Tot Talks

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Episode 23: Lunchtime Chats with Tot Talks Dec 04, 2021

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!!! Rated 18+ !!! In this hot mess of an episode, we cover so many random topics such as seasonal depression, our Google searches, shopping, and boundaries. This episode is a a little peek inside of what our every day phone conversations, texts and in person interactions are like - all of the time. We hope you enjoy our random, ADHD filled episode! It was exactly what the three of us needed, we know we have been away for a while but we are working on getting back into our routine and putting out episodes weekly for you again! Thank you for being patient with us and continuing to love and support our crazy selves. ❤️ As always, feel free to send us an email at tottalks99@gmail.com and follow us on TikTok at @shoelover99 @themessytherapist and @mellissaprice7

Episode 22: Internet Stalking and Impersonation Nov 13, 2021

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This episode is important to us because unfortunately, Opie has been dealing with someone harassing, stalking and impersonating her online now for a while. At this point it has gone too far, and we just want it to end. On this episode we talk about the dangers of people on the internet and how terrifying it can actually be. If you are being harassed or stalked on the internet - please reach out to your local authorities! This is a crime. Remember to please be safe on the internet and be cautious of who you trust or what information you give out. We finish the episode on a lighter note, talking about the weekend where the three of us finally met! It was a perfect weekend and we can’t wait to be back with each other again soon. ❤️ You can follow Opie on TikTok @shoelover99, her only other account is @mamatot99.. ANY other account that may look like her is NOT HER. Please block and report them. You can follow her wonderful and loving husband @dericknichols on TikTok, and us at @themessytherapist and @mellissaprice7. If you have any comments, questions or concerns, email us at tottalks99@gmail.com. We are happy to be back and we will see you next weekend!

Episode 21: Negative Effects of Social Media Oct 23, 2021

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On this weeks episode we talk about the negative effects that social media can have on people and how it can completely change your life. There are so many good things that social media can bring, it can help you feel empowered, seen, heard and loved. It can bring you the best of friends (that is exactly how the three of us found each other) BUT it can also do so much harm. Don’t listen to any of the negative things you may hear on social media, and please, always always remember that you are loved. Don’t forget your worth! Stay tuned next weekend for a special LIVE episode of the podcast that we will be doing on Opie’s TikTok when the 3 of us are finally together!!! And if you have any questions, comments or suggestions, feel free to email us at tottalks99@gmail.com

Episode 20: Check on Your People Oct 16, 2021

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In this episode, we talk about the importance of checking on the people in our lives. You never know what someone may be dealing with. Even your closest friends could be dealing with something you don’t know about because they are too afraid to ask for help or comfort. Needing support is nothing to be ashamed of. But sometimes, we all feel that way. Which is why it is so important to check on those that you love and make sure that they are okay, REALLY make sure. Sometimes a question as simple as “How are you doing? No, how are you REALLY doing?” goes a long way. It’s nice to feel cared about ❤️ We all want that.

Episode 19: Trauma Sep 11, 2021

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In this episode we talk about the different types of traumas we have been through - there are so many things that can be traumatizing, no matter how big or how small it may seem. Just because yours doesn’t seem as difficult or as dark as someone else’s, doesn’t take away from the fact that it affected you. Trauma is trauma. Your experiences are valid. We see you and we support you! No matter what. We hope that this episode helps provide some insight and helps you to feel less alone in your struggles. As always, thank you for your support and for listening to our podcast every Saturday! We will be back to regular scheduling! If you have any questions, comments or suggestions feel free to email us at tottalks99@gmail.com and don’t forget to follow us on TikTok: @shoelover99 (@mamatot99 backup account), @themessytherapist and @mellissaprice7

Edpisode 18: How To Know When It’s Time To Go Aug 21, 2021

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TRIGGER WARNING: domestic violence and mention of addictions In this episode we talk about how to know when it is time to go. When it's time to leave a relationship for your sake, or for the sake of both of you - how do you know? And how do you take those steps? We talk about our own personal experiences with knowing when it was time to leave. If you are in a relationship that you are afraid to leave, or you are questioning if its time to leave - please know that you are not alone. You have the strength to leave, and you are worth so much more than this relationship may make you feel. It is NOT your fault. If you need someone to talk to, we are not professionals but we do care - feel free to email us at tottalks99@gmail.com Thank you for your continued support and listening to our podcast. It means so much to us! We're trying to get back on track with uploading every Saturday but life has been busy - please bare with us! We will see you next Saturday. If you have any suggestions, questions or comments you can email us at the email above. Don't forget to follow us on TikTok - @shoelover99 (@mamatot99 is her backup), @themessytherapist and @mellissaprice7

Episode 17: Becoming an Adult Aug 14, 2021

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We’re back! This episode was a submission from one of our tater tots, Dravin, who wanted us to talk about what it was like when we became adults and to give some advice or tips on what being an adult is to us. Remember, just because you haven’t figured out everything yet doesn’t mean you aren’t trying hard enough. Honestly, we don’t think anyone really has it all figured out yet! You’re trying your best and your best is good enough ❤️ Also, we just wanted to say that we so happy with all of our submissions we have received these past few weeks and we are so excited to get to them all. We love you all and we will be back next Saturday. If you have any questions, comments or suggestions you can email us at tottalks99@gmail.com and we will get back to you ASAP!

Episode 16: Dating Horror Stories Jul 31, 2021

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We’re back!!! This week is a lighter podcast - talking about our dating horror stories. Heads up! Some of this episode is explicit. Also, we had some technical issues in the middle of the episode - so at about 12 mins it switches to a second recording but we did our best to make the recording flow. As always, thank you so much for your love and support! We are so grateful for each and every one of our listeners! We love y’all. We hope that you enjoyed this episode as much as we did making it - we are SO happy to be back! ❤️ Don’t forget to follow us on TikTok @shoelover99, @themessytherapist and @mellissaprice7 and feel free to email us at tottalks99@gmail.com with questions, suggestions or if you just need someone to talk to. And we will see y’all next Saturday!

Episode 15: Abandonment Fears Jul 10, 2021

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In this episode we talk about our fears of abandonment, what it’s like dealing with them and how we can help ourselves (or how you can help someone) who struggles with these fears. You are not alone in this fear, nor does it make you a bad person for having these thoughts and fears. As always, thank you for your support on our podcast and for continuing to listen every week. We appreciate it so much! We have a few episode ideas lined up for the next few weeks but feel free to shoot us an email if you have any suggestions, comments or are looking for someone to talk to. Our email is tottalks99@gmail.com and our TikToks are @shoelover99, @themessytherapist and @mellissaprice7. We will see you again next week! Love y’all ❤️

Episode 14: Family Alienation Jun 26, 2021

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In this episode we talk about the consequences and results of family alienation due to multiple different circumstances. So many people go without seeing or knowing members of their families due to other members of that same family causing alienation and separation. Every situation is different - we talk about ours here. If you are wanting to reach out to a family member or someone you have been alienated from - do it. It could be a wonderful thing! As always, thank you for your continued support. We love and appreciate each and every one of y’all. Stay tuned for next Saturday’s episode! If you have any comments, questions or suggestions we would love to hear from you. Email us at tottalks99@gmail.com and don’t forget to follow us on TikTok! @shoelover99 @themessytherapist @mellissaprice7

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