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EP 52: Passion and Purpose Aug 12, 2019

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We often talk about our shared passion for education and learning. But finding your passions and purpose isn't always easy. In this episode, we share our four steps for uncovering your passions & purpose. We discuss how going through these steps has helped us discover our own purpose that we are living out daily. Music "Sunny" by Bensound.com.

What We Talked About in this Episode:

Our shared passion for education & life-long learning and where it came from
The steps we took to discover our passions & purpose
- Examining your talents and abilities - What gifts have you been given?
- - Ashley cares for people and connects with them
  - Ashley is a gifted facilitator
  - Billy has a gift for public speaking and writing
- Looking back on your life story
- - Ashley used to play school as a kid and her dad was the first in his family to go to college
  - Billy started speaking about goal setting at 7 years old
- Spending time in quiet reflection
- - This step is the most difficult and happens at the same time as the first two steps
  - Billy shares how a car accident helped him better understand this step
- Finding a coach or mentor
- - Coaches you pay for, mentors are usually free
  - These people help guide you and hold you accountable

Billy wrote a whole book about purpose called Retreat to Success: Living Your Life on Purpose. Email us a Collab@BashleyMoyer.com for a free copy!

EP 51: Pet Peeves Aug 05, 2019

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We're getting a bit personal this week! We all have pet peeves about the people we love the most and we are opening up about our biggest annoyances with each other. Luckily, we both took the conversation in good stride and giggled our way through this episode. Music "Sunny" by Bensound.com.

What We Talked About in this Episode:

Completing a full year of this podcast and a few changes we plan on making
- Occasionally, we will throw in an episode that shares a little bit more about us personally & our relationship - like this week!
Billy's pet peeves about Ashley
- Her lack of concept of time
- Her lack of communication when she is out and about
- She loves to putz around!
Ashley's pet peeves about Billy
- His obsession with being early to everything
- His impatience while driving
- His inability to give an opinion on dress/attire

EP 50: When You Don't Hit a Goal Jul 22, 2019

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It's our 1 year podcast-iversary! One goal we succeeded with was keeping up with this podcast- yay! Some other goals did not fare as well. In this week's episode, we chat about not hitting goals and what to do when this happens. Grab our download to guide you through this process at bashleymoyer.com/goalsrevisited. Music "Sunny" by Bensound.com.

What We Talked About in this Episode:

Our failure to meet some of our 2019 goals
The process we use to assess our progress to our goals - Reflect, Examine, Adjust
Billy slides into coach mode and walks Ashley through our process

EP 49: Q2 Goals Check In Jul 15, 2019

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Despite some big life changes, we impressed ourselves with our Q1 progress towards our goals. But how did we do in Q2? In this week's episode, we look back at April, May, and June and our progress towards our goals and we update you on those big life changes. Music "Sunny" by Bensound.com.

What We Talked About in this Episode:

An update on what we've been up to
- We're still processing bringing in a little one in September
- We moved to the suburbs!
- We travelled to Philly and Hawaii (babymoon)
Our progress towards our 2019 goals
- Complete 2 consulting or philanthropy projects
- Speak together 4 times
- Build social media presence
- Grow email list to 1,000 subscribers
- Stay consistent with our podcast
- Blog every week
- Host online course
- Write book

EP 48: Spouse to Partner Jun 24, 2019

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Strong marriages come down to great partnerships. But since starting our business, we've noticed a few things we do differently as partners in business in addition to being partners in life. Join us as we talk through a few instances where we have noticed ourselves operating differently than before. Music "Sunny" by Bensound.com.

EP 47: Our FAV Books Jun 17, 2019

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Ask and you shall receive - This week is a listener request! We are a little surprised it took us this long to dedicate an episode to our favorite personal & professional books. This week, we share each of our 3 favorite books, when we first read them, and the impact they have left on us. What books have made a significant impact on you? Music "Sunny" by Bensound.com.

What We Talked About in this Episode:

Billy's favorite books
- As a Man Thinketh by James Allen
- The Leadership Challenge by James Kouzes and Barry Posner
- Mindset by Dr. Carol Dweck
Ashley's favorite books
- Lean In by Sheryl Sandberg
- The Five Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni
- The Turnaround by Billy Moyer

EP 46: Recognition Jun 03, 2019

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Thank you notes, awards, and words of affirmation. All of them are various forms of recognition. But what do you do when you feel undeserving or oppositely, when ego gets inflated? Listen in as we chat about the various forms of recognition, how we handle it, and how we make sure we give it right back out. Music "Sunny" by Bensound.com.

What We Talked About in this Episode:

The different types of recognition
How we handle recognition
That pesky Imposter's Syndrome and why we now think it's all fake (hint: it means you're spending too much time focusing on others' accomplishments
The good and bad side of recognition
A challenge to you - who is someone you can thank or recognize in your life?

EP 45: Routines May 28, 2019

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Routines. When we are following them, life is good. Right now our life is chaos and we are making it worse because we have not routines. In this episode, we discuss some of the causes for this, the areas of our life most needing a routine, and our solutions and some new routine ideas. Music "Sunny" by Bensound.com.

What We Talked About in this Episode:

Some causes for our lack of routines
- We are still processing being pregnant
- We recently moved (see above)
- Ashley also moved offices
The areas of our life needing new routines and our solutions
- Commuting
- - Looking an entire week out
  - Leave earlier
- Our business, Bashley Collaborative
- - Utilizing the extra time in the car for planning
Ultimately, we need to improve communication as we settle into our new place and new news!

EP 44: Rejection May 20, 2019

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Turn-down. Brush off. Nix. No matter how you say it, rejection is never a fun thing to experience. Sometimes you can control it and other times you cannot. In this episode, we share some of our first experiences with rejection, some recent ones and our ways to try and overcome it. Music "Sunny" by Bensound.com.

What We Talked About in this Episode:

Our early experiences with rejection
- For Billy, being rejected from his top choice college
- For Ashley, it was being rejected (and rejecting) new classmates after moving
More recent rejections
- Our first proposal under our business Bashley Collaborative
- Difficulty reaching out to a sibling due to fear of rejection
- Job and board applications
Tips for overcoming rejection
- Let yourself feel those initial emotions (anger, sadness, etc,), but recognize that you have to pull yourself out of it
- Remember that some situations you can control and others you cannot
- Don't let the fear of rejection paralyze you from taking action

EP 43: Working Marriage May 13, 2019

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Working with your spouse is not something to take likely. There's seeds that get planted along the way. And a strong foundation can lead to a successful business and marriage. In this episode, we reflect on the seeds that were planted that set us up to want to jump into business together. Music "Sunny" by Bensound.com.

What We Talked About in this Episode:

Our early influences
- The example Billy's parents set as volunteer youth ministers
- Early relationship
How we grew from supporting one another to working together
- Supporting each other in each of our jobs
- Collabing on various philanthropic projects
Every marriage is a working marriage
- Every (strong) couple is constantly working together to ensure their marriage continues and is healthy

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