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His Direction Feb 25, 2025

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In this episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, the discussion centers on chapter 10 of Leadership as an Identity: The Four Traits of Those Who Wield Lasting Influence by Crawford Loritz. The host dives into the transformative process of receiving God's direction and emphasizes that true Christian leadership is founded on a deep, personal relationship with God rather than self-reliance or a complete blueprint from the start.

Key Themes & Insights:

The Structure of Leadership:
The book is divided into four parts: Brokenness, Uncommon Communion, Servanthood, and Radical & Immediate Obedience.
This episode focuses on “His Direction” within the Uncommon Communion section, highlighting how leadership starts with God’s presence.
Core Message of Christian Leadership:
Leadership is not about having all the answers but about doing what God wants done.
Trusting God’s process means accepting that He provides enough direction to take the next step—even if the full picture isn’t revealed right away.
Biblical Foundations & Practical Lessons:
Emphasis on the power of consistent communion with God, drawing from Psalm 32:8 and the example of Moses in Exodus.
Moses’ habit of meeting with God in the tent of meeting illustrates the necessity of removing distractions and staying grounded in divine guidance.
Four key lessons from Moses’ experience include:
Making meeting with God a consistent habit.
Seeking His presence away from the clamor of everyday life.
Inspiring confidence in others by modeling a life deeply connected to God.
Embracing an intimate, friendship-like relationship with the Lord.
Personal Reflections & Testimonies:
The host shares personal stories of seeking God’s direction during times of uncertainty and growth.
A powerful vision of a ribbon cutting ceremony foreshadowed the eventual establishment of Anchored Media Studios, reinforcing that God’s assignments often unfold gradually as we obey His call.
An honest account of the struggle between the rush to act and the need to remain in constant communion with God, reminding us to stay humble and obedient.
Practical Guidance for Leaders:
Prioritize time with God over chasing activity or external validation.
Avoid relying solely on self-help or external advice; instead, cultivate a deep, personal relationship with the Lord.
Recognize that growth in leadership comes from continuous obedience, learning, and transformation through God’s instructions.

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What Strategic Timing Looks Like Feb 21, 2025

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In this episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, we continue our Bible on Business series by diving into the significance of strategic timing. Tatum unpacks the powerful lessons from Acts 2, examining how the Lord orchestrated the perfect moment for Pentecost and how this applies to our business and leadership journeys. She discusses why waiting on God’s timing is crucial, how to avoid premature leadership, and how divine strategy ensures maximum impact.

Through the transformation of Peter, the example of Chick-fil-A’s success, and personal reflections on her own journey, Tatum emphasizes the importance of trusting God's plan. If you’re in a season of waiting or feeling impatient about your business or calling, this episode will encourage and challenge you to surrender to God's divine orchestration.

Key Takeaways:

God’s Timing Ensures Maximum Impact: Pentecost happened at the exact right moment to maximize the spread of the gospel. Likewise, waiting on God's timing in your business will lead to greater impact.
The Right People Will Be in Place When It's Time: God gathers the right audience, customers, and community when the timing aligns with His plan.
Strategic Preparation Precedes Breakthrough: Just as Peter had to go through a transformation process, we must embrace personal and professional development while waiting for God’s move.
Sudden Breakthroughs Are Often Years in the Making: From Jesus preparing 30 years for a 3-year ministry to Chick-fil-A’s 20-year foundation before expansion, major success takes time and patience.
Avoid Premature Leadership & Decision-Making: Acting ahead of God’s plan can lead to consequences. Learning to wait well is key to success in both business and faith.

Announcements:

Applications for the Purposed to Podcast program are still open! If you’re looking for mentorship from a proven podcast coach who integrates faith and business, apply now. This is the only cohort for 2025! Click the link in the show notes to learn more - https://www.videoask.com/fsq9j855v

Scriptures Mentioned:

Acts 2:1-5 – The divine timing of Pentecost
Leviticus 23:15-16 – The significance of the Feast of Weeks
Deuteronomy 16:16 – The biblical foundation for gathering at Pentecost
Matthew 16:16-23 – Peter’s faith and spiritual immaturity
John 18:10-11 – Peter’s rash decision-making

His Presence Feb 17, 2025

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In this episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, we continue our book club discussion on Leadership as an Identity: The Four Traits of Those Who Wield Lasting Influence by Crawford W. Loritts. This week, we dive into Chapter 9, His Presence, exploring how true leadership requires an uncommon communion with God. Tatum unpacks the significance of leading from God’s presence and shares personal experiences of how seeking Him first provides wisdom, direction, and supernatural provision.

Key Points Covered:

Book Club Update – We’re halfway through Leadership as an Identity. Tatum is considering a faith-based book next. Email recommendations to tatum@tatumtemia.com.
The Power of God’s Presence – Leadership is not just about strategy but about being deeply connected to God.
Moses’ Encounter in Exodus 33 – Why Moses refused to move without God’s presence and how that applies to us today.
Personal Testimony – How seeking God’s presence gave Tatum a divine financial strategy for hiring a nanny while preparing for law school.
The Rest That Comes from God – Leading from His presence brings peace, confidence, and sustainability in life and business.
Are You Leading from His Presence? – The importance of fully integrating faith and leadership rather than compartmentalizing them.

Links & Resources:

Leadership as an Identity by Crawford W. Loritts – https://www.amazon.com/dp/0802429874?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_00AMZZF65KBFAM8B643F&skipTwisterOG=1&bestFormat=true&newOGT=1

Purposed to Podcast Mentorship – Want to work with Tatum to grow your podcast? https://www.videoask.com/fsq9j855v

Join the Conversation:

Have book suggestions for the next book club pick? Email Tatum at tatum@tatumtemia.com.

Every Christian Creator Needs to Hear This Feb 12, 2025

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In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum shares a powerful message originally delivered during the Christian Content Creator Town Hall. She breaks down the difference between content creation and thought leadership, urging Christian entrepreneurs to shift their focus from chasing trends to establishing influence that truly shifts culture.

Key Takeaways:

The love-hate relationship many entrepreneurs have with social media
Why building solely on platforms you don’t own is risky
The dangers of social media for mental health and business sustainability
The Lord’s call for Christians to be thought leaders, not just content creators
The difference between thought leadership and content creation:
Thought leaders shift culture; content creators follow trends
Thought leaders provide original insights; content creators focus on visibility
Thought leaders build authority and intellectual property; content creators depend on algorithms
Thought leaders monetize through high-ticket offers, consulting, and speaking engagements
Biblical examples of thought leadership, including Jesus, Paul, and Nehemiah
Actionable steps to transition from content creator to thought leader

Practical Steps to Shift to Thought Leadership:

Create transformational content – Focus on depth, insight, and teaching rather than just trends.
Develop original frameworks & methodologies – Build a unique approach to solving problems in your niche.
Establish a signature thought leadership platform – Choose a long-form format like a podcast, book, or newsletter to house your expertise.
Build a community – Thought leaders cultivate deeper engagement beyond just followers.

Resources Mentioned:

Join the Purposed to Podcast Program: The only cohort of 2025 is now open for enrollment! Work with Tatum to develop your podcast and thought leadership. https://www.videoask.com/fsq9j855v
Study Guide: Homework! Dive deeper into biblical thought leaders: Moses, Nehemiah, Daniel, Esther, Solomon, John the Baptist, and Paul.

Final Encouragement:

If you've been frustrated with social media, struggling with content consistency, or feeling like you're just chasing the algorithm, this episode is for you. God has called you to be more than a content creator—He wants you to be a thought leader. Seek Him, embrace originality, and build something that lasts beyond platforms and trends.

His Resources Feb 10, 2025

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In this episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, we continue our Leadership as an Identity book club discussion, diving into Section Two: Uncommon Communion. Tatum explores what it means to lead with God rather than just for Him. She shares insights on the dangers of relying on our own abilities and the importance of maintaining intimacy with God in our leadership journey.

We discuss:

✨ The four identity characteristics of Christian leaders

✨ Why our success isn’t solely based on skills, education, or experience

✨ The difference between doing work for God vs. with God

✨ The dangers of self-reliance and how to remain dependent on the Lord

✨ How to cultivate uncommon communion and tap into God’s wisdom for leadership

Challenge for the Week:

Create a personal “Hall of Faith” by identifying key moments in your faith journey where God transitioned you to a new level. Display photos, mementos, or symbols that remind you of these defining moments.

🔗 Resources Mentioned:

📖 Leadership as an Identity – https://www.amazon.com/dp/0802429874?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_00AMZZF65KBFAM8B643F&skipTwisterOG=1&bestFormat=true&newOGT=1

The Dangers of Premature Leadership Feb 05, 2025

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In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue the Bible on Business series, focusing on leadership through the lens of the Book of Acts. Many Christian entrepreneurs seek wisdom from business books and experts but often overlook the rich, strategic insight found in scripture. Today, we’re discussing premature leadership—the dangers of stepping into a role before being spiritually, emotionally, and practically prepared.

Tatum unpacks the risks of moving ahead of God’s timing and shares biblical and real-world case studies of leaders who failed due to impatience, lack of preparation, or secondhand faith. She also provides actionable steps to avoid premature leadership and ensure that you lead in alignment with God’s plan.

Key Topics Covered:

Why waiting on God’s timing is crucial for leadership and success
Biblical insights on premature leadership from Acts 1 and Acts 19 (Sons of Sceva)
Real-world business case studies: WeWork’s downfall and the Theranos scandal
The consequences of launching a business or ministry too soon
The importance of character development and preparation
How to avoid premature leadership and ensure you’re moving in step with God

Scriptures Mentioned:

Acts 1:4-5 – Jesus instructs the apostles to wait before stepping into their calling
Ecclesiastes 3:1 – “To everything there is a season…”
Proverbs 19:2 – “Desire without knowledge is not good; how much more will hasty feet miss the way?”
Habakkuk 2:3 – “If it seems slow in coming, wait patiently, for it will surely take place.”
Acts 19:13-19 – The Sons of Sceva and the consequences of secondhand faith
1 Timothy 3:6 – The dangers of placing a new believer in leadership

Biblical Figures to Study:

King Saul, Moses, Sons of Sceva, Abraham & Sarah, Rehoboam, Uzzah

Action Steps to Avoid Premature Leadership:

Learn from others' mistakes – Study both biblical and business case studies
Develop your character and skillset – Don't step into a role you’re not prepared for
Embrace the preparation season – Trust that God is shaping you for your future assignment
Wait for the Holy Spirit’s confirmation – Don’t launch before being empowered by the Spirit

Resources & Links:

Register for the Replay of the Christian Content Creator Town Hall → https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/AuX5ijYd7wa4
Apply for the Purposed to Podcast Program → https://www.videoask.com/fsq9j855v

Dealing with Discouragement Jan 30, 2025

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In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our deep dive into Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts. We explore Chapter 7, "Dealing with Discouragement," the final chapter in the book’s first section on brokenness. Tatum shares her personal experiences with discouragement, particularly as she prepares for law school and navigates business challenges. She discusses the importance of choosing truth, joy, faith, community, and service as essential tools to combat discouragement and remain steadfast in faith. This episode is filled with wisdom for Christian entrepreneurs and leaders facing setbacks or uncertainty in their journey.

Key Takeaways:

Understanding Brokenness: Brokenness is a necessary trait of Christian leadership, alongside uncommon communion, servanthood, and radical obedience.
The Reality of Discouragement: Every leader faces discouragement, but how we respond determines if it will break us or refine us.
Choosing Truth: Avoid denial and embrace both the reality of challenges and the truth of God’s Word.
Choosing Joy: Joy is a choice, not an involuntary response. Focus on the presence of God rather than circumstances.
Choosing Faith: Faith requires trusting God even when the future feels uncertain.
Choosing Community: Isolation can distort reality. Surrounding yourself with wise counsel and support is vital.
Choosing Service: Serving others even in difficult times brings healing and purpose.

Announcements:

Christian Content Creator Town Hall: Join me for this live event where I’ll be sharing insights for Christian podcasters and content creators. I’ll also be opening my mentorship program for the only cohort of the year. https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/AuX5ijYd7wa4
Get the Book: If you haven't already, grab your copy of Leadership as an Identity using the link in the show notes https://www.amazon.com/dp/0802429874?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_00AMZZF65KBFAM8B643F&skipTwisterOG=1&bestFormat=true&newOGT=1

Scripture References:

Galatians 6:9 – "Let us not lose heart in doing good, for in due time we will reap if we do not grow weary."
Psalm 119:50 – "This is my comfort in my affliction, that your promise gives me life."
Philippians 4:4 – "Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice."
Romans 8:37-39 – "In all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us."

Breaking Free from Patterns of Self-Reliance Jan 24, 2025

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In this episode, we take a brief pause from our Bible on Business series to share a powerful session from The Society’s First Fruits Fast. Tatum dives into the book of Isaiah, uncovering patterns of rebellion, repentance, and self-reliance exhibited by the Israelites—and how these same behaviors mirror our own lives today. Through self-examination and strategy, she challenges us to move from self-reliance to total dependence on God, offering practical tools and encouragement to grow spiritually and align with His will.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

Key lessons from the book of Isaiah and its relevance to our daily lives.
How patterns of behavior like fear, self-reliance, and worldly influences keep us from fully depending on God.
The concept of the habit loop and how it shapes our actions.
Practical strategies to disrupt unhealthy habits and replace them with faith-driven behaviors.

Special Resource:

Tatum shares an incredible resource, The Behavior Loop Analysis & Replacement Method. This step-by-step guide helps you identify and transform patterns of behavior that lead to self-reliance, replacing them with habits rooted in faith and dependence on God. Download today: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/page/GlW8

Upcoming Events:

Christian Content Creator Town Hall: Join Tatum for a free event designed for Christian creators navigating the online space, featuring a powerful word. Register here: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/AuX5ijYd7wa4

Scripture Focus:

Isaiah 30:21 (NLT): “Your own ears will hear him. Right behind you a voice will say, ‘This is the way you should go,’ whether to the right or to the left.”

Links Mentioned:

Download The Behavior Loop Analysis & Replacement Method: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/page/GlW8
Join The Society: https://blessedandbossedupsociety.com/invitation?code=DACED3
Register for the Christian Content Creator Town Hall: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/AuX5ijYd7wa4

Seasons of Brokenness Jan 22, 2025

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In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum continues her discussion of Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts, diving into Chapter 6: "Seasons of Brokenness." Tatum unpacks the significance of brokenness in the life of a Christian leader, sharing her personal reflections and insights on how God uses these seasons to build humility, dependence, and strength for His glory.

Tatum also reflects on the constant pull toward pride that leaders face and offers strategies to combat it through intentional time with God, self-awareness, and a posture of humility. She encourages listeners to see brokenness as an opportunity to grow closer to God and to develop a mindset rooted in total dependence on Him.

This episode is packed with wisdom, personal testimonies, and scriptural insights, including:

Lessons from Philippians 3:1-21 about prioritizing Christ above all.
Jacob’s encounter with God and the "limp" that marked his transformation (Genesis 32).
A challenge to reframe seasons of brokenness as signs of God’s love and preparation for greater assignments.

If you're a leader in any capacity, this conversation will encourage and equip you to embrace God's refining process in your life.

Resources Mentioned:

Book: Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts
Scripture References: Philippians 3, Psalm 42, Proverbs 16:18, Hebrews 10:31, James 4:6, Genesis 32

Special Announcements:

Christian Content Creator Town Hall: Join Tatum and other inspiring speakers for a free virtual event designed for those called to create in the online space. Learn how to navigate challenges and step confidently into your calling. Click to register: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/AuX5ijYd7wa4

A New Perspective on The Wait Jan 17, 2025

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In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum dives into the topic of waiting on God and how it plays a critical role in our spiritual and leadership development. Reflecting on Acts 1:1-5, she explores how the disciples transformed from fear and doubt to obedient leaders through the power of waiting. Tatum shares how this season of waiting is not punishment but a divine period of preparation, sanctification, and transformation. She challenges listeners to adopt a heart posture of gratitude and surrender during their waiting seasons, understanding that God is working behind the scenes.

Key Points:

The Society Update: Tatum announces that The Society has transitioned from a for-profit model to a nonprofit under the newly formed Anchored Media Foundation. This change allows for more impactful service, including financial support to Christian women entrepreneurs.
First Fruits Fast: Join the free 7-day First Fruits Fast starting January 19th. This fast focuses on themes like repentance, provision, creativity, and rest, featuring daily prayers, devotionals, and lessons.
Bible on Business Series - Leadership Edition: Tatum continues the Bible on Business series, focusing on leadership lessons from the book of Acts. Acts 1:1-5 highlights the importance of waiting on God's promise and how the disciples waited obediently for the Holy Spirit.
The Weight of Waiting: Tatum emphasizes that waiting seasons are essential for growth and transformation. Rather than viewing waiting as a burden, she encourages listeners to see it as an opportunity to deepen their relationship with God and strengthen their character.
Heart Posture in the Wait: The disciples' transformation during their waiting period serves as a model for how we should wait with gratitude, obedience, and faith, trusting that God is preparing us for greater purpose.

Scripture Reference:

Acts 1:1-5 (ESV)
Matthew 26:40-41
Mark 14:37-38
John 20:19

Call to Action:

Join the First Fruits Fast: Activate your free trial to participate in the fast and connect with the community. https://blessedandbossedupsociety.com/invitation?code=DACED3&kuid=350422e4-3c19-42f1-9a75-33cd3a19ea46-1737083424&lid=6398&kref=86HkJvnmxEYf
Donate to the Society: Support the Anchored Media Foundation's mission to empower Christian women entrepreneurs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?campaign_id=T7PZ3UP255EHC

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