Dear Black Gay Men Podcast

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Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward.

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This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com

NSFW - Use me! Oct 05, 2022

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Why do we end up doing the "so what's up" tango when we hook-up? I got a huge aha about our interests and attractions on my last entanglement. #Hookups #SingleLife #DatingAdvice #SingleAdvocate

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🎶 Theme music by The Passion HIFI

Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward.

➡️ Connect with Jai The Gentleman

YT: https://www.instagram.com/DearBlackGayMen

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com

That break up was for a reason Sep 28, 2022

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Break ups suck, no matter who you are and who initiated. It takes time and work to get back to yourself “with full mobility”. These are 5 benchmarks along the journey. #BreakUps #DatingAdvice #SingleAdvocate

📲 Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast

🎶 Theme music by The Passion HIFI

Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward.

➡️ Connect with Jai The Gentleman

YT: https://www.instagram.com/DearBlackGayMen

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com

Living the VERS life Sep 21, 2022

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This video is your secret guidebook to understanding what kind of versatile you are, what kind of versatile he is, and how y’all can make magic together. #datingadvice #sexcoach

Dating "John": https://youtu.be/KKTZk5GmJvQ

📲 Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast

🎶 Theme music by The Passion HIFI

Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward.

➡️ Connect with Jai The Gentleman

YT: https://www.instagram.com/DearBlackGayMen

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com

He's Just Not That Into You, Sis Sep 14, 2022

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I’ve pursued deeply unavailable men for the my whole life as an out, Black gay man. Giving too much, compensating for their disinterest and releasing all my agency. These are some critical life lessons I picked up along my journey to happiness. Thanks @Case Kenny #relationshipadvice #podcast #blackgaymen

Case Kenny’s book: https://amzn.to/3L8A5CA

Case Kenny’s YouTube video: https://youtu.be/pH5sOHnhcLk

📲 Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast

🎶 Theme music by The Passion HIFI

Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward.

➡️ Connect with Jai The Gentleman

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com

Virgo Seduction and husband d!ck Aug 31, 2022

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Can we ever stop overthinking? Is that ever a good thing? Is there a such thing as Virgo seduction? This week, we ring in a new astrological season as I discuss what to your virgo won’t stop virgo-ing.

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This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com

DMs need to be more like glory holes Aug 24, 2022

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If you’ve ever had boring online conversations with potentials, it’s probably because of one of these reasons

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This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com

I'm a s!ut...get me lit May 25, 2022

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In this episode, I talk about how I protect my emotions when I'm engaging, and why it's holding some of us back from true connection.

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This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com

Are you ready? May 18, 2022

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In this episode, I talk about the epidemic of asking for things we're really not ready for and how I overcame my lack of emotional and sexual preparedness.

But then I also talk about why bottoms are the cornerstone of our culture.

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This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dearblackgaymen.substack.com

Stay Out of Other Folks Business May 11, 2022

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In this episode, I talk about why getting out of other folks' business is so much more than just gossiping and it actually will unlock your (and others') blessings.

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