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Another failed dating attempt Jan 11, 2023

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If nothing else, I am consistent. Stood up for a date so I started a podcast. Stood up again by the same dude, must mean season 2. Another failed dating attempt, must mean it's time to get back to work. Thanks universe.

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I told him, "Bring me that a$$. Tonight at 10." Dec 07, 2022

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It was an ass appointment that reminded me of a preacher with a Jheri curl. Long story, but a good lesson.

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New phone...who dis? Nov 30, 2022

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If you’ve ever been ghosted, it can be hard to pick up the pieces especially if you were really cutting for this man. When I got ghosted, luckily, I knew it was his loss, but it still hurt. This is my story. Hopefully you can relate.

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“I get so excited…you know how I like it…” Nov 23, 2022

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I’ve dated men who were EXCITING and that made me EXCITED to be around them. Then I dated men who were just a date. Because I’ve been on both ends of the excited-ness spectrum, I’m pretty good at pulling out some hallmarks to know when he’s actually excited about you, or if it’s just a show.

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I’m guilty of gaslighting Nov 16, 2022

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Even though I’m healed now, I’m guilty as anyone else of hurting people in my past. This episode is my story of figuring out what gaslighting is, how I gaslit my ex, and what I did to overcome it—my healing process.

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Broke up...now it's time to move on, sis Nov 09, 2022

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After recording this one, I've realized that I dedicated a lot of energy to "Joe" for one reason. This episode, I'm talking through how I learned that it's way past time to move on.

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I quit, bruh. No really... Nov 02, 2022

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I be quitting s**t. Quitting people, quitting projects, quitting everything I've set my mind to. Well, not everything, but a lot of stuff. So I'm talking about how I'm not quitting this season and the lessons I'm learning by persevering.

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Cheater Cheater Pumpkin Eater Oct 26, 2022

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I had an ex, Terry, who taught me the most valuable lesson of all: cheating has nothing to do with sex. This is the story.

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Hi, my name is... Oct 19, 2022

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The most random conversation in the DMs gave me two HUGE insights on my own dating life and our culture. Spoiler Alert: you may want to stay out my DMs. #SingleLife #Identification #RepresentationMatters #DatingAdvice #SingleAdvocate

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