Sex With Emily

Latest Episodes:

Hotline Calls: Squirting, Toys & Threesomes Feb 16, 2024

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We all want to grow and become better versions of ourselves. And no where is that more true than our sex lives. That’s the mission of today’s call-in show. I answer your questions all about picking up new sex skills. From a fun-loving couple who wants to incorporate others into their play but can’t find the right candidates, to a twenty-something who wants to learn how to squirt on her own - these brave callers’ questions offer something for everyone to learn from.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to find solid friends with benefits
Masturbation techniques
The anatomy of the vulva!

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

The Psychology of Your Kink
How to Squirt (For Real)
Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
Playground Lube
Je Joue Mimi
Je Joue Hera
Magic Wand
Insertion Toys
Dual Stimulation Toys
#Open
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Seduce Yourself: Solo Sex Tips Feb 13, 2024

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It’s the season of love - self love! That’s right, this Valentine’s Day, I’ve got all of you singles covered. In today’s Best Of episode, you’ll learn the health benefits of self-pleasure and how it helps you not only reduce stress but elevate your mood. It's also a gateway to understanding your body, boosting your self-esteem, and giving you some serious pleasure.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How often you should masturbate in a relationship
How to try masturbation when you never have
The magic of mutual masturbation

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

The Psychology of Your Kink
How to Squirt (For Real)
Your February Solo Sex Challenge
LELO DOT (up to 50% off until the end of February, code EMILY10 for an additional 10% off)
We-Vibe Touch
Je Joue Mimi
We-Vibe Rave
We-Vibe Nova
Pjur Water-Based Lube
Aneros Prostate Massager
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
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AITA for Watching Porn While in a Relationship? Feb 09, 2024

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Ever wondered: Am I the asshole for watching porn without my partner knowing? Am I the asshole for feeling a little misled about our sex life before we walked down the aisle? Or how about: Am I the asshole for just feeling plain bored with our sex life? You’re not alone. Today, Producer Erica and I read your AITA questions and let you know if you’re approaching asshole territory.

In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

How to be a supportive partner to someone with sexual trauma
How to get clearer on your sexual desires
About the experiences of sex workers

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

How to Give a Prostate Massage
15 Sex Toys That Make Amazing Valentine's Day Gifts
VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)
Erika Lust porn
Vice Series: Sex Before the Internet
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
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Orgasms, Explained. Feb 06, 2024

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Orgasms are one of the most pleasure-filled parts of sex. But what’s actually happening in your body when you have one? Today, I’m breaking down the physiological process of different kinds of orgasms and explaining how to have them. I also reveal how to find your G-area and have a G-spot orgasm, what it means to have a dry orgasm, what squirting really is and how to do it. Plus, I get into your orgasm questions.

In this episode, you’ll also learn:

The anatomy of the clitoris, vulva, and penis so you can better stimulate them
The many benefits of orgasms, for both your mental and physical health
Tips for communicating with a partner if you no longer want jackhammer sex

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

How to Give a Prostate Massage
15 Sex Toys That Make Amazing Valentine's Day Gifts
LELO Tiani Duo (up to 50% off sitewide until the end of February)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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How to Bounce Back from a Sex Slump w/ Dr. Emily Nagoski Feb 02, 2024

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I’m bringing you all into a LIVE conversation I had with renowned sex educator and researcher, Dr. Emily Nagoski, during a recent event in New York! After releasing her bestselling book on sex, Come As You Are, in 2015, Emily’s own sex life took a hit. Today, we discuss how she brought her sex life back from the dead, the Pleasure Thieves, and why it’s okay to stop sex once it’s already started.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to identify your sexual brakes and accelerators
About the connection between wearing socks and having more orgasms
How stress impacts your sex drive desire

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

The Sexiest Valentine’s Date Ideas (For Every Stage of Your Relationship)
Magic Wand Micro
Come Together, Dr. Emily Nagoski: Amazon | GoodReads | Bookshop
More Dr. Emily Nagoski: Instagram | Website
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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The Do’s and Don’ts of Valentine’s Day Jan 30, 2024

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Valentine’s Day is coming up, and I’m here to make sure it’s your best one yet. First, I get into some common Valentine’s Day myths and things you should never do on the sexy holiday. After that, I’ll share some creative ways you should celebrate to ensure that your Valentine’s Day is hot, intimate and of course, sexy. Plus, I share some of my listeners’ favorite Valentine’s Day moments for some hot inspiration.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to incorporate blindfolds into sexual play
Which toys can be used during penetration
How to cultivate sexual desire & intimacy

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

The Sexiest Valentine’s Date Ideas (For Every Stage of Your Relationship)
How to Do the Kivin Method
LELO Tiani Duo (up to 50% off sitewide until the end of February 2024)
Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides
Massage Candles
Le Wand Crystal
Glass Dildo
Cozy Earth (code “SEXWITHEMILY” for 35% off)
Magic Wand
Masterclass (use link for 15% off the 1st year of an annual subscription)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
Let’s text: Sign Up Here
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Hotline Calls: I Can’t Stop Thinking About My Ex Jan 26, 2024

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On today’s Best Of episode, I’m answering more of your questions from the Sex With Emily Hotline. We get into: how to handle it when your partner wants to have sex with someone else and stay in your relationship, what it means when you fantasize about your ex, how soon is too soon to start dating someone new after a breakup, and ways to avoid ghosting.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to set intentions for new relationships
How cannabis can improve your orgasms and intimacy
How to guide a partner during oral sex

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

The Sexiest Valentine’s Date Ideas (For Every Stage of Your Relationship)
How to Do the Kivin Method
The Pleasure Planner, Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides
VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)
EMDRIA
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
Let’s text: Sign Up Here
Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

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Best Of: Stop Blocking Your Sex Life Jan 23, 2024

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When it comes to sex, do you have a growth mindset? Whether you’re a new parent and your sex drive has tanked, or you’re trying to break free from a mental pattern that’s blocking your pleasure, we all experience sexual roadblocks. Never fear: you can have a sex reset! On today’s Ask Emily show, I’m helping you ID the obstacles to your sexuality, from trauma to a repressive upbringing, to a disconnect with a partner. And one by one, I help you figure out solutions that open the door to self-exploration.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

What “spectatoring” during sex means, and how to overcome it
Tips for sharing a sexual fantasy with a new partner
How to navigate mismatched libidos in a long-term relationship

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

10 Common Kinks & Fetishes (& What They Mean)
Solaray (code 20STAGES for 20% off)
We-Vibe Nova Shop Site
Podcast: Hotline Calls: Why Can’t I Orgasm?
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
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Hotline Calls: I Can’t Trust My Partner Jan 19, 2024

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To feel turned on, we first have to feel safe. So today, I’m taking some of my favorite Hotline calls on trust and how to repair it. What happens if your spouse cheated on you, and now sex feels sorta gross? What if you tell a new partner you love them, and they don’t reciprocate? Or how about being “too picky” of a dater - is it really because they’re all duds, or are there some underlying trust issues there? The bottom line is this: when we feel free, we feel sexy. And on today’s Best Of episode, I’m helping you radically reclaim your erotic freedom.

In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

How to move forward after infidelity, whether you were the cheater or the cheated on
Tips for feeling comfortable with new partners
What to do when it feels like the “spark” is gone

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

10 Common Kinks & Fetishes (& What They Mean)
Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
Podcast: Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex w/ Ian Kerner
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
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Hotline Calls: Is My Kink Normal? Jan 16, 2024

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I’m answering my listeners’ most personal sex and relationship questions LIVE today. Can you only orgasm with straight legs? I’ve got positions and recommendations to help you get there. Nervous that chastity play is giving your partner delayed ejaculation? I ease your worries and help you collaborate with your partner for mutually fulfilling sex. Plus, we get into other kinky calls like erotic lactation and anal sex.

In this episode, you’ll learn: