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Dating With A Vacation Mentality Jun 29, 2022

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Have you ever wondered how to create more open, inviting, sexy energy when dating? The key is closer to home than you might think! This week, Kimmy explores the benefits of having a "vacation mentality" when dating. Listen in to hear her valuable tips and advice on the benefits of approaching your dating life the same way you approach a fun vacation. EPISODE 250 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With A Vacation Mentality When work, family and life start to create burnout in your life, keeping up with socializing and dating can start to feel like a chore. But, if you've made a commitment to putting yourself out there and meeting new people, you need strategies to help stop burnout in its tracks. Kimmy illuminates the benefits of having a vacation mentality in your dating life and simple steps you can take to start seeing the benefits quickly. Think back to the last time you were on vacation and you felt relaxed, curious and open to new experiences. Now ask yourself, how can you recreate that attitude and outlook in your everyday life? When you've got your head down, grinding away at work, it's easy to get into a rut. Listen in to learn how you can break your patterns and approach life with curiosity and energy which will instantly make you more attractive. Kimmy shares a key piece of advice that will resonate with high achievers. If you default to figuring things out on your own, this is your opportunity to learn how to use a vacation mentality in order to be more spontaneous, fun and less rigid. And, if you are feeling out of touch with your body, this is your cue to find that connection again. If you are battling burnout and losing your motivation to date, get in touch with Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough . Set up a time to chat with Kimmy in a free, 30-minute call. This conversation could change the direction of your love life and serve as the push you need to reset your outlook and date with a vacation mentality. EPISODE 250 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With A Vacation Mentality. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Vulnerability And Dating: Coaching with Kimmy Jun 22, 2022

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Do you believe that being vulnerable is TMI on a first date? How do you balance sharing enough of yourself to make an authentic connection without going overboard? Kimmy is here to help you navigate this essential piece of dating in one of our favorite segments, Coaching With Kimmy. Listen in to candid conversations between Kimmy and her clients looking to improve their love lives with practical advice they can use immediately. EPISODE 249 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Vulnerability And Dating: Coaching With Kimmy In this episode, you'll meet Garfield who's ready to put herself out there again after divorce and finds it challenging to be vulnerable and trust men when dating. Garfield shares her story and reflects on some of the challenges with scammers on dating apps she's experienced before. Newly single after leaving a long-term relationship, Garfield is working on defining what she wants, getting out of her head, and uncovering her confidence again when meeting new people socially. Kimmy shares some foundational advice for how to begin to open yourself up to other people again after being hurt. If you're like Garfield and have had a string of traumatic or painful experiences, it can feel overwhelming to begin putting yourself out there again. Listen in to hear some impactful and emotional breakthroughs Garfield has on this live call. You'll hear about the importance of taking small, intentional steps to work up to your loftiest goals. If you recognize that you are still in the process of healing, setting clear, attainable goals is key to making progress. This transformational conversation is a reminder that you have the power to shine and when ready, will attract people who want to help you shine even brighter! If you are finding yourself in lopsided relationships due to your walls being up, reach out to Kimmy and find a time to talk here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough . You deserve a happy, healthy, and fulfilling relationship! When you invest in yourself and your growth, you will be able to have the love life you have always wanted. EPISODE 249 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Vulnerability And Dating: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

ICYMI: Self-Sabotage When Dating: Interview With Brandon Wilson - Replay Jun 15, 2022

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When you consciously or even unconsciously ruin things to make them end, this is called self-sabotage. They say people who self-sabotage are somewhat afraid of intimacy in various forms and can act in different ways that can hurt themselves or others around them. Brandon Wilson is a communications and executive consultant who helps leaders and organizations identify the barriers that stop them from fulfilling their dreams. Brandon imparts his experience and story about his business relationship that cost him nearly everything. That experience has helped him develop a sabotage framework, which he wrote down in his book, Sabotage.

On this replay episode of The Charisma Quotient Podcast, host Kimmy Seltzer interviews Brandon Wilson. In this conversation, practical tools will be given to help you notice the patterns in your personal and love relationships that could sabotage your love life. They will also talk about different key signs to know if one is prone to sabotage from others and even yourself. The different red flags when establishing a healthy, growth-minded, and loving relationship. Once you can identify the signs, the more you are enlightened and capable of stopping these behaviors. Tune in on this episode to find out more!

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How Your Marriage Ends: Relationship-Killing Behavior And Communication Habits With Matthew Fray Jun 08, 2022

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Is your relationship in a bad place? What are the signs that your relationship is ending? Here to help you get to the bottom of a dying romance is Matthew Fray. Matthew is a relationship coach, writer, and subbed by the New York Times as "the man who coaches husbands on how to avoid divorce." He joins host Kimmy Seltzer to share the things he learned in his own divorce journey to help others save their relationships. They talk in-depth about the different behaviors and habits that lead to a dwindling intimacy you might not even be aware of with insights from his book, This is How Your Marriage Ends: A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships. Tune in and learn valuable lessons on relationships and the value of communication and self-awareness.

Dating With Confidence: Where Are They Now With Taylor Jun 01, 2022

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Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now? In these episodes, you'll hear intimate conversations with Kimmy and her clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since working with her. Listen in to hear what inspired them to invest in coaching, the secrets to their success and the biggest shifts since working with Kimmy. We love sharing these conversations to motivate you to take action and be inspired by the successes of others like you. This week, you'll meet Taylor, a high-achieving entrepreneur who was confident in every area of his life except dating.

EPISODE 247 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Confidence: Where Are They Now With Taylor Taylor shares that after his divorce, he was struggling with getting into relationships quickly, not sharing his emotions, and ultimately, not making the kind of connections he truly desired. Navigating a brand new dating scene and showing up as his authentic self online was challenging. Once Taylor recognized that he wanted to be in a healthy, lasting relationship he knew he needed to ask for help. Kimmy and Taylor discuss the different phases of dating and the goals for each phase. If you have struggled with focusing on what you can do for another person as opposed to how they make you feel when you're together, listen up! This conversation focuses on the power of shifting your mindset and learning to enjoy the processs while you build skills that will help you create more genuine connections when dating. Taylor shares the story of how he met a wonderful new woman, and how they hit it off! Here's a hint: being open and transparent about what he was looking for helped create a foundation for them both to be emotionally honest with one another. If you're like Taylor, and you're ready to understand the tools and strategies to find success in dating and meet higher quality people who are a good fit for you, all it takes is that first call. Reach out to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a free 30-minute call. Plus, Kimmy has a brand 6-week course culminating in a retreat, Spark Your Sexy: Live! https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/sparkyoursexylive/ for women coming up this July in gorgeous California. Start your journey to ignite your sexy confidence with a group of like-minded solo women to become the best versions of yourself. But hurry, the program starts soon and only a few spots left! EPISODE 247 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Confidence: Where Are They Now With Taylor. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Fall In Love With Yourself: Interview With Tracy Pattin May 25, 2022

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We've all heard the phrase "living your best life," but what does that really mean? This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Tracy Pattin, host of the celebrated Wondery podcast Hollywood and Crime, and expert on living her best solo (not single!) life. Tracy and Kimmy discuss the empowering nature of finding comfort and confidence in being alone. EPISODE 246 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Fall In Love With Yourself: Interview With Tracy Pattin Kimmy shares a story about the invaluable advice given to her by her mother in the aftermath of her divorce. Listen in to hear Kimmy identify the difference between internal and external validation and how to detect which one is driving your happiness. When you allow yourself to slow down and not rush towards a new relationship for comfort, but rather focus on relying on yourself to find peace, you will be stronger for it and attract healthier relationships. The moment you begin to discover that power within you, the more you will attract healthy, secure people into your life. Tracy talks about how she uses the ritual and routine to keep her present, focused and centered each day. Stay tuned for a lesson from Tracy based on a career in entertainment to provide strategies around facing the fear of rejection. You'll hear how having a kind, loving relationship with yourself is a key factor in not attracting relationships that don't serve you. If you are struggling with being alone or a crippling fear of rejection, reach out to Kimmy for a FREE 30-minute call https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ to map out a strategy to enrich your solo life. Plus, Kimmy has a brand 6-week course culminating in a retreat, Spark Your Sexy: Live! https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/sparkyoursexylive/ for women coming up this July in gorgeous California. Start your journey to ignite your sexy confidence with a group of like-minded solo women to become the best versions of yourself. Space is limited so reach out to Kimmy here to save your spot! EPISODE 246 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Fall In Love With Yourself: Interview With Tracy Pattin. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Strategies For Your Love Life: Interview With Dr. Robin Buckley May 18, 2022

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You have always been a high achiever. You know your worth and you've been recognized for the value you bring to the table in your professional life. But, when it comes to dating, you can't seem to figure out why you haven't been able to find the same success! This week, Kimmy has a fascinating conversation with Executive Coach and Relationship Strategist Dr. Robin Buckely, a leading authority on helping high achievers, executives, and couples improve their careers and relationships through psychology-based strategies. EPISODE 245 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Strategies For Your Love Life: Interview With Dr. Robin Buckley If you have a tendency to conduct your dates like high-pressure job interviews or lead interactions with your long list of accomplishments and have wondered why you rarely get a second date, this episode is for you! Listen in to hear how dating and creating deep, loving connections are rooted in feelings, not facts. You have the power to use your killer business instincts to help improve your love life, but you need a strategy to get there. Kimmy and Dr. Buckley share some key tips you can use to reframe your mindset, lean on your strengths and find success in love. Listen in to hear some incredible tools you can use right away, whether you are in a couple or not! Dr. Buckley and Kimmy discuss how the foundation of a strong relationship is not love, lust or sexual attraction but more that love can be found through intention, strategy and a concrete plan. This conversation will help you see that it's possible to interrupt patterns and behaviors that don't serve you in love. You can retrain your brain to intake information differently and start to see opportunities where you used to see challenges. And, if you've ever felt like a victim, struggling to feel in control, Kimmy and Dr. Buckley share a useful tip to help reframe your perspective to see things in a more positive light. Stay tuned to hear some great tips on how to use quotas in an unexpected way that will make your partner feel seen, heard, and loved every single day. If you need to ignite your sexy confidence with a dating plan and put strategies in place to break your bad habits, grab one of the few seats at Kimmy's new program, Spark Your Sexy: Live! It's a brand *NEW* 6-week course culminating in an in-person retreat in sunny California! Join a group of like-minded single women who are ready to create a plan for their dating life and find the love they've always wanted. Click here to apply and hurry as spaces are limited https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/sparkyoursexylive/ EPISODE 245 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Strategies For Your Love Life: Interview With Dr. Robin Buckley. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Healthy Boundaries & Communication When Dating: Coaching with Kimmy May 11, 2022

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Why does dating seem so easy for other people, but challenging for you? Do you find yourself feeling depleted from giving your energy to relationships or situationships that don't fulfill you? This week on the show, Kimmy live coaches Keyva who has developed a habit of attracting emotionally unavailable men. A self-admitted chameleon, she tends to match the energy of the men she's dating but she has found that she's losing herself in the process. This conversation is all about learning how to show up as your true, authentic self through using healthy boundaries and communication when dating. EPISODE 244 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Healthy Boundaries and Communication When Dating: Coaching With Kimmy You'll hear Keyva speak honestly about her upbringing and how she was rewarded and praised for her achievements when she was younger. Kimmy and Keyva uncover some old patterns that are repeating themselves in her dating life. Kimmy breaks down the steps to start to break the habits that don't serve Keyva in her dating life. Listen in to hear the key difference between setting healthy boundaries and putting your guard up in a way that shuts people out. Kimmy talks about the value of communicating in a clear and assertive way to define your wants and needs without worrying about what anyone else thinks. When you are able to communicate effectively when dating you will avoid developing feelings of resentment, anger and disappointment and weeds out the people that don't respect you more easily. Kimmy uncovers how to reframe your mindset to approach dating as a skill-building exercise instead of as an interview for your next significant other. Kimmy shares some quick, tangible tips you can use on your next date to shift your conversations immediately and start to see who's really there for you! If you are finding yourself in lopsided relationships or accepting crumbs when you deserve the whole cake, it's time to demand more for yourself. Reach out to Kimmy for a FREE introductory call here: https://go.oncehub.com/kimbreakthrough In half an hour, you can map out a strategy to find the loving, fulfilling relationship you deserve. EPISODE 244 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Healthy Boundaries and Communication When Dating: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

5 Surprising Biases That Keep You Single May 04, 2022

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We all have learned beliefs that shape how we see the world. Did you know you probably have hidden biases that are keeping you single? The beliefs and attitudes you hold are informed by your experiences -- stay tuned to hear why it's important to know the limits of your own perspective. Your thoughts and actions are directly impacted by how you see things, which contributes to your results when dating. This week, Kimmy shares the top 5 most common dating biases out there and what to do about them. This episode is all about making a choice to change your lens on life and see the power in becoming aware of your biases. Kimmy talks about how we're all susceptible to our biases and how they are mostly subconscious. EPISODE 243 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: 5 Surprising Biases That Keep You Single You'll hear tips around the 5 surprising types of biases and what you can do to become more conscious of them. Whether you always go for the same "type" or let one thing cloud your view of someone, you could be missing out on meeting someone great for you! If you have a tendency to keep making the same mistakes or attracting narcissists into your life, Kimmy's tip for catching confirmation bias can shift your love life dramatically. If you are stuck and are feeling anxious about going out there and meeting new people, listen in to hear a valuable "hack" around how to take small steps to override that bias. If you are ready to get over your hidden biases that might be keeping you stuck in dating, save your spot in Kimmy's brand new workshop for women on May 11th called Dating Secrets Decoded https://bl394.isrefer.com/go/DSDpodcast/KSeltzer/. This is a 2-hour interactive event where you will learn Kimmy's proven system for strategically spotlighting your dating archetype to boost your confidence, break bad dating habits, and become a fun dater that men can't wait to flirt with. If you're looking for tangible strategies to improve your dating life, sign up today - but hurry it starts soon and there are limited spots! EPISODE 243 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: 5 Surprising Biases That Keep You Single The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Surrendering To Create Real Love: Interview With Kute Blackson Apr 27, 2022

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Have you ever thought about surrendering to create love? That doesn't mean compromising your values or letting someone else or external expectations dictate your future. Truly surrendering to love isn't about losing yourself -- it's about showing up as your authentic self and letting your highest self guide your next move, one step at a time. This week on the show, Kimmy has an inspiring conversation with Kute Blackson, a celebrated, emerging thought leader in personal development and the author of The Magic of Surrender https://kuteblackson.com/products/themagicofsurrender/. If you have been searching for a sign to release yourself from the pressure of expectations or patterns that don't serve your deepest desires, this episode will invite you to think differently. EPISODE 242 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Surrendering To Create Real Love: Interview With Kute Blackson Kute tells the story of growing up in Ghana under the guidance of his father, a minister and a healer, to arriving in the US determined to make a name for himself in his own right. After studying for years with gurus, sages and monks across the world, Kute developed his own unique style of coaching people to make transformational shifts in their life, based on a theory of "un-conditioning". If you feel family or societal expectations of what you "should" want or do are creating obstacles for you to succeed and fulfill your purpose in life, listen in. Kimmy and Kute talk through how to set goals that are authentic to you and the key factors that help you push past arising fear to stay on your chosen path. Stay tuned for a killer tip that will help you determine if you are on a path that is aligned with your highest self. If you are coming up against challenges over and over and you don't seem to be progressing beyond them, you'll hear some incredible advice on releasing yourself from those limitations and becoming more open. Kute shares the unbelievable story of how his parents met, and truly speaks to the power and magic of surrender to lead you to where you are meant to be. Kimmy and Kute dive into the incredible benefits of maintaining an open mind and open heart, not getting attached to the outcome, and how to spark meaningful change in your life by taking intentional action. If you are feeling the weight and pressure of external obligations and don't feel that you are living and searching for love from a place of alignment, maybe it's time to surrender. Reach out to Kimmy for a free 30-minute call here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough When you are ready to do the work to uncover the kind of relationship you truly want, the power of surrender could be the key to leading you to where you want to be! EPISODE 242 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Surrendering To Create Real Love: Interview With Kute Blackson. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

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