture/ecrans/552035/grand-angle-le-trone-de-fer-c-est-nous#

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EP118: Age Play Ideas with Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb Apr 09, 2019

Welcome to episode 118 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m delighted to welcome back Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb to the podcast. Dr. Rhoda was my guest on episode 90 talking about Age Play and she returns to talk further about this issue. In this episode Dr. Rhoda touches upon how we can incorporate Age Play into a relationship, the role that shame plays in keeping these desires suppressed and how seeking out online communities and conventions can be very helpful.

Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb has been counseling individuals and couples in the area of human sexuality for over 25 years. She received her PhD in clinical sexology from the American Academy of Clinical Sexologists in Orlando, FL.

She is an AASECT certified sex therapist in private practice specializing in the alternative sexuality communities, such as open relationships, ABDL, GLBT, BDSM, kink and fetishes. She wrote her doctoral dissertation on the mental health experience of ABDL individuals, specializes in therapy for this community and speaks on the subject to help promote better understanding for individuals and their families.

Her approach to therapy is helping people to understand, accept and appreciate their sexuality with all the wonderful unique flavors that come with it. Shame, embarrassment, guilt and fear are poisonous to healthy sexual expression so letting go of old, irrational and impractical belief patterns can pave the way for a new and exciting beginning.

Her recent book, No More Hiding: Permission to Love your Sexual Self, is a guide for those seeking help with alternative sexuality such as BDSM, Kinks, fetishes and open relationships.

In this episode, you will hear:

What is Age Play?
How can we incorporate Age Play into a relationship?
The areas of discomfort a partner might experience
The role that shame plays in keeping these desires suppressed
How our erotic template is like our fingerprints / DNA
Is it possible to learn to enjoy Age Play if it’s not part of our template?
The starting points to being introduced to Age Play
Learning that Age Play is a component part of your sexuality and not the entire piece
How seeking out online communities and conventions can be very helpful

Resources

www.drrhoda.com

dr.rhoda@yahoo.com

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2018/09/25/age-play-dr-rhoda-lipscomb/

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EP117 - How to Please Your Lover by Dr. Lonnie Barbach Apr 02, 2019

Welcome to episode 117 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Lonnie Barbach to the podcast. In this conversation, Dr. Lonnie speaks to me about how to please your lover, the barriers that might get in the way of meeting a partner's sexual needs, the importance of compatibility and chemistry and restoring intimacy.

Dr. Lonnie Barbach, a clinical-social psychologist, was co-director of clinical training at the sex advisory and counseling unit at UCSF and is currently in private practice. She has received numerous awards for her work on sexuality and has written a dozen books on relationships, sexuality and menopause in addition to a number of video tapes and audio tapes. Her best known books include:

For Yourself, For Each Other, Pleasures, The Erotic Edge, The Pause and Going the Distance, co-authored with her partner, David Geisinger, Ph.D. She is also cofounder of Happy Couple a relationship game app designed to enhance a couple’s communication and satisfaction.

In this episode, you will hear:

The barriers that might get in the way of meeting a partner's sexual needs
How there is an expectation for us to be mind readers when it comes to sex
The way in which our sexual interests evolve over time
The importance of compatibility and chemistry
Maintaining a willingness to explore new things and keep things interesting
Making sure to create time for sex and not just when you’re tired
Can intimacy be restored if it’s been lost?
Understanding that it’s to create a schedule for sex
Being open your partners erotic template

Resources

https://www.lonniebarbach.com

http://www.happycouple.co/en/

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EP116 - Embrace Your Nakedness in the bedroom! Mar 26, 2019

Welcome to episode 116 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where I discuss the strategies and tools that you may implement to feel confident about your body inside and outside the bedroom.

In this episode, I will discuss:

The statistics around how common it is to experience dissatisfaction about one’s body
The relationship between weight concerns and mental health
Improving your self-image as a way to transform your sexuality
The mirror exercises that address negative views of one’s genitals.
Strategies around getting comfortable with your body and your partner’s body
Challenging your negative self-talk through writing letters

Resources

Sexology Podcast Bonus Episode – https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

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EP115 - Can Men Suffer from Low Libido? Mar 19, 2019

EP115 - Can Men Suffer from Low Libido?

Welcome to episode 115 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where I discuss the issue of men who suffer from a low libido.

In this episode, you will hear:

The common misconceptions around this issue
Learning to understand that not all men have a high sexual desire
How low libido can commonly get mistaken with lack of sexual motivation
How men suffer from a similar issue to menopause called andropause

The contributing factors that lead to andropause
The importance of having a broad sexual life with your partner
Learning to be open and communicative about any sexual desires and fantasies you might want to try with your partner
The effects culture and religion can have around this issue
Recommendations on what you can do for treatment

How the strategy of “simmering” can help to improve this issue

Resources

Sexology Podcast Bonus Episode - https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

Previous episodes relating to this issue:

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2018/09/18/low-libido/

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2017/05/30/mismatched-libido-with-renelle-nelson-lmft/

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/01/08/sensate-focus/

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EP114 - Female Orgasm with Dr. Emily Nagoski Mar 12, 2019

Welcome to episode 114 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Emily Nagoski to the podcast. In this conversation, Emily speaks to me about orgasms, the contributing factors that lead to more intense orgasms, achieving orgasm through meditation and thoughts on G-spots.

Emily Nagoski is the award-winning author of the New York Times bestseller, Come As You Are: the surprising new science that will transform your sex life and The Come As You Are Workbook, and co-author, with her sister Amelia, of Burnout: the secret to unlocking the stress cycle.

She began her work as a sex educator at the University of Delaware, where volunteered as a peer sex educator while studying psychology with minors in cognitive science and philosophy. She went on to earn a M.S. in Counseling and a Ph.D. in Health Behavior, both from Indiana University, with clinical and research training at the Kinsey Institute. Now she combines sex education and stress education to teach women to live with confidence and joy inside their bodies.

In this episode, you will hear:

How do you know if you’ve had an orgasm?
How all orgasms are unique and different to each other
The contributing factors to more intense orgasms
Understanding that sometimes orgasms can take work and patience
Not letting past negative sexual experiences define your future experiences
Achieving orgasm through meditation
Thoughts on G-spots
The pressure of sex just becoming a performance
How the orgasm gap is less for lesbian women

Bonus episode: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/

Resources

http://www.emilynagoski.com

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EP113 - Maintaining Passion In A Long Term Relationship Mar 05, 2019

Welcome to episode 113 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Cheryl Fraser to the podcast. In this conversation, Dr. Cheryl speaks to me about keeping passion alive through long term relationships, recommendations for recreating thrill and excitement and approaching your partner with sexual ideas that might be considered taboo.

Dr. Cheryl Fraser is an award-winning sex therapist, and a Fulbright scholar who created the Become Passion home study series and the Awakened Lover weekend intensive for couples. She has a private practice in sex and couples' therapy. Personally, and professionally, Dr. Cheryl has confronted the intense, joyful, and painful emotions of relationships, from I Do to divorce, and on to Mindful Loving. This human touch makes her writing, workshops, and media appearances on sex and relationships so accessible and effective.

Dr. Cheryl completed her post-doctoral training at the University of California-San Francisco medical school. She conducted research on sexual behaviour and attitudes, and combatting homophobia. She has also taught college and university, and keeps a busy private practice, where she specializes in sex and couples' therapy. She is a certified Gottman marriage therapist.

She teaches weekend intensive “bootcamps” for couples, and her Become Passion home study program teaches couples how to create sustainable, lifelong emotional intimacy and sexual passion.

In this episode, you will hear:

Is it possible to keep passion alive in a long term relationship?
The three steps Dr. Cheryl recommends for keeping passion alive
Why scheduling sex can seem boring but also an important tool to use

Understanding that your relationship needs energy and focus to keep it passionate
How there is a time limit to the “honeymoon” period and what to do afterwards
Learning to resolve conflicts in a healthy way
Recommendations for recreating thrill and passion
Approaching your partner with sexual ideas that might be considered taboo

Resources

http://www.drcherylfraser.com

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EP112 - Does Polyamory Work? Feb 26, 2019

Welcome to episode 112 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Martha Kauppi, LMFT to the podcast. In this conversation, Martha speaks to me about polyamorous relationships, the common misconceptions people have around polyamory, how therapists can work with polyamory from a differentiation perspective?

Martha Kauppi, LMFT, is an educator, AASECT-certified sex therapist and supervisor, and AAMFT-approved supervisor. She specializes in relational sex therapy, including alternative family structures, and trains therapists to work effectively at the intersection of sex issues and relationship challenges.

Martha’s mission is to make sex a safe topic in therapy rooms everywhere by developing unique educational experiences and immediately-applicable learning materials for therapists.

In this episode, you will hear:

The alternative relationship structures Martha has worked with
How she became interested in polyamory
The challenges people face in polyamorous relationships
How Martha’s research showed polyamorous relationships can last for 26 years
The sense of community and support polyamory can provide
The common misconceptions people have around polyamory
How not every polyamorous relationship is sexual
The fear and intimidation people still face around this issue
The role that jealousy can play in polyamory
How therapists can work with polyamory from a differentiation perspective?

Resources

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http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2018/06/12/ep75-polyamory-and-finding-loves/

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EP111 - Opening Up Your Relationship Feb 19, 2019

Welcome to episode 111 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Lourdes Viado to the podcast. In this conversation, Dr. Viado speaks to me about open relationships, how they work, the essential tools you’ll need to navigate this path and why some people will go back to monogamy after an open relationship.

Dr. Lourdes Viado is a depth psychologist, providing psychotherapy for adults in her private practice in Las Vegas NV, as well as mentorship and consulting services to clients world-wide.

She is a Myers-Briggs Typology Indicator (MBTI) Certified Practioner and uses a Jungian approach in her work with clients, integrating mindfulness, dream work, shadow work, metaphor, literature, poetry and astrology in her work with clients

She is also the host of the top-rated Women In-Depth Podcast: Conversations about the Inner Lives of Women, which has been downloaded over 225,000x in 96 countries and 6 continents.

In this episode, you will hear:

The different types of open relationships
How open relationships are more common than most people realise
What does the fidelity agreement look like?

Questions you should ask yourself before considering opening up your relationship
Understand and process the reasons why you want to open up your relationship
How for some the idea of an open relationship is better than the reality of one
How there is no right or wrong to come to an agreement on an open relationship, each one is entirely unique
The essential tools you’ll need to navigate this path

The importance of open communication and not going down the path of not wanting to know what your partner may or may not be doing
Why some people will go back to monogamy after an open relationship

Resources

Women In-Depth Podcast

www.lourdesviado.com

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EP110 - Why Do Many People Fake Orgasms? Feb 12, 2019

Welcome to episode 110 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Janet Brito to the podcast. In this conversation, Dr. Brito speaks to me about why people fake orgasms, the reasons for doing so and ways to break through this issue and have better sex.

Dr. Janet Brito is an AASECT-certified sex therapist who also has a license in clinical psychology and social work. She is a graduate of Pacifica Graduate Institute and completed her postdoctoral fellowship from the University of Minnesota Medical School, one of only a few university programs in the world dedicated to sexuality training. Currently, she’s based in Honolulu, Hawaii and is the founder of the Center for Sexual and Reproductive Health, where she specializes in the areas of relationship and sex therapy, out of control sexual behavior, and gender and sexually diverse populations.

Dr. Brito has been featured on many outlets, including The Huffington Post, Playboy, Healthline, Women’s Health Magazine, Thrive Global, and Midweek Publications. Her dissertation A phenomenological analysis on infertility in Mexican women living in the United States was recently published in the Revista Interamericana de Psicologia/Interamerican Journal of Psychology.

In this episode, you will hear:

How common is it for people to fake orgasms?
The reasons why someone might fake an orgasm?
The influence that pornography has had on our sexual expectations
Why pornography is not a good resource to shape your sexual template
The need for more stimulation and foreplay to achieve better sex

Why there is no right or wrong way of having sex
Learning to be attentive and focus on your partners needs and desires
Be open and honest with your partner so you can communicate effectively around this issue
Why orgasms can be inconsistent and unreliable
How men are more able to compartmentalize relationship issues from sex

Resources

http://sextherapyhawaii.com

https://www.instagram.com/drjanetbrito

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EP109 - Healing from Sexual Assault Feb 05, 2019

Welcome to episode 109 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Shannon McHenry, LMFT to the podcast. In this conversation, Shannon speaks to me about working with trauma and sexual assault victims, the challenges that sexual assault victims have with their sexuality and how partners can support their loved ones through this process.

Shannon McHenry, LMFT is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty focus in childhood trauma, rape and battering, and PTSD. She is a trauma therapist in Los Angeles and works with clients in her offices in Los Feliz and Torrance.

Combining clinical experience with a passion to support women in repairing their relationships with themselves and others, she has supported many to create a long-lasting recovery from destructive behaviors. Call Shannon today to book your first appointment.

If you are struggling with recovery and would like to know more about Shannon’s services, contact her today for a free consultation.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Shannon became interested in working with trauma
The challenges that sexual assault victims have with their sexuality
Physiological responses from trauma survivors

Why victims of sexual might blame themselves and not seek the help they need
How the idea of revealing clothing being the root cause of sexual assaults undermines men’s sophistication and levels of control
The way in which alcohol and other substances can be used as an excuse for sexual assault
Understanding that consenting to one form of sexual interaction doesn’t by default also mean consenting sexual intercourse
What does sex look like for victims in the long term?

How partners can support their loved ones through this process

Resources

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EP108 - Toxic Shame Reduction & Removal Using a Sexological Approach Jan 29, 2019

Welcome to episode 108 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome back Dr. Patti Britton who speaks to me this time about toxic shame; why are there so many people struggling with this issue? The methods she uses to help overcome toxic shame and working towards sexual self-realization.

Dr. Patti Britton is a Clinical Sexologist, Sexuality Educator and the Pioneer of Sex Coaching with top level credentials. As a well-respected world leader in sexology, she is an academic, author of 5 books, popular speaker, trainer and workshop leader, and host of over 40 DVDs for couples’ sexual enhancement.

She is a frequent guest on expert summits, national television shows, documentaries, live talk and news radio, and is quoted in magazines, such as Cosmopolitan, Men’s Health, Women’s Health. She has a private practice in Los Angeles area and via Skype globally.

Dr. Patti is the Co-Founder of SexCoachU - the world’s premier credentialing and training organization for sex coaching with students in 65 countries and live training events in Europe and USA. With her late partner, Robert Dunlap, she hosted ground-breaking weekly radio podcasts on happy aging, which are archived at https://theboomdoctors.com

In this episode, you will hear:

Why are so many people struggling with sexual shame?
How many people have leftover issues from childhood around this issue
Methods and ways Dr. Patti uses to help remove toxic shame

The importance of focusing on both the psychological and physiological aspects of sexual shame
How toxic shame is systemic and endemic
The benefits of SAR training - Sexual Attitude Reassessment and Restructuring
The stigma and shame that still surrounds alternative sexualities
Working towards sexual self-realization

Resources

https://sexcoachu.com

https://dppattibritton.com

Episode 14 with Dr. Patti - http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2017/04/11/sexual-empowerment-with-dr-patti-britton/

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Hooked on Porn? Jan 22, 2019

Welcome to episode 107 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am very excited to have returning to the podcast Wendy Maltz, LCSW, DST. Wendy was my guest on episode 35 and joins me again to speak to me about porn addiction, the consequences of using porn compulsively, how mindfulness and yoga can help with recovery and sexually reconnecting with your partner after porn addiction.

Wendy Maltz, LCSW, DST, is an internationally recognized sex therapist, author, and speaker, with more than thirty-five years of experience treating sex and intimacy concerns. She is the coauthor, with her husband Larry Maltz of The Porn Trap: The Essential Guide to Overcoming Problems Caused by Pornography. Wendy is also author of the recovery classic The Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse, coauthor of Private Thoughts: Exploring the Power of Women’s Sexual Fantasies, and the editor of two poetry anthologies that celebrate healthy sexual intimacy. Wendy’s popular educational website, www.HealthySex.com, provides free articles, podcast interviews, posters, videos, and more to help people overcome sexual problems and develop skills for love-based sexual intimacy. 

In this episode, you will hear:

Is porn usage problematic?
The consequences of using porn compulsively
How we weren’t ready as a society for the amount of porn the internet provided
How between 8-15% of people who use porn will go on to develop a problem with it

Steps that can be taken to deal with unhealthy porn use
Recovering from porn addiction
Hearing how a listener’s husband went through the process of recovery
Ongoing side effects; E.G - Not being able to have sex without images of porn
How mindfulness and yoga can help with recovery
Sexually reconnecting with your partner after porn addiction

Resources

http://www.HealthySex.com

https://www.amazon.com/Porn-Trap-Essential-Overcoming-Pornography/dp/0061231878

https://www.amazon.com/The-Sexual-Healing-Journey-Survivors/dp/0062130730

https://www.amazon.com/Private-Thoughts-Exploring-Womens-Fantasies-ebook/dp/B00A8SKN6K

Episode 35 - http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2017/09/05/healing-from-sexual-assault-with-wendy-maltz-lcsw/

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EP106 - Sexbots: Creepy or Healthy? Jan 15, 2019

Welcome to episode 106 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be talking with Dr. Holly Richmond who speaks to me about she became interested in sex tech, developments happening with teledildonic and the pros and cons of using sexbots.

Dr. Holly Richmond is a Somatic Psychologist, Certified Sex Therapist (CST), and Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT). She is one of North America’s leading sex therapists serving Hollywood’s elite as well as prominent corporate clientele, nationally and internationally. With offices in New York, Los Angeles and Portland, Dr. Holly is a trusted authority on sexual health issues with a significant media following.

She is regularly quoted in publications and media outlets including The New York Times, CNN, Shape, NBC, Wired, Forbes, Health, Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, and Women’s Health. She is a sought-after consultant in the sex tech industry and is seen as a pioneer in bridging the gap between sexual health and entertainment. Dr. Holly’s ‘Next-Sex’ platform and forthcoming book reflect her keen interest in the exploration of sex and technology, and how they work together as human sexuality evolves in the 21st century.

A little reflection….

Why is sextech so exciting right now? This is our first step into somatic (body-based) technology. We are moving from something we hold to something we wear—the technology, and thus our sexuality, is more a piece of us than ever. Immersive technologies like VR, AR, MR, teledildonics and intimate companions facilitate experiential knowledge and connection through kinesthetic learning and eye contact that engenders competency, agency and mastery. People can try things with immersive technologies they may not try IRL. I believe my job, maybe even my mission, is to communicate to any industry that is interested in relationships, sex and intimate connection that they can’t miss this opportunity for enormous change and positive influence. How we connect intimately and sexually with others as well as ourselves will be dramatically different in five years, and astonishing, almost certainly mind-blowing in 20.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Dr. Holly became interested in sex tech

Developments happening with teledildonic
Using sexbots as part of sexual health treatment
The pros and cons of using sexbots
Understanding that sexbots are an addition and not replacement to your sex life
How can we use healthy eroticism in our sex lives?

Ways in which defects can affect couples’ agreements and relationships
Best places to start when researching into using teledildonic

Resources

http://drhollyrichmond.com

http://www.next-sex.com

https://venturebeat.com/2018/06/02/10-ambitious-predictions-for-how-vr-ar-will-shape-our-world/

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EP105 -Transformative Power of Sensate Focus Jan 08, 2019

Welcome to episode 105 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be talking with Linda Weiner, MSW, LCSW who speaks to me about sensate focus in sex therapy, what sensate focus entails and how sensate focus touch can also help with pain.

Linda Weiner, MSW, LCSW, is co-director of the Institute for Sexual & Relationship Therapy & Training with Dr. Constance Avery Clark.Linda is a speaker, writer, adjunct professor at the Brown School, Washington University in St. Louis, and was formerly a research and clinical associate at Masters & Johnson Institute.

Linda Weiner is a diplomate in clinical social work, a certified diplomate in sexology (American Board of Sexology) and is certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists as a sex therapist, supervisor, and CE provider.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Linda became interested in the specific techniques of sensate focus in sex therapy
What sensate focus entails
How modern busy lives have made it unrealistic to achieve sexual satisfaction
The way in which mindfulness relates to this issue
How sensate focus touch can also help with pain

Modifications and ways, you can practice sensate focus on your own
Understanding that sensate focus is not a prelude to sex

Resources

Sensate Focus in Sex Therapy: An Illustrated Manual

sextherapiststlouis@gmail.com

www.sextherapiststlouis.com

www.ISRTT.org

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Sex Resolutions for The New Year Jan 01, 2019

In this episode of Sexology, Dr. Nazanin Moali talks about the importance of setting up sex resolutions, why people’s resolutions’ fail and what are some of the best ways to transform your sex life according to the latest research.

In this episode, you will hear:

The barriers on improving your sexual life
The importance of length and type of foreplay for experiencing a mind blowing sex
How mindfulness and yoga can aid your libido
Relationships between sexual function and sleep
Three tips on tracking and improving your sleep
The first step you need to take if you want to incorporate mindfulness in your daily routine

References:

https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/jsm.12483

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/30097137

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0006899311014302

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0005796714000497

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15497058

Resources

https://mindwell.healthy.ucla.edu/resources/sleep-well/

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Ep 103- Decoding Female Sexual Desire with Dr. Laurie Betito Dec 25, 2018

Welcome to episode 103 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I am delighted to be talking with Dr. Laurie Betito about female sexual desires. In this episode, we discuss factors that may lead a woman to lose her sexual desire and the steps she must take to improve her intimate relationships.

Dr. Laurie is a clinical psychologist with a specialty in sex therapy, and has been a practicing psychotherapist for close to 30 years. For the last 27 years she has been doing radio and television, dispensing sex and relationship advice. She is a regular contributor to various magazines, newspapers and television shows. She is the host of a nightly Canadian syndicated call in show called Passion, where she discusses issues related to sexuality with her listeners.
Dr. Laurie is also President of the Sexual Health Network of Quebec and Past President of the Canadian Sex Research Forum.

Dr. Laurie is the author of The Sex Bible for People Over 50. She is also the Director of the Pornhub Sexual Wellness Center, an online sexual health information platform.

Dr. Laurie has also done two TEDx talks on the subject of sexuality

In this episode, you will hear:

Common myths of female sexual desire
What causes some women to lose interest in sex?
Differences in men and women when it comes to sexual desire?
Human response cycle and new research on responsive model of desire
Approaches in cultivating sexual desires
Why some women fake orgasms?

Resources

www.drlaurie.com

www.cjad.com

https://youtu.be/lnigGtrwAfs

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EP102 - 5 Tips To Boost Sexual Confidence Dec 18, 2018

Welcome to episode 102 of the Sexology Podcast, today is a solo episode where I’m going to give five tips to boost your sexual confidence.

In this episode, you will hear:

Ways to improve yourself image and be comfortable with your own body
Modifying your definition of great sex
Improving your sexual techniques and practices
Understanding the need for your own pleasure and knowing it’s ok to masturbate

The important of exercise in relation to sex

Resources

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EP101 - When Sex Hurts by Dr. Holly Herman Dec 11, 2018

Welcome to episode 101 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be talking with Dr. Holly Herman who speaks to me about common causes of sexual pain for women, the extensive role physical therapists have for sexual issues and exercises women can do to help prevent injuries.

Dr. Hollis Herman (Holly) has been a physical therapist for 43 years. Her passion is musculoskeletal function and dysfunction in Functional Health in the LGBT community and is Board Certified as an Orthopedic, Women’s Health, Biofeedback Specialist. Holly is an AASECT certified Sexuality Counselor and an ISSWSH Sexuality Fellow. She has pioneered physical therapy evaluation and treatment of problems that involve urologic, colorectal, obstetric, gynecologic, reproductive and sexual medicine.

She maintains a vibrant private practice, HealthyWomen HealthyMen HealthyPeople, in Cambridge, MA, seeing patients in addition to training thousands of health professionals in these areas of health worldwide.

Holly has authored numerous books, book chapters and peer reviewed articles. She has received many grants and awards for her dedication and clinical excellence in physical therapy. Holly co-founded the Herman & Wallace Pelvic Rehabilitation Institute in 2005, though, no longer affiliated. Holly believes all patients deserve the right to be heard, validated, understood and educated in their specific musculoskeletal condition to live a healthy functionally active life.

In this episode, you will hear:

Common causes of sexual pain for women
Knowing when you need to seek medical attention for sexual issues
The extensive role physical therapists have for sexual issues
The course of treatment and services people can expect from a physical therapist
How long treatments usually last
Exercises women can do to help prevent injuries
Where to find a physical therapist right for you

Resources

https://hollyherman.com

https://facebook.com/HWHMeducation

http://www.apta.org

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EP100 - How a Man Can Become the Bedroom’s Rockstar! Dec 04, 2018

Welcome to episode 100 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome back our very first guest of the podcast; Dr. Albert Wong who speaks to me this time about the challenge’s men face with their skills, feelings and relationships in the bedroom, how intimacy can be sexually arousing and steps that can be taken to help with these internal struggles.

Dr. Albert Wong is an Associate Professor and Core Faculty in the Holistic Counseling Psychology Program at JFK University. A former Marshall Scholar, he has longstanding interests in the intersection of performance art, somatics, psychotherapy, and scalable technology.

He served as residential staff at the Esalen Institute for five years. He has been featured on PBS, in Time Magazine, and in the book The American Soul Rush.

His work has been published in titles ranging from the scientific journal Biological Cybernetics to the book anthology Radical Spirit. One of his film projects, Step One Breathe, was named Best Drama at the Maryville Film Festival. He was educated at Princeton, Oxford, and the University of Tennessee and is the recipient of numerous national science awards (Westinghouse Science Talent Scholarship, Goldwater Scholarship).

In this episode, you will hear:

The challenges men face with their skills, feelings and relationships in the bedroom
How sexual performance anxiety and feelings of not being enough are very prevalent with men
Understanding, knowing and having an intuition for you and your partner's desires
How intimacy can be sexually arousing
Working with and overcoming traumatic experiences
Understanding people have many different sexual templates
Steps that can be taken to help with these internal struggles

Resources

http://www.dralbertwong.com

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EP99 - Sex & Recreational Drug Use Nov 27, 2018

Welcome to episode 99 of the Sexology Podcast, today is a solo episode where I’m going to talk about the relationship between sex and recreational drugs: alcohol, cannabis, cocaine, MDMA, amphetamines and hallucinogens.

In this episode, you will hear:

The way in which alcohol affects your sexual experience
How aggressive tendencies can be amplified when having sex under the influence of alcohol
How alcohol and cannabis affect sex in very different ways
How some women struggle to concentrate during sex after taking cannabis
The way in which cocaine has a chronic prolonged effect
Reports that suggest many people reach orgasm when coming down from MDMA
The mixed responses people have reported from sex whilst taking amphetamines
How hallucinogens have been known to help with sexual fantasies

Resources

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Parsons, J. T., Vicioso, K. J., Punzalan, J. C., Halkitis, P. N., Kutnick, A., & Velasquez, M. M. (2004). The impact of alcohol use on the sexual scripts of HIV-positive men who have sex with men. Journal of Sex Research, 41, 160–172

Hingson, R. W., Zha, W., & Weitzman, E. R. (2009). Magnitude of and trends in alcohol-related mortality and morbidity among U.S. college students ages 18–24, 1998–2005. Journal of Studies on Alcohol and Drugs, s16, 12–20.

Kerr, D. C., Washburn, I. J., Morris, M. K., Lewis, K. A., & Tiberio, S. S. (2015). Event-level associations of marijuana and heavy alcohol use with intercourse and condom use. Journal of Studies on Alcohol and Drugs, 76, 733–737.

Parsons, J. T., Vicioso, K. J., Punzalan, J. C., Halkitis, P. N., Kutnick, A., & Velasquez, M. M. (2004). The impact of alcohol use on the sexual scripts of HIV-positive men who have sex with men. Journal of Sex Research, 41, 160–172.

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EP98 - Surviving Infidelity (Tips for the Offender) Nov 20, 2018

Welcome to episode 98 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m delighted to be joined by Beth Luwandi Lofstrom who speaks to me about surviving infidelity as the offender, the process of disclosure and how that impacts the partner and recommendations for offenders to get themselves unstuck.

Beth Luwandi Lofstrom is a Licensed Professional Counselor in private practice in Cincinnati, Ohio where her specialty areas are love and loss. She treats couples and individuals healing from infidelity and other relationship wounds. Her Whole Human Theory(TM), an approach based on brain science and methods research, also includes personality assessment to effectively confront variations in individual motivation, processing, communication, and inner world. In this way, Whole Human Theory presents an approach that gets to the core of issues in a highly efficient manner and moves people forward as quickly as possible.

Her book, After the Affair, Healing for the Offender uses this unique perspective to treat infidelity from the inside out with a focus on the offender's healing. While most texts unapologetically side with the betrayed partner or give minimal empathy or time to the offender, Ms. Luwandi acknowledges and presents a road map for anyone who has ever strayed and is feeling the effects of their choices.

In this episode, you will hear:

Why Beth decided to focus on the experience of the offender
The unhelpful patterns that get offenders stuck
The process of disclosure and how that impacts the partner
Why Beth doesn’t ask clients to break off their affairs whilst working with them
How some people use affairs to get out of a relationship

How much disclosure is useful around the information of sex?
Recommendations for offenders to get themselves unstuck

Resources

http://bethluwandi.com

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http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2017/09/26/rebuilding-sexual-intimacy-after-sexual-betrayal/

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EP97 - Sexual Fantasies with Dr. Justin Lehmiller Nov 13, 2018

Welcome to episode 97 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m delighted to be joined by Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller who talks to us about sexual fantasies, the influence culture has in this area and understanding the difference between sexual fantasy and sexual desire.

Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller received his Ph.D. in Social Psychology from Purdue University. He is a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of the book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years. He is also a prolific researcher and scholar who has published more than 40 pieces of academic writing to date, including a textbook entitled The Psychology of Human Sexuality (now in its second edition) that is used in college classrooms around the world. Dr. Lehmiller's research focuses on topics including casual sex, sexual fantasy, sexual health, and friends with benefits. His studies have appeared in all of the leading journals on human sexuality, including the Journal of Sex Research, Archives of Sexual Behavior, and The Journal of Sexual Medicine.

Dr. Lehmiller has run the popular blog Sex and Psychology since 2011, and it now receives several million page views per year. He has been interviewed by numerous media outlets, including The Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, The Chicago Tribune, The Boston Globe, CNN.com, The Atlantic, The Globe and Mail, and The Sunday Times. He has been named one of 5 "Sexperts" You Need to Follow on Twitter by Men's Health and one of the "modern-day masters of sex" by Nerve. Dr. Lehmiller has appeared on several episodes of the television program Taboo on the National Geographic Channel and has been a guest on numerous podcast and radio shows, including the Savage Lovecast and the NPR programs Radio Times and Airtalk. He is a popular freelance writer, penning columns and op-eds for major publications, including Playboy, USA Today, VICE, Psychology Today, Politico, and New York Magazine. In addition, the articles he writes on Sex and Psychology have been syndicated on major websites, including Business Insider, Huffington Post, Men's Health, and Thought Catalog.

In this episode, you will hear:

Findings about sexual fantasies Justin’s found from a recent survey
The similar sexual themes that emerged across various age groups
The influence culture has on sexual fantasy
How political leanings can influence sexual fantasy
Understanding the difference between sexual fantasy and sexual desire

Creating emotional safety around fantasies
Learning to communicate with your partner to please each other’s fantasies

Resources

https://sexandpsychology.com

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EP96 - Overcoming Sexual Performance Anxiety Nov 06, 2018

Welcome to episode 96 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m delighted to be joined by Melissa Novak who speaks to us about the underlying issues around sexual performance anxiety, the way in which our western culture exacerbates this issue and learning to be honest with your partner about your sexual desires and needs.

Melissa Novak a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) and Certified Sex Therapist, specializing in the treatment of sexual dysfunction, personality disorders as well as depression and anxiety-related disorders. She specializes in working with adults, and couples on a variety of issues such as sexual dysfunction, depression, anxiety, OCD, and PTSD. Melissa has a particular interest in working with those struggling with sexual dysfunction and those concerned about some aspect of their sexual behavior.

In addition to providing individual therapy, Melissa serves as an educator and supervisor within the Chicagoland community and currently teaches as an adjunct professor at the University of Chicago School of Social Service Administration. She serves as Secretary for the Board of Directors of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT).

In this episode, you will hear:

The underlying issues around sexual performance anxiety such as self-doubt
How many people are using uncertified online resources to try and overcome this issue
The way in which our western culture exacerbates this issue
How there is too much pressure on penis size to be the only source of pleasure
How rejection can play a big role around this issue
Learning to be honest with your partner about your sexual desires and needs
What treatment looks like for sexual performance anxiety

Resources

http://www.mntherapies.com

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EP95 - E is for Erotica Oct 30, 2018

Welcome to episode 95 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m delighted to be joined by Jordan Rawlins and F.C Brandt who speak to me about their new book E Is For Erotica, the exploration of open and non-monogamous relationships and how our relationships are continually evolving.

Jordan Rawlins is a Southern California native who made a living as a poker player, stuntman, actor and trained as a magician, before finding his place as a writer. His children's movie, “Rescue Dogs,” opened in theaters nationwide in 2016. He was a semi-finalist for the 2018 Academy Nicholl Fellowship. On the digital front, he has worked with Maker Studios and Defy Studios on various projects. In 2018 he worked with WBTV and Amore and Vita on a new half-hour series. A playwright, his stage plays have been seen in theaters across America and in London. He has numerous projects for the big and small screen in various stages of development. He is the author of the novel "Monsters of the Apocalypse" and the comedy Alphabet book, "E is for Erotica." His free time is spent fly-fishing, volunteering with his favorite charities, and getting yelled at by two demanding cats.

F.C Brandt is a storyboard artist, documentary filmmaker, and a cartoonist. He’s responsible for the comic book documentary Comic Book Independents, has been a storyboard artist for commercials and feature films and has been working on his own personal project A Hero A Day for the past several years. He recently launched his new book with his friend Jordan Rawlins, E is for Erotica. E is for Erotica is a Dr. Seuss like book for grown-ups that explores all aspects of sexuality using the alphabet as its guide.

In this episode, you will hear:

Why they made the book E is For Erotica
The reasoning and thinking for not including gay terminology in the book
How they made a conscious effort to represent a diverse mix of people
The exploration of open and non-monogamous relationships
The issue of jealousy in monogamous relationships

The difficulty of communication with non-monogamous relationships
How our relationships are continually evolving

Resources

https://www.amazon.com/Erotica-Jordan-Rawlins/dp/0692132058

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EP94 – Swingers Oct 23, 2018

Welcome to episode 94 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m delighted to be joined by Chanta Blue who speaks to us about what the life of a swinger entails, why she became interested in working with this community and is the stigma attached to swingers changing?

Chanta Blue is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Certified Sex Therapist and co-owner of Blue Counseling & Wellness Center in Montclair, NJ. She holds a B.A. in Psychology from Spelman College, a Master’s degree in Social Work from Rutgers University, and a Master’s of Education in Human Sexuality from Widener University. Chanta’s aim is to empower girls and women of color to clarify and create the career, relationships, sexuality, and overall lifestyle they desire.

She specializes in issues related to anxiety, depression, self-esteem, body image and works with folks in various relationship styles including polyamory, swinging, kink, and traditional relationships.

In this episode, you will hear:

What does the swinger lifestyle entail?
How people find ways to connect with other swingers
Why Chanta became interested in working with this community
How Chanta’s research showed a lack of people of colour in the swinger’s community
Is swinging more popular for couples or singles?

Where swinging meets polyamory
The misconceptions around the swinger community
Is the stigma attached to swingers changing?

Resources

https://www.bluewellnesscenter.com

https://www.masakhanecenter.org

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EP93 - Finding Out Your Spouse Is Transgender Oct 16, 2018

Welcome to episode 93 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m delighted to be joined by Eva Smidova, M.A., PhDr., LMFT who speaks to me about common themes around coming out as transgender, the difference between gender identity and sexual identity and when is a good time to come out to your partner as transgender?

Eva Smidova, M.A., PhDr., LMFT is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Florida, Transgender Care Certified Therapist, Board Certified Hypnotherapist, Florida Department of Children and Family approved Parenting Care Provider. She holds EU earned degrees M.A. in Psychology and Law, and PhDr. in Clinical Psychology. She recently finished her PhD. in Family Therapy at Nova Southeastern University, Fort Lauderdale.

Eva was born in former Czechoslovakia so rebelling and craving for diversity and freedom are in her DNA. Eva worked in international business and got the opportunity to become familiar with many countries around the world. Before she moved to Florida, she became a resident in Austria. Eva has been single all her life, yet lived with one partner for almost 20 years. She has a 12-year-old daughter and 32-year-old kind of step-son. She considers herself for gender and sexually; fluid.

She is an expert on couples, marriage, intimacy, family systems, communication strategies and conflict resolutions, life guidance, gender, and sexual issues. She is a professional member of several national and international Family Therapy Associations, also organizations supporting and caring for LGBTQ population – PFLAG, GLSEN, World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH), and a professional member of American Association of Sexual Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT). She also regularly presents and publishes topics related to the field of family therapy and transgender care nationally and internationally.

In this episode, you will hear:

Common themes around coming out as transgender
The impact fear can have on the process of coming out
Do many couples continue their relationship after one comes out as transgender?

The difference between gender identity and sexual identity
Dealing with the dynamic changes that happen through this process
How couples have improved intimacy and sex through this process
When is a good time to come out to your partner as transgender?

Resources

http://www.psychotherapyswflorida.com

+123 924 742 31

dr.eva.smid@gmail.com

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EP92 - Who Should Fix Sexual Jealousy? Oct 09, 2018

Welcome to episode 92 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m delighted to welcome back Dr. Ari Tuckman who speaks to us about jealousy, the need for open and understanding communication around this issue and steps couples can do to help manage jealousy.

Dr. Ari Tuckman is a psychologist and Certified Sex Therapist based in West Chester, PA. He writes the Sex Matters blog on PsychologyToday.com.

He has given more than 350 presentations across America and in nine other countries.

He also specializes in diagnosing and treating ADHD and recently finished his fourth book, based on research he completed on the relationship and sexual satisfactions of couples where one partner has ADHD.

In this episode, you will hear:

Whose job is it to talk about and address jealousy?
The need for open and understanding communication when it comes to jealousy
Ways the offender of jealousy can reassure their partner

Behaviours to look out for when you might be feeling jealous
What couples can do to help overcome this issue
Steps to take to reduce vulnerability
How feelings of jealousy are normal and what we can do to manage these feelings
Understanding jealousy is a complex issue which can take time to navigate

Resources

https://tuckmanpsych.com

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sex-matters/201806/who-should-fix-jealousy

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EP91 - Somatic Sexual Healing Oct 02, 2018

Welcome to episode 91 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m delighted to be joined by Charlie Glickman PhD, who speaks to us about somatic sexual healing, the experiential practices he uses with his clients and sexual surrogacy; the misconceptions and reality of what actually happens.

Charlie Glickman PhD is a sex & relationship coach, a sexuality educator, a sexological bodyworker, and an internationally-acclaimed speaker. He’s been working in this field for over 25 years, and some of his areas of focus include sex & shame, sex-positivity, queer issues, masculinity & gender, communities of erotic affiliation, and many sexual & relationship practices.

Charlie is also the co-author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners.

Welcome to episode 91 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m delighted to be joined by Charlie Glickman PhD, who speaks to me about somatic sexual healing, the experiential practices he uses with his clients and sexual surrogacy; the misconceptions and reality of what actually happens.

Charlie Glickman PhD is a sex & relationship coach, a sexuality educator, a sexological bodyworker, and an internationally-acclaimed speaker. He’s been working in this field for over 25 years, and some of his areas of focus include sex & shame, sex-positivity, queer issues, masculinity & gender, communities of erotic affiliation, and many sexual & relationship practices.

Charlie is also the co-author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners.

In this episode, you will hear:

What is somatic sexual healing?

How Charlie integrates the sexological and somatical parts into his work

Sex and intimacy; what Charlie is passionate about in helping people to navigate this area

The experiential practices Charlie uses with his clients

Understanding and knowing the boundaries with clients during sessions

Sexual surrogacy; the misconceptions and reality of what actually happens

If you are experiencing strong emotions related to past or present trauma and you are looking for resources to get support, you can can visit RAINN’s online hotline (https://hotline.rainn.org/online/) or call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 800-656-4673.

In this episode, you will hear:

What is somatic sexual healing?
How Charlie integrates the sexological and somatical parts into his work
Sex and intimacy; what Charlie is passionate about in helping people to navigate this area
The experiential practices Charlie uses with his clients
Understanding and knowing the boundaries with clients during sessions

Sexual surrogacy; the misconceptions and reality of what actually happens

Resources

http://charlieglickman.com

https://twitter.com/charlieglickman

https://www.facebook.com/charlie.glickman

http://www.makesexeasy.com

https://bettymartin.org

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EP90 - Age Play with Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb. Sep 25, 2018

Welcome to episode 90 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m delighted to be joined by Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb who speaks to me about what adult age play entails, how shame and embarrassment surround this issue and how a lack of nurturing at a young age could play into this issue.

Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb has been counseling individuals and couples in the area of human sexuality for over 25 years. She received her PhD in clinical sexology from the American Academy of Clinical Sexologists in Orlando, FL.

She is an AASECT certified sex therapist in private practice specializing in the alternative sexuality communities, such as open relationships, ABDL, GLBT, BDSM, kink and fetishes. She wrote her doctoral dissertation on the mental health experience of ABDL individuals, specializes in therapy for this community and speaks on the subject to help promote better understanding for individuals and their families.

Her approach to therapy is helping people to understand, accept and appreciate their sexuality with all the wonderful unique flavors that come with it. Shame, embarrassment, guilt and fear are poisonous to healthy sexual expression so letting go of old, irrational and impractical belief patterns can pave the way for a new and exciting beginning.

Her recent book, No More Hiding: Permission to Love your Sexual Self, is a guide for those seeking help with alternative sexuality such as BDSM, Kinks, fetishes and open relationships.

In this episode, you will hear:

What does adult age play entail?

How shame and embarrassment surround this issue
Understanding how and why the diaper fetish develops
Knowing when will be best to approach your partner about this
The different variations on how this manifests sexually
How kink and BDSM behaviours can be connected

How a lack of nurturing at a young age could play into this issue

Resources

www.drrhoda.com

dr.rhoda@yahoo.com

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EP89 – Understanding Low Libido Sep 18, 2018

Welcome to episode 89 of the Sexology Podcast, today we talk about the issue of low desire and the steps you can take to improve your sex life even if you have low desire.

In this episode, you will hear:

The common factors that contribute to low libido
Understanding whether your issue is more psychological or physiological
How relationship issues affect low desire
Understanding that sex is not perfect and that it’s ok not to be on your A-game every time you have sex
Learning to create an erotic environment
Communicating these issues as a couple and learning how to help each other

Resources

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EP88 - Sex & Alzheimer's Disease with Dr. Steve Bodansky Sep 11, 2018

Welcome to episode 88 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m delighted to welcome back Steve Bodansky (he was a guest on episode 59) to the podcast, this time Steve speaks to me about his new book Love and Alzheimer’s, the changes that Steve and his wife Vera went through after she was diagnosed with Alzheimer's and recommendation’s for couples struggling to deal with Alzheimer’s.

Steve Bodansky together with his wife Vera have been teachers of Sensuality for the past 35 years. They met in 1980 and were married in 1983. Steve received a Master’s in Molecular Biology at SUNY at Albany in 1979 and a Doctorate at More University in Sensuality in 1992 with an emphasis on female orgasm. He first studied and then taught at More U. thru 1992. Vera started doing one-hour orgasms demonstrations in 1980 and also received her doctorate in Sensual studies in 1992.

Steve became certified to do these demonstrations in 1987. They developed another orgasm school in 1992 after leaving Morehouse called The Welcomed Consensus where they taught for 5 years and certified 5 new students into becoming teachers and demonstrators of orgasm.

For the past 22 years they have been coaching students as a couple and started writing books about optimum sensual pleasure. They have trained many people over the past 30 years with courses and personal training and continue to do so. A number of their former students have become sensual facilitators themselves.

In this episode, you will hear:

The changes that Steve and Vera went through after she was diagnosed with Alzheimer's
How Vera has maintained her sexuality through this process
The dynamic changes that have happened to the relationship after the Alzheimer’s diagnostic

How writing his new book Love and Alzheimer’s helped Steve through the changes
The ways in which Steve and Vera have strengthened their connection despite the ongoing challenges
Recommendation’s for couples struggling to deal with Alzheimer’s

Resources

stevebodansky@gmail.com

http://www.orgasmmatters.com

https://www.amazon.com/Love-Alzheimers-Steve-Bodansky/dp/1546560823

http://www.emotionsinharmony.com

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EP87 - Sexuality and Self Image with Sonalee Rashatwar Sep 04, 2018

Welcome to episode 87 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m joined by Sonalee Rashatwar who talks to us about the concept of sexual colonization and what it means, the ways in which sexuality and low desire can be affected by the societal demands of needing to have “the perfect body” and what we can do to create more body inclusive sex education.

Sonalee Rashatwar (she/they), MSW, LCSW, MEd is an award-winning social worker, sex therapist, adjunct lecturer, and grassroots organizer. Based in Philly, she is a fat queer nonbinary therapist working as a sexual violence crisis counselor, specializing in treating sexual trauma, body image issues, racial or immigrant identity issues, and South Asian family systems, while offering fat and body positive sexual healthcare.

Popularly known as TheFatSexTherapist on Instagram, their fame hit an all time high when they were featured on Breitbart in March 2018 for naming thinness as a white supremacist beauty ideal. Sonalee is a sought-after speaker who travels nationally to curate custom visual workshops that whisper to our changemaking spirit and nourish our vision for a more just future.

Sonalee is not paid for her labor as a community organizer, where she has fundraised and facilitated a free 5-day political action summer camp for LGBT+ South Asian and Indo Caribbean youth. Sonalee received their Master of Social Work and Master of Education in Human Sexuality from Widener University in 2016 and have been working in the field of anti-violence for 7+ years.

In this episode, you will hear:

The concept of sexual colonization and what it means

How many different voices and people of different backgrounds haven’t been represented in research

The ways in which sexuality and low desire can be affected by the societal demands of needing to have “the perfect body”

How many people are mis-informed around these issues and what we think should help people, often makes things worse

Recommendations for changing your internal dialogue

What we can do to create more body inclusive sex education

Understanding and knowing your biases around diet culture

Resources

https://www.sonaleer.com

https://www.instagram.com/thefatsextherapist

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EP86 –Is it Ok to masturbate in a relationship? Aug 28, 2018

Welcome to episode 86 of the Sexology Podcast, today we talk about a listener’s email around the subject of masturbation and why her husband still feels the need to masturbate whilst in a marriage.

In this episode, you will hear:

How wanting to have separate fantasies away from the relationship can lead to more masturbation
The stigma around this issue, studies have shown very few women know their partners masturbate frequently
Why sexual boredom can increase masturbation frequency
How masturbation can be used as a self-regulator for relief

Understanding that this is a very common issue, but there is currently limited studies and data to know more
Steps that can be taken to address this issue

Resources

http://www.sexologypodcast.com

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/0092623X.2014.958790

https://site.themarriagebed.com/sexuality/masturbation/solo-masturbation-in-marriage/

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EP85 - BDSM play with Midori Aug 21, 2018

Welcome to episode 85 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, we are joined by Midori who talks to us about how she began her journey into sex education, learning to add new elements to your sex life gradually and recommendations to express power exchanges in the bedroom.

Midori is a renowned sexuality educator, author, and artist based in San Francisco. She emerged from the Sex Positive Movement in San Francisco in the early 1990’s, soon becoming a much sought-after international presenter on sexuality, personal fulfilment, and kinky adventures.

Her reputation as an authority and leading expert on alternative pleasures stem not only from her unique and entertaining process of teaching concrete skills but in her ability to deconstruct and distil complex matters of desire into surprisingly accessible lessons with eloquence and humanity. She’s known for tackling challenging topics with fresh and relevant insights. She calls this her “head-heart-hands” method to create a space where people are allowed individual self-exploration. Fundamentally she is motivated by helping people to create authentic and intimate relationships while emphasizing self-actualization, shame reduction, acceptance, and justice. Native of Tokyo, Japan, she brings a unique perspective to creative self-expression, pleasure and authentic living.

Her writing is extensive, ranging from numerous articles, columns, works of fiction, to instructional books. She is the author of " The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage", the first English language book on Shibari. She also wrote hot instructional essays in "Wild Side Sex", and the darkly erotic science fiction, "Master Han's Daughter".

She leads transformative small group intensives, including Rope Dojo ®, ForteFemme: Women’s Dominance Weekend Intensive and Passionate Bonds: Creating Effective D/s Protocol. When she's not traveling and teaching, she's creating provocative and haunting art and performances.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Madori began her journey into sex education
Why bondage isn’t necessarily a form of art
The need to enjoy your sex life and live in the moment of it
The way in which movies, books and other forms of media can warp our view of the reality of sex
Learning to add new elements to your sex life gradually
Stripping away the stigma and falsehood that the majority of people don’t practice BDSM
Understanding the pain aspect of BDSM
Recommendations to express power exchanges in the bedroom

Resources

https://fhp-inc.com

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EP84 - Sexuality in Military Aug 14, 2018

Welcome to episode 84 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m joined by Timothy Wienecke who talks to us about the way in which masculine identity gets tied into military service, how masculinity can manifest in positive and negative ways and the importance for veterans to work with their partners to overcome these issues. Timothy Wienecke has spent the last decade training and educating in a variety of settings on a broad range of topics. He got started as a primary trainer for various technical positions as a Signals Analyst working with the NSA. That is where he realized he enjoys giving people the skills and knowledge they need to be effective in the places that are important to them. Timothy's command noticed his passion and tapped him for a more delicate and difficult task to be a primary trainer for the Air Force’s Bystander Intervention program. There he spent the next three years training over 3000 Airmen how to notice and engage effectively to stop harassment and sexual assault before it happens. In recognition of his efforts, Timothy earned many accolades, ranging from Airman of the Quarter to Early Promotion and an Air Force Achievement Medal for impact. The enjoyment of these tasks is what led him to leave the Air Force and enter the mental health and advocacy fields full time. After leaving the military, Timothy became employed as a peer educator for the Auraria Campus and the facilitator to launch Colorado University at Denver’s Peer Advocates for Veteran Education program. He took the skills gained in the military and learned how to connect with traditional college students, university staff, and the business community. Timothy taught and developed curriculum for time management, communication skills, gender dynamics, bystander intervention, cross-cultural communication, military culture, and many other topics over his three years in those positions. Again, people took note of Timothy's passion, skill, and effort; naming him the Feminist Ally of the Year, awarded a Life Time Achievement Award by the Phoenix Center at Auraria, and he left campus as the Outstanding Graduate of the CU Counseling program. Since leaving the Auraria campus, Timothy has jumped into the greater Denver community to continue empowering people with the skills, knowledge, and drive to move themselves and their organizations toward their goals. He has trained Fire Fighters how to maintain focus and cope with the trauma they see in the world, taught clinicians the knowledge needed to serve men and the veteran community, and helped corporate employees focus in and communicate to complete their goals as a team. In this episode, you will hear:

The way in which masculine identity gets tied into military service
How masculinity can manifest in positive and negative ways
The difference between the way civilians and people in the military experience trauma and sexual abuse
The differences males and females experience sexual abuse and trauma
How men can be more vulnerable when it comes to sexual abuse and trauma
The importance for veterans to work with their partners to overcome these issues

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EP83 - Healthy sex in Recovery with Alexandra Kathehakis, Ph.D. Aug 07, 2018

Welcome to episode 83 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m joined by Alexandra Katehakis, Ph.D., L.M.F.T. who talks to us about the common misconceptions about intimacy after recovery, the difference between healthy sex and addictive sex and incorporating your values into your sexuality.

Alexandra Katehakis, Ph.D., L.M.F.T. is Founder and Clinical Director of the Center for Healthy Sex in Los Angeles, Senior Fellow at The Meadows, faculty for the International Institute of Trauma and Addiction Professionals, and the recipient of the 2018 IITAP Leadership and 2012 Carnes Award. She is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist/Supervisor and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist/Supervisor specializing in the treatment of sexual addiction and other sexual disorders.

Dr. Katehakis is author of Sexual Reflections: A Workbook for Designing and Celebrating Your Sexual Health Plan (2018), Sex Addiction As Affect Dysregulation: A Neurobiologically Informed Holistic Treatment (2016), co-author of the 2015 AASECT award-winning Mirror of Intimacy: Daily Reflections on Emotional and Erotic Intelligence (2104), contributing author to the Clark Vincent award-winning Making Advances: A Comprehensive Guide for Treating Female Sex and Love Addicts, in M. Feree (Ed.) (2012), and author of Erotic Intelligence: Igniting Hot Healthy Sex After Recovery From Sex Addiction (2010).

In this episode, you will hear:

The common misconceptions about intimacy after recovery
Why Alexandra encourages people to explore their sexuality after recovery
The difference between healthy sex and addictive sex
How sex addiction is often a re-enactment of trauma
Incorporating your values into your sexuality

Understanding your sexual template
How Alexandra helps people create a sexual health plan
Creating a sexual framework that both partners can be happy with
Understanding the connection between your body and mind through recovery

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Resources

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EP82 - Coming Out As Transgender Jul 31, 2018

Welcome to episode 82 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m joined by Christine Macinnis who speaks to me about she became interested in working with transgender people, the best ways and practices we can all support transgender people and the issues they face when coming out.

Due to over 20 years working in local schools as a school counselor, Christine brings a unique perspective to her work in private practice. She loves assisting the adolescent through the trials of depression, anxiety, school and learning issues, gender and sexual identity confusion, and the adjustment to college and launching from their family.

In addition to her work with teenagers, Christine has a passion for the challenges and celebration of sexual and gender identity for all age groups. As a Certified LGBT-Affirmative Psychotherapy Provider, she has supported several transgender clients and families as they progress through the process of transition and acceptance. In terms of support outside of our sessions, Christine can be a strong educational advocate for her client's needs and is well versed in the IEP/504 plan process to support students academically. She is also an expert in college and career planning for teens.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Christine became interested in working with transgender people
The way in which transgender people experience an additional layer of stigma
How therapist’s biases can play into people’s processes of sexual orientation

Supporting parents in understanding difference between their child being curious or aligning with gender identity
The best ways and practices we can all support transgender people
How unfortunately transgender people have the highest rates of suicide and self-medication
The issues transgender people face when coming out
The need to question and overcome societal biases against transgender people

Resources

Phone – 1310 683 9047

Email – macinnis.christine@gmail.com

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EP81 - What Happens in a Sex Therapy Session? Jul 24, 2018

Welcome to episode 81 of the Sexology Podcast, today is a solo episode where I’m going to share some personal and revealing stories about my own experience with sex therapists.

In this episode, you will hear:

How difficulties with sex affected a previous relationship
The ways in which this led to seeking out sex therapy
The difference between sex therapy, sex educator, sex surrogate and sex coaches
How our educational systems lack good information on sex

The need for patients to understand what it is they want to work on
Understanding what can get in the way psychologically to stop you experiencing pleasure
How it’s ok to receive sex therapy as a couple or on your own
Knowing how to choose the right sex therapist for you

Resources

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EP80 - Fidelity Agreement & Sex Tech with Dr. Ari Tuckman Jul 17, 2018

Welcome to episode 81 of the Sexology Podcast, I’m delighted to welcome back Dr. Ari Tuckman who joined me on episode 79. In this episode, we talk about the fidelity agreement, how technology is changing our fidelity agreement and what gets in the way of having these conversations?

Dr. Ari Tuckman is a psychologist and Certified Sex Therapist based in West Chester, PA. He writes the Sex Matters blog on PsychologyToday.com.

He has given more than 350 presentations across America and in nine other countries.

He also specializes in diagnosing and treating ADHD and recently finished his fourth book, based on research he completed on the relationship and sexual satisfactions of couples where one partner has ADHD.

In this episode, you will hear:

What is a fidelity agreement?
How what is considered cheating for some couples, isn’t for others
The need for independence on your thoughts and desires

How is technology evolving our fidelity agreement?
Making a sustainable agreement between you and your partner about what is and isn’t ok
Understanding that sexual desires change and evolve over time
What gets in the way of having these conversations?

Resources

https://tuckmanpsych.com

https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/sex-matters

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EP79 - Teledildonics with Dr. Ari Tuckman Jul 10, 2018

Welcome to episode 79 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Dr. Ari Tuckman who talks to us about Teledildonics, the common ways people use this technology and what the future will hold as this technology continues to grow.

Dr. Ari Tuckman is a psychologist and Certified Sex Therapist based in West Chester, PA. He writes the Sex Matters blog on PsychologyToday.com.

He has given more than 350 presentations across America and in nine other countries.

He also specializes in diagnosing and treating ADHD and recently finished his fourth book, based on research he completed on the relationship and sexual satisfactions of couples where one partner has ADHD.

In this episode, you will hear:

What does Teledildonic mean?
The huge variety of technology for remote sex where tactile sensations that’s now available
How Teledildonics could help prevent cheating

The common ways people use this technology
Ways in which to incorporate Teledildonic to increase novelty into your relationship
The off-shoot benefits Teledildonic can have
How Teledildonic can help increase intimacy in long distance relationships
The potential downsides of using this technology

The future of Teledildonics and what we can expect to see

Resources

https://tuckmanpsych.com

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EP78 - Pornography Addiction with Dr. Jennifer Weeks Jul 03, 2018

Welcome to episode 78 of the Sexology Podcast. Our guest today is Dr. Jennifer Weeks. In this episode, Dr. Weeks talks us about pornography addiction along with discussion on evidence-based treatments for out of control sexual behaviors. Also, we evaluate the differences between healthy and unhealthy reliance on pornography as a method for mood regulation.

Dr. Jennifer Weeks is the founder and director of Sexual Addiction Treatment Services, an out-patient treatment program for out of control sexual behavior. She has over twelve years experience treating all aspects of addiction, trauma and addiction, sexual addiction, and sex offenders. She is a Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist- Supervisor, Certified Advanced Alcohol and Drug Counselor, a Licensed Professional Counselor and has a Ph.D. in Psychology. Dr. Weeks is the author of the blog, Dr. Jen’s Recovery Readings as well as the prevention book, The New Age of Sex Education: How to Talk to Your Teen about Cybersex and Pornography in the Digital Age.

In addition to her clinical work, Dr. Weeks provides continuing education training for therapists and lectures at addiction conferences throughout the US.

In this episode, you will hear:

The differences between non-problematic viewing of pornography vs. pathological behavior
Criteria for pornography addiction
The prevalence of pornography addiction in general population
Media literacy for parents and how to talk to your teen about pornography
Cultivating sexual health after being diagnosed with pornography addiction

Resources:

https://www.sexualaddictiontreatmentservices

https://www.amazon.com/New-Age-Sex-Education-Pornography/dp/1483575209

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EP77 - How to Rock Your Honeymoon Sex Jun 26, 2018

Welcome to episode 77 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Marie-Claire Thauvette who talks to us about what inspired her to write the book "Honeymoon Playbook", why the book is helpful for couples who didn’t start off having good sex and learning to be open and communicative with your partner to allow for sexual improvements.

Marie-Claire Thauvette is a familiar face in the industry, and has been featured on many podcasts, summits, radio and television shows. Her new book “The Honeymoon Playbook” is a best seller in 3 categories, and with it has really helped new and not so new couples spice up their lives in and out of the bedroom.

She is also a successful entrepreneur, professional educator, and woman on a mission: to teach individuals and couples alike about the power of intimacy, sex and communication – and how to have FUN doing it. MC combines her over 30 years of teaching experience and her AASECT and ISEE Sexual Educator certifications to reignite passion in singles and couples.

Marie-Claire Thauvette not only helps couples, she has a lot of fun helping daters become expert kissers, masters in sexuality, and most importantly keeping her daters accountable to find quality soul mates.

In this episode, you will hear:

What inspired Marie to write her book
Why the book is helpful for couples who didn’t start off having good sex
Knowledge couples who haven’t had sex yet can find useful as they become sexual
Learning to overcome bad sexual experiences
The amount of disinformation there is about sex online
How you can improve your sexual skills with practice
The need for very specific feedback to improve your sex life
Learning to be open and communicative with your partner to allow for sexual improvements
Overcoming the issue of shame to become more communicative

Resources

www.relationshipbliss.ca

https://www.amazon.ca/Honeymoon-Playbook-scoring-romantic-honeymoon/dp/0995807000

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EP76 - How to Ask For What You Want in Bed! Jun 19, 2018

Welcome to episode 76 of the Sexology Podcast. Our guest today is Rebecca Wong, LCSW-R. Rebecca talks to us about why it is difficult to talk about sex with our partners, the need to spend time with our bodies and discover what feels good and how anxiety can affect performance in the bedroom.

Rebecca is a relationship therapist and consultant. She’s also the creator of Connectfulness, a research-based practice that encourages you to explore and embrace every aspect of your humanity – including everything that’s marvellous and all that’s messy.

Rebecca takes you on a deep dive into that middle place between the personal and the professional, between the places you explore in therapy and the work you do in coaching.

When you explore this fertile in-between space, you can make great things happen. When you truly see yourself, you create the ripple that allow you to be the change you wish to see in the world – and that invites everyone around you to do the same.

In this episode, you will hear:

Why it is difficult to talk about sex with our partners
The difficulty of escaping the narrow view of what is “normal” within sexuality
The need to spend time with our bodies and discover what feels good

Guidance points for talking about these issues with our partners
Learning to be supportive whilst being true to yourself
The power dynamics that exist within couples
How anxiety can affect performance in the bedroom
The dynamics of masculine and feminine energy

Resources

https://connectfulness.com

https://www.omgyes.com

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EP75 - Polyamory and Finding Love(s) Jun 12, 2018

Welcome to episode 75 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Sophie Lucido Johnson, who talks to us about her new book Many Love: A Memoir of Polyamory and Finding Love(s), what a polyamorous lifestyle looks like to her and the difference between polyamory and open relationships.

Sophie Lucido Johnson gets a lot of questions when she tells people that she’s polyamorous. Many Love is an intimate look at this often misunderstood practice: its history, its misconceptions, and Sophie’s personal transformation from serial monogamist to proud polyamorist.

After trying for years to emulate her boomer parents’ forty-year and still-going-strong marriage, Sophie realized that maybe the love she was looking for was down a road less travelled. In this bold, graphic memoir, she explores her sexuality, her values, and the versions of love our society accepts and practices. Along the way, she shares what it’s like to play on Tinder side-by-side with your boyfriend, encounter—and surmount—many types of jealousy, learn the power of female friendship, and other amazing things that happened when she stopped looking for “the one.”

In a lot of ways, Many Love is Sophie’s love letter to everyone she has ever cared for. Witty, insightful, and complete with illustrations, this debut provides a memorable glimpse into an unconventional life.

In this episode, you will hear:

What a polyamorous lifestyle looks like to Sophie
How Sophie emphasizes the relationship whilst being polyamorous
Why polyamory is a good fit for many people but not everyone

Understanding you’ll have to deal with the issue of jealously when becoming polyamorous
Learning how to make polyamory work within a family dynamic
The difference between polyamory and open relationships
The connection between polyamory and queer culture

Resources

http://www.sophielucidojohnson.com

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EP74 – Mindful Sex with Dr. Lori Brotto Jun 05, 2018

Welcome to episode 74 of the Sexology Podcast. Our guest today is Dr. Lori A. Brotto, PhD. In this episode, Dr Brotto and I talk about using mindfulness to improve sexuality, how stress levels have impacted our sexuality and learning to use mindfulness in intimate situations.

Lori A. Brotto, PhD, is a clinical psychologist, a sex researcher, and the author of Better Sex through Mindfulness: How Women Can Cultivate Desire (Greystone Books, 2018). A member of various sexuality organizations, she is also Canada's Research Chair in Women's Sexual Health and an associate editor for Archives of Sexual Behaviour.

In this episode, you will hear:

The findings that Lori has found through her work and research in this area
How stress levels have impacted our sexuality

The importance to reduce our stress levels to improve sexuality
Learning to overcome and pass through the “honeymoon period” in a relationship
Why Lori became interested in sex and mindfulness
The ways in which mindfulness can improve our sexual functioning
The best ways to encourage people into this practice to improve their sex life

Learning to use mindfulness in intimate situations
Manging and using fantasies in a healthy way
Recommendations from Lori on the first steps to take using mindfulness to improve sexuality

Resources

http://www.loribrotto.com

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EP73 - Sex During & After Pregnancy with Dr. Buehler May 29, 2018

Welcome to episode 73 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Stephanie Buehler PsyD, CST-S, who speaks to me about the common challenges couples face during pregnancy, why many women are scared to have sex during pregnancy and recommendations on how to approach and improve communication on these sensitive subject matters.

Stephanie Buehler PsyD, CST-S, is an internationally recognized licensed psychologist and AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist and Supervisor. Dr. Buehler is director of the Buehler Institute, where she provides sex and relationship therapy as well as continuing education programs.

She is also part of Hoag for Her Center for Wellness, where she specializes in helping women overcome painful sex, as well as helping high-risk breast cancer patients. She has published on sexuality for both professional and lay audiences, including her books What Every Mental Health Professional Needs to Know About Sex, 2nd Edition and Sex, Love, and Mental Illness: A Couple's Guide to Staying Connected.

In this episode, you will hear:

The common challenges couples face during pregnancy
How the lack of sexual drive can carry on after giving birth
The ways in which pregnancy affects a woman’s libido
Why many women are scared to have sex during pregnancy
The unique challenges that happen during the post-partum period

How many women find sex painful after giving birth
Recommendations on how to approach and improve communication on these sensitive subject matters
The ways in which breastfeeding can impact sexual relations

Resources

http://learnsextherapy.com

www.LearnSexTherapy.com

www.TheBuehlerInstitute.com
https://www.amazon.com/Stephanie-Buehler/e/B004ANMUHO/ref=dp_byline_cont_book_1

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EP72 - Inside The Life of A Legal Sex Worker May 22, 2018

Welcome to episode 72 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Alice Little who is the number one booking legal sex worker in the United States, she is 4ft 8 and works at the Moonlite Bunny Ranch.

Alice writes advice articles for She Knows Media and has been a guest on the Tim Ferriss Show. She has been interviewed and featured by CNN, ABC’s Nightline, Re nery29, Quartz, Shane and Friends, and other podcasts and news outlets. She is a proponent of sex positivity and women’s rights and has marched for equality. Alice is also one of the founders of the “Hookers for Healthcare” movement, petitioning the government for effective health care that works for everyone.

Alice frequently sees couples in and out of the bedroom, coaching them on how to enhance their relationships, increase the quality of their communication, and help bring intimacy back into their interactions. She hosts a weekly vidcast titled ‘Coffee with Alice,’ where she discusses sex work, fields questions, and aims to inform on all things sensual. Alice has also presented at over 50 Kink and BDSM events nationwide.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Alice became involved in this profession
The pros and cons of being a legal sex worker
The difference between a legal sex worker and prostitution
Why communication is the key in this profession
Working with clients and their emotions
How Alice makes people comfortable if it’s their first time with a legal sex worker
How couples who use legal sex workers can improve their sex lives afterwards
The common misconceptions and challenges legal sex workers face

Resources

https://thealicelittle.com

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EP71 - Broken Spaces & Healing with Robert Cox LPC May 15, 2018

Welcome to episode 71 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Robert Cox who talks to us about the developing rape culture in our society, how we can combat objectification of men and women and the need for rape victims to know it’s ok to reach out and talk about their experiences.

Robert Cox is a therapist in private practice in Liberty, MO. He specializes in the treatment of Trauma, Addictions and Autism. Robert creates a podcast providing psycho-education and mindfulness training called Mindful Recovery. In addition, he is a guest blogger on the Huffington Post.

In this episode, you will hear:

What is rape culture and who does it protect?
Roberts experience of defending his daughter for wearing “in appropriate” clothing in school

Why we shouldn’t protect anyone who has abused or raped women, even if they are close friends or relatives
Making sure we don’t invalidate people’s experiences
How men need to take more responsibility for their hormones and actions
How we can combat objectification of men and women
The role that fear and control plays within these issues

The need for rape victims to know it’s ok to reach out and talk about their experiences

Resources

http://liferecoveryconsulting.com

https://liferecoveryconsulting.com/listening-to-autism/

https://liferecoveryconsulting.com/podcast-2/

http://oasis2care.com/podcast/hook-up-culture/

http://oasis2care.com/podcast/rape-culture-popular-media/

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Non-Monogamous Relationships with Robert Kandell May 08, 2018

Welcome to episode 70 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Robert Kandell who speaks to me about non-monogamous relationships, the pros and cons of being in a non-monogamous relationship and advice on how to approach this topic with others.

Robert Kandell has 18 years’ experience in helping men find themselves. Through the practice of absolute approval in his teaching, he sees those parts that are hidden in their shadows. These are the fetishes, hurts, or hidden desires. He draws them out with a firm but loving hand so what was once hidden can now become internal power.

An expert in interpersonal communication and relationship, he has helped thousands of students become happier, have better relationships, more sex, and a more balanced, energized life. Working with Robert is not for the faint of heart. He has been described as “part football coach, part loving dad and part slightly crazed drill sergeant.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Robert became interested in this area
The pros and cons of being in a non-monogamous relationship
How most people are not actually monogamous
Why non-monogamous relationships aren’t the solution for everyone
The role that jealously plays in this issue
Learning to have open and honest communication your partner about this
The issue of fear of abandonment
Advice on how to approach this topic with others

Resources

http://tufflove.live

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EP69 - Fertility Treatment & Sex May 01, 2018

Welcome to episode 69 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Dr. M. Max Ezzati M.D., FACOG who speaks to us about the common misconceptions around fertility treatment, how struggles with infertility can have an impact on sexual relations and recommendations for couples currently going through this process.

Dr. Ezzati is a fertility specialist and reproductive surgeon at Palo Alto Medical Foundation, affiliated with Sutter Health in the Bay Area in Northern California. Dr. Ezzati received his medical degree from Tehran University in Tehran, Iran. After medical school, Dr. Ezzati moved to England to pursue specialty training in obstetrics and gynecology at the teaching hospitals of the University of Cambridge and the University of London, where he also served as a clinical lecturer.

In 2007, Dr. Ezzati moved to the United States and completed his internship and residency at Georgetown University Hospital/Washington Hospital Center, in Washington, D.C. Following his residency, he completed a fellowship in reproductive endocrinology and infertility at the University of Texas Southwestern Medical Center/Parkland Hospital, in Dallas, Texas. Dr. Ezzati is double board-certified in both Obstetrics & Gynecology, and Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility (REI).

Dr. Ezzati’s special professional interests include fertility preservation through oocyte cryopreservation (egg freezing) and embryo cryopreservation (embryo freezing), fertility treatment for older women and those with diminished ovarian reserve, and minimally invasive reproductive surgery using the da Vinci robot to treat endometriosis and uterine fibroids. He has published numerous peer-reviewed clinical and scientific research papers, review articles, case reports and textbook chapters on these and other topics.

He is currently on the Editorial Board of the Journal of Minimally Invasive Gynecology and also serves as an ad hoc peer-reviewer for several other high impact journals such as Human Reproduction, Journal of Assisted Reproduction and Genetics, Placenta, and Reproductive BioMedicine Online

In this episode, you will hear:

The most common misconceptions about fertility treatment
The frequency of intercourse needed through fertility treatment

How struggles around infertility can have an impact on sexual relations
The best way to define infertility
Is it safe for couples to have sex during pregnancy?
The need to keep with the treatment over a long period of time for success
Recommendations for couples currently frustrated going through this process

Resources

https://www.sutterhealth.org/find-doctor/dr-mohammadmax-ezzati

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EP68 -Help! I Think My Husband Is Gay Apr 24, 2018

Welcome to episode 68 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Renelle E. Nelson who is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist. She has been providing therapy for over 10 years. In this episode, she speaks to me about her thoughts on a listener’s email worrying her husband might be gay, discovering your own body and pleasures and actionable steps that can be taken to improve your sex life.

Renelle knows that you are facing a lot of challenges right now from dealing with Anxiety, Depression and even disbelief. You may also have been given an ultimatum in your relationship. Relax and take a deep breathe, now come in and let’s talk about your concerns. At Kaleidoscope, her passion and goal is to help you develop the skills that are needed to address the challenges that you are currently faced with. Whether you are dealing with communication issues, lack of desire or Infidelity, it is important for you to know you don’t have to go through this alone. If there is a problem then there has to be a solution.

Together let's work to solve the solvable and use the Kaleidoscope of change to give you a different view of the unchangeable.

In this episode, you will hear:

Renelle’s thoughts on a listener’s email worrying her husband might be gay
The importance of communication to improve sex in a relationship
Discovering your own body and pleasures
Not confusing a partner potentially being gay with low libido
How sex is still viewed in a negative light in many societies
Actionable steps that can be taken to improve your sex life
How journaling and self-care can improve your sex life

Resources

https://kaleidoscopeservicesllc.org

https://www.facebook.com/kaleidoscopeservices

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2017/05/30/mismatched-libido-with-renelle-nelson-lmft/

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EP67 - One Woman’s Journey Through Sex Addiction Apr 17, 2018

Welcome to episode 67 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m joined by Erica Garza who talks to us about her book Getting Off, the connection between sexual shame and addiction and the story of her recovery from sexual addiction

Born in Los Angeles to Mexican parents, Erica Garza has spent most of her adult life traveling and living abroad. She currently lives in Los Angeles with her husband and daughter. Erica’s essays have appeared in Salon, Narratively, BUST, Marie Claire, Good Housekeeping, Refinery29, Bustle, Alternet, Vivala, HelloGiggles, the Los Angeles Review, and Australia’s Mamamia and The Motherish.

She has appeared as a guest on BBC Radio 4, Thom Hartmann’s The Big Picture, and August McLaughlin’s Girl Boner Radio. In 2010, she earned her MFA in Creative Nonfiction at Columbia University. Her memoir on sex addiction, Getting Off, is her first book.

Her addiction follows and transforms with her in each point in her coming-of-age, which spans the transition from dial-up to digital in the 1990s and early 2000s. From Playboys hidden discreetly under mattresses to softcore on late night cable to vast varieties of porn ubiquitous and easily accessible across the internet, Garza’s personal account is also a study of an era in which both technology and sex changed dramatically in our everyday lives.

GETTING OFF is as raw and unflinching a personal story as it is an insightful and modern perspective on sexuality and addiction. Garza doesn’t find a tidy cure for her obsessions, but in the absence of false hope and prepackaged redemption is a credibly imperfect and remarkably relatable journey toward self-acceptance.

In this episode, you will hear:

The challenge of talking about her sex life openly
Why Erica decided to share her story
The perspective of sex addiction being an ethnic minority and female
How sex addiction can affect anyone in life
The ways in which porn can be used as a crutch
How over-viewing porn can lead to desensitization
The connection between sexual shame and addiction
What made Erica comfortable disclosing her issues to her now husband

Resources

http://www.ericagarza.com

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EP66 - Joy of intimacy with Rabbi Manis Friedman Apr 10, 2018

EP66 - Joy of intimacy with Rabbi Manis Friedman

Welcome to episode 66 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m joined by Rabbi Manis Friedman who speaks to me about his book The Joy of Intimacy, the difference between sex and intimacy, how pornography has degraded intimacy and how giving each other space can improve intimacy.

World-renowned author, counselor, lecturer and philosopher, Rabbi Manis Friedman uses ancient wisdom and modern wit as he captivates audiences around the country and the world. He hosts his own critically acclaimed cable television series, Torah Forum with Manis Friedman, syndicated throughout North America. Over 150,000 copies of his provocative yet entertaining tapes, both audio and video have been sold.

Rabbi Friedman’s first book, Doesn’t Anyone Blush Anymore? published by Harper San Francisco in 1990, was widely praised and is currently in its fourth printing. Rabbi Friedman is a noted Biblical scholar, recognized for his sagacious grasp of Jewish mysticism and a professionally ranked member of the National Speakers Association.

Rabbi Friedman was born in Prague, Czechoslovakia in 1946 and immigrated with his family to the United States in 1950. He received his rabbinic ordination from the Rabbinical College of Canada in 1969.

When he takes the podium, Rabbi Manis Friedman enthuses each of his listeners with a sense of purpose and definite direction. Perhaps his greatest gift of all is his balance of compassion and wisdom.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Rabbi Manis Friedman became interested in teaching these topics
The difference between sex and intimacy
How Rabbi Manis Friedman defines intimacy
The ways in which we have disregarded intimacy as a society
Why the bedroom needs to be a very sacred and private space
How pornography has degraded intimacy
The need to create time for intimacy and not work too hard and reserve our energy
How giving each other space can improve intimacy

Resources

http://www.itsgoodtoknow.com

http://thejoyofintimacy.com

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EP65 - Holistic Sexual Medicine with Debra Wickman M.D. Apr 03, 2018

Welcome to episode 65 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m joined by Debra Wickman M.D. who talks to us about holistic sexual medicine, the wheel of sexual experience and how it works and the best way to bring up sexual issues with your physician.

Dr. Debra Wickman is a gynecologist with more than 20 years of experience. She completed a fellowship in Female Sexual Medicine at UCLA, and is also trained as a sexuality counsellor.

Her model of diagnosis and treatment incorporates programs that uniquely educate, empower, and encourage personal growth, sexual discovery and healing for women.

The programs look beyond a singular medical, pharmaceutical, or behavioural therapy, and instead integrate all approaches from a mind-body perspective. Central to her model is a holistic sexuality approach, using her training as a gynaecologist to link the physical aspect of healing with the mental, emotional and spiritual facets to treat the whole sexual being.

Her research interests include exploring effects of sexual practices on the vaginal microbiome, and methods to condition the female arousal response.

She is a popular workshop speaker for women’s groups and has also presented lectures and research at venues such as the World Congress of Sexual Medicine in Beijing, China; ACOG 2017 Annual Clinical & Scientific Meeting, AASECT 2017 Annual Meeting and the World Association of Sexual Health in Prague, Czech Republic. She is featured in the 2017 book – Outstanding Results – authoring a chapter entitled “Outstanding Doctor–Patient Relationships: How to Connect with your Physician and Receive Optimal Care”.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Debra became interested in applying holistic sexuality approach
How physicians struggle to discuss sexual issues due to limited time
The wheel of sexual experience and how it works
Overcoming limiting beliefs passed down from parents
The challenge and difficulty of great orgasms
The damage getting sexual information from pornography can do
The best way to bring up sexual issues with your physician
Making sure you feel comfortable and connected when addressing these issues

Resources

http://drdebrawickman.com

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EP64 - Sexuality and Aging with Dr. Stacy Mar 27, 2018

Welcome to episode 64 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m delighted to welcome back Dr. Stacy who appeared in EP07 of the podcast. In this episode, she speaks to me about how our sexuality changes we get older, practices we can use to alleviate discomfort around sexuality as we age and how sex can be better when we're older as we've become more confident with ourselves and our identity.

Dr. Stacy got into the field of Clinical Sexology because of her passion for helping people better connect and experience the best sexual intimacy with themselves or with their partner(s). She holds a Doctorate degree in Human Sexuality in addition to a Masters in Clinical Sexology and is a Certified Sex Coach. She is a member of WASC (World Association of Sex Coaching), including ACS (The American College of Sexologists) which shows that she has the earned top credentials in my field. She also has a BA in Psychology and is a Registered Diagnostic Medical Sonographer and Vascular Sonographer.

She has been a consultant selling adult novelties since 2006 and has had the experience of reaching many men and women to educate them in a fun, positive approach to love, romance and all aspects of sexuality. Her education and own sexual journey and life experience enable her to help you move forward in a positive direction to face the challenges that may lie ahead and to achieve your goals. Coaching is designed to help women, men, of any sexual orientation or gender, address their concerns about sexuality, sexual function, and sexual expression.

In this episode, you will hear:

The common ways people sexuality changes as we age
The age at which these changes begin to happen
Practices we can use to alleviate discomfort around sexuality as we age
How many of us use sexual toys incorrectly
How our culture doesn’t recognize beauty in women as we age

Confidence issues men will face such as erectile dysfunction
How our fear of aging plays into the issue
Knowing it’s ok to talk about these issues with your physician
How sex can be better when we’re older as we’ve become more confident with ourselves and our identity

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Resources

http://www.drstacy.org

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EP63 - Painful Sexual Intercourse with Liz Dube MFT Mar 20, 2018

Welcome to episode 63 of the Sexology Podcast, my guest today is Liz Dube who talks to us about painful sex during intercourse, potential causes that might lead women experience painful intercourse and the link between sex and power in sexual harassment.

Liz Dube – Is a Sex and Relationship Therapist, Speaker, and Blogger who is passionate about helping others increase intimacy and sexual satisfaction in their relationships. She loves speaking on any topic related to sex and intimacy and she has a private practice in Long Beach & Huntington Beach, CA where she helps men, women, and couples get empowered about sex.

Men and women often have unrealistic expectations about sex that make them feel inadequate and create a performance focus to sex that leaves them bored, frustrated, and unsatisfied. Liz works with her clients to move past negative, destructive sexual messages, to stop tolerating mediocre sex, and get empowered and excited about having fun in the bedroom and achieving their full sexual potential.

In this episode, you will hear:

How common is it for women to experience pain during sexual intercourse?
What are some potential causes that might lead women experience painful intercourse?
Is that something treatable? What are some of the common treatment?
Does this condition get better with aging or childbirth?
What are some of the contradictory messages women are receiving about their sexuality from their environments?
How these messages impact women's sex drive?
What is the link between sex and power in sexual harassment?
How does sexual violence against women impact women's and men's sexual functioning?

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Resources

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EP62 -Undoing Sexual Shame Mar 13, 2018

Welcome to episode 62 of the Sexology Podcast, my guest today is Erika Miley, M.ed., LHMC . In this episode, Erika shares with us why many people experience shame around sexuality, and some of the signs that shame might be getting in the way of good sex.

Erika believes in the true power of compassion for the self and for others. Her aim is to be an ambassador of compassion for you and how you can become more compassionate with yourself.

She works with clients from adolescents to adults on various issues including depression, anxiety, sexuality, couples, relationship issues, families. She also works with those who are in monogamous relationships or non-monogamous relationships.

Erika prides herself in her ability to create a safe and welcoming environment for all of her clients. Erika's practice is a LGBTQIA friendly and kink friendly. She also offers coaching and encouragement for new therapists looking to start their own businesses.

She has specific training in sexuality issues, and also has training working with those who have eating disorders or recovery from eating disorders, as well as bariatric surgery clients. Erika looks forward to walking with you down the path to becoming who you are meant to be.

In this episode, you will hear:

Why many of us experience shame around sexuality

The three circles and what they entail
The need to be emotionally safer to have better sex
How deeper change comes from deeper work
Some of the signs that shame might be getting in the way of good sex
The need to look after ourselves physically as well as mentally

Details on Erika’s new Podcast – Sex! The Podcast

Resources

https://erikamiley.com

https://erikamiley.com/thepodcast/

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EP61 - Erotic Hypnosis with Dr. Amy Marsh Mar 06, 2018

Welcome to episode 61 of the Sexology Podcast, my guest today is Dr. Amy Marsh who speaks to us about using hypnosis for management of sexual concerns, the types of people who are a good fit for hypnosis being used around sexuality and five ways erotic hypnosis can help couples.

Amy Marsh, EdD, DHS, CH, CI is an AASECT-certified sexuality counselor and clinical sexologist and a certified hypnotist and hypnosis instructor. She holds Doctor of Education (EdD) and Doctor of Human Sexuality (DHS) degrees from the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality. She is on the advisory board of the World Association of Sex Coaches and teaches two courses for SexCoach U. Her interest in sexuality and reproductive health dates from her teens, when she worked as a pregnancy counselor in a feminist free clinic.

As a hypnosis instructor, Dr. Marsh teaches a 150-hour, online course in Hypnosis for Sexual Concerns. She also teaches workshops to people who want to learn the gentle arts of romantic and erotic hypnosis for their own enjoyment and pleasure.

Dr. Marsh is published in the Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality, Carnal Nation, and several blogs. Her essay, “Kid Chrysalis,” was included in Rachel Pepper’s anthology, Transitions of the Heart - Stories of Love, Struggle and Acceptance by Mothers of Transgender and Gender Variant Children, published in 2012. She is also a contributor to the Cultural Encyclopedia of the Penis. A collection of some of her Carnal Nation columns, Sex Squicks, was published by Renaissance eBooks in 2013.

Dr. Marsh has presented workshops at several conferences, including AASECT, CatalystCon West, American Counseling Association pre-conference Learning Institutes, the Pacific Rim International Conference on Disability and Diversity, Gender Odyssey, and Gender Spectrum.

Her national television appearances include Good Morning America, The Tyra Banks Show, and two National Geographic Taboo episodes, “Forbidden Love” and “Private Passions.” The topics of most of these programs was Objectum Sexuality.

Dr. Marsh currently has a private practice as a sex counselor and hypnotist in Lake County, CA. Previously she worked in Hawai'i and the SF Bay Area.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Amy defines sexual enrichment
Using hypnosis for management of sexual concerns
The types of people who are a good fit for hypnosis being used around sexuality
The difference between using hypnosis for sexual concerns and erotic hypnosis
Five ways erotic hypnosis can help couples
Common themes Amy found during her research survey in this area

Resources

https://amymarshsexologist.com

https://intimate-hypnosis-training.com

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EP60 - Evolutionary Psychology Insights Regarding Dating and Mating Feb 27, 2018

Welcome to episode 60 of the Sexology Podcast, my guest today is John Webber, LMFT. In this show, John talks about looking at relationships through the lens of evolutionary psychology, monogamous relationships v non- monogamous relationships and why many therapists don't talk about sexuality.

John is an existential-humanistic therapist rooted in a psychodynamic approach. He believes that a great deal of the issues that bring individuals, couples and families into counseling stem from the need to regulate emotions, accept feelings and decide how they choose to meet them. He promotes the therapy room as a safe, non-judgmental place in which clients can discuss their thoughts and feelings and explore more healthy paths for their lives.

John and his wife are raising three teens. This rich family experience, along with the challenges all families face, guides his work. He has enjoyed volunteering as an assistant scoutmaster (BSA), and as a coach of boy’s and girl’s baseball and softball teams. In his free time John practices self-care by following his interests of reading, gardening, meditation, swimming, writing poetry, podcasting, walking his dog and attempting a new venture as an author.

John held positions in academia and the media industry for 25 years, including; adjunct professor, news director, creative advertising director, and television and film producer. In 2006, he was nominated for an LA Area EMMY Award for a documentary on pediatric physical therapy.

John holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Communications and a Master of Science in Counseling Psychology. He completed a psychotherapy internship at The Jewish Family and Children’s Service in Long Beach, CA. In addition to leading counseling groups at a psychiatric hospital, John has a private practice in Hermosa Beach, CA

In this episode, you will hear:

Looking at relationships through the lens of evolutionary psychology
How nature plays a role in mating and relationships
Monogamous relationships v non- monogamous relationships
Is infertility more painful for women or men in monogamous relationships?
How a lack of resources plays into this subject area
Why many therapists don’t talk about sexuality
Finding the right therapist for you to help in this area
How the early lust of a relationship can die down as attachment and connection grow deeper

Resources

therapywirks@gmail.com

http://www.talkingtherapypodcast.com

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EP59 - Extended Massive Orgasm by Dr. Steve Bodansky Feb 20, 2018

Welcome to episode 59 of the Sexology Podcast, my guest today is Dr. Steve Bodansky. In this episode, Dr. Bodansky talked about the concept of extended massive orgasm, the barriers for women around enjoying sexual intercourse and keeping the sexual spark alive when in a long-term relationship.

Steve Bodansky together with his wife Vera have been teachers of Sensuality for the past 35 years. They met in 1980 and were married in 1983. Steve received a Masters in Molecular Biology at SUNY at Albany in 1979 and a Doctorate at More University in Sensuality in 1992 with an emphasis on female orgasm. He first studied and then taught at More U. thru 1992. Vera started doing one-hour orgasms demonstrations in 1980 and also received her doctorate in Sensual studies in 1992.

Steve became certified to do these demonstrations in 1987. They developed another orgasm school in 1992 after leaving Morehouse called The Welcomed Consensus where they taught for 5 years and certified 5 new students into becoming teachers and demonstrators of orgasm. For the past 22 years they have been coaching students as a couple and started writing books about optimum sensual pleasure.

They have trained many people over the past 30 years with courses and personal training and continue to do so. A number of their former students have become sensual facilitators themselves.

In this episode, you will hear:

What are examples of different types of orgasms and what are the differences between how men and women respond?
The importance of taking timely breaks in foreplay
Is the extended massive orgasm more achievable for men or women?
Multiple orgasms – something all women can achieve?
What are the barriers for women around enjoying sexual intercourse? Is there anything that a partner can do to facilitate this process?
Making sure you know your own body and what pleasures you
How can we train our partners to become better lovers?
What are some of the aspects that need to be present when someone would like to receive maximum pleasure?
Keeping the sexual spark alive when in a long-term relationship
How good communication leads to better sex

Resources

stevebodansky@gmail.com

http://www.extendedmassiveorgasm.com

http://www.orgasmmatters.com

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EP58: How to Keep Your Long Distance Relationship Hot Feb 13, 2018

Welcome to episode 58 of the Sexology Podcast, my guest today is Dana Nelson who is an American psychologist and counselor living and practicing in Lyon, France (Rhône-Alpes region). In this episode Dana talks about the common challenges long distance relationships place on sexual relations, establishing and understanding boundaries and using technology to stay sexual in a long-distance relationship.

Dana works with English-speaking adults and adolescents, providing individual counseling and psychotherapy, couples and relationship counseling, and group therapy.

She specializes in working with expats, international students, and others living abroad (both adults and adolescents) who are struggling with emotional and psychological difficulties and who want to develop greater self-awareness and self-compassion, feel more grounded, and develop more meaningful and satisfying connections with those around them. She also specializes in working with intercultural couples and couples whose relationships have been impacted by their life abroad.

An expat herself, she moved to Lyon from Pennsylvania in 2014 to join her French partner. Before they met in graduate school, she never dreamed of moving to France — but now here she is, on an international adventure!

Dana's specialization in working with expats and intercultural couples has emerged from her own life experience. Still navigating her own expat journey every day, she knows that life abroad is full of both adventures and many (many!) challenges. However, she also believes that this experience of living abroad — which takes us out of our element and calls into question many things we have taken for granted about ourselves and the world — can provide us with truly unique opportunities to learn about ourselves and to grow both as individuals and in our relationships.

In this episode, you will hear:

Dana’s answers to a listener’s email on remaining sexual in a long-distance relationship
The common challenges long distance relationships place on sexual relations
Learning to be mindful of your partners life in a different country and scheduling time
Developing trust in a long-distance relationship
Knowing what you want from the relationship
Establishing and understanding boundaries
The importance of fine tuning better communication
Using technology to stay sexual in a long-distance relationship
Dana’s personal recommendations to overcoming the obstacles of a long-distance relationship

Resources

http://www.dananelsoncounseling.com/mindful-expat-podcast/

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2017/07/18/sex-and-intercultural-relationships-ft-dr-dana-nelson/

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EP57 - Are You In A Relationship With A Psychopath? Feb 06, 2018

Welcome to episode 57 of the Sexology Podcast, today I am delighted to be joined by Sandra L. Brown, M.A who talks to us about why people develop Narcissistic Personality Disorder, what causes NPD, anti-social PD and psychopathy and recommendations on what to do if you find yourself in a pathological relationship.

Sandra L. Brown, M.A., is the founder of The Institute for Relational Harm Reduction & Public Pathology Education. She is a former psychotherapist in the field of psychopathology and trauma survivor treatment, community educator on the intersections of Mental Illness, Personality Disorders, Violence, and Recidivism. She is a clinical lecturer and trainer, TV and radio guest, and an author. Her books include the highly popular How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved, the award-winning Women Who Love Psychopaths: Inside the Relationships of Inevitable Harm With Psychopaths, Sociopaths & Narcissists, as well as the clinically relevant Counseling Victims of Violence: A Handbook for Helping Professionals.

Sandra is recognized for her pioneering work in women's issues related to relational harm from dangerous, toxic, and pathological partners. She specializes in the development of Pathological (Toxic) Love Relationship training based on her theory development for other professionals and the development of survivor-based support and treatment services. The Institute is the only formal clinical Model-of-Care approach for survivors and offers the largest available array of products and services related to this population. Her books, CD's, DVD's, and other training materials have been used as curriculum in drug rehabs, women's organizations and shelters, women's jail and prison programs, school and college-based programs, inner city projects, psychology and sociology programs, and distributed in almost every country of the world. Her books have been translated into several languages.

She is the founder and current president of the first professional national Association for NPD/Psychopathy Survivors Treatment, Research, and Education and is a private Trauma Consultant, and advocate for survivors seeking justice.

In this episode, you will hear:

What is a Pathological Love Relationship?
How is it different from other relationships?
Why people develop Narcissistic Personality Disorder?
What causes NPD, anti-social PD and psychopathy?
Red flags to look out for if a relationship is pathological
Who do pathological partners target?
What happens to survivors from PLRs?
Recommendations on what to do if you find yourself in a pathological relationship

Resources

www.saferelationshipsmagazine.com

https://survivortreatment.com

http://floridapsychotherapy.com

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EP56 - Deeper Story of Attraction with Ken Page Jan 30, 2018

Welcome to episode 56 of the Sexology Podcast, today I am delighted to be joined by Ken Page who speaks to me about falling in love with people who aren’t good for us, becoming more self-assured and emotionally available and learning to attract people who love you for who you really are.

Ken Page, LCSW, is a renowned psychotherapist, leading Psychology Today blogger, Huffington Post blogger and author of the bestseller Deeper Dating: How to Drop the Games of Seduction and Discover the Power of Intimacy. He has been featured in O, The Oprah Magazine, The New York Times, Cosmopolitan, Fox News, WPIX-TV News and more.

Ken has led hundreds of workshops on intimacy and spirituality for thousands of participants. He has taught at Columbia University, the Omega Institute and the Garrison Institute. Before writing his book, Page founded Deeper Dating in 2004; an event in which trained facilitators shared the insights of Deeper Dating and then led participants in a series of fun and enriching exercises.

The live events he led provided an alternative to the bar scene and superficial dating events and drew thousands of men and women of all ages, backgrounds and sexual orientations. His work has been highly acclaimed by numerous top thought leaders, including Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt, Arielle Ford, Edward Hallowell, MD, Chip Conley, and Judith Orloff, MD. Katherine Woodward Thomas, New York Times bestselling author of Calling in The One and Conscious Uncoupling says, “Ken Page is my new relationship guru!”

In this episode, you will hear:

Why do we fall in love with people who aren’t good for us?
Becoming more self-assured and emotionally available
How long you should keep dating to see if there’s a spark for a relationship?
Making sure to be your most authentic self when finding a partner
Losing your taste for relationships that chip away at your self-esteem
The importance and concept of the wave
Learning to attract people who love you for who you really are

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Sexual Chemistry & Dating with Dr. Sharon Cohen Jan 23, 2018

Welcome to episode 55 of the Sexology Podcast, today I am delighted to be joined again by Dr. Sharon Cohen who talks to us about why sexual chemistry is a necessity for any relationship to thrive, learning to enjoy the stability of relationships and the technological impacts that apps like Tinder have had on modern relationships.

Dr. Sharon Cohen is a Relationship and Love Consultant in Newport Beach, California. She works with women who can’t seem to find the right relationship or who aren’t sure they are in the right relationship. Sometimes clients who come to her are ready to give up on love. She helps them have supportive, committed, deeply loving relationships with a man who ROCKS THEIR WORLD.

Her vision of success is that all women who want to be will be in relationships of ever-lasting love with their “meant-to-be” partners, feeling connected and loved. Her primary mission is to help women gain the skills to attract and keep long-lasting love.

A sub-set of that mission is to get women inspired to attract the love they desire. Her expertise and life experiences support in sparking awareness and prompting change in her clients. Using an educational and action-oriented program, Dr. Sharon’s clients see their interactions and relationships in a whole new light. With this new-found awareness, her clients free themselves from their past mistakes in their dating, relationships, and life so they can now relax into love.

She has a background in psychotherapy and now works as a consultant, ready to offer you expert advice as to what it is you are doing wrong. Her experience is that the clients who are coming to see her don’t know what it is they are doing that isn’t working and they are ready to get that guidance.

She currently sees clients in her office, on “walk & talks” outside of the office and via phone calls for people who aren’t in the local area.

In this episode, you will hear:

The underlying reasons we go back to unhealthy relationships
Why sexual chemistry is a necessity for any relationship to thrive
Learning to enjoy the stability of relationships
The amount of time you should give to a person before deciding it’s not working
Technological impacts that apps like Tinder have had on modern relationships
Giving time to become attracted to a person’s personality
The warning signs to look for when going on dates with strangers

Complimentary Breakthrough to Deep Love phone consultation - write Dr. Sharon at sharon@drsharoncohen.com and say you heard about this offer through Sexology podcast.

Resources

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EP54 – Sexology's Top 10 Sex Tips Jan 16, 2018

Welcome to episode 54 of the Sexology Podcast. Today’s show mark’s the one year anniversary since beginning the podcast and thank you for all of your support and feedback to the show, it is truly appreciated.

In this episode, we recap highlights of some of the best interviews from the last year, featuring pearls of wisdom from:

Dr. Albert Wong (Episode 01)

Dr. Barbach (Episode 06)

Dr. Emily Nagoski (Episode 10)

Dr. Patti Britton (Episode 14)

Dr. Jen (Episode 15)

Laurie Watson, LMFT (Episode 19)

Renelle Nelson, LMFT (Episode 21)

Dr. Lanae (Episode 30)

Dr. Laurie Mintz (Episode 39)

Dr. Pomeranz (Episode 41)

Dr. Anita Johnson (Episode 42)

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EP53 - Sex and Dating with Dr. Sharon Cohen Jan 09, 2018

Welcome to episode 53 of the Sexology Podcast, today I am delighted to be joined by Dr. Sharon Cohen who talks to us about how to decide if you are emotionally ready to have sex with your date, putting communication at the heart of your relationship and the importance of negotiation when it comes to consensual sexual activity.

Dr. Sharon Cohen is a Relationship and Love Consultant in Newport Beach, California. She works with women who can’t seem to find the right relationship or who aren’t sure they are in the right relationship. Sometimes clients who come to her are ready to give up on love. She helps them have supportive, committed, deeply loving relationships with a man who ROCKS THEIR WORLD.

Her vision of success is that all women who want to be will be in relationships of ever-lasting love with their “meant-to-be” partners, feeling connected and loved. Her primary mission is to help women gain the skills to attract and keep long-lasting love.

A sub-set of that mission is to get women inspired to attract the love they desire. Her expertise and life experiences support in sparking awareness and prompting change in her clients. Using an educational and action-oriented program, Dr. Sharon’s clients see their interactions and relationships in a whole new light. With this new-found awareness, her clients free themselves from their past mistakes in their dating, relationships, and life so they can now relax into love.

She has a background in psychotherapy and now works as a consultant, ready to offer you expert advice as to what it is you are doing wrong. Her experience is that the clients who are coming to see her don’t know what it is they are doing that isn’t working and they are ready to get that guidance.

She currently sees clients in her office, on “walk & talks” outside of the office and via phone calls for people who aren’t in the local area.

In this episode, you will hear:

How to decide if you are emotionally ready to have sex with your date? How can you assess the partner is ready?
Reestablishing sexual boundaries after they’ve gone too far
Putting communication at the heart of your relationship
Learning to communicate more face to face and less via texting
How long we should continue going out with someone when there is no sexual chemistry?
The importance of negotiation when it comes to consensual sexual activity

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#MeToo Movement & Popular Media with Dr. Phillips Jan 02, 2018

Welcome to episode 52 of Sexology Podcast. Today, I am delighted to welcome Dr. Nickie D. Phillips.

Nickie is an associate professor of criminal justice at St. Francis College, Brooklyn, NY where she teaches courses that include criminology, criminal justice, crime and media, and victimology. She is director of the Center for Crime and Popular Culture serving scholars, students, and laypersons interested in issues pertaining to the intersection of crime, social control, and popular culture. The Center sponsors special events, lectures, and guest speakers on campus, each geared toward understanding how cultural artifacts shape and reflect public attitudes toward offenders, victims, and the operations of the criminal justice system.

Nickie received her Ph.D. from City University of New York Graduate Center in 2006 and holds a M.A. in Forensic Psychology from John Jay College of Criminal Justice. Her research interests include media and crime, crime and popular culture, and sexual violence. She is author of Beyond Blurred Lines: Rape Culture in Popular Media (Rowman and Littlefield, 2017) and co-author of Comic Book Crime: Truth, Justice, and the American Way (NYU Press, 2013), the latter of which examined representations of crime and justice in contemporary American comics books through the lens of cultural criminology.

In this episode, you will hear:

The evolution of rape culture during the past decade.
The concept of rape culture in television, gaming and comic books.
The normalization of violence against women in media.
How #Metoo movement breaks the silence of ongoing sexual harassments in our society.
Potential backlash of #MeToo movement.
Empowering the victims of sexual harassment.
Methods for ending rape culture

Resources

http://www.sfc.edu/academics/institutescenters/popculture

https://rowman.com/ISBN/9781442246270/Beyond-Blurred-Lines-Rape-Culture-in-Popular-Media#

https://www.amazon.com/Comic-Book-Crime-Alternative-Criminology/dp/0814767885

nphillips@sfc.edu

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Cancer and Sex Dec 26, 2017

Welcome to episode 51 of the Sexology Podcast, today I am delighted to be joined by Deborah Beaumont. We talk about how cancer diagnosis may affect an individual’s sexuality and sex life, the effects it can have a survivors’ intimate relationships and coping mechanisms recommended to improve their sexual health.

Deborah Beaumont is an Advanced Practice Registered Nurse and two-time cancer survivor. After her last experience with cancer (bilateral breast cancer) and multiple complications from treatments she was frustrated with conventional medicine telling he the only thing she could do to prevent another recurrence of cancer was to take prescriptions, get yearly check-ups and hope for the best that it didn't return. Feeling there was a need to know about more about prevention and making treatment decisions that supported having a good quality of life (given all the treatment and medication side effects she experienced) she immersed herself in learning about holistic and integrative treatment that complimented the medical advice she was being given.

She is now a certified functional medicine practitioner and is a holistic and integrative health coach supporting women and empowering them to make treatment decisions not only in treating cancer reclaiming their health and having a good quality of life after chemo and active treatment is done. She emphasizes an integrative mind-body approach to health, healing and living.

She works with women by phone and Skype and provides coaching and consultation to women looking for holistic and integrative recovery.

In this episode, you will hear:

How cancer diagnosis may affect individual’s sexuality and sex life
Sexual side effects from post cancer treatment
Knowing that it’s ok for women not to be sexual after cancer treatment
How cancer can affect survivors’ intimate relationships?
The psychological differences between sexual side effects of post cancer treatment and cosmetic surgeries
Coping mechanisms recommended to survivors as a way to improve their sexual health

Resources

https://mindbodynutritionrn.com

radicalhealthRN@gmail.com

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EP50 - The Man Rules & Sexuality Dec 19, 2017

Welcome to episode 50 of the Sexology Podcast, today I am delighted to be joined by Dan Griffin, M.A., who talks to us about the meaning behind “The Man Rules”, his thoughts on recent sexual allegations that have broken in the media and the importance of context and consent in alternative sexual behaviors.

Dan Griffin, M.A., is an internationally recognized author, thought leader, and expert on men’s relationships and masculinity.

Dan’s work and life is dedicated to exploring and redefining what it means to be a man in the 21st century. Dan is dedicated to helping men be better men by understanding the impact of the Man Rules on their lives and finding the success in their personal lives they are striving for in the professional lives. Griffin’s book, A Man’s Way through Relationships, is the first book written specifically to help men create healthy relationships while navigating the challenges of the “Man Rules™,” those ideas men internalize at very young ages about how to be real boys and men. In 2015, Dan was honored to be named a Senior Fellow at the world renowned leader for treating addiction and trauma, The Meadows.

Griffin’s professional background includes over two decades in the mental health and addictions field. He is also the author of A Man’s Way through the Twelve Steps, the first trauma-informed book to take a holistic look at men’s sobriety. He co-authored Helping Men Recover, the first comprehensive gender-responsive and trauma-informed curriculum for addiction and mental health professionals. Griffin earned a Master’s degree in Sociology from the University of Kansas where his graduate work was the first qualitative study centered on the social construction of masculinity in the culture of Alcoholics Anonymous.

Dan grew up in the DC area and lives in Los Angeles with his wife, Nancy, and his daughter, Grace, and has been in long-term recovery from addiction since he graduated college in May of 1994.

In this episode, you will hear:

The meaning behind “The Man Rules”
Dan’s thoughts on recent sexual allegations that have broken in the media
Do we relieve abusers of their actions if they’re sex addicts?
Recommendations to be more relational in your sexuality
Can we change our erotic template?
The importance of context and consent in alternative sexual behaviors
How a man might react differently from when they’re in recovery from sexual addiction to when they’re in the midst of it

Resources

http://www.dangriffin.com/man-rules-podcast

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EP49 – Is My husband Gay? Dec 12, 2017

Welcome to episode 49 of the Sexology Podcast, today I am delighted to be joined by Dr. Joe Kort, Ph.D. He talks to us about why some straight men are drawn to gay sex, the taboo of talking about this topic and how are compulsive behaviors different from sexual attraction.

Psychotherapist, coach and author Joe Kort, Ph.D., MSW, MA founded his practice in 1985. Its specialties include: Gay Affirmative Psychotherapy, emphasizing how being knowledgeable about gay issues informs the therapeutic process, and IMAGO Relationship Therapy, a specific program to help couples and singles learn to improve their communication and relationship skills. It is based on the books Getting The Love You Want and Keeping The Love You Find by Dr. Harville Hendrix.

This practice specializes in sex therapy and sexual identity issues, including Out-Of-Control Sexual Behavior; responsible non-monogamy/monogamy; childhood sexual, physical and emotional abuse; mixed-orientation marriages; coming out; and depression and anxiety. The group offers workshops for couples and singles.

In this episode, you will hear:

Why some straight men are drawn to gay sex but aren’t gay
The compartmentalization men can make between gay sex and being gay
How society says it’s ok for women to have sex other women but not the same for men
How trauma reenactment can play a role in this issue
The taboo and difficulty to talk about this with partners
How are compulsive behaviors different from sexual attraction?
How the more this issue gets repressed, the more it will come up
The role shame plays around this issue
How homophobia can be used as a smokescreen

Resources

http://www.joekort.com

http://www.straightguise.com

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EP48 - Why Men Force Women to Watch Them Masturbate Dec 05, 2017

Welcome to episode 48 of the Sexology Podcast, today I am delighted to be joined by Quandra Chaffers, LCSW. In this episode we talk about how masturbation can become a form of violence, the trauma nonconsensual masturbation creates and why the actions of Harvey Weinstein and Louis C.K were acts of violence.

Quandra Chaffers, LCSW is a Certified Sex Educator through AASECT the American Association of Sexuality Educators Counselors and Therapists, and also a Certified EMDR Therapist. She boasts over 10 years of experience working with sexual violence survivors as both a crisis intervention counselor and a psychotherapist. For six years, she made a career in treating violent offenders as a facilitator for a batters intervention program.

Quandra strives to help men and women overcome rape, intimate partner violence, sexual acting out, and a host of other sex related issues. She believes that sexual health is the natural solution to sexual violence. Her private practice Sexual Abuse and Sex Solutions is located on the cusp of the Nob Hill district in San Francisco and helps clients address both sexual trauma and problematic sexual behaviors.

In this episode, you will hear:

How masturbation can become a form of violence
Where is the line between out of control sexual behaviour and violence?
Why the actions of Harvey Weinstein and Louis C.K were acts of violence
The damage Kevin Spacey did by using his coming out as a smokescreen for sexual abuse
The trauma nonconsensual masturbation creates
Understanding the root causes of why people become sexual offenders
The importance and need to learn to have more empathy

Resources

https://www.sasstherapy.com

quandra@sasstherapy.com

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EP47 - "Only Yes Means Yes" Nov 28, 2017

Welcome to episode 47 of the Sexology Podcast, today I am delighted to be joined by Jeanette Tolson who talks to us about what constitutes consent, what might stop someone from reporting sexual assault and how can we create a culture of consent.

Jeanette Tolson is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Credentialed Alcoholism and Substance Abuse Counselor in New York. She earned her Master’s in Social Work at SUNY Albany and completed a Postgraduate Certificate in Sex Therapy and Sexuality Education at the University of Michigan.

Prior to opening her private practice in 2015, she was the Executive Director for a not for profit community recovery organization. Ms. Tolson currently has an academic appointment at SUNY Delhi and been teaching there continuously since 2009. Ms. Tolson has worked in a variety of outpatient settings. Her clinical interests include working with relationships from an attachment perspective, LGBTQ issues, recovery from infidelity, and substance use disorders.

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In this episode, you will hear:

What constitutes consent?
How yes doesn’t mean yes all the time
What is sexualized hostility?
Why perpetrators find it arousing to terrorize their victim
What might stop someone from reporting sexual assault
The ways in which alcohol can affect these situations during and after the assault
How can we create a culture of consent?

Resources

https://jeanettetolsonlcsw.com

https://youtu.be/oQbei5JGiT8

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EP46 - Desire in Long Term Relationships Nov 21, 2017

Welcome to episode 46 of the Sexology Podcast, today I am delighted to be joined by Stuart Fensterheim, LCSW who talks about the factors that contribute to a loss of passion, the differences between hook up sex, marital sex and making love and how intimacy tends to only be associated with sex.

Stuart Fensterheim, LCSW is an author and podcaster specializing in helping couples to create a true and authentic love story where they both feel secure and important. His thirty plus years as a therapist have given him a unique perspective on love and relationships.

The Couples Expert Podcast is produced weekly and has an international following on iTunes; currently with over 100,000 downloads and growing. The podcast brings Stuart together with experts from all over the world; in the field of love and relationships. In-depth and insightful discussions on all facets of adult relationships are addressed on The Couples Experts podcast. In addition to his Podcast, clinical and online work, Stuart also facilitates seminars and workshops employing emotionally-focused couples therapy; as well as intensive counseling weekends designed to help couples get to the heart of their struggles and find the answers they are seeking for a closer and more connected loving relationship.

Stuart is available to speak on topics including:

Surviving Infidelity and Rebuilding Trust

Finding Love in Middle Age

Having a Closer Connection with Your Partner § Sexuality and Monogamy

Same-Sex Relationships

Making Your Good Relationship Great

In this episode, you will hear:

The factors that can contribute to a loss of passion
How a couple’s sex language can be different and the importance for open communication
The difficulty to connect when there’s unresolved emotions with our partners
The differences between hook up sex, marital sex and making love
Why people struggle with synchrony sex
How intimacy tends to only be associated with sex

Resources

http://www.thecouplesexpertscottsdale.com

http://www.thecouplesexpertscottsdale.com/podcasts

Email: Stuart@thecouplesexperts.com

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EP45 – Let’s Talk about Fetishes! Nov 14, 2017

Welcome to episode 45 of the Sexology Podcast, today I am delighted to be joined by Sara Sweetly. Sara shares her story of how she became interested and involved in this work, misconceptions that exist around fetishes and tips on how to have great phone sex.

Sara is a professional Dominatrix and phone sex operator who works primarily with clients in the fetish and kink community. Sara’s goal is to help her clients find a way to express their sexuality without restrictions or the unpleasant feeling of judgment. To Sara, helping her clients means helping them to find the sexual answers that could lead to a path of greater self-discovery and overall healthier relationships for them.

Sara believes that it is possible to uncover your true sexual capabilities and to experience the sex life that you are truly worthy of. She is the founder of the Must Love Fetish podcast, an educational sexuality podcast dedicated to exploring and finding ways to bridge the vanilla and kinky worlds. This interview-style podcast features a new fetish and guest every week – and explores the psychology behind fetishes in order to help people better understand what it is like to live with one.

Sara has been featured on numerous podcasts, including consensually speaking, sex + love with sexologist Randi Levinson, and now sexology podcast. She has been the guest on several live radio talk shows, including the Rob & Slim show – where she often busts the misconceptions about phone sex and sex work in a light-hearted manner. With a background in psychology, Sara is currently working towards her sex coaching certification and eventual Doctorate in Human Sexuality.

During her free time, she produces audiobooks and her voice can be heard on both Amazon Audible and iTunes. Sara likes to think of herself as a producer of aural pornography, and hopes to create a workshop in which she can teach couples the art of dirty talk in order to enhance their relationships. Sara is currently working on her first book “Aural Sex: The Art Of Dirty Talk as Foreplay.” (working title)

In this episode, you will hear:

How Sara became interested and involved in this work
The common and uncommon fetishes Sara hears on the phone
Misconceptions that exist around fetishes
How this line of work has created a good business for Sara
The types of role play Sara will participate in on the phone
How many people like to be submissive in their phone calls
Tips on how to have great phone sex

Resources

https://mustlovefetish.com

https://twitter.com/SaraSweetly

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EP44 - Understanding Tantra Nov 07, 2017

Welcome to episode 44 of the Sexology Podcast, today I am delighted to be joined by Elise Carr, M.A. who talks to us about understanding Tantra, the benefits of adopting a Tantric lifestyle and how you can use Tantra even if you’re not in a relationship.

Elise Carr is the Woman behind StellaMuse, known as the ‘Pioneer of Yoni-Heart-Mind Power’ she mentors, councils and advises your journey of Awakening from Within through Sacred Guidance, Sacred Sexuality, Spirituality & Soul.

With unwavering enthusiasm, fierce dedication and spirited insight, Elise guides inspirational and aspirational souls on a purpose driven, joy filled mission away from fear, dissatisfaction and illusion, and into courageous love and mental clarity; guiding them to a live life as their most authentic, nourished and unique selves.

Elise is also a student of the Mysteries and a certified; Holistic Life/Health Coach, Tantra practitioner and Reiki Master, as well as a Writer, Speaker, Model and Artist.

In this episode, you will hear:

Understanding Tantra and what is sacred sexuality?
How Elise began her journey into the world of Tantra
What the practice of Tantra usually looks like
How Tantra is a way of life and more than just sex
The way in which Tantra can expand consciousness
The overall benefits of adopting a Tantric lifestyle
Learning to schedule time with your partner
How you can use Tantra even if you’re not in a relationship

Resources

http://www.stellamuse.com

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EP43 - Gender and Sexuality with Dr. Lisa Wade Oct 31, 2017

Welcome to episode 43 of the Sexology Podcast, today I am delighted to welcome back Dr. Lisa Wade. In this episode, we talk about the difference between sex and gender, external and internal factors that may influence gender identity and the double standards that exist in society when dealing with gender identity issues.

Lisa Wade is an associate professor of sociology at Occidental College. Her newest book, American Hookup, is about the emergence and character of the culture of sex that dominates college campuses today.

Before receiving her PhD in sociology at the University of Wisconsin-Madison, Lisa earned an MA in human sexuality from NYU and a BA in philosophy from the University of California-Santa Barbara.

Lisa has authored over a dozen academic research articles and a textbook on the sociology of gender. She also actively contributes to media, writing extensively for non-academic audiences and appearing on television and radio.

In this episode, you will hear:

The difference between sex and gender
Gender identity and sexual orientation – is there a relationship between them?
External and internal factors that can influence gender identity
What it means to identify as gender non-confirming
The relationship between biological and societal factors that can affect our gender identity
How societal intuitions of power try to keep the status quo to protect their own power
Parenting and gender identity
The double standards that exist in society when dealing with gender identity issues

Resources

https://lisa-wade.com

http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/30231781-american-hookup

email: lwade@oxy.edu

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Sexuality & Body Image with Dr. Anita Johnson Oct 24, 2017

Welcome to episode 42 of the Sexology Podcast, my guest today is Dr. Anita Johnson. In this episode, Dr. Anita Johnson shares with us how to heal your relationship with your body and reclaim power of feminine energy.

Anita Johnston, Ph.D., is a Depth Psychologist and author of Eating in the Light of the Moon, which has been published in six languages. She is the co-creator of the online course, Light of the Moon Café which is an interactive “workbook” and women’s support circle for Eating in the Light of the Moon, and she is the author of a book chapters and other professional journal articles.

She has been working in the field of women’s issues and disordered eating for over 35 years and is currently the Clinical Director of ‘Ai Pono Hawaii which has outpatient eating disorder programs in Honolulu, the Big Island of Hawaii, and a residential treatment program in Maui.

Dr. Johnston provides individual consultations online, and conducts Soul Hunger workshops and professional trainings around the world, using metaphor and storytelling, along with her training as a clinical psychologist, to address the complex issues that underlie struggles with eating, weight, and body image.

In this episode, you will hear:

Why women today are dissatisfied with their image
How feminine energy is connected to the earth
Understanding your intuition and instinct
The resonation people feel with her book “Eating In The Light Of The Moon”
How food habits are linked to sexual desires and behaviours
The power of feminine energy and the need to understand it better
The need to have better support networks around ourselves

Resources

www.DrAnitaJohnston.com

www.LightoftheMoonCafe.com

DrAJ1@aol.com

Anita@LightoftheMoonCafe.com

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The Science of Male Arousal with Dr. Pomeranz Oct 17, 2017

Welcome to episode 41 of the Sexology Podcast. Today I am joined by Dr. Kelifern Pomeranz who talks to us about male sexual arousal, the common causes for sexual dysfunction and the pros and cons of using PED5 inhibitors.

Dr. Pomeranz is a licensed clinical psychologist and sex therapist with a practice in Silicon Valley. In addition to her private practice, she also works as a staff psychologist at Stanford University. Dr. Pomeranz earned her doctorate in clinical psychology in the Bay Area and has worked in a number of diverse settings, including the San Francisco jail, Salvation Army rehabilitation center, and UC Davis Medical System. She spent 9 years at the Boston VA, focusing on substance use disorders, sexual trauma, and out of control sexual behaviors.

Dr. Pomeranz recognizes the importance between sexual and emotional well-being and believes that not enough clinicians are talking with their clients about this important topic. In her private practice in Menlo Park she treats individuals who are struggling with a variety of sexual health concerns, including erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, desire discrepancy, genito-pelvic pain, female orgasmic disorder, penetration disorders, sexual trauma, gender/sexual identity, and alternative sexual lifestyles. In addition, Dr. Pomeranz treats substance use disorders and other addictive behaviors, including out-of-court sexual behaviors, utilizing a harm reduction model. Dr. Pomeranz is a member of AASECT and Bay Area Open Minds.

In this episode, you will hear:

Gender differences with sexual arousal
Does penal erection hardness correspond to arousal?
Common causes for sexual dysfunction in men
What you can do as partner to help with erectile dysfunction
The link and misconceptions around ageing and erectile dysfunction
How certain medications can be harmful to people’s relationships
The feelings of shame that can occur around this issue
Ways in which you can approach and support your partner through this

Resources

https://www.drpomeranz.com

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EP40 - Exploring Sexual Fantasies Oct 10, 2017

Welcome to episode 40 of the Sexology Podcast, my guest today is Gigi Engle! In this episode, Gigi discusses why some sexual fantasies are common, and whether they should stay as fantasies or manifest into a reality!

Gigi Engle is a writer and sex educator. She was the head sex and dating writer for Elite Daily and Thrillist Media Group before launching a career in freelance writing and sex education. She's written and reported for a variety of magazines and websites including Cosmopolitan, Elle, Teen Vogue, Marie Claire, Glamour, Brides and many more.

Gigi teaches classes and workshops focused on sex ed basics like Vibrator 101 to Buttplugs for Beginners to feminist topics like Vulva Confidence and The Orgasm Gap. She is currently working on her first book, a feminist sex guidebook, with St. Martin's Press, an imprint of MacMillen.

In this episode, you will hear:

Where our sexual fantasies come from
How you can learn more about your sexual template from fantasies
Rape fantasies: why people have them
Recommendations on what to share or not share with your partner when it comes to fantasies
Why just because you have a fantasy, doesn’t mean you want it to happen
Having good communication with your partner to avoid shame
Making compromises with your partner for sexual fantasies
How the media and pornography can form some of our fantasies

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Resources

http://missgigiengle.com

http://www.jsm.jsexmed.org/article/S1743-6095(15)30944-9/fulltext

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EP39 - Everything You Need to Know About Orgasm Oct 03, 2017

Welcome to episode 39 of the Sexology Podcast, my guest today is Laurie Mintz, Ph.D. who talks to us about orgasms, the different types of women's orgasm, common factors that may attribute to not experiencing orgasms and the importance to have open communication to improve your sexual life.

Dr. Laurie Mintz is an author, therapist, professor and speaker whose life’s work has been committed to helping people live fuller, richer lives through the art and science of psychology.

As a tenured Professor at the University of Florida, she teaches the Psychology of Human Sexuality to hundreds of undergraduate students each year. She also teaches and mentors graduate students, helping them find their own niche as psychologists. Dr. Mintz has published over 50 research articles in academic journals and six chapters in academic books. She has received numerous professional and teaching awards, and is a Fellow of the American Psychological Association.

Dr. Mintz is the author of two popular and highly acclaimed books—both written with the aim of empowering women sexually: Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get it (HarperOne, 2017) and A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex: Reclaim Your Desire and Reignite Your Relationship (Adams Media, 2009).

With this same goal of providing scientifically-accurate, sex-positive information to enhance female pleasure, Dr. Mintz also writes a popular Psychology Today blog. She also gives presentations and workshops to professionals and lay audiences and is often quoted in national and international media. For over 25 years, Dr. Mintz has also maintained a small private practice. One of her greatest honors is to help clients reach their goals and to live fuller, more authentic lives.

In this episode, you will hear:

How to know whether you’ve reached orgasm or not
The different types of orgasm women can have
How most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm
The different standards that exist between women and men on the issue
Common factors that can attribute to not experiencing orgasm
Feelings of shame that can occur through not being able to orgasm
Potential evolutionary benefits of having orgasms
The importance to have open communication to improve your sexual life

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Resources

http://drlauriemintz.com

https://www.amazon.com/dp/0062484389

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EP38 - Rebuilding Sexual Intimacy After Sexual Betrayal Sep 26, 2017

Welcome to episode 38 of the Sexology Podcast, my guest today is Dr. Piper Grant. Dr. Grant is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist, sex therapist, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and founder of Numi Psychology. In this episode, we talked about the common emotions women may experience after discovering sexual betrayal and steps they can take when starting their journey of recovery.

Dr. Grant has extensive experience working with couples and individuals in healing ruptures within their relationship, overcoming sexual dysfunction, deepening their intimacy, and (re)building a strong foundation within their relationship. She specializes in working with individuals and couples on issues related to sex, intimacy, and trauma.

Although based in Los Angeles, California, Dr. Piper seeks to reach individuals and couples internationally in recovery from sex addiction and healing from sexual betrayal by hosting retreats in Bali for women who have experienced sexual betrayal and couples in recovery from sex addiction. These are the only retreats hosted in Bali that are tailored to help couples and individuals on issues related to sexual betrayal and hosted by a Psychologist and CSAT.

In this episode, you will hear:

The common emotions women may experience after discovering sexual betrayal
How a woman’s self-image can be damaged
Recommendations for getting in touch with your feminine intuitive self
The challenges of the grieving process
Libido changes that can occur following sexual betrayal
The repeating cycle that can happen through multiple relationships
Steps you can take when starting your journey of recovery

Resources

www.numipsychology.com

www.drpipergrant.com

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EP37 - Sexual Performance Anxiety with Dr. Six Sep 19, 2017

Welcome to episode 37 of the Sexology Podcast, my guest today is Dr. Six who speaks to me about sexual performance anxiety, the different ways it manifests between men and women and knowing when it’s time to seek professional help with this issue.

Dr. Six has 25 years as a practicing Clinical Sexologist, and is a successful sex therapist who has helped thousands of people find their authentic selves and enjoy a more fulfilling relationship. Her approach is unique, and her style is warmly engaging, putting her clients and workshop attendees at ease. Her credentials include an M.A. in Counseling Psychology and a PhD in Clinical Sexology and she’s a Board Certified Clinical Sexologist by the American Board of Sexology. She’s also a professor at USF where she teaches graduate students about Sexology. Her book, Erotic Integrity: How to be True to Yourself Sexually was published last year by She Writes Press.

In Erotic Integrity, Dr. Claudia Six leads readers through ten sexual themes including garden-variety performance anxiety, sexual boredom, newly dating, coming out, and more and reveals three simple steps to a more rewarding sex life: knowing who you truly are as a sexual being, embracing that knowledge, and living it authentically.

In this episode, you will hear:

How you define sexual performance anxiety
The different ways it manifests between men and women
How it can take women longer to get turned on
The feelings of being broken or defective that can occur through this issue
The impact pornography can have on bad education around sex
Having open communication in your relationship to deal with sexual performance anxiety
How the win or lose mentality can affect men
Knowing when it’s time to seek professional help with this issue

Dr. Moali offers limited time reduced fee sex therapy treatment in Hermosa Beach or Torrance locations. Contact Dr. Moali(833) 376-6254 today to schedule an appointment or book a free 15 min consultation.

Resources

www.drsix.net

https://drsix.net/erotic-integrity-book/

(415) 453-6218

Ted Talk - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mIxRPWHFWIM

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EP36 - Psychological Growth Following Adversity Sep 12, 2017

Welcome to episode 36 of the Sexology Podcast with your host Dr. Nazanin Moali. In this episode, Dr. Moali talks about the important topic of psychological growth following experiencing sexual assault or rape. Furthermore, she discusses how sexual trauma may produce positive growth for individuals in various areas of their lives including their ability to relate to others, their general appreciation of life, and their ability to see new possibilities and changes in their spiritual life.

In this episode, you will hear:

How people overcome adversity after sexual assault
Why people can view themselves as a survivor rather than a victim
Changing relationships; needing others for support
Renewing one’s purpose in life and becoming more spiritual
Redefining perspective with mindfulness practices
How growth is a gradual process
Cultivating post-traumatic growth through support
The importance of honouring your own journey

Take advantage of this month’s reduced fee limited time offer for Sex therapy by Dr. Nazanin Moali. You can book your appointment by calling (833) 376-6254

Resources

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/

https://bmcmedresmethodol.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12874-017-0344-2

https://ptgi.uncc.edu/ptgi-related-inventories/

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EP35 - Healing from Sexual Assault with Wendy Maltz LCSW Sep 05, 2017

Welcome to episode 35 of sexology podcast. Today I’m joined by Wendly Maltz LCSW, who shares with us the steps one can take to rediscover the joy of sexual intimacy after experiencing sexual assault.

Wendy Maltz LCSW, DST, is an internationally recognized sex therapist, author, and speaker, with more than thirty-five years of experience treating sex and intimacy concerns. She authored a number of highly acclaimed sexuality resources, including the recovery classic, The Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse, as well as Private Thoughts: Exploring the Power of Women’s Sexual Fantasies, and The Porn Trap: The Essential Guide to Overcoming Problems Caused by Pornography.

Wendy compiled and edited two best-selling poetry collections that celebrate healthy sexual intimacy, Passionate Hearts: The Poetry of Sexual Love and Intimate Kisses: The Poetry of Sexual Pleasure. Her popular educational website, www.HealthySex.com, provides free articles, podcast interviews, posters, couples sexual healing videos, and more to help people recover from sexual abuse, overcome sexual problems, and develop skills for love-based sexual intimacy.

An experienced public speaker, workshop trainer and keynote presenter, Wendy has lectured in many major cities in the U.S., plus in Canada and New Zealand. Her presentation style is described as “warm and friendly,” “professional,” “information rich,” and “accessible.” Having worked in the field of sexuality for over three decades, Wendy knows how to put her audiences at ease on the subject.

In this episode, you will hear:

The common myths that exist around sexual assault
How people can blame themselves for something they didn’t have control over
The issue and complications around consent
How being sexually assaulted can affect a person’s outlook on sex
Common sexual challenges that survivors face
Ways in which you can support a partner who’s been sexually assaulted
Discovering when you are ready to go on the sexual healing journey
How it’s possible to still enjoy sex after being assaulted

Resources

www.HealthySex.com

Books

https://www.amazon.com/The-Sexual-Healing-Journey-Survivors/dp/0062130730

https://www.amazon.com/Private-Thoughts-Exploring-Womens-Fantasies-ebook/dp/B00A8SKN6K

https://www.amazon.com/Porn-Trap-Essential-Overcoming-Pornography/dp/0061231878

https://www.amazon.com/Passionate-Hearts-Poetry-Sexual-Love/dp/1577315677

https://www.amazon.com/Intimate-Kisses-Poetry-Sexual-Pleasure/dp/157731445X

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EP34 - Holistic Sexual Wellness with Dr. Janet Brito Aug 29, 2017

Welcome to episode 34 of the Sexology Podcast, my guest today is Dr. Janet Brito who speaks to me about mind body approach; what it is and how it can be used, the benefits of tapping into mindfulness and how a healthy and balanced diet can help with sexual health.

Janet Brito is a licensed clinical psychologist, and licensed clinical social worker in Hawaii. She is an AASECT certified sex therapist and a Graduate of the Fellowship Program in Human Sexuality at the University of Minnesota Medical School, one of only a few university programs in the world dedicated to sexuality training.

Currently, she is the founder of the Center for Sexual and Reproductive Health where she specializes in the areas of relationship and sex therapy, gender and sexual identity concerns, out of control sexual behaviour, non-traditional relationships, holistic sexual health approaches, and infertility.

In this episode, you will hear:

Mind body approach; what it is and how it can be used
The research that has been conducted into the efficacy of holistic medicine
The benefits of tapping into mindfulness to help with this issue
Societal messages people receive that can lead to shame
The narrative of our story and how that can lead to sexual challenges
Being the author of your own story and owning it
Ways in which alternative medicine practices can help increase sexual activity and intimacy
How a healthy and balanced diet can help with sexual health

Resources

http://sextherapyhawaii.com

https://www.facebook.com/drjanetbrito/

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Sexual Jealousy with Dr. Elizabeth Bonet Aug 22, 2017

Welcome to episode 33 of the Sexology Podcast, my guest today is Dr. Elizabeth Bonet who speaks to me about sexual jealously, the impact mistrust can have on a relationship and the differences between men and women when it comes to feeling jealous.

Shortly after earning her PhD in 1998, Dr. Bonet left the field of psychology to pursue a technical career. She worked in tech for many years doing project management and launching the first website to do online trading of international securities. She then left that field to be a stay at home mom and entrepreneur, growing her prenatal yoga business into an award winning company.

She has been a yoga teacher for over 15 years and was the founder of the award winning Yogafairy Prenatal Yoga. She won The 2014 Top 100 Leading Moms in Business award, grew an international community of mothers, and ran the company for close to 15 years before selling the company in May of 2016 to focus on her private practice.

Dr. Bonet returned to the field of psychology in 2008. She opened her own private practice located in the Ft. Lauderdale/Broward County area in Hollywood, Florida in 2010. As a certified Hypnotherapist with a PhD in Clinical Psychology, Dr. Bonet helps people feel more emotionally stable, happier and more connected to their partner, friends, and loved ones of their choosing. Specialties are hypnosis for anxiety reduction and chronic conditions, couples counseling (Gottman Level 1 certified) and Perinatal MoodDisorders (PSI certified).

Dr. Bonet also recently launched her podcast, Hypnotize Me, in December 2016 which has over 20,000 downloads and is listened to in over 70 countries. Hypnotize Me is about hypnosis, transformation, and healing.

In this episode, you will hear:

How sexual jealously is natural
The evolutionary purpose of jealousy
How jealously can manifest itself in relationships
The way jealously affects polyamorous and monogamous relationships differently
The impact mistrust can have on a relationship
Why jealously and competiveness can be similar but are distinctly different
The differences between men and women when it comes to feeling jealous
Is it possibly to get rid of these feelings of jealousy?
How hypnosis can be used around this issue
Being comfortable with yourself and your own feelings

Resources

http://drlizhypnosis.com

http://www.drlizhypnosis.com/hypnotize-me

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Sex After Divorce with Dalila Jusic-LaBerge LMFT Aug 15, 2017

Welcome to episode 32 of the Sexology Podcast. In this show, Dr. Nazanin Moali, Ph.D. is joined by relationship-counselor, Dalila Jusic-LaBerge LMFT who helps women find peace and happiness after divorce and separation. During this interview, we examine steps that one would need to take before re-entering the dating scene and the keys to having great sex after divorce.

Dalila Jusic-LaBerge is the owner of Be Here & Now Counseling. She helps women and teenage girls heal from trauma and emotional wounding so that they can enjoy life and love. Dalila specializes in working with accomplished professional women who yearn for love but feel lost in romantic relationships. Utilizing mindfulness and mind-body oriented modalities, she helps them heal, connect to their own emotions, develop intuition, while readying them for connections on deeper emotional levels. This empowers women to be authentic and in touch with who they truly are. Dalila focuses on helping her clients manage difficult feelings and emotions that come with stress, anxiety irritability, and anger, all of which can prevent them from enjoying their lives and engaging in gratifying relationships. Dalila provides services online and sees clients in her Agoura Hills and Westlake Village offices.

In this episode, you will hear about:

The challenges that people face when they decide to reclaim their sex life after divorce
The pros and cons of continuing sexual relations with your ex-partner
The duration to wait before having sex
The signs of emotional readiness for intimacy with a new partner
The approaches in communicating your desires and turn-ons with your new lover

For a very limited time period, Dr. Nazanin Moali offers reduced fee appointments for sexology podcast listeners who are interested to explore their sexuality. To book an in person or online counselling appointment, please call (833) 376-5254.

Resources

http://www.behereandnow.com/

https://www.facebook.com/behereandnowcounseling

http://oasis2care.com/

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Unlocking Your Erotic Blueprint Aug 08, 2017

Welcome to episode 31 of the Sexology Podcast. In this show, we discuss various components of the arousal template and explore the origin of our erotic yearnings and desires.

In this episode, you will hear about:

The benefits of knowing your arousal type.
The erotic core template and its changes throughout your life.
The distinctive love-map that is unique to each of us.
The concept of love-map as designed by sex researcher John Money.
The importance of identifying your eroticized feelings as core component of arousal template.

The integration of your fantasies as a way to develop a deeper understanding of your psyche.

Contact Dr. Moali’s office (833) 376-6254 to book an online or in person appointment. Dr. Moali offers limited reduced fee appointments for sex therapy until the end of September as an attempt to meet AASECT certification criteria.

Resources:

https://www.amazon.com/Lovemaps-Pathology-Paraphilia-Transposition-Adolescence/dp/0879754567/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1502142839&sr=8-1&keywords=John+money

https://www.amazon.com/Jack-Morin-Unlocking-Fulfillment-7-3-1996/dp/B00HTJQDEW/ref=sr_1_cc_1?s=aps&ie=UTF8&qid=1502142982&sr=1-1-catcorr&keywords=Jack+morin

https://www.amazon.com/Arousal-Secret-Logic-Sexual-Fantasies/dp/0312302428/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1502143023&sr=1-1&keywords=bader+arousal

http://www.sexologypodcast.com

http://www.oasis2care.com

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Talking To Your Teen About Sex with Dr. Lanae St. John Aug 01, 2017

Welcome to episode 30 of the Sexology Podcast, my guest today is Dr. Lanae St. John. In this episode, we discussed why it’s important to talk to teens about sex and the importance for parents to create a safe space for their teens.

Lanae St. John, DHS, ACS, is board certified sexologist, sexuality educator, and writer. She received her Doctorate in Human Sexuality from the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, where she focused on Child and Adolescent Sexuality. She develops curriculum, teaches classes, and works with clients to normalize conversations about sexuality between parents and children.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Lanae became interested in child adolescent sexuality
Why it’s important to talk to teens about sex
How it’s not always sufficient just to rely on schools for sex education
The need for clarity and correct information in sex education
Ways in which parents can discuss consent with their teens
How parents can help facilitate the coming out process for homosexual teens
The importance for parents to create a safe space for their teens
How parents support their teens if they are engaging in risky sexual behaviour
The importance for teens to not fear the reactions of their parents when discussing these issues

Resources

http://www.themamasutra.net

MamaSutra@me.com

https://youtu.be/oQbei5JGiT8

https://www.ted.com/talks/al_vernacchio_sex_needs_a_new_metaphor_here_s_one

http://www.uua.org/re/owl

Phone: +1 (909) 295-2623

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Female Sexual Desire with Dr. Deborah Tolman Jul 24, 2017

Welcome to episode 29 of the Sexology Podcast, my guest today is Deborah Tolman who speaks to me about her research on adolescent sexuality, the double standards that exist between boys and girls around sexuality and recommendations for parents to help their teenage girls through these challenges.

Deborah L. Tolman is a developmental psychologist and the co-founder of SPARK: Sexualization Protest: Action, Resistance, Knowledge. She is the author of Dilemmas of Desire: Teenage Girls Talk about Sexuality, which was awarded the 2003 Distinguished Book Award from the Association for Women in Psychology. Deborah received her Ed.D from Harvard University in 1992. She is also the former director of the Center for Research on Gender and Sexuality, and professor of human sexuality studies at San Francisco State University. Before relocating to San Francisco, she was a senior research scientist and the director of the Gender and Sexuality Project at the Center for Research on Women at Wellesley College.

Deborah is currently a professor of social welfare and psychology at the Hunter College School of Social Work and the Graduate Center of CUNY. Her research on adolescent sexuality, gender development, gender equity and research methods has been funded by grants from the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development, the Department of Health and Human Services, the Ford Foundation, and the Spencer Foundation.

In October 2010, Deborah co-founded SPARK (Sexualization Protest: Action, Resistance, Knowledge), an intergenerational "girl-fueled" movement building organization (with Lyn Mikel Brown) dedicated to challenging the sexualization of girls by engaging girls to be activists and working with partner organizations around the country. SPARK links academia to activism and demonstrates an alternative to the divisive "wave metaphor" regarding feminism.

In this episode, you will hear:

Details on her research on adolescent sexuality
The importance of differentiating teens and young adults in the research
How the results and language terminology differ between teens and young adults
The pressures teen girls and young women face around slut shaming
The double standards that exist between boys and girls around sexuality
How young women and teens are pressuring themselves to achieve “the perfect image”
The negative connotations that exist when trying to open up feelings around sexuality
The implications eating disorders can have on self-image and sexuality
Recommendations for parents to help their teenage girls through these challenges

Resources

http://sexgenlab.org

https://www.facebook.com/sexgenlab

http://www.sparkmovement.org

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Sex and Intercultural Relationships ft Dr. Dana Nelson Jul 18, 2017

Welcome to episode 28 of the Sexology Podcast, my guest today is Dana Nelson who is an American psychologist and counselor living and practicing in Lyon, France (Rhône-Alpes region). In this episode Dana talks about how she became involved in working with inter-cultural relationships, how a person’s cultural background can play into their expectation around sex and the underlying reasons we’re attracted to people from different cultures.

Dana Nelson is an American psychologist and psychotherapist, originally from Northern Virginia, who now lives and practices in Lyon, France. She completed her masters degree and PhD in Clinical Psychology from Penn State University, and worked for a number of years in community mental health as well as university counselling center settings prior to moving to France in 2014. While in graduate school in rural central Pennsylvania (one of the least likely place to meet a Frenchman, you would think!), Dana met her current partner, a French international student working on his PhD in engineering at that time. After 3 years together in the US, they both graduated, and he moved back to France for a job. Then, after 2 years of being in a super long-distance relationship from Pennsylvania to France, Dana decided to embark on her first-ever experience of living abroad and moved to France to join him. They now live together in Lyon, and Dana opened her private practice there last year, where she works with English-speaking expats, intercultural couples, international students, and others living abroad. Dana's most recent adventure has been starting a podcast of her own, called Mindful Expat, which focuses on issues of emotional wellbeing and resilience for expats, intercultural couples, and others living abroad.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Dana became involved in working with inter-cultural relationships
The underlying reasons we’re attracted to people from different cultures
How modern technology has allowed us to have relationships with people all over the world
Sexual experiences; how inter-cultural couples rate their experiences compared to couples of the same culture
The need for honest and open communication when in an inter-cultural relationship
How a person’s cultural background can play into their expectation around sex
Learning to be respectful and understanding of a person’s cultural background when in an inter-cultural relationship
The importance of seeing things from your partners perspective
Seeing and understanding your partner as their true authentic selves

Resources

http://www.dananelsoncounseling.com/mindful-expat-podcast/

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Sexuality in Game of Thrones Jul 11, 2017

Welcome to episode 27 of the Sexology Podcast, in the run up to the release of season 7 of Game of Thrones, my guest today is Tamara Powell, LMHC who speaks to me about why as sex therapist she thinks Game of Thrones stands out from other TV shows, the attraction we have to the powerful roles women have in the show and why we are fascinated with sexual war.

Tamara is the owner of Arya Therapy Services, the now global phenomenon in holistic health and healing. She is also the founder Tales from a Trapezoid dedicated to the more raw and edgier side of life, working with those who may often feel like a trapezoid in a world full of circles.

Most recently, she launched her own podcast Undressing The Spirit, where through stories and interviews, she takes listeners behind the veil of counseling into erotic, relational, and spiritual diversity, uncovering how to accomplish mankind’s greatest challenge – finding purpose and passion no matter the worldview or proclivity.

In this episode, you will hear:

Why Tamara thinks Game of Thrones stands out from other TV shows
How it reminds her of Nancy Friday’s seminal work in the 70’s & 80’s
The attraction we have to the powerful roles women have in Game of Thrones
Why we are fascinated with sexual war
How the show can give you ideas for your own fantasies with your partner
Misconceptions about why Game of Thrones is sexually appealing
Why the forbidden is attracting and exciting
How people are too quick to relate the show to pornography
The way women’s sexual desires are represented through characters such as Daenerys Targaryen
The sexual power dynamics that exist in the show

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Resources

https://aryatherapy.com

https://aryatherapy.com/about-the-podcast (Undressing The Spirit Podcast)

https://talesfromatrapezoid.com

https://www.facebook.com/talesfromatrapezoid

http://www.hbo.com/game-of-thrones

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Books-Nancy-Friday/s?ie=UTF8&page=1&rh=n%3A266239%2Cp_27%3ANancy%20Friday

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The Hidden World of BDSM with Amanda Pasciucco LMFT Jul 04, 2017

Welcome to episode 26 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is , who speaks to me about the psychological effects that BDSM behaviours can have, the similarities between BDSM and Tantra and the roles that submissive and dominant play in BDSM.

Amanda Pasciucco, LMFT is a marriage & family therapy provider who practices in West Hartford, CT. She is also the author of "Playtime: Not Just for Children" and she is known as "The Sex Doctor." In addition to her expertise in the field of sexuality, her specialties include couples counseling, eating disorders, alternative relationship styles, anxiety, depression, and ADHD. By mutually establishing goals with clients, Amanda uses coaching and therapy to overcoming current struggles and barriers.

Amanda believes that everyone out there has the potential to have an amazing life: personally, socially, relationally, and sexually. She will help make you healthier and happier by assessing your emotional, physical, spiritual, and intellectual life experiences and equip you with the tools to accomplish your goals!

In this episode, you will hear:

The definition of BDSM – bondage & discipline, dominance & submission and sadism & masochism
The psychological effects that BDSM behaviours can have
How there is a lot of trust within BDSM
The deep level of communication that exists within BDSM
Common behaviours that Amanda see’s
The similarities between BDSM and Tantra
The misconceptions created by Fifty Shades of Grey
Ways in which our culture can create feelings of shame in this area
Recommendations for the first ways you can start to get involved in BDSM
The roles that submissive and dominant play in BDSM
The need for negotiation, compromise and understanding when engaging with BDSM
How to bring up your interest in BDSM with your partner
Why Amanda wrote her book “Playtime: A Guide To Sexual Conquests For Women”

Resources

https://sexandmagic.com

https://www.amazon.com/Playtime-Children-Guide-Sexual-Conquests-ebook/dp/B06X9WM66S/

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Signs of a Healthy Sexual Relationship with Jessa Zimmerman MA Jun 27, 2017

Welcome to episode 25 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Jessa Zimmerman, who outlines some of the most common mistakes couples make in the bedroom!

Jessa Zimmerman is a licensed mental health counselor and a nationally certified sex therapist. She works in private in downtown Seattle and specializes in working with couples struggling with issues of sex and intimacy.
Jessa earned a Masters in Psychology from LIOS Graduate College of Saybrook University, working through a program that emphasized family systems theory and experiential learning. Upon completion of that degree, she earned a Certificate in Sex Therapy from the University of Michigan. Combining those credentials with many hours of supervision and client work, she earned her certification as a sex therapist through the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT). She has pursued advanced training in approaches to couples therapy, including Crucible™ Couples Therapy and Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy (EFT).
Jessa has developed an online quiz that helps couples get a sense of the health of their relationship across several parameters. One of those measures is sexual avoidance. She is currently writing a book on the topic of the avoidance cycle and how couples can address the issues that cause them to avoid sex so that they can share a fulfilling sex life.

In this episode, you will hear:

Why she created her quiz; how healthy is your sex life?
Healthy aspects of sexuality Jess see’s in couples
How couples can slowly lose interest in sex and need new fantasies
The pressure of running out of new ideas for sex
Deepening your relationship to help increase intimacy
The need to be open and able to communicate with your partner about these issues
Overcoming unresolved sexual issues that can spill into a relationship
Contributing factors that lead to sexual avoidance
How porn is sexual entertainment, not education
The need to keep educated about sexual issues
Ways in which you can begin to overcome sexual avoidance
Developing healthy habits for your sex life

Resources

http://www.jesszimmerman.com

http://seattlecouplescounselor.com/sex-quiz/

https://www.amazon.com/Guide-Getting-Paul-Joannides-Psy-D/dp/1885535457

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Celibacy & Desire with Dr. Carmen Roman Jun 20, 2017

Welcome to episode 24 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Dr. Carmen Roman, who speaks to me about she got into the line of work of celibacy, how people live without sex and the unintended consequences of not being sexual.

Dr Roman is a psychotherapist with 25 years of experience working in both Mexico and 5+ years in California. She is known for her ability to create a safe place to help you to explore your deepest feelings and tap into your inner wisdom or get resources to cope with emotional trauma. Using Gestalt Therapy and transpersonal psychology, she will support you to live with awareness and responsibility to create the transformation you are longing for.

Her clients are psychologists, counselors, religious leaders, and people in the entertainment industry. Based on Gestalt therapy she helps clients to live with awareness, responsibility and in the here-and-now. Aided by the transpersonal psychology she addresses issues of spirituality, the use of meditation and paranormal experiences.

She is a specialist in creative expression in therapy at master’s and PhD levels. All those credentials are a toolbox to her as she tailors them to your needs. She uses the science of psychology as needed in every case. Her focus is your transformation and the improvement in your relationships.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Dr. Roman became involved in this work
Details on her workshop on celibacy which she has ran for the last 15 years
The relation between sexual abuse and celibacy
Issues surrounding male values over female values
How celibacy means only to be unmarried and not to withdraw from sex
How religious interpretations of celibacy have changed over the centuries
Ways in which in priests or people of faith deal with celibacy
Her thoughts on sexual abuse that has happened within religious organisations
The need to not put priests or other religious people outside of scrutiny when dealing with sexual abuse
The unintended consequences of not being sexual

Resources

http://www.carmenroman.net

http://www.carmenroman.net/emotions-in-harmony-podcast.html

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Sex & Technology with Dr. Katherine M. Hertlein, Ph.D. Jun 13, 2017

Welcome to episode 23 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Katherine M. Hertlein, Ph.D., who speaks to me about how the internet has impacted our sex lives, defining compulsivity in relation to pornography and how social media can hinder our real life social skills.

Katherine M. Hertlein, Ph.D., is a Professor and Program Director of the Marriage and Family Therapy Program at the University of Nevada, Las Vegas. She received her master’s in marriage and family therapy from Purdue University Calumet and her doctorate in human development with a specialization in marriage and family therapy from Virginia Tech. She is a globally recognized researcher studying sexuality, technology, and its effects on couples. As she examines the role of technology in couple and family life, Hertlein has developed the first multi-theoretical model on this issue.

In addition to technology and relationships, Hertlein’s other areas of expertise include infidelity, sexuality, high-risk sexual behavior, child and adolescent therapy, and cyber issues in couple and family therapy. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist, an American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy Approved Supervisor, and a PREPARE/ENRICH Certified Counselor.

Hertlein has co-authored 8 books, including Handbook for the Clinical Treatment of Infidelity, The Therapist’s Notebook for Family Healthcare, Handbook for the Treatment of Infidelity, Systemic Sex Therapy, and A Clinician’s Guide to Systemic Sex Therapy, the last revision of which won the 2017 AASECT Book Award. She has published more than 60 articles in the notable journals in her field, contributed over 40 chapters to books, and serves on the editorial boards for several academic journals. She was recently appointed as the Editor-in-Chief of the Journal of Couple and Relationship Therapy.

Hertlein has also won several awards for her teaching, mentorship, and work in the field of sexuality research, including the Integrated Approaches to Sex Therapy Award through AASECT.

In this episode, you will hear:

How the internet has impacted our sex lives
The impact of pornography on self-esteem
How too much consumption of pornography can lead to a higher and higher need for stimulative images / videos
The side effects of watching too much porn; erectile dysfunction
Defining compulsivity in relation to pornography
How the internet has impacted people’s sexual behaviour and infidelity
The need for more people to show their vulnerability
How we have our “edited versions” of ourselves on social media
Sexting; what it is and the benefits and risks that come with it
How social media can hinder our real life social skills

Resources

https://www.unlv.edu/news/expert/katherine-m-hertlein

http://oasis2care.com/

katherine.hertlein@unlv.edu

https://www.amazon.com/Systemic-Sex-Therapy-Katherine-Hertlein/dp/0415738245

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The World of Fetishes with Joe Zarate-Sanderlin LMFT Jun 06, 2017

Welcome to episode 22 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Joe Zarate-Sanderlin. In this episode, we talk about the psychology behind sexual fetishes.

Joe ZaRAte-SANderlin is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist seeing clients in private practice in San Francisco, California. He has been active in the open relationship and BDSM communities in New York, Boston, and San Francisco for nearly 20 years. He earned his Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology at Pacifica Graduate Institute in Montecito, California. Pacifica highlights the need for therapists to do their own inner work. As a part of this, Joe has examined the role of the unconscious dark side of the personality, often called The Shadow, in his own life and in the lives of his clients.

As a part of his training as a therapist, he worked under the supervision of Dossie Easton, co-author of The Ethical Slut, The Topping Book, and The Bottoming Book. For two and half years, he primarily saw clients in open relationships and BDSM relationships under Dossie’s guidance. In addition to working with Dossie, Joe was a counselor in a Catholic elementary school for three years and he volunteered at a low-few non-profit therapy clinic in San Francisco for four years.

His interest in alternative sexuality includes helping normalize some activities that can carry a stigma while recognizing that those activities can sometimes become disordered and cause stress. He has focused on unpacking the shame that many people feel regarding their sexuality. He is also interested in the historical and cultural aspects of relationships and sexuality and he is passionate about challenging the bias toward hetero- and mono- normative relationships and toward binary views of gender.

Since he became licensed in 2013, he has continues his focus on working with clients in the LGBT, open relationship, and BDSM communities. He is a member of both Gaylesta and Bay Area Open Minds, two San Francisco Bay Area based organizations that promote and support therapists working with LGBT, open relationship, BDSM, and alternative sexuality communities. He was recently named to the Bay Area Open Minds board as social coordinator.

Joe has conducted trainings for other therapists on couples therapy, BDSM, open relationships, and talking to clients about about sex as well as guest lectured about couples therapy on the master’s level. He is in the early stages of writing a book about the role of attachment in open relationships.

In this episode, you will hear:

What sexual fetishes are
How sexual fetishes can be healthy for people
The more common fetishes Joe see’s in his practice
How there could be many more people with fetishes than we realize
The role society plays around this issue
How people with fetishes can still be aroused without fetishes
Ways in which people develop fetishes
How shame and guilt plays a big role in fetishes
Creating safe spaces for people to be able to talk about fetishes
Ways in which to support someone in y our life who has a fetish
The need for good communication and engagement

Resources

http://www.jzsmft.com

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Mismatched Libido with Renelle Nelson LMFT May 30, 2017

Welcome to episode 21 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Renelle E. Nelson who is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist. She has been providing therapy for over 11 years. In this episode, she talks about what it means to have a low libido, how it’s not a one-person problem but a couple’s problem and recommendations for couples dealing with this issue.

Renelle hails from the state of Milwaukee, Wisconsin and got indulged in the profession of Marriage and Family Therapy in Grad School. Renelle was able to attain the first-hand knowledge of the silenced suffering and agony of women specifically due to lack of education and self-awareness, while working at A Woman’s Touch Sexuality Resource Center. These experiences led her to transition her passion of working for the betterment of women and others into a profession as an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist.

Over the years, Renelle has worked exclusively with a large number of men and women and families who are in need of assistance, guidance, and counseling. Renelle has been able to work in tandem with a great number of her clients and has been able to successfully find the plausible solutions of their problems related family and sex life. Renelle is a self-proclaimed self-pleasuring advocate who is always on the lookout for opportunities to spread the knowledge regarding the many benefits and advantages of self-pleasuring, and self- love with the world. Renelle has spoken at a numerous renowned speaking events on topics regarding self-pleasuring and depression concerned to oppressed sexual life and problems.

Renelle is also an owner of Kaleidoscope Services LLC which is a platform specifically made for the purpose of enhancing common individual knowledge regarding these sexual aspects of life and their connection with the issues related to anxiety and depression. Renelle primary objective is to use her remarkable skills and natural talents to enhance, educate, and excite the people life in and out of the bedroom.

In this episode, you will hear:

What it means to have a low libido
The definitions of a low libido and what is defined as normal
Why you shouldn’t compare your sex drive to what it was like when you were younger
Struggles with desire
How it’s not a one-person problem but a couple’s problem
The need for good communication around this issue
Unresolved issues around anger
How high levels of stress can affect your sex life
The controlling power dynamic
How the ideas of being defective can produce feelings of shame
The effects of getting sexual information from pornography
The difference from having a low libido and being a-sexual
Utilizing sexual novelties
Recommendations for couples dealing with this issue

Resources

https://kaleidoscopeservicesllc.org

https://www.facebook.com/kaleidoscopeservices

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The Science Behind Female Ejaculation May 23, 2017

Welcome to episode 20 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Deborah Sundahl, who speaks to me about female ejaculation, the misconceptions, how all women have the capability to ejaculate, ways in which to learn how to ejaculate and the psychological and physiological benefits from ejaculating.

Deborah Sundahl is the foremost pioneer, popular expert on female ejaculation and the G-spot. She is the author of the seminal book, Female Ejaculation and the G-spot (Hunter House, 2003/2014). Her 30 years of groundbreaking contributions to this field include a line of videos titled the Female Ejaculation Sex Education Series (Isis Media, Inc.), which Deborah produced and hosts. She lectures and gives workshops in North America and Europe, and has taught thousands of men and women how to integrate the G-spot and female ejaculation into their erotic lives. She continues to be a spokesperson for female sexuality and an advocate for sex education.

In this episode, you will hear:

The definition of female ejaculation
Scientific studies that show what female ejaculation is
How ancient cultures knew about female ejaculation
How all women have the capability to ejaculate
Misconceptions around this issue
The need for more educational material on this topic
Psychological and physiological benefits
The role Tantra has played over the years for female ejaculation
The empowerment that comes with honouring your body and sex life
Ways in which to learn how to ejaculate
The need to stimulate the g spot to ejaculate
The need to let go and not confuse urine with ejaculate
How spirituality can play an important role around this issue

Resources

http://deborahsundahl.com

https://www.amazon.com/Female-Ejaculation-G-Spot-Deborah-Sundahl-ebook/dp/B013KT9X1E/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1495550489&sr=8-1&keywords=female+ejaculation+deborah+sundahl

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Sexless Marriage with Laurie Watson LMFT May 16, 2017

Welcome to episode 19 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Laurie Watson, LMFT. In this episode we talk about how you can get the spark back, and the importance of understanding different sex drives and ways to address them.

Laurie is a certified sex therapist who has twenty-five years of experience working with couples and individuals about love and sex. Laurie says, “I’ve never seen a couple who I didn’t feel hope about their healing and happiness. The difficulty is convincing them to give up the idea that only their partner will have to change!”

She authored her first book Wanting Sex Again – How to Rediscover Desire and Heal a Sexless Marriage (Penguin) in December 2012. A popular blogger for the general public with over 1.6 million reads on Psychology Today Online in Married and Still Doing It, Laurie also lectures professionals at Duke’s and UNC Chapel Hill’s medical schools on sexual function and dysfunction. Featured in her hometown in the N&O, Laurie has also been published or quoted in most every nationally popular magazine like Glamour, Women’s Health, Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, etc.

A popular media figure, she has appeared on the Katie Couric Show and is regularly on radio and television in Raleigh and Greensboro. Director/owner of Awakenings, Center for Intimacy and Sexuality, Laurie supervises 6 clinicians in both Raleigh and Greensboro.

She’s a member of St. Michael’s Episcopal Church, has been married for 30 years and has three grown sons.

In this episode, you will hear:

How important sex is, in a marriage
What are some of the causes of a sexless marriage
How couples can develop a power struggle in a relationship through a sexless marriage
Ways in which in couples can reconnect
The different sexual dynamics between a man and a woman that can lead to a sexless marriage
Understanding each other’s sex drives, what works and doesn’t work in the bedroom
The need for women to have clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, only 15% of women reach orgasm without clitoral stimulation
How couples can get stuck in a loop of not having sex
Overcoming the stresses of modern life, work, kids etc to have a healthy sex life
The different reasons why men and women will withdraw from sex

Resources

http://awakeningscenter.org

http://awakeningscenter.org/test-sign-up

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Myths and Misconceptions about Abortion with Dr. Debra Mollen May 09, 2017

Welcome to episode 18 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Dr. Debra Mollen. In this show she discusses women’s reproductive rights, the myths and misconceptions around abortion and the consequences of limiting reproductive rights; e.g. DIY abortions.

Debra Mollen is a psychologist, Professor, and Director of the Counseling Psychology Master’s Program at Texas Woman's University in Denton, Texas. She has published scholarship on women’s sexuality, multiculturalism, reproductive justice, and professional development in various academic journals. Debra is a recognized as a Certified Sexuality Educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists and was the 2016 recipient of the Distinguished Graduate Faculty Award from her university. She is a Co-Chair for the Revision of the American Psychological Association Guidelines for the Psychological Practice with Girls and Women and past-Chairperson of the Division 17 (Counseling Psychology) Section for the Advancement of Women

Her specialties include: Multicultural awareness and diversity training, training and professional identity, sexuality education, childfree women, feminist theory and therapy

In this episode, you will hear:

The rights women have when it comes to reproduction
The myths and misconceptions around abortion
How women can feel a sense of alienation and hopelessness when confronted with abortion
How there isn’t any recognizable science or data for “Post Traumatic Abortion Syndrome”
The ways in which our culture can pressure women into motherhood
How our modern society can romanticize having children
How limiting women’s reproductive rights could influence their sexuality
Consequences of limiting reproductive rights; DIY abortions.
Knock on effects: trauma, anxiety, and depression
How legislators are chipping away at women’s reproductive rights
Ways in which to counteract the legislators
The need for good quality education and information on this issue

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Resources

http://www.worldsexology.org/resources

dmollen@mail.twu.edu

http://www.worldsexology.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/declaration_of_sexual_rights_sep03_2014.pdf

https://www.prochoiceamerica.org/

https://www.guttmacher.org/

http://www.siecus.org/

https://www.aasect.org/

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The Fantasy Bond with Dr. Lisa Firestone May 02, 2017

Welcome to episode 17 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Dr. Lisa Firestone. In this episode, Dr. Firestone talks about the definition of a “Fantasy Bond”, childhood experiences that can affect your sexuality and the need for self-compassion around these issues.

Dr. Lisa Firestone is the Director of Research and Education at The Glendon Association. An accomplished and much requested lecturer, Dr. Firestone speaks at national and international conferences in the areas of couple relations, parenting, and suicide and violence prevention. Dr. Firestone has published numerous professional articles, and most recently was the co-author of Sex and Love in Intimate Relationships (APA Books, 2006), Conquer Your Critical Inner Voice (New Harbinger, 2002), Creating a Life of Meaning and Compassion: The Wisdom of Psychotherapy (APA Books, 2003) and The Self Under Siege (Routledge, 2012).

In this episode, you will hear:

The definition of a “Fantasy Bond”
How common it is for people to experience the Fantasy Bond
Repeating destructive behaviours throughout different relationships
Being able to experience healthy sexuality without acting out from your past
Childhood experiences that can affect your sexuality
Identifying if you’re reacting in a fantasy bond as opposed to reacting authentically
The need for some people to have certain fantasies to be aroused
The importance of being vulnerable with your partner in a relationship
Overcoming the shame that not being vulnerable can create
Why both partners in a relationship need to be authentic with each other
Voice Therapy – How it works and its similarities to Narrative Therapy
The need for self-compassion and not be too self-critical

Resources

https://www.psychalive.org

https://www.sexologypodcast.com

lfirestone@glendon.org

http://drlisafirestone.com

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How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex with Tara Spears LMFT Apr 25, 2017

Welcome to episode 16 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is the creator of Talk Sex with Me, Tara Spears, LMFT, LMHC. In this episode, Tara talks about ways in which parents can support their children through the journey of sexual discovery, how to navigate the situation of your children discovering pornography and clarifying and communicating your own sexual values to your child.

Talk Sex with Me was created by Tara Spears. Ms. Spears graduated with a Master’s Degree in Counselor Education from the University of Central Florida in 2005. She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Mental Health Counselor and Certified Sex Therapist. She has over ten years of experience working with individuals, children, families and couples encountering a variety of hardships in life. After spending, most of her career responding reactively to situations or intervening after a crisis (i.e. a child’s removal from the home, failed adoption, and the aftermath of abuse), Ms. Spears decided to take a more proactive approach.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Tara became involved in this line of work
The appropriate age for parents to start talking about sex with their children
Why parents shouldn’t over-react if they find their children masturbating
Ways in which parents can support their children through the journey of sexual discovery
Clarifying your own sexual values
Communicating those values to your child
Knowing the distinction between sexual education and “putting sexual ideas” into your child’s mind
How to navigate the situation of your children discovering pornography
Making sure pornography doesn’t set their expectation for sex
Communicating to younger children if they walk in on their parents having sex
The best ways to react if your child becomes pregnant or impregnates someone else
Negative connotations in school sex education and how to navigate around this issue

For more great content please check out www.sexologypodcast.com

Resources

https://talksexwithme.com

talksexwme@gmail.com

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The Power of Masturbation with Dr. Jennifer Gunsaullus Apr 18, 2017

Welcome to episode 15 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is sociologist and sexologist Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus. In this episode, you will hear Dr. Gunsaullus talk about the normality of masturbation and how often people engage in it, positive effects from masturbation and ways in which parents can positively communicate with their children about masturbation.

Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus, sociologist and sexologist, is a frequent speaker about sexual empowerment, healthy relationships, body image, erotic play, sexual consent, sexual health, and mindfulness. She has presented two TEDx Talks, is a writer on sex and relationships,and a recurring intimacy expert on the San Diego morning news. Her In the Den with Dr. Jenn educational video series has over 1.3 million hits on YouTube and she is an expert in the new documentary on masturbation, called Sticky: A (Self) Love Story. In addition, as a martial arts practitioner, she was recently promoted to black belt in Korean karate -- so watch out for this badass doctor!

In this episode, you will hear:

The normality of masturbation and how often people do it
How it’s normal for children to discover masturbation
General concerns people have, is it harmful?
How cultural and religious beliefs have negatively impacted people’s views on masturbation
Misinformation – No, you can’t go blind from masturbation
Positive effects from masturbation, mentally and physically
Overcoming shame and embarrassment with meditative masturbation
Masturbating in a relationship, does it hurt the relationship?
Having open communication with your partner on this issue
The psychological effects using toys and vibrators can have
Ways in which parents can positively communicate with their children about masturbation
How many of our currently held cultural views of masturbation were created in the 19th and 20th century

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Resources

http://www.drjennsden.com

http://www.drjennsden.com/meditative-masturbation

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Sexual Empowerment with Dr. Patti Britton Apr 11, 2017

Sexology Podcast EP14 - Sexual Empowerment with Dr. Patti Britton

Welcome to episode 14 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Clinical Sexologist and Sexuality Educator, Dr. Patti Britton. In this episode, Dr. Britton talks about what sexual empowerment entails, how shaming yourself is one of the biggest blocks to sexual pleasure and becoming more authentic and cultivating erotic authenticity.

With over 35 years of experience and pedigreed credentials as a Clinical Sexologist and Sexuality Educator, Dr. Patti Britton has built a reputation as a pioneer of sex coaching. Her methodologies for helping individuals and couples achieve their desired sexual potential are well known among professionals in her industry. As co-founder of SexCoachU, she has trained hundreds of sex coaches throughout the world, spreading her groundbreaking approach to sexual healing. Dr. Patti’s work has been featured on national TV programs, such as The Montel Show, Hard Copy, CNBC, and CBS News. She raised the bar in her field when she published the first book on Sex Coaching, entitled ‘The Art of Sex Coaching: Expanding Your Practice’.

While her methods and unique approach have developed into training other sex coaches, Dr. Patti’s true passion lies in working with individuals and couples to achieve their sexual goals. Whether it’s a desire to heal sexual dysfunction, overcome shame, or deepen an intimate connection, Dr. Patti is at right at home with finding the solution.

In this episode, you will hear:

What sexual empowerment usually entails
Sexual actualisation and realisation and the right to feel pleasure
Some of the factors that lead to people losing their sexual power and desire
How shaming yourself is one of the biggest blocks to sexual pleasure
Ways in which to refresh your sex life
Clarifying your views around sexuality
SAR – Sexual Attitude Reassessment and Restructuring
Allowing yourself to enjoy sexual pleasure and masturbation
Navigating your value system with your sexual desires
Becoming more authentic and cultivating erotic authenticity
How things have changed since the release of Fifty Shades of Grey

Resources

http://drpattibritton.com

http://drpattibritton.com/free-gift-for-her-pleasure/

For more great content please check out www.sexologyposcast.com

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Recovering from Unhealthy Sexual Shame Apr 04, 2017

Welcome to episode 13 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is sex and relationship coach; Pam Costa. In this episode, Pam talks about how she began her journey into educating people about sexuality, the ways in which shame can shape our sexuality and how you can build shame resiliency.

After a decade and a half at Apple and Facebook, Pam left her career in high tech to found Down To There to share her real-life stories of challenges and successes around sexuality in her marriage. She hopes that her journey from struggling with sexual desire to a now rich and rewarding sex life can provide an example of how normal issues with desire can be, and how these issues can provide unexpected pathways for increased intimacy and connection.

As a Somatica® sex and relationship coach, she enjoys working with individuals and couples of all configurations to explore what is possible emotionally and erotically in their relationships. She is currently accepting and seeing clients over Skype and in-person in her office in Cupertino, CA. She also provides content and guidance for Down To There Circles: free, peer-led discussion groups, where friends can support and inspire each other around sex and relationships.

Her ongoing studies include training with San Francisco Sex Information (SFSI), American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT), California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT), JFK University's holistic counseling program and the Somatica® Institute.

Her writing has been featured on Huffington Post, Mindful and Psyched and she has also spoken at the Wisdom 2.0 and Inman conferences.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Pam began her journey into educating people about sexuality
The ways in which shame can shape our sexuality
Body shaming; and how it can affect sex
The difficulties in communicating what you want sexually, leading to vulnerability
How poor sex education can lead to shaming
Not having enough information on sex from our parents
The affects religion can have on sex and correct information around sex
Mixed messages that children can pick up from their parents about sex
Identifying your own shame and figuring out where it came from
Being scared to share your shame with your partner
Building shame resiliency
How shame can affect other things outside of sex; eating disorders, addictions etc.
Communicating with your close friends about shame

Resources

https://www.downtothere.com

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Maintaining Pleasure: Male Edition Mar 28, 2017

Welcome to episode 12 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m speaking to Natalie Finegood Goldberg, LMFT, CST about the issues surrounding erectile dysfunction. In this episode, Natalie talks about the causes of erectile dysfunction, its physiological and psychological factors contributing to this struggles and steps that can be taken to overcome this issue.

Natalie Finegood Goldberg is an AASECT Certified Los Angeles Sex Therapist and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (MFC #53017) specializing in sex therapy and psychotherapy. Working with individuals and couples, Natalie offers therapy services at her private practice in Beverly Hills. Previous work experience includes being a staff clinical associate at Center for Healthy Sex in West Los Angeles, as well as having previously worked at Cliffside Malibu, a dual diagnosis inpatient drug and alcohol rehab. Natalie was born and raised in Los Angeles and is familiar with the variety of pressures that come with living in LA.

In addition to her degrees, Natalie has participated in a variety of trainings including a Clinical Sexology training with Dr. Patti Britton, Bridging the Couple Chasm: A Research Based Approach by Drs John and Julie Gottman, and the Sex Addiction Treatment Training Program with Alexandra Katehakis, MFT, CSAT-S, CST-S. Natalie completed the rigorous requirements to become a sex therapist through the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) under the supervision of Alexandra Katehakis, MFT, CSAT-S, CST-S and Dr Tammy Nelson, CST-S. Natalie is trained in EMDR Therapy with advanced training in AF-EMDR (Attachment Focused EMDR) with Dr Laurel Parnell.

In this episode, you will hear:

The physical and psychological reasons why erections occur
How as men get older they need a mixture of physical and psychological stimulation to get an erection
The criteria that needs to be met to be diagnosed with erectile dysfunction
How erectile dysfunction is related to all sexual activity, not just for example masturbation
The physiological and psychological causes of erectile dysfunction
Why men prefer the problem to be physiological
How taking Viagra can make things worse if the problem is psychological
The effects anxiety can have in relation to erectile dysfunction
The impact erectile dysfunction can have on couples / relationships
How masturbation and pornography can affect erectile dysfunction
Available treatments both medically and psychologically
The average time treatments can take
The additional benefits mindfulness can bring
The importance of communication to help overcome this issue
Ways you can regain your sexual energy
Understanding that erectile dysfunction is a multi-layered issue that needs ongoing support

Resources

http://www.creatingchangela.com

natalie@creatingchangela.com

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4 Sex Myths as Explained by Science Mar 23, 2017

Welcome to episode 11 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m going to talk about 4 myths around sex that I see are very common in my practice. Originally, I wanted to do 13 myths to tie in with the Persian new year but that might have taken a little while to record… So the myths I have chosen are the ones I hear most frequently in my practice, and I hope this episode will shed some light and truth on these myths.

In this episode, you will hear:

Myth 1 – Penis size dictates a woman’s sexual pleasure

The average penis size when erect is around 13cm or anywhere between 9 – 16cm
In inches, the average size is from 4.7 to 5.1 inches
How the medias idea of 7 inches being the average size is wrong
How shame and anxiety come into play because of this myth
Research shows that the size of a penis has no true physiological effect on female sexual satisfaction
The importance around the perceived size of a man’s penis
How men who perceive their penis to be small suffer from sexual confidence
Feeling comfortable and confident with your body and penis size to have a good sex life

Myth 2 – How masturbation has destructive consequences physiologically and mentally

Research shows that 60 – 94% of men have masturbated at least once, with 40 – 60% having done it in the last month
43 – 85% of women have masturbated at least once, with 20 – 43% having done it in the last month
There’s no known negative consequences physiologically or mentally from masturbation
Studies have shown it helps in knowing one’s own needs for sexual pleasure, increased autonomy and body integrity improving self-esteem
How the myths of masturbation date back to the 17th century
How the majority of people continue masturbating when in a committed relationship

Myth 3 – Men are obsessed with sex and women don’t think about it

There’s no data to support the idea that men think about sex every 7 seconds
How this myth puts pressure on men to be overly sexual

Myth 4 – Vaginal sex is the best way for women to reach orgasm

How Freud invented the term “Vaginal Orgasm” without scientific basis
Most women can’t reach orgasm through vaginal penetration alone, they need clitoris stimulation and other kinds of stimulation to reach orgasm
How men can get frustrated because they can’t make women reach orgasm through vaginal penetration alone

Resources

http://oasis2care.com

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Come As You Are: An Interview with Dr. Emily Nagoski Mar 14, 2017

Welcome to episode 10 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Emily Nagoski. In this episode, Emily talks about the dual control model and how sex works in the brain, how attachment with our partners affects our sex life and the societal factors that affect women’s sexuality.

Emily is the author of the New York Times bestseller, COME AS YOU ARE: The surprising new science that will transform your sex life (Simon & Schuster, 2015). She has a Ph.D. in Health Behavior with a doctoral concentration in human sexuality from Indiana University (IU), and a Master’s degree (also from IU) in Counseling, with a clinical internship at the Kinsey Institute Sexual Health Clinic. She also has a B.A. in Psychology, with minors in cognitive science and philosophy, from the University of Delaware. While at IU, Emily worked as an educator and docent at the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex Gender and Reproduction. She also taught graduate and undergraduate classes in human sexuality, relationships and communication, stress management, and sex education.

Emily is also the author of three guides for Ian Kerner’s GoodInBed.com: The Good in Bed Guide to Orally Pleasuring a Man, The Good in Bed Guide to Female Orgasms, and A Scientific Guide to Successful Relationships, as well as both author and narrator of Come as You Are.

A sex nerd among sex nerds, Emily has the lowest Erdős number of any sex educator in the world. She lives in western Massachusetts with two dogs, two cats, and a cartoonist. She’s funnier in real life (and hardly ever speaks in the third person).

In this episode, you will hear:

The dual control model and how sex works in the brain
The concept of break and accelerators
Sexual relevancy and the importance of context
How it’s easier to change our external environments rather than internal
Figuring out how to turn of the things that are hitting our sexual brakes
Eating disorders; the struggle with self-image
How the shame around body shape and size is more harmful than the fat itself
Learning to love your partner as their body naturally changes
How attachment with our partners affects our sex life
Why your brain thinks sex is more exciting at the start of a new relationship
Learning to be close with your partner whilst still sexually attracted
Societal factors that affect women’s sexuality
The taboo of women who love sex, e.g being called a slut
Why we shouldn’t live up societies standards for our sexual accelerators and brakes

Resources

http://www.thedirtynormal.com

http://emilynagoski.com/come-as-you-are

https://twitter.com/emilynagoski

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Sexuality and Vulnerability: Lesson Learned As a Dominatrix Mar 07, 2017

Welcome to episode 09 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Dr. Sandra LaMorgese. In this episode, Sandra speaks about how she made her journey into BDSM at the age of 55, misconceptions around the BDSM community and turning openness and vulnerability into a source of empowerment.

Sandra is an author, speaker, and CEO of Attainment Studios, a sex positive business directory website designed to bring together members of the sex-positive community, and for finding solutions for your professional and personal needs. She is an expert in communications, life transformation, authentic living, health, wellness, and intimacy.

Sandra is also an internationally featured Huffington Post blogger, a regular writer for Arianna Huffington’s new health and wellness platform Thrive Global, and among the top 10% of writer on Medium in 2016. She was listed as having the “Coolest Job in NYC” by Thrillist NYC, and her interview and photo shoot with Huffington Post ‘15 Unbelievable Photos of A 60-Year-Old Dominatrix with Her Client‘ article made the ‘MOST SHARED’, WHAT’S HOT and ‘TRENDING’ lists on The Huffington Post in the United States and Australia.

Her recent book Switch: Time for a Change, is a memoir about how her later profession as a dominatrix ultimately allowed her to change her previously blind adherence to “the rules,” and to enter into a whole different kind of contract with a truer version of herself. Sandra was able to change her thoughts, feelings, and beliefs in order to embrace a passionate and fulfilled life.

In this episode, you will hear:

Sandra’s background and the different roles she’s had in her career
How she made her journey into being a dominatrix at 55 years of age
The relationship between vulnerability and authenticity
How the internal changes we make to ourselves can impact our surroundings
Exploring the unconscious through sexual play
How Sandra becomes present and mindful in her BDSM sessions
The importance of really connecting when being intimate
Misconceptions around the BDSM community
The dynamic of dominance and submission
How people of power like to be a submissive in BDSM
The connection between sexual energy and creativity
The importance of trusting the process with BDSM
Turning openness and vulnerability into a source of empowerment
Giving a voice to our true self
Overcoming boredom through excitement and curiosity

Resources

http://sandralamorgese.com

https://www.amazon.com/Sandra-Lamorgese-Ph-D/e/B01MCWCQZL

https://twitter.com/SandraLaMorgese

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When Sex Becomes Escape with Duane Osterlind LMFT Feb 28, 2017

Welcome to episode 08 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Duane Osterlind. In this episode, Duane talks about the issues around sex addiction, how to recognize it, stages of recovery and what a healthy sexuality looks like afterwards.

As co-founder of NOVUS Mindful Life Institute, Duane Osterlind’s vision is to provide comprehensive care for individuals struggling with process addictions in the utmost confidential, comprehensive and caring environment to ensure clients feel safe and accepted with anticipation that recovery is possible.

Duane has over eight years of experience as a therapist helping individuals find hope and healing. He received his Master’s Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from California State University, Long Beach. He has also trained with Patrick Carnes, P.hD., a leading expert in the treatment of sexual addiction issues and author of “Out of the Shadows”. He is a member of the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT), and the Society of Sexual Health (SASH). MFT#44567

Duane’s clinical focus is on treating individuals and couples struggling with process addictions using a mindfulness and task centered approach. He facilitates the Men’s Sexual Addiction Process Group and well as a DBT group for individuals struggling with anxiety and depression.

In this episode, you will hear:

If people should identify hyper sexual disorder as an addiction
Recognizing and distinguishing someone with a diverse sexuality to sex addiction
Looking at the compulsive nature of sex addiction
The three main domains which identify people struggling with sex addiction
Changes in the frequency of acting out behaviour
Gender differences
Distinguishing the difference between love and sex addiction
Links between chemical and sexual addiction
Difficulty in forming deep relationships
The different stages of recovery
The need to have more than just a couple of therapy sessions
The process of healing through other group members
Going through abstinence and becoming ready for a relationship
What healthy sexuality looks like after addiction
The three circle plan and its use in therapy

Resources

https://novusmindfullife.com

https://theaddictedmind.com

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Unleash Your Wild Side with Dr. Stacy Feb 21, 2017

Welcome to episode 07 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Dr. Stacy. In this episode, she speaks to me about how she became involved in the work of sexual inhibition, the issues around boredom and losing interest in sex and the importance of communication.

Dr. Stacy got into the field of Clinical Sexology because of her passion for helping people better connect and experience the best sexual intimacy with themselves or with their partner(s). She holds a Doctorate degree in Human Sexuality in addition to a Masters in Clinical Sexology and is a Certified Sex Coach. She is a member of WASC (World Association of Sex Coaching), including ACS (The American College of Sexologists) which shows that she has the earned top credentials in my field. She also has a BA in Psychology and is a Registered Diagnostic Medical Sonographer and Vascular Sonographer.

She has been a consultant selling adult novelties since 2006 and has had the experience of reaching many men and women to educate them in a fun, positive approach to love, romance and all aspects of sexuality. Her education and own sexual journey and life experience enable her to help you move forward in a positive direction to face the challenges that may lie ahead and to achieve your goals. Coaching is designed to help women, men, of any sexual orientation or gender, address their concerns about sexuality, sexual function, and sexual expression.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Dr. Stacey became involved in the work of sexual inhibition
The definition of sex inhibition
Boredom and the issue of losing interest in sex
The factors that lead to people developing sex inhibition
How there is two kinds of inhibitive sex, primary and secondary
Recommendations for women to overcome negative emotions
Losing and re-kindling sexual desire in long-term relationships
The importance of foreplay
Navigating different levels of desire in a relationship
How education through pornography can make things worse
Gender differences around the issue of inhibition
Communicating with your partner openly and positively about these issues

Resources

http://www.drstacy.org

https://www.facebook.com/DrStacySexCoach

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Demystifying Female Sexuality with Dr. Lonnie Barbach Feb 14, 2017

Welcome to episode 06 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Dr. Lonnie Barbach. In this episode, Lonnie speaks to me about the issues surrounding female sexuality such as faking orgasms, the need for good communication and overcoming boredom to improve sex in a relationship.

Dr Barbach's work as a couple’s therapist for more than three decades and the publication of Going the Distance: Finding and Keeping Lifelong Love crafted with David Geisinger, Ph.D., her partner of 32 years, has defined her as an acknowledged expert on intimate relationships. She is skilled in a variety of treatment modalities in treating individuals and couples with problems ranging from anxiety and depression to parenting and communication issues.

Considered a pioneer in her field, her dozen books, translated into an equal number of languages, have sold over 4 million copies in the U.S. alone. She is a life member of the American Psychological Association and is currently Director of Content for Happy Couple, a quiz-style game that takes you from dating to building a healthy and sustainable relationship.

In this episode, you will hear:

The physiological aspects of a woman reaching an orgasm
The need for a slow build up and feeling safe in the relationship
Faking orgasms and teaching your partner that the wrong things are right
Difficulties in finding good information and believing external standards
Good starting points for couples exploring what they like to do sexually
Studies which highlight what makes for a great relationship / marriage
Issues around boredom, overworking and not prioritizing the relationship
Importance of communication
Things that hinder women to experience arousal
How differences in amount of desire needed can affect a relationship
How not being so goal oriented can improve the experience for most people
Reading resources together to improve sex
Why Lonnie created “Happy Couple” (A couple’s game app)

Resources

http://www.happycouple.co

http://www.lonniebarbach.com

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Understanding Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity Feb 07, 2017

Welcome to episode 05 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Dr. Abigail Weissman. In this interview with Abi, she speaks to me about the difference between sexual orientation and gender identity, how she began her work on gender identity and the importance of language and pronouns in this area.

Abigail "Abi" Weissman, Psy.D. (PSY 27497) is a feminist and lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans*, and queer, intersex, and questioning (LGBTQIQ)- affirming, polyamory - affirming, BDSM/kink - friendly, multiculturally competent, clinical psychologist who is warm, welcoming, and empowering with a wealth of clinical experience. She has a Master of Arts in Human Sexuality studies and a Doctorate and Master of Arts in Clinical Psychology. She hails from the East Coast by way of the Bay Area, CA. When not providing psychotherapy, training, or consultation, she can be found reading the latest research on queer sexuality, gender identity, and spending time with her family and friends.

pronouns: she, her, hers

In this episode, you will hear:

The difference between sexual orientation and gender identity
How one’s internal sense of self is how you determine gender identity
Association of politics in gender identity
Working with teens, dealing with exploration
What it means to have a gender that is neither male or female
When people first notice their gender identity
How gender identity can be discovered as young as two and half years of age
Support parents can offer to children issues around gender identity; bullying etc
Misconceptions around transgender women and men
Barriers around surgery for transgender people
The importance of use of language and pronouns in these issues

Resources

http://www.doctorabi.com

http://www.glsen.org

Call - (619) 403-5578

Email - info@doctorabi.com

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The Reality of Hook Up Culture Jan 31, 2017

Welcome to episode 04 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Dr. Lisa Wade. Lisa is an associate professor of sociology at Occidental College. In this conversation, Lisa talks in-depth about the history of hook up culture, its impact on sexual attitudes and relationships, motivations behind the culture and its long-term effects.

She is currently on leave and living in New Orleans, the place she calls home. Her newest book, American Hookup, is about the emergence and character of the culture of sex that dominates college campuses today. Before receiving her PhD in sociology at the University of Wisconsin-Madison, Lisa earned an MA in human sexuality from NYU and a BA in philosophy from the University of California-Santa Barbara.

Lisa has authored over a dozen academic research articles and a textbook on the sociology of gender. She also actively contributes to media, writing extensively for non-academic audiences and appearing on television and radio.

In this episode, you will hear:

How hook up culture is not an option but an imperative on college campuses
The hierarchical structure, motivations being related to status
How the structure is related more to heterosexual sex
Differences between the genders around hook up culture
How hook up culture satisfies male needs more than females needs
The evolution that’s happening around the culture in the USA
The history of college rioting, resulting in the first social fraternity being founded in Schenectady, New York in 1825.
The cultural impact of the movie “Animal House”
How raising the drinking age from 18 to 21 gave more power to fraternity’s
The development of cities and their impact on a changing culture around sex
The dynamical differences of hook up culture for young people not in college
Long-term effects of hook up culture on attitudes towards sex and relationships

Resources

http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/30231781-american-hookup

https://lisa-wade.com

email: lwade@oxy.edu

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Beyond Monogamy: Exploring Polyamory and Open Relationships Jan 24, 2017

Sexology Podcast EP03 – Tamara Powell

Welcome to episode 03 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Tamara Powell, LMHC. Tamara is the owner of Arya Therapy Services, the now global phenomenon in holistic health and healing. More recently, she founded Tales from a Trapezoid dedicated to the more raw and edgier side of life, working with those who may often feel like a trapezoid in a world full of circles.

Tamara tends not to believe in limitations or pathology, only what she calls the “nearsightedness of that comes from either not knowing better OR creative, yet maladaptive attempts to get one’s needs met.” Her goal is to assist individuals and couples in tackling all of life’s challenges, whether mentally, emotionally, or spiritually.

In this episode, you will hear:

Tamara’s experience working with sexually diverse clients
The definition of a polyamorous relationship
Who chooses polyamory and why
The misconceptions behind polyamorous relationships
How people transition from monogamist relationships
Working against the taboo and how people are concerned to ask questions
The religious and cultural connections to polyamory
The difference between polyamory, polygamy and swinging
Raising children in polyamorous relationships
How children can benefit because they have more resources
The strengths of polyamory
How to deal with jealousy

Resources

Tamara's websites:

https://aryatherapy.com

https://aryatherapy.com/about-the-podcast (Undressing The Spirit Podcast)

https://talesfromatrapezoid.com

Love in Abundance : A Counselor's Advice on Open Relationships (Book) -

https://www.amazon.com/Love-Abundance-Counselors-Relationships-Paperback/dp/B01FYKSULG/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1485030260&sr=8-1&keywords=love+in+abundance

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Erotic Recovery After Infidelity Jan 17, 2017

Welcome to episode 02 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Heather Seguin, who is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Rancho Cucamonga, CA. She help couples and individuals create lives that reflect their deepest values and priorities. We all need someone to talk to now and then, especially when life gets messy. She often meets with people who feel stuck in life. Maybe you want to communicate better with your significant other, but you find yourself repeating the same old argument. Perhaps you struggle with self-confidence and it's keeping you from advancing at work. She will help you work through the things that are getting in your way so that you can have the life and relationships you want.

In this episode, you will hear:

Different patterns that show how affairs can start
The difference between affairs and sex addictions
Similarities between sex additions and other addictions, E.G; Gambling, Drinking
Feeling shame and not having control on behaviour
How not all affairs are sexual
Coping with the trauma of discovering an affair or sex addiction
Digging deeper into a partners 3rd party sexual relationships
Rebuilding trust if you stay in the relationship
The impact on sexual confidence and reclaiming your sexual life
Working with a sex therapist to overcome the issues
Deepening the relationship after overcoming an affair or sex addiction

Resources

http://clearchoicecounseling.com

https://www.amazon.com/Erotic-Intelligence-Addiction-Katehakis-Alexandra/dp/B0157JJFY0/ref=sr_1_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1484591699&sr=1-2&keywords=erotic+intelligence

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Sexology Podcast Pilot Episode Jan 10, 2017

A new episode
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Episode 01: Sexuality and Mindfulness Jan 10, 2017

Welcome to episode 01 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Dr Albert Wong. Dr Albert Wong is Marshall Scholar educated at Princeton and Oxford and has received extensive training in couple’s therapy from some of the nation’s leading relationship experts.

In the 1990s, he served as residential staff at the Esalen Institute for five years and has been featured on PBS, in Time Magazine, and the book The American Soul Rush. His work has been published in titles ranging from the scientific journal Biological Cybernetics to the book anthology Radical Spirit. One of his film projects, Step One Breathe, was named Best Drama at the Maryville Film Festival. He recently presented a workshop at the International Conference of the Association for the Advancement of Gestalt Therapy entitled Many Dances, One Rhythm: A Somatic Exploration of Gestalt-Based Movement Practices.

In this episode, you will hear: