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Is Time To Spice It Up? (Bar Talk With Jay 2-20-20) Feb 21, 2020

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Is Valentine's Day’s a Celebration of Double Standards? (Bar Talk With Jay 2-13-20) Feb 14, 2020

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This week we explore the double standard that is associated with holidays like Valentines Day. There are pretty much double standards across the board but when it comes to this particular holiday, we tend to see the balance get even more out of whack. Traditionally in western culture the man in the relationship shoulders the load and is really under more pressure because there are more ways to fail than to succeed. As time has gone along the playing field has become somewhat more level but that is more the exception than than rule Thanks for listening!

Dealing With The 7 Deadly Sins Part 2 (Bar Talk With Jay 02-06-19) Feb 07, 2020

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This week we continue our discussion on the Seven Deadly Sins. Last week we went a little deep on lust (surprise!) but we manage to cover all of them in one way or another. We look into the opposite of each sin and how to combat them in the bet way. Thanks for listening.

Dealing With The 7 Deadly Sins Part 1 (Bar Talk With Jay 01-30-20) Jan 31, 2020

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The Art of Holding Out: Why Do We Weaponize Sex? (BTWJ 01-23-20) Jan 24, 2020

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You mad? Does that mean I can’t get none? The most notable place sex has been weaponized is in an interrelationship argument. When someone is mad (usually women) one place that tends to get used against the other side is the act of holding out. In theory, a punishment to get a desired behavior but who is really being punished if you have great sessions all the time?
In another sense, sex can be weaponized to manipulate behavior usually for “selfish” reasons. People who use sex like this have needs t or goals hat need to be met and if sex can help achieve those goals then it’s definelty coming out the tool bag. The emotion that is attached to the act and the intent of sex can be enough to motivate a person to act in irrational and in some cases even dangerous.
We explore all this and more on this week's episode of Bar Talk with Jay! Thanks for listening!

Impulse: Why We Do What We Do, Without Knowing Why We Do It Jan 17, 2020

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Can you resist it? That natural impulse that takes your time, money or energy? Checking social media when you wake up, that candy at the checkout line, or that person who always seems to change your mood or focus, all of these are examples of decisions made with impulse. How do we get to that point? Is it nature or learned behavior? More than likely, it will be a bit of both. Not all impulses are negative. Because of what you learned over time you may develop impulses that protect you and your loved ones from harm. You may make impulsive decisions because you love someone and want their affection. Getting them flowers or their favorite snack goes a long way with someone when it shows you care. Is in your nature to treat a person like that or does that person create an impulse to enact the behavior? We discuss this and more this week on Bar Talk With Jay. Thanks for listening!

Who’s Pimping Who? How to Play The Game With Unfair Players. (Bar Talk With Jay 01-09-20) Jan 10, 2020

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Have you been played by an underhanded person? Have you dealt with people whose life mission is to get over? We all have and this week we discuss how to deal with these types and keep playing the game the right way. You may feel like playing the game their way is the way to go but in reality this is only bringing you down in a whole. Working around them tactfully will protect your best interests and keep their influence far away from you. Thanks for Listening !

Opening Up For Love After Heartbreak (Bar Talk With Jay 1-2-20) Jan 02, 2020

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This week in our first show of the new year, Jay and Craft will be discussing how do you open your heart for love again. We have all experienced heartbreak in some way or form. Whether it be in a relationship, a loss of a loved one or even a sports team that lets you down when they are winning 28-3 the championship game. Heartbreak is real and it can keep you from carrying on and being able to show the love you are capable of showing. It is a must for true happiness to find healing in the heart. Do not let fear you hold back in love or life. You can move safely but not fearful. Think about how you overcame a heartbreak. Did you learn a lesson or have some PTSD that needed some support? It is possible for everyone to love again. Thanks for listening!

How Can You Find an Ideal Mate? (Bar Talk With Jay 12-26-19) Dec 27, 2019

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This week on the podcast we discuss the ideal way of finding a mate. There are proven methods that are done using science but that path is a choice and finding an ideal mate is probably more about philosophy. Some rely simply on fate or chance while others say being methodical and defining the perfect mate and looking for someone to fit that profile. The answer probably lies in between. Of course, there is the philosophy of the soulmate and believing that there is one special person just for them. Going into 2020, the methods of finding a mate are endless. From general dating apps to ones that centered around certain interests, and now even Facebook has stepped into dating. Mingling isn’t going anywhere and neither are the matchmaking friends. However you choose your path, there will be some bumps in the road and you may find out perfect isn’t actually perfect. Thanks for listening!

2019 vs 2020: Making It Our Best Year Ever! (Bar Talk WIth 12-19-19) Dec 20, 2019

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We are at the end of the year and 2019 has been an interesting year for some and just another one for others. What can we take into 2020 in order to make it the “The Best Year Ever”? Do we need to shed a few things before we start or are there are few more things that need to be gathered before we begin the new year? What lessons are key for what the building blocks for a great 2020? We look into many of these questions and more this week on Bar Talk With Jay.

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