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Getting Him to Touch You Where You Want Sep 01, 2020

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It's a common scenario we hear: She wants him to touch her body in various places, and he wants to focus on the "good bits." So today, we're going to talk about where you'd like to be touched, besides your special lady-parts, and how you can get your husband to spend more time and attention there.

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From the Bible

What does God have to say about touching and kissing her body? She Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth— for your love is more delightful than wine. Song of Songs 1:2 His left arm is under my head and his right arm embraces me. Song of Songs 2:6, 8:3 A loving doe, a graceful deer— may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be intoxicated with her love. Proverbs 5:19

Resources

How Do You Like to Be Touched? - Hot, Holy & Humorous
Why woman are different from men and vice versa - Amanda Gore
The Most Sensitive Spots on Men (and on You) - Women's Health (study of college men and women)
You're Not Kissing Enough - Hot, Holy & Humorous
Open Your Mind and Take Off Your Shoes - The Forgiven Wife
Episode 78: Breasts and How They Impact Female Sexuality
7 Ways to Communicate with Your Husband About Sex
How to Talk with Him About Sex
Feet and Sex (Pedicures link to arousal?) - OysterBed7
"Dirty Dice" - Married Dance (despite the name, it's simply a game to encourage touching/kissing various body parts - affiliate link)
Learn What You Like in Bed - The Forgiven Wife

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4 Tips to Improve Your Sex Life Aug 18, 2020

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We want to encourage you to just think of one thing you could do to improve your sex life. To give you some ideas, we're each going to share one thing we did to improve our sex life. Sponsor

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From the Bible

What does God have to say about our tips? For his unfailing love toward those who fear him is as great as the height of the heavens above the earth. He has removed our sins as far from us as the east is from the west. Psalm 103:11-12 (NLT) I belong to my beloved, and his desire is for me. Song of Songs 7:10

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The Worst & Best Sex Advice We've Ever Received Aug 05, 2020

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About this episode

There is some really bad sex advice out there, most of it because the people giving the advice don't know any better themselves. Today we're sharing with you the worst sex advice we've personally received, but also the best sex advice we've received.

Okay, ladies, what is the worst sex tip you have gotten either from a resource or an individual?
Taking a positive perspective, how can we correct the record? That is, how should each of us and women out there respond when we encounter bad advice?
What is the best sex tip you've ever gotten from some resource or someone?

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From the Bible

What does God have to say about receiving advice?

The way of fools seems right to them, but the wise listen to advice. – Proverbs 12:19
But Jehoshaphat also said to the king of Israel, "First seek the counsel of the Lord." – 1 Kings 22:5

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Talk to Friends Jul 21, 2020

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Our podcast is hosted by four friends talking biblically and authentically about sexual intimacy. How can you find your own friend group to talk with about sex? We've got some tips!

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From the Bible Friends We rejoice and delight in you; we will praise your love more than wine. Song of Songs 1:4

The godly give good advice to their friends; the wicked lead them astray. Proverbs 12:26 (NLT)

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Making Space in Your Life for Sex Jul 06, 2020

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About this episode

Today we're talking about making space in your life for sex. And whether you're listening to this in the time of COVID, when we're recording it, or at a time when things are more back to normal, you probably have some sense of what it means to make space (or lack space) in your life for sex, intimacy, and just in general enjoying your marriage.

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From the Bible

What does God have to say about making space for sex in your marriage?

Song of Songs 7:11 - Come, my beloved, let us go to the countryside, let us spend the night in the villages.

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Trying New Sex Positions Jun 23, 2020

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About This Episode

Is it time to expand your sexual position repertoire? We discuss going beyond "missionary" to include other positions, with a dose of reality on what's do-able and how to introduce new positions into your marriage.

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From the Bible

"His left arm is under my head, and his right arm embraces me." Song of Songs 2:6, 8:3 The mandrakes give off a fragrance, and at our doors is every delicacy, both new and old. I have treasured them up for you, my love. Song of Songs 7:13 (CSB)

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Self-care and Sexual Interest Jun 09, 2020

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Self-care is important—and it helps our sexual interest too! In this episode we talk about why and share some tips.

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From the Bible

"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." Matthew 11:28-30

Then he said to them, "The Sabbath was made for man, not man for the Sabbath." Mark 2:27

But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed. Luke 5:16

Resources

5 Ways to Treat Yourself Like a Friend – CalmHealthySexy

Silence the Lies – The Forgiven Wife

New Day, New Way – It's Never too Late to Start Something New – CalmHealthySexy

Episode 80: Intimacy During Lockdown

Self-Bullying: What to do when the bully is YOU! (affiliate link)

5 Ways to Take Care of Yourself in a Crisis – CalmHealthySexy

Dating Your Spouse During Challenging Times May 26, 2020

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About this episode

We're recording this at a time when many people are still living with some form of stay-at-home orders. Others can go out, but aren't sure if it's safe. And many others are facing financial difficulties, such as job loss, reduced work hours, or uncertainty about the future of their job or business. All of those things make the idea of "date night" seem rather daunting.

But even beyond the current crisis, lots of couples face challenges to enjoying a regular "date night." Money may be tight, they may not have childcare, or they may be too tired to figure out what to do.

So today we're going to talk about date nights for challenging times, whatever your challenge may be. These are simply ways to plan some fun with your spouse – at home or in your community – that don't cost a lot of money and don't take a lot of time and energy.

From the Bible

Song of Songs 7:11-13 Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have opened, and if the pomegranates are in bloom— there I will give you my love. The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my beloved.

Resources

Date Night Questions - The Romantic Vineyard Alphabet Dates - The Romantic Vineyard Date Night, Anywhere - The Forgiven Wife Dating Your Spouse in a Crisis – LoveHopeAdventure How to Have a Movie Date in Your Car – LoveHopeAdventure 4 Reasons to Add a "Parents' Night" to Your Family's Schedule - CalmHealthySexy 25 Ways to Have Fun with Your Husband – CalmHealthySexy 16 Fun and Healthy Dates for Married Couples – CalmHealthySexy Variety and Libido - OysterBed7 Friendship 101 - OysterBed7 26 2-Player Board Games for Couples - To Love Honor & Vacuum Are You Dating Your Spouse Enough? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Movies to Inspire Romance - Hot, Holy & Humorous 20 Date Nights You Can Do at Home (book review) - Hot, Holy & Humorous Make Date Night a Marriage Adventure (book review- Hot, Holy & Humorous

Listener Questions May 2020 May 13, 2020

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Today, we are answering some of your questions.

How can I get over being sexually shy with my husband?
How can I begin to get past the negative messages I learned about sex?
How can I show my husband desire throughout the day instead of compartmentalizing sex for bedtime only?

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This episode was also sponsored in part by Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations About Sex for Married Couples!

From the Bible

"Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." Galatians 6:9 Resources

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Doing the Best We Can Apr 27, 2020

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About this episode

We're wingin' it! Hang out with us as we ramble about life during a global pandemic, the reality of trying to continue intimacy despite circumstances, and where our heads and hearts are right now. Maybe you can relate.

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"There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love." – 1 John 4:18 (NIV) "For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control." – 2 Timothy 1:7 (ESV) The Book of Psalms

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