Raising Godly Boys Minute

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#378: Are We There Yet? May 18, 2023

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While on a road trip, have your kids ever whined, “Are we there yet?”
When the journey is long, we grow impatient. We want to arrive at the destination as fast as possible. And if roadblocks make us veer off course, we grow frustrated. Sometimes even angry.
The same is true in the parenting journey. Our children are maturing socially, mentally, and spiritually—but sometimes not as fast as we’d like. We want them to develop responsibility as quickly as possible, but then we grow impatient whenever a detour sends them off track.
Avoid unreasonable expectations. Realize that your son’s developmental process takes time—and that’s okay. Instead of constantly wishing he were already at the destination, take time to enjoy life’s journey with him.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#377: A World of Difference May 17, 2023

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According to the U.S. Census Bureau, 25% of American kids live without a father or father-like figure in their homes. You heard that right. On average, 1 out of every 4 kids doesn’t have a dad to give them piggyback rides, help them with homework, or tuck them into bed at night. That’s tragic!
If you have the privilege of being a dad, make sure to be there for your kids. Don’t just live in your house. Make that house a home where smiles abound, and laughter is loud.
And if you know a boy who doesn’t have a father who’s around, include him in activities with you and your son. Your actions may be small, but they just might make a world of difference to a lonely kid.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#376: Handicaps May 16, 2023

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When your son was young, did he ever point at someone in a wheelchair? Do your older kids whisper about the new kid who stutters or has a deformity?
Teach your kids never to make fun of someone with a handicap. Because we live in a sin-cursed world where physical and mental handicaps exist, these handicaps make life really hard for these people.
As Christians, we can’t make those handicaps go away, but we can show courtesy and compassion. Teach your son to hold the door open for someone in a wheelchair. Teach your kids to listen patiently to someone who stutters.
By helping your kids treat people kindly, they’ll focus less on the handicap and more on the person’s personality.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#375: Fake and Phony May 15, 2023

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Are you a fraud? Do you act one way at home and another way at church?
More than ever, teenagers connect with people who are authentic in their motives and genuine in their behavior. As a parent, your son sees you at your best, but also at your worst.
When you realize that you aren’t displaying the attitude and actions of a Christ-follower, the most difficult—and yet most meaningful—thing you can do is admit your faults. Explain to your son that shouting or losing your temper wasn’t the right way for you to respond to frustration.
Admitting your faults won’t make your son respect you less. In fact, the opposite is true. Being authentic and genuine will make him see what a great dad he really has.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#374: Mother's Day - Single Mom May 12, 2023

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This Mother’s Day, minister to a single mom of a son.
Every single mom is a hero. And single moms who have boys? They should wear capes. Raising a boy– who needs a ton of exercise, outdoor activity, focused attention, and healthy risk taking– is a joy, but can be exhausting.
If you don’t know a single mom, ask a local church about their single moms ministry– they will be able to give you some names. Then, pray about the best gift to give. Some ideas are an anonymous check, a grocery gift card, or a coffee gift card. And if you know her well, offer to take her son on a fun outing. You won’t only be giving her a break, but her son will appreciate the extra attention.
To learn about the five critical needs of boys, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#373: The Greatest Nickname May 11, 2023

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Does your son have a nickname?
Many kids do. Some nicknames like Ace or Champ are fun and cute, while others like Rooster, Zippy, and Waffle usually come from some hilarious event or personality trait.
Nicknames are common, but there’s a nickname that only your son can call you. That’s the exclusive name of Dad.
It isn’t by accident that God gave you to your son, and your son to you. In his all-knowing wisdom, God placed you both together. As a dad, you have the responsibility of raising your son properly, but you also have the incredible joy of seeing him grow and mature into a man.
Never forget the privilege of being a dad. Count your blessings and name them one by one.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#372: Set an Eggs-ample May 10, 2023

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How do you like your eggs prepared? Scrambled and sunny side up are the most popular, but some people like them hard boiled or over easy.
Just as there are many ways to cook an egg, there are also many ways to discipline your son to correct wrong behavior. Of course, you wish discipline were never necessary, but that’s an unreasonable eggs-pectation.
When your son blatantly disobeys, don’t let his behavior eggs-asperate you. Set an eggs-ample by remaining calm. During these difficult moments, eggs-amine your words and actions to make sure they are motivated by love.
Although discipline is never fun, it’s sometimes necessary. The goal, however, is to teach your son right from wrong. And as he learns this, eggs-cuses will transform into eggs-cellence of character.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#371: Age & Stage May 09, 2023

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If you have a kindergartener, have you taught him to drive yet? If you have a teenage son, are you giving him tummy time?
Of course not, but in the busyness of everyday life, you might forget where your youngest and oldest children are in their developmental process. Understanding the specific age and stage of each child is vital in seeing where he’s come from … and where he still needs to go.
So, if you’re treating your kindergartener like a teenager, or your teenager like a toddler, reevaluate your expectations and instruction. Because each child is unique, don’t compare one child’s progress to another. As always, ask God to give you wisdom in guiding your children in becoming mature, responsible, and godly adults.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#370: The Blink of an Eye May 08, 2023

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The human eye is incredible! Even though it has over two million working parts, it’s the fastest muscle in the body. It also distinguishes millions of colors.
And yet, our eyes often miss what’s most important in life. When your son is on the soccer field, are you watching, or are you scrolling through social media on your phone? Can you detect when your son is frustrated, or do you not even notice?
To connect emotionally with your son, begin by turning your eyes upon Jesus. When you do this, your role as a father will come into proper focus.
But don’t delay. In the blink of an eye, your son will be grown and out of the house. Influence his life right now while there’s still time.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#369: Not Sitting Still May 05, 2023

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The kindergarten teacher looked at the parents and frowned.
“Your son just won’t sit still,” she said. “He always wants to move and look at things throughout the room.”
The boy’s mom furrowed her brows. “Not to be disrespectful, but why is sitting still an important skill for a five year old?”
That boy’s mom was asking an excellent question. While there is a time and place to learn how to focus, not being able to sit still is very developmentally appropriate for a five-year-old.
If your son’s educators aren’t giving him any grace to simply be a boy, it may be time to look at alternatives, such as homeschooling or a Montessori school. At the very least, make sure your son gets plenty of outdoor exercise after school.
To learn about the 5 critical needs of boys as they grow up, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

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