Unbecoming with Phoebe Mroczek

Latest Episodes:

Six Simple Shifts to Help You Win the Day Sep 15, 2025

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You know those days where everything just clicks? You feel clear, strong, focused, and calm.. not perfect, but aligned. I've noticed that my best days almost always come down to a handful of simple things I do for myself, and when I skip them, I feel it.

In this episode, I'm sharing the six things that make the biggest difference for me.. things that ground me, energize me, and help me show up as the best version of myself. They're not complicated, but they are intentional. And maybe one of them will be the shift you need to make your days feel better, too.

Can't wait to hear what (or how it) lands for you. x P

P.S. You probably noticed I didn't release an episode last week. With everything going on, it felt right to take a moment of silence instead of adding more noise. Sending you love.

The Best Gift You Can Give as a Leader Sep 03, 2025

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I used to think kindness as a leader meant being soft, polite, or not making anyone uncomfortable.

Then I observed others and saw their effectiveness as being ruthless, sharp, and detached. But I've realized the kindest thing you can give someone, your team, your kids, your partner, is clarity. People don't thrive in ambiguity. They want to know what's expected of them, what a win looks like, and how to make you proud or happy. This episode is about why clear targets matter, how to set them with love, and why expectations are actually freedom.

The Real Reason Love Feels Harder to Find Aug 25, 2025

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Are you looking for love but feel like it's harder than it should be?

I recently had a friend ask me, "Why does real love feel so hard to find right now?" And honestly, it's something I've been hearing a lot lately from the people around me. So many of my friends are single, or in relationships that look good on the outside but feel empty underneath.

In this episode, I explore what might really be going on and why love feels out of reach for so many of us. This isn't just about romance, it's about friendships, family, and even the love you give yourself.

I hope you enjoy this episode.

xx P

Stop Waiting for the Spark Aug 21, 2025

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We're told to wait for the spark.. in love, in work, in life. But what if that's the very thing holding you back?

In this episode, I unpack the myth we've been sold about love and why it might be keeping you from the connection and fulfillment you want most. If you've ever wondered why the spark fades or never seems to arrive, today's conversation is for you.

I hope you enjoy it.

x P

The Gift That Kept Growing (..Sort Of) Aug 12, 2025

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Want to hear a slightly embarrassing (and hilarious) story?

Tune in and watch how I'm able to draw the connection between a housewarming gift I had in my home for years and how it mirrors the way we often pour energy into versions of ourselves, relationships, or careers.

We talk about the quiet half-truths we tell ourselves, the cost of staying silent about what we really want, and how to stop tending to things in your life that no longer grow.

If you've ever felt "good on paper" but secretly disconnected underneath, this conversation might be the nudge you need to get honest, claim what you want, and start tending to what's real.

Good on Paper Aug 09, 2025

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You've checked all the boxes. Career, relationships, milestones… but something still feels off. In this first episode back, I'm not here with a polished pitch, I'm here to tell the truth.

Turning 40 stopped me in my tracks. Friends' accidents, close calls, and the quiet voice inside made me ask, Is this it?

This conversation is for anyone who's ever built a "good on paper" life yet felt disconnected underneath. I'll share why I'm bringing the podcast back, what you can expect, and how we'll explore living a brave life, bold leadership, and big love, starting with ourselves.

Welcome back, and thank you for being here.

Seed of Something Great Jun 27, 2023

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Hey, I literally ran home to record this one for you. I think you'll love it if you have an idea, wish or desire sitting in your back pocket. It doesn't even have to be fully formed.. it might just be the seed of something great. I hope you love it and if you do, please do me a favor and share it with a friend.

x P

21 Mid-Year Check-In Questions Jun 20, 2023

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Just had a birthday, so naturally - thought it appropriate to reevaluate my entire life. Kidding, sort of :) But here are the questions I'm using to do so. I hope they add as much clarity and value to your life as they have mine.

xx P

Moments Before a Big Leap May 24, 2023

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I recorded this episode for you if and when you're ready for a change, a leap or just a little something new. If you're someone for who that pendulum swings hard, this episode is for you.

I hope you enjoy it and please share if you do.

xx P

A Roadmap to Win the Day May 09, 2023

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A quick reminder today about your priorities, and how a change of environment can help you identify them.

xx P