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#108: Mentor for Battle May 05, 2022

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Imagine sending an army to war without the tools or training to achieve victory. And yet, we are sending boys, ill-equipped, into a culture that seems to have declared war on boyhood.
The results are tragic. Boys are almost twice as likely to be put in special education and three times more likely to be diagnosed with ADHD. And each year, fewer young men enroll in higher education.
But changing these statistics is easier than you may think. For example, the presence of one positive mentor can make a young man more likely to make healthy choices, get better grades, and have higher self esteem.
Today, ask God to put a man in your son’s life who can show him how to soldier on in the battle of life.
For ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#107: Not Always ADHD May 04, 2022

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Fidgeting. Being loud. Having trouble staying seated. Running or climbing when it’s not appropriate.
We used to consider these normal behaviors for young boys. But now, they are listed as symptoms of ADHD.
Attention disorders are certainly real. But in some cases, what if instead of changing our boys’ behavior, we need to adjust our approach as adults?
For instance–too much screen time and not enough exercise can make it hard for your son to sleep at night. In turn, being tired can make it hard for him to focus during the day. What if you turned off all screens after dinner, and took a family walk before bed instead? You and your son will both reap the benefits.
To learn about raising boys to be healthy, godly men, go to TrailLife USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#106: Anger or Anxiety? May 03, 2022

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You’re sitting at the dinner table, and you ask your son if he’s ready for basketball tryouts. Your son’s face starts to turn red. Suddenly, he stands up, pushes his plate away, and knocks his chair over intentionally as he leaves the room.
You’re confused. What caused this sudden anger outburst?
Researchers have discovered that when boys seem angry or withdrawn, they are often actually anxious.
So if your son seems angry for no reason, consider what may be stressing him out. Give him time to cool off. Get on his level, and engage him with physical touch and eye contact. And help him find healthier outlets for his anxiety, such as running or shooting hoops.
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#105: Babe Ruth's Secret Statistic May 02, 2022

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You’ve no doubt heard of Babe Ruth, who set a record for most number of home runs in his baseball career– seven hundred and fourteen.
But here’s a statistic you probably haven’t heard– Babe Ruth’s total career strikeouts. One thousand three hundred and thirty. That’s right– he struck out far more than he hit homers.
When it comes to your own son, of course you want him to hit all the proverbial “home runs” in life. But don’t forget to let him fail, too. It can be hard for us parents to watch, but failure can actually build resilience and be more beneficial for our children than success.
Just ask Babe Ruth, who said– “Every strike brings me closer to the next home run.”
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#104: Better than Virtual Life Apr 29, 2022

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You’ve tried everything, but you just can’t pull your son away from his video games. Well here’s something to consider. Does your son’s real life give him the same opportunities for adventure that his virtual world does?
Of course, video games are addictive by design. But researchers have found that boys also turn to gaming out of boredom, seeking freedom and risk.
Try adding a few more “yesses” to your son’s life. Let him ride his bike down a hill, take a walk in the woods, or try climbing a tree. The best way to draw your son away from a virtual world is to give him healthy challenges in real life.
To learn about the five critical needs of boys as they grow up, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#103: A Privilege and Responsibility Apr 28, 2022

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Billy Graham was one of the most influential evangelists of the 20th century. He boldly proclaimed the Gospel to over 200 million people. But in addition to his important preaching ministry, Billy Graham also had an important message for fathers.
He said,
“A good father is one of the most unsung, unpraised, unnoticed, and yet one of the most valuable assets in our society.”
As a dad, you have the incredible privilege of raising your son to love the Lord and follow His ways. This brings with it the responsibility of providing a strong, Christ-centered foundation for your family.
So, how is your parenting journey coming along? Remember, you’ll never regret investing time and attention in your son.
For information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#102: Appeal of Gangs Apr 27, 2022

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Gangs. They are responsible for almost half of violent crime in the United States. And yet, boys and men continue to join these groups in droves, some recruited as early as elementary school. Why?
Here’s a big reason. As boys interact socially, they are always asking three questions: “Who is with me?” “Who is in charge?” And, “What is our mission?”
Often, church groups and social clubs, although well-intentioned, fail to answer those questions. If we aren’t answering these questions for boys, we will surely lose them to groups that will.
To ensure your son thrives, help him identify friends, leaders, and the bigger purpose in everything he does– from school to soccer practice.
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#101: Boys are Like Canaries Apr 26, 2022

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In the old days of coal mining, canaries were brought into mines. If the bird died, the miners knew they needed to escape, because there was something noxious in the atmosphere.
In our society today, boys are just like those canaries. Many are faltering in every area, including school, relationships, and mental health.
But there is one simple thing that can make young men more likely to make healthier choices, do better in school, and have a stronger self esteem. And that is the presence of a positive mentor.
Think you’re not equipped to be a mentor? Think about the heroes you had growing up. They made you feel valued, worthy, and inspired– and I promise, they were far from perfect people.
To learn about a Proven Process for raising boys to become godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#100: Conquering Giants Apr 25, 2022

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Boys love the story of David and Goliath. Afterall, anytime there’s a battle involving giants with swords, it’s sure to capture attention.
But too often, boys fail to apply important lessons from David’s life. Before David defeated Goliath, he had learned to depend on God when battling lions that attacked his sheep. By relying on God in these smaller tests of faith, David had confidence that God would help him no matter what giant situation came his way.
What giants are your son facing? At school, is he struggling academically? Are bullies harassing him? Does he know how to navigate peer pressure?
The more your son understands that true strength comes from God—for both the small and big stuff—the more victorious he will be in life.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#99: I'm Sorry Apr 22, 2022

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Two of the most difficult words for a parent to say are, “I’m sorry.” Are you saying them enough?
As parents, we should ask for forgiveness from our kids if we lose our temper, or don’t control our tongue, or if we jump to conclusions without gathering the necessary facts.
The difficulty is that we can feel vulnerable, inadequate, and even slightly humiliated when apologizing.
But here’s the truth: Your son or daughter will grow to love and respect you even more if you apologize. Humbling yourself demonstrates—through action—a love so strong that you are willing to admit wrong in order to restore the relationship.
Saying sorry isn’t easy, but your example goes a long way in helping your children see what true spiritual maturity looks like.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

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