Recovering From Reality

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Ep. 135 March Q&A Mar 07, 2022

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This week I am doing a solo Q&A on spirituality and manifestation. As we go into March I want to support you all on your path towards reclaiming your power and healing your limiting belief systems. We are talking about clearing out limiting belief systems, healing generational trauma to set us free from subconscious patterns, manifestation tools, and an update on my marriage.

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Ep. 134 What's blocking you from love? with Liz Marz Feb 28, 2022

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This week I am sitting down with Liz Marz who is a relationship coach. I was introduced to Liz through our mutual friend Angel, who has joined me on the pod a few times. In this episode we are taking a deep dive into the topic of how to cultivate healthy love in your life and looking at the blocks that might be in place that are keeping you stuck.

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Ep. 133 Your Worst Date Stories feat. Ali Kolbert Feb 21, 2022

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This week I am sitting down with Ali Kolbert (my lesbian wing-woman) for the second half of our swap—listen to me on Ali’s show here. We dive into Ali’s relationship advice, your disastrous dating stories, and discuss everything from titty pics to dating app lines.

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Ep. 132 Sofia Franklyn on Public Scandals, Attachment Issues, Healing, and Manifestations Feb 14, 2022

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Today I am sitting down with Sofia Franklyn—one of my most requested guests of all time! Sofia and I discuss everything in this interview including childhood traumas, experiencing a public scandal, growing up with a single mom, abandonment issues, how she healed, current manifestations, and what’s next on her journey.

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Ep. 131 Manifesting Your Perfect Partner, Dating Conversation Starters, Navigating Ghosting Feb 07, 2022

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It’s February! This month we are talking all things love and relationships. In this solo, I discuss my recent miscarriage and the work that’s brought up, marriage and lifelong relationships, my thoughts on love languages and attachment styles, ghosting, the importance of dating yourself, and manifesting your perfect partner.

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Ep. 130 Deconstructing Polyamory, Jealousy, and Cheating with Morgan, Creator of Chillpolyamory Jan 31, 2022

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In today's episode, I am joined by Morgan—a Queer Polyamory Mentor and the creator of Chillpolyamory. She’s been consensually non-monogamous since 2012, and coaching others on their journeys since 2018. We discuss the western narrative surrounding monogamy, exploring polyamory, the negative connotations of jealousy, how Evan and I’s communication has improved since opening our relationship, cheating in polyamory relationships, hierarchal constructions of monogamous relationships, and more!

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Head to pillclub.com/reality to get your first birth control care package and and donate to help more women in need of affordable birth control.

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Ep. 129 Creating Authentic Friendships in Adulthood with Danielle Bayard Jackson Jan 24, 2022

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In today's episode, I am joined by Danielle Bayard Jackson a certified friendship coach, PR agency owner, licensed educator, and author. We discuss how lacking friendship education is, making friends in adulthood, losing friends as you grow, how friendships are a need not a want, and working to move past friendship break-ups in a healthy way.

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Ep. 128 Supporting Addicts with Connection Not Control with Tarah Dowling Jan 17, 2022

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In today's episode, I am joined by Tarah Dowling a model, daughter of an addict, former foster child, and creator of the documentary To the Moon and Back. We discuss Tarah’s journey experience during her mom’s active addiction, her time in foster care, how their relationship evolved as showcased in the documentary, and using a compassionate approach to navigating addiction.

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Ep. 127 Johann Hari on Reclaiming Your Stolen Focus Jan 10, 2022

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Johann Hari—bestselling author Chasing the Scream and Lost Connections—joins me on RFR for the second time to discuss his new book, Stolen Focus. In this phenomenal episode, we discuss the environmental shifts that have caused focus to deteriorate, how to improve your attention, and inspiring collective change.

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Ep. 126 Doja Cat, the Devine Feminine, and Radical Acceptance Jan 03, 2022

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In this month’s solo episode I answer your questions about babysitting Doja Cat, sex kinks, identity development, my wedding day, new tattoos, navigating tough days, and using routine to maintain your mood.

Mentioned in this week’s episode…

- Ep. 120 Pecan Pies, Panties, and Parenting with my Mom, Andrea Arlington

- Ep. 121 Asexuality, Kinks, and Sensuality with Ev’Yan Whitney

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