Love Over Addiction

Latest Episodes:

He Won't Stop Drinking Feb 20, 2022

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Has your loved one flat out refused to stop drinking (or whatever their substance of choice is) no matter how many times you've begged and pleaded? And what if their addiction is affecting your young children?

That's something a strong woman in our community spoke about recently (and how she tried to compromise with her husband multiple times).

Tune in for this new podcast episode to hear how she finally decided to move forward and is protecting her children, as well as reconnecting with herself.

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Interview: Dating After Leaving Someone With Addiction Feb 13, 2022

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If you've moved on from your relationship with someone who struggles with addiction (or have been thinking about it), have you wondered what 'life after leaving' looks like? Or what would dating again be like? That might seem a little scary, right?

I recently spoke with a woman in our community who was very brave and open about what this has been like for her.

Tune in for this new podcast episode to hear a great conversation about starting over, what dating again looks like, and how there actually ARE some blessings of addiction.

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https://loveoveraddiction.com/dating-after-leaving/

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Does Your Relationship Show Signs Of Abuse? You Might Be Surprised. Feb 06, 2022

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If you've been tuning in for the last several episodes, you've heard me covering some clues that you may be ready to consider leaving your relationship with your loved one who struggles with addiction. And this week, I'm finishing up with the final two reasons.

As always, there's never any judgment on whether you decide to stay or leave. That's completely up to you (and you always reserve the right to change your mind at any time).

But please take some time to listen to this episode because it's all about you and your children's safety and well-being.

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https://loveoveraddiction.com/signs-of-abuse/

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What If They Get Better After You Leave? Jan 30, 2022

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If you've gone back and forth on possibly leaving your loved one who struggles with addiction, what's holding you back from doing so?

If one of the reasons is that you're afraid they might get better after you leave, just know you're not alone. But I want to share some loving truths with you, okay?

Tune in to this week's new episode to hear several more clues that you may be ready to leave your relationship (even if you're still unsure right now).

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https://loveoveraddiction.com/what-if-they-get-better-after-you-leave/

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3 Clues It May Be Time To Consider Leaving Jan 23, 2022

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Has the thought ever crossed your mind about whether you should stay or leave your relationship?

And maybe just the thought of leaving your loved one who struggles with addiction makes you anxious or scared (which is understandable). But just hear me out, okay?

Tune in to this week's new episode, where I dive into three clues that it may be time to consider leaving. And if you decide that leaving isn't the right decision for you, that's absolutely okay, too.

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https://loveoveraddiction.com/consider-leaving/

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Interview: He Used His Child To Manipulate Me Jan 16, 2022

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Have you ever felt like you're on a rollercoaster ride because of your loved one's addiction? Lots of ups and downs and uncertainty of what's ahead.

So why do we stay on that ride (or keep coming back)?

Tune in to this new podcast episode to hear a woman explain how her ex-husband used their child to manipulate her and how she found herself in a financially abusive marriage. But despite everything she's been through, she's now healthier and happier than ever, thanks to the work she's done for her own healing.

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https://loveoveraddiction.com/used-child-to-manipulate-me/

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Interview: He Was A High-Functioning Alcoholic Jan 09, 2022

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Have you ever wondered whether your loved one's drinking is really 'that bad?' When you love someone who is a high-functioning alcoholic, it can be easy to start doubting yourself and your feelings.

I spoke with a brave woman in our community recently who opened up about going through this.

Tune in to this new podcast episode where she shares about her high-functioning alcoholic husband, as well as dealing with family members who are unsupportive of the decisions she's making for her future.

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https://loveoveraddiction.com/high-functioning-alcoholic/

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Interview: Breaking The Cycle of Codependency For Her Daughters Jan 02, 2022

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For many of us, codependency is something we've dealt with for a long time. But have you ever wondered how you came to be that way? Or how to break the cycle of codependency, particularly with your loved one who struggles with addiction?

This is something I discussed recently with a strong woman in our community.

Tune in for this new podcast interview to hear how she's made her boundaries work for her and how she's committed to breaking the cycle of codependency for her daughters.

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https://loveoveraddiction.com/cycle-of-codependency

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When "Let Go and Let God" Doesn't Work Dec 26, 2021

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You've probably heard the expression, "Let go and let God." That it's somehow OK to lose control of what you want or believe. But I disagree with this saying when you love someone suffering from addiction (or even with unhealthy relationships with friends or family).

In our community, we believe that it's 100% OK to take control of your own life and feelings. You're a grown, wonderful, smart adult who knows what's best for YOU.

Click to hear this week's episode about how taking control of your life is the responsible, healthy thing to do. (Even if that means doing some good ole self-talk in the laundry room sometimes).

This episode originally aired in November 2020.

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https://loveoveraddiction.com/take-control/

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Two Codependent Boundary Systems You Need To Know Dec 19, 2021

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As a codependent, setting (and sticking to) boundaries can sometimes be challenging. And look, no judgment at all. Boundaries are tricky and take lots of practice.

But they're also so important to have when you love someone suffering from addiction. Because here's the thing: without boundaries, the morals and values you entered the relationship with become compromised over time.

Tune in to this week's episode, where I discuss a favorite book of mine (along with some helpful stories) about setting and sticking to boundaries. And even if you're not codependent, this will still be super helpful.

This episode originally aired in October 2020.

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https://loveoveraddiction.com/boundaries-for-codependents/

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