Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

Latest Episodes:

Trash TV (w/ Patti Harrison) Nov 06, 2020

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Comedian Patti Harrison (Shrill, Search Party) joins Nicole to chat about 90 Day Fiancé, issues with casting in today's media, and advocates for the well-being of child actors. Plus, they discuss their love for the Fast & Furious franchise, Patti shares the details of her childhood Vin Diesel sex dream, and Nicole shepherds Patti into trash television.

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Volunteering in Your Community (w/ Mitra Jouhari) Oct 30, 2020

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Comedian Mitra Jouhari (Big Mouth, Three Busy Debras, host of Urgent Care) joins Nicole to discuss missing malls, the horrors of dating in high school, awkward Zoom auditions, and reminisce about their improv days in NY.

Plus, Mitra talks about how she's providing hygiene kits to the unhoused, and how you can support your local community help organizations.

Donate to Resisterhood LA here.

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Advice from a Dating Coach (w/ Damona Hoffman) Oct 23, 2020

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Dating coach Damona Hoffman (A&E Network's #BlackLove, A Question of Love) is here to dish some professional advice. She shares tips for video-dating, setting up your dating app profile, how to stay sane with your partner in lockdown, and so much more! Plus, a conversation on racial bias in dating, navigating interracial relationships, and the struggle of in-person communication.

Check out Damona's dating podcast: Dates & Mates

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We're Thirsty (w/ Nichole Perkins) Oct 16, 2020

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Writer and podcaster Nichole Perkins (Thirst Aid Kit) joins Nicole to discuss setting boundaries in your casual relationships, dealing with thirsty groupies, and, can you get COVID from your pussy? Plus Nicole writes a letter to her dream man, and is shopping for a $600 sex machine.

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Rock Bottom (w/ Sydnee Washington) Oct 09, 2020

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Comedian and actress Sydnee Washington (Broad City, Gayme Show) joins Nicole to discuss feel-good foods to eat when you're sad, their lowest points in life, finding love on Instagram, and setting boundaries with toxic family members.

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Signs He's Into You (w/ Yassir Lester) Oct 02, 2020

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It's our longest episode ever! Comedian Yassir Lester (Black Monday, Duncanville) joins Nicole to discuss sex protocol for a COVID era, reconnecting with old flings, body modifications, Yassir's Jersey Mike's tweet, and a list of signs that a man is into you.

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Joking Around (w/ Yamaneika Saunders) Sep 25, 2020

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The incredibly funny Yamaneika Saunders (Broad City, Inside Amy Schumer) joins Nicole to discuss comedy, following her mom's love for stand-up, her defense for humor about people with disabilities, and the depths of racism in our society. After the break, Yamaneika discusses breaking up in the pandemic, and her plan to freeze her eggs.

Trigger Warning: My guest misgenders a person in a retelling of a story and I didn't correct them and I’m sorry to those who listened and were offended.

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From Race Chaser to Husband (w/ Latrice Royale) Sep 18, 2020

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Drag queen Latrice Royale (RuPaul's Drag Race, RuPaul's Drag Race All Stars) joins Nicole for a good teeheehee. She discusses getting into drag on a dare, writing on AJ and the Queen, meeting their husband Chris at a meet & greet, and the story behind their Chicago pride festival proposal.

Check out Latrice's podcast: The Chop.

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America Scammed Us (w/ Dewayne Perkins) Sep 11, 2020

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Comedian and writer Dewayne Perkins (Brooklyn Nine-Nine, The Break with Michelle Wolf) joins Nicole to talk about getting back together with his ex, the importance of checking in with your partner, and how America has failed everyone. They also get into the systemic racism present in writers' rooms, and how to turn the thought of death into something positive.

Support Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to help, check out blacklivesmatters.carrd.co.

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Lady Game (w/ Sam Jay) Sep 04, 2020

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Comedian Sam Jay (writer at SNL) discusses how she met her girlfriend, the influence of wealth in a relationship, and the difference between flirting with men and women. Sam teaches Nicole about bad bitch energy, and how she developed her "lady game". Plus, why aren't interviewers asking White people about #BLM?

Check out Sam Jay's special on Netflix: netflix.com/title/81078802

Support Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to help, check out blacklivesmatters.carrd.co.

Follow Nicole Byer:

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