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Interview with Bill Wooditch: How To Supercharge Your Motivation To Change Apr 11, 2018

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This week Kim interviews the unstoppable Bill Wooditch - a sales expert, speaker and best-selling author. Kim talks to Bill about how he motivated himself to change through his journey, how he was able to direct his focus and push through when failure seemed like the only option. They talk about how to identify and use both internal and external motivators to propel out of your comfort zone and towards what you want. This empowering conversation will help you realize that your past is simply a condition, but it doesn't have to determine your future. For starters, not bringing your past to the table (especially on the first date), always show up as your best self (hint: it's all about the outfit) and finally, be authentic, caring and LISTEN! This is a fun conversation you won't want to miss. If you are looking for a little external motivation to get out there and show up as your best self, sign up HERE: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a breakthrough session with Kim today! Also join her private Love Makeover Insiders Facebook group for women committed to transforming their love life inside & out https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL

Coaching With Kim: How To Get Beyond The First Date Apr 04, 2018

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This week a powerful and emotional live coaching episode with Kim's client, Anne. She's mastered the art of getting guys to the first date, but when it comes to securing the second one, she's stumped! Kim uncovers the REAL reasons why Anne can't get past the first encounter and why she can't find chemistry with any guy she meets. And it's not what you might think! Here Kim helps Anne face some surprising and revealing truths. Anne learns that when you gain clarity about what you want, and you express that intention directly, you begin attracting the kind of partners that match that intention. There are some juicy tips in how to get past fears and create connections upon first impression. If you are tired of feeling burnt out with dating and are interested in having your own breakthrough session either on air or off…sign up and book a time to talk with Kim HERE https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough

The Do's and Don'ts Of Virtual Dating Mar 28, 2018

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Does the thought of trying to curate the perfect online dating profile sound worse than a root canal? If so, don't worry…you are not alone! This week, Kim's got you covered as she takes you through the Dos and Don'ts of Virtual Dating. You'll learn simple tips on how to create an attention grabbing profile that will impress your next match. Kim talks about how to make a positive and lasting first impression. And, she'll walk you through how to engage in an online conversation so you don't come off like a robot in a business meeting. Remember, your online profile doesn't have to be perfect, it just has to be all about you. And, if you're looking to revamp your online profile and love life schedule a FREE breakthrough session with Kim and find out what is preventing you from finding love https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough

Interview With Julie Spira: Secrets To Online Dating Success Mar 21, 2018

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This week, every question you've ever had about how to maximize return on your online dating profile answered. Kim interviews Julie Spira, America's top online dating expert and digital matchmaker. Julie has spent her career mastering online dating from the early days of chatrooms, to the explosion of dating apps on the market today. No matter what platform you're using, if you're building your profile online, you won't want to miss her tips! Julie and Kim discuss what kind of pictures will catch your next date's attention and what to avoid. Plus, they discuss how integrating questions directly into your profile are foolproof conversation starters. If you're ready to update your dating profile, look no further. And, if you need a new outfit perfect for your next profile picture, be sure to grab Kim's FREE body type guide for men https://bl394-9b4f27.pages.infusionsoft.net/ and women https://bl394-8b8478.pages.infusionsoft.net/ to learn what clothes work for you and not against you!

Coaching With Kim: How To Pace Yourself When Dating Mar 13, 2018

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Are you interested in just having fun, growing into a relationship, or something else? It's up to you! This week on Coaching with Kim you will learnhow to tell if you're sending the right signals and how to determine your pacing in a new relationship. In this episode, you'll meet Sue -- she got married when she was 20 and divorced 31 years later. Now she's single, revamping her wardrobe, putting herself out there on dating apps and seeing a few new guys. Along with finding her voice in her newly single role, Sue is trying to strike the right balance with her flirting style. Kim helps Sue understand how getting clear on what she wants is essential to be able to send the right signals. If you're like Sue and have recently gotten out of a long relationship or marriage, it's all too easy to fall back into old patterns. Kim shares some tips on how to resist the urge to dive back into another relationship and take the opportunity to casually date new, different people. Kim also helps her talk about expressing her needs and wants confidently. And don't forget, if you want to put these skills to the test - sign up for Kim's Dating Makeover Retreat April 12-15 http://bit.ly/2D9IL7Y

How To Stop Being A Shapeshifter and People Pleaser Mar 06, 2018

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Stop being a shapeshifter and find the real you! This week, Kim talks about shapeshifting, or the ability to morph into what others want to see in order to be liked or praised. You may have recognized this phenomenon in others, or yourself. While shapeshifting can be a positive (it comes with incredible sales skills!), but it's impossible to maintain balanced relationships when one person is hiding who they really are. Kim goes through how to detect if you or your date is shapeshifting, how to express your needs outside your script and how to date for yourself! These tips will show you how to talk about what you love, what you stand for and what makes you tick without overdoing it or being needy. And, if you spot a shapeshifter in your life, this episode will teach you how to call them out and encourage them to express their authentic self. Don't forget, if you want to put these skills to the test - sign up for Kim's Dating Makeover Retreat April 12-15 http://bit.ly/2D9IL7Y

Interview with Myke Macapinlac: How to Increase Your Social Confidence Feb 28, 2018

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Kim and former shy guy Myke Macapinlac, founder of Social Confidence Mastery, discuss how the right outfit and little confidence can change everything for you. Myke is a lifestyle entrepreneur and social dynamic specialist who helps shy guys become socially confident. This week, Kim and Myke talk about how the clothing you wear impacts your world. And ladies you'll LOVE hearing a man's perspective on this. You'll hear some great tips on building self-assurance and how clothes can be a vehicle to help you feel attractive every day. Myke talks about how loving yourself, having a fulfilling lifestyle, dressing well and having rewarding friendships all come before finding lasting love in your life. If you're doubting whether this system actually works - it is scientifically proven that your outfit can put you in a different psychological state! Plus, if you need help getting a date to be in that relationship sign up for Kim's Dating Makeover Retreat! April 12-15 http://bit.ly/2D9IL7Y

Coaching With Kim: How To Date Smart & Without Guilt Feb 20, 2018

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This week on Coaching with Kim: a man's perspective! Kim talks with Stephen, a guy who's navigating his way through the casual dating space. Right now, he's trying to figure out how to balance diving in too deep too soon and taking it slow with the women he's seen recently. Stephen grew up in a family that wasn't super emotionally open. Kim talks through how this has likely manifested itself in his adult relationships. And, he highlights a major point about flirting that all the ladies listening should take note of. Finally, this episode is a great reminder that you are not responsible for other people's feelings as long as you express yourself in a truthful, respectful way. And, if you think Kim could help you work through something you're struggling with in your love life send an email to kimberly@seltzerstyle.com for a chance to be featured on an episode of Coaching With Kim! OR if you need help feeling confident and sexy to attract the right man...sign up for Kim's Dating Makeover Retreat April 12-15 http://bit.ly/2D9IL7Y

How to Feel Sexy Today and Every Day Feb 14, 2018

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It's that time of year again - stores are overflowing with heart shaped boxes of chocolate, teddy bears and bouquets of roses. Don't panic! The Valentine's Day frenzy doesn't have to make you feel insecure, lonely, or unsexy. Remember, feeling sexy is all about how you view yourself... and it's all up to you. In this week's episode, Kim gives some important tips about how you can feel and look sexy every single day. Embrace your feminine side, buy a new dress, throw on a pair of heels, or make a Pinterest board of sexy selfies! Kim shares some great strategies to empower you to feel good and love yourself as you are right now. Make sure to check out seltzerstyle.com and download her FREE sexy body shape guide to find out how to flatter your figure every day of the week. And, if you're looking to a fun weekend getaway to put these skills into practice, sign up for Kim's Dating and Makeover Retreat April 12-15 http://bit.ly/2D9IL7Y

Interview with Dr. Ish Major: Decoding Mistakes Men & Women Do In Relationships Feb 06, 2018

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Dr. Ish Major has been decoding the way men think and act in dating and relationships for his entire career. A board-certified psychiatrist and resident relationship expert on WEtv's Marriage Bootcamp, Dr. Ish has obviously seen his share of broken relationships! In today's episode, Kim and Ish discuss how men and women both assume they know exactly what the opposite sex wants - and nothing could be further from the truth! Ish shares some incredible tips on how to avoid making assumptions on your next date or in your current relationship. Here's a hint - say exactly what you want up front. These two break down some key differences in how men and women process and communicate information, why men and women lie and tell you how to set expectations for your partner. And, if you're in a relationship RIGHT NOW that needs some major TLC, sign up for Dr. Ish's Relationship Rescue and Recovery Boot Camp! https://drishmajor.mykajabi.com/a/7334/Rhe6FYYL or if you need help getting a date to be in that relationship sign up for Kim's Dating Makeover Retreat April 12-15 http://bit.ly/2D9IL7Y

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