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100th Episode Feb 16, 2021

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Today is our 100th Episode! On this special episode, we share what we do when we're not talking about sex, what ministry projects we're working on, and nearly half of a 100 sex tips list we ask our listeners help us complete.

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From the Bible

What does God have to say about our ministry (and yours)?

Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. For just as we share abundantly in the sufferings of Christ, so also our comfort abounds through Christ. - 2 Corinthians 1:3-5

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Valentine's Day Feb 02, 2021

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Today we're talking about Valentine's Day. It's coming up soon, and women feel all kinds of different things about it. Some women love it, some hate it, and some feel kind of ambivalent about it. And it plays out differently in different marriages. So, we talk about it and come up with some ideas for making it fun and romantic for all kinds of couples and marriages.

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From the Bible

What does God have to say about Valentine's Day? (Not much, but a whole lot about love.)

Do everything in love. – 1 Corinthians 16:14 And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity. – Colossians 3:14 We love because he first loved us. – 1 John 4:19

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Overcoming Boredom in the Bedroom Jan 19, 2021

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With people staying home more than ever these days, monotony is overwhelming our lives. However, there is one area of your life than can certainly move from monotonous to mind-blowing with just a few simple changes.

Yes, ladies and gentlemen, we are talking about boredom in the bedroom and what can be done to generate more passion in your experience.

What can lead to boredom in the bedroom?
What can a wife do to move toward more energy, excitement, interest, and pleasure in the bedroom?
What is boredom possibly masking?
What are some possible solutions if there are deeper issues?

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From the Bible

What does God have to say about boredom in the bedroom?

There the mandrakes give off their fragrance, and the finest fruits are at our door, new delights as well as old, which I have saved for you, my lover. Song of Songs 7:13

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Getting a Fresh Start with Your Sex Life Jan 05, 2021

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Sometimes we need to hit the reset button with sexual intimacy. Maybe it's not been going well lately. Maybe it's never been good in your marriage. Maybe you only recently realized how important sexual intimacy is to your relationship. How can you start over or at least get a fresh start in some part of sex that hasn't been ideal?

Why do many wives feel they need a fresh start with the sex in their marriage?
How can we begin to set a new tone or build new habits for sexual intimacy?
What are some obstacles wives might face when they try to do something different?
What are the long-term benefits of getting that fresh start?
Are there any promises from God we can rely on as we try to reset our sex life?

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What does God have to say about fresh starts?

For I am the Lord your God who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you. - Isaiah 41:13 See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland. - Isaiah 43:19 "I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten— the great locust and the young locust, the other locusts and the locust swarm[a]— my great army that I sent among you. You will have plenty to eat, until you are full, and you will praise the name of the Lord your God, who has worked wonders for you; never again will my people be shamed. - Joel 2:25-26 Jesus replied, "What is impossible with man is possible with God." - Luke 18:27 They remembered that God was their Rock, that God Most High was their Redeemer. - Psalm 78:35

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35 Gifts for Your Marriage Nov 24, 2020

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Bonny, Chris, Gaye, and J have a list of gifts that can help you learn, love, and laugh in your marriage!

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What does God have to say about gift-giving?

A gift opens the way and ushers the giver into the presence of the great. - Proverbs 18:16 On coming to the house, they saw the child with his mother Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped him. Then they opened their treasures and presented him with gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh. - Matthew 2:1

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How Does Depression Affect Sex? Nov 10, 2020

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Thanks for joining us at Sex Chat for Christian Wives. Today we're going to talk about something that affects more than 264 million people around the world–depression.

People sometimes hear the word "depression" and think it just means that someone is sad a lot or that they are weak. So let's start by talking about what depression is—and maybe what it is not.
What kind of impact does depression have on our sex lives?
How can our faith help us when depression affects our marriage?
What can we do to address depression or soften the impact it has on our marriage and sex life?

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Anxiety weighs down the heart, but a kind word cheers it up. Proverbs 12:25 Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. – Matthew 11:28 Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. – 1 Peter 5:7 The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:18

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Depression (major depressive disorder) – Mayo Clinic Is Depression Impacting Your Sexual Intimacy? – Hot, Holy & Humorous Q&A with J: Sex and Antidepressants – Hot, Holy & Humorous Is Seasonal Depression Impacting Your Marriage? – Hot, Holy & Humorous Is the Oral Contraceptive Pill Associated with Depression?- A Synopsis of The Impact of OC Pills on Mood – Psych Scene Hub Sexual Intimacy and Depression – The Forgiven Wife

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Listener Questions Oct 27, 2020

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We answer listener questions, specifically:

Could you talk about the tilted uterus? I was told I have one and would like to know more about it.
My husband is currently taking classes and working long days. He practically comes home to sleep and then leaves for school and work the next day. This has made it a lot harder to make time for us and especially sex. I try to do things for him in hopes that it will alleviate some of his stress What can I do to make sex happen? We used to be Jackrabbits and now I'm lucky if we have sex once a week. It makes me feel like there is something wrong with me.
I want to ask you about sex during my period. For me, sex helps with my cramps. However, my husband does not like intercourse at that time due to the flow. The other part of this is that my husband struggles with the desire to view pornography. So, during my period, he doesn't want to have regular intercourse, but he wants me to give him oral sex to help him with his temptation. I'm seeking wisdom in how to please my husband and support him in his battle with pornography but not lose myself in my frustrations and sometimes selfish desires I have as a young bride.

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From the Bible

Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others. - Philippians 2:3-4

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Sex Positions for Women with a Tilted Uterus - Christian Friendly Sex Positions A Key to Understanding Orgasm: Deep Spots - OysterBed7 Can Sex Help Your Spouse's Work Stress? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Why Stress Affects Sex And What To Do About It - OysterBed7 5 Times of Day to Make Love - Hot, Holy & Humorous How Do You Manage Sex When Your Schedules Are Different? - The Forgiven Wife Is Porn Use an Addiction (and Does It Even Matter)? - The Forgiven Wife Episode 38: A Conversation About Porn (Part 1)Episode 39: A Conversation About Porn (Part 2)| Episode 40: Healing after Porn Discovery Samson Society Covenant Eyes Internet Filtering Software (affiliate link) Celebrate Recovery Strong Wives Rise - Facebook Group (run by Bonny Burns)"First Steps To Healing From Porn Discovery by Bonny Burns" - part of the Awesome Marriage Online Affair Recovery Course

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Newlywed Tips, with Ngina Otiende Oct 13, 2020

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Today, we have special guest Ngina Otiende of Intentional Today, and we're talking about...

Our most vivid memories of our weddings or first few months of marriage.
When did reality set in that marriage might take more work than you initially thought?
Now, bringing the conversation back to our mission of speaking candidly about God's design of sexual intimacy, what is one newlywed obstacle you can speak to and give advice in overcoming?
What is one piece of sexually intimate advice you'd give to a bride today?

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https://www.carefreeorganics.com From the Bible

"...Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God." ~ 1 Corinthians 6:9-11

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Episode 32: Advice For Our Newlywed Selves Free Access To "Subscriber Only" Resources - Ngina Otiende How To Navigate Conflict In Marriage - Ngina Otiende What Newlyweds Should Know About Married Sex - Bonny's OysterBed7 A Letter To My Newlywed Self (Age 20) - Bonny's OysterBed7 A Letter to My Newlywed Self: Age 25 - Hot, Holy & Humorous What I Wish I'd Known Before the Wedding Night - Hot, Holy & Humorous Wedding Tips for Bride - Hot, Holy & Humorous store item

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What Research Tells Wives About Sex, with Shaunti Feldhahn Sep 29, 2020

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We are so privileged today to have Shaunti Feldhahn—social researcher, bestselling author, and popular speaker—pulling up a chair at our virtual kitchen table.

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Click to Buy or Learn More Use code PARKER10 (click Apply) for an additional 10% off From the Bible So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27 I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a young woman. Job 31:1 Resources

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Feeling More Sensual Sep 15, 2020

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Today we're talking about sensuality and how wives can feel more sensual. What does it mean to feel sensual? Why can it be difficult, and why does it matter? And what can you do to feel more sensual yourself?

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From the Bible

What does God have to say about sensuality? So I commend the enjoyment of life, because there is nothing better for a person under the sun than to eat and drink and be glad. Then joy will accompany them in their toil all the days of the life God has given them under the sun. (Ecclesiastes 8:15)

How delightful is your love, my sister, my bride! How much more pleasing is your love than wine, and the fragrance of your perfume more than any spice! (Song of Songs 4:10)

And the rest of Song of Songs!

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