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    Dear Black Gay Men Podcast

    Dear Black Gay Men Weekly is your weekly dopeness reminder and your favorite content creator’s favorite content.

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    I'm addicted to dating Nov 08, 2023
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    It's been a while since I've uploaded to this platform and explanations are in order. I did take a little while to sort through some personal things. Nothing major, but this episode is dedicated to one of the big lessons that I uncovered during my time away from the mic.




    Follow @JaiTheGentleman on IG, @dearblackgaymen on IG.


    Tune in to the live show every Thursday at 8pm Eastern on YouTube


    This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com

    You ready for cuffing season? Oct 04, 2023
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    Noah's Arc was mym 2005 dating goals before dating goals were even a thing. I remember going to Best Buy to buy the box set so I could dream about outing a piece of trade and living happily ever after.


    Now, nearly 20 years later, I can watch Noah's Arc with a different set of dating eyes. I can see where they went wrong, what dating lessons should I have left on TV, and which ones can I learn from this fictitious love story and apply to my very real dating life.


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    Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward.




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    This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com

    Gaslighting 101: you've done it before Sep 13, 2023
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    This one is pretty vulnerable for me, but I'll admit it boldly: I'm a gaslighter. My last relationship had to end because I did some dirty stuff while we were together. Ralph Pittman is the human gaslight and I only know that because the way he messed up Drew is exactly how I acted in my last serious dating situation.


    But so many of our listeners/viewers are still up-in-the-air about what gaslighting is and how to spot it. So this video is dedicated to uncovering gaslighting and how we do it EVERY DAY in life, in friendships, and in dating.




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    Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward.




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    NO SL*T SHAMING ALLOWED Sep 06, 2023
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    Sl*t shaming aside, Ali Adamos is good at doing many things. He can get countless men to give him exactly what he wants---usually exactly HOW he wants it. Isn't that our dating dream? Getting a guy to date us, be with us, love us HOW we want to be loved?


    After I 💦 and I could think clearly, I looked at Ali, what he says, how he moves through life to attract so many men and there was one BIG lesson in there. This is how we can take a 💦 dump's secret weapon and use it in our dating lives.




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    Welcome to Dear Black Gay Men on YouTube.




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    Transphobic Gay Men Aug 23, 2023
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    @OpenRelationshipPodcast is one of our faves here on the channel. The hosts give different perspectives on gay dating, Black LGBTQ social issues and everything A to Z about Black gay culture. But this particular story rubbed me the wrong way and I think Rodney may have it wrong.


    I am not trans, nor am I a parent, so most may take my perspectives with a grain of salt, but Neyo story has us questioning everything about communication, parenting, and what we would do if our future child comes to us questioning their gender identity. #queer #neyo #transphobia


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    Want some juice? Aug 16, 2023
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    I know it’s Leo season, but this lesson in Gemini dating hit me so hard this week. I went on a date, asked the guy “what are you looking for?’ Of course, in true gay fashion, he responded “I’m not really looking.” For some reason, we’ll go looking for EVERYTHING in the world except a date. We’ll look for money, cars, degrees, jobs, customers, but love is something we expect to fall in our lap.


    This episode is dedicated to righting a wrong that has Black gay culture in a chokehold. Hopefully this week’s doneness reminder will leave you feeling a little more courageous as you go through the emotional ups and downs along your journey to happiness.




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    Not mobile, can't host Aug 09, 2023
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    @BishopOCAllen renewed his vows to his husband of 20 years, Rashad Burgess. Allen, who I call “B”, said he hates folding clothes. To the untrained ear, that sounds like something you discover over a 20 year marriage. But to me, I thought how dope it is that he’s self-aware enough to know that about himself and to say it publicly.


    This episode is dedicated to helping each of us single people grow a level of self-awareness that helps us date better, find better men, and connect with guys more deeply. I’m using one example that we’ve all seen on the dating apps or in real life, but this one problem in Black gay culture may be able to shed some light on a bigger lesson we can all apply to our dating lives as Black gay men. #datingadvice #relationships #singlelife




    Special Announcement coming tomorrow: https://youtube.com/live/Y9yLzIEjxaw?feature=share


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    Special thanks to @oretteayton5262 and @phynekat for the comments and encouragement




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    Welcome to Dear Black Gay Men on YouTube.




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    WORK WORK WORK (in my Rihanna voice) Aug 02, 2023
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    Have you ever met a guy, got a number, texted for a while, a couple dates, but just can't make it over the 90-day hump? After so many failed dating attempts, it's easy to think it's either all men...or it's got to be me.


    This episode of the podcast is here to show us that it's a little of column A, a little of column B. A whole lot of luck and the right kind of work. What kind of work should we be putting into our dating situations? And how to ensure that work pays off?


    Special thanks to @infiniteimani3534 for the inspo, and comments from @YzBG and http://www.instagram.com/alexanderlove_love




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    Cheater, cheater, pumpkin eater Jul 26, 2023
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    I don't want to say EVERYONE has cheated, but have a relationship or dating commitment violated is an experience way too many gay guys have in common. I'm a cheater. I had a wonderful relationship that fell apart because of a lot of issues I brought into the dating situation.


    Now that I've worked through my ish (I am a single guru after all - https://youtu.be/sY4ubstbX-c) and I've dealt with my issues (as best I can), I'm sharing some of the lessons I've learned on why we cheat and how to avoid the pitfalls that lead us to cheat in the first place.


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    Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward.




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    I'm single as a dollar bill Jul 19, 2023
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    New uploads WEDNESDAYS & THURSDAYS


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    I really don’t think Black gay men are singling right. When it comes to dating, there is some intention we have to put behind who we allow into our lives. This post is a must see for any Black gay guy who is looking to get back into the dating pool. What should you be looking out for and how can we navigate dating better?




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    🎶 Theme music by The Passion HIFI




    Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward.




    ➡️ Connect with Jai The Gentleman


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    http://www.dearblackgaymen.com


    This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com

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