Raising Godly Boys Minute

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#398: Invite the Fatherless Jun 15, 2023

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Do any of your son’s friends have absent dads?
It’s likely they do. Over 19.5 million children– or one in four– don’t live with their dad. Fatherless boys are more likely to struggle in school, have behavioral problems, and participate in risky behaviors.
Take note of your son’s peers who don’t spend time with their dads. The next time you plan a father-son fishing trip, bike ride, or hike, be quiet but intentional about inviting one of those boys.
Your presence will benefit that young man greatly, and you may also be giving his mom or caregiver a much needed break. Plus, you can help open your son’s eyes about helping those who may need some extra encouragement. All it takes is an invitation.
To learn about the five critical needs of boys, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#397: Flag Day Jun 14, 2023

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What is Flag Day?
June 14 commemorates the date in 1777 when the United States approved the design for its first national flag.
In 1916 Pres. Woodrow Wilson declared June 14 as the official date for Flag Day.
And on June 14, 1954 (Flag Day), President Dwight Eisenhower signed a bill into law, officially adding the words “under God” into the Pledge of Allegiance. The President said, “To anyone who truly loves America, nothing could be more inspiring than to contemplate this rededication of our youth, on each school morning, to our country’s true meaning.”
It’s an honor and a responsibility to raise boys who become men who love our country and its heritage. Together with them we can say, “In God We Trust.”
For information about raising your son into a godly man, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#396: Walk Worthy Jun 13, 2023

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Does your walk match your talk?
Nobody likes “fake,” hypocritical people. As a Christian father figure and mentor, you need to live out of your faith authentically because people are constantly watching you.
I heard about a man who heard that his Christian co-worker had an accident at work. After asking if he was OK, his next question was, “Did he cuss?”
How you act is equally as important as what you believe. How is your walk with Jesus right now?
Trail Life USA’s motto is “Walk Worthy.” Be careful how you live daily so “that you may walk worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing Him, being fruitful in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God.”
For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#395: Family Time Jun 12, 2023

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How can we parents create margin in our families to build unity?
Play games together. Make a collection of board games. Develop the habit of occasionally clearing the table for game night. As children get older, families can invest in games that take longer to play. Playing board games allows for lots of interaction and often leads to laughter!
Read to your children. Build the expectation into your family that everyone should be readers. Provide age-appropriate material for your children. The local library is a wonderful resource that can be used again and again. There is a time to say, “OK, we’ve watched enough television, and you’ve spent enough time on electronics. Let’s spend some time reading?”
We are making choices today that will affect our children tomorrow.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#394: Learning to Serve Jun 09, 2023

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How do we raise servants?
Children learn how to serve others in part by watching adults serve. Serving others includes stepping up to the plate and stepping out to meet needs.
An older pastor said, “When our children were young, I pastored a small church with no other children or activities. My kids were part of starting new groups, ministries, and opportunities. None of that was handed to them. Today, as adults, they are leaders and servants. I think being required to serve at church made them the people they are today.”
We should look for ways to teach children to serve. We remember Jesus said He came not to be served but to serve.
They are people who don’t just watch what’s happening. They make things happen.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#393: Learning from the Lost Boys Jun 08, 2023

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We can learn something valuable about our sons from Peter Pan.
In her book Boy Talk, child psychologist Dr. Mary Polce-Lynch makes an observation about the Lost Boys in the story of Peter Pan.
These boys are seemingly living the dream. They have no parents, and no school– just adventures all day long. But interestingly, they still long for one childhood comfort– the bedtime story.
As your son grows up, it’s important that you let him be a boy. But even while he’s pursuing his masculine tendencies, don’t forget that he needs emotional nurturing, too. Take a few minutes for a hug– or sit and eat a snack with him. Your “lost boy” may not admit it, but he still needs those moments in the midst of all of his adventures.
To learn about the five critical needs of boys, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#392: Embrace Adventure Jun 07, 2023

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How can we raise boys who love adventure?
Here are a few simple ways to encourage boys to not always play it safe but develop their God-given spirit of bravery:
Encourage outdoor family activities that involve a healthy level of risk. Whitewater rafting, tubing on rivers, and waterfall hiking are a few.
Selectively allow children to oversee their own projects. It’s messy and not “perfect,” but they can own it.
Enjoy adventurous yard toys like zip-lines and trampolines. We can’t always play it safe!
Plan vacations to new places. Try different cities, restaurants, and entertainment.
As God shapes the lives of our children, He can use the raw material of learning to take risks and mold them into people who change their worlds!
For information about raising your son into a godly man, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#391: In His Hands Jun 06, 2023

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Do you remember the song “He’s Got the Whole World in His Hands”?
The song’s lyrics talk about God, saying:

He’s got the wind and the rain in his hands.
He’s got the little, tiny baby in his hands.
He’s got you and me, brother, in his hands.
He’s got you and me, sister, in his hands.
He’s got everybody here in his hands.

The Bible says God holds on to us with his “righteous right hand.”
This image shows us God’s power – and our utter helplessness and dependency on him. But you have no reason to fear because of God’s promised protection.
So, while things may get messy and scary, you can rest assured that God will always hold you in his hands.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

390: Blending Emotions Jun 05, 2023

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Is your son able to “blend” his emotions?
When going on a hike, you bring along a bar that contains a mix of protein, carbs, and healthy fats, since your body needs different nutrients to stay healthy.
In the same way, Child psychologist Dr. Mary Polce-Lynch says that healthy development in boys includes teaching them that they can feel seemingly conflicting emotions at the same time. For instance, when your son is sad about not making the soccer team, he may also feel relieved that he will have more free time. Or when he’s angry at his dad, he still will feel love towards his dad at the same time.
This “blending” of emotions doesn’t come naturally, but is an essential skill that you can teach with some simple intentionality.
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#389: Faith Over Fear Jun 02, 2023

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What are you most afraid of?
According to a 2014 Washington Post article, fear of public speaking was America's biggest phobia, with 25.3 percent of the people saying they were afraid of speaking in front of a crowd.
A 2022 study listed “corrupt government officials” as Americans’ biggest fear.
With the world seemingly spinning out of control, we can easily allow fear and anxiety to paralyze us.
While some fears are justified, we cannot let them to rob us of the peace God provides.
Remember the charge that Moses gave to Joshua: “You shall not fear them, for it is the LORD your God who fights for you” (Deuteronomy 3:22).
No matter what you are facing, don’t focus on your fear. Instead, focus on God’s promises, provision, and power. He is faithful!
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

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