Love Over Addiction

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A Small Reminder Of Calm Amidst The Chaos Apr 21, 2019

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When we love someone suffering from addiction of any kind (alcohol, drugs, pills, gambling, porn, or sex among other things), life can feel completely out of control.

Everything can feel like it's just spinning in complete chaos. It's hard to see through and make heads or tails of what's really going on. This constant chaos can become our new normal.

We might make excuses or write it off, and think, everyone goes through this level of chaos. Addiction does that. It's super sneaky and doesn't want us to see the real truth. It doesn't want us to fully realize what's actually going on.

So, if we can find simple little reminders of calm, peace, organization, and quiet, they can be just what we need to make it through. Those little things can be just enough for us to take a deep breath, and move forward.

For me, I found this simple reminder and a much bigger story in my linen closet.

Find more details and free resources here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/reminder-of-calm/

Part II - How To Handle Addiction When It's Progressing Quickly Apr 13, 2019

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Addiction is a progressive disease, which means that it gets worse over time. The rate of progression really depends on each individual person and their specific circumstances.

We're the women that love these good people suffering from addiction, so what does that mean for us?

Well, in this episode, it's Part II of an interview with Terri, a Love Over Addiction sister.

Her husband's disease changed fast, but because she had the tools, knowledge, and power that she did, she knew what to do. She handles this disease which such grace and she's so strong and steady.

If you missed the first part of her story, you can find that here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/when-addiction-progresses-quickly/

And for more free resources, tips, and advice, visit our website here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/

Part I - How To Deal With Denial When You Love Someone Suffering From Addiction Apr 07, 2019

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When you love someone suffering from addiction, it can be hard to see clearly in that situation. Especially if they develop their addiction habits after you meet them.

When we're in the thick of loving someone suffering from addiction, we can have blinders on. We can be in denial, or make excuses for them. We begin to think that this crazy environment, with all this chaos, is normal. Have you ever felt that way?

If you have, I want you to listen to this podcast interview with Terri. She's a Love Over Addiction sister, and her story will inspire you. Her brave actions, her boundaries, her change in behaviors truly shifted her whole life.

You can find more details here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/how-to-deal-with-denial/

If you want more free resources when you love someone suffering from addiction, check out our website here: http://loveoveraddiction.com

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She's Staying With Her Husband Suffering From Alcoholism Mar 24, 2019

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Every woman that loves someone suffering from addiction is looking for hope. We want our loved ones to change, and we're doing anything and everything we can to get them sober.

We are in a relationship with our loved one for our own reasons, and we never intended to leave the relationship or marriage.

I remember when I was married to a good man suffering from addiction, I tried everything to make it work. You name it, I probably tried it.

Is it possible to live a life with your partner, staying in your own lane, and living in your own happiness whether they get sober or not?

For some, that is possible. Let me lovingly remind you that we never do judgment. You reserve the right to change your mind at any time, for any reason. Let me also say that staying is not for everyone.

Today on the podcast I talk with Dana. We've been friends for 20 years, and she's married to a good man that drinks too much and suffers from addiction. We met in college, and she has chosen to stay (for now), and she lives a happy life. Listen to her story today.

Find show notes and more here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/staying-suffering-from-alcoholism/

If you'd like a free guidesheet on how to communicate your boundaries, we have that for you here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/boundaries132/

And if you're ready to join our online programs and take your healing to the next level, you can find out more here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/courses/

How Cleaning Your House and Addiction Are Related Mar 17, 2019

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When you love someone that's suffering from addiction, your life can feel completely out of control and chaotic. That's part of the disease, and it's completely normal.

So how does cleaning relate to all this? Well, it's more than meets the eye. Learn how cleaning can bring back some control, peace, and even joy into your life today.

Taking simple steps, getting small wins, and finding easy-to-do things is the way to start your recovery. You've already started by just listening to this podcast. Now, it's time for your linen closet.

Find more helpful tips and show notes here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/how-cleaning-and-addiction-are-related/

We have a free guidesheet for you here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/compassion131/

And if you're ready to join the Love Over Addiction community, learn more about our online programs here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/

Practical Tips For St. Patrick's Day When Your Partner Drinks Too Much Mar 10, 2019

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We are a sisterhood bonded together by the fact that we love a good person that suffers from addiction. We all know that holidays can be hard. Any small holiday can be the perfect excuse for your loved one to drink more, smoke more, use more, or do more of whatever it is they're addicted to.

St. Patrick's Day is coming up, and small holidays like these can be the perfect excuse for your loved one to have an extra drink, smoke more, or do more drugs. Whatever type of addiction they struggle with, addiction usually takes any chance it can get at a little "extra".

Today on the blog we have 5 practical tips you can use for St. Patty's Day + a question from the community + advice from our community for the upcoming Irish festivities.

We're smart women. We do our work ahead of time to be prepared for potentially sticky situations. If you're ready to make changes, find new ways to cope, and implement some practical tips today, you're going to love this episode: https://loveoveraddiction.com/practical-tips-for-stpatricks-day/

If you're ready to join our community, we're here for you. We have free tips and advice, free guidesheets, and online programs. Find more here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/

A Celebration Of Women Who Love Someone Suffering From Addiction Mar 03, 2019

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Every woman in this community knows what it's like to love a good person that drinks too much or suffers from addiction. Addiction is the third party in their relationships too, just like it was in mine.

The voice of addiction is ugly. It's full of lies and deceit. And, it's loud. It knows how to play you, when to be loud, and when to soften. It's not fair. You did nothing to deserve this.

If you are struggling today, or have ever struggled with this ugly voice in your head, please listen to these words on the podcast today. Listen over and over again. And let these words be the louder voice in your head next time addiction starts playing its games.

Today, we celebrate you. Your strength, your power, your beauty, and everything you have to offer. You, sister.

Find more show notes, encouragement, and helpful tips here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/celebration-of-women/

We have a free guidesheet to help you start your recovery today: https://loveoveraddiction.com/boundaries129/

And if you're ready to join the Love Over Addiction community in one of our online programs, you can join us here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/courses/

How to Gain Self-Confidence (At Any Age) Feb 24, 2019

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We're a sisterhood here. We have over 50,000 women in our community and we're all bonded by the fact that we love someone suffering from addiction.

The type of addiction doesn't matter. We have women that love good people suffering from addiction to alcohol, illegal (or legal) drugs, prescription pills, gambling, pornography, or sex, among other things.

We build each other up. We're not all dark, dingy, gray, and depressing. Is it hard? Oh, you bet it is. But we're here shining a light. We're here to offer support, love, understanding, and encouragement. We don't believe we're powerless over this disease.

Today we hear from one of our Love Over Addiction sisters. I hear from women in their 60s, 70s, 80s, all the time, asking if it's too late to get a new start.

I'll let our dear sister LOA Sister answer that question. She's nearly 70, and has some wise, wise words of wisdom for us.

Find more here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/how-to-gain-self-confidence-at-any-age/

Join the community: https://loveoveraddiction.com/

Connect personally here: https://www.instagram.com/love_over_addiction/

Do Labels Really Make A Difference When It Comes To Addiction? Feb 17, 2019

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When we love someone that drinks too much or suffers from addiction, it's easy to go down the rabbit hole of researching their issues and offering them a label or diagnosis.

And frankly, why wouldn't we? We know they have a problem, and we love them. We're trying to help. Right?

Well, I actually have a different idea, sister. I know, this may be hard to hear, but let me explain. There's something else that we can be doing instead, that will truly make an impact on the situation and be so incredibly helpful.

Listen to the podcast for my ideas on why labeling isn't appropriate, when it is acceptable, and what you can do instead. I also share three bonus tips on the podcast… Enjoy!

To listen to the full episode (including 3 bonus tips) go here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/do-labels-make-a-difference/

We have a free guidesheet for you this week. Find that here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/speak127/

And if you're ready to learn more about Love Over Addiction and join the movement, you can do that here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/

Valentine's Day With Our Love Over Addiction Sisters Feb 10, 2019

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Valentine's Day is right around the corner. When you have a partner that suffers from addiction, you may be left feeling alone and neglected on this day that's supposed to be all about love.

We have a loving suggestion for you: Be your own Valentine. Prepare for the day, dress up, exercise, plant flowers, whatever is "your thing", girl do your thang.

Today on the podcast we hear from our Love Over Addiction Sisters as they share their own self-care tips to prepare for this day all about love.

These sisters are strong, and they know what it's like to be with a person that is addicted to alcohol, illegal drugs, prescription pills, gambling, pornography, or sex, among other things. They know what Valentine's Day can feel like and they're getting prepared.

These women have fallen in love with themselves, for the first time, or all over again. I adore them. Even when it's uncomfortable, not "fun", or just downright hard, they persist. You persist. We're strong together.

Hear their voices, ideas, and hopefully you'll walk away with some new insights yourself: https://loveoveraddiction.com/valentines-day-with-loa-sisters/

To learn more about the Love Over Addiction movement, see our free offerings, online programs, and more, go to https://loveoveraddiction.com/.

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