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Colour Therapy For Blokes Jul 26, 2026

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This is probably the most unmanly of things a man can do other than drive a Ford Ka convertible or collecting doylies. So why is it recommended and considered to be one of the biggest things men should do despite it being opposite to their nature? Well lets dive in and find out you browser of podcasts.

Subjects: colouring spelt right, coloring spelt wrong for Americans, the brain, creativity, reducing stress, wind.

10 Best Adult Colouring Books For Men - July 2026

Colouring Books for Men | eBay UK

Amazon.co.uk : colouring book for men

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Why Do I Feel Guilty Spending Money on Myself? Jul 25, 2026

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I feel awful when buying pretty much anything, but why? In this episode I explore the common feeling of guilt associated with spending on oneself. I dive into the psychological roots of this guilt, discussing how upbringing, identity conflict, and past experiences can shape our attitudes towards self-investment. I look at strategies to overcome these feelings, emphasizing the importance of reframing purchases and tracking their benefits.

Subjects: guilt, money, self-investment, personal finance, self-worth, mental health, cash

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What are the Traits of a Loser or Quitter? Jul 23, 2026

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In today’s world, the terms "loser" and "quitter" are often thrown around with little thought about their implications. But what do these labels really mean? In this episode, I delve into the traits that characterize a loser mindset and the flip side of that coin – the traits of successful individuals. By the end, you may have a clearer understanding of how mindsets shape our behaviours and outcomes, or be even more confused and thus give up...You quitter!

Subjects: Am I loser, success, mindset, positivity, podcast, quiet quitting, resignation.

Quiet quitting: The workplace trend taking over TikTok - BBC News

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Is Acceptance a Sign of Failure Or an Ability to Move On? Jul 23, 2026

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In this episode I explore the theme of acceptance, questioning whether it signifies failure or an opportunity for growth. I reflect on personal experiences, particularly in the context of dating and life expectations, while humorously addressing the challenges of accepting reality. The goes on to conclude that I accept most listeners will never help in anything I ask for.

Subjects: acceptance, failure, personal growth, maturity, reality, podcast, love island, love is blind.

5 Strategies to Accept Failure and Move on (With Examples)

How to Embrace Failure | Psychology Today

55 Famous Failures Who Eventually Achieved Greatness

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The Weekend Break that Broke Me Jul 21, 2026

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Why do some holidays leave us feeling drained and dissatisfied? If you've ever returned from a trip feeling more exhausted than before you left, you're not alone. In this podcast, I’ll explore how to shake off the remnants of a bad holiday experience, drawing from personal anecdotes and practical strategies that can help you reset and refocus your mind.

Subjects: Torquay, weekend break, podcast, ugly, ghost town, broken Britain, broken glass.

English Riviera | Torquay, Paignton, Brixham & South Devon

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Dumped by Facebook Dating? Jul 16, 2026

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In this episode I share my experiences and frustrations with online dating, particularly through Facebook dating. I discusses the addictive nature of dating apps, my lack of success, and the challenges of making genuine connections.

This is what the AI on my Podcast platform said "James humorously contemplates the idea of giving up on dating apps altogether and explores alternative methods of meeting people, including the outdated concept of pen pals and the absurdity of dating on professional platforms like LinkedIn." AI spots humour?

Subjects: online dating, Facebook dating, dating technology, single, no hope, LinkedIn, worldcup2026, pen pals.

Facebook Dating - Add Love

Ugly People Dating | Meet Singles Near You

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Campylobacter and His BBQ of Bliss Jul 16, 2026

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In an age of TV dinners, home drinking and WhatsApp, what is a successful antidote that ticks all the boxes and keeps psychologists happy (inviting them round also?).

It's the UKs favourite British Summer past-time, aside from complaining about the weather.

Subjects: BBQ, meat, bacteria, death, fire, 911 What's Your Emergency? Mental Health.

https://economictimes.indiatimes.com/news/international/australia/psychology-explains-people-who-love-backyard-bbqs-may-be-happier-because-theyre-fulfilling-one-of-the-brains-deepest-social-needs/articleshow/132380135.cms

Is BBQ Bad for You? Cancer Risks and Safer Grilling Tips - ScienceInsights

The BBQ health hazards you need to watch out for – from cross-contamination to flying sparks | The Independent

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Are Hobbies Healthy? Jul 13, 2026

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Hobbies are not just pastimes; they significantly contribute to better mental health. Engaging in activities you love can lead to higher happiness, lower anxiety, and improved life satisfaction. Research shows that people who have hobbies report fewer symptoms of depression and reduced stress levels. Simply put, hobbies can serve as a powerful antidote to the daily grind.

Subjects: Hobby, Mental Health, Past Times, Spotify, podcast, modern man, NBA, FIFA world cup.

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How Can I Move on From an Argument? Jul 11, 2026

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When I have a falling out my attention gets stuck and productivity and life goes by the boards for many days. I just can't shake it and it is not healthy. How do I fix this?

Subjects: arguments, breathing exercise, mental replay, podcast, music, UFC, attention

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Should I Take ADHD Meds? Jul 09, 2026

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I have entered a dilemma with only 7 days to choose. Gut V Mind, Past wrong choices V Present time choices, users V none users, spiritual dissonance V chemical imbalance? Pharma v nature? What do I do? Would I regret not taking them or would I regret taking them more? It's over to you.

Subjects: ADHD, medication, undecided, regrets, podcast, debate.

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