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dating horror stories part 2 (teaser) Apr 20, 2024

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Welcome to part 2 of dating horror stories!! In this bonus episode listeners wrote in with their own horrible dating stories, and we talk about them here. Some of these stories brought up more memories of the horrors for us, so you'll hear a mix of our stories and the listeners. Heads up to all men - do not bring your friend along on a first date.

We hope you enjoy this episode!! Let us know in the comments what you want to hear next <3

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in a place of eclipse Apr 13, 2024

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In this episode we catch up on how we’ve been feeling about life lately. This is a very real episode that talks about taking care of yourself when life gets really busy, work life balance, things we hope for for the future, and how we feel the eclipse personally affected us.

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is greek life a pyramid scheme? (bonus episode preview) Apr 06, 2024

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In this episode, we discuss our personal experiences with greek life. What was rush week like? What are the differences between fraternities and sororities? Is it cliquey? While greek life may not have been the best fit for us, we are so grateful for the few strong friendships we did make from it. This episode is no shade to the girls who were in our particular sorority, but more so about the system of greek life as a whole. We hope you enjoy this episode, let us know what you want to hear next <3

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things we wish we did differently in college Mar 30, 2024

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To anyone struggling in college - this one's for you. In this episode we talk about things we wish we would've done differently while in undergrad. Some topics include not being so hard on yourself if you haven't found your friend group yet, utilizing more school resources, and putting yourself out there a little more. College can be a difficult time, but it can also be a lot of fun sometimes. We hope you enjoy this episode!

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advice episode <3 Mar 16, 2024

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In this episode we provide advice regarding questions we received from our listeners. Topics include protecting your peace, friendship struggles, how to start running/fueling on long runs, motivation, and what it's like living in Maine. There's something for everyone in this episode, we hope you enjoy <3

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social media (ft. an exciting announcement!) Mar 02, 2024

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In this episode we talk about all things social media - creativity burn out, the pros and cons of it, authenticity, and trying to find balance. We are so thankful for the communities we have built through our accounts, but like everything, there are ups and downs! We hope you enjoy this honest conversation about being two gals with full time jobs who are also trying to balance a creative pursuit. To anyone who has supported this podcast, THANK YOU!!

That being said, we have exciting news!!! You can now join our patreon, where we will have really fun bonus episodes, and a second tier that includes a newsletter at the end of every month!! Link to join below, we can't wait to chat with you over there :)

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Ask a Man Feb 24, 2024

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In this episode, we ask a man questions you may want to know the answers to. We asked listeners to write in with any questions they had about the male perspective, masculinity, or questions you don't want to ask the guy you're seeing, but that you might want some insight on. Topics range from the taxi cab theory, to makeup and aging. (Our special guest is Emma's boyfriend Aidan!!)

We hope you enjoy this silly episode, that is not meant to be taken too seriously.

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breakups Feb 17, 2024

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In this episode, we discuss all things breakups. The stages of moving on, how you know when it's time to go, and how every breakup/relationship you have is a part of you and helps to lead you to the person you're supposed to find (corny, we know, but we really do take a positive spin on it at the end). Whether you're newly single, about to go through a breakup, or have been through a breakup in the past, we think there is something for everyone in this episode. We hope you enjoy this weeks girl talk <3

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fake it till you make it Feb 10, 2024

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In this episode, we talk about our journey to being "cool". In our senior year of college, we embarked on a journey of trying new things in an attempt to feel like cooler people. In reality, what actually happened was that we built our confidence and discovered the things that make us, well, us. We tried new hobbies, and adopted a "fake it till you make it" mindset, until we became the people that we are today. The number one lesson from this episode: embrace the feeling of being cringey, and just do it.

**Don't miss out on the end for a little chat about Taylor Swift's new album (yes, we are freaking out).

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galentine's day inspiration Feb 03, 2024

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In this episode we talk about some of our favorite girly things that will take your galentine's day to the next level. Best rom coms, makeup, snacks, drinks, decor, etc. We argue that galentine's day is even better than valentine's day, because let's face it, a pink and red colored holiday? That's for the girls <3 Put this episode on while you do your makeup and get ready for YOUR galentine's day, we hope you enjoy!!

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