Sex With Emily

Latest Episodes:

AITA for Wanting Less Sex? Jan 12, 2024

Show notes

Sometimes, in our sex lives and relationships, it can be easy to wonder: Am I the Asshole? Don’t worry, because in today’s episode, Producer Erica and I are letting you know if you’re approaching asshole territory in your sexual situations, like: AITA for wanting oral sex every time, not just on special occasions? AITA for rejecting my partner’s advances in the middle of the night? Or how about: AITA for getting upset when my partner turns me down? It’s a juicy one.

In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

Creative solutions for mismatched libidos
What to do if you’re in a sexless relationship
Tips for healthy sex conversations

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Show Notes:

How to Initiate Sex
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Tips for Better Communication & Other Guides
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Hotline Calls: I’m Kinky, But My Partner Isn’t Jan 09, 2024

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Today I am bringing back LIVE Hotline Calls! Not only that, holistic psychologist, author, and my newest friend, Dr. Scott Lyons, joins me back on the show to help me answer your questions. From concerns about sexual compatibility to avoiding jackhammer sex, you will hear the change in these callers’ voices as we help them in real-time.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Effective ways to tell your partner you want to explore sexually
How to have sex talks with a partner who gets uncomfortable
How to feel confident going into a date

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

Magic Wand Micro
Dr. Scott Lyons: Instagram | Website
The Embody Lab
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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F These Dating Myths w/ Damona Hoffman Jan 05, 2024

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Burnt out from dating? Do you feel like you’ll never meet “the one?” In today’s episode, celebrity dating coach Damona Hoffman dispels common dating myths and suggests new dating pillars. Plus, she tells us which dating rules to follow (and which to disregard), the #1 expectation for men on dates with women, and how to make your online dating profile stand out.

In this episode, you’ll also learn:

How much chemistry really matters on a date
Who should make the first move
How to track your dates to be more strategic

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

5 Ways to Be a Better Lover in 2024
F the Fairy Tale, Damona Hoffman: Amazon | Barnes & Noble
More Damona Hoffman: Instagram | TikTok | X (Twitter) | Website
Dates & Mates Podcast: Spotify | Apple Podcasts | Website
DamonaHoffman.com/DateTracker
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Best Of: More Foreplay, More Orgasms Jan 02, 2024

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I dive into the psychology of foreplay and how to get aroused with specific (and quite sexy) pre-game tips. I also talk about what to do if foreplay and overall sex with your partner has gotten a bit stale, how to tease and arouse yourself, what to do if your partner doesn’t want to explore new things, and how to handle a partner who won’t reciprocate foreplay. Plus, I answer your questions!

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to set the mood for hotter, more intimate sex
Specific sex tips to seduce a partner
The key differences between couples with ‘great’ vs. ‘bad’ sex lives

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

How to Have the Best NYE Kiss Ever
5 Ways to Be a Better Lover in 2024
Podcast: The Gottmans on Compatibility, Conflict & Conversation
Flavored Lubes
Massage Candles
Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Get Better at Dirty Talk?
Podcast: Talk Dirty To Me w/ Joanna Angel
Article: 6 Tips for Mastering the Game-Changing Technique of Mindful Masturbation
Yes, No, Maybe List & Other Guides
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Your Top Sex Questions of 2023 Dec 29, 2023

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I’m answering your top asked sex questions of 2023 and taking a trip through the hottest moments of the year. It’s the last episode of 2023, and there were definitely some standout episodes you all loved the most. So I’m playing some of the highlights, from my fascinating conversation with Esther Perel to my top Hand Play tips, before answering your top questions.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

What squirting really is and how to do it
How often the average couple has sex
How to have satisfying sex on SSRIs

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

How to Have the Best NYE Kiss Ever
Podcast: Why Do Couples Stop Having Sex? w/ Esther Perel
More Esther Perel: Website | Instagram | Twitter
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Have Better Sex in 2024 Dec 26, 2023

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I’m always encouraging you all to set goals for yourself in your sex life and relationships, and there’s arguably no better time than in the New Year. Today, Producer Erica and I review predictions for 2024 sex and relationship trends, make some of our own predictions, and suggest some New Year’s resolutions to make 2024 your sexiest year yet.

In this episode you’ll learn:

About the living apart, together movement
What pleasure mapping is, and how to do it
What percentage of successful couples schedule sex

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)
Get to Know Your Body with “Vulva Mapping”
LELO Dot
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Hotline Calls: I Fantasize About My Partner with Other People Dec 22, 2023

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Is it okay to get turned on thinking about my partner with someone else? How can we maintain intimacy amid financial stress? Is it possible to be a feminist and also want to be submissive in the bedroom? Should I be honest with my partner that I’ve never had penetrative sex before? You all ask the best questions, and I’m here to answer them in today’s juicy Hotline Call episode.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to create new fantasies, when you always have the same one
How to watch porn creatively with a partner
How to prioritize pleasure, even during your busiest weeks

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever
2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide
Last-Minute Amazon Prime Panic Gifts For Lovers & Friends
Bathmate (code EMILY10 for 10% off sitewide)
Opening Up: Amazon | Barnes & Noble
The Ethical Slut: Amazon | Barnes & Noble
Open Deeply: Amazon | Barnes & Noble
Insight Timer
Breathe App
Where Should We Begin? Card Game
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Best & Worst Sex Advice of 2023 Dec 19, 2023

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Some sex and relationship advice is better than others. Today, Producer Erica and I review some of the most trending sex and relationship advice from TikTok this year, from “how to make them fall in love with you” and love bombing, to when you should sleep with someone or if the “bird test” will tell you whether you should stay with your partner or not. While reviewing all this advice, we’ll let you know if we agree or disagree.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to maintain sexual tension in long-term relationships
How to avoid “mothering” your partner
Whether it’s possible to make someone fall in love with you

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever
2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide
How to Use a Penis Pump
Last-Minute Amazon Prime Panic Gifts For Lovers & Friends
LELO Sona 2 Travel (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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The Top 3 Sex Positions & How to Make Them Better Dec 15, 2023

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Today, we’re diving into a topic I know you all love: sex positions! Today, I’m answering your juiciest positions questions before breaking down the top 3 sex positions, giving you the pros and cons of each one and adaptations to make them even better. Sex positions are often the first things people ask me about when looking to spice up their sex lives - so I’m giving you some options!

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to feel confident on top
Why pillows are the secret weapon to upleveling sex positions
Pleasurable positions for curved penises and tilted uteruses

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever
2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide
Why You Should Try Anal (& How to Do it the Right Way)
How to Use a Penis Pump
Je Joue Gift Sets (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off)
6 Ways to Upgrade 69
We-Vibe Rave
LELO Loki Wave
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
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Hotline Calls: I’m Tired of “Vanilla” Sex Dec 12, 2023

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On today’s Hotline show, I take your calls about having sex talks like: How to relax into oral sex and give your partner tips to make you scream. Or telling a partner you want your vanilla sex to be a little spicier. And how to tell your partner: “you know what? I need to be seduced a little before we jump into penetration.” If we can talk about sex like we talk about dinner, everyone wins! So take a listen to this Best Of episode, and see if your next sex talk is a little bit easier.

In this episode, you’ll also learn: