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#98: In God We Trust Apr 21, 2022

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Glance into your purse or wallet and you’ll probably see a few dollar bills. Written on those dollar bills are these words: In God We Trust.
It’s nice having that motto on our coins and bills—but it’s even more important to demonstrate that motto in our lives … that we teach this to our sons.
Has your son trusted in Jesus as his Savior? If so, are you teaching him the importance of trusting in the Lord for daily guidance?
Proverbs 3:5 says,
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding.”
Parenting is full of challenges. But when we trust in God, He promises to provide strength and help in time of need.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#97: Instant Replay Apr 20, 2022

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Boys love football.
And these days, a great benefit of watching football on TV is the instant replay. You can re-watch—and practically relive—those exciting catches, fumbles, and interceptions.
The instant replay is fantastic. But in real life, there is no “redo”. You get only one chance to raise your son through his adolescent years.
But what if you haven’t trained your son as well as you wish you had? If that’s the case, take heart.
C.S. Lewis said,
“You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.”
As a parent, you don’t get to redo your child’s youth. Because of that, make each play count so that in the end, you score a win for the glory of God.
For more parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#96: Involvement Leads to Learning Apr 19, 2022

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When Benjamin Franklin’s name is mentioned, kids think of the Guy who placed a metal key on a kite string.
But adults recognize Benjamin Franklin as one of America’s most important Founding Fathers. In addition to helping to write the Declaration of Independence, he also had great advice about the learning process.
He said,
“Tell me and I forget. Teach me and I remember. Involve me and I learn.”
Kids learn in different ways, but boys—especially—benefit from physical involvement. It’s one thing to tell a boy how to do something. But having him actually do it helps him remember and apply the lesson in a much more effective way.
For information about how to help boys learn and grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#95: Lost Expectations Apr 18, 2022

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When you’re expecting a baby, you’re filled with dreams of how extraordinary your child will eventually become. But if your son has special needs or experiences developmental delays, you dream about him functioning in an ordinary way.
The expectations we have for our children don’t always turn out the way we wish. During these times, it’s easy to become angry, frustrated, and bitter.
When these emotions begin swirling through your mind, return your focus to the God of all comfort. Remember that God selected you as a parent for a specific reason. And because He chose you, He will equip you for the task at hand.
It’s also helpful to receive encouragement throughout the parenting journey. Trail Life USA has a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men. Learn more at Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#94: Candy and Critical Needs Apr 15, 2022

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You can make your son’s day by putting his favorite candy in his backpack— a fruit roll up, a kit-kat, or maybe a Snickers. But what if you could load his backpack with what he needs emotionally, spiritually, and socially, as well?
The critical needs of boys can be symbolized by five survival tools– a compass, a map, a guide, a flashlight, and a mountain.
First, boys need a “compass”– a clear mission, and a “map”– a safe male mentor. Next, your son needs a “guide”– peers to walk beside on the trail of life. The “flashlight” symbolizes every boy’s need for clear boundaries and rules. And finally, young men must have a “mountain”– a real-world challenge.
And of course, giving them their favorite candy can help, too.
For ideas on meeting the five critical needs of boys, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#93: Consequences Apr 14, 2022

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If your son is like most boys, he’s full of curiosity and spontaneity. These characteristics help boys better understand the world around them. But—when not properly controlled—impulsive actions can lead to problems and pain.
Help your son understand how actions have consequences. A great way to do this is to read the Bible with him.
Show him how Samson thought he was invincible—but that he was no match against Delilah.
Point out how Peter thought he could walk on water—but that he sank when he took his eyes off Jesus.
By studying both good and bad examples, your son will gain a better understanding of how to act with discernment and wisdom.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#92: Fixing a Flat Apr 13, 2022

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If your car has a flat tire, it’s important to fix it fast. If you keep driving on it, the rim will quickly shred the rubber. After that you’ll ruin the alignment, brakes, and suspension. You might even lose control of the vehicle.
Similarly, if your relationship with your son is deflated, it’s important to fix it … fast. Maybe you had a disagreement or misunderstanding with him. Maybe harsh words were said. Maybe impatience won the day.
Regardless of who was at fault, it’s important to patch things up. You don’t want bitterness causing more serious problems down the road. A little bit of preventative maintenance goes a long way in helping you both go the distance.
For information about a Proven Process that is helping boys race ahead in life, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#91: Memories Matter Apr 12, 2022

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At times, your son may act like an outlaw terrorizing the wild west. As sheriff, it’s your job to keep the peace and enforce the laws. But as you know, it’s easy to grow frustrated, impatient, and exhausted at having to correct him over and over again.
When your blood pressure starts to rise, take time to recall moments from the past. Pull out your phone and flip through old pictures. Do you remember the day your son learned to ride a bike? Or when he won a ribbon at the science fair? Remember him jumping for joy after kicking that soccer goal?
These memories help put present-day challenges in perspective. Even though life often seems hard, good times from the past will encourage you to stay strong for the future.
For more parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#90: Beating Bullies Apr 11, 2022

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Are you concerned about bullying?
Research tells us that the #1 concern of parents for their children is that they will be bullied.60 percent of all mothers and fathers report this fear.
Though bullying may seem to us to be child’s play that will pass in time, the emotional effects are powerful, especially for boys, who are struggling with identity in a world that values them less.
Your son’s best response to bullying will be fostered as his identity grows in a community that supports your values, which should include a respect for all people. A strong identity with a faith-based community is a great defense against the feelings of inadequacy that can threaten a boy’s confidence.
For information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#89: Seeds of Growth Apr 08, 2022

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A tiny seed doesn’t become a towering tree overnight, nor by accident.
After a seed sprouts, it requires healthy soil, direct sunlight, and consistent moisture to develop strong roots. These roots are vital in helping it stand strong through the winds and storms of life.
The same is true in parenting.
Your son needs healthy attention, direct instruction, and consistent love in order to develop a strong foundation to withstand today’s anti-Christian culture.
By providing your son this emotional support, you establish the foundation that will lead him toward greater character, purpose, and leadership skills in life.
For information about raising your son into a godly man, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

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