I Do, We Do

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Episode 2: We Do Our DISC Assessments Jul 23, 2018

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In this episode of I Do, We Do, we discuss our different styles using the DISC Assessment. We discuss how our differences make us stronger as a couple and make it easier to work together and be successful when we work together. The DISC Assessment measures an individual's work style. It looks at how you act, how you get results, how you communicate, etc.

WHAT WE TALKED ABOUT IN THIS EPISODE:

D – Dominant, I – Influencing, S - Steadiness, C – Compliance
We go through the first couple of pages of our DISC reports and exchange which information was spot-on accurate about each other and elaborate by providing specific examples
We look at the ways we should communicate with each other (i.e. Ashley likes to talk for social purposes, whereas Billy likes to "stick to business—let him decide if he wants to talk socially.")
"I think we both feel anger equally, but I think we express it in different ways." (i.e. raising your voice, or cry privately to self)
Discussed ways NOT to communicate with each other
- Billy doesn't like being told what to do
We talk a lot about how the DISC Assessment kind of highlights our differences when looking at each other's styles
"Opposites don't attract, but they complete each other"
"Conflict arises when values and motivators (how or what motivates an individual) differ between two people"
"We use our differences to be effective and better together."

Music "Sunny" from Bensound.com

Episode 1: Introduction to Bashley Jul 22, 2018

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Welcome to the I Do, We Do podcast! We are Billy Moyer and Ashley Alaniz-Moyer from Austin, Texas. We have been waiting for months to finally launch this podcast. In this podcast, we chat about our relationship, careers, challenges, and how our many differences complement each other and make us better together. We believe that together, we can always achieve more. When we each say "I do," we really mean "we do."

WHAT We TALKED ABOUT IN THIS EPISODE:

We talk about who we are (what we do, where we're from, where we grew up, what we do for a living, where we went to college, etc.)
We talk about how although we have different careers, we find ways to work together all the time
"Ashley has opened up my eyes to a lot of things such as equity, education, or things that he may have not understood before such as being a white male of privilege, which made me more aware of the inequities out there."
We share how they may have different personalities, but we get excited about the same things
- Billy likes to think in logic whereas Ashley tends to be a little more in tuned with emotions and feelings
- Billy is an introvert and Ashley is an extrovert; We define and clarify what an introvert/extrovert is
Opposites complete each other
"The fact that you are different means that you need to work to get along, because you can do amazing things together."

WHAT WILL BE DISCUSSED IN FUTURE EPISODES:

Challenges that we face as a couple and how we come together to overcome those challenges
Other powerful Teams of Two will be interviewed in some episodes
DISC behavior assessment

I Do, We Do Podcast Trailer Jul 10, 2018

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The I Do, We Do Podcast with Billy and Ashley Moyer is coming soon! Stay tuned for new weekly episodes. Connect with Bashley on Twitter and Instagram at @BashleyMoyer.

Learn more about them at BillyandAshley.com.

Music: "Sunny" from Bensound.com.