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The Mind-Body Disconnect Problem #418 Dec 12, 2025

In this episode, Stephanie lists the reasons why so many men feel disconnected from their sex lives and how her new app Ronan can help!

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Your Sex Life Changes When You Do #416 Dec 06, 2025

You’re not born confident. You build confidence by stepping into the man you want to be, even when it feels unknown or uncomfortable. In this solo episode, Stephanie breaks down why who you’re being: in your relationship, your sex life, and your mindset - is everything.

✅ You’re not your past.

✅ Courage first. Confidence later.

✅ Your sex life changes when you change.

This episode is your reminder that you already have what it takes you just have to define it more clearly and then consciously choose it moment to moment.

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How a Secure Couple Talks About Sex: A Real Conversation With My Boyfriend #415 Nov 19, 2025

It feels a little vulnerable getting my boyfriend on the mic with me to talk a bit openly together for strangers lol. I also wondered if this episode would come across like I was bragging about my relationship being in a good place when I know so many people struggle, or if it would be too boring because, well, listening to a secure, happy, sexually satisfied couple talk about their relationship is not the most entertaining thing in the world haha. But I do believe it's important for other people to hear/witness what security does sound like, so they know what's possible for them too and to not settle for less! I've had clients tell me things they want and then say "I would love...But I know that kind of love doesn't even exist so I'd even settle for..." and I'll cut in like "Whatttt? No, it does exist."

So hopefully you see the value in listening to security, so that you can build on it yourself or find it. If you work to be a secure man, than you will attract or keep a secure woman. <3

00:00 Cringe Introduction lol

00:53 Handling Conflict in Relationships

03:47 Maintaining Playfulness and Humor

06:28 Deepening the Relationship

08:24 Sexual Surprises and Communication

11:10 Expressing Emotions and Frustrations

16:19 Discussing Fantasies and Kinks

19:28 Dirty Talk

21:17 Signing off

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The Truth About Masturbation, Porn, and Your Sexual Confidence #414 Oct 31, 2025

What happens when you stop masturbating to porn and start using your mind and body for pleasure instead? In this episode of What I Love About Sex, Stephanie explains how mindful masturbation helps men rebuild confidence, overcome sexual performance issues, and reconnect to real pleasure, both solo and with a partner.

✅ You’ll learn why breaking free from porn dependency can retrain your arousal system and lead to stronger, more fulfilling orgasms.
✅ How mindful masturbation rewires your brain to respond to real sensations and emotions, improving confidence and communication in your sex life.
✅ The exact mindset shift to move from “I’m out of control” to “I’m in charge,” so you can finally master your sexual energy and performance.

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Becoming Stronger Through Pain Episode #413 Oct 14, 2025

In this episode, Stephanie opens up about losing her dad and how that experience reshaped her understanding of emotional strength, healing, and resilience. Inspired by Alex Hormozi’s reflections on grief, she shares how pain can become a teacher and how growth doesn’t mean avoiding emotion, but learning to move through it.

✅ Top 3 Takeaways:

Real strength means feeling fully, not fighting your feelings. Suppressing emotion delays healing; presence and honesty rebuild it.
Adversity reveals your emotional habits. The moments that shatter you also show where you’ve been hiding from yourself.
Growth begins when you surrender control. Accepting what is (instead of resisting it) opens the door to peace, perspective, and maturity.

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⏱ Timestamps:
00:00–11:30 — Personal story: Losing my dad and what grief taught me about emotional strength
11:30–26:00 — How to build mental strength through adversity
26:00–End — Practical ways to move through emotion and regain control

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The One Question That Stops Fights and Builds Trust Episode #412 Oct 03, 2025

If you want to stop recycling the same arguments in your relationship—and actually get somewhere—you need one simple question in your back pocket. In this episode, I explain why this question is the ultimate tool for diffusing conflict, deepening connection, and becoming the kind of man who leads with emotional intelligence. This isn’t about avoiding the hard stuff, it’s about learning how to cut through it with collaboration and answers.

✅ The #1 question that will shift any heated conversation from chaos to collaboration
✅ Why bringing notes into emotional conversations makes you a stronger, more intentional partner
✅ The problem with general advice like “just go on more dates”—and what actually works instead

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Why You’re Missing Her Progress in the Bedroom (and How to See It Clearly) Episode #411 Sep 20, 2025

A lot of men get frustrated thinking their partner isn’t making enough effort in the bedroom. But what if she is—and you’re just not seeing it? In this episode, I break down why women’s progress often looks slower or smaller than what you expect, how those “invisible wins” actually matter, and why acknowledging them is the key to moving forward together.

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The hidden signs of progress you might be overlooking
Why ignoring small wins slows down growth for both of you
How to acknowledge her (and yourself) so you both feel like you’re meeting in the middle

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Silence isn't strength (speak up with courage) Episode #410 Aug 23, 2025

Too many men believe staying silent in moments of conflict makes them strong. In reality, silence creates distance, erodes respect, and weakens your identity. In this episode, I share why real strength is found in speaking up with calm courage and curiosity, even in the small, everyday moments.

✅ Learn the 3-step framework to replace silence with awareness, curiosity, and togetherness
✅ Discover why “happy wife, happy life” is a dangerous mindset that kills attraction
✅ Hear how clear, honest communication reinforces the man you want to be and deepens connection

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PE, Pleasure & Candid Sex & Relationship Insights with Promescent CEO Jeff Abraham / Episode # 409 Aug 15, 2025

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What starts as a conversation about premature ejaculation turns into a lively, no-filter discussion on sex, relationships, and confidence with Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent. We cover the real stigma behind PE, why communication beats any technique, the role of toys and tools in great sex, and how to keep passion alive in long-term relationships. Jeff shares personal stories, strong opinions, and surprising truths from years of talking with couples, customers, and even porn stars. If you’re ready for an honest, funny, and insightful chat that goes way beyond performance anxiety, this one’s for you.

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Do You Have a System for Handling Conflict in Your Relationship? / Episode #408 Aug 13, 2025

When arguments spiral into emotional chaos, most couples default to blame, defensiveness… or makeup sex with no resolution. But if you’re serious about leading your relationship with clarity and strength, you need a system. In this episode, Stephanie breaks down a 3-step framework that turns every conflict into a deeper connection.

✅ Clarify Emotions Without Interruption: You both get uninterrupted time to express how you feel and why: no sarcasm, no defensiveness, just real listening.

✅ Ask for What You Need, Now: Learn how to identify and request what will resolve the tension, not what fuels more of it.

✅ Create a Plan for the Next Time: When you treat conflict resolution like a team strategy (not a power struggle), you prevent repeat fights and build real trust.

This isn’t about avoiding emotion; it’s about channeling it with discipline. Because of masculine composure under pressure? That’s a skill.

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Hug the Porcupine: How to Lead with Love When She’s Upset / Episode #407 Aug 12, 2025

Ever feel like your partner’s mood completely hijacks yours? In this episode, Stephanie breaks down the mindset shift that will change how you show up in tense moments and how to become the emotionally grounded man your partner needs when conflict arises.

✅ Top Takeaway #1: Matching her negative energy only fuels the disconnect. Instead, choose to be the calm, secure presence in the room.

✅ Top Takeaway #2: "Hug the porcupine", lean into love even when she’s bristly. That’s real masculine leadership.

✅ Top Takeaway #3: Your emotions are yours to command. You don’t have to react; you get to choose how to respond, especially in love.

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What If Masturbation Was Never the Problem? / Episode #406 Aug 11, 2025

There’s nothing wrong with wanting to feel good. But what if your urge to cut out masturbation completely was just a way of avoiding discipline, not building it?

In this episode, I discuss the psychological power behind the NoFap movement, why it’s largely a placebo, and how to shift your mindset to create a sustainable and empowering relationship with your pleasure.

✅ Why NoFap isn’t sustainable (and what gives you the energy boost)

✅ The real reason you feel “out of control” isn’t masturbation, it’s your mindset

✅ How to build self-discipline and confidence without running from your urges

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7 Ways to Make Her Feel Emotionally Safe (and Sexually Open Up) / Episode #409 Aug 08, 2025

Do you know what it really means to make a woman feel emotionally safe—and why it’s the foundation for her opening up sexually?

In this episode of What I Love About Sex, I break down 7 powerful actions you can take to build trust, connection, and desire in your relationship. You’ll learn how to:

✅ Create an environment where you both feel at ease, valued and excited to build a strong partnership together.
✅ Understand why your sex life is currently the way that it is.
✅ Know the first step to take to improve emotional safety and therefore your sex life.

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#405 From Sexual Reactivity to Sexual Power Aug 07, 2025

In this episode, Stephanie dives into how your automatic urge to release sexual tension may be quietly undermining your power, not building it. If you're used to chasing release through porn, masturbation, or even sex itself just to “feel okay,” you're stuck in a loop of dependency, not control. That ends here.

Top Takeaways:

✅ Release ≠ Power: Reacting to sexual tension by chasing release trains your nervous system to depend on escape, not presence.

✅ Control the Charge: Sexual energy is neutral power until you learn to breathe through the discomfort and use it for clarity, action, and leadership.

✅ Shift the Focus: Stop using sex as proof of masculinity. Start using your arousal as fuel for deeper presence and masculine composure.

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#404 3 Sex Myths That Are Destroying Good Relationships Aug 06, 2025

There are a few beliefs around sex that seem harmless, but are quietly eroding your connection, confidence, and communication in the bedroom.

In this episode, I break down the 3 most common myths I hear from men—and why believing them will leave even high-quality couples feeling confused, ashamed, and disconnected.

✅ Myth #1: “Men should always want sex.”

This creates shame on both sides. When desire dips (which it will), most people blame themselves—or their partner—instead of recognizing that libido is contextual, not constant.

✅ Myth #2: “Good sex is always spontaneous.”

The movies lied to you. Great sex is often intentional sex, especially in long-term relationships. And when you plan it with care, it can actually feel hotter, not colder.

✅ Myth #3: “If sex is hard, it means something’s wrong.”

Difficulty in your sex life isn’t a red flag—it’s a signal for connection. When you avoid it, you isolate. When you face it together, your relationship deepens.

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#403 Sex 3x a Week Starts With This One Leadership Shift Aug 05, 2025

In this episode of What I Love About Sex, I'm breaking down exactly how one of my private clients went from disconnected and frustrated to having deeply connected, fulfilling sex three times a week, with the same woman he was barely connecting with once a month. We didn’t change his wife—we shifted his strategy, communication, and leadership.

Here's how.

✅ Clarify the real goal. Most men aim for more sex, but miss the quality. We defined what "great sex" actually looked like for him—physically, emotionally, and energetically.

✅ Use masculine leadership to foster emotional safety. My client learned how to ask the right questions, speak from calm confidence, and approach his wife without pressure. This unlocked connection and trust that led to more frequency naturally.

✅ Reframe sex as a shared experience, not a transaction. The more he prioritized her pleasure and made her feel valued, the more often she wanted to connect with enthusiasm.

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#402 She’s Not Feeling Loved? It’s Not What You Say—It’s How Aug 04, 2025

Flat words kill connection. In this episode, I break down a game-changing insight most men overlook: how your tone, delivery, and emotional presence transform your words from “meh” to magnetic. You might be saying all the right things, but she’s not feeling them.

✅ Tone Is Everything: Saying "you look great" doesn’t hit the same as "you look beautiful"—especially when said with eye contact and a warm tone.

✅ Romanticize What You Already Say: Learn how to take your go-to compliments and upgrade them to create more intimacy and desire.

✅ Lead the Connection: If you want her to feel more loved, you have to speak in a way that shows it—consistently, intentionally, and with ownership.

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#401 Why Every Man Should Buy His Woman a Vibrator Aug 01, 2025

This episode is going to challenge your assumptions—and possibly transform your sex life. If you're the kind of man who values real connection and takes pride in your partner’s pleasure, this one’s for you.

Top Takeaways:

✅ Vibrators are not your competition—they’re your secret weapon. When a woman feels safe, seen, and stimulated, your connection deepens. The right tool enhances the experience for both of you.

✅ Her orgasm doesn't always equal satisfaction. Just because she finishes doesn't mean the sex is good for her. Want to know if she’s truly fulfilled? Ask—and be ready to listen.

✅ Confident men introduce tools without ego. It’s not about replacing you. It’s about amplifying pleasure and proving that her needs matter more than your pride. The more she feels your confidence, care, and curiosity, the more she’ll lean into intimacy with you. So ask the question, buy the toy, lead with presence.

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#400 The Real Reason You’re Finishing Too Fast (And How to Take Control) Jul 31, 2025

If you finish too quickly during sex, you’ve likely tried it all—Kegels, squeeze techniques, delay sprays. But what if the real key to lasting longer is restructuring your routine?

In this episode, Stephanie dives deep into a powerful, often-overlooked strategy that’s been a game-changer for her clients with premature ejaculation: mixing up the way you do sex.

✅ Rethink the Routine – Sex doesn’t have to be a straight line. Switching up the order and slowing things down can shift your arousal curve and help you last longer.

✅ Build Arousal Awareness – Learn how to identify your low, medium, and high arousal activities—and how to intentionally weave them together for control and clarity.

✅ Lead With Dominance & Intention – Discover ways to create sexy pauses, introduce new sensations, and still remain in control of the moment, without losing your edge.

If you’re ready to stop performing and start leading in the bedroom...

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#399 Q&A: Cream Pies, Gag Reflexes, Erectile Confidence & More Jul 21, 2025

In this no-holds-barred Q&A, we will answer your most honest, awkward, and important sex questions—covering everything from ejaculation issues to prostate play, threesomes, and navigating insecurity in the bedroom. Whether you're looking to boost confidence, improve connection, or get real answers, this episode brings it all.

Top 3 Takeaways:

✅ Confidence starts with clarity. If you’re confused by her lack of expression in bed, don’t assume—ask. Direct, open-ended questions get better answers (and better sex).

✅ Your body isn’t broken—it’s under pressure. Stress, anxiety, shame, and habit can all impact your performance. Many common issues are treatable once you understand the root cause.

✅ Communication beats technique. Whether it’s foreplay, anal play, or asking for what you want—your best move is always a curious, judgment-free conversation.

🎯 This episode is packed with practical insights and a refreshing dose of honesty.

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#398 She’s Not Opening Up About Sex? Here’s Why. Jul 18, 2025

Trying to improve your sex life with your partner—but every conversation feels like pressure or rejection? In this episode, I break down how the tone of your conversations shapes everything in the bedroom and how to become a more confident, connected sexual leader.

✅ Why your tone—not your words—is often the real issue
✅ How to reframe sex talks as loving, team-oriented conversations
✅ The one mindset shift that turns rejection into emotional intimacy

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#397 Is Masturbation Bad for You? Let’s Set the Record Straight Jul 17, 2025

In this episode, I’m calling out the misguided advice telling men to quit masturbating to be better lovers. The truth? Cutting off self-pleasure without understanding it is wrecking your confidence and your performance.

✅ Cutting off masturbation kills sexual confidence
When you label self-pleasure as “wrong,” you wire guilt into your arousal—and that guilt follows you into the bedroom.

✅ You master your sex life by knowing your own body
Men who lead well in bed first learn what turns them on alone. Masturbation is about building that awareness, without pressure, without performance.

✅ Masturbation and porn are not the same
Porn can desensitize you. But masturbation—done right—is a tool. It helps you build control, clarity, and connection with your body.

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#396 The Secret to Getting More Blowjobs Without Manipulation Jul 16, 2025

If you want your woman to give you head more often—and actually enjoy doing it—it comes down to one thing: how you speak to her during and after. This episode is about leadership, not pressure.

✅ Generic compliments don’t cut it
“Damn, that feels good” is surface-level. “Your lips look so sexy around my cock” is precise, personal, and unforgettable. That’s the difference.

✅ Post-sex remarks build the foundation for next time
What you say after she goes down on you either builds a connection or breaks it. Stop saying “that was great” and walking off. Start communicating like a man who knows how to lead.

✅ She does more of what she feels good at
When you connect praise to her specific performance, her brain ties the act to success and approval. That’s how you make “blowjob = sexy” stick.

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#395 Can a Woman Actually Get Turned On While Giving a Blowjob? Jul 15, 2025

Blowjobs shouldn’t feel like a chor. And if they do, it’s likely because she’s not aroused when you ask. In this episode, I’ll break down how to change that.

✅ Foreplay first. Don’t surprise her with the ask. Get her turned on before—so her body is ready and the experience is pleasurable.
✅ Turn her on during. Engage her. Make her feel sexy with your touch and words—so giving you head feels good for her, too.
✅ Don’t get her off first. Post-orgasm, many women are done. Instead, build her arousal into the act.

The goal? Link her pleasure to pleasuring you.

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#394 Is It Okay to Come on Her Face? Let’s Talk About It. Jul 14, 2025

This episode tackles one of the most asked—and misunderstood—questions men ask me: Is it okay to come on her face?

You’ll hear the full breakdown of how to bring up this request with confidence, without shame, and without assuming her answer before you even ask.

✅ Don’t lead with shame — If you introduce your desire like it’s gross or wrong, you train her to see it that way too.
✅ Every woman is different — Her openness depends on arousal, trust, and emotional connection, not just the act itself.
✅ The key is confident, respectful communication — Your turn-ons matter. And how you share them determines how they’re received.

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#393 Why Men Crave It When She Swallows And What That Really Means Jul 10, 2025

Some men think it’s just about dominance or kink. But there’s more to it.

In this episode, I break down why so many men feel deeply drawn to the act of a woman swallowing during oral sex—and how this desire ties into emotional intimacy, connection, and trust.

✅ Swallowing is symbolic — For many men, it's not just physical. It's a visceral expression of being fully accepted and desired.
✅ Kink requires trust — You can’t fast-track intimacy. Women open up sexually after they feel consistently safe and emotionally connected.
✅ Non-sexual intimacy is the gateway — If you’re skipping the daily moments of non-sexual touch, warmth, and presence, you're missing the real foreplay.

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#392 Dirty Talk vs. Sexy Talk. Which One Turns Her On More? Jul 09, 2025

Most men treat sex like it’s all the same—just showing up and getting it done.
But there’s a difference between simply having sex... and mastering the art of sexual communication.

In this episode, I’m breaking down the difference between dirty talk and sexy talk—and why most women want both. If you’ve ever found yourself fumbling for words in bed or wondering if your partner even likes the things you say (or don’t say), this one’s for you.

✅ Dirty talk is primal, teasing, and dominant—but it requires emotional control to land it right.
✅ Sexy talk taps into emotional connection and intimacy—without getting soft or performative.
✅ You don’t need to be a poet or porn star—just a man who pays attention and leads the moment.

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#391 Three Advanced Techniques to Last Longer Without Losing Connection Jul 08, 2025

Most guys are told the same recycled tips when it comes to lasting longer in bed—“breathe deeply,” “edge,” “think about baseball.” Yes, those work, but you’re not here for the basics. You want next-level tools that actually shift your performance and deepen your sexual leadership.

In this episode, I share three techniques that I’ve used with hundreds of men to help them take control in the bedroom—with real results.

✅ Learn the power of dick sensitivity: Understand which parts of your cock are more reactive and how to use that awareness to your advantage in sex and masturbation.

✅ Use shallow penetration strategically: Discover how starting with restraint can create longer stamina and hotter buildup—for both of you.

✅ Master arousal control through mental imagery: Train your brain to stay present and powerful, even in high-arousal states, without disconnecting or numbing out.

This isn’t fluff. These are precise techniques to help you take command of your arousal, body, and connection with integrity.

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#390 Freedom Is Control: How to Lead Your Sex Life Like a Mountain Climb Jul 04, 2025

What you will learn in this episode:
✅ Reframe the definition of control—it's not just about staying hard or lasting longer, it’s about how you respond to emotional tension
✅ Discover how your reactions (not her behavior) drive the cycle you're stuck in
✅ Learn the role emotional regulation plays in building a sex life that actually feels free

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Description of this episode:
Most men think freedom in sex means doing whatever they want. But real freedom? It's about how you feel—and how much control you take over those feelings. In this episode, Stephanie shares a personal story about summiting Mount Shasta and unpacks how your interpretation of events, not the events themselves, determine your sex life satisfaction.

#389 Do you lead her... or lose her? Jun 20, 2025

In this episode you will learn:

How to show up as and speak like a leader when your needs are not being met.
How to not come across needy to your woman and gain respect from her in the process.
The specific communication that builds true trust, connection and intimacy.

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#388 Want a Better Sex Life? Start With This Brutal Question May 19, 2025

"High Agency in 30 minutes" (article) by George Mack
https://www.highagency.com/

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#387 Should you feel guilty for masturbating? May 13, 2025

What you'll learn in this episode:

✅ How to look at masturbation in a way that works for your sex life, instead of against it.

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#386 Five things I would never do after being a sexologist May 09, 2025

What you'll learn in this episode:

✅ Why and how being a sexologist changed the way I viewed various parts of sex from a distance and also in my own relationship.

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#385 The truth about performance anxiety May 02, 2025

What you'll learn in this episode:

✅ How to take back control over your emotional state. This is a reminder that you get to choose how you move forward. You are never "stuck" the way you think you are.

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#384 How I fixed my sex communication problem Apr 24, 2025

What you'll learn in this episode:

✅ How to notice a disconnect between you and your partner sexually and then communicate it!

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#383 How to increase sex in your relationship Apr 23, 2025

What you'll learn in this episode:

✅ You usually don't just want more of the sex you're having. You want to make it better first and then have more of that.

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#382 You Don't Need Viagra, You Need This Apr 22, 2025

What you'll learn in this episode:

✅ Why you are feeling so reliant on viagra and how to slowly step away from it!

If you're ready to transform yourself and your sex life:

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#381 Never say this after sex Mar 07, 2025

What you'll learn in this episode:

✅ Why you should never ever apologize for your sex performance!

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#380 The 3 traits to transform your sex life Feb 27, 2025

What you'll learn in this episode:

✅ The 3 most important traits you need to build to fix your sex life, be proud of the man you are and become most attractive to your partner.

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#379 Sexual rejection- handle it like a confident man Feb 24, 2025

What you'll learn in this episode:

✅ How to interpret rejection from a secure place
✅ How to respond to rejection from a secure place
✅ How to talk about rejection with your woman

Rejection is feedback. Get curious about why you’re getting the feedback you're getting so you can understand, instead of taking offense and going to a low point every time it happens. You don't have to :)

If you’re having a hard time not being offending, it’s because you’re looking IN more than you’re looking OUT (getting curious around why the rejection is happening from your most confident, secure place).

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#378 Bad sex? Be clear on what you want! Feb 15, 2025

What you'll learn in this episode:

How you need to communicate to actually make changes in your sex life.

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Sex Meditations
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#377 When talking about sex turns into a fight... Feb 10, 2025

What you'll learn in this episode:

How to stay calm and productive around a difficult sex conversation.
How to find out why she doesn't want more sex with you.
How to be a better listener!

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#376 Sex is not the answer to your relationship problems Feb 05, 2025

What you'll learn in this episode:

You cannot sustain a fulfilling, hot sex life with emotional conflicts not being addressed.
It doesn't have to take 20 years to find sustainable emotional connection for sex to start happening naturally (it can actually happen in a few weeks!)
It takes getting comfortable in the uncomfortable to initiate conversation around connection problems with your woman. Don't wait to feel confident before talking to her. It's normal to go into these situations feeling uncomfortable. That's ok and your confidence will come from you taking action even when you're scared.

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#375 How do you want her to initiate sex with you? Jan 30, 2025

What you'll learn in this episode:

How to talk to your woman about the way she initiates sex with you.
How to feel confident in how you initiate sex with your woman.
Why "feedback" is your friend, not enemy!

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#374 Don't ignore your sex problems; Here's how to build strength and solve them Jan 19, 2025

What you'll learn in this episode:

What happens to you when you avoid your sex problems.
Why you need to focus only on what you can control.
The two tactics that will help you build resilience so you can tackle your problems head on.

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#373 Personal growth lessons I'm bringing into 2025 Jan 16, 2025

What you'll learn in this episode:

How to stop allowing your feelings to control you.
How to gain self respect.
How to live a more energized life!

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#372 Don't Settle for 'Good': Raise the Bar in Your Relationship Dec 14, 2024

What you'll learn in this episode:

Why waiting too long to work on things can be detrimental to your relationship.
The power of vulnerability and courage to create and maintain a deep connection.
Practical advice on how to move from a "good" relationship to a "great" one.
Real-life client experiences and transformative coaching insights.

Time Stamps:
00:00 Why be okay with okay; aim for greatness.

03:32 Strive for great, not just "not fighting."

08:51 Openness and courage strengthen bonds and intimacy.

11:36 Embrace vulnerability for personal and relationship growth.

13:06 Check freebie link; it's been helpful.

#371 How Masturbation Can Transform Your Sex Life Nov 17, 2024

What you'll learn in this episode:
1. Your masturbation routine is impacting more than you realize.

2. The secret ingredient to more consistent arousal.

3. How to use masturbation to fix performance challenges.

Harvard masturbation study:
https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/ejaculation_frequency_and_prostate_cancer

Timestamps

[00:00:00] - Introduction: Why the way you masturbate matters for your sex life.
[00:01:00] - The Connection Between Masturbation and Partnered Sex: How unrealistic habits create performance issues.
[00:03:00] - Building Confidence Through Solo Exploration: Why knowing yourself leads to better experiences with a partner.
[00:05:00] - The Role of Relaxation in Arousal: How stress impacts your ability to get turned on.
[00:07:00] - Breaking Porn Habits: Why intentional solo time can retrain your mind and body.
[00:10:00] - Understanding Arousal Types: Spontaneous vs. responsive arousal and what it means for men.
[00:12:00] - The Power of Intentional Masturbation: How to use it to address sexual challenges and gain control.
[00:13:00] - Closing Thoughts and Actionable Steps: How to start small, build momentum, and take control of your sex life.

#370 The 8 most common sex problems for men Nov 01, 2024