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High Achievers and The Tools To Keep Calm Nov 20, 2024

Wouldn’t it be great if you could achieve all you want in life without feeling overwhelming stress and anxiety? Being a high achiever can be full of wins but it can also never feel like it's enough. High achievers seem to be constantly pushing yet they rarely feel content with their accolades. There’s always more to be done! In this podcast, Clinical Psychologist Mary Anderson, PhD. says you can do it all and be happy if you know what to look for. In her new book, The Happy High Achiever she shares the essential principles for managing our stress while we continue to push ourselves.

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The Science Behind Truth and Deception Nov 04, 2024

Do you think you can tell when someone is lying?
Are their eyes shifty, or maybe their body language gives it away? Or maybe those aren’t even the right clues, and you can’t tell at all because of something called the truth-default theory.
Tim Levine, Phd., Distinguished Professor and Chair of Communication Studies at The University of Alabama, Birmingham, is known internationally as a leader in deception research. His book Duped: Truth-Default Theory and the Social Science of Deception explains why we are unable to tell when someone is lying and how to find evidence that gets us closer to the truth. When we communicate with people, honesty is our default. Naturally, Dr.Levine consults for law enforcement and intelligence and counterintelligence workers.
He joins us on this podcast to explain the research and to help us identify honesty and deception.
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The Changing Faces of Journalism and Who To Believe Oct 17, 2024

In this podcast, veteran newsman Jim Williams speaks with his former colleague Alita Guillen about the challenges of broadcast television. He also shares a behind the scenes look at working as press secretary for the infamous Chicago Mayor Richard M. Daley, offers viewers tools to differentiate fictional reporting, and reveals what goes through his mind 10 seconds to air.
Williams began his broadcast journalism career more than 40 years ago at WGN-TV.
He has served as a correspondent for ABC News, reporting across the country for "World News Tonight with Peter Jennings,” "Good Morning America," and “Nightline.”
He joined CBS Chicago in December 2002.
Williams has won several journalism awards, including an Emmy for investigative reporting. In May of 2018, he was inducted into the National Television Academy of Arts & Sciences' Silver Circle for his lifetime of work in Chicago television.
Williams was born and raised on Chicago's South Side.

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Communication Is The Key To Happiness, Here’s How To Do It Right Everyday. Oct 09, 2024

Effective communication is the key to happiness. Whether you are connecting with colleagues at work, spending time with your family, or interacting with the public, you have to communicate. How you do it will directly impact your happiness. David JP Phillips has delivered several TEDX talks. Collectively they have over 12 million views. He is a storyteller and bases his techniques on science. He teaches how to elicit hormones like oxytocin and dopamine and explains why you should avoid cortisol and adrenaline when public speaking. He also shares his latest work about communicating with yourself. Phillips is a communications coach to some of the world’s biggest brands, and the author of several books including his latest High on Life.
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Tools To Happiness, Even Through Challenging Times Sep 30, 2024

It’s not possible to be happy ALL of the time and that is normal, but science shows that you can become happier one choice at a time.
Karen Guggenheim, joins us in this podcast to talk about PTG, Post Traumatic Growth. She is the author of Cultivating Happiness and is the co-founder of the World Happiness Summit, a place where experts bring the latest science in well-being and happiness to the public.Karen knows first-hand how to transform grief and struggle into growth and eventually into happiness. She lost her husband following a cold and was faced with the choice of how to live life after trauma.She chose happiness. Here’s how you too can choose to be happy.
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Get Out Of Your Way, Experience Your Best Life Sep 23, 2024

It’s time to disrupt the norm, change your thought patterns, and live your best life.Don’t know how to do it? Think you’ve done all you can? It’s time for you to meet Cory Allen. Cory is a mentor, author, and music producer. He knows what it’s like to be caught in a loop, face obstacles, and then reset your life.In this podcast, he shares some simple and actionable tools to change the way you see the world and begin a life you didn’t know you could access. He talks about mindful communication, making assumptions, and resetting relationships. It’s a conversation that will open your mind.
Book link: Brave New You. A Road Map to Believing More is Possible.

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The Crusade For Women’s Health and The Tools to Live Strong, Healthy, and Powerful Sep 03, 2024

The conversation around women’s health and menopause is changing but it is still far from where it needs to be. The National Institute of Health has a research budget of 45 Billion dollars. Less than 11% of that goes towards women specific health research.Women need to get mad and start demanding the care they deserve. It’s no secret that as women age, they experience some unpleasant symptoms such as anxiety, fatigue, migraines, hair loss, and hot flashes. We call this perimenopause or menopause, and it can start in our late 30’s, or early 40’s and last for more than a decade. A fraction of us get treatment but most of us don’t, instead we stay silent, and we suffer.Dr. Sharone Malone, is a Washington based OB GYN and the wife of Former US Attorney General Eric Holder and the sister of the late Viviane Malone. She has left her practice of 30 plus years because she says she can now speak to more women through social media and other outlets and squash misconceptions about treatment. She’s now speaking to all of us with specifics on how to take back our health, stop suffering and live stronger.
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Consuming, Connecting, and Growing Through the Power of Sports Aug 19, 2024

The industry of sports is constantly growing, especially women’s sports. However, it’s steeped in tradition and sameness that is slow to change. One person committed to leading positive changes in the sporting world is Zaileen “Z” Janmohamed. As the CEO and President of the Bay Area Host Committee she is bringing the Super Bowl, World Cup, and NBA All-Star game to the Bay Area within an 18 month period, and she did it all with a female team. Prior to joining the BAHC, Janmohamed was the Head of Commercial Development and Innovation at LA 28.In this podcast, she talks about how to be seen and heard in the world of sports, what Caitlyn Clark is doing for all women, what to expect for the LA28 Olympics, and how we will soon be consuming sports.

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Empathy, Kindness, and Caring, Where it’s gone and how we bring it back. Aug 05, 2024

Being a good citizen is critical to our well being and to our community. However, more emphasis is placed on achievement and less is placed on caring for others.
What if you being a good citizen is weighed just as heavily as your SAT score?
Harvard Professor Richard Weissbourd is a Senior Lecturer at the Harvard Graduate School of Education and he also teaches at the Kennedy School of Government.
His work focuses on moral development, meaning and purpose, mental health challenges among teens and young adults and effective schools and services for children facing risks. He directs the Making Caring Common Project, a national effort to make moral and social development priorities in child-raising and to provide strategies to schools and parents for promoting in children caring, a commitment to justice and other key moral and social capacities. He leads an initiative to reform college admissions, Turning the Tide, which seeks to elevate ethical character, reduce excessive achievement pressure and increase equity and access in the college admissions process. He is also conducting research on how older adults can better mentor young adults and teenagers in developing caring, mature romantic relationships.
In this episode, he shares his research and gives us actionable advice on how to improve our well being through kindness and caring for others.

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Why Laughter Is Good For You and How to Get More of It Jul 31, 2024

There’s nothing like getting together with some friends and having a good belly laugh.
Or watching a show and just laughing out loud.
Laughing is more than a physical response to something funny, laughter is an antidote for anxiety, stress, and other health issues. Studies show that people who have a sense of humor actually live longer!
Laughter is also a way for us to communicate with each other. It breaks social barriers and builds connections with others even when we don’t speak the same language or have the same views.
How do you know if you’re laughing enough, and what about laughing more? Is there such a thing as a laughing practice?
Today’s guest is Ros Ben-Moshair. She has spent over 2 decades researching, writing, and teaching about the benefits of laughter. She is the author of The Laughter Effect.She is an adjunct lecturer in the School of Public Health and Psychology at La Trobe University in Australia, where she teaches Positive Psychology and the world’s first Laughter, Resilience and Wellbeing short course for professionals

Stop Underestimating your teenage girl with Chelsey Goodan Jul 23, 2024

Teenage girls are often passed off as hormonal, mean and moody but they actually have much to offer all of us as communicators.Chelsea Goodan is a mentor, author, and keynote speaker. She is the author of the bestseller Underestimated:The Power and Wisdom of Teenage Girls. As a keynote speaker, she teaches communication strategies that make everyone feel seen, heard, understood, valued, and celebrated, creating psychological safety for everyone. Her framework originates from her 16 years working with teenage girls. Hear how to start listening and stop underestimating your teen. Chelsea is the mentorship director of DemocraShe, which supports and guides girls from underserved communities into leadership positions. She is also a board member for A Call to Men, a national gender-based violence prevention nonprofit that educates men and boys about healthy masculinity. She's been featured in TIME Magazine, Oprah Daily, and NBC News,
Learn more at www.chelsey goodan.com.

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F.E.C.K. - Making Kindness Go Viral With Chaz Ebert Jun 26, 2024

If the covid virus was able to spread to every corner of the world than why can’t goodness?
That is the message from Chaz Ebert, the widow of the late film critic Roger Ebert.
Chaz Ebert is a powerhouse businesswoman, lawyer, producer and now author.
She has a message that wakes her up every morning and she is committed to doing whatever it takes to make it go viral.
Chaz joins me in studio and explains why she wrote it’s time to give a FECK.
F_E_C_K Elevating Humanity through Forgiveness, Empathy, Compassion, and Kindness.

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Mindset and Life Lessons with Actor Tony Hale Jun 12, 2024

Award winning actor Tony Hale is the real deal. He’s honest and humble yet vulnerable and ambitious. In this podcast, he talks about what goes through his mind before performing some of the most iconic characters. He also shares what goes on behind the scenes when filming Inside Out 2, the Beyonce commercial and his new Netflix dark comedy series, The Decameron. It’s a fun, intimate conversation, with a real Hollywood actor who’s not afraid to be vulnerable and share his personal journey.

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Writing Your Bestseller With Author Janis Cooke Newman Jun 05, 2024

Writing is a form of communication. It actually helps improve our non-verbal and verbal connection with others. When we write well we make a reader feel something.
Maybe you’ve thought about writing a memoir or a fiction book but you just don’t do it —it’s intimidating, where do I begin, how do I make my readers feel something, and how do I get it to the masses once I am done.
Today’s guest is going to help us answer all of those questions and tell us how she communicates through her writing.
Janis Cooke Newman is an author and teacher.
Her books include Mary: Mrs A Lincoln, A Master Plan For Rescue, and a memoir The Russian Word For Snow.
She is the founder of the Lit Camp Writers Conference and the founder of Page Street, a co-working space for writers in San Francisco and Berkeley.
I (Alita) met her at a writing and meditation retreat I attended last fall. I found how she guided my group through the process of observing the world around us and then expressing that through story, was exceptional—so I thought it would be fun to share her with all of you.
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Surviving Menopause and Thriving Beyond It with Dr. Mary Claire Haver May 29, 2024

The misinformation and confusion around women's health is infuriating. Dr. Mary Claire Haver, an OB/GYN, began to experience symptoms of perimenopause and that was it. She leaned into what she , and other doctors, were not taught in medical school and has devoted her time to uncovering what it takes for women to thrive in the second half of their life. There is no need to suffer night sweats, mood swings, weight gain and many other unsavory symptoms that women suffer as their hormones change. Dr. Haver is finding the latest research in hormone replacement, and sharing it on social media. She has become a social media celebrity reaching millions of women every day. In this episode, she tells us how she became a menopause influencer, what she does to stay healthy and debunks some unfortunate information about hormone replacement therapy.

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Hunger or Habit:Resetting Our Relationship with Food. May 22, 2024

Many of us struggle with our relationship with food. Whether we are caught up in counting calories, tracking steps, or restricting what we eat. We are stuck in a loop that we don’t know how to exit. We have lost our ability to identify hunger - eating when we are not hungry and overeating when we have deprived ourselves. We even feel shame about what we did or didn’t do. This podcast is all about the research behind how we got here and learning the tools to get out.
Dr. Judson Brewer is an international best-selling author, addiction psychiatrist, neuroscientist, and professor in the School of Public Health and Medical School at Brown University. You may have seen his TED TALK, ”A simple way To Break a Bad Habit,” or read one of his previous books The Craving Mind, or Unwinding Anxiety.
In this episode, we discuss his latest book, The Hunger Habit - Why we eat when we’re not hungry and how to stop.It will have you rethinking your relationship with food.

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What's next on 10 Seconds to Air? May 10, 2024

Get ready for an exciting new season of 10 Seconds To Air! This season is packed with world-class communicators, interviewing best-selling authors, psychiatrists, actors, and more. Don't miss out! Tune in for the first episode dropping on Monday, May 20, 2024.

8 Weeks to Calm with Danny Penman and Mark Williams Jan 29, 2024

Dr. Danny Penman and Oxford Professor Mark Williams come together with a 8-week program to help us rediscover calm in this chaotic world.
Their new book Deeper Mindfulness is a guide to get us started in a meditation and mindfulness practice.
Dr. Danny Penman – is an award-winning journalist, a meditation teacher. And the coauthor of the international bestseller Mindfulness: A Practical Guide to Finding Peace in a Frantic World. Dr. Penman came to the world of mindfulness following a paragliding accident – and you could say it changed his life.
Oxford Professor Mark Williams is an emeritus professor of clinical psychology at the University of Oxford in the UK. He is a fellow Of the British psychological Society, the Academy of Medical Sciences and The British Academy. He co-founded Mindfulness-based Cognitive Therapy – MBCT in the 90’s and has been treating patients with Cognitive therapy for decades. Though he believed in his work, he wasn’t sharing the science with the masses until he met up with Danny Penman.
Their latest book is - Deeper Mindfulness: the new way to rediscover calm in a chaotic world.

Mindful Communication with Sharon Salzberg Jan 15, 2024

Have you ever said something to a colleague or loved one that didn't come out right? Or sent an email that you wished you could take back? You are not alone.
Sharon Salzberg is a world-renowned teacher and communicator in meditation and mindfulness, she is a New York Times bestselling author. She is among the first to bring mindfulness and lovingkindness meditation to mainstream American culture nearly 50 years ago. She is co-founder of the Insight Meditation Society in Barre, MA, and the author of thirteen books, including the New York Times bestseller Real Happiness and her seminal work, Lovingkindness.
She has communicated this 25-hundred year old buddhist practice with millions of people over the last 50 years — how does she do it? What makes her the best in her field in this massively growing business? And how can she guide us to live a life that is kinder and more loving with mindful communication?
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Reignite Your Curiosity With Scott Shigeoka Dec 27, 2023

It's human nature to be curious. In fact, being curious is good for us. We release dopamine when we flex our curiosity. Being curious makes us more compassionate and gives us an edge at problem solving. However, as we age, many of us become more set in our ways and less curious. Our current political climate has polarized us, and we have become more set in our ways and less curious about our differences.
Scott Shigeoka is an internationally recognized curiosity expert, speaker, and the author of SEEK: How Curiosity Can Transform Your Life and Change the World. Scott left his life in San Fransisco and traveled cross country in his Prius to seek out people and places that were vastly different than himself.
Hear what he found and learn the tools to reignite your curiosity in this episode as he tells us his surprising, inspirational, and hopeful story.
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The Sunny Side of Hospice with Nurse Hadley Dec 11, 2023

Most of us will die following some form of palliative care, yet we rarely talk about death until the very end of life.
Hospice nurse and best-selling author Hadley Vlahos has found a sunny way to communicate with millions of people about death.
Hadley has 1.7 million followers on TikTok, is the author of the New York Times best-seller The In-Between, and has just inked a TV deal with a major network about her life as a hospice nurse.
In this episode, Hadley brings us closer to her work and gets us thinking about the beauty of life and death.
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Honoring the Work of Comedian Lenny Bruce Through Actor Ronnie Marmo Nov 21, 2023

There’s nothing like a good comedy show to make you laugh and think about the irony of our lives.
Long before Dave Chappelle, Ali Wong, or Richard Pryor, there was one comedian that changed the landscape for all comedians. He communicated about his life through comedy like no one had ever done.
Lenny Bruce was a controversial character in the 50’s and 60’s who challenged the first amendment with his act by talking about politics, religion, sex, drugs, and race. He was arrested several times for the things he said and spent more time in jail than he did on stage. He died in 1966 of a drug overdose.
Today's guest has taken on Lenny Bruce’s story by writing and starring in a one-man show that portrays the life and character of this controversial communicator.
Ronnie Marmo is an actor, director, and producer. You may have seen him on Criminal Minds or General Hospital, but a few years back he decided to write and star in the one-man show, I’m Not a Comedian, I’m Lenny Bruce, directed by Joe Montanga.
Ronnie has performed this show over 400 times. He joins me in person to talk about his journey in communicating onstage through one of the most iconic performers of all time and share how that comedian has influenced us all.
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Parenting Your Adult Child in Changing Times with Dr. Laurence Steinberg, Ph.D. Nov 10, 2023

The job of parenting is never over but knowing how to parent your adult child can be hard, especially in today's challenging environment.
Do you give them money?
Do you share your opinion?
How do you communicate with them to nurture a relationship that is healthy and happy during changing times?
Dr. Laurence Steinberg has devoted his 45-year career to the study of the parent/child relationship.
He is a Distinguished University Professor and the Laura H. Carnell Professor of Psychology and Neuroscience at Temple University.
He is the author or editor of more than a dozen best-selling books on adolescents’ development and family relationships and one of the world’s leading developmental psychologists with an expertise in the adolescent mind. For the first time he is focusing his research on the adult child.
His latest book, You and Your Adult Child. How To Grow Together In Challenging Times is a guide for parents who want to know how to interact and communicate with their adult children to foster a supportive and positive relationship.
Dr. Laurence Steinberg joins me today to share his research and his knowledge on how to navigate this time.
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Let's Talk About Sex with "She Comes First" Author Ian Kerner Oct 30, 2023

*This episode includes sexually explicit language.
We communicate about a lot of things with our romantic partner -- money, kids, career, food, and politics– but how often do you really TALK about sex? And if you do, are you doing it right?
Best-selling author and sex therapist Ian Kerner breaks down how to talk about sex with your partner and explains why writing your personal sex script is key to sexual happiness.
In 2004 he released the blockbuster best-selling book She Comes First. Ian’s work has been featured in the Washington post, NYT, NPR, The Atlantic, and New York Magazine. He is the go-to expert on sex therapy and in his latest book,
So Tell Me About The last Time You Had Sex, he suggests couples use a “sex script.”
What is a sex script and how do you write one or follow it? Ian Kerner answers these questions, and guides us through writing our own sex script, in this episode of Ten Seconds to Air.
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Train Your Mind with Mental Skills Coach Graham Betchart Oct 16, 2023

My guest today is sports psychologist and mindset coach Graham Betchart. Graham is the mindset coach for dozens of NBA players – Including Aaron Gordon, he’s also worked with the Utah Jazz, USA Basket Ball, and the Sacramento Kings, who are coming off their best season in almost two decades. He is the author of the book Play Present and the founder of on line apps Lucid and Train the Mind.
Graham’s philosophy is not what you might think. He says performance begins with vulnerability and feelings. He empowers his clients to stay present through breath work, meditation, and positive affirmation.
Graham joins me to tell us all his secrets behind getting the best out of some of the greatest athletes on the planet, and gives us all actionable tools to make our own performance the best it can be.
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Facing Your Imposter with Dr. Jill Stoddard Sep 25, 2023

Ever doubt yourself or feel like an imposter?
In this episode, Psychologist and author Dr. Jill Stoddard explains why many people feel like an imposter and how to overcome the self-talk that can become debilitating.
Her new book Imposter No More is a handbook on how to manage the self-doubt.
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Everyday Shakespeare Sep 18, 2023

If you’ve ever said “it’s Greek to me” or “the world is my oyster", met “star-crossed lovers” or been dragged into a “wild goose chase”, if you’ve ever waited with “bated breath” or wanted to “melt into thin air”, then you were living in the words of Shakespeare.
In many ways, we all live in the world that he created.
Today's guests are a father and son duo who have collectively authored dozens of books on Shakespeare. Their new book Everyday Shakespeare:Lines For Life is a daily selection of Shakespearean phrases from different plays.
David Crystal is a writer and linguist. He has written or edited over 100 books, currently serves as Honorary Professor of Linguistics at Bangor University, and is an expert in the original pronunciation of Shakespeare’s writings. He was awarded the Order of the British Empire in 1995 by the late Queen Elizabeth II.
His son Ben Crystal is an author, actor, and producer, best known for performing, of course, the works of Shakespeare.
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The NFL’s Ephraim Salaam on What It Takes To Excel Sep 07, 2023

It takes a lot to become a professional athlete, it’s takes a lot to become a film producer, it takes a lot to become a TV writer for a prime time network show. . . But what does it take to do it all and excel at all?
Ephraim Salaam tell us in this weeks podcast. The former offensive tackle played for 13 years in the NFL across 5 teams, including the Atlanta Falcons, Denver Broncos, Jacksonville Jaguars, Houston Texans, and the Detroit Lions. He was the youngest at the time to start in a Super Bowl at age 22.
He competed in the 23rd season of Amazing Race with former teammate Chester Pitts.
He has produced several movies, and currently hosts a weekly sports podcast on Fox Radio.
If all that isn't enough, he's also a staff writer and story editor for the NBC Network show Bel-Air.
He knows a thing or two about mindset, performance and communication.

Growing Women's Soccer with Angel City Football Club Co-Founder & President Julie Urhman Aug 28, 2023

Women's professional soccer is exploding. The 2023 World Cup gave us a glimpse of what is to come. Millions of people tuned in on television and more fans packed the stadiums than ever before.
That buzz around the game is beginning in the big cities and small towns all over the world. Two more US cities are adding professional women's soccer clubs in 2024, and they are calling on one club in particular to share their secret sauce.
Angels City Football Club, Los Angeles, is only in its second season but it's already been named team of the year. It has a star studded roster of owners, with Natalie Portman at the helm. But that's not the only reason this team has a widespread and diverse following.
Co-Founder and President of Angel City, Julie Uhrman joins me to talk about the club's philosophy and how Angel City communicates with the community and it's fans in an effort to grown the game and provide a home for everyone.
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TV Executive Nely Galan on Power, Money, and Finding Your Voice Jul 26, 2023

It's not enough to be good to make an impact. My guest today says that you must also become rich and speak up.Entrepreneur and Television Executive Nely Galan speaks candidly about what it takes to make it as a successful woman in America.
Galan was forced to find her own voice at a young age. As a child immigrant from Cuba, she was thrown into an all-girls American school, forced to quickly learn English, and become the family interpreter. Her teachers told her to behave "like a lady", and her parents asked her tone it down because she was an immigrant. None of that felt natural or fair to Galan. As a teenager, she was falsely accused of plagiarizing an English assignment. The accusation outraged her so much that she submitted an article to Teen Magazine about why you should never send your daughter to an all-girls school. The school suspended her, of course, but the magazine hired her! That was the beginning of Nely Galan's unique voice.
By age 22 she was running the top Spanish language television station in New Jersey. At 25 she was hosting her own talk show. Soon after she launched her own production company and developed shows like The SWAN for the FOX network. She became the president of the Spanish Language television network Telemundo, and was even a contestant of NBC's Celebrity Apprentice with Donald Trump.Galan wrote the best-selling book "Self-Made", where she tells how she made it in Hollywood and what women should do to have power, money and be heard. Nely continues to advocate for women all over the world. She is the founder of the Adelante Foundation, which provides loans and education to entrepreneurial women all over the world.
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Serial CEO Jill Layfield on Storytelling and Emotional Intelligence Jul 17, 2023

You cannot be a great business leader without being a great communicator!
Serial entrepreneur Jill Layfield is one of the most successful CEO's in the country, and has some very clear ideas of how storytelling aids to her success.
Layfield is the CEO of James Michelle Jewelry. She also co-founded, with Jimmy Choo co-founder, the luxury footwear direct-to-consumer brand Tamara Mellon. Before that, Jill was President and CEO of Backcountry-dot-com where she grew the company from $25 million to $515 million in revenue and successfully sold the business for $350 million.
Jill is also Lead Independent Director of LivePerson (LPSN) and sits on the board of the Orvis Company.
Jill’s path to the top of the boardroom was not conventional. Jill did not go to business school. Instead, she leaned on her background in communications to inform a new leadership style and drive direct connections with consumers.
She joins me to discuss the art of storytelling, emotional intelligence, and work-life balance.
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The "Weekend Warrior" - Dr. Klapper on Living with Passion and Avoiding Surgery Jul 10, 2023

Dr. Robert Klapper is one of a kind. A pioneer of minimally intrusive surgical techniques and tools that have changed the lives of millions of people. He is the director of the Joint Replacement program at Cedars Sinai Hospital in Los Angeles, and has replaced the thousands of knees and hips – including many of famous athletes and celebrities. But Dr. Klapper’s passions and style go beyond the operating room. He is a marble sculptor, an avid surfer, and for 12 years he hosted the ESPN radio show “The Weekend Warrior”, giving advice to callers about their aches and pains. Dr. Klapper’s stories and advice, medical or otherwise, are thought-provoking, inspirational and entertaining. He has developed and mastered an authentic and powerful communication style, full of humor and common sense, and perfectly anchored by his life experiences.
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The Benefits of Stress, Exercise and Willpower with Kelly McGonigal, PhD. Jul 03, 2023

Many of us use exercise to manage stress. However, as we get busier and older it's easy to do less. Which leads to the question, what should we be doing and why?
Kelly McGonigal, PhD. has devoted her career to the study and communication of the latest research and information about stress, exercise and willpower, and it’s profound effects on our lives.
Kelly is a health psychologist, best-selling author and a wildly popular lecturer at Stanford University. She doesn’t sit idle for too long… when she’s not leading a group dance class, she’s working to make our lives better.
Her TED Talk How to Make Stress Your Friend is one of the most watched of all time.
Her former class The Science of Will Power was one of the most sought after by Stanford students.
And her most recent book, The Joy of Movement is packed with take-aways about how movement improves our lives.
Kelly says it is possible to experience HOPE, JOY, and MEANING even when things are difficult or stressful, and has some great tools to make the best of ourselves and each other.
Her arguments are compelling, and she has a beautiful ability to communicate them.
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NYT Food Writer Melissa Clark On Cooking As A Love Language Jun 26, 2023

There is no better way to say "I love you" or "I appreciate you" than through a good homemade meal, just ask my guest, New York Times Food Writer and best-selling cookbook author, Melissa Clark.
In this episode, Melissa Clark reveals the inspiration for her recipes, and how many times she tries them before sharing them with the world.
Melissa also talks about how she came to be the most recognizable name on the NYT Cooking app and what foods get left off the app!
As the author of 45 cookbooks, you would think Melissa Clark would have no more Salmon recipes left, but she does!
Enjoy this fun loving conversation about the art of communicating through food.
Here's a link to Rhubarb Roasted Salmon.
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How Art Can Change Your Life with Will Day Jun 07, 2023

When we think of communicating we usually think of the spoken word. But what about Art?
Art can express feelings and ideas that we can’t verbalize.
Contemplating a painting or sculpture, or attending a dance recital can make us feel happy or sad—or both at the same time. It can open our senses and bring us to places we don’t have words to express.
My guest today is American Artist Will Day, known for his large-scale paintings and bold strokes.
Will’s passion for art began in high school, but he didn’t pursue it as a profession at first. An unfulfilling job on Wall Street and a graduate degree in architecture, made him realize that his true calling was painting.
His family was skeptical when he declared art was going to be his future. . . but 15 years later his success speaks for itself.
You can find his pieces all-over the world in private and public collections.
Will joins me to talk about how he communicates through art, how becoming an artist changed his life, and how it can change ours as well.
More on Will here.
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The Argument for Good Argument with Bo Seo May 31, 2023

Debating is one of the art forms of communication. We all use debate tools every day, even when we don’t know that we are using them. When we try to get our point across at work or argue with a pesky relative, we are using certain skills to win an argument.
The rapid changes in socially accepted norms and the divisive political moment are making many of us walk on egg shells, fearful of expressing an opinion different from others.
Today's guest says that is not good for society and we should not shy away from these arguments but instead learn the rules of debate and engage!
Bo Seo is a 2 time World Debate Champion.
He is the former coach of the Harvard and the Australian National Debate Teams. He is also the author of the book Good Arguments, where he makes the case for using debate tools as a framework to lean in to uncomfortable conversations. Bo says we need to restore confidence and faith in what disagreements can be.
Bo joins me to talk about the importance of being able to argue and explains how to have a good argument!
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Reset Your Metabolism at Any Age with Dr. William Li May 22, 2023

In this episode, best-selling author and world-renowned physician, Dr. William Li shares the latest on metabolism, body fat, and the foods we need to eat to optimize our health. Turns out that much of what we believe to be true about metabolism and body fat is wrong. No one is born with a fast metabolism that makes losing weight easier. In fact, the latest evidence suggests we all have the same metabolism, and it's actually body fat that helps or hinders our health and our ability to lose or gain weight.
Dr. Li is the president of the Angiogenesis Foundation and his work has led to more than 40 FDA approved therapeutics and devices for cancer, cardiovascular disease, vision loss and wound healing.
You may have seen him on the Today Show, or read his national best-selling book Eat to Beat Disease – His Ted Talk Can We Eat To Starve Cancer has over 11 million views.
Dr. Li is a passionate and effective communicator on health and has devoted his life to studying food as medicine. He is out with a new book Eat to Beat Your Diet.
Dr. Li has an amazing way of explaining how the body works, why we need fat, how what we eat affects our hormones and our metabolism, and explains quite simply how we can reset our metabolism at any age.To buy a copy of Eat To Beat Your Diet and connect with Dr. William Li click here.
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The 5 Words Of Success With HotelTonight Co-Founder Sam Shank May 15, 2023

Creating a multi-million dollar tech company takes more than a good idea and a product. It requires effective, and simple communication skills to not only raise money, but ultimately to get the word out about your product so people actually know it exists.
Sam Shank is a serial tech entrepreneur, investor and the co-founder and former CEO of HotelTonight, a hotel-booking service focused on making last-minute hotel bookings quick and seamless.
In this episode, Sam takes us through his journey - from what he thought would be a career in film to harnessing his love of creativity to build HotelTonight, which has since been acquired by AirBnb for more than $400 million. Sam talks about some of the biggest communication mistakes he sees founders make. He shares his keys to success to make sure you have a very clear and concise value proposition that anyone can grasp in seconds - hint: try to make it 5 words!
You can follow Sam Shank on Twitter.
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Suze Orman on Financial Freedom and Building Net Worth May 08, 2023

Money and finances are some of the most important aspects of our lives, yet many of us avoid them, get bad information or just don't know where to begin. In this episode, I speak with America's most influential financial advisor, Suze Orman.Suze has been an expert in financial communication as a television host, author and now podcaster. Her financial advice is clear and direct, and her work has transformed the lives of millions, especially women. Suze has written 10 consecutive New York Times Best Selling Books. She’s been ranked among the world’s Top 100 most powerful women by Forbes and Barrons. She’s a two-time Emmy Award winner and an 8-time Gracie winner. She hosted her own show for 13 years on CNBC and has been a contributor to O: The Oprah Magazine for 16 years. And if all that wasn’t enough, she’s now the host of the popular Women & Money Podcast.In this conversation, Suze and I discuss how she helps people be more, so they can have more. Getting clear about your truth and your own self worth is the key to building net worth and financial freedom according to Suze, and we go in detail about why this matters so much for women in particular. We also talk about where Suze gets her incredibly clear and direct communication style from and what simple steps everyone should be taking right now to protect themselves in a financial environment that is growing more uncertain by the day.

The Power of Fun with Dr. Mike Rucker Apr 27, 2023

This week’s episode is all about the fun!
There are 168 hours in the week, yet we don’t devote nearly enough of that time to having fun on purpose. Most of us are seeking a happy life, but fun is the not-so-secret ingredient that leads to just that. So why don’t we have more fun? And why is it important to have fun?
Dr. Mike Rucker is an organizational psychologist, behavioral scientist, and charter member of the International Positive Psychology Association. His ideas about fun and health have been featured in The Wall Street Journal, Washington Post, Fast Company, Psychology Today, Forbes, Vox, Thrive Global, Mindful, mindbodygreen, and more. He currently serves as a senior leader at Active Wellness and is the author of the best-selling book The Fun Habit, which is out now.
In this episode Dr. Rucker shares the science behind fun, the importance of giving ourselves permission to play, tactical advice to get more fun on your schedule and more.
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Ida Tin - The Rise of FemTech Apr 17, 2023

Ida Tin is the creator and co-founder of the female health tracking app Clue.Ida is also credited with coining the term “femtech” - Feminine Technology, nominating a new investment class potentially worth 1 trillion dollars.She has started a global conversation about the biases of venture capital funding of female health technology companies.Ida started Clue 10 years ago — the app is now stronger than ever with more than 12 million users and growing. Clue tracks women’s periods, moods, pregnancies and recently got FDA approval as a contraceptive. Ida isn’t a scientist or healthcare professional, and does not think of herself as an entrepreneur. Instead, she calls herself a problem solver and she is committed to creating new technologies that bring women better healthcare options. She is an inspiring and unconventional leader that is passionate about building relational intelligence in the workplace. If you want to learn more about Clue, check out their website here. Clue also recently announced their very first crowdfunding campaign! Anyone can become a co-owner in the company by contributing as little as 10€. Available equity is limited and on a first-come, first-served basis. Pre-registration is now open, until April 18 here: https://lnkd.in/ekkgWraP

Gun Safety - Changing The Conversation Feb 22, 2023

Welcome to Season 2 of 10 Seconds To Air!Today I’m talking to Matt Littman. He is the Executive Director of 97% a bipartisan group that is aiming to bring common sense to the gun ownership conversation.
Matt has spent more than two decades as a political strategist and government affairs advisor.
He is a frequent guest on CNN, MSNBC, FOX News, the BBC, and now 10 Seconds To Air.
Matt has an exceptional ability to communicate difficult ideas effectively. He’s a master at bringing people together on issues they may not agree on.
In this episode, Matt explains how 97% is working to decrease the number of gun deaths by focusing on three realistic gun reform laws. He also explains what each of us can do to advance gun safety, and tells us about a “secret meeting” that drives the conversation in Congress.
He candidly shares how a pickup basketball game led him to a Hollywood writing job, a speechwriting gig with then Senator Joe Biden, and ultimately, to a career in bringing people together to find common ground on tough issues.
His stories are insightful, unreal and hilarious!
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Listen to Podcast TAG: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/tag-talking-about-guns/id1624153142
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Instagram: @97percentorg

Holiday Happiness- Yes, it's possible! Dec 16, 2022

The holidays are a stressful time for all of us.
We have gift giving, work parties, travel, lots of food, family members we want to spend time with, and those we want to avoid. It can also be a time of loneliness, even for people who are surrounded by loved ones.
Clinical Psychologist Jill Anter Wieder PhD has been guiding individuals and couples through the complexities of life for over three decades.
Jill is a mother of three, a recent grandmother, and newly married!
In this podcast, Jill identifies the biggest holiday stressors and shares tangible advice on how to manage them, helping us enjoy our family time and have a fresh start in the new year.

The State of The Economy With CNBC Contributor Michelle Caruso-Cabrera Oct 31, 2022

What is going on with the economy right now?
Inflation is at a historic high, the stock market has lost almost two years of accumulated growth, and home prices are trending downwards.
In this episode of 10 Seconds to Air, I talk with CNBC contributor Michelle Caruso-Cabrera about what's going on with interest rates, the Federal Reserve, how we got here and what is still to come.
An influential communicator and politician, Michelle Caruso-Cabrera was the first Latina anchor and Chief International Correspondent at CNBC, where she covered the financial markets for 20 years and still appears every week as a contributor on international issues.
We talk about her career covering Wall Street, her recent transition to politics, where she boldly ran against Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez in the Democratic primary in New York, and her future in public service.
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and on Twitter @MCaruso_Cabrera
and watch her on CNBC

Behind The Scenes With ABC Correspondent Phil Lipof Sep 19, 2022

In this episode, I speak with ABC News Correspondent Phil Lipof.
Phil has been covering major news events for decades and shares what it's like to be on the front lines as he takes us through what we don't see on the news.
He also shares how the impact of Donald Trump's presidency has changed the lives of journalist like himself.
Follow Phil on Instagram at @Plipof

Better Late Than Never: NCAA Champions Honored Sep 08, 2022

On the 50 year anniversary of Title 9, an outstanding group of female athletes are finally being recognized. The University of Massachusetts fielded the first ever NCAA Women's Lacrosse Championship team. This year, they are being inducted into the UMass Hall of Fame. While the celebration is long overdue, what has really surfaced is the camaraderie and confidence these women possessed and passed on to future athletes.
The women from that team went on to be business leaders, scientist, engineers and some continued to spread the love of sports.
In this episode, 2 teammates talk about what it means to be honored and recognized as a trailblazer for female athletes.
Guests: Margie Anderson, Linda Haytayan
Link: www.umassalumni.com/hof2022

Tennis - I just can't get enough! With A Wimbledon Champion Aug 31, 2022

In this episode, Wimbledon Champion John Austin talks US Open, beating McEnroe, Serena's era, sibling rivalries, winning Wimbledon and why his passion for the game is as strong as ever.
This year John is taking pride in his nephew's success at the US Open. Brandon Holt, sister Tracy Austin's son, made it into the main draw at the US Open and had a big win against junior rival Taylor Fritz. John tells us what advice he gave his nephew before the big matches.
John also shares what goes through his mind before competition and what he told his little sister, 3 time Grand Slam winner Tracy Austin, moments before they won the doubles grand slam title at Wimbledon.
Currently, John enjoys coaching all levels of players to love the game.
Hear him share his 3 R's. . . tips he gives tennis hacks like me that keep us coming back for more!

Food, Diet, Damage Jun 07, 2022

We are surrounded by fad diets, apps that promise to put us in tip- top shape and "clean eating" - whatever that means? This is diet culture. It has us feeling shame when we eat certain foods and ultimately can lead us to a negative relationship with food. This relationship with food and body image affects our families and how kids think about what they eat and how they view their bodies. What messages are they receiving when they hear "no dessert before dinner" or "no junk food."?
In this episode, Family Coach Oona Hanson breaks down the effect that diet culture has on kids and how a parent's relationship with food influences the next generation.
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To contact Oona Hanson:
https://www.oonahanson.com
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NFT's: Trash or Treasure with Sarah Odenkirk May 23, 2022

Blockchain, Cryptocurrency, and NFT's are more present than ever. Madonna just sold an NFT and pro athletes appear in television commercials promoting cryptocurrency exchanges. In this episode, I talk to Sarah Odenkirk, a Fine Art lawyer who is at the forefront of this new decentralized business.
Sarah explains blockchain, crypto-currencies and Non-Fungible-Tokens (NFT's) and how to discern if what you are buying is trash or a treasure.
Sarah Odenkirk is a Fine Art Lawyer with Cowan, DeBaets, Abrahams, Sheppard, LLP. https://cdas.com.
You can follow her on Instagram @scodenkirk

The Business of a Song Apr 27, 2022

Singer/Songwriter Shelly Peiken is best known for hits like "Bitch" with Meredith Brooks and "What A Girl Wants" with Christina Aguilera. Shelly has written hundreds of songs that have put us in touch with our emotions. In this podcast, we talk about what it takes to make a hit and what's next for her in this ever changing industry. But before that, Shelly answers the 10 seconds to air question. You can find all things Shelly on her website https://www.shellypeiken.com.

Finding Freedom in Your Truth Apr 04, 2022

In this episode, veteran Chicago TV Journalist and the President of the National Association of Black Journalist, Dorothy Tucker, explains what black women go through to do their hair. She also shares what it was like when she decided to "go natural" at work and what her boss said when she told him she was making the change.
*This was recorded before Will Smith smacked Chris Rock at the the 2022 Oscars for Rock's joke about Jada Pinkett Smith's hair style that night.

Meet Your Host Apr 04, 2022

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