Blessed + Bossed Up

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Falling into Sin Nov 28, 2024

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As we wrap up the final live episode of 2024, host Tatum Ayomike reflects on eight incredible years of the Blessed + Bossed Up podcast. From heartfelt thanks to loyal listeners to a deep dive into Chapter 4 of Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritz, this episode focuses on the vital leadership trait of brokenness and its role in maintaining a Christ-centered life. Tatum emphasizes the importance of spiritual discipline and accountability, sharing lessons from scripture and practical examples for leaders in both the physical and digital spaces.

The episode concludes with encouragement to stay connected during the upcoming break with reruns of fan-favorite episodes and a preview of exciting content for 2025.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

Reflections on the journey of Blessed + Bossed Up and what’s to come in 2025.
Key insights from Chapter 4 of Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritz, including:

The nature of brokenness as a leadership trait.
The dangers of pride and the pull toward sin.
Practical examples of maintaining humility and dependence on God.

The importance of spiritual discipline and vigilance for modern leaders, particularly in the online space.
How to draw inspiration from athletes' discipline and apply it to spiritual growth.

Scriptures Referenced in This Episode:

1 Timothy 3:6-7
2 Timothy 2:20-22
1 Corinthians 9:24-27
Galatians 2:20
1 Corinthians 10:12
1 John 1:8

Homework Assignment:

Watch a sports documentary that highlights the dedication and discipline of top athletes. Use it as inspiration to assess your own spiritual discipline and commitment to eternal priorities.

Reruns During the Break:

Stay tuned for replays of some of the best episodes over the years, handpicked to inspire and equip you during December. Twice a week, these episodes will keep the wisdom and encouragement flowing as we prepare for a fresh start in 2025.

Resources Mentioned:

Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts https://a.co/d/07Gthfy
Netflix documentaries referenced: Simone Biles: Courage to Soar, Sprints, and Starting 5

Thank you for an incredible year of growth and support. As we enter 2025, let’s continue to live out our calling, making God the CEO of every area of our lives. See you in the new year!

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Mailbag: Navigating Spiritual Growth, Pride, and Overwhelm Nov 25, 2024

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In this special mailbag episode, Tatum answers questions submitted by her audience, covering a variety of topics related to spiritual growth, entrepreneurship, and personal development. From navigating guilt and conviction in your spiritual journey to handling pride and self-sufficiency in business, Tatum shares practical advice and biblical wisdom to help you walk boldly in your faith and purpose.

Episode Highlights:

Question 1: Navigating Guilt and Spiritual Growth

A listener asks about overcoming guilt associated with seeking deeper spiritual understanding and reconciling it with their upbringing in Southern Christianity.
Key takeaways:
Recognize the difference between guilt and conviction from the Holy Spirit.
Be cautious of spiritual practices that may appear safe but are not biblically sound.
True spiritual depth comes from abiding in Christ, studying His word, and enduring trials with obedience and faith.

Question 2: Dealing with Prideful Thoughts

A listener asks about managing pride in the face of accomplishments.
Key takeaways:
Understand that pride can manifest as self-sufficiency, not just self-exaltation.
Maintain a posture of humility by reflecting on God’s role in your journey.
Obedience to God and the process He’s taking you through are the true measures of success.

Question 3: Overcoming Overwhelm During Transitions

A listener juggling a new business, certifications, and a job search asks how to manage the overwhelm.
Key takeaways:
Submission to God and structure in daily life are key.
Practical tools like AI (e.g., ChatGPT) can help create schedules and plans tailored to your specific needs.
Surrendering to God’s timing and seeking His guidance brings peace amid transitions.

Question 4: Restarting a Podcast with Impact

A listener shares their struggle with podcast inconsistency and asks how to relaunch effectively.
Key takeaways:
Focus on show development: research your audience, clarify your message, and create a plan.
Use tools like surveys and analytics to tailor your content to your audience's needs.
Consistency and preparation are key to overcoming creative blocks.

Question 5: Discerning a Career Transition

A listener asks how to know if God is prompting a career change after a difficult semester teaching.
Key takeaways:
Seek God’s guidance and be patient for His answer.
Process emotions from the challenging season and allow God to provide peace and clarity.
Trust that God will reveal the right time and way to transition.

Introducing Purified & Proven Podcast Nov 22, 2024

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In today’s episode, Tatum introduces one of her amazing mentees, Clarissa and her new podcast, Purified and Proven. Tatum shares the inspiring story of Clarissa's journey to launch her show, overcoming self-doubt and distractions to walk in obedience to God’s calling.

The Purified and Proven Podcast is designed to help believers stay committed to their walk with God, offering practical advice and encouragement to navigate the mental and emotional struggles of the Christian journey. Tatum highlights a sample episode titled Nothing is Too Hard for God: Overcoming Doubt and Trusting His Promises, which explores how limiting beliefs and self-doubt can hinder us from fully trusting God’s plan.

Tune in to hear Clarissa’s powerful insights, reflection questions, and actionable steps to grow in faith and embrace your God-given identity. https://redcircle.com/shows/purifiedandproven/ep/702b54bb-fc45-48e8-a67c-e3ab44da48c3

Principles for Partnership Nov 19, 2024

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In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum wraps up the 2024 Bible on Business series with a powerful discussion on partnerships. Whether you’re navigating a co-founder relationship, exploring joint ventures, or seeking strategic alliances, this episode is packed with wisdom from Genesis 13:7-11. Tatum shares her personal experiences with partnerships, the lessons she’s learned, and how the Bible offers valuable guidance for navigating business collaborations.

Key Points Covered:

Podcast Update:
Tatum announces a December break to recharge and seek God’s direction for year 8 of the podcast.
Principles for Partnership:
This week’s episode dives into Genesis 13:7-11, exploring the partnership between Abram and Lot.

Four Key Principles for Successful Partnerships:

Understand Partnership Types:
Explore different partnership structures such as general, limited, and joint ventures to determine the best fit for your business.
Prioritize Peace and Relationships:
Like Abram, prioritize peace over profit and trust God to guide your decisions.
Think Long-Term:
Avoid short-sighted decisions. Keep the big picture in mind for sustainable growth.
Embrace Separation for Growth:
Sometimes, stepping away from a partnership creates space for individual success and divine elevation.

Real-Life Examples:

Tatum shares stories of her entrepreneurial journey, including partnerships in her first business, the Blessed + Bossed Up podcast, and Anchored Media Studios. She also highlights successful partnerships like Amazon, PayPal, and Apple to illustrate how collaboration can drive growth—and how conflict can sometimes necessitate change.

Scripture of the Week:

Genesis 13:7-11

Reflection Questions:

Are you open to partnerships, and have you sought God’s guidance in your collaborations?
How can you apply the principles from Abram and Lot’s story to your business?

Final Thoughts:

Tatum reminds us that God often uses partnerships to elevate our work, but we must remain humble and obedient to His guidance. As she prepares for a new season, she encourages listeners to trust God in all business decisions, including collaborations.

Surrendering to God Nov 14, 2024

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Episode Summary:

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our book club journey through Leadership as an Identity by Crawford W. Loritz, focusing on Chapter 3: "Surrendering to God." Tatum dives deep into the foundational Christian principle of surrender and explores how living a life fully submitted to God transforms your leadership and aligns you with His will. Drawing from Romans 12:1-2 and the life of King Uzziah, Tatum highlights the dangers of pride, the importance of humility, and how consistent surrender ensures God’s hand remains on your life and leadership.

Key Points:

Book Club Update:
We’re reading Leadership as an Identity. Catch up on past episodes for insights on Chapters 1 and 2.
Grab your copy via the link in the show notes and join us as we read through Chapter 6 or 7 before our winter break.
Episode Highlights:
The transformative power of surrender as emphasized in Romans 12:1-2.
How brokenness leads to true surrender.
The formula: Surrender + Transformation = Discernment of God’s Will.
The importance of living a consecrated life to experience God’s guidance and blessings.
Lessons from King Uzziah’s Life (2 Chronicles 26):
The dangers of pride and self-reliance.
How consistent success without surrender leads to downfall.
Three key lessons on leadership, humility, and the consequences of stepping outside of God’s boundaries.
Challenge:
Tatum proposes a “Winter Surrender Challenge” inspired by the “Winter Arc” trend. Use the remaining weeks of the year to:
Focus on surrendering your life fully to God.
Practice daily holiness through conscious choices in media, food, rest, and service.
Limit worldly influences and prioritize time in the Word.

Homework:

Read and reflect on 2 Chronicles 26 to study King Uzziah’s story.
Identify areas in your life where you can deepen your surrender to God.

Resources Mentioned:

Leadership as an Identity by Crawford W. Loritz – https://a.co/d/hcoWf8X
Bible apps for daily study: Dwell, Abide, and YouVersion.

A Desperate Need for God Nov 07, 2024

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We explore one of the core traits of godly leadership: Brokenness. This chapter opens with a story about Jason, a fictional character embodying the struggles many leaders face when pride and self-sufficiency creep in. His journey shows how brokenness and dependence on God are essential for lasting influence.

Key Takeaways:

The Danger of Self-Sufficiency

Jason’s story highlights how pride can lead to isolation, even when outward success is evident. His struggles serve as a reminder that self-sufficiency is a subtle but dangerous trap.

What is Brokenness?

Brokenness is a conscious, ongoing awareness of your need for God in all things. It’s not a one-time event but a lifestyle that keeps you humble and dependent on Him.

Inadequacy as a Strength

Feeling inadequate is an opportunity to rely on God’s power. Leaders often face assignments bigger than their natural abilities, and that gap is where God shows up.

The Role of Humility in Leadership

Whether young or experienced, leaders must guard against pride. The author emphasizes that godly leadership requires character over competence and dependency over self-reliance.

Isaiah 57:15

This scripture beautifully captures God’s dual nature: His sovereignty and His closeness to the humble and brokenhearted. He revives those who acknowledge their need for Him.

Encouragement for Leaders:

If you’re facing an overwhelming task, remember: There is always a gap between what you have and what God wants done. Let this gap drive you to deeper dependence on Him. Your inadequacy is not a barrier but an invitation for God to work through you.

Next Steps:

We’ll cover Chapter 3 in the next episode, so stay tuned! If you haven’t already, grab your copy of Leadership as an Identity . This book will challenge and equip you to lead with humility and dependence on God. https://a.co/d/hcoWf8X

Introducing: Girl, Relax and Trust God Podcast Nov 05, 2024

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Welcome to a very special episode where I have the honor of introducing a show that I love, The Girl, Relax, and Trust God Podcast. This incredible new podcast is hosted by one of my mentees, Janique Price, and is designed for women who are ready to reclaim their peace and joy by placing their trust in God’s plan.

About the Podcast

The Girl, Relax, and Trust God Podcast is for the strong woman: the one who is always the listening ear, the advice giver, and the pillar for her loved ones. If you find yourself battling overthinking, busyness, perfectionism, or the stress of carrying a heavy mental load from countless responsibilities, then this podcast is for you. Janique Price has crafted each episode to speak directly to women who often show up for everyone but sometimes struggle to find rest for their own soul. Each week, Janique shares real-life stories, discusses meaningful topics, and dives into scripture, offering strategies and encouragement to help you strengthen your faith and let go of stress.

Episode: “Girl, Eliminate the Noise”

In this powerful episode, Janique discusses the importance of surrendering to God and disconnecting from the distractions of this world to truly find peace. Drawing inspiration from Mark 4:35-36, where Jesus retreats from the crowd, Janique emphasizes the necessity of leaving the noise behind to deepen your relationship with God. She highlights how fear and the need for control can prevent true surrender, leaving us feeling overwhelmed and exhausted. Janique also shares a practical framework called STOP, a simple method to help you refocus and reconnect with God amidst life’s chaos.

Key Takeaways from the Episode:

Scriptural Foundation: Mark 4:35-36 serves as a reminder to leave the noise and distractions behind, just as Jesus did.
The STOP Framework:
S: Stop. Pause the physical movement to give your body and mind a chance to be still.
T: Take a breath. Practice intentional breathing to regulate your nervous system.
O: Observe. Take note of your thoughts and feelings, and be honest with yourself about what’s weighing on you.
P: Pray. Speak God’s Word over your situation, and proceed with confidence knowing He is with you.
Practical Advice: Janique provides actionable steps on how to limit distractions, such as putting your phone on "Do Not Disturb," setting boundaries, and intentionally seeking quiet time with God.

How to Listen and Subscribe

You can listen to The Girl, Relax, and Trust God Podcast on all major platforms. Make sure to subscribe, rate, and share the show with your friends and loved ones who need encouragement and a reminder to rest in God’s plan.

Episode Links

Subscribe to the Podcast: https://redcircle.com/shows/girl-relax-and-trust-god

I’m so excited for you to experience this podcast.

Disrupt Well Oct 28, 2024

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Welcome back to another installment of our Bible on Business series! In today’s episode, we dive into the powerful message that Kingdom Entrepreneurs are Disruptors. Through the example of Apostle Paul in Ephesus (Acts 19:23-32), we explore how true kingdom businesses inevitably challenge cultural and economic norms, much like Paul’s ministry did against idolatry and occultic practices in Ephesus.

Episode Highlights:

The Disruptive Impact of Kingdom Businesses
Paul’s ministry in Ephesus created an economic and spiritual ripple effect, revealing the clash between kingdom values and societal idols like greed, idolatry, and exploitation. As kingdom entrepreneurs, we must be prepared to face similar resistance when operating with integrity and purpose.
The Inevitable “Riot”
Just as Paul’s ministry sparked a riot, modern kingdom businesses often challenge norms that are deeply embedded in the business world. From hustle culture to manipulative marketing, today’s entrepreneurs are called to disrupt these standards, knowing that resistance is part of the journey.
Building Businesses with Integrity and Impact
Tatum shares practical tips for maintaining purity in business, including transparent pricing, prioritizing purpose over profit, and incorporating charity. By staying rooted in prayer, relying on community support, and being intentional about leaving a legacy that glorifies God rather than self, entrepreneurs can build resilient, kingdom-focused businesses.

Key Takeaways for Disruptive Kingdom Entrepreneurship:

Transparent Pricing and Practices – Build trust by being open about materials, sources, and policies that prioritize integrity.
Prioritize Purpose Over Profit – Support charitable causes or community initiatives, demonstrating that the kingdom purpose is greater than the bottom line.
Root Yourself in Prayer and Community – Prayer and community are essential for navigating the challenges of disrupting worldly systems.
Ensure a Legacy of Faith, Not Fame – Aim to leave a Christ-centered legacy by putting Christ at the center of all business activities.

Scripture Reference:

Acts 19:23-32 – Paul’s ministry in Ephesus and the disruptive impact it had on a society steeped in idolatry.

Tatum encourages listeners to embrace the reality that as kingdom entrepreneurs, they’re called to disrupt the status quo. With wisdom from Paul’s journey and practical tips, this episode empowers listeners to courageously confront opposition, build ethically, and leave a lasting impact that glorifies God.

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Leadership as an Identity Oct 21, 2024

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Welcome back to another episode of the Blessed and Bossed Up podcast, presented by Anchored Media! This entrepreneurship podcast is designed for Christians seeking to make God the CEO of their businesses. Today, we kick off the first installment of our new Blessed and Bossed Up Book Club, diving into Leadership as an Identity by Dr. Crawford L. Loritts.

In This Episode:

After finishing Battlefield of the Mind by Joyce Meyer, we’re starting a new book focused on the four traits of godly leadership: brokenness, uncommon communion, servanthood, and radical obedience.
Dr. Loritts discusses how leadership is a calling from God, requiring traits that go beyond skills and abilities. The person God trusts with leadership is the person who can fulfill His divine assignments.
We talk about how this book is especially timely as we approach the new year. Now is the perfect time to evaluate our leadership roles and focus on becoming leaders who honor God’s standards, not just the world’s.

What We Discuss:

Introduction to the Book:

Dr. Crawford L. Loritts was initially hesitant about writing this book, believing enough leadership books existed. However, after teaching a leadership class, he realized the need for this unique perspective on Christian leadership.

The Four Leadership Traits:

Brokenness
Uncommon Communion
Servanthood
Radical and Immediate Obedience

Phases of Leadership:

Learning (Ages 20-40): Focus on flexibility, growth, and remaining open to God's direction.
Leveraging (Ages 40-60): Balancing success with humility, staying diligent, and not becoming complacent.
Leaving (Ages 60+): Preparing the next generation by sharing wisdom and experiences while continuing to serve.

Key Perspectives on Leadership:

The importance of avoiding the secularization of Christian leadership and keeping a God-centered approach in all leadership tasks.
Understanding that godly leadership is not about position or fame but about fulfilling God's assignments.

Why This Book Matters: As Christian entrepreneurs, leaders, and business owners, it's critical to align our leadership with biblical principles, ensuring that everything we do is for God's glory and not for worldly success. This episode challenges you to reflect on your leadership style and commit to leading with purpose, guided by God’s direction.

Next Steps:

We will be covering Chapters 1-7 through December 2, 2024, before taking a podcast break. Get your copy of Leadership as an Identity to follow along and dive deeper into these powerful insights on godly leadership.

Resources:

Grab your copy of Leadership as an Identity https://a.co/d/2OyOUQv

Purify your POV Oct 18, 2024

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Welcome back to another episode of the Blessed and Bossed Up podcast, presented by Anchored Media! In today’s episode, Tatum continues the Bible on Business series by diving into the book of Ecclesiastes, offering a sobering reflection on the meaning of life, success, and our pursuit of wealth and achievement. This episode will challenge listeners to rethink their definition of success and provide much-needed perspective and peace as we approach Q4 planning.

Key Points:

Bible on Business Series: Tatum reminds us that as entrepreneurs, everything we need for our businesses—whether it’s marketing, sales, leadership, or mindset—is found in the Word of God. There’s no need to seek supplemental resources when God has provided wisdom and guidance through scripture.
Ecclesiastes Overview: The book of Ecclesiastes is a deep reflection on the fleeting nature of life, offering a reality check for those of us striving for wealth and success. The preacher in Ecclesiastes reminds us that everything in life is like smoke—seemingly tangible but impossible to grasp.
Striving for Success: Tatum speaks directly to those feeling overwhelmed by the pressures of success, career advancement, and comparison. The constant pursuit of material wealth and validation can leave us feeling empty, and Ecclesiastes offers wisdom that redirects our focus to what truly matters: obedience to God.
False Teachings in Christian Entrepreneurship: Tatum highlights the dangers of prosperity gospel teachings that have rebranded themselves as Christian entrepreneurship. These teachings falsely equate material wealth and success with God’s favor, distorting the true biblical message. She emphasizes that success is pleasing God and living in obedience to His word, not accumulating material wealth.
A Biblical Perspective of Success: True success is defined by faithfulness to God, not the world’s standards. Ecclesiastes reminds us that life’s pursuits are temporary, and only reverence to God and obedience to His commands will provide lasting peace, joy, and eternal rewards.

Scriptures Referenced:

Ecclesiastes 1:2 – Everything is meaningless, a reflection on the futility of life’s pursuits.
Philippians 4:11-13 – Learning contentment in all circumstances.
Matthew 6:31-33 – Trusting God for provision as we seek His kingdom first.
1 Timothy 6:17-19 – Using wealth to do good and glorify God.
James 1:2-4 – Embracing trials and suffering as opportunities for spiritual growth.

Takeaways:

Redefining Success: Success is not about wealth, status, or recognition but about obeying God and being faithful to His commands.
The Dangers of Prosperity Gospel: Tatum dissects the false teachings of prosperity theology and urges believers to reject this harmful mindset. True biblical teaching calls for sacrifice, contentment, and obedience, not materialism.
Perspective Shift for Q4: As we approach Q4 and begin reflecting on the year and planning for 2025, Tatum encourages listeners to adopt the correct point of view of success. This will bring clarity, peace, and alignment with God’s will in both life and business.

Action Steps:

Reflect: Take time this week to read or listen to Ecclesiastes. Consider how your own definition of success lines up with biblical teachings.
Plan with Purpose: Use the lessons from today’s episode to adjust your mindset as you plan for the future, focusing on God’s will and not the pressures of worldly success.
Share: If this episode blessed you, share it with a friend or colleague, especially if you're entering planning sessions for the new year.