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    Flipped Lifestyle™ Podcast

    Hi, we’re Shane & Jocelyn Sams. Are you looking for something different? You’ve found it! Welcome to The Flipped Lifestyle Podcast! We are a real family who makes our entire living online, and we help other people do the same! Flip Your Life with online business! We built a million dollar online business selling digital products and starting membership sites over the internet (people pay us to email them stuff…seriously). Our Internet business changed our family’s future, and it could change your family’s too! Imagine making hundreds of extra dollars each month. Would that change your life? Could you use that extra money to pay your mortgage, get out of debt, give your kids a better Christmas, or even take that vacation you’ve been putting off? You can, and it’s probably easier than you think. We are a real family from Kentucky that makes a living entirely through internet marketing. This podcast is about how we make money online through Internet business, and how it lets us live a lifestyle other people can hardly imagine. Our goal is to help other families create, market, and sell digital products on the internet. Selling digital products helped us earn more money, have breathing room in our budget, and eventually quit our regular jobs. We’ve seen the power of online business first hand, now we want to help you see it too! If you would like to learn more about selling stuff online, check us out online at FlippedLifestyle.com or learn how you can do what we do at FlippedLifestyle.com/FlipYourLife

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    FL278 - Flip Your Life LIVE 2019 On Sale Now! Feb 26, 2019
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    In today's episode, we discuss one decision you can make that will help you achieve incredible success in 2019. FULL TRANSCRIPT Jocelyn Sams: Hey y'all. On today's podcast we'll discuss one decision you can make that will help you achieve incredible success in 2019. Shane Sams: Welcome to the Flipped Lifestyle podcast where life always comes before work. We're your hosts, Shane and Jocelyn Sams. We're a real family that figured out how to make our entire living online. And now we help other families do the same. Are you ready to flip your life? All right, let's get started. Shane Sams: What's going on everybody? Welcome back to the Flipped Lifestyle podcast. It is great to be back with you again today. We've got a special edition for you guys this week. A lot of people ask us, "What's the secret to your success? What's the one big thing you guys did, or have done, or continue to do to move the needle and achieve all of the things you've done online?" Shane Sams: And while there are a lot of things that we could point to, one of the biggest catalysts for us both in the beginning and still to this day for achieving online success for being able to make enough money online to quit our jobs and build this life that we dreamed up a few years ago is attending live events. Jocelyn Sams: Live events have definitely always been a huge catalyst for us just throughout the journey. Even at the beginning when we were really scared to death to go to one because it is a big investment in both time and money. But going to them, putting ourselves out there and deciding to do it has been huge for us many, many times over the years. Shane Sams: In fact, if we had not started going to live events, I'm not even sure one that we would be here right now doing Flipped Lifestyle. But two, that our business even would have made it. You know, after we quit our job back in September 2013, things went pretty good for the first few months. Shane Sams: But then as the spring hit, and our niche kind of dried up a little bit, our revenue dropped dramatically. We had achieved a huge amount of success in the fall of 2013 and we had created kind of an emergency fund in case the business didn't work later. Shane Sams: But after we quit our jobs, we were on our own, no paychecks. And all we had was the money that was coming in each month, and this little kind of nest egg that we had set aside and saved after our big August, this big launch that we had in case something went wrong. Well, things went wrong, dramatically wrong. Shane Sams: Like, we were really were not making enough each month in February of like 2014 to really even pay the bills. And it looked like we were gonna need to dust off our resumes and go look for jobs again in the summer because revenue kept dropping. Shane Sams: We didn't know what was wrong. We didn't know why our marketing wasn't working. We didn't know why our list had suddenly dried up. And we were all alone. It was just me and Jocelyn trying to figure this out. And it was a really, really scary period in our business. Shane Sams: At that point I knew we needed some kind of help. But we didn't know where to reach out to. There was nobody around us that really got what we did. Nobody that we knew was doing anything online. And we were totally unconnected to the industry save for listening to podcasts and hearing about other people who were doing what we were trying to do. Shane Sams: So one night I saw that Pat Flynn was going to have a live event in San Diego, California and it was gonna be in June. And there was only a very limited amount of spots to get into this event. But it was gonna be really, really strategic, really tactical. Shane Sams: It was gonna be other entrepreneurs flying in from all over the country. And there were gonna be experts there with Pat. And they were gonna talk about your business and teach you strategies to kind of take your business to the next level. Shane Sams: And I knew this had to be the next step for us. This had to be what we could do next was to go find someone that knew what in the world to do next, to show us what we were doing wrong so that we could take our business to the next level. Shane Sams: The problem was, we already weren't covering expenses good enough. Our nest egg was kind of dipping down. And this was gonna be a really expensive trip. I mean, we were gonna have to fly across the country. Shane Sams: We were gonna have to get a hotel. We were gonna have to pay for the event itself. And you know, it was gonna take time away. We were gonna have to find someone to watch our kids. But I knew this had to be what we did. Shane Sams: So I took this to Jocelyn. And not for the first time in our relationship she looked at me like I was crazy. Jocelyn Sams: Guys on paper this was not a good idea. So I look at it. I see how expensive it is. You know, we're gonna have to fly. We're going to have to stay in a hotel. We're going to have to eat meals there, and all these types of things. Jocelyn Sams: And you know, we've never been to San Diego before so I want to see a couple of things. And if we're gonna go I maybe want to stay like one extra day and do a couple things. Jocelyn Sams: So I was like, there's no way we can do this. Like, this cannot happen. And Shane's like, "Oh no, we're doing it." Shane Sams: It was a blanket No. I mean it's one of those times where Jocelyn's like, "No. We're gonna have to figure something out. Maybe we can buy a course. Maybe we can do something." But I just really felt like we were at a brick wall. And we couldn't get to the next level alone. Shane Sams: I knew there would be benefits for going to the event afterwards. We would meet more people. We could connect. Maybe we could form a mastermind. Maybe we could build relationships, other opportunities would open up. But the bad part was, if none of that happened, we would probably run out of money. Jocelyn Sams: Yeah. So in the end I did what I do a lot of times. And I said, "You know what? This is crazy but you're driving me crazy trying to talk me into it. So let's do it. And if it is a complete disaster, it's going to be your fault." Shane Sams: So we buy the ticket. We get the plane tickets. We get the hotel ready. And we go to San Diego, and we attend this event. And I have to say it was the opposite of a disaster. You know, anytime we think about doing something new, fears are gonna creep in, obstacles are gonna appear in our way. And we start telling ourself all these ghost stories about the worst possible things that can happen. Shane Sams: But when you take action, when you put yourself out there, good things happen. When we went to this event, we got to meet Pat. We got to meet experts that helped us exactly where we were. We actually took advice that we learned at that live event, came back, took action, and implemented it. Shane Sams: And we blew our business into a place that we didn't even know it could go to. We had a six figure month right after we came back from this event just on the stuff that we learned while we were there. We met some of our dearest friends in the industry that we still talk to, to this day. Shane Sams: And we formed masterminds. And just so many good things came from this live event. It really was one of those catalyst points, a turning point in our business. And it really got us kind of hooked on going to other live events. Shane Sams: We made it a point to start going to three or four live events every single year as a part of our growth, as a part of our development, as a part of our business to make sure we were always taking those next steps. Shane Sams: And every single time that we have ever went to a live event, we've learned something or met someone, and came back and took action on that thing we learned, or on that relationship. And we've taken our life and our business to the next level. Shane Sams: Live events affected our business in such a positive way, we knew when we started Flipped Lifestyle that eventually we would start having live events of our own because we wanted to give our listeners, we wanted to give you an opportunity to attend these live events. And we didn't like some of the things that were happening at the live events that we went to. We thought that we could do it better. Jocelyn Sams: Over the years we've done a series of smaller events. We did one out in San Diego where we met with people and talked about their business there. We've done one in Tampa, Florida. And we also did one in Chicago not long ago. Jocelyn Sams: But I had gone to another event of a friend of mine in late 2017. And this was sort of a larger scale event. And I started looking around, and I knew that this person had a similar sized audience. And I thought, you know what? If she put this many people in a room, we could probably do that too. Jocelyn Sams: And I guess to that point, it had never really occurred to me to do that. And when I was there, and I saw the interaction of all the different people who were at that event, I was like, "Wow this is really cool. We need to do this. And we need to get our people together." Shane Sams: When Jocelyn came back from this event she was really excited about doing a larger scale event. And as we talked about it, we realized that we could probably even improve on all of the live events that we had went to. Shane Sams: We felt like some of the content wasn't actionable at some of these events. And we felt like some of them were more like cheerleading pep rallies than they were actually getting into the trenches with people and helping them make their dreams come true, move their business forward, and take their life to the next level. Shane Sams: So on a whim we decided that we would do our own huge live event in Nashville, Tennessee. And before we had even signed contracts, before we had even paid any of the bills, we did what we usually do. We created an order form and we told you guys about it last year. Jocelyn Sams: And we said, "Do you want this or not?" Shane Sams: Prove it. Jocelyn Sams: Yes. Shane Sams: Buy it with your wallet. Get your wallet out and pay for it. Jocelyn Sams: And people did. Shane Sams: People did. We had over 100 tickets sold. People from 30 states, over five countries came to Nashville for Flip Your Life Live 2018. And it was one of the greatest experiences of our life. We had three days to spend together building our businesses, sharing moments, talking about our families. And really just building deep connections with all the people there. Shane Sams: So many success stories happened from Flip Your Life LIVE 2018. We had people blow their businesses up from 100 members to 500 members. From zero emails to 400 or 500 emails on their list. To having no product to launching a product. We actually had people launch products during the event and make their first sales while we were sitting there in the room together. Shane Sams: And it was a lot of work. It was a lot of effort behind the scenes to pull something like this off. You know, we had no idea how much goes on to put on a live event for 100, 200, 300 people. We had no idea how much it cost to do this. Shane Sams: But when we saw all of these success stories happening, we knew we had done the right thing. We knew that we had to keep creating experiences like this for the people in our audience and in our community so that we could see these people keep succeeding in their online business. Jocelyn Sams: Leading up to last year's event, there were times that we definitely looked at each other and said, "Okay this is not happening again next year." Shane Sams: What have we gotten ourselves into? Jocelyn Sams: It was stressful. We made zero dollars off ticket sales. We actually lost money last year. And we just kind of looked at each other and we were like, "This is a lot of work. Like, this is intense. Are we going to do this again next year?" And honestly, before the event we were kind of like, "I don't know. I don't know if this is gonna happen again." Jocelyn Sams: But then after we got there, after we saw everybody, we saw the types of connections that were being made. We have talked to people on the podcast the past few weeks. I think just about everyone on the podcast has been someone who attended the live event. Shane Sams: And had a success story from it. Jocelyn Sams: And just seeing what these people have been able to do before the event, leading up to it, at the event, after the event, all of those things together, we just kind of looked at each other again and said, "You know what? We have to do this again. We can't not do this again." And like I said, it's not a money thing for us. We are not making money off this. Or very little if we do. Shane Sams: We actually as we were starting to plan for Flip Your Life Live 2019, we really wanted to even lower the ticket price. We wanted to make it more accessible to more people because we know how much this has impacted dozens of peoples lives. And we want Flip Your Life Live to be the event that impacts your life. And impacts hundreds of other lives. Shane Sams: So after many conversations, and many meetings with our live event team, we are proud to announce that Flip Your Life Live 2019 is happening again. And it will be in Lexington, Kentucky on September 19 through the 21st 2019. And we want you to be there. Shane Sams: We have launched ticket sales. They are available right now at early bird pricing until March 1st. And we do have payment plans available so you can kind of put it on layaway guys. You can put some money down now, pay it off between now and the event. You don't have to come up with the entire amount all up front. But if you do it will save you a little money. Shane Sams: And to get your ticket all you have to do is go to flippedlifestyle.com/live. That's, F-L-I-P-P-E-D lifestyle.com/L-I-V-E. Flippedlifestyle.com/live. And you can get your ticket to Flip Your Life Live 2019 before they sell out and before the price goes up. Shane Sams: Now we have already announced this to the people who came here last year to Flip Your Life Live. And over half of them have already bought tickets to the event. So we are not going to have a lot of tickets available when you hear this podcast. Shane Sams: This is a limited seating event. We kind of call this the Flipped Lifestyle family reunion. But we don't have room for everybody in the family, in the venue hall. So once tickets do sell out we are not gonna be able to add anymore. Shane Sams: We have limited space for the event. So if you're planning on attending you really need to do it right now. You need to go get your ticket at flippedlifestyle.com/live as soon as you hear this podcast. Shane Sams: Flip Your Life Live is a unique and amazing experience in this industry guys. You know, it's how we bring our members and podcast audience together each year to meet each other in real life, to meet us in real life. Shane Sams: You know Jocelyn and I go down into the audience and we work with the people who are there. We answer questions after every single session to make sure that you get the exact information and training you need to take your business to the next level. Jocelyn Sams: Guys we even have a photo booth. We will take a picture with you in the photo booth. We'll hold up a sign. You can make Shane say something crazy. You can make him wear a hat. I don't know. Shane Sams: It's all recorded on video. Jocelyn Sams: But it's really fun. We get down in there. We really participate with the audience. We have opportunities to learn n…

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    FL277 - High school senior launches business and makes money online! Feb 19, 2019
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    In today's episode, we talk to a high school senior who launched his own business and made money online. FULL TRANSCRIPT Jocelyn Sams: Hey, y'all. On today's podcast we talk to a high school senior who launched his own business and made money online. Shane Sams: Welcome to the Flipped Lifestyle podcast where life always comes before work. We're your hosts, Shane and Jocelyn Sams. We're a real family that figured out how to make our entire living online. And now, we help other families do the same. Are you ready to flip your life? Alright, let's get started. Shane Sams: What's going on everybody? Welcome back to the Flipped Lifestyle podcast. It's great to be back with you again. Today, super excited to have another guest on the Flipped Lifestyle podcast and help them taking their online business to the next level but this is a special episode. Normally we have our Flip Your Life community members on the show. We help them with a consulting call. We answer their questions and we take their business and take their life to the next level. And usually the person that's on the show comes from our success forum. We really single out and focus on our action takers inside of the Flip Your Life community. We see those success stories happening in the community and when they happen, we invite them on the show so we can magnify, multiply everything that they're doing in their online business. Shane Sams: Well this is a special success story because this is my own flesh and blood. Our guests today are actually my nephews Dustyn and Devyn Sams. Dustyn, Devyn, welcome to the Flipped Lifestyle podcast. Dustyn Sams: Hey guys. Thanks for having us. Devyn Sams: Hey guys. Shane Sams: Now, I know you think they might be plants, which they kind of are, but they have had some recent success because about a year ago I started badgering these guys to start an online business. Do something online because they're both action takers, they're both entrepreneurial kids, and I just knew that they had talent and they could do something out there and make some money online. But they resisted and they wouldn't do it. Then finally we got them to take action and some amazing things have happened in their online business. Jocelyn Sams: I actually have a fun fact for you guys. The very first time that I ever visited Shane's family here in southeast Kentucky, it was for Dustyn's first birthday. Shane Sams: All right. So wait, Dustyn, how old are you right now? Dustyn Sams: I'm 21. Shane Sams: All right. And what grade are you ... You're in college right? Dustyn Sams: Yeah. I'm a junior in college in right now. Shane Sams: All right. And Devyn- Jocelyn Sams: Was not even alive. Shane Sams: Devyn was not alive when Jocelyn started coming around here y'all. But Devyn, how old are you right now and what grade are you in, in high school? Devyn Sams: Currently I just turned 19 years old and I'm a senior in high school. Shane Sams: All right. So, guys, you know where this is going today. A senior in high school started an online business, got his brother in college to help him and they've made money online. So I'm not sure what you're waiting for. But we're going to talk more about that. Shane Sams: First, tell everybody guys, about your online business itself. What you've actually created online before we talk about sales and stuff like that. Devyn Sams: We created a guitar beginners video course that teaches people who are struggling to learn how to play the guitar or just people in general who want to learn how to play the guitar. It actually teaches them in-depth through a five step process how to play the guitar. Shane Sams: And what's your domain name? Devyn Sams: Our domain name is conqueringguitar.com. Jocelyn Sams: Tell everybody a little bit about why you started this particular business. What does this mean to you? What is your background as far as playing the guitar? Devyn Sams: We just created it because number one you guys challenged us and from the beginning we were really confused about what y'all did. You guys started donning on us and so we were like, "Hey, if they're making money online, why can't we just go ahead and start it?" So, we created the website and here we are. Jocelyn Sams: All right. So the whole guitar thing. This is something that's meaningful to you also. Tell everybody a little bit about that. Devyn Sams: Oh, right. I taught myself how to play the guitar when I was around 13. I actually bought a guitar with my own birthday money and I actually taught myself how to play. It took probably around two to three years to actually teach myself how to play and I was just thinking, "You know, what if I was the next shortcut to help people play the guitar?" So, we created the website and so forth. Jocelyn Sams: Okay, great. Now, I want to ask you this because I know that there are probably a lot of people out there thinking, "Oh, well these guys, they're in high school and college. They have nothing else to do. They're just sitting around making websites and stuff." I want you to just tell everybody a little bit about what really both of your involved in. Let's start with Devyn. What else were you doing in addition to school and creating this website? Devyn Sams: First and foremost I was a football player by heart, so I was always at football practice. Other things I was in, I would have church, homework from school. So I was a pretty busy dude. Dustyn Sams: He played in two state championships. Shane Sams: That's right he did. That's right he did. That's the genetics coming through right there. But you worked too, right Devyn? Devyn Sams: Yeah, I did work. Shane Sams: Also, not only that, you're selling yourself short here. One, when he says he taught himself how to play guitar guys, it means no lessons. He got the guitar and just started figuring it out and started listening to songs and sitting around and playing for hours and hours and hours at a time. Okay? And number two, when he says he was a football player, he was a starting football player. A leader who was at practice all the time. Probably three and four hours a night after being at school all day long. And when he says he played guitar at church, he's literally leading 1200 people every Sunday in worship. He is up there with the song leader, he's the lead guitar, he's up on a mic, and he's working with the group and he's practicing all the time to be ready for these big services on Sundays. So this is not a guy who's sitting around playing Fortnite eight hours a day. That's not what's happening here. Shane Sams: And Dustyn, now what do you do? Devyn is basically ... Devyn you do all the courses and you're the front of the business, right? You're the show? Correct? Devyn Sams: Correct. Shane Sams: Now, Dustyn, what are you doing in the business right now with Devyn? Dustyn Sams: Particularly, I'm the better looking brother but I'm not out front. No, I'm just joking. But basically I have my own photography and videography business, so I have a lot of background in technology and stuff. So, I've basically been the one who's made all the courses and recorded all the videos. Basically just built the website and membership site. Shane Sams: You did that mostly with our courses, correct? Dustyn Sams: Yeah, yeah. Definitely. I just go on the ... I finally convinced y'all, or I didn't convince y'all but I finally got a membership from you guys and then I went through all the videos and taught myself how to make a website through those. Basically through brand design and Canva and all that it worked out. Shane Sams: What's funny you say that is, we have been harassing you guys to do this for 18 months. It's been a year-and-a-half ago you all would come over and you'd be hanging out at our house. You'd look around and be like, "What do you guys do again? How is all this possible?" And we would tell you start an online business. Start a website. You're like, "That's not what you do. That's not what you do." And we kept harassing you and harassing you. I remember that you guys wanted to tip toe into it but I wouldn't let you because we hated giving things away for free and I didn't feel like you guys were ready. You really just weren't going ... You weren't serious enough or us to give you the opportunity yet. Does that make sense? Dustyn Sams: Part of it personally was I feel like we were just so young. We weren't mature enough to understand. And then now that we're a little older, we actually understand what's going on and it's helped us out a whole lot. Shane Sams: Let's talk about that a little bit because even as you were building this stuff out, there was a lot of disbelief, a lot of this can't be real, a lot of this isn't possible. But Dustyn actually was the videographer last year for Flip Your Life LIVE. All the commercials, all the videos. All the things that you see on our Facebook page and online, Dustyn came in and filmed those, edited those. What did you ... How did that event really fire you up? Because when you came back from Flip Your Life LIVE- Jocelyn Sams: I'm not really sure you knew what to expect when you went. You're like "Okay, this is an event. I don't know what this is going to be." Shane Sams: "Just shooting or wedding or whatever. Just another thing." What happened when you got there and you saw all that. You saw these hundreds of people from all over the world coming in. You saw what we were doing on stage and you heard ... I mean you were in the room for every session. Right? When you came back, you were on fire. You guys really went after it, really got on it. What changed after you went to Flip Your Life LIVE? Dustyn Sams: Well, going in Flip Your Life LIVE, it basically was another event for me just as a job I'd say. But I also knew what you guys had done since you're my uncle and aunt. I knew that I wanted to learn a little bit more about that, so I was very interested in going to that. On that part of the half anyways. So when I got there, not only did it turn out being a job but it was basically like I was a member in the community with all the other people. I really just learned a whole lot about online business and I knew that even though I'm going out week in and week out filming and videoing, it's a lot of hard labor work where I could be doing this online and making money another way. Dustyn Sams: So really, that event just inspired me to take action and get Devyn onboard and we made something work. Jocelyn Sams: It was really funny because I remember at first you were out there mostly videoing stuff. And then later in the event, I just saw you writing. All the time. Shane Sams: Taking notes, baby. I'm like, "Damn it. I'm paying. Dustyn, I'm paying you here. Pick up your camera. Start taking some more photos, man." Jocelyn Sams: I'm not insinuating that you weren't doing any work. Shane Sams: No he did a great job. The videos are amazing! Jocelyn Sams: It just makes me laugh because at first you were like, "Oh, video." And you're like Shane Sams: "I gotta write this down this is something I can do later." We brought all of the staff that helped at the end of the thing and I asked you on stage, I was like, "You didn't really know what we did. Now what do you think?" And I remember your eyes just got as big as saucers and you were like, "This is crazy. I can't believe all these people are actually doing this." It was just cool when you got back. Shane Sams: All right, let's talk about ... All right. You guys piddled with it. You're taking the courses. You're building some stuff. Then you see it's real because you're in a room with real people and you're like, "Man, there's other people doing this. Not just Shane and Jocelyn. If they can do it, we can do it too." You come back, you guys really hammered down. You guys were making courses, putting up courses, getting stuff out there, toying with some Facebook ads, sharing stuff. You all were just crushing my Facebook newsfeed sharing stuff locally. It was ridiculous. Telling anybody you could. I kept getting messages. Everyone in our family would be tagged in them. Dustyn and Devyn were like, "Hey guys, could you share this everywhere that you talk on social media? That'd be awesome. Thanks." You guys were really just hustling. Shane Sams: And nothing was happening. And nothing was happening. I remember Devyn, talking to you a couple of times here and there, you're like, "We got stuff out there. The course is ready. I just want someone to buy this. I just want someone to tell me it's real." Jocelyn Sams: Some of you guys have been there before, people listening to this right now are thinking, "I have so been there. I just want somebody to buy it." So we just keep saying, you have to be patient. You have to wait. Everybody wants to build it and then overnight they get 4,000 people to buy their thing. And it doesn't work that way. Shane Sams: And then the other night I get a rampaging, crazy, all caps text message. I can't remember who text me first. I think it was Devyn. So, Devyn, I'm going to lead this over to you. What happened the other day in your online business? Devyn Sams: You know, I was getting frustrated. I was getting frustrated and frustrated and more frustrated because no one was buying it. Right? But I kept listening to ... It's funny because I kept listening to your guys' YouTube channel and your podcasts. You would always say, "Be persistent and prolific and something will happen and take action." You know, I just kept doing that. And then that night, I made my first sale. Shane Sams: You sent me ... You FaceTimed me three times. I'm like, "Leave me alone. What are you doing?" And you sent me the text and I call you back. I started snapping pictures because we were both so excited. Jocelyn Sams: I was in a different room and I kept hearing screaming. I'm like, "Okay, what in the world is going on here?" Shane Sams: I'm like, "Devyn made his first sale! Dustyn made their first sale!" I remember it was funny because the two weeks before that, I went back and just looked at our ... I thought about our conversations at church or when we were together. I looked back at some texts here and there. I started piecing together a progression. Something was heating up because you would tell me we got some traffic. Hey, someone signed up for our email list. Hey I sent an email out and two people opened." Right? And then finally that one person bought. Where was that person from? Don't say their name, but where were they from? Devyn Sams: They were from Australia. Shane Sams: All right. So we got two guys in Kentucky. We got a high school senior, and a 21-year-old guy in college that threw up this website and literally started from scratch. Devyn you don't even know how to use the website still, right? You don't even know what- Devyn Sams: Right. Shane Sams: All you know how to do is play guitar. Is that what I'm feeling right now? All right. Dustyn, you barely know how to do it because, what was it? A week or two ago you all were sending me a message and something broke on the website? Dustyn Sams: Yeah. It was ... Yeah. Shane Sams: What happened? Someone couldn't buy or the buy button wouldn't work? Dustyn Sams: I still…

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    FL276 - We help Brenda take her art business to the next level Feb 12, 2019
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    In today's episode, we help Brenda take her art business to the next level. FULL TRANSCRIPT Jocelyn: Hey y'all. On today's podcast we help Brenda take her art business to the next level. Greeting: Welcome to the Flipped Lifestyle Podcast, where life always comes before work. We're your hosts, Shane and Jocelyn Sams. We're a real family that figured out how to make our entire living online, and now we help other families do the same. Are you ready to flip your life? All right, let's get started. Shane: What's going on everybody? Welcome back to the Flipped Lifestyle Podcast. It is great to be back with you again today. We are super excited to have another member of the Flip Your Life Community on so that we can help them take their business to the next level. Now a lot of people ask us, "How do you pick who gets to be on the podcast? Which members come on? Is there an application process, is there something else that you do to let people come on the show?" Well, really, honestly, it's action takers in the community who we bring on to the Flipped Lifestyle Podcast, and we look for people who are asking great questions in the forums, and we really look hard at our success story forum. And we had an amazing success story that we wanted to share with you today. Shane: Flip Your Life Community member, Brenda Mullard said, in her subject line, "So much can happen in a short amount of time." I was like, "Oh that's interesting, let's open that up and read it". Brenda said, "Hi everyone, I was reflecting on what has happened with my business since Flip Your Life Live, and I thought I'd share my success and all that has happened. So much can happen in such a short amount of time, just about four months. When I left Flip Your Life Live I had a website and membership that was literally broken. I mean it was open to everyone and anyone, but it wasn't working. I was frustrated, sad, and disheartened after our working dinner at Flip Your Life Live, but I thought I would just hire it out and get it all fixed. The quotes were thousands of dollars. I looked at myself and said, 'Wait, um, what?' I thought to myself there was no way I could afford to do that." Shane: "So with the help of my new crew, that I met at Flip Your Life Live, I changed my website theme to a new theme, I learned the new theme builder, and redesigned almost all of my webpages, over 100 pages of content. I created new opt ins, a sales funnel, and an email sequence to bring people through the process. I've added more regular lesson plans, presentations, posters, and resources to my membership. I've batched blog posts ahead of times and free downloads for the next few months, and I'm ready to go. I ran my first sale, and I raised my prices. I now had eight members in the Visual Art Academy Membership and excited to add more. As much as I feel like things move slowly, looking back, I realized I have really moved the needle. I feel like I have a very solid foundation created now, and the next move is to try to get more eyes on what I have to offer." Shane: "This is what I need to learn more of, and I'm about to throw my ... as I try to throw my fear aside. So even when you don't think you have a whole lot done, then stop and reflect a little bit, and you'll probably surprise yourself." Shane: So we read this amazing success story. Jocelyn: I was so excited. I was like we have to have her on the podcast. Shane: We've got to have Brenda on the podcast. She's taking action, she came to the live event. We got to have her on, so Brenda Mullard, welcome to the show. We have you on the podcast now. Brenda: Well thanks so much for having me, you guys. Shane: That was an inspiring success post, by the way. And I actually noticed something about your account too when we were reading this right before we came on air. I looked at your, your stats are over like under your name, you know like where it has the topics, replies, and coins and things. And what I love about this is you have six times the replies as topics started. And what that really tells us is not only are you taking action, but you're also like talking to other people, answering other questions, and helping other people sort out their problems too, so we're super glad to have you on the show today. Brenda: Well thanks. I know I appreciate it when people answer my questions or just give me a little bit of a boost, and you can do this, and so I really try to do that for everybody else in the community too. I think that's really important. Jocelyn: Absolutely, I love that. This is one of those shows where we have actually met Brenda in real life, which is awesome. She came to our event not too long ago, in last September in Nashville, and has done just some amazing things, and we're just really excited about all of the things that you're working on, and the action that you're taking, and all that kind of stuff. So now it's our turn to kind of give back to you and try to help you take the next steps in your journey, but before we do that, let's talk a little bit about you. Tell people about your background and about what you do online. Brenda: Okay. Awesome. Well, I have three kids. I'm married, I have one husband. My kids are 17, a daughter who we are getting ready to send off to college next year, so we're getting all the applications and scholarships and all that kind of stuff going. I have a 14-year-old son who's a freshman in high school, and an 11-year-old son who is in fifth grade. I have been in the arena of art education for the past 20 years, and so I have moved within the past year from just a regular classroom into teaching part-time, but then also taking on an integrated arts program at one of the middle schools as a fine arts coordinator. So I kind of have two part-time jobs which are really actually two full time jobs, as well as my family. Brenda: And then we kind of joke because my mom is ... I have an elderly mother who has a lot, a lot of health issues, and so we kind of joke that she's our fourth child, because I cook, clean, shop, do everything that I do for my children, only she just doesn't live with us. So, having that on top of everything is pretty, it's a pretty crazy busy life right now. Shane: So I would say that that probably has a lot to do with why you're trying to build this online income that's more manageable, more passive, more controlling would be safe to guess? Brenda: For sure. Yep. I, to be able to have the flexibility of a schedule and to have more time to do the things that I feel that I need to do, versus what I have to do, would be just phenomenal. So, yep, that's exactly why I'm working on doing this. Shane: How did you first discover that online business even existed, or decided you wanted to do it? We all have different stories, because this world is kind of hidden from people, when you're in the 9 to 5, or even when you're in a government job or an education job or something like that. How did you discover online business? Brenda: Well, about oh, I would say 14ish years ago, when my son was born, I kind of got exposed to working smarter not harder with my artwork, and so I was using my artwork and putting it, putting it on greeting cards, through a few different companies, and doing things like that, and all of the sudden realizing like oh, I made 42 cents today from selling two cards that had my design on it, and I designed it once and it sold multiple times. Just that idea that I could make income from content, or things that I produce, and then it's used over, and over, and over, and over again by multiple people, and you continuously get paid through that was really the first kind of exposure that I had. Brenda: And then when I found you guys, I had tried doing some online, my lesson plans and things all on my own, and I probably for like two years or so just kind of waded through the whole internet business courses, process of all different things, and until I figured out and started learning from the community I just got a better idea of what it all took. Because people that do this online business entrepreneurial stuff, when you first begin, you don't understand how much goes into being successful in a business. Like you always use the iceberg scenario and that's so true. You only see the very top when people are really, really successful. You don't see all of the different layers and all the different work that goes into getting to that top peak. Shane: But that's what you hear when you first discover it, right? Everyone is like, "Oh, I read a book, and I started a blog, and the next -" Jocelyn: And they're making millions of dollars. Shane: "And next thing I knew I had my own jet." Brenda: Right. Exactly. I quit my job after five months of all this stuff, and it was so easy, and anybody that's, anybody that's actually doing it knows that that's not true. Shane: Especially in the beginning. There is a ... What's it called? A dynamo, is that what it's called? When like the energy takes over and it just keeps running or something like that. Jocelyn: Yeah, that's something, I don't know. Shane: Science, yeah. Physics. Brenda: Ignorance, ignorance on fire. Shane: Ignorance but right, its like something happens when, I guess momentum, like there is a point where you'll get momentum where things get ... It's like a fire, you stoke the fire and it keeps burning. You just throw another wood, you don't have to like, it's harder to start the fire than it is to quit going. And like there is a point of that, but man those first, that first two years is really like you've got to decide that you're in it to win it or you're not going to win it. You know? Brenda: Right, right. Jocelyn: Okay, so tell our listeners what your business is. Brenda: I have a website, and membership, that has secondary art education lesson plans and classroom resources for art teachers. Shane: Okay. Jocelyn: Okay, awesome. Shane: And you actually have a following online. You have a Facebook group? Brenda: I do. I started a Facebook group about, about a year and a half, two years ago. It's called Art Teachers Teaching Art, and actually, Shane, you gave me that title, which is awesome. It has over 6000 members in it right now, and it is a super, super active community. I mean I, I have probably if somebody posts a question, or is looking for something in there, I have six or seven people that immediately jump on and answer that question. It is a free group, but it is a super active, and it's really, really good group. Shane: And I usually, I talk to a lot of people about building an audience through some kind of group or something, a page, whatever it is they manage, and we always pick, everybody's always well what should I call it? And people want to brand it and stuff, and I'm like, "No, what would people search for?" People would search for Art Teachers Teaching Art. They would not search for the Fantabulous Artsio Community or whatever. They wouldn't look for that. You've got to name that, that's, naming is really important and sometimes simple is the best. And Art Teachers Teaching Art is pretty straight forward, but you know what everyone in the group is doing. And when people find it they're like "Yeah, I shouldn't join that, because I'm not an art teacher teaching art, so I'm going to back out of this one." Brenda: Right, and it started out with, I just started the group, and I literally started it out with just art teachers that I knew. I mean I threw it out to six art teachers that I knew were on Facebook, and that I knew personally. And within a year and a half, I've got over 6000 members where people have spread it to other people, and it's just kind of spread like wildfire across the masses. So that's pretty cool to think about that from people all over the world. Shane: And the key is now though ... We talked about this a little bit off air, which we're going to get into some fears, and obstacles, and some other things that are holding you back in your business. You've done the hard part, you've gotten 6000 people to pay attention to something you've created for free. And the key is where, somewhere in there, there's 100 people that want to pay you monthly. You just have to convince them why and we'll talk more about that. Jocelyn: Okay, so before we get into all that, I do want to talk a little bit about coming to the live events. So you attended our live event in 2018? Brenda: I did. Jocelyn: And I want to talk a little bit about what made you decide to do that, and by making the decision, what changed about the way that you were approaching your business, or like how did it benefit you in other words? Because we're starting to sell this thing again, there are probably a lot of people out there listening thinking, "Oh, you know, I don't know for sure if I want to do this." You know, "I have to take time out of my life," and all these types of things. Shane: It's not cheap. Jocelyn: Yeah, I mean. Shane: It's not cheap to make a trip like that. Jocelyn: There is an investment involved, and I just want you to talk a little bit about why you made that decision and what happened after you made that decision. Shane: How, this success story was clearly sparked by people you met at the live event. All these things and people helping you, so how did that kind of change things for you? Brenda: Absolutely, so wow, this is really hard to talk about, but literally when I, I signed up to go, I thought this is going to be the make or breaker. I have this website ... And I had paid to have it fixed and changed, a while ago, and little to my knowledge that it wasn't fixed and it was still broken. It was open to everybody, so I was in a point where I was super frustrated. I didn't know the next steps, even though we have the great community, and we have all the courses and things in there. I just felt way overwhelmed and way bogged down, and just didn't really know where to go from where I was at. And so I kind of thought all right, I'm going to go to this event. I've been to live events before, I know that I've always learned something, and usually there's a sit and get kind of things, where you go in, and you sit, and get information and then you take it home and try to implement, but the way this was set up, being a teacher myself, I loved the way that it's taught. Brenda: There's questions, and then you do it. And so that was a huge part of how I think the success kind of started rolling. I also met people that I had talked to in the community online. A few of them we had had phone calls back and forth and things, but I think meeting those people in person, and having them be like, "Oh, this is what I do," and then show me, because I'm very visual. I'm a very visual learner, and so to have them actually sit down and show me some of the things that they were doing, where like keyword search and all these other things was so, so helpful. It was so helpful to me, and after our working dinner, realizing that my website was literally broken. Like I, and my membership was open to the world, anybody could get in, anybody could see anything. They could download everything and - Shane: Didn't we talk about this like - Brenda: We did. Shane: Walking back to the elevator? Yeah. Brenda: We did. Shane: I remember this now. Because you were like, it was you, and who were you with? Kath…

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    FL275 - We help Wally grow his life and business strategy podcast Feb 05, 2019
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    In today's episode, we help Wally grow his life and business strategy podcast. FULL TRANSCRIPT Jocelyn Sams: Hey y'all. On today's podcast, we help Wally grow his life and business strategy podcast. Shane Sams: Welcome to the Flipped Lifestyle Podcast, where life always comes before work. We're your hosts, Shane and Jocelyn Sams. Shane Sams: We're a real family that figured out how to make our entire living online, and now we help other families do the same. Are you ready to flip your life? All right, let's get started. Shane Sams: What's going on everybody? Welcome back to the Flipped Lifestyle Podcast. It is great to be back with you again. Today, super excited to talk to another member of the Flip Your Life community and help them take their life and business to the next level. I'm really excited about today's guest because I was once featured on his podcast. It is the host of the Men of Abundance Podcast, Wally Carmichael. Wally, what is going on, my friend? Wally C.: Man, just living a beautiful life, living my best life, brother. So excited to be talking with you. Shane Sams: You are the most positive person in my Facebook newsfeed. I just wanted to tell you that. You make me happy, man. You're like a ray of sunshine beaming into my social media account every morning. Wally C.: I greatly appreciate that. That's the intent. Shane Sams: But you do make me jealous, though, because you refuse to live anywhere but a place with a beach, and you're just always showing those beach pictures. So I'm a little jealous sometimes. I'm jealous, but you know, we need a little envy to drive us forward sometimes. Jocelyn Sams: Hey, I'm looking out at a beautiful bluebird right now, so. Shane Sams: What'd you say, Jocelyn? Jocelyn Sams: I'm looking out at a beautiful bluebird right now, so it's not so bad. Shane Sams: Yeah, there's a bluebird flying around in January, so we're doing good up here in Kentucky too. Wally C.: Wonderful. Yeah, you guys got that beautiful lake up there too. That's just cool. Jocelyn Sams: Well, it's great to have you here today. We're really excited to talk with you. Let's give the audience a little bit of background information. Tell us a little bit about you and what you've been doing for, well, your life, and what you're doing online. Wally C.: Yeah, absolutely. So I grew up in a trailer behind another man's house. We didn't even have the money for a trailer park. Pretty rough lifestyle. I won't get into all of that, but that led to me just realizing I can't live like this my entire life. A lot of bad things, drugs, alcohol, fighting, all kind of stuff, and my uncle came home one year from leave. He was in the army, and I dropped out of college because I run out of money for school, for college. He said, "Join the military. You'll get some education along the way and travel the world." Basically, I said a few words. I said, "That's not happening. That's not my dream." Wally C.: I had no desire to do that. Well, after working two full-time jobs and realized it ain't working. It's just time to do, so I walked into the recruiter's office, signed up as a combat medic, and traveled the world. Did 25 years, retired about, goodness, time is passing so fast. About four years ago now, maybe, and retired in Hawaii. We had been there about ten years, and my entire life, even as a young man, I've always been entrepreneurial. I've always wanted, just like everybody else, I've been that man. I say I've been ungratefully chasing a six and seven figure income for the wrong reason. Wally C.: One day, I'm sitting on the gazebo right there from where you and I were texting that one point Shane. It's Saturday morning. My son's playing in the water, and he said, "Dad, dad, come and play." But I'm sitting there listening to another podcast to learn how to make more money and live this best life that I dream of, and when his face changed from excitement to disappointment, it just hit me like a brick. My wife's voice always telling me, "Wally, what the hell are you chasing?" It was just loud and clear like she was standing right there, but she was still back in the house asleep. Wally C.: I took the headphones off, I set them down, and from that point on, I just decided. Here I was, sitting on the beach in Hawaii in front of my house. Had a six figure income, not a huge six figure income, but living pretty darn comfortable, and I'm wanting more. I was just so ungrateful for what I already had, so I started this whole journey of, so much more. I just decided I'm living a life of abundance. I don't know that I said those words specifically, but it just hit me, and as soon as I started being more grateful for what I had and it was a process, so much more started coming into my life. So then I just had an idea to write a book, Living Your Life of Abundance, but I didn't want it to be about my life. I wanted to do other people's lives in there as well. Wally C.: So I started the Men of Abundance podcast, and then I started getting introduced to people like you who are just living an amazing life and somehow paying it forward to the community. They all got kick in the gut moments, and that's what I'm seeing that you talk about on the show, but in a nutshell, almost 50 years worth. There you have it. That's basically where we're at, kind of where we're at today. Shane Sams: Well, we all hit, we call that the catalyst, your kick in the gut moment, right? What we've realized in almost every person's story that we come in contact with in the Flip Your Life community is there is a catalyst moment that kind of wakes them up. I hate to get into, I'm not saying "woke" like the kids do these days, but it just kind of makes you open your eyes and be like, "What am I doing? What am I really here for?" Shane Sams: Being in the entrepreneurial world, we're surrounded by a lot of really successful people and there's a lot of people that are trying to do really cool, great things. I don't ever want to discount what anyone else is doing, but you can get lost in that ego-driven shuffle of, "Am I important enough? Am I reaching seven figures, eight figures, whatever," right? Then you don't realize, oh my gosh, but then I haven't seen my kids and I missed that recital and I didn't go to that ballgame. What am I doing? I didn't go jump in the water with my kid when he wanted to swim with me because I was too busy trying to make the next dollar. Shane Sams: That's really what we talk about when we say Flipped Lifestyle. Even in entrepreneurship, you gotta be careful not to fall into the world standards of what's successful. You gotta go build your own success, and you gotta build a life that makes your kids and your spouse and your family happy, and you got that balance where you're not trading one rat race for another. Jocelyn Sams: I love what you talked about about truly being thankful and grateful for what you have. I've been doing some reading lately, and that's a big theme in a lot of the books I've been reading is just making sure that you are doing that so that you can continue to grow. I think that maybe I've kind of let that get lost along the way the last few months and I'm trying to be intentional about being in a place of thankfulness more often. So that's really cool that you- Shane Sams: It can all, because you can lose it quickly, you know what I mean? You can just lose that gratefulness and that thankful, like being in the military. You've seen all these places. You remind me of Jocelyn's dad a little bit. He was in the military and he's been to all these countries, and you and him are probably the two people I know that have been to the most places, maybe. You know what I mean? And it's like, but you can lose sight of that, and it almost, when your life becomes routine even when you've got some success, you can become unhappy in the middle of all your success if you're not careful. Wally C.: Yeah, absolutely. Yeah, I have conversations with guys all the time that are in that very situation, and we'll get into the whole business side of it, but that's how I started the business side of it. A couple of guys about eight months into my podcast started asking me, "Do you coach people in living a life of abundance?" And I was like, "No, that's not even where I planned on this going." But then a spouse contacted me and she's like, "Look, I've been listening to your show. I love the conversations you have. I love your lifestyle. I love your mindset. My husband, we make plenty of money. He makes plenty of money. He's just not here. He comes home every night, but he's just not here. He's disengaged. Will you coach him?" I'm like, oh man. He's gotta want that first, but that really got the ball rolling and my mind kind of spinning. Shane Sams: Well, let me back up for a second then. So you're entrepreneurial, but you had this career in the military. You retired, and you basically just started this podcast to have these conversations with people, and it sounds like the kind of, after you had that little catalyst moment where you saw your son's face get disappointed, it was almost more just to explore this in your own life, it sounds life. Wally C.: Exactly. Shane Sams: You started the podcast, you started talking to people, reaching out to people, and you've kind of fallen into this entrepreneurial stuff of wait a minute, this could be my second career. This could be my second income. My content has kind of moved me toward maybe having an accidental business on my hands. Wally C.: That's exactly what happened. I originally started the podcast to gather more stories for the book that I still haven't written, although I've written a book since then, but I haven't written that book. Now, as it stands at the time of this conversation, I'm 100% working from home, and I have been for a while. I've been teleworking, but now that's a done deal. So I'm focusing on that. Shane Sams: What's interesting is we were talking the other day on Facebook, because after, we've kind of developed a little online friendship since I talked on your podcast. I noticed that you have had some struggles with even turning this into a business, like charging people and is it good? Is it bad? I've seen you post some very interesting poll questions like that too, and I know that a lot of people kind of struggle with that, right? Because sometimes, you have a mission in life, and you're like, but do I charge people for my mission? Is that just going back to those old ways? What do you think about that in your journey right now? Wally C.: Yeah, that's exactly one of my biggest struggles is just that, and it's kind of evolved a little bit because of one of the coaches that I hired, quite frankly. He kind of made some sense in the whole process of, "What are you gonna charge for and should you charge?" I made the decision that quite frankly, I have to charge for much of it, but I still struggle with it. Shane Sams: Yeah, and one thing that we got over that originally was you almost owe it to people to charge people, because if they don't invest in themselves, they will not do things, right? Think about everything you get in life for free. You get a free sample or you get a little toy trinket from an arcade game or that your kids get and they throw it away in five seconds. You get the Happy Meal toy and it's lost in a week. Think about how kids interact with free things, right? Shane Sams: Almost everything like that goes away because there's no investment. People have no reminder. They have no ouch that says, man, I've got to take advantage of this so that I can do something with all this coaching or information or whatever I'm learning. I had a buddy, or Jocelyn had a friend the other day that was selling a course. What was that course about, Jocelyn? Was it about clothes or something? Jocelyn Sams: Yeah, so I bought a course from Kelly Snyder. She's actually a friend of mine, and she does a course that is called Adore Your Wardrobe. It is all about finding the type of clothing that looks the best on your body type. So I actually purchased this and it just started today, so I'm really excited about that. But yeah, I just bought that. Shane Sams: Kelly sent her a message though right after she bought it, and it was like, "Oh, I would've given that to you. Blah blah blah. You're my friend." But it's kind of like no, if she didn't pay for it, she's not gonna use the course, right? It would just be like, oh, someone gave me something for free. I'll check it out later. Jocelyn Sams: You just don't feel the urgency to actually do it. If she were to give it to me, then I'd be like, oh, well. I'll just put it off and do it later, but because I've made the investment, I'm like, okay. I need to get this done. I invested in this and I need to do the coursework. It's the same thing with us. Any time that we've ever given anyone our courses or our community, I don't know of anyone that's actually doing anything with it and actually made it work. Shane Sams: Yeah, it's never been good when we've given stuff away. It wasn't good for them, because they just didn't do it. Your story is really interesting, but I think there's something deeper underneath even that struggle, with that kind of fear. You started creating content, which is the first thing we almost tell everybody to do. Hey, look, we're gonna figure out your idea. We're gonna figure out your avatar. We're gonna figure out your product. We're gonna do those things, but why not just turn the YouTube camera on? Why not just turn the Facebook Live on? Why not start a Facebook page or a blog or something, just start throwing things out there, right? Shane Sams: You did that. You just like, ah, I'm gonna start a podcast. I'm gonna write a book. I don't know what it's gonna end up, and then these opportunities started showing up because you took action and you created things, right? Sometimes, it just takes that doing of the thing to kind of open doors for later to have a business, to have influence, to have impact on the world. Wally C.: Yeah, yeah, absolutely. Once I started doing that, initially because I was gonna have guests on, it was like maybe the first month or two was a little bit of a struggle getting guests and contacting people, then after that, I turn people away. I'm literally booked out into April, almost May. Shane Sams: Isn't that funny how that works out? Wally C.: It's crazy. Shane Sams: When I first started my first podcast, it was a football coaching podcast called The Coach XO Show, and I didn't know how I was gonna start. I didn't know who I was gonna talk to. I was just this little football coach from Kentucky. So I actually reached out to a guy I went to high school with who coached seventh grade defense. He wasn't even the head coach on the middle school team. He was the seventh grade defensive coordinator. He's like fifth in command on the middle school team, right? And I was like, but I need somebody to talk to, and he knew a lot about the 6-2 defense, and we had jammed about it at church before. So I said, "Hey, man, do you wanna be…

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    FL274 - We help Melissa take her writing business to the next level Jan 29, 2019
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    In today's episode, we help Melissa take her writing business to the next level. FULL TRANSCRIPT Jocelyn Sams: Hey y'all. On today's podcast, we help Melissa take her writing business to the next level. Shane Sams: Welcome to The Flipped Lifestyle Podcast, where life always comes before work. We're your hosts, Shane and Jocelyn Sams. We're a real family that figured out how to make our entire living online. Now, we help other families do the same. Are you ready to flip your life? All right, let's get started. Shane Sams: What's going on everybody? Welcome back to The Flipped Lifestyle Podcast. It is great to be back with you again today. Super excited to be helping another one of our amazing Flip Your Life community members take their business and their life to the next level. We are super excited today to welcome Melissa Webb to the show. Melissa, welcome to the podcast. Melissa Webb: Well, thank you so much you guys. I am so excited. This is such a big deal for me, and I can't thank you enough for having me on. Jocelyn Sams: Yeah. I have been, seriously, waiting for this podcast for weeks, because I have an amazing story to tell about Melissa. We actually have not met Melissa in real life just yet, but she did sign up for one of our coaching calls. We do a limited amount of one-on-one coaching, and Melissa had signed up to talk to me. Jocelyn Sams: This is kind of interesting because I do a lot of calls in the evening because my kid is doing gymnastics and it's in another town, and it really isn't a long enough amount of time for me to drive all the way home, so I sit in a parking lot while I wait for her. Shane Sams: Oh my gosh. This story's amazing. I forgot about this. Oh, guys, buckle up. This is the best story ever. Jocelyn Sams: This is actually my first evening call that I had done since we started doing the one-on-one calls. I thought, "Hey, I'm going to have something to do while I'm sitting here waiting. This is not the worst thing, make a little money and hang out and talk to somebody in our community." Like, "Pretty good night." Shane Sams: She does it in a parking lot because in this little, small Southeast Kentucky town, literally, the only place you can get enough Internet to make a call is in the Walmart parking lot, so that's why she's sitting in a parking lot making this call. Jocelyn Sams: This is pretty much as like Podunk, small town as it gets, okay? Shane Sams: I love it! You said, "Podunk." Jocelyn Sams: This is, okay, I just want to like also say that this is not even a Super Walmart, okay? This is like a- Shane Sams: It's an old school Walmart- Jocelyn Sams: Old school. Shane Sams: It's like 1987 Walmart is what we're talking about here. Jocelyn Sams: Yes. Okay, so I'm sitting in the parking lot and I just connected up to Melissa, who's in California, right? Melissa Webb: Yes. Jocelyn Sams: Okay. I just connected up to her in California. I go to the parking lot and I find a place to go, which is underneath a big light pole, so I think, "This is fine." Let me just say also that I have sat in this parking lot, literally, like hundreds of times, completely uneventful. Jocelyn Sams: I go and I connect up on this call to Melissa. I park in the middle of the parking lot under a big light pole. We had, seriously, been on the call maybe about 60 seconds when this, as I call it, van full of rednecks pulls up beside me. When I say beside me, I mean like within probably 50 feet. Not even that. I'd say about 20 feet from me. Jocelyn Sams: Not only was it a van full of rednecks, they have the doors, like the side doors are all open. They are yelling at someone in a pickup truck across the parking lot, and not only are they yelling at them, this crazy woman gets out with a baseball bat, a baseball bat. You cannot make this up, and starts waving it at this man in the parking lot. Shane Sams: A fight breaks out in a Walmart parking lot, led by a crazy woman with a baseball bat and it's a van full of rednecks versus a pickup truck. Jocelyn Sams: I could nearly, I could almost reach out and touch them. I'm on this call, that someone has paid for, Melissa has paid for, and I'm like, "Uh ..." I don't even know what to say. Because I'm just like, when on earth are you in this situation? It's not like anything has prepared you for this situation. Shane Sams: Yeah. Has anyone else ever had to ... You had to move your car. You had to move it. Jocelyn Sams: Yeah, so I'm like, "Uh, okay. I know this sounds really weird, but like there's these people beside me ..." Shane Sams: There's a street fight breaking out next to me, Melissa, and I got to go to the other end of the Walmart parking lot. At this point, Melissa's probably like, "Maybe I signed up for the wrong first step." Jocelyn Sams: No, listen. She was like so nice to me. She's like, "I just want you to be safe." Shane Sams: Melissa, what were you thinking when Jocelyn was like, "Hey, look a street fight just broke out between this woman with a baseball bat and a dude in a pickup truck, so could you give me five minutes-" Melissa Webb: Oh my gosh. Shane Sams: ... "and start the call?" Like what were you thinking at this point right now? Melissa Webb: I was thinking like, "Okay, I could totally write a story here." Jocelyn Sams: Exactly. Shane Sams: You couldn't make it up, because nobody could imagine something like that happening. Jocelyn Sams: No, you can't make this stuff up. Melissa Webb: Totally, so from my perspective, it was fantastic. Like I have told this story so many times because on my end, so here I was, I put down a good chunk of change to like have some valuable time, one-on-one with Jocelyn, and so she was right. Like 60 seconds in, she's asking me some questions, I'm giving her some feedback and then she's like, "Um, hang on just a second. There is a person wielding a bat next to me." Shane Sams: Wielding a bat. This is- Melissa Webb: I'm like, "Jocelyn, just call me back." Like, "Drop the phone, go. Go be safe." Like, "Go take care of yourself." She's like, "No, hang on just a second," and like I hear the phone like fly out of her hand, like probably into the passenger seat. The car's moving. Shane Sams: Oh my god. Melissa Webb: I'm just like on the line, like hanging on. Like, "Is she okay? What's going on?" All of a sudden, like I don't know, seconds go past and she comes back on, totally collected herself. She's like, "Okay, that was interesting, so that's what we were talking about." Shane Sams: Task switching at its finest right there. Jocelyn Sams: Oh my goodness, so- Shane Sams: She's also simultaneously texting a friend of hers- Jocelyn Sams: Yes. Shane Sams: ... to dial 911 to call the police because there's a fight breaking out in Walmart's parking lot. Jocelyn Sams: Yeah, because I'm on this call and I've already been like, "Hold on just a minute." I don't want to be like, "Hold on, let me call the cops." Jocelyn Sams: Being the like ever-present professional that I am, I get on my computer and I typed to my friend on text, because her uncle is like the Police Chief of this town. I'm like, "Can you please call the police and tell them to come?" The police do come. They talked to the people. No one was arrested because, I guess, no like physical ... Shane Sams: She didn't swing her bat. Jocelyn Sams: Yeah. Shane Sams: Apparently, so no. Jocelyn Sams: Yeah, and they're like, this whole thing, they're like yelling profanity. I mean, this was like, you cannot make this up. I mean, you just can't. Melissa Webb: No. Shane Sams: The moral of the story is if you want to be on the most entertaining coaching calls in the history of the world, be a part of The Flip Your Life community and you might grab one of these street fight calls with me and Jocelyn. You know what I mean? Like- Melissa Webb: Oh my gosh. It was awesome. Shane Sams: She sent me a message- Melissa Webb: I was awesome. Shane Sams: She sent me a message- Melissa Webb: It was awesome because it all ended well. Shane Sams: Yeah, no doubt. Nobody hit the ... Broke our windshield with a baseball bat to prove they could swing it. Like, the funny thing was that Jocelyn also text me. She sent me this weird text. Shane Sams: It was like, "Talking to Melissa. Just called the police on a big woman with baseball bat." I'm like, "What?" Like, how ... I didn't even know what she was talking about, so I didn't hear this story 'til later, and oh my gosh. I laughed for hours and hours and hours about that call, so ... Jocelyn Sams: Yeah, so there's never a dull moment. Shane Sams: We decided to bring you on the podcast for surviving the street fight at Walmart. Jocelyn Sams: Well, I just wanted to say that I did over-deliver for this call. We talked for a really long time because I felt really bad about this. Melissa Webb: It was the half hour session and she gave me a full hour. Shane Sams: Oh, I love it. Jocelyn Sams: Exactly. Shane Sams: See, that's how you- Jocelyn Sams: Yeah. It all turned out okay. We talked through some stuff. I think that we had a good ending, and you've actually had some successes since, so I can't wait to dive into that. Let's kind of bring this thing back around a little bit. Tell everybody a little bit about you and like your background and what you're doing online. Melissa Webb: Oh, absolutely. I do have to say I'm very happy to know that you're recording this in the safety of your own home. Shane Sams: Right, exactly. Melissa Webb: Okay, so yes. A little bit about me. As anybody might see on my Instagram profile, I am a bold believer and I am a very happy wife of pretty much the world's must supportive husband. I hear people talk about not having that. I'm so grateful I have that. I am a loving mom of three spectacular boys. Our youngest is now 15 years old. Melissa Webb: I am a very passionate teacher, especially when it comes to writing. I will geek out over course standards and things of that nature. I am the creator and owner of WriteOnWebb.com. I am a huge fan of home schooling moms everywhere, they are the unsung heroes. Jocelyn, you are joining those ranks, girl. In the spring of 2019, I'm also going to be a published children's book author, super excited for that. As of January 11th, 2019, I will be unemployed. Jocelyn Sams: Wow. Shane Sams: That's crazy. Because that's happening in like what? Three weeks? Is that what- Melissa Webb: Yes. Shane Sams: Yes, wow. Now, are you unemployed or unemployable? There's a difference there, you see what I mean? Melissa Webb: Oh, good. Shane Sams: Unemployable is like, "I'm going to go make my own money and not work for anyone else." That's like what unemployable is, correct? Melissa Webb: Yes. Shane Sams: My mom and ... Jocelyn's grandfather, I tell this story all the time. When we quit our jobs ... Like he's an old guy, worked in the coal mines. Didn't really get it, what we were doing. Right? Melissa Webb: Yeah. Shane Sams: One time, we went home and he reached over and slipped me a 20 in a handshake and he pat me on the shoulder and he goes, "I know you're not working now, son, so there's a little gas money to get home." I'm like- Jocelyn Sams: Which was so sweet. Shane Sams: It was so sweet, I was like, "Do I want to break this guy's heart?" Melissa Webb: So sweet. Shane Sams: ... Or just be like, "Thanks, papa," you know what I mean? Like I just took the money. He didn't realize I was unemployable, not unemployed. Does that make sense? Melissa Webb: I love it. Shane Sams: Awesome. Melissa Webb: I love it. It was by my choice, in fact. I've been a teacher for 26 years and I have worked for an amazing charter school, Julian Charter School in San Diego area, and love it. I'm happy to be leaving on excellent terms. Shane Sams: Awesome. Melissa Webb: I'm actually kind of switching hats. I want to be a vendor of theirs, so I can still support their home schooling families in the area of writing. It's all good, it's just I kind of feel like I want to throw up and jump for joy at the same time. Shane Sams: For sure. It's a big change. Jocelyn Sams: Yes. Shane Sams: Any big change like that is going to be, not disruptive, but just like riding a new wave. Right? Melissa Webb: Yes. Shane Sams: It's going to be scary to go out and do something different. Does your online business, this Write On Webb, it's supporting home school co-ops and home school teachers for writing, or is it bigger than that? Like what's ... Or is it a bigger, broader scope than that? Like what exactly is Write On Webb? Melissa Webb: I directly work with home schooling moms, who want to teach excellent writing but they're, honestly, they're overwhelmed. With the whole Common Core and course standards, all students are supposed to understand the difference between persuasive and expository and narrative and then understand what descriptive is, and then all of the subcategories under that. It's a lot. Melissa Webb: It's what I love to teach, and so I actually am happy to teach it, so that they can take something off their plate. They know that everything I put out for them ... I use Teachable to house all of my lessons, so I have all the videos are embedded in that. I think the biggest difference that people love about what I'm doing is that I create a community of these young writers in grades three through eight. Shane Sams: Got you. Melissa Webb: They love that. Like the kids, like I have a joke of the week every week. It's a Q&A time and we go live. It's the one thing that in a home school environment, if a family is not using co-op for things like that, then who's their audience? Melissa Webb: The child needs an audience and as great as mom is, that's a tough one. You need other children to be around and you get that in a traditional class, but when you're home schooled, it's like that missing piece, and I provide that and have so much fun doing it. Shane Sams: That's awesome. We just started home schooling about two weeks ago. Melissa Webb: I know. I'm so excited for you. Shane Sams: It's been really, really good but really, really challenging. Not hard. Like there's nothing been hard about like ... Like hard is laying bricks or building a ... You know what I mean? Melissa Webb: Yes. Shane Sams: It has been ... You got to be more intentional. You really got to control your schedule. There is a lot more responsibility feeling to it, right? Melissa Webb: Oh, yes. Shane Sams: You know what I'm saying? Writing was one of the things Jocelyn was worried about. Like getting that writing experience. Like we live in a small area. Shane Sams: There are some people working together, but it's not like in a bigger city or like a San Diego where you're going to have these co-ops, you're going to have these schools, you're going to have all these resources, so we've definitely turned toward these virtual type things for different subjects, like what you're doing. Melissa Webb: Yes. Shane Sams: There's millions of kids being home schooled. Like people don't realize how many people are actually being home schooled out there. You know? Melissa Webb: Yes. Shane Sams: This would even be good…

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    FL273 - We help Shira grow her membership site for behavior analysis professionals Jan 22, 2019
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    In today's episode, we help Shira grow her membership site for behavior analysis professionals. FULL TRANSCRIPT Jocelyn Sams: Hey, y'all. On today's podcast, we help Shira grow her membership site for behavior analysis professionals. Shane Sams: Welcome to the Flipped Lifestyle Podcast, where life always comes before work. We're your hosts, Shane and Jocelyn Sams. We're a real family that figured out how to make our entire living online. And now, we help other families do the same. Are you ready to flip your life? All right. Let's get started. What's going on, everybody? Welcome back to the Flipped Lifestyle Podcast. It is great to be back with you again today. Super excited to bring on another member of the Flip Your Life community. And we have a huge success story to share with you guys today. We are super excited to welcome Shira Karpel to the show today. How you doing, Shira? Shira Karpel: Hi, guys. I'm good. Thanks for having me. Shane Sams: Shira told me to pronounce her name just like the Masters of the Universe Shira from our childhoods. So I tried to do that as best as I could. Jocelyn Sams: From, as our children say, the 19's. Shane Sams: From the 19's. Back in the 19's. Jocelyn Sams: One time they said to us, you were alive in the 19's? Shane Sams: Isaac asked me the other day, he said something like hey, Dad, how old were you when they invented electronics? Shira Karpel: That's hysterical. Shane Sams: That's hysterical. Jocelyn Sams: Okay. Well, we're happy to have you today. We're really excited about your story. You had written into us not too long ago to let us know that you have been a part of our community for a while, and you've been using our resources to grow a membership site for behavior analysts. Is that correct? And so what I want you to do is tell us a little bit about that. How did you get started in this? What's your background, and what is your business? Shira Karpel: So behavior analysis is the science of behavior, and it's looking at how the impact of the environment affects behavior. There's so many applications to ABA, which applied behavior analysis. The most common application is with kids who have autism, who might be getting 20 to 40 hours a week of ABA therapy, and that's an intensive application of ABA. So I would say that's the most common application of ABA. I got into ABA, I have a masters in education. And then I went on to get a board certification, which is another degree on top of that. So I'm BCBA certified. And I've been training and practicing ABA here where I live. And as a BCBA, that means that we assess children who might need either behavior therapy or ABA therapy. Either that's because they have autism, or they just might need some help managing their behavior, either in a classroom or at home. Shira Karpel: So we do the assessment. We would do supervision, and then we would very often put a team in place who carries out programs that come from us. So we would create the programs that are individualized for the student. And then there would be a therapist who's there daily carrying out the programs. And everything we do is data driven. So she'll be taking data and recording data, and then we'll review the data to make changes and updates to the program. Shira Karpel: So that's what I've been doing as a career. And then we got to the point where unfortunately, there's a huge need for ABA therapists and BCBA's because of the need for children who have autism and other difficulties. But we found that there was only so much time in the day, and even if we would hire more therapists and have more staff, the amount of work that would take of us to scale just wasn't going to be worthwhile. We don't like charging families an extra amount of money so that we get a cut of what the therapists are doing. It just doesn't seem right to want to scale in that direction. And then I kind of came across this concept of online business through another therapist's website that enlightened me into this idea. I never thought that my field could actually do something like that. And started the website maybe about a year and a half ago. Our website is howtoaba.com. And that's where our blog lives. Shira Karpel: And the blog is geared towards training other AB professionals, just giving them good tips. We also share a ton of free resources. So every blog has its own unique opt-in. So there might be, for a blog that's talking about one topic, we create an opt-in for that topic specifically to help them. Shane Sams: Super smart. Shira Karpel: Either a data sheet or a resource or a worksheet or something that's very specific so they opt in to that. So we get a lot of good traffic on our free resources page. So we've been doing that blog. And then we also found that a lot of professionals, because of the way of getting into the field, a lot of it is hands on training. So there are courses that you take, but a lot of it is just exposure in the field, and a lot of people feel untrained or unprepared or really just thrown in without being totally prepared. Shira Karpel: So we found that sharing our resources was something we wanted to do to the greater community so that people can come together and help each other and feel more prepared once they are working with a kid, because you often are on your own. You don't really have another support system where you're working. So then we started a membership about a year ago. And the membership is called the Behavior Resource. Beyond the free resources that we offer on our blog, we actually offer the real programs that we use in programming for the children. We share that with all of our members. So they're able to download if they're teaching a topic with a student. They could just download that program, and it has everything you need, the data sheet, the explanation, all the criteria that we're required to have on a program description. Shira Karpel: And we also offer monthly continuing education webinars, so we are certified through the international board to provide continuing education units. Shane Sams: Love it. Shira Karpel: So we do that once a month. Currently, we're only able to provide them for people who attend lives because of just the requirement. We're hoping to get to the point where we can create quizzes for each one, and be able to know if people watch them. But maybe that's like a software thing we want to look into. I'm not really sure how to do that. Because we do store the recordings in the resource, and people watch the recordings, but they can't the continuing education for that. And I know that that would be a big attraction if people could get the units for the recordings. Shane Sams: So how much is the membership? How much do they pay per month? Shira Karpel: So we have three options. For $12 a month, you get access to all the downloads, like the program descriptions, the graphs, data sheets, anything like that. For $19 a month, you get all of that plus any recorded video or live video. And then we have a yearly, which is 199. Shane Sams: And how many members do you have right now? Shira Karpel: We have 87 plus 48, whatever that is. Shane Sams: So you have over 100. Shira Karpel: Our current members. Jocelyn Sams: So like in each category, yeah. Shira Karpel: Yeah. In total, we service 178 have come in and out the door. Shane Sams: Awesome. Shira Karpel: We have a high retention rate. Not a lot of people cancel. Shane Sams: That's amazing. Shira Karpel: Yeah. We have almost 140 current. Jocelyn Sams: So let's kind of back up just a little bit. You do have a business partner, right? Shira Karpel: Right. Jocelyn Sams: Okay. Now, is this someone that you have worked with in the past? What's your relationship with your business partner? Shira Karpel: Right. So when I got into the field, she was really the one who trained me. We kind of worked together for about six to eight years, building our Toronto business. And a lot of the resources, she's trained me on, or she's created, or we've created together. And so when I came up with this idea, I thought she would continue to do that and offer more of the mentorship in the community, and I would do a lot of the marketing and settings things up from a technical perspective. Shane Sams: That's amazing. So this thing is really young then. You just launched it this year, correct? Shira Karpel: A year ago. Shane Sams: And then when you were blogging, did you start blogging with the idea of an online membership or an online business, or was it basically like okay, let's just blog and then let it grow. What brought you to Flipped Lifestyle? Did you try something before that? How did you end up in the Flip Your Life community? Shira Karpel: The Toronto business had a blog, and that was more to drum up local business. Shane Sams: Yeah. Shira Karpel: And it was around for a long time, so it did get a lot of good hits. So I started on that blog, and then when this became its own entity, we decided to give it a new name and move the blog over. So already then, we had the intention of starting the blog with the plans for something. I really struggled with how to turn this into a business, because I don't feel like ... I tried some other online resources and how to sell online and all that stuff, and a lot of what people said was you have to give people a solution to their problem. And I didn't feel like I could bring people from A to Z and say I'm solving your problem now. You can leave. I didn't feel like I could sell them a course, and at the end of the course, they would have a solution to their problem. Shira Karpel: So I had tried that before I came to you guys, and I offered ... I launched a webinar, and I offered, I think, a four to six week course, and we're going to take you through ... I don't even know what it was. But I didn't feel good about it, because I didn't feel like I gave them the solution. Because at the end of the day, they're still in the same job. They're still in the same profession. They still have the same struggles, and they just need more resources. So then I kind of came across you guys, and I felt like what you offered in terms of the membership solution was really a great solution for me. I also like the idea of ... I feel like I'm providing a lot more value than even the $19. I do feel good about what they're paying for it. I don't feel like I'm ripping anyone off. I don't feel like they're paying too much for what they're getting. I feel like it's something I would have paid a lot of money for. Shira Karpel: So when I found you guys, and you kind of pushed me to do this community idea, I just feel good about it, and it seems to be working. Shane Sams: How many ABA professionals are out there? Do you know that number? Jocelyn Sams: Is this something that's mostly a Canadian thing? Is it an international thing and pardon my ignorance on this, I just don't know anything. Shira Karpel: It's an international thing. The board is located in the United States in Florida, and it's becoming a lot more common. There's lots. I don't even want to guess the number, but I would say hundreds per year. Shane Sams: But this has greater reach, too, right? Anyone it seems like in special ed could use resources like this like in schools, like teachers. For example, like what you're saying about the programming sounds very similar to what elementary school special education teachers use for their behavior problems. Shira Karpel: Right. Shane Sams: Not behavior problems, but behavior therapy, right? This has reach that trickles down through the professional into the school system and these resources can even be deployed through other people under the supervision of someone, like an ABA professional, basically, right? Shira Karpel: Yeah, for sure. And the other thing is like in countries where they may not have access to a BCA or an ABA professional, there's a huge need to access good resources, because there's countries in Europe and Asia and everywhere. We're actually getting a lot of those where they don't have someone who's able to provide that supervision. Shane Sams: Okay. First of all, congratulations. You sent me an email a little while ago, and I read it, and I read it to Jocelyn out loud when you sent us the email because you said something very interesting. You've been in the community for a while. You're not super active in the forums or anything like that, but you're there. You're listening. You're taking action. You're going forward. And you've built this amazing business. This is amazing. This is just the foundation of what could easily become 1,000, 2,000 person membership that you're serving one to many. And you're really throwing your pebble in the pond and causing a massive ripple because you're training the professionals that train other people that help all these kids. Shane Sams: So if every one of those people reaches 100 kids, like oh my gosh, what is the impact of this business? And it's not like a course where you're just like watch the course and move on, you're like literally helping them throughout their whole struggles, throughout their journey. You've kind of opened the door and asked questions, which is what we do. That's our job. Shane Sams: We realize this, too. You can't just solve someone's problem with a course. What you really can do is solve someone's next step. But you have to have a dialogue back and forth to know that person's next step, and that's kind of what you've done here is you've created this bank of resources, which is basically a bank of next steps. You've opened the door for communication so people can clarify next steps. And you've created this thing that could just go out there and help as many people as possible. This is a world changing business you guys have created on top of the fact that you've successfully created financial gain from it. And that's what it's all about. That is exactly what my business is all about. Shira Karpel: Right. When I first came into the community, I was really struggling with whether I should create this resource for parents or for professionals, because I felt like parents also need some sort of support and help and all of that, but professionals, you know, there's that attraction of helping so many more people. And on one of our first calls, I think you, Shane, encouraged me to start with the professionals, and you said just do it. Do it for three months, and then reassess. And we had members. So I just kept going. Shane Sams: That's how it works. Shira Karpel: And I like the idea that we can affect so many more people. Shane Sams: I love how you said that because my brother and I were actually ... my brother lives in Cincinnati, and I'm down in southeast Kentucky. The only way we ever talk is we play Xbox together a couple nights a week. Jocelyn Sams: Nerd alert. Shane Sams: Yeah, Jocelyn, she just called me a nerd. You didn't hear that. But anyway, we were talking and hanging out, and I was talking the other day, he was like how many people listen to your podcast, how many people do your stuff, how many people listen to your lesson plans and all that stuff. And I got to thinking about my US history site. I got to thinking about Jocelyn's elementary librarian site, and we were trying to do the math of all the people that had read our articles or listened to our podcast. It's insane…

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    FL272 - We help Rocio transition her freelance business into an online business Jan 15, 2019
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    In today's episode, we help Rocio transition her freelance business into an online business. FULL TRANSCRIPT Jocelyn Sams: Hey, y'all. On today's podcast we help Rocio transition her freelance business into an online business. Shane Sams: Welcome to the Flipped Lifestyle Podcast, where life always comes before work. We're your hosts, Shane and Jocelyn Sams. We're a real family that figured out how to make our entire living online. Now we help other families do the same. Are you ready to flip your life? All right, let's get started. Shane Sams: What's going on everybody? Welcome back to the Flipped Lifestyle Podcast. It is great to be back with you again today. Super excited to have another member of the Flip Your Life Community on today's show, and we love shows like this because it's someone we have actually met in person. We're going to be celebrating a little bit of a success story today too, so let's welcome to the Flipped Lifestyle Podcast Rocio Baeza. Rocio, welcome to the show. Rocio Baeza: Hey, guys. Thanks for having me. Shane Sams: We practiced. We've had a lot of hard names lately on the podcast, and we had to practice this one for a little while. Jocelyn Sams: I know, which is actually really cool because that means that our audience is from all different places. Shane Sams: Everywhere. That's right. Jocelyn Sams: They are of all different nationalities, and we love that. We think that is amazing. We had to figure out how to say this name because, poor Shane, I mean he especially butchers this kind of thing. Shane Sams: I'm pretty much going with ... You say it. Say it out loud. Say it yourself. Rocio Baeza: Rocio Baeza. Like you said, Shane, like rodeo but with an S. Shane Sams: Rodeo. Yes, exactly. It's so much more beautiful when you say it. Jocelyn Sams: Yes. There you go. Shane Sams: When I say it, it sounds like some butchered redneck with a bunch of rocks in his mouth. You know what? It is what it is, and that's how we're going to go with it. Jocelyn Sams: Okay. We need to know a little bit about this name and where you come from, so tell us a little bit about you, your background and what you've been doing so far in your day job and online. Rocio Baeza: Sure. A little bit about myself, so I'm based in Chicago, and I am a wife, a mom of two. My professional background is in the cybersecurity space. For the last year I've been doing freelance work, so basically picking a project with tech companies where I help them figure out, all right, what do they have to do around security to protect the information that they have, and also, how do they get started and what are all the steps that they have to do in order to put together a cybersecurity program. Shane Sams: You also do some compliance with the GDPR stuff? Rocio Baeza: Yes. Shane Sams: You do that too? Rocio Baeza: Yes. Shane Sams: What do you do in that, just make sure that they know what they're supposed to be doing with their data to be compliant with the European laws? Rocio Baeza: Yes. A lot of the cybersecurity work, my experience has been that it's usually driven by compliance, so an organization has to comply with a specific law or regulation, think HIPAA, think GDPR. I've focused work around GDPR since it's the acronym that we've all heard since May, and it's something that I realize that organizations are going to need help in the area. Since this is just released, I figured it would be a good way to more or less ride that wave. Shane Sams: Sure. Yeah. It is so new. I was reading an article just the other day actually where all this stuff with Facebook especially where our data has been compromised, and they're just hammering them. I would not doubt that America's about to pass something like GDPR because Facebook has been so hammered. I was watching a tech company CEO the other day. I think it was Salesforce's CEO, and he came out and said, "It's over. We've got to do something like GDPR based on this last thing that happened with Facebook." Shane Sams: This privacy, handling people's data, all that stuff is going to be a really big deal going forward in the future, and you've done the right thing. You've jumped on what's on top of mind, and that's really, really important. Jocelyn Sams: Yeah, I love that. I want to go back just a second to we were talking about before the podcast, you said that your family's originally from Mexico, right? Rocio Baeza: Yep. Jocelyn Sams: Did they move here before you were born? Rocio Baeza: Yes. Jocelyn Sams: Okay. Shane Sams: You moved to California? Is that where you're from originally? Rocio Baeza: Yeah. I was born in California, but I was raised in Chicago. Shane Sams: Got you. Jocelyn Sams: Okay. I love that. I think honestly being bilingual could be an unfair advantage for you as we move forward. Shane Sams: Oh, yeah. Jocelyn Sams: I've talked to people about this in the past, and there are a lot of Spanish-speaking people in the United States. Shane Sams: Spanish business owners who might need some of this. If you're not focusing a little bit on that, that might be a good little angle to pick up extra people as we build out more passive income streams and freelance streams and things like that. Rocio Baeza: Yeah. I never connected the two dots there, so yeah, it's something for me to consider. Jocelyn Sams: Yeah, for sure. Shane Sams: What is it, Hispanics are like, what, 30 million people in the United States? Jocelyn Sams: I don't know. Shane Sams: Or something like that. Jocelyn Sams: It's crazy. Shane Sams: I'm not sure if that's the right number. Someone's going to send me a hate mail on that one, but I'm positive that there are hundreds of thousands of Spanish-speaking business owners who do not even realize they're not GDPR compliant, would you say? Rocio Baeza: Yes. Shane Sams: Now, did you do anything before you freelanced? That's what's really interesting to me. Did you work in corporate? Rocio Baeza: Yeah. Shane Sams: How did you get into freelance? Because freelancing is a kind of flipped lifestyle. We always talk about online business. Jocelyn and I love online business, but we help all kinds of people create online businesses and freelancing and being a virtual assistant and just doing other things using the internet that's not selling courses. How did you get into freelancing exactly? Rocio Baeza: Yeah. I got into freelance when I got laid off about a year ago. Let me walk you through how I got there. Coming out of school, I entered the corporate world. I was basically doing IT work, product management work for about seven years. It was during that time that I got involved with helping with security audits, and that's something that I just fell into. My manager at the time, he needed some help with that. It's something that was new for me, and I said yes. Rocio Baeza: Through that process, my company at the time decided to invest more in the data security space. They brought in an experienced person, and she basically became my mentor. She mentored me. She showed me the ropes in the cybersecurity space. Once I felt that I had reached the ceiling at that particular organization, I entered the consulting space. After being seven years working in the corporate world, I transitioned over to working for a consulting firm, a local consulting firm here in Chicago where I was basically helping other organizations with very specific cybersecurity projects. Rocio Baeza: I did that for two years, and we reached a point where the sales pipeline dried up. I found myself being at a crossroads where I was laid off on a day, and I did not see it coming. I did not have a backup plan. Shane Sams: Wow. Rocio Baeza: I realized hey, I could either scramble and try to get another job at a company. Luckily for me, the job market in the cybersecurity space is very good, so I didn't have concerns that I would be able to get a job after being laid off, but I also realized that hey, I could try to do something on my own. Rocio Baeza: My manager at the consulting firm, he allowed me to see everything that happened behind the scenes with sales, how do you win a client, how do you build relationships, how do you structure a project. It was these baby steps that I said, "All right, let me take the courage to see if I can do this on my own. I think that I can, and if I can't, then I'll just find a job." Shane Sams: Amazing. Rocio Baeza: Yeah. That's how I made it to the freelance space. Jocelyn Sams: Yeah. I love that. Shane Sams: Wow. Jocelyn Sams: May I just say that if I had lived in a city when I first got out of school, your job would pretty much have been my dream job because, I don't know, I love everything, like technology and IT. When I was in college, that's really what I wanted to do. I started out in computer programming. I know that many people who listen to the podcast probably would totally get this because I'm a bit of a nerd, but I mean, I just love that kind of stuff. Shane Sams: Jocelyn used to work at a computer lab when we first started dating, and I was like, "You work at a computer lab? What do you do?" She's like, "Oh, yeah. I help people check their email and all this stuff." Jocelyn when I first met her worked two jobs. She worked at Toys"R"Us and in the computer lab. She put together bicycles, believe it or not. Jocelyn Sams: Really did. Shane Sams: She would go to school during the day, put bikes together in the afternoon, and work in the computer labs at night. Needless to say, we didn't have a lot of time to go out on dates and stuff, so sometimes I would go pick her up from Toys"R"Us, and we would go sit in the computer lab. She would sit at her little desk, and I would just sit at a computer over beside her. That's how our romance bloomed. Jocelyn Sams: Yeah. Rocio Baeza: Nice. Shane Sams: In the dimly lit, musty computer lab of the engineering building at UK. Jocelyn Sams: Actually, it was the chemistry and physics building. Shane Sams: Chemistry and physics, that's right. Jocelyn Sams: But we were way before our time, I just want to say, because we used to chat on Instant Messenger. What was it called, the one that we used? Shane Sams: We used, it was the MSN one. Wait, no, maybe it was AOL Instant Messenger. Jocelyn Sams: I can't even remember. Shane Sams: No. It was MSN. It was the one that used Hotmail. I'm pretty sure. Jocelyn Sams: Yeah. I can't even remember what it was called, but like ICQ maybe? Shane Sams: It was ICQ. That's what it was, ICQ. Jocelyn was ... Jocelyn Sams: We're dating ourselves now. Shane Sams: Yeah, I know, right. People are going to be like, "What are these people talking about? They don't even know how to use modern computers." Jocelyn lived on the third floor in our dorm, and I lived on the second, and we would talk, like instant messaging on ICQ. Jocelyn Sams: But we were way before our time, I'm just saying. Shane Sams: Way before our time. Jocelyn Sams: Nobody else was doing this. Shane Sams: I remember one day we did this for weeks when we first started dating, and we would just sit there and talk back and forth for an hour or two hours at a time. Finally, it was just like, "You know we're in the same building, right?" Literally, we're 100 feet from each other. But now it's funny because we text each other in our house. I'll be in the living room, and Jocelyn will be in the bedroom, and I'll be like, "What are you doing?" She'll be like, "I'm reading a book. What are you doing?" "Making the kids some Cheerios." Jocelyn Sams: No. I actually like talking via text because you don't argue as much. You can't talk over each other, so it works really well actually. Shane Sams: It removes the emotions from everything. Jocelyn Sams: Yeah. It really does. Yeah, that was, as my kids say, back in the 19s. Shane Sams: Back in the 19s, turn of the century. Anyway, let's get back on track. Jocelyn Sams: We'll get back to the 2000s, okay. Rocio Baeza: Okay. Shane Sams: Okay. First, that's amazing that you had the courage to do that, and I love the mentality of hey, if it doesn't work, I'll just go back and do what I was doing before. That's exactly the conversation that Jocelyn and I had when we quit our jobs. We're like, "Look, worst case scenario, we go teach again." Kudos for you for even having the courage to go freelance and flip your life in that way. Shane Sams: Now as you've joined the Flip Your Life Community and you've gotten into the Flip Your Life Community, it's more about building a passive version of this, correct? That was your goal was to build some kind of courses or DIY or a membership community based on where local businesses or small businesses could do this without a consultant. Is that what you're doing now? Rocio Baeza: Yes. I think it's important to say that in the freelance space, so you don't really know when your projects are going to trickle in. You might have a sense depending on how active you are with sales, but at the end of the day the timelines are being controlled by the client- Shane Sams: Got you. Rocio Baeza: ... and by the urgency of the client. With building an online business, I want to smooth out those edges so that I had more predictability as to how much I was going to be able to bring in. Shane Sams: Yes. That's why when Jocelyn and I started Flipped Lifestyle and we started teaching online business, we have focused so much on recurring revenue. We get actually knocked for that quite a bit. We get messages all the time like, "Why do you talk about recurring revenue so much? Why do you talk about membership so much?" Shane Sams: It's not just selling digital products. It's even in freelance services, having a steady, consistent monthly fee from somebody. Because if you can't predict your income, you don't really have a steady income. You're making money. You're working, but you can't look ahead and say, "Well, I know my rent's going to be paid next month. I know I can invest in more ads. I know I can invest some time into sales processes," because you can't look ahead and say ... You don't know month to month what you're making. That's why it's so important to create that stable, predictable income. What is your domain name right now? Rocio Baeza: Yes. The online business is GDPRStandUp.com. Shane Sams: Okay. GDPRStandUp.com. Now, you started working on this, I think, maybe about, let's say, six months ago, give or take. You started building the site in the community, putting things together, getting everything outlined. Then you came to Flip Your Life Live, but you did not have this thing launched before Flip Your Life Live, right? Rocio Baeza: I had a website, but I did not have a virtual community that I can open the doors to. Right. Shane Sams: What made you want to come to our live event? What was important for you to be there for that event for the launching and the next steps in your business? Rocio Baeza: Really, I just wanted to be around people that had a similar goal and a similar mindset as I do. I thought that it would be fun going out to an event where I'm looking to educate myself, motivate myself. Just from the way that you guys would describe the event, it sounded like it was going to be very different than the conferences that I would go to back in the corporate days where you basically, you fly into a…

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    FL271 - We help Kahkshan choose a direction for her online business Jan 08, 2019
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    In today's episode, we help Kahkshan choose a direction for her online business. FULL TRANSCRIPT Jocelyn Sams: Hey y'all, on today's podcast we help Kahkshan choose a direction for her online business. Shane Sams: Welcome to the Flipped Lifestyle podcast, where life always comes before work. We're your hosts, Shane and Jocelyn Sams. We're a real family that figured out how to make our entire living online. Now, we help other families do the same. Are you ready to flip your life? All right, let's get started. Shane Sams: What's going on, everybody? Welcome back to the Flipped Lifestyle podcast. It is great to be back with you again, today. We are super excited to welcome another member of the Flip Your Life community on to the show, and we're talking to someone literally on the other side of the planet today. So let's welcome Kahkshan Ali from Saudi Arabia. How you doin'? Kahkshan Ali: Fine, thanks. Great to be here. Thanks so much, Shane, Jocelyn. Shane Sams: We worked about 30 minutes on pronouncing your name. Even though, we've talked forever. You're so good to me when we talk on coaching calls, 'cause you just let me butcher your name 'cause I'm from Kentucky and I can't speak. Kahkshan Ali: Yeah, no, it's fine. You guys actually said it very well, so thank you, I appreciate that. Jocelyn Sams: Okay, awesome! We love talking to people in our international community. We have people from all over the world, and we love to travel, we love other cultures. We're fascinated by them, so we just love talking to you every single time, and we can't wait to dive in here with you today. Kahkshan Ali: Great! Me too. Jocelyn Sams: All right, let's jump in and talk a little bit about you. Tell us about you, your background, and what you're doing so far online. Kahkshan Ali: Okay. Well, I'm actually a dentist, and I was really interested in doing something online for a couple of reasons. I know there's a lot of information available on the internet, but I felt that trying to come up with a course for moms and parents with young kids. Having something all in one place with some fun videos and some things that are a little bit more interactive. I wanted to try and do something like that just to be able to educate and help people, because I get questions anytime I go to like a dinner party, "Oh, you're a dentist. Oh, do you mind?" So it's like, "Okay." Kahkshan Ali: So I thought it'd be nice to maybe try and provide some valuable information online. Which, is where everyone is going nowadays. Shane Sams: So this is basically, this is a career offshoot type path that you've started with. So there's multiple paths that people start with online business. Some people, they go really into the passion. Some people, they go really into the hobby. Some people, they go into entertainment, but a lot of people, this is how we started out, we looked at our work. 'Cause it was where we knew the most information about a topic, period, when we started. I was a football coach. Jocelyn was a librarian. It was just a natural way to say, "Hey, I know this. I'm trained in this. I can create content fast, and I can try this out." Shane Sams: Probably in the dentist office, just like it is when we go anywhere in a business setting, when people find out what you do they think that you have all the answers. Then they always ask you the same questions. I would guess you were getting the same questions from every parent and every kid, and you're like, "Man, I could totally make a course about this, and tell everybody what to do with their kids and their dental hygiene", right? Kahkshan Ali: Right, exactly. Yeah, the same thing. I thought to start off it would be easier and, as you said, faster. Just because this is my field of expertise. I've been a dentist for 25 years now. So I thought this would be a good place to start, and then could move on after I did this to see what else I can maybe try. 'Cause I do have other hobbies, and other passions and things. I do love dentistry, but then the future, there's so many other things that there's so many other possibilities when you're doing online digital courses and stuff. Jocelyn Sams: Absolutely. I want to go back just a little bit further, because people who are listening to this might be thinking, "Okay, well, she doesn't sound like she lives in Asia." So you have a very American accent, so tell us a little bit about that. How did you get to where you are now? Where all have you traveled and lived in the world? Shane Sams: How long have you been in Saudi Arabia too? Kahkshan Ali: Well, I've actually been working here for 20 years, but my family, we've been living here for about 43 years. So we've moved here when I was in fourth grade. My dad got a job. He actually had two options. We were in the states, so that's why I have the American accent, 'cause we actually moved from America here.- Shane Sams: Since you were four, right? Kahkshan Ali: So we lived in the Midwest. Shane Sams: You were in fourth grade, right? When you moved from here? Kahkshan Ali: No, actually I was born in Pakistan, and we moved to the states when I was three and my dad was getting his training. He was an otologist, so he was doing all his residencies and stuff. So we lived in Illinois for three years, Massachusetts for a year, Buffalo, New York for a year. Then when my dad was done with his training he got a job offer in either Louisville, Kentucky, believe it or not, or Saudi Arabia. I actually wanted to move to Kentucky, because I wanted horses. My dad's like, "Well, if we move to Kentucky, you can maybe have a horse." I'm like, "Oh yeah!" Kahkshan Ali: We were just planning to move here just for two years, just to kind of try it out, and also be able to travel and see other places and stuff. My parents ended up ... We liked it, and we've been here now 43 years. So I've been going back and forth between the states for all my training and education, and stuff like that. I actually have been living and working for the last 20 years here. Shane Sams: Wow, what an amazing life experience to be able to bounce all over the world like that. I remember when we first met you and you first joined the community, and every time you would post, or we would leave a message, or we would talk on a call, it would be like, "Where are you now?" 'Cause you were just like bouncing back and forth from the United States over to there. You were traveling so much for trainings and conferences,- Kahkshan Ali: Oh, that's right. That's right. Shane Sams: ... and other stuff, I never knew where you were. I just assumed we were talking in an airplane in transit somewhere, basically. Let me ask you this. We're gonna go some different directions later in the podcast. You did pick this direction, and you said something very interesting, 'cause you wanted to go in and just start doin' something, and figuring it out. So many people won't do that, because they want to pick the perfect idea, but what have you learned since you just got started? Shane Sams: You started with the dental thing, you wanted to go, there's other things you might go into. You might push this a little more down different directions, but how has it been a benefit for you to just get started even though this wasn't your quote/unquote home run, final idea you may ever do? Kahkshan Ali: Well, what's been so great is that you guys have so much information available on your website and everything. So that was one of the things that's really been helping, because as you said, I'm thinking to do other stuff later, and partly maybe even do some coaching. You can use all of the material and everything really for anything. Once you get all the tech stuff out of the way, and how to setup and do one course, then you can just do other courses even if they're in different subjects, or something. Kahkshan Ali: So to me, that's what's been so beneficial, because even though I was starting off trying to figure out what I wanted to do, now I've just realized that for someone like myself, some people already know exactly what they want to do. They want to stick with it, they've got their business, but for someone like myself, who really was still trying to figure things out, this has been so helpful- Shane Sams: Just to start and basically figure out all- Kahkshan Ali: ... just to start, exactly. Yeah, exactly. Shane Sams: ... the tech, and all the courses. 'Cause the building blocks are the same. It doesn't matter what you're doing online. You're gonna create a video, you're gonna create a handout that goes with the video. Once you know how to do that, it might take you a few months the first time, but then it takes you a month the second time, right? Kahkshan Ali: Exactly, and you guys have everything. You've got how to do an ebook. How to, as you said, the funnels. How to do WordPress. Everything is here in one place. Which is amazing, because before I was trying to find things all over, and it was getting really frustrating. So when I came across Flip Your Lifestyle, I'm like, "Oh my gosh! It's all here in one spot!" It was awesome. I was like, "Yes! Finally!" It's such a timesaver. Shane Sams: How did you come across? There's a little delay to you guys in the podcast today, 'cause we're so far apart. So we may talk over each other a little bit. We'll try edit it out, but that's okay. How did you find us? Just listen in on another interview, or in an article, or like ...? Kahkshan Ali: It was an article I was doing on Google search. I don't even remember what words I had typed in. Something came up about 'Oh, there's these two teachers'. I think there was a couple articles in some of the news. I was reading the article, and it said, "Oh, Shane and Jocelyn. They've been doing this for ... And they were two teachers, they've quit their jobs, they're doing really well financially, and their lives have totally changed." I thought, "Oh, wow! That's really great. That's the great success story." It wasn't just one article, there was several places, 'cause you don't wanna be ... Kahkshan Ali: Obviously there's so much out there, and you're like, "Oh, is that really true? Is it something that's gonna work for me? Is it just working for them?" And that kind of thing. There was multiple places where I was finding information about you guys, and I'm like, "Okay, so this sounds good." Then when I went to the website and I saw it, I'm like, "Ah, okay. This is the real deal." Shane Sams: It's amazing to me that we live in a world ... I'm actually preparing a talk for something I plan on speaking at next year, and it's about rural opportunities; because in Kentucky, and in a lot of rural places around the world really, the world is changing so fast, a lot of old legacy industries like coal, and fossil fuels, even just factory based things, a lot of things are changing and leaving, and being replaced by robotics and all of this stuff. There's a really big void. People don't understand that there's, or that people don't see opportunity because all the old ways are changing, right? Shane Sams: One of the things that we're talking about lately is, guys, we live in literally the most remote place in Kentucky. We're surrounded right now by a forest and mountain. I'm looking out my window, I don't see other buildings. We are as rural as it gets, right? We have this ability to create, right here, we're connected to the internet, and reach out and someone on the other side of the planet in Saudi Arabia, can find us, connect with us, and work with us. The same thing where you are, you are in another country, but you literally could have a thousand clients in America, and it could all be done from your living room. Shane Sams: It's just amazing that we live in a place where you can find each other, we can connect with each other. You can research and make sure each person is legit, right? Kahkshan Ali: I know, exactly. Shane Sams: All that opportunity is just out there if people would just take it. Kahkshan Ali: Well, I think that's what I also really liked was like in the beginning when you're doing the blueprint that you guys offer, what I loved was that the first thing you did was having the big goals, and dream bold dreams. You really have to have that right mindset, and start taking that action. You have to go through that step first. It's really easy to kind of poo-poo, and be like, "Oh well, you know, do I really need to do that? I'll just move on. I'm gonna just move on to the tech stuff. Let me just ..." Kahkshan Ali: So I really like the fact that you had that as the first part of the blueprint. I thought that was so helpful to write everything down. It really gives you that clarity of what you really want to do. Shane Sams: You can't hit what you don't aim at, right? Kahkshan Ali: Yeah. Yeah, exactly. Shane Sams: So you gotta aim first, basically. Jocelyn Sams: Yup. You gotta know your destination before you can decide on the journey to get there, and I think a lot to times, like you said, people skip over that step and it's so critical. Let's talk a little bit about that. Let's dive in to what you want. What is your ultimate goal with starting this business? Shane Sams: Because you are a dentist, you've had a great career. You're within a great career, right? Kahkshan Ali: Mm-hmm (affirmative) Shane Sams: So by any stretch of the imagination, or anyone looking outside in, professionally you're successful. What makes you want this to be your next step, and where do you want it to go? What is your destination? Kahkshan Ali: I'm actually planning on leaving dentistry in about a year and a half. The reason being, it's been a great career, I've really enjoyed it, but I've been working in a hospital as an employee. Which is great, but I've got an eight year old daughter, I feel like she's really missing out on mom spending more time with her. She's really saying it, and things like that. So to have that freedom, to be self-employed, to be able to spend more time, and to be able to work from anywhere in the world, that's what I was looking for. I thought, "What can I do that gives me that capability?" Kahkshan Ali: That's the reason that I'm actually trying to get courses and other things, to try and make a passive income eventually. So that's my primary goal when I joined Flip Your Lifestyle, was to figure out how to do it, get all the steps, and then hopefully make that a success. My daughter, like your son, I think you were saying, she enjoys ... She's like, "Come on, let's do some YouTube videos, mom." So she enjoys that kind of interaction and doing that stuff with me, and I thought, "Well, that's really nice that's something we can do together also." So building on that. I thought, "Why not?" Kahkshan Ali: So that's what I'm planning to do, right now, as I said, to do the dentistry. First of all because I do want to give something back to people, and just I know that there's a lot of sometimes misinformation, or people just don't really know where to find it. Just like that's what I liked about your website was every…

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    FL270 - 2018 The Good, The Bad, & The Future Part II Jan 04, 2019
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    In today's episode, S&J resume their recap of 2018, the good, the bad, and the future. FULL TRANSCRIPT Jocelyn Sams: Hey y'all, on today's podcast we recap 2018, the good, the bad, and the future. Shane Sams: Welcome to the Flipped Lifestyle podcast, where life always comes before work. We're your hosts Shane and Jocelyn Sams. We're a real family who figured out how to make our entire living online, and now we help other families do the same. Are you ready to flip your life, all right. Let's get started. Shane Sams: What's going on everybody. Welcome back to the Flipped Lifestyle podcast. It is great to be back with you again. Today this is part two of our 2018 year in review. On Tuesday this week we did part one, and we talked all about all the things that we got to do this year that were good. We really focused on the highlights of 2018 for us, and I hope that that inspired you to go back and look at your own year. You know, sometimes we forget how good the year really was, and we forget about things that we might've done like last January of February. I've got a friend of mine, and he always goes back to Facebook, and he looks all the way back into each month, then he writes down all of the great things that he did. So that he can kind of remember like, "Man, this was a great year. Yeah, there was one or two things that kind of stood out that might've not went right, but man look at all these amazing things that we did." Shane Sams: So go back and look at all the good things that happened to you this year. It's really important to kind of reflect back on that. Jocelyn Sams: I saw this thing on Facebook the other day where every week you're supposed to write down the best thing that happened that week, and then you put them all in a jar, and on the very last day of the year you get them all out and you read all the cool things that happened through the year. I thought that was a really good idea, even for us, because we just are typically not very good about just looking back and remembering all the good things. Shane Sams: But we also know that it's not all sunshine and rainbows out here in the adulting world, and there were some things, there are always things that go wrong, or go bad, and it's also important to remember those as well because you can reflect back and look at the mistakes that you made, look at the things that kind of went off the railroad tracks and ask yourself, "Did I have control over this? Are there things that I could do differently, or landmines that I can avoid in the future so that next year can be even better." That's what we're going to focus on for today's podcast is we are going to first look back at some of the bad things that happened. Some of the things that we did wrong, because we make a lot of mistakes, and we want to share those with you guys as a part of our journey and a part of your journey too, and let you know that you're not alone. Shane Sams: You're not the only person messing up this online business stuff. Just today, I was trying to create the sales page for Flip Your Life Live 2019, which is on sale now at flippedlifestyle.com/live, and I had two tabs open and they were both the editor on the sales page. I accidentally saved the one I was not editing in, and I basically erased six hours of work writing copy for this sales page, because I closed all the tabs and everything else and I lost it. And I didn't know how to get it back, so I had to sit down and do the whole thing over. So lest you think Flipped Lifestyle world is a mistake free world, you are wrong. It is not. We've made a lot of mistakes, and we want to talk about some of those today, and we want to also talk about the future. Some goals that we have for this year individually, as a couple, and some goals that we have for you and your future, and the future of your family as well. Jocelyn Sams: Before we jump into this, what we call the bad things, I do want to preface this by saying that a lot of these are what people would consider to be first world problems. So if you're listening to this expecting that we're going to go into something really crazy bad that happened, you know I'm really ... Shane Sams: Some of them are. There are some bad things in there. There are some catastrophes as well. Jocelyn Sams: But I'm really happy to say that most of our problems are the first world kind, but they're still problems nonetheless. I think sometimes people wanted to shove those under the rug. Shane Sams: Or trivialize them or something. Jocelyn Sams: Oh that's not a big deal, but they can be a really big deal, and we'll kind of jump into that a little bit more. It can affect you physically, it can affect you mentally, which affects other areas of your life as well so I just wanted to kind of throw that out there. I don't want to get emails and say, "Well, you think that's bad. Well all this happened to me." We're not trying to say that our life is bad or anything like that. For all intents and purposes, we have an extremely blessed and fulfilling life, but there are things that do go wrong. Shane Sams: The stresses do add up, especially when there's a lot of little things happening at once, and we're going to try to explore some of the causes for these stresses, and these bad things that happen in our business, and hopefully that will give you guys some insight into how to deal with some of these as your own. So one of the biggest problems that we had last year, probably as a couple. This one's probably of the marriage variety, and I'm sure many of you will relate to this whether or not you're in business with your spouse or not, but Jocelyn and I found ourselves not on the same page many, many times. Jocelyn Sams: Most days. Shane Sams: This year. I think we were most of the time in the same book, but definitely at times we were not even in the same chapter. That caused a lot of tension. We had probably the most marital tension that we've had in our relationship since we started our online business this year because so much changed so fast last year. We sold one of our businesses. Prior to 2018, Jocelyn and I had Flipped Lifestyle together, but we each had our own kind of things going on as well, and that kind of spread out the, what would you call it? Tension? Or spread out the opportunities for us to work together, I suppose. It created, I guess a little more individuality in the business, but once we stopped or sold off everything else, and focused all of our energy on Flipped Lifestyle, all of our energy on the Flip Your Life community, it kind of pushed us into this mold where we were used to making decisions about certain things on our own, and now we had to make every single decision together. Shane Sams: That's a business, that's life, that's parenting, and it happened so fast it created a new kind of friction in our relationship. Jocelyn Sams: I think at the beginning, like when we were starting out, we had teeny, tiny kids for one thing, who didn't even sleep through the night and all that kind of stuff. Some of you guys can relate to what I'm talking about right now. We had full time jobs. We were trying to do this thing in the evenings, and on the weekends, on breaks, and we were basically just in survival mode. We were just making it to the next day. Shane Sams: We didn't even have time to argue about things, because there was no time to argue. It was either make a decision, or don't make the decision. Jocelyn Sams: I think also at the beginning that our mission was really clear. Our mission was to make enough money to leave our jobs. Once we did that, I don't know that we've ever done a really good job since then redefining our mission, because ... Shane Sams: Or our goals even. What's the next level look like? Jocelyn Sams: I just, I don't know even know that I knew what my life today would look like. I guess it's hard for me to look in the future and say, "Oh well, I'm at this level. Now I want to go to this next level," because I don't even know what that looks like. I think it's just kind of hard. It's like we have these sort of intangible goals, or goals that we don't really talk about. Like maybe Shane has different goals than I have, and because we haven't done a good job of talking about those goals, for whatever reason, we just have a lot of tension because our expectations just aren't lining up. Shane Sams: Yeah. It's like, it's crazy what you said about what your life could look like, because now we've kind of stretched to the point of the end and the edge of our imagination what life actually could look like. Because when we were establishing our dreams we were like, "Man if we could just make enough money to quit our job," right? Well I can picture what that looks like. Jocelyn can picture what that looks like. You can picture what that looks like. I need this much money to quit my job. But then you quit your job and you're like, "Well, I wonder if I could pay my house off in a couple years?" We can picture what that looks like. You can picture what that looks like. Okay, and then what? Maybe I can find my forever home, my dream property and I can have the place that I want to grow old and retire at, and sit on the porch and look at the sunset. Jocelyn Sams: And go on so many trips a year. That was always our thing, and now we're there. So it's like, now what? Shane Sams: What's next? What does that look like? Because there's only so much stuff that you can really buy. You know, I was talking to somebody the other day, and they were like, "Man, if I had this much money I would do all these things." I was kind of laughing because I was like, "No you wouldn't. That's not what you would do." That would be so unfulfilling what they were kind of describing. There has to be more to that. That's really why we sold off our other business, and got rid of some other things that we were doing, because the mission of helping other people do this, other people working from home. Other people controlling the future outcomes for their kids, like in education, or just in their lifestyle, that really gave us a lot of purpose. But even that, we don't know what that looks like yet. Shane Sams: We're still evolving, and still learning what the Flip Your Life community could actually be, and the impact that it could actually make. The stories that we hear are incredible, and some of the things that we kind of think this should look like are happening. We've talked about, on the podcast, how people are sending it in. They've quit their jobs. We've had multiple people now tell us they've made over a million dollars because they've been a part of the community, or listened to the podcast. We've had people, even recently, just we've only been home schooling now for a month, and we've had people say, "That gave me the courage to try it." You know, so it's like all these things are happening, but we don't really have a firm grasp of what we really, totally want that to look like. Shane Sams: That is not resolved, would you think, that's not resolved. Would you say that's resolved? Jocelyn Sams: Definitely not. I mean, we kind of talk through it sometimes, but I don't know that we've had an official thing where we say, "Okay, this is what we want, and this is what we're going to do to get there because ... Shane Sams: This is the clear vision for the future. Jocelyn Sams: I just think it's still a little bit cloudy right now, so that's something in 2019 that I think really needs to be a big goal for us. Just figuring out what are our goals, and now it's more in terms of ... Shane Sams: Impact. Jocelyn Sams: Yeah. How far can this thing go. It's not so much about financial gain for us, I mean that is a part of it always because we're not a charity organization, but it's like when you reach a certain point, that's pretty much what you have left is what impact can you make in the world. I think that's the point we're at, and we just sort of have different, what would you say, like different ideas of ... Shane Sams: Different paths to the same city on the hill. You know? What does it actually look like, and one thing that we struggle with a lot too is our roles in our marriage, in our business, in the schooling of our children, in our parenting because we just both have a lot of different opinions, and we're both very different people. There's no manual for the way that we've chosen to live our life. You know, one of the crazy things about the community is how many different people are in there, and how all the marriages look different. All the businesses look different. All the parenting looks, like everybody's doing everything differently. Shane Sams: Some people choose to really allocate roles. We've got friends who one spouse takes care of the kid, the other spouse is the CEO. That's both ways. We have couple friends where the wife is the CEO and the husband is managing the house. We have friends and community members where the husband is the CEO and the wife is managing. It's amazing watching people do it in different ways. We have people like us where, you know Jocelyn and I really strive for dividing and conquering our life in every area. So when we say we're in business together, we literally say, "Okay, here's all the things you do. Here's all the things I do." We run this business together. When we say we're going to parent together, well I handle certain things and she handles certain things. We divide that up. Even our house, home school. Shane Sams: We've been doing that lately. I'm focusing on these subjects. Jocelyn's focusing on these subjects. We're thinking about outsourcing some of the subjects. Math, need to hire someone to come in and do that please. Jocelyn Sams: Please. Shane Sams: Because it's hard y'all. It's hard to do math, especially that fourth grade stuff. But we're really doing it that way, and there's really no manual for it, and when there's an opportunity to argue, or there's an opportunity to go left or right, it's really hard to make that call because we're completely in unchartered territory, it feels like all the time. So I don't know where this is going except just to caution you. One, be careful what you wish for, right, because it's going to happen if you work hard enough to go get it, and two, be prepared for a lot of change and uncertainty as you pursue your goals in 2019. Understand that confusion is a major part of success. If we knew that going into it, I think we may have been able to maybe avoid some of these pitfalls a little bit in the last year, but it's really hard to prepare for anything until you go through it. It's been interesting. Shane Sams: One thing that really changed though was after the live event. We were really, really, I don't know how to say this without saying, we weren't at each other's throats, but we were really frustrated with each other a lot because of all the moving parts that were happening until the live event happened, and then I think we got a little bit of clarity and we could look back and say, "Holy man, we accomplished something there. How did we even do that, and what could we do going forward if we were more on the same page, had a clearer vision, and could get some of that tension out of…

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    FL269 - 2018 The Good, The Bad, & The Future Part I Jan 01, 2019
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    In today's episode, S&J talk about 2018, the good, the bad, and the future. FULL TRANSCRIPT Jocelyn Sams: Hey, y'all. On today's podcast, we recap 2018, the good, the bad, and the future. Shane Sams: Welcome to the Flipped Lifestyle podcast, where life always comes before work. We're your hosts, Shane and Jocelyn Sams. We're a real family that figured out how to make our entire living online. Now, we help other families do the same. Are you ready to flip your life? All right, let's get started. Shane Sams: What's going on everybody? Welcome back to the Flipped Lifestyle podcast and happy new year on this January 1st edition of the Flipped Lifestyle podcast. Jocelyn and Shane here, all by ourselves today. We do not have a guest for this episode of the Flipped Lifestyle podcast. This is just a solo show with me and Jocelyn, and we wanted to recap 2018 and start looking toward 2019. We're going to talk about all the things that happened last year to us, the good, the bad, and then we're going to transition a little bit to talk about the future for the Flipped Lifestyle podcast and the Flip Your Life community. Jocelyn Sams: We don't really have much of a plan for this podcast, to be perfectly honest. We just sort of opened up a Google Drive document and did a brain dump of all of our thoughts, so who knows what this is going to turn out like. It's just something we felt like kind of talking through and just sharing with you guys as we think back on the past 365 days and also to the future. Shane Sams: The reason we're doing this is, one, we really want to stress the importance to everyone who listens to the Flipped Lifestyle podcast of reflection and looking back on what you did right, what you did wrong, and bringing that all together to make good decisions going forward in the future, and also to let you guys know that a lot of things do go good in our business, a lot of things go good for our family, but we've had a lot of bad things happen, too. Sometimes, we don't get the chance to really talk about that a lot on the podcast because it's so focused on helping the Flip Your Life community and all the people in it succeed. We don't get to really show you that part of our journey. If you follow us on social media, you do get to see a little bit of that, but we want to let you know that things are not always perfect for us. Jocelyn and I are just like you. We're normal people, we're married, we have kids, and we have all the stresses that go along with life, just like you do. Shane Sams: We wanted to just share some of that and let you know that you're not alone when you struggle on this journey. Every day we get up, there are things that go good, there are things that go bad, and we have to react to all those things. We wanted to share some of that with you guys in this episode and let you know how that goes. Shane Sams: All right. We decided to start with the good. We looked back and wrote down all of the highlights that happened over the last year, and there were quite a few of them. It's really important to latch onto those. Every Sunday, when Jocelyn and I journal together, we actually ... The first thing we do is write down 10 good things that happened in the week prior because we want to start off anything we're doing, planning with a good frame of mind, and to let ourselves know, "Hey, don't focus on the negative things." There are a lot of great things. There's usually more good things than bad things, so we wanted to start this podcast off that way. Shane Sams: The most recent good thing that happened to us actually happened yesterday. Jocelyn and I were taking Anna Jo to cheerleading practice together. Isaac was staying at his grandparents' house, he was chilling out over there and didn't want to drive and sit in the car with us. We took the time to go grab something to eat, drop her off, do a little cheerleading, and hang out, and we got a message from a Flip Your Life community member. This is the first message of this type that I've actually gotten directly from a member. We kind of know some stories of some other people that have done some great things, but this was the first time a member had ever reached out to us and said, "Hey, guys. I just wanted to let you know that my husband and I have went over the million dollar mark in our online business since we joined the community." Shane Sams: This was the first time a Flip Your Life community member had literally wrote us and said, "Thank you guys. You helped us make a million dollars." It was really overwhelming in the car. We couldn't even comprehend that. It's one thing for you to hear about somebody online making a million dollars, because we all ... If you were working, making $40,000 a year, it would take you dozens of years to actually get to the point where you actually had made a million dollars in your lifetime. Then, when you start an online business and you make a million dollars yourself, it blows your mind because it's just almost a number that you can't even comprehend until you see it actually happen. Then, for someone to write in and say, "You helped us make a million dollars," that's life-changing. We can't wait to see what the future brings. Shane Sams: It was really just mind-blowing. We didn't even really know how to respond to it in the moment. Jocelyn Sams: Yeah. The cool thing is that these people actually live kind of close to us, so we're actually going to go hang out with them and celebrate this, which is really cool. Yeah. Shane Sams: If you ever make a million dollars, let us know. And contribute it to the Flip Your Life community, we might fly in and have lunch with you, but you're paying because you made a million dollars. I'm just saying. I'm not paying for that one. Jocelyn Sams: Oh, goodness. Yes. That ... It was just so cool. I don't even really know what to say about that. I'm just kind of at a loss for words when I think about the impact that our community has had. It's just really cool. Shane Sams: A million dollars is a lot of money, and it makes me think back a little bit, Jocelyn, to last year when we were selling one of our businesses. In 2017 ... What month was that? Was it August that we sold elementarylibrarian.com? Jocelyn Sams: I think it was July, actually. Shane Sams: It was July. In July of 2017, we sold elementarylibrarian.com. It was our first big business that really took off and was really successful. We did that. It was over a million dollar contract. I remember thinking about that number, that million dollar number. Here it was. In one day, you sign a contract and someone deposits a ton of money in your account. The reason we did that wasn't just to make the money. That business was very passive. It made a ton of money. We could have just kept it and kept it going. The reason we sold that was because we wanted to go all in on Flipped Lifestyle, all in, changing people's lives, helping other families do what we did, replace your income, quit your job, work from home, have the freedom to make choices in your life. Shane Sams: When someone writes you in and says, "Hey, I started my business," or, "Hey, I quit my job," or when they write us in and they say something crazy like, "Guys, you helped us get to a million dollars. You helped us experience a million dollar moment, and you helped us not just change our future or our family's future, but make a generational change. We're going to be able to go out and build something that might leave an inheritance to our children's children." That's really overwhelming, and it's also really fulfilling for us to know that we made the right decision. Shane Sams: When we sold this passive income cash cow that was kind of our safety net for a while and really made us feel comfortable about what we were doing, but we said, "No, we're going all in on Flipped Lifestyle," and a year and a half later, someone writes you in and says, "We just went over the million dollar mark," it's just really inspiring, and it really keeps us motivated and pumped up to keep going and keep helping more people. We may not help everybody get to a million dollars, but if we could help everybody start something that would give them margin in their life, make their life easier, then going all in for Flipped Lifestyle was really, really worth it. Shane Sams: Also, on a personal note, one of the things that Jocelyn and I discussed was would we even be able to replace the income from elementarylibrarian.com if we sold it. It's really hard to build one business to six figures or seven figures or to sustain you and your family and be able to create an income. Could we do it again and again and again, and especially could we do it with Flipped Lifestyle because there's so much competition, there's so many gurus out there that are just dominating the landscape and spending all this ad money and doing all these things. A year and a half after we basically went all in on Flipped Lifestyle, we've tripled revenue, almost 2,000 people have joined the Flip Your Life community, and it looks like there might be no end in sight to how far we can take this thing and how big we can make this brand and how many people we can actually impact. Shane Sams: We're seeing so many more people join from all over the world. We just recorded a podcast this morning with a Flip Your Life community member in Saudi Arabia. To even think about that a year and a half ago or two years ago or five years ago is just absolutely mind-blowing. It was really good to see, at the end of 2018, all those risks that we took in 2017 really started to pay off. Jocelyn Sams: Another thing that we did in 2018 is we decided to host our first major live event. We did that just a few months ago. It was a little bit crazy. If you listen to our podcast about post live event, if you listen to that one, we had a lot of crazy things happen. We questioned it a lot. Was this the right decision? I think that, at the end of the day, we decided that we were really, really happy we did the live event. Shane Sams: Yeah. It basically consumed our life from the day we decided to release it, which was ... Jocelyn Sams: January, I think. Shane Sams: Of 2018. Jocelyn Sams: Yeah. Shane Sams: Yeah. In January, we announced it. We almost sold it out in the first week. That was really good that we actually sold out, because we were like, "We're going to announce this an 10 people are going to come and we're going to be on hook for all this stuff, these contracts that we were signing up for with hotels and venues and all this stuff. Shane Sams: To see what happened at the live event, to see all the progress that the attendees made coming into the live event. We did these ice breaker sessions where we had 40 or 50 people who were coming to the live event on and we talked to every single one of them. We saw so many people launch products leading up to the live event, get their business, make their first sales. We had one member that changed her membership pricing model right before the event after a coaching call and she made $17,000 in recurring revenue in one thing. Then, after the event, seeing members take action. We had another member that's added 200 members at $39 a month in just two and a half months since the live event based on what the plan she made there. Shane Sams: The live event was a catalyst moment for us to realize how important community is to everybody's journey. To see 100 people fly in from five countries, 30 different states, just to see us, because we were the only show. We did all eight sessions, we led the panels, we stayed up all night with everybody working at the work session on the first night to get their plans ready and helped as many people as we could get around to. Just to see that community really come together live is just a different feeling than in a forum setting or anything else. To see how close the Flip Your Life community is, and, really, it made us proud of the culture that we've really built in this brand and how we're bringing together family-focused entrepreneurs to a point where they would actually get on an airplane and fly to Nashville, Tennessee, not only just to see us but to see each other and to make progress in their business, was absolutely mind-blowing. Jocelyn Sams: There are so many people, even after the event, who have gotten together. They're in masterminds together, they're working together, they're talking on Voxer, they're meeting once a week. Just to see all that and know that it came from something that we started, we knocked over the first domino and they've kind of taken care of the rest, it's just really cool to see. I've talked to so many people that are like, "Thank you so much for doing this event. I'm making progress in my business that I never would have made otherwise." That just made it all worth it. It was a lot of work and it was a lot of just, I guess ... I don't know if I want to say heartache, but just a lot of ... Shane Sams: I think there was definitely some heartache involved in that because it was a rough deal. Jocelyn Sams: It was a labor of love for sure. I think that, at the end of the day, we can say that we're really glad that we did that. Shane Sams: What one ... I'm trying to speak at an event and one of the topics that I want to talk about is how online business can not only change your life and the individual's life but really communities. It can change world communities. Anywhere you are, if you have internet access, you can reach out and touch the whole world. I don't think people realize that. Flip Your Life Live was kind of the exclamation point on the end of our sentence that said, "Hey, this is real. You're two people in rural Appalachia, southeast Kentucky, where you have really slow internet, you don't have all the resources that some people have in California or on the coasts or in big cities. Basically, you can just get online. You can say something into a microphone, record it, and get it out there, and you can influence people all over the world. You can help people from anywhere. That's just never been possible before, and it is possible now. Shane Sams: We kind of, after the live event, we realized how much of a ... What would you say, responsibility it is to actually do that, not just for us and the Flip Your Life community, but for you. You're listening to this, which means you're somewhere out there in the world with an internet connection where you could download this. If you could download this podcast, you could upload you're own, or you could upload your own course, or you could connect over Skype and be a virtual assistant, or you could download an audio file and transcribe it and make money and help make someone else's life easier. The live event, being in person and seeing how much influence we were having really made us realize this is the craziest time in human history. If you're not taking advantage of it, it's your fault. You've got to get out there and do something, and we've got to do more with the platform that we've built and the responsibility that we've been given. Jocelyn Sams: Lots of people have asked us about the live event, will you be doing one in 2019, and we are going to do one in 2019, which is actually now. The dates for that, this is the first time we've announced that, is going to ... We will have a party on Thursday night, September 19th, and we will have content o…

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