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Trust the process Apr 12, 2023

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It's crazy that a trip to the mall, ten years ago, with my ex-boyfriend Thomas would lead me to this aha moment at my big-big-age.

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S*x, courage, and vulnerability Mar 29, 2023

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I had horrible s*x with two people that taught me some huge lessons.

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My d*ck needs more 5 star reviews Mar 22, 2023

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I asked a simple question about sex in the group and we jumped in the comments to give our pair of pennies. But what came up was a discussion about self, connection and relationship that I didn't expect.

This episode is particularly significant for me because it marks our 50th episode of the podcast. As you can tell, I record these days--sometimes, weeks--in advance. But my gratitude to you all for rocking with me and my crazy thoughts gets deeper each week. --JTG

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I was just a piece of d*ck to him Mar 15, 2023

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Have you ever heard something that sounded right, but it took you a little while before you actually got the lesson? That was me in this conversation with Hakim Asadi. He talked about closure in one of my last episodes of Dear Black Gay Men Live in 2022. But it wasn't until recently where I totally got the lesson.

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The equation for the PERFECT FIRST DATE Mar 08, 2023

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I asked this question the other day about first dates, hopefully attempting to get some clarity on how to have better ones. Then I remember, "I'm the FIRST DATE GURU".

Full disclosure, though, I am rarely asked out on a first date. So as I was thinking about what I hope he's going to do, I realized there is a fool proof equation to making a first date memorable.

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Dating on the Auction Block Mar 01, 2023

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First, thank you to all our listeners and subscribers. We're coming up on 7500 monthly downloads. For a new show that's only 15 minutes long, that's a BIG DEAL.

Then, I had a conversation with a friend of mine who we'll call "Oscar". He said something--responded to something I mentioned in a previous episode--and that conversation made think.

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"Talking to" vs. "Dating" Feb 22, 2023

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I asked this question in our Dear Black Gay Men Insiders group and the conversation was...interesting. Somehow "talking to" became the plot...perpetrated by Millenials...to get us caught up IN THE BULLSH!T.

Oddly enough, I think the "talking to" phase is critical to dating. This episode is my argument why.

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We can commit to douching but we can't commit to eachother? Feb 15, 2023

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I asked this question about talking to someone and got so many responses about commitment. Reading through got me to thinking about a particular minister that I used to crush on...and why I used to crush on him. #JudgeMeLater, but this is what I learned.

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Shut up...I'm trying to hear what his bussy is saying Feb 08, 2023

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I've interviewed bottoms asking them what they wish tops understood. Then last week, I talked to a top who had his own "things bottoms should know". But, this is my take as a vers who doesn't bottom that often. #JudgeMeLater

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So this what the mean by "take your time"? Feb 01, 2023

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You go out on a date, what do you expect the next day? A good morning text? Some sweet nothings in your DMs? That was me, secretly wanting him to fawn over me on date two. But this date with "Brandon" is changing all of that for me.

Back again with some #firstdatechronicles. He and I went out a couple weeks ago, but instead of feeling left behind and jilted, I'm still in my feels because Brandon is a different kind of man. And in being so, inspiring me to be a different kind of man. Take a listen to see what I mean.

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