Raising Godly Boys Minute

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#408: Follow Your Rules Jun 29, 2023

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Do you break your own rules?
You no doubt have rules for your son– like no texting while driving, and no procrastinating on his homework assignments. But if your son constantly sees you breaking your own rules, he will struggle to have respect for you.
Of course, your boy does need to know that parents have more authority than kids. But, to the best of your ability, demonstrate the good habits you want your son to have– for instance, put your phone down while you drive and don’t procrastinate on your chores.
And when you inevitably mess up— try to be a good example then, too. Demonstrate asking for forgiveness and taking responsibility for your mistakes. Your son will emulate you far more than he listens to you.
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#407: Family Worship Jun 28, 2023

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Want to make a powerful imprint on the lives of children?
I believe the most powerful method the Lord gave parents to influence our children is the simple practice of family worship.
In our sophisticated age, we may forget the spiritual power of opening the Bible, reading it to our families, and leading in prayer. God made it simple: pick up the Word, share it, and lead others to the throne of grace.
Charles Spurgeon said, “If we want to bring up a godly family . . . let us seek to train them up in the fear of God by meeting together as a family for worship.” Let’s be on the alert, parents and mentors, to impact our families for the Lord Jesus.
For information about raising your son into a godly man, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#406: Dad Deficit Disorder Jun 27, 2023

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Is it attention deficit disorder– or dad deficit disorder?
In his book Raising Boys, Steve Biddulph [BID-dulf] tells a powerful story about a dad named Don. Don’s son was diagnosed with “attention deficit disorder.” This was years ago, before ADD knowledge was so widespread, so Don misunderstood the diagnosis. He thought it meant that his son simply needed more attention. When school was out, Don started taking his son with him on his truck driving routes. Within months, his son showed remarkable behavior improvement– and even came off his ADD medication.
Many ADD diagnoses are very legitimate. But it’s likely that your son is also deficient in attention from you. Take some time today to put your phone down and give your boy some quality time.
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#405: What Will Last? Jun 26, 2023

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What will you leave to your children and the generations that come after you?
The saying, “You’ll never see a U-Haul behind a hearse,” is a poignant reminder that you can’t take anything with you in death, but you can leave something behind by how you live.
Your children are watching you and learning from you day by day. Are you leading them closer to Christ or further from him?
Teach them about Jesus by how you live for Him, and you will leave a lasting legacy.
Remember what British missionary C.T. Studd wrote in his famous poem, “Only one life, ’twill soon be past” — only what’s done for Christ will last.
For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#404: Instilling Integrity Jun 23, 2023

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How can we instill integrity into our children?
Teach them that we always live in God’s presence. Jesus is always in the room.
As a family, read books or listen to radio theater stories of godly people like Hudson Taylor, George Mueller, Corrie ten Boom, and William Wilberforce, for example. Discuss lessons from their lives
Children need to feel valued as they learn to speak truth. If parents immediately berate a child if they share a differing opinion from their own, children will subtly learn to mask some truth.
No better training exists than parents living lives worth replicating. Those little ones see us day in and day out. May our children find us to be people of integrity – the real deal on the inside.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#403: Flawed History Jun 22, 2023

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David. Moses. Abraham. Peter.
While all of these men achieved amazing things for God, they all also had shortcomings.
In the same way, the great men who built this country were also flawed. There’s a trend in culture right now to dismiss their heroism, and choose instead to emphasize their shortcomings. But as Theodore Roosevelt once pointed out, [quote], “far better is it to dare mighty things…than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much.” [end quote]
It’s not necessary to pretend that the Bible– or our nation’s history– is only made up of perfect people. The fact that God can use even the most flawed men to achieve great things for His Kingdom is just the inspiring message our sons desperately need to hear.
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#402: The Greatest Love of All Jun 21, 2023

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How high is heaven above the earth?
The distance is immeasurable, just like God’s love for you.
As the Bible says, “For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is God’s love for those who fear him.”
King David paints a powerful word picture in his psalm, writing that God “has removed our sins as far from us as the east is from the west.”
If you have turned to God and trusted in his son, Jesus Christ, God has completely removed your sin and eternally separated you from it.
When you watch a sunrise, be reminded of God’s forgiveness and mercy toward you. There’s nothing anyone can ever do to cause God to love you any less.
For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#401: Get Outside Jun 20, 2023

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Digital technology has become controlling, addictive, and intrusive.
Parents, it’s ok for you to be the “bad guy” about the use of electronics. Don’t let the culture squeeze you into its mold. Our children don’t need endless hours of internet and television exposure. Scientific studies show that too much digital time actually alters brain patterns. Consider not allowing “screen time” during the week unless all school work is done. On the weekends, limit the number of hours of screen time a day.
Go outside. God created us to interact with His natural world. Lead your boys in enjoying the outdoors and engaging in physical exercise. Children still need time to play in the dirt, walk in the woods, and foster their imagination.
For information about raising your son into a godly man, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#400 A Grandpa’s Love Jun 19, 2023

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What memories do you have with your grandfather?
The power of a grandpa’s love in a young man’s life cannot be understated. Child psychologist Dr. Mary Polce-Lynch once counseled a 10-year-old boy who lived thirteen hours from his grandpa. This boy didn’t see his grandpa very often, but talked about him every single day. She asked the boy to describe what his grandpa meant to him, and the boy was moved to tears.
Relationships with extended family can be complicated– and many people don’t live near their children’s grandparents. But, as much as you can, be intentional about fostering your son’s relationship with his grandfather. This can be through phone calls, letters, visits, or fishing trips. You’ll be benefiting your son more than you may even realize.
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#399: A Difficult Holiday (Fathers Day) Jun 16, 2023

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Father’s Day has been ranked towards the bottom in popularity among the top 15 national holidays. Why would that be?
Father’s Day can be a difficult day for many people because of traumatic experiences we’ve had with our fathers. Dads play a very important role in the lives of their children and when you do not have that person in your life in a healthy way, it can affect you in many ways.
One of the most important roles of a father is affirmation. Affirming your children, especially your sons, that they are special, loved, and have a purpose is vital. Hearing the words, “I love you and I’m so proud of you.” Is so necessary to emotional growth, yet many people never hear those words.
If you are a man, take time today to pour into your son. take another step and speak into the life of a boy who doesn’t have a godly dad. Tell them who God says they are. You will change their lives.
For more parenting advice and information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

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