Raising Godly Boys Minute

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#118: Maybe Not Delayed May 19, 2022

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“Your son is delayed.” Those words can fill you worry and even some fear as a parent. But did you know that your son may be perfectly normal, and the system may be incorrect?
Researchers have found that boys’ brains develop more slowly than their female peers’ brains. The public school system doesn’t often take this into account, and a student’s success is measured by standardized tests. This is also true when it comes to behavior. As a result, many boys are labeled delayed when it comes to emotions or intelligence, when, in reality, they will catch up in due time.
Don’t lose heart. And don’t forget to take your worries to God. Your son is perfectly and wonderfully made.
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#117: Let's Go Outside May 18, 2022

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Breakfast. School. Homework. Dinner. Does your son seem bored or disengaged in his day to day life? Here’s a simple way to add adventure, spontaneity, and excitement to his life: Get him outside!
Nature can actually change your son’s brain for the better. Studies have found that when someone regularly spends time outside, essential regions of the brain, like the hippocampus, grow and retain more gray matter. This makes it easier for your son to pay attention, learn, and remember things.
Start simple. Get a baseball and play catch in your backyard. Look online to find a bike trail or body of water. Your boy will feel more satisfied with his life, and as a bonus, your relationship will most likely improve.
To learn about a Proven Process to raise godly boys, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#116: He Needs Risk May 17, 2022

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His superman cape flies out behind him majestically, and he lifts his arms. “One, two, three!” Your five year old jumps off the swing set. A short time later, as you drive him to the emergency room with a broken arm, you wonder, “Why in the world did he do that?”
As parents, we remind our kids to be careful, but the truth is that boys don’t just want risk… they need it. Risky play helps your son learn to deal with nervous feelings, adapt to new situations, and improve his gross motor skills.
So what are some examples of safe risky play? Being in the elements and near fire or water. Games like hide and seek. Riding a bike fast.
Just don’t forget to pray for courage…for yourself, of course.
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#115: Boys and Hearing May 16, 2022

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“Take out the trash. This is the fourth time I’ve told you,” you tell your son. Your son says “What? I didn’t hear you.”
Here’s a fact that may not surprise you: boys are biologically wired to be bad listeners. Studies have found that, when a boy and girl hear the same sound, the boy will hear it 10 times quieter than the girl will. This is especially true if it’s a high frequency sound, like a woman’s voice.
Since 78% of teachers are female, it’s no wonder that boys are falling behind girls academically. So what can we do as parents? Give our boys grace. Explore alternative learning styles. And yes, we may need to ask several times for the trash to get taken out.
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#114: 3, 2, 1... Lift Off! May 13, 2022

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There’s a bunch of excitement in the rocket industry. SpaceX and other companies are building gigantic rockets. They’re even planning Mars missions.
But before a rocket ever leaves the ground, there are countless hours of building and programming. Every part of the rocket is checked and double checked to make sure it’s ready for liftoff.
Before your son heads off for college or moves away for work, it’s important to prepare him for that big day. Make sure he has everything he needs to accomplish the mission of honoring the Lord with his life. And don’t forget: That building process begins years before liftoff.
Carefully and strategically train your son when he is young. That way, when he is ready to launch out into the world, everything will go smoothly.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#113: Strike it Rich May 12, 2022

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During the California Gold Rush of 1849, thousands of prospectors panned for gold in mountain streams and riverbeds. But those prospectors who spent time, sweat, and effort digging into the earth were the ones most likely to strike it rich. Discovering a single vein of gold was worth way more than hundreds of gold flakes from the river.
Help your son strike it rich in terms of godly character. Show him—through personal example—how to dig deep into Scripture. It’s there that he’ll discover the incredible treasures of service, commitment, and integrity.
Remember: the more your son understands the value of honoring the Lord with his life, the more he’ll want store up treasures in heaven—where thieves will never break in and steal.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#112: Step by Step May 11, 2022

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Do you remember your son taking his first steps? No doubt you had already been holding his hand—and helping him take one step in front of the other.
But eventually, the day came where he climbed to a stand, and took those first few steps all by himself. You cheered with joy and excitement.
Even though your son is no longer a toddler, continue to train him to walk in righteousness. Psalm chapter 1 provides excellent teaching. Show your son how to delight in the Lord and not to pursue a path of the selfishness and pride.
Proverbs 22:6 says,
“Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.”
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#111: Finding the Right Fit May 10, 2022

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If you plan to go skiing, you wear ski boots. If you’re heading to the beach, you wear sandals. For a quick jog around the block, you wear running shoes.
You select your shoes based on the type of activity.
Similarly, when training, correcting, or playing with your son, it’s vital to select the appropriate tone for the task at hand. It’s also crucial that you understand your son’s personality so that you can most effectively connect with him.
At times, you may need to choose a serious tone. Other times, a light-hearted attitude is most appropriate.
There’s no “one-size-fits-all” type of parenting. Understanding your son takes effort. But the more time and attention you devote to him, the more prepared he’ll be for life.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#110: Broken No More May 09, 2022

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Have you ever broken an arm? Depending on the type of break, the doctor might have needed to set the bones straight before placing your arm in a cast. That cast kept your arm protected so that the broken bones could grow back together.
If your relationship with your son is broken, you also need to set things straight. Take time to allow the relationship to heal. This may require a season of rest and extra attention. You may need to cut out other activities so that you can devote extra time to helping the relationship rest and recover.
A broken relationship hurts. But by taking immediate steps to help it recuperate, you and your son will grow closer together, and—in time—stronger than ever.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#109: Maintaining Control May 06, 2022

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Have you ever watched a stunt driver race his motorcycle up a steep ramp and into the air? Maybe he did a double backflip with a bunch of twists and turns.
Those crazy stunts require an incredible about of control. If the stuntman were to leave the ramp at the wrong angle, he’d land off target and experience an awful wipeout.
To succeed in life, your son also needs to be in control. Because boys are usually impulsive, self-control is one of the hardest lessons for them to learn. But a little self-control goes a long way in helping him steer through the twists and turns of life.
So teach your son the importance of self-control. The more self-control he has, the greater his chance of soaring high in life.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

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