Master Your Relationship Mind Drama

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203. Real-life coaching: My partner wanted an open relationship but I didn't Sep 25, 2026

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Today I'm answering a question from a listener.
"My boyfriend of 1.5 years and I started out having an open relationship. Turned out that this wasn't a good fit for me due to my insecurities and brought on anxiety that was unmanageable.
"Now my boyfriend has agreed to be in a monogamous relationship with me. I find my self feeling "guilty" that he is now in a different style of relationship than what he initially wanted, and worried that he will inevitably change his mind and we will have to break up.

"Any advice to how to deal with this anxiety and guilt?"

Mentioned in the episode:

1:1 coaching with Rebecca - email rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com
FREE masterclass - Your Self-Trust Bubble: How to stop spiralling in the face of rejection

202. 5 ways you push people away when you're afraid to lose them Sep 18, 2026

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Is your fear of losing them pushing them away?
Are you feeling so anxious that it’s getting in between you and your partner - or maybe you and your friends - when all you want is to feel closer to them?
In today’s episode, I’m talking about 5 ways a fear of losing someone actually pushes the people we love away.
And I’m offering you practical ways to start to challenge these subconscious patterns, and create connection with them instead.

Mentioned in the episode:

1:1 coaching with Rebecca - email rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com
FREE masterclass: Your Self-Trust Bubble - How to stop spiralling in the face of rejection

201. Your relationship rules: Control attempt or reasonable boundary? Sep 11, 2026

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Don’t like thirst trap pictures on Instagram.

Don’t reply if your ex messages you.
Don’t go for drinks with your female co-worker, unless other people are going.
Sometimes we set rules for our partners as a way to avoid or manage our own fears and anxieties. Other times, we really don’t want to be okay with a certain kind of behaviour.
In this episode, I help you get better at making that judgement call - and manage your mind in the face of any behaviour in your relationship.

Mentioned in this episode:

1:1 coaching with Rebecca - rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com
Your Self-Trust Bubble: How to stop spiralling in the face of rejection MASTERCLASS

200. Real-life coaching: Partner getting frustrated when you're upset & boundaries over following women on Instagram Sep 04, 2026

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Today I’m answering real-life questions from listeners on their real-life relationship problems.
Including:

A person whose partner has expressed frustration when she’s upset
And boundaries around following people of the opposite sex on Instagram.

Unless you’re the person that wrote it - you likely aren’t in either of those exact situations. That’s okay!
Don’t skip the episode - because the way I coach on these topics is likely to help you see your own relationship mind drama in a new way, and apply the teachings to your own unique situations.
Mentioned in the episode:

1:1 coaching with Rebecca - email rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com
Your Self-Trust Bubble: How to stop spiralling in the face of rejection

199. Why you get so attached in early-dating (and how to stop) Aug 28, 2026

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Do you find yourself getting a little too attached too quickly in dating?

Maybe you’ve met the person twice, but find your mood is completely dependant on whether they’ve replied to your message yet.

Or maybe you feel like dating is a rollercoaster, and even when you didn’t really know the person - the rejection feels unbearable.
If so, this episode is for you!

I’m talking about why people get so attached in early dating, the signs to look out for, and what to do to stop this pattern and date more securely instead.

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198. The fear of being unlovable Aug 21, 2026

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Do you ever worry that you’re just not lovable?

When someone rejects you, or if someone has cheated, left, or rejected you in the past - does your brain jump to: I’m not good enough. There’s something wrong with me?

If so - this episode is for you.

We’re talking about what it really means to be lovable, and why how much someone loves you actually has nothing to do with you as a person.
Mentioned in the episode:

Your Self-Trust Bubble: How to stop spiralling in the face of rejection
1:1 coaching with Rebecca

197. Unhelpful relationship advice that might be fuelling your anxiety Aug 14, 2026

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Protect your peace, it’s their job to meet your needs, heal before you get into a relationship…
The online space is LOUD and full of well-intended relationship advice.
But of course - the most common advice can sometimes be a little black-or-white - when in reality, relationships are filled with shades of grey.
So we’re going to discuss more nuanced approaches to common relationship advice in today’s episode.

Mentioned in the episode:

Your Self-Trust Bubble - How to stop spiralling in the face of rejection
1:1 coaching with Rebecca - rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com

196. When your partner is tired of reassuring you (How to reassure yourself) Aug 07, 2026

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Do you ask your partner for reassurance multiple times a week?

Or find yourself asking for reassurance on the same topic over and over and the anxiety still popping back up, despite what they say?

Has your partner said they’re tired of reassuring you, and do you wonder how much reassurance is okay to ask for?
If so, this episode is for you! I’m to talk about reassurance seeking, what it looks like in a healthy relationship, and most importantly - how to start reassuring yourself.

Mentioned in the episode:

Your Self Trust Bubble: How to stop spiralling in the face of rejection (FREE masterclass series)
Get coached by Rebecca - rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com

195. Why other attractive people feel like a threat to your relationship Jul 31, 2026

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Does the thought of your partner around other attractive women (or men) make you panic?
Do you feel jealous when they talk about their co-workers, worried that they find them hot?
Or do you feel on edge when they’re out in bars, afraid they’ll find other people attractive?
If so - this episode is for YOU. I’m talking about why your brain likely sees attractive people as threats, and more importantly - how to train it not to.

Mentioned in the episode:

Processing Emotions Meditation
Book a Relationship Anxiety Breakthrough Call with Rebecca - rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com

194. 5 childhood beliefs fuelling your relationship anxiety Jul 24, 2026

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Ever wonder: Why am I the way that I am?
Why does an unanswered text ruin my day?
Why does criticism seem so big and scary?
Why can’t I ever stop worrying about what might go wrong?
Well in today’s episode - I’m talking about some of the most common beliefs we learn in childhood that could be at the root of your relationship anxiety.
Ready? LISTEN NOW!
Mentioned in the episode:

1:1 coaching with Rebecca - rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com
Your Self-Trust Bubble: How to stop spiralling in the face of rejection - FREE masterclass - SIGN UP NOW

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