Confidence

Latest Episodes:

How to Flirt Apr 22, 2024

Show notes

It's 2024, and the art of flirting seems to be lost to doom-scrolling dating apps and direct messages. Don't you want to meet people organically? Maybe you don't know how, or maybe you want to step up your game. Today's episode features a detailed look at approaching, signaling, and closing the deal with people out in the wild. I provide a simple process to create connections with confidence and the secret to meeting people in person. Let me give you the gift of Real Rizz! Chapters: No Chapters This Week Sign Up for My Free Weekly Coaching Newsletter: https://confidencechris.com/ Apply to Work with Me: https://confidencechris.com/coachingapplication/

Mr. Steal Your Girl Apr 15, 2024

Show notes

Keeping your options open is never a bad thing until you invite one of the options around the other in broad daylight. This week, I tell two whacky stories about two women involved with other men, which makes me question my sanity. I then got some wild questions from y'all this week. We talked about the stigma around body piercings, going downtown on a girl, wife duties, and what it means when he tells you how much you just made him c*m. It's a wild one so make sure you are wearing headphones.

Chapters:

00:00 Intro and Date with Boyfriend Story

11:20 Ex's IG Story

31:09 Going Downtown (on a Girl)

40:55 If Men Provide What Do Women Do

47:15 Stigma Around Body Piercings

52:25 What Does it Mean When He C*ms Hard

Breakup Bootcamp: https://christopher-nappi.mykajabi.com/breakup-bootcamp

Apply to Work with Me: https://confidencechris.com/coachingapplication/

Socials & Other Links: https://linktr.ee/confidencechris

Happiness Trap Apr 08, 2024

Show notes

In this episode, I reflect on my recent success finding high levels of happiness and self-confidence. I also discuss my new approach to dating and how I vet potential partners. Can people really be straightforward with their intentions? Do guys really know whether or not they want to date you as soon as they meet you? Setting boundaries and staying disciplined to your goals takes a level of focus that is not easy to maintain. It's actually tremendously uncomfortable to make difficult choices for yourself, especially when you care so much about other people.

Breakup Bootcamp: https://christopher-nappi.mykajabi.com/breakup-bootcamp

Apply to Work with Me: https://confidencechris.com/coachingapplication/

Socials & Other Links: https://linktr.ee/confidencechris

Toxic Patterns (ft. Jay) Apr 01, 2024

Show notes

Oh boy do we have a great episode for you this week. Blast from the past! Nappi & Jay are back at it again with some heat! We discuss guys wearing makeup, how my sex game has plateaued, no-nonsense chicks sliding into my DMs, and our choice of foreplay. For the main course, Jay and I both took turns trying to unravel each other's toxic patterns in relationships and how they led to the demise of the Nappi & Jay podcast.

You can listen to and follow Jay's podcast here: https://linktr.ee/jayspeculiarmind

CHAPTERS:

00:00 Random Topics

52:12 Toxic Patterns in Relationships

Breakup Bootcamp: https://christopher-nappi.mykajabi.com/breakup-bootcamp

Apply to Work with Me: https://confidencechris.com/coachingapplication/

Socials & Other Links: https://linktr.ee/confidencechris

Blue Balls Mar 25, 2024

Show notes

Have you ever been sent home all riled up and ready to go? This week, we go inside the minds of men who have been pushed to their edge. Speaking of what's going on in his head, does a guy following girls mean the end of a relationship? Why does his instagram activity look like a warzone of hot chicks and booty-building workouts? Before we rub that out, I discuss the chokehold social media has on all of us, two day-in-the-life examples of a good day and a bad day for me, and whether I will ever prioritize a relationship over my work.

Chapters:

00:00 INTRO

07:43 Social Media Affecting My Behavior & Flow State

26:33 Will a relationship ever be priority 1?

36:02 Guys perspective on Instagram Likes and Follows

52:46 How do men feel when you leave them s**ually frustrated

1:00:51 She didn't want a label

Breakup Bootcamp: https://christopher-nappi.mykajabi.com/breakup-bootcamp

Apply to Work with Me: https://confidencechris.com/coachingapplication/

Socials & Other Links: https://linktr.ee/confidencechris

He's Not Ready Mar 18, 2024

Show notes

I got roasted for my actions on the previous podcast, 'Boys Lie.' This week's episode features my thoughts on the fallout of my relationship and some harsh but valid comments on my recent actions. It's fucking hard to close a chapter with someone you deeply care about, even when you know it's not right. I help provide some clarity on what a guy means when he tells you that he isn't ready and how to overcome the challenges of dating as a successful woman, especially as you start to move up in age.

Chapters:

00:00 INTRO AND REACTIONS TO THE LAST PODCAST

47:11 GUYS NOT WANTING TO TEXT DAILY

01:03:14 DATING AS A SUCCESSFUL WOMAN

Breakup Bootcamp: https://christopher-nappi.mykajabi.com/breakup-bootcamp

Apply to Work with Me: https://confidencechris.com/coachingapplication/

Socials & Other Links: https://linktr.ee/confidencechris

Boys Lie Mar 11, 2024

Show notes

I've been struggling for the past few days with releasing this. A lot of people feel that some things are better left private. I have to think about the feelings of others (especially the girl I hurt + whom I care about the most); I also think about how others will perceive me. Something I have always stuck by is that I am going to tell my story as it is, in good and bad, no matter what, and set a standard that for better or for worse, I am going to give you my truth exactly how it happens. This week, I didn't show up honest in my truth, and I paid the price of hurting someone who means a lot to me. I can't go back, can't change it, but I can take accountability, and I can learn from it. Here is my manifesto to stop avoiding hard conversations and uncomfortable actions and learn to face uncomfortable truths.

No Chapters This Week

Breakup Bootcamp: https://christopher-nappi.mykajabi.com/breakup-bootcamp

Apply to Work with Me: https://confidencechris.com/coachingapplication/

Website: https://confidencechris.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/confidence_chris/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@confidencechris

Not That Into You Mar 05, 2024

Show notes

A meeting with my therapist set off an inner conflict in me that pushed my long-distance situation to the edge. Can love in the talking stage really survive a cross-country distance? I also asked y'all the question "is he playing hard to get, or is he really not that into you?" A lot of people wondered can a man really be playing hard to get? Maybe it's more of determining if he's really into you, so I react to some of your situations such as sleeping with your boss, hanging out without going on dates, and if he asks for more time. Can you settle for something good if you know you want something great?

Chapters:

00:00 STRUGGLING WITH LONG DISTANCE

38:42 HE'S NOT THAT INTO YOU

Apply to Work with Me: https://confidencechris.com/coachingapplication/

Website: https://confidencechris.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/confidence_chris/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@confidencechris

Deleted Texts Feb 26, 2024

Show notes

I'm not going to lie (no pun intended); this week is a vulnerable look into a serious conflict that erupted over the past week with long-distance situation. How would you feel if you found out your partner deleted text messages? Would you leave the relationship? Are they really a bad person, or did they have a reason? I discuss a character trait that has destroyed a lot of my past relationships. I also answer, "How do I attract a stable man?" Bring your ice cubes because the tea is piping hot.

Chapters:

00:00 Long Distance Situation Deleted Texts Story

49:15 How to Find a Stable Man

Apply to Work with Me: https://confidencechris.com/coachingapplication/

Website: https://confidencechris.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/confidence_chris/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@confidencechris

Bad S*x Feb 19, 2024

Show notes

It's time to get down and dirty. This week, I will answer your questions: what is considered bad s*x from a man's perspective, how do I move on from or detach from them quickly (especially when I know it's not the right thing for me), and why do men are scared to make the first move. Before we get to that, I share a personal story about the tricky trials of the talking stage and posting your relationship on social media. It's time to shoot your shot, break free from their bullshit, and throw it down in the sheets.

Chapters:

00:00 Intro and Personal Update

26:14 Men Being Scared to Make First Move

41:24 What's Bad S*x from a Man's POV

55:18 How to Get Over Them Quick

Apply to Work with Me: https://confidencechris.com/coachingapplication/

Website: https://confidencechris.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/confidence_chris/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@confidencechris