Sex With Emily

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Creating The Love You Desire w/ Mark Groves Mar 22, 2024

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Looking to connect with your partner on a whole new level? Lucky for you, today’s episode with human connection specialist Mark Groves will give you the tools to do just that. Mark uses his emotional translation skills to give accessible relationship and wellness advice to others and shares his relatable ways to be your most authentic self. From discussing a Thanksgiving dinner that changed his life to examining past toxic behavior, Mark and I dive deep into ways to become wiser in love. Get ready to get vulnerable, today’s show gets DEEP!

In this episode you’ll learn:

How to break free from codependent relationships
Why reflecting on past experiences is the key to better relationships
Why we should all be using the word “boner again

Show Notes:

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Best Of: Where Did My Orgasm Go? Mar 19, 2024

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WARNING, WARNING: Your climax has exited the premises. Ever wondered why achieving orgasm can feel effortless with one partner but challenging with another? Or why squirting might occur without reaching climax? On today's throwback episode of Hotline Calls, we're delving into the topic of orgasm and its hidden secrets. Tune in for an orgasmic time.

Got a burning question? Feel free to reach out and leave a voicemail anytime at 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739).

In this episode you’ll learn:

The difference between squirting and orgasming
How to orgasm for the first time, if you never have
How to create masturbation routines that support the orgasms you deserve

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How to Have Honeymoon Sex Forever Mar 15, 2024

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Weddings: They're like a beautiful blend of tradition and flowers, but let's be real – Is married sex worth all the hype? Let's face it, folks. Married sex often gets stuck in this rut of tired old cliches. But guess what? It doesn't have to be that way!

We're so over settling for dull or non-existent intimacy as we journey through life with our partners. So, buckle up because on today's show, I'm all about shaking things up to make sex with your spouse hot again. From crafting your own set of sex vows before you take that stroll down the aisle to pleasure planning with your long-time partner, we're rewriting the playbook on honeymoon passion. Oh, and we're diving into the cultural landscape of love, sex, and relationships because times are definitely changing!

In this episode you’ll learn:

How to navigate bisexuality in a straight marriage
What it means if you find yourself jealous at your friend’s wedding
How to bring back the spark…even when the spark was a little dim in the first place

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Magic Life Hacks & Micro Intimacy w/ Liz Moody Mar 12, 2024

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Today I’m joined by Liz Moody, the best-selling author and podcast host who shares insightful tips to help transform your life in all different aspects in her new book, 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success. We discuss her personal strategies for prioritizing wellness, ways to run your home like a CEO, and how to make your ideal Sex Bill of Rights. Tune in for so many amazing tips and tricks to upgrade your life!

In this episode you’ll learn:

How planning your funeral helps you live a fulfilling present life
Why it's important to run your home like you’re the CEO
My new term "micro intimacy” and why that will be a game changer

Show Notes:

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AITA For Being Pushy About My Fantasies? Mar 08, 2024

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Listen up, assholes! Relationships and sex dynamics can be pleasure-filled and intimate, and also complicated and messy. Today, Producer Erica and I are reading your AITA questions and letting you know if you’re being an asshole in your sex life and relationships. We answer questions like: AITA for wanting more sexual tension and intimacy in our relationship? AITA for re-evaluating a new relationship after they told me they have an STI? AITA for breaking up with my partner because they won’t go down on me? And more.

In this episode you’ll learn:

How to communicate your sexual needs effectively with your partner
What to do if your partner tells you they have an STI
How to heighten sexual tension

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Episode: Hot Sex with STIs w/ Dr. Ina Park
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Underestimated: The Wisdom of Teenage Girls w/ Chelsey Goodan Mar 05, 2024

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Today, I had a candid conversation with Chelsey Goodan, also known as the Teenage Girl Whisperer, about empowering teenage girls in today's society. Chelsey shares her insights from working with teenage girls for over a decade and discusses the challenges they face regarding sexuality, self-expression, and societal expectations. Join us as we explore the power of communication, empowerment, and authenticity in supporting teenage girls on their journey to self-discovery and empowerment.

In this episode you’ll also learn:

Effective communication strategies
The power of radical honesty and authenticity in building relationships
How to break cycles of criticism, self-doubt, and judgment

Show Notes:

Chelsey’s Book: Underestimated
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Best Of: Sex Up Your Love Language Mar 01, 2024

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Ever wondered if there's a way to spice things up in the bedroom AND reignite the spark between you and your partner? Well, today I'm about to help you crack the code of the 5 Love Languages and supercharge your relationship. I'll also tackle your burning questions like what to do when you and your partner speak different love languages (more common than you’d think), how to keep the love alive in a long-distance relationship, and sex hacks based on your unique love language combo.

And if that wasn't enough, I also discuss some awkward situations like accidentally critiquing your partner's penis or navigating that awkward phase when you and your partner feel like the spark is gone.

In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

All about the 5 Love Languages
How to keep the flame burning in a long-distance relationship
How to best express your desires with your partner (even if your love languages are different!)

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Talk Dirty to Me w/ Joanna Angel
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How to Raise Good Humans w/ Dr. Aliza Pressman Feb 27, 2024

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Today I teamed up with the brilliant developmental psychologist and host of the Raising Good Humans podcast, Dr. Aliza Pressman, for a rollercoaster ride through the wild world of parenting, sexuality, and relationships. From decoding the mysteries of "the talk" with kids to unraveling the enigma of why millennials and Gen-Zers might be having sex less often, we left no stone unturned. Join us as we dive headfirst into understanding and embracing children's gender identities and sexual orientations, all while figuring on how to be the best humans we can be.

Get ready, because this episode isn't just about parenting—it's about living your best life and loving fiercely along the way!

Show Notes:

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Best Of: You're Kinkier Than You Think Feb 23, 2024

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When you think of BDSM and kink, I’m sure leather and whips come to mind. But what if I told you that there’s much more to kink than that? Today, I’m here to sprinkle some spice and shed light on the art of BDSM and kink. First up, we'll define key terms and provide a comprehensive understanding of BDSM because let's face it, who really knows what "BDSM" stands for anyway? Then, we'll explore the psychology behind power dynamics and the core desires behind kinky practices. And last but certainly not least, we'll serve up some tantalizing tips for bringing a bit of kink into your bedroom – whether you're flying solo or have a partner in crime.

So, buckle up (or should I say, buckle down?), because we're about to embark on a journey into the wild and wonderful world of kink!

In this episode, you’ll learn:

What BDSM and Kink are really about
The psychology behind dom/sub dynamics
How to fearlessly bring kink into the bedroom

Show Notes:

What NOT to Say to Your Partner When Talking About Sex
How to Squirt (For Real)
Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides
LELO Tiani Duo
We-Vibe Melt
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5 BDSM Games To Spice Up Your Sex Life Tonight
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Manifest Your Best Sex Life w/ Gabby Bernstein Feb 20, 2024

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In today's episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with #1 NYT Bestselling author Gabby Bernstein. As a spiritual leader and motivational speaker, Gabby shares how you can manifest the sex life you want but through a practical, less woo, lens and how to work through sexual trauma and change your core beliefs around sex. We also get into Internal Family Systems therapy and how young women today speak about sex differently than our generation.

In today’s episode, you’ll learn: