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    Morning Mindset with Paul G. Markel

    A daily dose of practical wit and wisdom from Paul Markel: Professional Educator and Trainer, Amazon Best-Selling Author, United States Marine, Television and Radio Host.

    Each episode will focus on positive and productive ways to strengthen your mindset to help you improve your relationships, career goals, and overall well-being.

    To get show notes, submit a topic request, and for more from your host, Paul G. Markel, visit MorningMindsetPodcast.com. Please leave a review for this podcast on your favorite podcast player, we appreciate your time and effort and we look forward to reading your honest feedback.

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    MM200 - Arrogant and Opinionated Nov 30, 2018
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    Accusations of arrogance or being opinionated or even dogmatic are thrown about. But, are those accusations warranted or true? Is it wrong to be opinionated or dogmatic?

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    Episode Transcription

    [INTRO]
    ♫ Trenches by Pop Evil ♫
    *Alex*
    Welcome to Morning Mindset. A daily dose of practical wit and wisdom with a professional educator & trainer, Amazon best selling author, United States Marine, Television, and Radio host, Paul G. Markel. Each episode will focus on positive and productive ways to strengthen your mindset and help you improve your relationships, career goals, and overall well-being. Please welcome your host; Paul G. Markel.

    *Professor Paul*
    Welcome to episode number 200 of the Morning Mindset podcast. Wow, and I've been doing this show for less than a year as I speak the words into this microphone. I hope you're enjoying it. I hope you appreciate it. I hope you like what we've been doing. When I say we me and my producer in the background who you don't ever hear from because I am alone in the studio alone with my thoughts and loan with this carbon steel microphone.
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    Today we're going to talk about opinionated and arrogant or arrogant and opinionated, and it kind of dovetails right in with yesterday's discussion on identifying quality. Now if you have gone out and gotten the experience lived life got an education and training and so forth. You may be better able to identify quality then other people, and for instance, whether it especially when it comes to training, let's see education or types of training or what have you if you go out and you get lots of Education you take lots of classes training courses.
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    What have you, I've done that for 30+years, and so I feel that I am very, very capable of identifying a good trainer, a good training program, a good class, a good instructor. I'm very skilled or well-equipped shall we say to identify high-quality good instruction and poor mediocre or average instruction. It doesn't take me very long to sniff out an average or a poor instructor because well because I've got 30 plus years of experience doing it and what that leads to I may say, I don't like this or I don't appreciate that or I don't endorse this.
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    There are also programs products gear things that I wholeheartedly and very strongly endorse. and the reason that I'm endorsing these things is because I have this experience and the spaces in Education and Training, but when you go forward and endorse something when you endorsed a when there's a training program or whether it is a product or where there is a way of thinking when you endorsed that and when you endorsed it strongly and wholeheartedly you open yourself up to the accusation of arrogance or opinionated.
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    I've been accused of both of those. I've been accused of being arrogant because I believe that I'm right. Or that I believe I'm always right that Paul Markle guy. He always thinks he's right. Well, yes, as a matter of fact, I do. I do think I'm right and the silly and ridiculous thing about that accusation is that people that throw it out? What is the other option? Is the other option? Not believe in your own thoughts not believe in your own decisions. Opinionated people say that guy's very opinionated all I don't I don't like him because he's opinionated.
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    For what makes an opinionated? Well, you know, he said exactly and here's the thing people are often accused of being opinionated because they tell you. with without reservation exactly how they feel about a certain subject. They don't beat around the bush. They don't offer half-truths. They don't temper what they're going to say with political correctness. They say exactly what is on their mind with Noah. No uncertain terms, right and when they do that they're accused of being opinionated.
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    She politicians are rarely accused of being opinionated because they temper everything that comes out of their mouth. They never tell you exactly how they feel they never take a stand on anything because they may need to change it tomorrow or this audience might not like what they have to say so that they have to modify their opinions. Or their thoughts or their decisions or whatever they have to modify their speech based upon whose hearing it. Now when you don't do that. When you offer your own opinions your thoughts your beliefs and you don't take into consideration.
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    Who's listening? You're accused of arrogance you're accused of being opinionated and recently I was listening to Matt and Scott talked about starting strength and some of the people who have criticized starting strength over the years and they've criticized it for being dogmatic. Meaning that there they hold firmly to their beliefs and they refused to change them. Yes, sometimes being dogmatic is actually a good thing. I ask you this if you were looking for someone let's say I don't know, let's go ahead and say something like you wanted to learn how to play the guitar.
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    You wanted someone to teach you and you could pick any person right any person in the world to teach you to play guitar to show you the ins and outs in the upside downs and the Mastery of the guitar. Who would you go to like, you know, when one of those Lottery situations where you could just pick any person, and they would be made available to you to answer all of your questions and to show you what they knew and so forth. Who would you choose would you choose someone that is a master of that for instance, would you choose Eddie Van Halen?
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    Would you choose Eddie Van Halen to teach you the guitar or would you choose somebody that? Well, that doesn't feel that they're very good. It's silly to me, but yet it still exists. people don't appreciate those who they accuse those who have strong truthful opinions of being arrogant people who don't change or modify their thoughts based upon who the audience happens to be that day and they're accused of being dogmatic or opinionated sometimes it's good to be opinionated and I don't know what about the arrogance thing, but I can tell you this if someone has experience education and they have been striving or if they have striven to master, whatever it is their field of endeavor.
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    Whether it's strength training or you know being a musician or what have you they probably have very very strong feelings about that because they've invested a lot of time and effort into it. So before you're willing to throw out the arrogance label or the opinionated label or you know, before you listen to someone like that you might want to think about exactly where that comes from. I just thought I would date. You know, what the heck I would I would deal with that subject. I would address it because I run into it quite frequently. Alright, ladies and gentlemen, like I said today was episode number 200 of Morning Mindset podcast.
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    Thank you very much for being a member of this audience. I would truly appreciate it. If you would leave us a rating on whatever podcast player, it is that you use to listen to this and if you purchase the book, Morning Mindset: a 30 Day Plan for a More Positive and Productive Life. Thank you for doing that, and if you would leave a review for that as well, that'd be fantastic. Alright, folks. I'll be back again, and we'll start off with episode 2-0-1 next time. I'm your host Paul Markel, I'll talk to you again, real soon.

    [OUTRO]

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    *Alex*

    Thank you for spending time with us today. To get show notes, submit a topic request, for more from your host Paul G. Markel, visit MorningMindsetPodcast.com. That’s MorningMindsetPodcast.com. Please leave a review of this podcast on your favorite podcast player, we appreciate your time & effort, and we look forward to reading your honest feedback.


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    MM199 - Identifying Quality Nov 29, 2018
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    How do you know what is really the best? How can you discern quality from the average or the inferior? Experience and education. An 18-year-old Private has no idea if the training he receives is the best, average, or mediocre. The same goes for food, coffee, clothing, gear, etc.

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    Episode Transcription

    [INTRO]

    ♫ Trenches by Pop Evil ♫

    *Alex*

    Welcome to Morning Mindset. A daily dose of practical wit and wisdom with a professional educator & trainer, Amazon best selling author, United States Marine, Television, and Radio host, Paul G. Markel. Each episode will focus on positive and productive ways to strengthen your mindset and help you improve your relationships, career goals, and overall well-being. Please welcome your host; Paul G. Markel.

    *Professor Paul*
    Welcome back to Morning Mindset, I am your host Paul Markel and I'm happy to be here speaking into this black carbon steel microphone at you, and we're fastly approach or rapidly, we are rapidly approaching episode #200. Yes, I'm sitting here looking at my show notes thinking man. Is it possible? Can we have almost a 200 episodes already? The answer is Yes.
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    We're going to talk about identifying quality. How do we learn to identify or recognize quality or appreciate? I guess I should say appreciate quality. This is a topic that I decided to talk about or discuss because I had a recent discussion with a couple of friends and we were talking about this very thing. How is it that some people just don't seem to be able to recognize or appreciate quality and why is that? Sadly, I think many people in our world today have substituted convenience for Quality.
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    If they can get it quick they can get it fast if they can get it immediately. They'd rather have immediacy or convenience than quality. It's set as a fully grown adult a seasoned and mature adult. It is sad to me to think that there are people who would rather have something that is an inferior product, but have it fast or have it delivered conveniently, than to have to wait for something that is a quality product, and it's not always just that.
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    Sometimes it's the fact that people don't know any better. For instance, and I've mentioned this before, but I think it bears repeating. When people have no basis in experience, education or training, they really can't identify something that is quality or not. Because they don't know. Let's say, for instance, you take an 18-year-old, an 18-year-old College freshman, right? Super impressionable and part of the reason that they're impressionable is because they deceive themselves into believing that they're geniuses that they're super smart, that they know everything.
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    Now so an 18-year-old takes a class on you fill in the blank philosophy or what have you, and they come away from that class thinking that that Professor is the smartest person they've ever heard. It's the greatest class on philosophy on human philosophy or psychology or whatever it is. It's the best thing and they're they're just overcome by the geniousity of it and how great they think it is. now is that class actually the. Philosophy or psychology or whatever class was at the best information available where that was that person the best instructor the best professor and you say I don't know was here wasn't he the 18-year-old thinks he was, but why does the 18-year-old think?
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    Because they have nothing to compare it to it's their first ever experience with that thing, and so they have nothing to compare it to. They have no idea whether it was the best available or mediocre or the worst. There are P. I like to you know, I use the phrase that life is too short to drink bad coffee. I will not deliberately drink bad coffee. Now it's not because I knew coming out of the out of the womb in the Cradle. What good coffee was I learned over time? That's right. I went and experience it for myself.
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    I tried out all kinds of different coffees and I educated myself and after educating myself and gaining lots and lots of experience. I was able to determine. What at least to me is a quality product, and it doesn't matter whether its food or clothing or gear or coffee or what have you many times people settle for mediocre or average and it's not necessarily because they're lazy it's because they just don't have the experience or education or knowledge to discern, and you should have that. She that is why we try so many different things.
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    That is why human beings can't well, they should I mean you can travel that is why they should travel. Many people believe that their city or the way things had that transpire in their City their Town their Community is the way of the world, and it's not until they travel and go somewhere else. So they realize it's not or folks do not appreciate. Where they live there are many people that think that that the state that they live in at the country the country that they live in is inferior or it's somehow morally wrong or what have you, and that things are better other places and they believe that until they actually go out and experience.
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    Those other places I have been to many, many countries many continents. I've been in a Cell the country, but I've been on every ocean on planet Earth and I've been on the majority of the continents of planet Earth, and I've seen how people live and I've seen how life is in other countries and I can tell you this compared to them. The United States of America is a pretty good place to live, but I know that and I can make that comparison realistically because I have seen with my own eyes and I've experienced good bad and ugly.
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    Often we cheat ourselves people in our in our modern world. We deprive ourselves of experiences. We deprive ourselves with the ability to deprive ourselves of the ability. To discern between what is poor or mediocre average or high quality, and we've cheated ourselves because we don't take the time and opportunity to get the experience get the training to get the education to go out there and live life and experience different things, and then after we've done that we can come back and we can say okay.
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    This is probably better than that. This gear is probably you know higher quality than that gear this food and or coffee or clothing or whatever. Often times people just settle and it makes me you know, but you're a free man, you're a free woman you can do whatever you want. If you never want to leave the town in which you were born if you are perfectly free to do that. You can stay there. You can stay there are some people who never live more than you know, five miles away from the hospital that they were born in and that's fine.
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    You can do that. But if you do you're really shortchanging yourself, you're like that 18-year-old that has no basis for making any kind of a comparison because they don't know any better at all. So if you really want to be able to identify quality. To know what good food tastes like good coffee. Good gear, good clothing, good gravy, good grief, Charlie Brown. Get your butt out there get some experience get some education and live life. Alright, that's all I've got for you guys today. I am your host Paul Markel, and I will talk to you again, real soon.

    [OUTRO]

    ♫ Trenches by Pop Evil ♫

    *Alex*

    Thank you for spending time with us today. To get show notes, submit a topic request, for more from your host Paul G. Markel, visit MorningMindsetPodcast.com. That’s MorningMindsetPodcast.com. Please leave a review of this podcast on your favorite podcast player, we appreciate your time & effort, and we look forward to reading your honest feedback.


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    MM198 - Jack and Diane Nov 28, 2018
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    Life goes on, long after the thrill of living is gone. How do we hold on to 16 as long as we can? That, my friends, is the question.

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    Episode Transcription

    [INTRO]

    ♫ Trenches by Pop Evil ♫

    *Alex*

    Welcome to Morning Mindset. A daily dose of practical wit and wisdom with a professional educator & trainer, Amazon best selling author, United States Marine, Television, and Radio host, Paul G. Markel. Each episode will focus on positive and productive ways to strengthen your mindset and help you improve your relationships, career goals, and overall well-being. Please welcome your host; Paul G. Markel.

    *Professor Paul*
    Alright, welcome back to get another Morning Mindset podcast and those of you who take the time to actually read the title of today's show, or these shows before you listen to them, you might be thinking "What is he going to make a musical reference?" Yes, he is going to make a musical reference. When I work out when I go into the gym and I pick up the steel and put it down, rinse, lather, and repeat over and over again.
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    I like to put my phone I take my phone and I pull up the music app and I search out a station and I plug it into the speakers and I listen while I'm working out and I had it plugged into our turned onto a station. I think it was the Amazon Prime music Queen Radio station. If you know anything about this these quote-unquote stations, you pick an artist and they play that artists and other artists from that time frame and that genre that style of music. So there I am doing the thing the other day in the gym, and the song Jack and Diane from John Cougar Mellencamp when I was first introduced to him.
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    He was John Cougar and then he decided that he was going to go change his slave name back to his birth name, which was John Mellencamp. I grew up. In the early why I came of age in the late 70s early to mid-80s. I graduated from high school in 1985. So when the American full album from John Mellencamp was released in 1982. That was right there right in my bailiwick right during my era Mighty naira freshman-sophomore year, you know that kind of a thing and. Jack and Diane was a big song was a huge song when I was growing up.
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    A little ditty about Jack and Diane. now if you're my age, if you are around 50 you remember this probably very fondly you remember that it was top of the charts for a long time, like a year or so and I heard that song, I don't know 500,000 times during my teenage years. But I hadn't heard it for quite a while, in fact, the other day when I heard it in the gym was probably I don't know the first time in 10 years or more since I actually listened to the song, and one of the lyrics you know, or the chorus is life goes on long after the thrill of living is gone, and you say well, you know, you probably heard that if you've heard the song Jack and if you've never heard it, if you're a young crumb-crunching Millennial person, go to YouTube and look it up and watch it and listen to it.
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    This is life goes on long after the thrill of living is gone and it's just holding onto 16 as long as you can change coming around real soon. Make us women and men. and. What's funny about that is when I heard that song when I first heard it, you know going back to 1982 in 1982. I was 15 years old, so I wasn't yet 16 like he was talking about in the song. but think about when you were 16, think about when you were a teenager think back to that time and how every day was. Exciting the prospect of every single day at least to me.
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    It was exciting everything you did was of great import what you use me what you wore. You know, what kind of clothes you wore who you talk to what kind of car you had or didn't have everything was of critical importance. Right every day was an adventure it seemed I remember being a teenager and if you couldn't like I had there was a girl that I was very much fond of, and if I couldn't see her for one day, you know for if I had gone two or three days without seeing her it seemed like forever.
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    Or if I had a family obligation, you know when I was 16, 17, 18-years-old. I don't know in high school that a family obligation on a Friday night and I couldn't go out with my friends. It was just it was like the end of the world. Because when you're young everything is fresh and exciting and new, and then what happens to you when you grow up and in the truth is you need to mature what we can't have an entire Society of 16-year-olds of juveniles because people who are juveniles have no concept of the future.
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    They have no concept of civic responsibility or Duty because everything is all about what they want and they want it now, which is fine. Because that's the way kids are supposed to be but they're supposed to mature over time. But part of what we lose during the maturation process is we lose that thrill. Long after the thrill of living is gone. How many of you have thought about that over the years? Maybe you haven't maybe the first time you did. Life goes on after the thrill is living is gone, and when you first hear that, you know when I was 15, I thought that's kind of weird because you know.
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    I couldn't imagine at age 15, the thrill is gone because everything was fresh and new and exciting and you know, the world was open to me nothing but the future, and here we are now, I don't know how old you are if you're listening to me you maybe 20s-30s-40s-50s or Beyond. Maybe you're in your 60s or 70s. I don't know. Is there any been thought my audience in their 70s if so, hey, how you doing? But how do we keep that? How can we keep the thrill of living?
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    Even though we are way beyond 16 now sit changes have come around real soon and made us women and men now we have responsibilities and we have mortgages and we have families that need to be taken care of and we have careers and we have all these things that weigh on our heads. Yeah, teenagers today these Moronic teenagers that stick that you know that the news media finds them and they asked them their opinions. Does anyone else feel that this both ridiculous and insulting at the same time? Some news reporter will go and they'll ask a sixteen-year-old their opinion about anything, and we're supposed to listen like, what basis does an experience in reality?
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    There's a 15 or 16-year-old have they have none they have none. But how do we as adults? Is there a way that we can keep that thrill of living? I think there is. I think there is one of the things that I enjoy and it may seem simple or simplistic but I really enjoy music. I enjoy the music from my era. But I also enjoy other music as well as I've grown and aged. I've kind of expanded my musical tastes and I like to listen to music when I listen to music.
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    It makes me feel younger. When I exercise when I do physical training and I don't know I haven't always done the starting strength and the barbell training but you know, I used to hit the bag and I used to do other, you know, physical things. I still do sometimes but that made me feel younger it gave me that thrill. What is it for you? I don't know. I don't know but I just thought you know, I was listening to that and it struck me. It struck me as I was listening to that song that I should come to this microphone and talk about it for a little bit.
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    Maybe you felt the same way. Maybe that is why we run into trouble as adult humans. You know, why do men, and women, not going to exclude you, women. Why do they get into trouble? Through extramarital Affairs through the use of recreational as opposed to professional or commercial drug use or what. Have you going to going to bars and drinking when you're in your 40s, you know or 30s even 30s or 40s or 50s going to bars and engaging in the behavior. That is self-destructive.

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    Because why what? Maybe that's their way of looking for the thrill after The Thrill is Gone. I don't know are there other positive ways that we can look for the thrill that we can reinvigorate ourselves and make ourselves feel like we have that excited 16 17-year-old minds again. I think there are, and we talk about those quite often here on the Morning Mindset podcast. So alright, ladies and gentlemen, according to the clock on the wall is time for me to be quiet and let you guys go to work or get back on with your life, whatever it is you happen to be doing today. I am your host Paul Markel, and I will talk to you again real soon.

    [OUTRO]

    ♫ Trenches by Pop Evil ♫

    *Alex*

    Thank you for spending time with us today. To get show notes, submit a topic request, for more from your host Paul G. Markel, visit MorningMindsetPodcast.com. That’s MorningMindsetPodcast.com. Please leave a review of this podcast on your favorite podcast player, we appreciate your time & effort, and we look forward to reading your honest feedback.


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    MM197 - Time for New Paint Nov 27, 2018
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    Sometimes cleaning is not enough and you need to apply a fresh coat of paint. The same applies to our lives. Once in a while, we need to apply a fresh coat of paint. Women are good at this, men not so much.

    If you like the show, please check out our Official Morning Mindset Merchandise!

    [INTRO]

    ♫ Trenches by Pop Evil ♫

    *Alex*

    Welcome to Morning Mindset. A daily dose of practical wit and wisdom with a professional educator & trainer, Amazon best selling author, United States Marine, Television, and Radio host, Paul G. Markel. Each episode will focus on positive and productive ways to strengthen your mindset and help you improve your relationships, career goals, and overall well-being. Please welcome your host; Paul G. Markel.

    *Professor Paul*

    Hello, and here we go again, and it's time for yet another Morning Mindset podcast, and I want to take a moment right now to thank all of you out there in the Morning Mindset listening audience. That's right, every one of you who have written us a letter or letter like, you know what I mean. No one actually sends paper letters anymore, but an email or to the Facebook page or what have you, thanking us or acknowledging us telling us that you're listening.
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    I truly appreciate that. Sometimes when I'm sitting here alone in my studio because yes, I am alone in the studio talking into the microphone. I think "Is there anyone out there actually listening?" I hope that there are people listening and I assume that there are other people listening, but when you're in the studio, you're all by yourself talking into the black carbon steel microphone, you don't know.
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    So for those of you that have reached back to us to say "Yes, I have been listening and I have been paying attention. Thank you, thank you very much, and for those of you who have left a review on your favorite podcast application. Whether it's iTunes or iHeartRadio, I just realized recently iHeartRadio is a little bit different than iTunes and some of the others. You have to have so many, you have to have X number of episodes in the can and pre-produced before iHeart Radio will accept you and you have to have been running for so long.
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    It's a certain amount of time before iHeartRadio picks you up. So if you're listening on iHeartRadio, thank you very much, and I hope that you will leave a review to let those folks now. Well, wherever it is iTunes or in Stitcher, Podcast Gallery, there are a thousand podcast players. But leave a review and let those people know that you're paying attention and you're listening because it does matter iTunes pays very close attention to recent and 5★ reviews.
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    The same thing with iHeartRadio and you may not know this and I know I'm going a little longer with just the talky-talk, but that's okay. But when it comes to internal promotion Amazon is the same way in order for Amazon to promote a book internally to their other customers, it has to have a minimum of five 5★ reviews. Until a book has at least five 5★ reviews that have been guaranteed or verified or whatever.
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    They won't promote it internally, that's why when people do these podcasts and write books. That's why they reach out to you and they say "Hello, if you liked the product, please let other people know." You said is the only way that the because I don't talk to people at Amazon on a daily basis. I don't talk to people at iTunes or you know, Stitcher, Podcast Republic or iHeart Radio. I don't have conversations with them.
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    The only way that they know that this is a valuable product and that they should promote it to other people is based upon your reviews. So it does matter. Alright, it is a holiday season and what do most people, or the majority of people do during the holidays? Many of you have family and friends over to your house right for visits and dinners and this is an ATS, and what does that mean? Well, generally it means that you do house cleaning, but you do more than you normally do. I mean most people sweep the kitchen floor and they vacuum and they take out the trash and stuff like that. But when you have friends coming over or relatives coming over, that's when you do the things that you don't do all the time.
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    That's when you dust the heat vents, that's when you pull up the the the rug in the entryway and you mop the entryway floor and you dust the banisters or the railings or what have you, and we're no different. So recently we did the like top-to-bottom thorough detailed cleaning because we anticipated people come on over and like most people, we have a two-story home, and when you enter the front of the house, you have to go up some stairs to get to the main kitchen living room area. Which means that you go upstairs that if there's a banister a handrail there's a handrail there and the handrail it's painted white like the wall.
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    It's the same color as the wall, and what do we all know about white handrails or white handrails get dirty, because people put their dirty paws on them all the time, and so I had the task of scrubbing the handrail, and I did it and what I realized after I cleaned it thoroughly top to bottom was that, even though it was clean, a lot of the paint had started to rub off on the edges on then you know on the ends the top than the bottoms and in certain places in the middle, it had started to rub off, and so what do I need to do now?
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    Well, I realize now I have to actually go through the process of taking the handrail off the wall, unscrewing it all and imma take it out in the garage. I'm going to repaint it because the cleaning is no longer going to cut it, just cleaning it. Now often when you clean things, like for instance you clean the toilets or your bathrooms or whatever, and after a fresh cleaning, it looks all "Wow looks great. It looks brand-new", but with something like a handrail or what have you, eventually you have to break down and you have to put on a fresh coat of paint. Just touching it up, just cleaning. It just wiping it down isn't going to do it anymore. It's not going to cut it, you're going to have to go the extra mile.
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    You can have to put in the extra effort and apply a fresh coat of paint. Now when you do, how many times have you done that? How many times have you said "Well, it's time to paint the porch railings or it's time to paint the fence or it's time to paint the trim on the house or what have you and it's kind of a pain in the butt and you have to go through all the rigmarole of the putting down the tarps and the taping things off and what have you but then once you've done it.
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    When it's over with and you take away the tape and the tarps in the paper and what have you and you examine what you've done you think wow. Looks like new right looks brand-new. It's like a new thing a new whatever new house new porch new this whatever we can apply that same exact thing to our own lives. Every once in a while we examine ourselves. We examine Our Lives. We look in the mirror and we realize that we have to do a little bit of something extra.
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    If you want to feel new again reinvigorated how many times have you found yourself? Whether it's in a work position or just as in life in general that? It's getting its kind of dull. That you're not excited. You're not invigorated. It doesn't you don't your life doesn't seem new or fresh anymore, and how can we calculate we bring that excitement that freshness that newness a little bit more back into our lives? Put a Fresh coat of paint on your life.
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    Now women are really good at this. When women are feeling this way, what did they do, and when women are feeling I don't know that they need something new or be invigorated or what have you? What do they do? They go and they get a brand new haircut, right? They go in they get a brand new haircut or they get new clothes or new shoes or a new coat or new something or other. They go and they do that and that's like putting a new coat of paint on their lives, it makes a change.
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    It's an improvement. Men, not so much. Men, we really get stuck in our ways, don't we? Yeah, we do. I do, I don't know about you, but I do we really get stuck in our ways and often men because we're we're male animals where we put our heads down and we just press-, we're like a bull in a corral and we just put our heads down and we push against the fence and it doesn't give but we keep pushing and pushing and pushing hoping that eventually it'll give and it doesn't. But we just do it because we're men. How can you put a new coat of paint on your life men?
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    Now, men, I'm not telling you that you have to go to the hair salon and get a brand new haircut because it's probably not going to happen. I haven't had a new haircut in 40 years. Well, okay 35 years, maybe a little bit less than that. But 30 years, at least I've had the same haircut and I'm not going to get a new haircut now, but what can you do? What can you do to put a Fresh coat of paint on your life? Well, you could explore a new skill.
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    Is there something you've always wanted to do but you just out but you talked yourself out of it. You're like, well, I always wanted to learn how to blank fill in the blank, whatever. Play the guitar, play the piano, I always wanted to learn how to snow ski, water ski. I mean, it's just I don't know who you are fill in the blank. But first, whatever reason you always put it off and you made her an excuse you like. Well, I'm too old or I'm to this or I'm too busy or what have you maybe now's the time maybe now is the time to decide.
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    You know what? I'm all done waiting, I'm all done making excuses. I'm going to go for it. I'm going to try this new thing. Whatever happens to be. Every once in a while, you have to take out take the time out and put on some new paint and make things fresh. Again. Dave Thomas knew it and those of you who read Dave's Way by Dave Thomas, you know exactly what I'm talking about. Alright, ladies and gentlemen that is it for today. Thank you. Once again for being a part of the Morning Mindset audience. I am your host Paul Markel, I'll talk to you again real soon.

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    MM196 - The Importance of Thanks Nov 26, 2018
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    Thanksgiving or the idea of thanks is critically important for the development and maintenance of productive and positive living humans. We teach our children to say “thank you” to teach humility and appreciation.

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    Welcome to Morning Mindset. A daily dose of practical wit and wisdom with a professional educator & trainer, Amazon best selling author, United States Marine, Television, and Radio host, Paul G. Markel. Each episode will focus on positive and productive ways to strengthen your mindset and help you improve your relationships, career goals, and overall well-being. Please welcome your host; Paul G. Markel.

    *Professor Paul*

    Welcome back to Morning Mindset, thank you very much for your patience, and I hope that you used this last week to catch up. Yes, we were dark last week the week of Thanksgiving. I took the time off. I took that week off because every once in a while, I need some time off ladies and gentlemen, I need to stoke the fires and recharge the batteries and all the other colloquialisms that we use to figure out how it is. We're going to come up with even more Morning Mindsets. Alright today, I'm going to talk about the importance of thanks.

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    Yes, we are just coming off of the Thanksgiving weekend, and yes, and I also understand that you may be listening to this in the distant future but it still applies Thanksgiving or the idea of thanks is critically important for the development and the maintenance of a productive and positive living human. Yes, think about it. Hopefully, if you had children when you were raising your children, you told them to say thank you. You taught them to say thank you when grandma gives you a gift or present you say thank you. When you take them trick-or-treating they say, “Say thank you.” Now, why is that? He's like, well, it's because it's polite and it's good manners. Yes, you are. Correct. It is polite and it is good manners. But why do we have a season of thanks? Why is it important for us as a culture as a nation as human beings to take the time to give thanks and who are we giving thanks to.

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    See that's another thing that has been lost. Thanks to the commercialization of our modern world. As we who are we giving thanks to and what are we thankful for everybody and maybe not everybody but it's a tradition. Normally. I think that most people on Thanksgiving they take a moment, and they say what they are thankful for that year and it's typical, you know, I'm thankful that my family is healthy. I'm thankful that I have a job. I'm thankful that we have this food to eat and that's good, but the entire concept of Thanksgiving or giving thanks, is a very valuable lesson and it's a productive tool for humans and human development because you see ladies and gentlemen when you give thanks.

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    You have to be or you're demonstrating humility and appreciation. You're taking a moment to say. You know, what? I couldn't have done this or made this happen all on my own through the sheer power of my own will and desire. Giving thanks and demonstrating thankfulness is a sign of humility. Yes, when you thank someone, you know, let's just go back to the, you know, you receive a gift when you thank someone for a gift you are showing humility and appreciation because a gift is not something that you can Demand right a gift is something that is given to you from the benevolence of The Giver.

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    They've decided that you are worthy and they will give you this gift and there's nothing that you could do or say to force that it just happens because that person cares enough about you to do it. We often find in our lives and we see on display very unthankful unappreciative ungrateful humans. Who inhabit our world those who through their actions and their words behave as if they believe that anything and everything that they want and desire at any moment in time is their right to have they demand it. They feel they deserve it and anything they want no matter what it is day or night, they should have it.

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    We view these people only think men that person is one ungrateful SOB. That person is one arrogant SOB. Right, and why do we feel that way? Why do we see that, and why do people behave in that manner? Why do people behave in public in front of our own our eyes in an ungrateful and selfish fashion? That's because they were never taught or they did not grasp the concept of thankfulness. The meaning behind Thanksgiving because if they did if they understood thankfulness, then they would understand humility and appreciation. How to appreciate things that are given to you as a gift that you couldn't demand and you couldn't get without the benevolence of someone else.

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    That's why the season of Thanksgiving is so important. That's why it's important for us as adult human beings to take the time out once in a while to give thanks to genuinely take a moment out of our day out of our week month year, whatever to step back and to be contrite not will not actually contrite but to display humility and exhibit genuine thanks. Because when you thank someone when you are thankful. You are humble. Yes, because you have to be there, you know, is that you don't thank someone. Say "Well I'm going to thank you, but I just deserve this and I should have had it anyway, so regardless" now that's not genuine thankfulness.

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    If we hope to live productive and positive lives if we hope to live productive and positive lives with other people. Because how do you feel when you encounter someone that is ungrateful and selfish. Do you want to be around them? Do you want to spend time around them? Do you want to work with that person? You're probably thinking no. No, I don't want to work with selfish ungrateful a-holes. I want to stay away from them. So you want to be the person that others want to be around you want to be the person that sets the example, correct?

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    I'm hoping that you do that's why you're here. So I just wanted to just take a moment and touch on the importance of Thanksgiving in the season of thanks and why it is that as humans. We teach our children to say thank you. We teach them to do that because we're trying to teach them humility, and sometimes it sticks. Sometimes it sticks, sometimes it doesn't. Teach your children, well teach them to say thank you and as an adult human, every once in a while, it's good for you to step back and say thank you, right?

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    Now I had a question during our off time that actually arrived via the email, and someone said how can I get a signed copy of the Morning Mindset book did I miss it? The answer is no you didn't miss it. All you have to do is go to MorningMindsetPodcast.com, that's right. MorningMindsetPodcast.com, that is the official website of this show, and if you go there, there will be a link that will take you to the store and you can get a signed copy of the Morning Mindset book.

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    You can get an official Morning Mindset coffee mug, in regular or extra large size and I have an extra large cup of coffee in my hand right now. Hmm, or you can get a motivation poster. Yes, my son Zachary who's also the store manager. He came up with the coffee mugs and the poster and what have you and if you don't want to get a signed copy if an autographed copy of the book is not important to you.

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    You don't need my scribble on it, you just want a copy of the book to give to a friend or relative or someone that's cool, too. You can go to amazon.com and type in Paul Markel. That's Paul Markel. That's me, and the book is called Morning Mindset: a 30 Day Plan for a More Positive and Productive Life. Alright, that's it. That's all I got to say for you today to you today. I am your host Paul Markel, talk to you again real soon.

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    MM195 - Repetition and Redundancy Nov 16, 2018
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    Although they are often used in a negative way, both repetition and redundancy are both important concepts when it comes to learning and keeping the system running.

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    Welcome to Morning Mindset. A daily dose of practical wit and wisdom with a professional educator & trainer, Amazon best selling author, United States Marine, Television, and Radio host, Paul G. Markel. Each episode will focus on positive and productive ways to strengthen your mindset and help you improve your relationships, career goals, and overall well-being. Please welcome your host; Paul G. Markel.

    *Professor Paul*
    Hello, welcome back. Yes, indeed I welcome you every day, and are you glad that I welcome you every day or is me welcoming you every single day, every single episode has that become redundant? Today's episode topic is repetition and redundancy when I was a child, I remember my father scolding me for being redundant, said: "You're being redundant". But let's examine both of those Concepts when it comes to education, and learning, and expanding our brains.
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    Repetition. How do we learn to do things? Well, how do we learn physical skills? For instance? How do we learn to play the piano? How do we learn to throw a baseball or catch a baseball or a football or what have you or play the guitar? Through repetition, right how many folks are so gifted and so talented that you can hand them a guitar and a pick they will look at it and immediately be able to play a song or a millet e how many people sit down in front of the piano put their hands on it and are immediately able to play the piano.
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    You say well obviously just about no one. I mean there may be in history a couple of crazy prodigies who are listening to music and they just sit down and immediately take to it. He said but the rest of us, what do we have to do? Well, we have to engage in the process of repetition. If you've ever listened to it's not fun to listen to a child practice the piano or the trumpet or any musical instrument really it's not fun to listen to them.
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    Why? Because they go back over they start and they make a mistake they go back again and make another mistake. We make a different mistake and they go again and again and again and again, but eventually what happens. If they're dedicated eventually their fingers learn to go where their brain needs them to be, right the brain knows what to do, but it has to convince the fingers to do. That's repetition, repetition and redundancy. Both of those are used as pejoratives or they can be used in a negative connotation. You know, if we're talking about, oh I don't like that blank because it's just a bunch of repetition.
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    Alright, I don't listen to that guy because he repeats himself or becomes repetitious. You when it comes to education that's something I've been involved in for. I don't know 25 years or so. Educating individuals educating people training them. I've done physical training lots and lots of physical training teaching people to master a physical skill, and I know how to do it and I can teach you how to do it. As a matter of fact, I can sit down with you and over a period of a couple of hours I can show and demonstrate and explain to you everything that you need to perform a certain skill.
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    But just because I explained it just because I demonstrated it just because I broke it down step-by-step doesn't mean that in a period of two hours you are going to have mastered that skill. You probably won't have. You'll know how to practice, but in order for you to achieve competency and you know some modicum of skill. What you're going to have to do is you're going to take what you were taught and you're going to have to engage in repetition.
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    So repetition isn't necessarily a negative thing, and when I do educational- when I perform, whether as a coach or as an instructor or a teacher or if I'm writing, and I'm creating some type of educational or instructional material. I deliberately build repetition into that work, and the reason I do it is that it has to be reinforced. That is how human beings learn. I know I know that it's easy to say all this is repetitive. This is just this is just a repetitive exercise. Yeah, and sometimes repetitive exercises are good, and sometimes they're very important now, let's examine redundancy.
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    What is 'redundancy'? Now if you're using it in the negative, if you're using it as a pejorative being redundant means you're just doing something that someone has already done or you're just repeating or you're following or you're you're doing something that doesn't necessarily need to be done because it already has been. Now when we talk about other things such as Engineers, if you are an engineer, you know that redundancy is not a negative. It's a positive. It's a very important positive for instance an aircraft, an airplane, a jet airliner has numerous redundancy systems.
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    So that if one wire breaks, can you imagine if you were on an airplane and you probably never thought about this, but if you are in an airplane, and there were wires and tubes and hoses and you know, all these things, you know, a hydraulic system and a pneumatic system and electronic system. If one screw came loose or if one wire broke or if one, you know pneumatic line broke if that one line breaking would bring down the plane how dangerous would that be? If everything had to work, absolutely 100% all the time, you're probably sitting out there. You're like do you mean that's not the case Paul like an airplane night every piece of every airplane isn't perfect every time it takes off.
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    I don't want to scare you but the fact the matter is when Engineers design things like. They put in multiple redundancy systems so that if one fails or if there's an error somewhere the entire system doesn't crash. On ships on Military warships, they build a numerous redundancy system so that if the ship takes damage in one area, it doesn't take down the entire ship if the bridge is hit. I was actually stationed on board an aircraft carrier for two years as part of the Marine Detachment and I learned a lot in two years and one of the things that I learned as they had this thing up on that building like thing on the flight deck, you know, you guys all know what an aircraft carrier looks like, right?
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    It's got a big flat top and then it has this building scooted over to the side, right and that's where the steer the ship and that's where the captain is in the slot stuff happens, right? It's like a control tower. Well, I learned when I was on the aircraft carrier that there were numerous redundancy systems built into that ship and that even if during a time of war that the superstructure so they called it if it was completely destroyed. We could still steer and navigate the ship from a different part of the ship because they had built in redundancy systems. Redundancy systems are critical when it comes to emergency things such as firefighting or medical, you know, emergency medical gear.
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    You always want to have a redundant system for that. So the words repetition and the words redundancy, they're thrown out and often. They're thrown out in a negative light. They're used negatively. But the fact the matter is, repetition and redundancy are both very important and they can be very important positive Concepts. So think about that next time someone says oh this is just repetitive or oh, this is just redundant take a moment to think.
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    You know, what sometimes repetition is very important for Learning and skill maintenance and redundancy can save your life. Yeah, how about that? Alright, ladies and gentlemen, thank you. Once again for being a part of my audience, part of the Morning Mindset podcast audience. I am your host Paul Markel, and I will talk to you again real soon.

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    MM194 - Active Mind and Strong Body Nov 15, 2018
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    We consider the words of General George Patton. What did he have to say about having an active mind and a strong body?

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    Welcome to Morning Mindset. A daily dose of practical wit and wisdom with a professional educator & trainer, Amazon best selling author, United States Marine, Television, and Radio host, Paul G. Markel. Each episode will focus on positive and productive ways to strengthen your mindset and help you improve your relationships, career goals, and overall well-being. Please welcome your host; Paul G. Markel.

    *Professor Paul*

    Hello, welcome back to Morning Mindset, and I've got a topic for you that ties in with my other show. The other show that I happen to do. I was researching And discussing General George Patton's principles for life and Leadership and I was referencing it on the other show and I came across something that I thought would work very well here on the morning. Mindset show I had to be careful when I use the same studio and the same microphones in the same everything to do both shows, and yes every once in a while I slip up and I thank you for being a member of the other audience.

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    I know that you guys are members of the Morning Mindset audience. Yes indeed. What did Patton have to say about an active mind and an active body or a strong body and this chapter? The title of the chapter is an active mind cannot exist in an inactive body, and I've got some quotes from General George Patton here. The first quote is Wars are won by men with strong Wills to win and with strong bodies and then he continued.

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    He said "A strong will to win is more important than a strong body" men have won battles when totally exhausted and near death from injuries. However, that will to win did not get into the brain without having a strong body. You have to keep the body active to keep all the juices running into the right places. General Patton never stopped stressing physical fitness and if you know anything about Patton, you'll know that even into his 50s, he would go out every morning and run and he made sure that his troops knew that he was running because he set the example.

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    He led by example. Nobody made him do it. He didn't have to do it. No one was going to go to his tent and say Hey general you didn't go out and run a mile this morning. What's up now? He did it because he knew that he needed. Into we got another quote here from actually Napoleon Bonaparte and it said Napoleon said it takes The Sword and the spirit to win in war. The spirit is most important in our world today.

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    We seem to believe that we are more enlightened and intelligent than our forefathers or our ancestors were we like to believe we like to deceive ourselves into believing that because we have smartphones and access to the internet and what have you that we've got it all figured out in those old guys. Didn't know what they were talking about. For instance. We see a diminishing role or diminishing stress on the importance of the or of the importance of physical fitness. I witnessed this for a long time.

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    Now several years numerous years, probably 10 or 12 or more where we're diminishing the importance of physical education with our children and one of the things that we should be doing is increasing or. Proving the physical education of our children because the mind and the body work in consort. Your mind cannot be strong. It cannot be well trained all well fueled by oxygenated blood if your body does not support it.

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    Basically your body is the support system for your mind, and when it comes to being positive and productive leading productive and positive lives, we cannot ignore that fact and even Napoleon Bonaparte understood it General George Patton understood it, and here we are in our modern era believing that because we have access to the internet and we have smartphones and we have apps and we have all these things that we can somehow shortcut the system.

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    That we can have strong intelligent well-functioning brains without feeding them the proper nutrition and without exercising our body, and it just doesn't work that way. It really doesn't I've told the story on my other show, but I'll tell you guys one of the things that I had in my old Studio. We used to have a studio and Training Center. We had a fitness center training center, and then we had our recording studios in the other half of the building.

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    So half of the building was for physical training and the other half was for making the radio and the TV and in the radio Studio television Studio side of the building. There was a great big whiteboard, a dry erase board as you guys know and quite often. I would be in the gym part and I would be either on a treadmill or I would be punching the bag. We had a lot of heavy bags and so forth. I'd be doing that, and I would have a thought, and I would have an idea for the rather the TV show or the radio show or a new book or an article or whatever.

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    I would have an idea and I would run all sweaty from the gym side into the other side and I would grab a dry erase marker and I would put notes on the on the board. I tried to take a regular notebook with me into the gym and I found that I would constantly sweat all over it, and I know you guys like you need one of those, right? In the rain tablets man, one of the ones that you can sweat on and it won't mess them up. Yeah, that's probably true. I probably should have had a right in the rain notebook in the gym with me so that I could rain sweat down on it wouldn't ruin the pages.

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    But I realized, you know, that was one of them many times in my life that it was a firm to me that I realized that when I physically exercise when I worked when I sent. You know heavy oxygenated blood flowing through my body up to my brain when my brain was flush with that oxygenated blood that I was able to think clearly and I was able to come up with new and different ideas. I would hope that you have experienced that for yourself if you have not, and I will say this if you are in a position right now in your career or your job or whatever it is you do the where you are stumped.

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    You've been looking for a solution. You've been looking for an answer. You've been looking for a different way to attack a problem or what have you, and you don't feel like you're getting the answers that you need. Get your butt up out of the chair get away from your desk and go. Go stimulate some blood flow go do something physical, to get the oxygenated blood flowing and pump into your brain, and help your brain and your mind to be active.

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    You can't just sit in a chair constantly staring at a computer screen. You got to get up you gotta move around you got to do something physical. Your strong body supports an active mind they work together in concert. Alright in concert. How's that sound so I'm good you guys are leading gentlemen. I am your host Paul Markel. I thank you for being part of the Morning Mindset audience, and I remind you that as Christmas fast approaches.

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    If you would like to give the gift of motivation and inspiration to a friend or relative a loved one, you can get the Morning Mindset book. It's called Morning Mindset: a 30 Day Plan for a More Positive and Productive Life. You can get it at Amazon.com or if you'd like a signed copy, yes indeed. If you'd like a signed copy go to MorningMindsetPodcast.com and follow the links from there. Alright, that's all I've got to say to you guys today and I will talk to you again real soon.

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    MM193 - Context, Yes it is Important Nov 14, 2018
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    Before you hit the send button for any type of digital message, take ten seconds to re-read what you wrote and consider the context. You might be glad that you did.

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    Welcome to Morning Mindset. A daily dose of practical wit and wisdom with a professional educator & trainer, Amazon best selling author, United States Marine, Television, and Radio host, Paul G. Markel. Each episode will focus on positive and productive ways to strengthen your mindset and help you improve your relationships, career goals, and overall well-being. Please welcome your host; Paul G. Markel.

    *Professor Paul*

    Hello, welcome back to Morning Mindset. Today we're going to talk about context. I'm going to start with a short personal story as you guys know, I've been writing professionally for 25 plus years now, and I've had a number of editors, and with the Advent of the internet, I was able to communicate with my editors via email. They were able to communicate with me their wants and desires and needs they were able to communicate those with me via electronic mail, and I had one editor who I thought must have really hated me.

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    You say well if your editor hated you, they wouldn't buy stories from you. They wouldn't print your stories if they hated you, but I thought he must have thought I was a jerk or a not nice person, and I understand this is family friendly. Because the emails that he would send me were always very, let's say curt, borderline rude. Borderline sarcastic and I thought man this guy must really think I'm a turd, or a jerk or something. Because every time I get an email from him, it's just the most curt, short, rude thing that I could imagine reading or writing.

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    Well, I thought that until I got together with some other fellow writers at a writers event, and we were talking about writing for this one particular magazine and this one particular editor and I said to him "I've got to ask you guys, when he emails you, just to see you know, how are his emails?" and a friend of mine. He said "Oh, he's terrible. He's the worst email writer in the world" and I said, "Thank the Lord I said, I thought it was me. I thought he was angry at me or that I was a jerk." He didn't like me, nope.

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    He said "No, no, no, we all get those emails. The emails that we get from him are all short, curt, rude and like he's angry at us and here's the thing. He really wasn't here, and he really wasn't a person who was trying to be rude or short or curt or discourteous or what have you. It was the fact that he did not understand the way that his emails and his messages were coming across to other people. He knew what he was trying to say, he knew the information he was trying to convey, and he just assumed that that context would be conveyed to everyone else who was reading it.

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    But it wasn't, what it came across as is he came across as like he was a jerk, and we were butt heads and needing like us it was kind of was very rude. Now today here in this Modern Age, this wonderful Modern Age that we have how much of your personal interactions in your conversations. Let's say in the course of a week how many of your business conversations take place face-to-face or via telephone?

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    Mmm, and you say if you're like most people I would say probably less than half and maybe even a smaller percentage of those of those conversations that you have with people of your interaction with others probably less than half of all of it is either face-to-face or verbal via a telephone. Most of them are what? their via email, or text messages or direct messages or if you have one of these. These when it caught the inner office software programs where everyone works through sent.

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    There's one called Basecamp where everybody works under the same base camp dealio. So you've got all the employees using the same channel and interweb if you will. So a great deal of your correspondence a great deal of your interaction with your peers and friends and business associates, and so forth are via digital message, right? So there you are you compose a digital message but really touch send do yourself a favor? Before you hit the send button, for an email or a digital message via text or basecamp or whatever it is that you're using to transfer your words in a to the eyes of someone else take 10 seconds and reread it, and think about the context think about what you wrote and consider the context and whether or not the people on the other end.

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    Are going to be required to assume or guess your feelings, or whether it is implied? Because you may and this is all you know Morning Mindset is all about leading a more positive and productive life, and sometimes you may alienate other people. You may cause hurt feelings for no reason other than the fact that the messages that you send seem to be rude or Kurt or just short you're being short with them. Or sarcastic or what have you. Sarcasm does not transfer well through digital messaging.

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    Alright, so stop or use it very sparingly use it very sparingly. Often we were being sarcastic in our emails and our messages and we think that we're being funny. But it doesn't come across to the receiver as funny. It comes across to the receiver as we're being a jerk or condescending, and you might say no, that's not what I meant at all. I didn't mean for that to be condescending. I hear the reality of it is this when you send that digital message, it's not like a sentence that you say to someone over the phone if you're on the phone with someone and you say something or face-to-face and they give you that weird look or they say what or understand or whatever.

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    You have the opportunity to clarify whether it's on a phone call or face-to-face, you can clarify your point. You're like, oh no this I want to talk about at all what I meant and then they go. "Oh, okay. I see, I understand what you meant by that and we're good." But you can't do that with a digital message, can you? No you can't. Because what they're going to do is they're going to read that sentence over and over and over again with no context from you.

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    No explanation from you, and they may come out thinking this guy is an a-hole. This guy's a jerk. This guy is a smart alec and he thinks I'm stupid, and you might say "No, that's not it at all. It doesn't matter, right? So. If you want to lead a positive and productive business relationship with other people before you send off and I've done this and I know I've been guilty of doing it and I try to go back and always reread, you know, my messages, especially emails. I'm composing an email to someone I try and go back and reread them, and think about like that. I'm reading it from their perspective, whether the context is there whether they understand it will they understand the context of what I'm saying?

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    Because if they don't then and what's worse is that they come back they're like they may come back to you and say what or I don't understand or can you explain that a little better? But most people won't most people just read it and think what a jerk or they'll forward it to someone else there other co-workers say. Am I wrong or is this guy jerk? It just seemed like he's a jerk and they're like, yeah, he is a jerk. You may not be a jerk. You may not want to be a jerk, but it's coming across that way because the context is being lost.

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    So ladies and gentlemen, you can take one piece of advice from me today before you send another email before you send another message another base camp another whatever take 10 seconds reread it. And consider whether or not the person on the other side, the other side will understand it and realize what you meant. And if not elaborate or just make a phone call. Okay. All right. That's all I got to say about that tub subject. Thank you very much for being a part of the Morning Mindset audience. I'm Paul Markel, I'll talk to you guys again real soon.

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    MM192 - A Life Well-Lived Nov 13, 2018
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    With the passing of Stan Lee, we consider life and how we live it. When you depart this earth will others be able to honestly say of you that you led a life well-lived?

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    [INTRO]

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    *Alex*

    Welcome to Morning Mindset. A daily dose of practical wit and wisdom with a professional educator & trainer, Amazon best selling author, United States Marine, Television, and Radio host, Paul G. Markel. Each episode will focus on positive and productive ways to strengthen your mindset and help you improve your relationships, career goals, and overall well-being. Please welcome your host; Paul G. Markel.

    *Professor Paul*

    Hello and welcome back to Morning Mindset. I am your host Paul Markel, Thank you once again for taking the time out of your day to join me here for the Morning Mindset podcast, as I sit in front of this microphone and record today's episode. I was just recently, or just I don't know an hour or so ago, made aware of the passing of Marvel Comics Stan Lee.

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    Stan Lee was 95 years old when he passed away. I think that we can all say that Stan Lee probably lived a very, very full life. He was not taken from us in his prime, he wasn't taken from us too early. But regardless of that the fact the matter is when someone an icon like Stan Lee passes when he leaves this world leaves us all behind and makes us feel sad. I mean, I feel sad obviously, I didn't know Stan Lee personally.

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    I never met Stan Lee, but that really doesn't matter because Stan Lee has been a part of my life since. I don't know. I was since I was old enough to walk into a comic book store and give them 35 cents for a common core 45 cents or 50 cents. I don't remember what Comics were, how much they were when I was a little kid when I was 10 11 years. But I spent a lot of time in comic book stores.

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    There was one comic book store, in particular, that was located a few blocks, I don't know quarter of a mile from my house when I was growing up in Detroit and I would walk over there with you know, 50 cents or 75 cents in my pocket, and I knew I could only afford to buy one comic book that day.

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    You know, I had just enough in my pocket to buy one, and if you want to do a comic book shop in the 70s or 80s, there were hundreds literally hundreds and hundreds of titles available to, you know the Spider-Man and the X-Men and the Hulk and the Fantastic Four and the, you know, of course, I'm trying to keep it all Marvel. But of course there is Batman and there was all the other stuff. So there I am agonizing over which comic I'm going to buy with the 2 or 3 quarters. I don't remember what they were.

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    They were definitely way less than a dollar when I was buying comic books. But what was I going to buy was I going to take home with me? What story was I going to keep up with what storyline and I used to go back and forth between storylines like I would get hooked on whether it was a Spider-Man 1 or whatever and I would follow that story for a while and then I would get interested in something else get interested in.

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    I was very big into the X-Men comics when I discovered those, and I follow the X-Men story, The Saga of the X-Men. Angel and you know Cyclops and Wolverine, of course, Wolverine, maybe not of course, but Wolverine was my absolute favorite I think is probably most young boys young men as we were growing up. They idolized Wolverine because he was he was a sassiest smart-aleck, but he was he was strong and he you know did his own thing and he was his own boss and all that and how did.

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    This all became part of our lives. How did in a lot of you guys who are younger you 20-year-olds and 30-year-olds? You may not have ever hung around in comic book stores or comic shops, but the Marvel Universe was made real to you. Thanks to cinema, thanks to Hollywood. I think that we can all say that when we examine the life of Stan Lee that he lived a life. He had a life well-lived, and he left a legacy behind for millions of people now expect that you will be the next Stan Lee or anyone like him, but when someone like Stan Lee departs from us when they leave this earth and they leave us all behind we were in obviously we're sad we're glad for what he has left us.

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    You know, we're going to continue to enjoy. The heroes and the stories that Stan Lee created and he helped bring to life. You know, my grandchildren will probably be enjoying that you know, when they come around I don't have any grandchildren yet, but my son and his wife need to work on that, but I'm just saying the same thing as we examine a life well-lived. This gives us an opportunity for introspection that gives us an opportunity to look at our own lives and when it is time for you to depart from this earth when you have departed whether you depart early or late or meat medium or middle time or whatever.

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    It is Will others be able to honestly say about you if they were to describe you. Would they be able to say that you led a life well-lived? It's not that hard of a question. Not that difficult of a question. But it's a question. Nonetheless that we should all consider, you know when you leave this world will people be able to say about you that you know, if you leave early some people leave us far too soon Bruce Lee, you know Bruce Lee was in his early 30s when he left us. But even though he didn't live to you know, Stan Lee lived three of Bruce Lee's lifetimes, but both Bruce Bruce Lee and Stan Lee and they were not related by the way.

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    I don't believe they were related in any way, but we can say about both those individuals that they low they lived a life well lived before, how'd you take some coffee or something? So when it's time for you to go? And and you depart and leave all of us behind will people be able to examine your life and honestly be able to say that you lived a life well-lived you had and you led a life well lived in shape all you know, you can't expect everyone to be Bruce Lee or Stan Lee or and I didn't mean to just pick out those to lie people there, but just jump to the Forefront of my mind.

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    Do you expect that? No, I don't but what we all have the opportunity to do now, you know when someone like that passes is to look at our own lives and think about you know, when we go, what are we doing with our lives today, and it's a serious question. We're talking, you know Morning Mindset, we talked about being positive and productive leaving leading positive and productive lives. So as you go about your day as you go about your week as you make your plans think about that.

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    Are you making the most of the time that you have available to you? And I'm not talking I'm going to tell him you that you can never watch television. I'm not telling you that you can never relax and just do nothing and veg out now. I'm not saying that at all, but what do you do with your creative moments? What do you do with the time that you have available to you?

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    This question the only you can answer but. When I when someone like this, you know every once in a while and we lose someone, you know, last year. We lost Gene Wilder and I was a huge fan of Gene Wilder's films and we lost him but we could say that he lived a life. Well, let he led a life well lived. So that's all I've got to say to you guys today. I just thought I would come to the radio come to the microphone and talk about my own personal feelings and how I am glad that Stan Lee was in this world.

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    I'm glad that he produced what he did it gave me a lot of joy in my youth and of course as I became an adult I was able to take my children to see the film's the Spider-Man films the X-Men films, you know, the Captain America films and all of that and it's something that I've enjoyed with my children basically their entire lives. So thank you, Stan Lee. Thank you for everything you left behind for us. Alright, ladies and gentlemen, that's all I have to say today. I truly appreciate you guys being a part of the Morning Mindset audience they don't forget there is actually a website.

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    It's called Morning Mindset podcast.com, and if you pop over there, we have a couple of items that you can purchase. My son. Zachary is the use of the guy who takes care of the store. They have been we have an official Morning Mindset coffee cup in two different sizes. If you'd like to Avail yourself to one of those we have posters and of course we have the books. Morning Mindset: a 30 Day Plan for a More Positive and Productive Life and Christmas is coming up and starts the season for giving and if you want to give something to someone that you think they might be able to use to improve their own life. You can either go to the store our store and Morning Mindset podcast, or you can just go over to Amazon and pick one up there either way. Alright, ladies and gentlemen, I'm Paul Markel. I'll talk to you again, real soon

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    MM191 - Defeating the Darkness Nov 09, 2018
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    Every year as winter begins, we are treated to advice as to how to keep our minds and bodies active and healthy during the cold and darkness of the season. Most people will also experience and emotional darkness or winter in their lives. What can we do to get through the dark emotional times until the sun comes back out?

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    [INTRO]

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    *Alex*

    Welcome to Morning Mindset. A daily dose of practical wit and wisdom with a professional educator & trainer, Amazon best selling author, United States Marine, Television, and Radio host, Paul G. Markel. Each episode will focus on positive and productive ways to strengthen your mindset and help you improve your relationships, career goals, and overall well-being. Please welcome your host; Paul G. Markel.

    *Professor Paul*

    Hello, welcome back to morning mindset, and if you're listening to this in the morning, either the sun has just risen or you're waiting for it to rise and hopefully, you're drinking a delicious hot coffee beverage. If that is your bag man. If it's not your bag man. Well, then I don't know what else to tell you, drink some tea or something.

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    Welcome to the morning mindset podcast, and today we're going to talk about defeating the darkness. Yes, as I sit down in my studio to record this episode. We just had the rollback of the clocks weekend. We just fell back to Standard time. That's where we were on. I know that not everyone on planet Earth and not every state but.

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    Where I live we do daylight savings time and whether or not you're in favor of it or it doesn't matter the fact that matter is we just roll them back and we're back on Standard Time and also in the northern hemisphere in the United States of America. We're on that Journey that annual Journey around the Sun and what does that mean?

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    It means that the days are now shorter and the Darkness is longer and in the northern hemisphere as I'm speaking the words into this microphone every single day gets shorter and shorter and shorter until we change seasons and they start getting longer again. But what do we do? What is a natural Human Condition every year in the winter time as the days start to get colder and the night's get longer?

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    What do we have? We see the local channel news, you know NewsChannel5 does a how to survive the winter doldrums and so on and so forth and that is important. It is important that we physically. Take care of ourselves that we get enough nutrition that we get enough Vitamins because you know, we're not seeing the Sun as much it's cold our bodies and when the temperature is cold, it's harder for your body to physically fight against the illness Isn't So horse.

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    You need to keep yourself warm. You need to keep yourself healthy, hydrated, make sure you drink enough water and so on and so forth and that's something that's pretty common every year. You know we do that we talk about how to survive in the winter survival plan from tonight it on news channel 11 or when you know, what have you news Channel 12 tight 11 how to survive the winter doldrums and and basically it's the same advice that they regurgitate every single year if you if you've been on the planet as long as I have you know, that your local news channel 5 on your side.

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    They have seasonal stories and every year they Trot out the same story. They might have a different person deliver it and they might you know put in a pop culture reference or something. But basically it's the same story like for instance the daylight savings thing since I was in high school there have been op-eds and opinion pieces and so forth every time we change the clocks.

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    They roll a story they run a story about isn't it time to just go ahead and eliminate daylight savings time or you know daylight savings time was an idea invented, you know concocted by Benjamin Franklin to save whale oil and we don't use whale oil anymore. So who cares and you know or daylight savings time was put in place for farmers and most people aren't Farmers.

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    So who cares every year. The same story over and over again and that's the same thing we get every year when it starts it's darker. Now you may live in the south where it's not really that cold but it's colder, you know, I've lived in the South and it gets down into the 40s and 30s sometimes and but the days definitely are shorter and it is darker, and so we talked about you know, what can we do? How can we keep ourselves physically? Healthy during the winter during the darkness. This is another type of Darkness that enters Our Lives. It's an emotional Darkness. Now, like the winter, like the actual genuine season of winter, that is dark and cold.

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    It's not there forever. It doesn't last all the time. Eventually in and it's not Game of Thrones where we're going to have, you know, 18 years of winter. I don't know what planet they live on in Game of Thrones, but it's obviously not planet Earth because they have Winters that last for decades. No, our winters don't last that long.

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    Even if you live in the in the north and even if you live in the mountains, it still doesn't last forever even though it seems like it might but we also experience on occasion. We experience an emotional Darkness. We experience Dark Times. In our lives where we feel internal that we're living in darkness whether or not there's actually visible light in front of us here and the sun is out or what have you, we feel like we're living in darkness and the truth of the matter is some of the advice.

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    That is given to us every fall when we change the clocks and the days start getting shorter and the night's get longer. We give we get the advice about, you know, take vitamins, take multivitamins, you know to use a tanning bed go to the gym and do things like that, and the truth of the matter is if you're experiencing a time of emotional darkness, which is very natural and it happens to just about everyone some point in time in their life.

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    I'm sure it happens to everyone and may not be happening to you right now or it may you may be in an emotional winter. Now tell you this at winter doesn't last forever even in the north even in Michigan even in Montana. It doesn't last forever, but we still have to deal with it. Don't we just because Winters not going to last forever.

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    We can open our windows and turn off our heaters and say well in three months this will be over. So no big deal. We still have to deal with it. many of the same techniques. That people talk about for dealing with the physical realistic seasonal winter and darkness will help you if you're going through in a period a period of emotional.

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    Darkness, for instance, one of the things that we have myself and the other the shows that I do when I say we have suggested is keeping your mind active and strong and how do we keep our minds active and strong? Well, we don't keep our minds active and Strong by sitting in front of the television and letting it talk to us.

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    We keep our minds active and strong through education. We keep our minds active and strong through Reading. We keep our minds active and strong through exposing ourselves to information and ideas that we may never have before. To new ideas to new information reinforce old ideas and old information that we've known strengthening your mind through Reading. Strengthen your body through exercise legitimate real physical exercise and no walking back and forth to the kitchen to get coffee is not exercising.

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    Okay, exercise has to be really planned and deliberate. It has to be something that you're doing other than your normal routine getting up from your desk walking to the break room pouring coffee and walking back to your desk seven times during the day, is not exercising. So stop trying to tell me it is okay. If you're experiencing emotional Darkness or emotional winter, make sure that you actually are consuming good food. Not a bunch of carbohydrates sugar and crap make sure that you have enough protein in your diet.

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    Make sure that you have enough fiber. I know I sound like a commercial but the truth matter is you needed. Make sure your diet is good, make sure you're doing things and I know you may not want to you know that and that's the hardest thing about winter in the cold and the Darkness is, you want to wrap up in a blanket lay on the couch and just stay there until the sun comes back out again.

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    But laying there under a blanket isn't going to make the Sun come back out. It's not going to help you. You're going to have to make yourself do it, you know, if the make yourself do the physical exercise you're going to make yourself stimulate your mind through Reading. Or whatever we talk about winter projects and hobbies occupying your hands in your mind through projects through physical activities doing things.

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    I don't care if it's knitting, sewing, building model airplanes. I don't care, do something. Do something deliberate and before you know it and that's a great thing about winter projects and keeping yourself busy physically, and mentally if you do that pretty soon. The winter will be over the darkness will be over and the sun will become will come back out again.

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    So you can defeat the darkness and it's not there forever. Alright, ladies and gentlemen that is it for me. I went just over 10 minutes today. I hope you will forgive me. I am your host Paul Markel, I will talk to you again real soon.

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