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EP320 - 3 Penetration Styles for Better Sex Feb 07, 2023

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Welcome to episode 320 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Miranda (@PleasureBhabie). In this episode, we discuss how Miranda became involved in Sex Education, looking at the best techniques for thrusting, using lube to your advantage and cultivating your sexual energy for great sex.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Miranda became involved in Sex Education
Looking at the best techniques for thrusting
Common mistakes men make with thrusting
Why don’t need to “Jackhammer” your partner for them to orgasm
Using lube to your advantage
Looking at some of Miranda’s favorite choice of lubes
Understanding the importance of consent and communication
How to use sexual positions to their best effect
Cultivating your sexual energy for great sex
Why women shouldn’t have to fake an orgasm

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EP319 - How To Celebrate Your Lover’s Pussy ft Kevin Anthony Jan 31, 2023

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Welcome to episode 319 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Kevin Anthony. In this episode, we discuss pussy worship, how you can use pussy worship to please your partner, analysing the scent of a pussy and taking the pressure off women to have an orgasm.

Kevin Anthony 'The Truth Warrior' is a former tech guy who turned Men's Relationship Coach and Certified Tantra Counselor. Kevin is truly a modern-day warrior who brings both his heart and sword of truth to everything he does.

Kevin has spent over 20 years on a personal quest to redefine and discover what it means to be a man and a warrior. In an era of social programming and mass confusion of what it means to be a man and a warrior in life, relationships, and sex - he is consistently challenging his edge and searching for the truth so that he can help others.

He is the co-creator of the course Sexual Power and Mastery with his lover and wife Céline, "The Intimacy Angel," which is the complete training to develop man's stamina, boost his confidence, and enhance his sexual abilities. He and his wife also co-host "The Love Lab Podcast."

His passion is helping other men find and discover their hero's journey of being a warrior; to learn how to be deeply connected to their partner and allow intimacy to show up in all areas of their life while still feeling balanced as a man.

In this episode, you will hear:

· How many women haven’t properly looked at their own pussy

· Analyzing the scent of a pussy

· Why it’s important to embrace the natural smell of pussy

· The importance of present with your partner

· Why you need to show your partner your invested in pussy worship

· Taking the pressure off women to have an orgasm

· Ways in which to make your partner comfortable and more relaxed

· Understanding pussy worship doesn’t need to lead to orgasm

· How you can immerse yourself in experiencing pleasure through pussy worship

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EP318 - How to Become an Expert in Sexting ft Hayley Quinn Jan 24, 2023

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Welcome to episode 318 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Hayley Quinn. In this episode, we discuss how couples in long term relationships can take advantage of sexting, the importance of consent when sexting, and how you can learn to develop your erotic vocabulary.

Dating coach Hayley Quinn’s original content, active social media presence, and unique delivery style helps global brands connect to a new audience and drive engagement.

Hayley has worked with numerous premium brands from Neutrogena, to Match, to Glamour, Logitech G, Ogilvy and Hotels.com. Hayley’s skills as a broadcast presenter, mean she can act as an experienced “safe pair of hands” to represent your brand on radio days, TV segments or social media content. She is a skilled copywriter and regularly works with brands to hone their press releases and provides expertise on how to utilize dating content to get your brand into the media. She is also a highly experienced public speaker who can engage on live events, and panels.

As well as being an internationally recognized dating coach and founder of the UK’s largest dating coaching company, Hayley is a published author. Her debut fiction book “The Last First Date” (Harper Collins) and non-fiction “Do This, Not That: Dating” (Simon & Schuster) are due for publication in January 2023.

Hayley has appeared on TV and radio shows across the UK, USA and beyond: providing lively debate and content on love and dating. She’s appeared on shows ranging from BBC News, to Celebs Go Dating, to The Apprentice and is a safe pair of hands for live TV and broadcast. She is also experienced helping behind the scenes with show content.

In this episode, you will hear:

How couples in long term relationships can take advantage of sexting
Seducing your partner via sexting
The way in which sexting can help recapture desire
Why audio and voice notes might be the best tool for you to use
Security measures you can take if sending sexy pictures
The importance of consent when sexting
Context is key! Take things one step at a time
Learning to develop your erotic vocabulary
Bridging the gap if one partner is more confident than the other sexting
The need and importance of positive reinforcement

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EP317 - How to Drive Your Partner Wild with These Foreplay Tips! Ft Sebastian Harris Jan 17, 2023

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Welcome to episode 317 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Sebastian Harris. In this episode, we discuss how you can keep a long term relationship hot, the importance of seduction, tips on how you can get better at seducing your partner and how to create more space in your relationship to allow for sexy time!

Sebastian Harris is a dating coach and sex coach who is on a mission to help men to live more fulfilling dating and sex lives.

In this episode, you will hear:

What inspired Sebastian to write his book Rise of the Phoenix: How to Get the Hottest Girls in a World That Wants You to Fail
Keeping a long-term relationship hot
Why it’s important for you to seduce your partner
Mistakes men often make when it comes to seduction
How it’s easy to get lazy in a long-term relationship
Tips on ways to break out of the laziness
Steps you can take to really turn your partner on
Keeping communication open so you can be honest about what is and isn’t working
Creating space in your relationship to allow for sexy time
Looking at the pillars of seductive touch

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EP316 - Everything You Would Need to Know About Cuckolding ft Dr. David Ley Jan 10, 2023

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Welcome to episode 316 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. David J. Ley to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss cuckolding, analyzing the misconceptions, the role that cuckold porn plays and, tips and suggestions on how you can explore cuckolding.

David Ley is a clinical psychologist, sex therapist and author, based in Albuquerque, New Mexico. He's the author of several books and research articles on sexuality, including his first book, Insatiable Wives, Women who Stray and the Men Who Love Them, which was the first book to examine the cuckolding and hotwife phenomenon.

With Justin Lehmiller and Dan Savage, he published the first psychological study of the cuckold fantasy. Dr. Ley is a frequent guest in media around the world, with appearances in the New York Times, CNN and Time Magazine, as well as Hustler and Playboy magazines.

In this episode, you will hear:

How David became interested in Cuckolding
How is Cuckolding defined?
The difference between Cuckolding and Hotwifing
Analyzing the misconceptions around Cuckolding
Looking at what makes up healthy sexuality
The role that masturbation plays in this issue
Who initiates Cuckolding?
How Cuckold porn is one of the most popular categories
Ways in which people are now rejecting shame
How Cuckolding is losing its stigma
Tips and suggestions on how you can explore Cuckolding

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EP315 - Can Your Parent's Sexual Trauma Be Passed Down To You? Jan 03, 2023

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Welcome to episode 315 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a special solo episode where we discuss the issue of if your parent's sexual trauma be passed down to you, understanding how sexual trauma works, the role that epigenetics plays in this issue and the importance of having time to breath and regroup following trauma.

We also discuss ways you can make sexy new year's resolutions for 2023, how you can communicate with your partner about things you would like to improve or explore in your relationship and understanding what a real sexy win for yourself would be in 2023.

In this episode, you will hear:

A look back at the last six years of Sexology Podcast
Plans for 2023 and future episodes
Answering a question from a listener about sexual trauma
Understanding how sexual trauma can be passed on from parent to child
The role that epigenetics plays in this issue
Looking at studies from other people affected by trauma and traumatic events
The importance of having time to breath and regroup following trauma
How the book “The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma” is a great resource on this subject matter
Ways you can make sexy new year's resolutions for 2023
How you can communicate with your partner about things you would like to improve or explore in your relationship
Ways you can be successful in following through on a resolution
Understanding what a real sexy win for yourself would be in 2023
Knowing when the right time is to see a Sex Therapist or Sex Coach
Understanding the differences between a Sex Therapist and Sex Coach
Forging the road ahead to your sexy new goals

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EP314 - Top 3 Mistakes To Avoid When Going Down on Woman ft Jason Julius Dec 27, 2022

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Welcome to episode 314 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Jason Julius to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss oral sex, the common mistakes men make when giving oral sex, analyzing tongue movements, and the best positions to take for oral sex.

Jason Julius is a sex coach with over 15 years of experience teaching couples all over the world how to have incredible experiences in the bedroom. Surprised with how little information there is in the mainstream world around sex, female orgasms, and sexual performance Jason sought out uncommon techniques and practices that would help the average man or woman elevate their intimate experiences.

Jason is known for creating a clean, respectful, mature, intelligent conversation around having great sex. Jason wanted to create a place for people to discover a deeper level of understanding, especially when it comes to the mental aspects of female orgasms.

Jason began posting intimate details of his experiences and has since amassed a loyal following on YouTube of others seeking a deeper understanding of what it takes to be an amazing lover. Frustrated by the negative beliefs that are perpetuated by the adult film industry, Jason separates what he teaches by creating content without nudity, done in a tasteful way that reaches people who are genuinely looking to please their partner and have more confidence in themselves when it comes to sex.

In this episode, you will hear:

How Jason became involved in this line of work
The importance of being present with your partner during oral sex
Should you use breath as teasing?
The common mistakes men make when giving oral sex
What gets in the way of men experiencing enthusiasm
Understanding the more you give the more you get back
Analyzing tongue movements
How sexy language can amplify the experience further
Do men care about the shape of vulvas?
Looking at squirting
The best positions to take for oral sex
What’s a reasonable amount of time for a man to give oral sex?
Is face sitting enjoyable?

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EP313 - The Truth About Contraception, Abortion and Miscarriage ft Dr. Kathryn LaRoche Dec 20, 2022

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Welcome to episode 313 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Kathryn LaRoche to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the misconceptions around contraception, taking care of yourself if you think you’re pregnant and ways in which men can support their partners.

Dr. Kathryn J. LaRoche, PhD, MSc is an Assistant Professor of Public Health at Purdue University. She is a public health social scientist and applied anthropologist who carries out community-engaged, action- and intervention-oriented research about sexual and reproductive health with a focus on abortion and pregnancy.

She has published her work extensively in journals like Contraception and Women’s Health Issues, and she has led and contributed to projects in Canada, Australia, and the United States.

In 2022, she received the Carole Joffe and Stanley Henshaw Early Achievement in Social Science Research Award from the National Abortion Federation for her contribution to generating abortion-related knowledge.

In this episode, you will hear:

Looking at the misconceptions around contraception
How there isn’t a one size fits all solution
The educational issues around contraception
Ways you can take care of yourself if you think you’re pregnant
Navigating abortion in areas of the world where it’s not legal
Understanding there are professional organizations who can help you
How to properly deal with an unplanned pregnancy
Making sure you communicate effectively with your partner
Ways in which young men can support their partners

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EP312 - What Happens to Your Body When You Lose Your Virginity ft Dr. Ashley Townes Dec 13, 2022

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Welcome to episode 312 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Ashley Townes to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss virginity, the social construct and values around virginity, the importance of safety and prevention, and how you can create a better construct and narrative around virginity.

Dr. Ashley Townes (she/her/hers) is a sexuality educator and researcher. As a native of Cincinnati, Ohio, she attended the University of Cincinnati, where she earned both her Bachelor of Science and Master of Public Health degrees. She later earned a PhD in Health Behavior and Epidemiology from Indiana University-Bloomington.

Dr. Townes has over 15 years of experience providing sexuality education across a variety of academic and public health entities. Dr. Townes currently works in a postdoctoral research role in Atlanta, GA. Ashley’s research focuses on the sexual experiences of Black women, including partnered experiences, accessing health information, and utilizing sexual health services.

As a young investigator, she has been a part of at least 15 peer-reviewed publications, serves on the Editorial Board for the American Journal of Sexuality Education, contributes to the Live Alive Wellness Blog created by Pure Romance, and has been featured in a variety of media, including Mind Body Green, Woman’s Day, Cosmopolitan, and MTV News). Her career interests are aimed at providing quality sexuality information and working towards health equity.

In this episode, you will hear:

How is virginity defined?
Looking at the issue of “repairing virginity”
Understanding the social construct and values around virginity
Analyzing the female hymen
Creating a better construct and narrative around virginity
Improving your sexual experiences as you encounter them for the first time
How communication is key to unlocking better sexual experiences
Safety first! Make sure your fully up to speed with condoms and prevention

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EP311 - The Politics of Sexual Pleasure ft Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons Dec 06, 2022

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Welcome to episode 311 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons to the podcast. In this episode, we look at racial trauma, how it impacts men and women differently, and how our cultural scripts can affect our sexual pleasure.

Dr. Candice Hargons (she/her) is an award-winning associate professor in the counseling psychology program at the University of Kentucky, where she studies sexual wellness and healing racial trauma – all with a love ethic. She is the PI of the SAMHSA funded Neighborhood Healers Project, which seeks to advance mental health literacy and utilization among Black Lexingtonians.

She is also a co-I on projects funded by NIDA, HRSA, and NIMHD examining substance use outcomes, treatment, and sexual health disparities. Additionally, she leads the Big Sex Study, a mixed methods, community-based participatory action research project investigating Black sexual wellness.

She is the founding director of the Center for Healing Racial Trauma, and the host of the How to Love a Human Podcast. Her new sexual liberation podcast, F*ck the System, launches January 2023.

In this episode, you will hear:

Looking at racial trauma
The different impacts of racial trauma between men and women
Understanding sexual liberation
How our cultural scripts can affect our sexual pleasure
Analyzing the orgasm gap
How is pleasure defined?
Practice makes perfect! How you can continue to improve your sex life over time
Discovering your sexual identity
Looking at sex in deep and intimate relationships
Exploring and cultivating fantasies
Recommendations for parents improving their sex lives

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