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They Talk Sex

Certified Sex Educator and adult entertainer Elle Stanger hosts weekly guests to discuss common sexuality topics, including non-monogamy, STI’s, sex education, jealousy, pleasure, relationships and more.

Latest Episodes:

The Cuckolding and Dominatrix Episode Oct 30, 2023

Show notes

Our last episode of this season and O what fun - let’s talk cuckolding! Join Mistress Elle for a chat with her favorite cuckold and hear how he discovered his kinky lifestyle, how he interacts most ethically with the women he worships, and please enjoy some of our funny stories, too.

3:00 how he finds women to worship

5:00 a catholic priest client - Lady Vi

8:00 legal and artistic aid for a friend

10:00 scrotal piercings for a leash

11:00 Mickey Mod and Mistress Gia DeMarco

13:00 first anal cream pie

14:00 Mistress Sandi in Montreal

16:00 his first ever cucking appointment - Mistress January Seraph

21:00 there’s a lot of cum soon

25:00 moral of the story is be yourself

29:00 what’s the best part?

33:00 beneath a woman and helping her

36:00 how to protect yourself from scammers?

39:00 losing friends over it?

43:00 am I gay or less of a man?

47:00 economic impacts?

52:00 Americans are more taboo about sharing

55:00 Shoutout to his Doms

59:00 honored to be the first

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The Herpes and Relationships Episode 2 Oct 23, 2023

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We catch up with our fave herpes educator Courtney Brame for some updates and additional facts about a common virus that many of us live with, and Elle had new experience with. Let’s talk herpes again!

1:00 he gets more topless-views

3:00 a big herpes survey

7:00 clinically massive outbreak

11:00 sex workers + herpes

14:00 consented to not using barriers

17:00 sexual infidelity is a possibility

21:00 herpes location vs Type 1 or 2

23:00 why do lab tests during outbreak?

26:00 20TALKSWIRL2

29:00 sex toy snafu, unrelated

32:00 what is a “normal length” outbreak

36:00 May 2024 results survey + St Louis MO

40:00 how might one get herpes?

43:00 can you get tested without an outbreak?

47:00 sex as a polyam person

51:00 Courtney got a sex toy too small

54:00 jolihamilton.com

58:00 a Feeld app match gone awry

1:03:00 saying no to sex

1:06:00 $2.45Million lawsuit about herpes transmission

1:15:00 elle0ellepdx on TT

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See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows

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The Sex Work and Trauma Healing Episode Oct 16, 2023

Show notes

A traumatic attack caused our guest to reframe how she was living her one life. She’s now chosen to work as an erotica writer, a legal courtesan in a nevada brothel, and she’s here to talk about making positive connections between mind-body healing and sex work.

2:00 gang bang playwriting

4:00 a traumatic event showed a bird’s eye view of life

7:00 surviving the home invasion assault

10:00 find her at the brothel

14:00 be a nun or get married at 16, literally

20:00 how to screen for clients

23:00 sexting advice

27:00 learn to see the strange as familiar

32:00 on being called “old” now

40:00 a sexy oracle reading

43:00 feel it to heal it

46:00 catholic guilt in the inbox

53:00 empowerment is the underlying theme

55:00 how AI writing scares us

58:00 more sex advice

FIND OUR GUEST: OnlyFans.com/GoodassGoddess

FIND Y OUR HOST st ripperwriter.com

See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows

Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com

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The Lesbian Pornmaker Episode Oct 09, 2023

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She’s been a top lesbian content creator on Youtube for a decade, now learn what’s next for Bria Kam after years of growing with her audience, and being part of the first successful UK revenge porn lawsuit. We talk love, strapons, and web work!

1:00 how we met

4:00 on making our own porn

7:00 on being “Mommy”

10:00 how did you start filming?

14:00 they won the first ever UK revenge porn lawsuit

17:00 Pamela anderson was done dirty

22:00 only one of us likes sucking D

25:00 advice for people who make X media?

29:00 dating polyam and monogs

34:00 direct porn sales?

38:00 web searching “lesbian porn”

41:00 what kind of porn does Elle watch?

44:00 yes I can orgasm from penetration oooo

49:00 what is your top kink?

53:00 a new hope for love after a breakup

FIND OUR GUEST: on OnlyFans.com/BriaKam

FIND Y OUR HOST st ripperwriter.com

See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows

Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com

Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order!

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The Trans Healthcare Episode Oct 02, 2023

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Have you ever seen healthcare providers who have no idea what you are experiencing personally? Lucie Fielding is a therapist, sex educator and writer who saw the gaps in healthcare and the biases against trans people by their providers, and works to share info and insight about better clinical approaches to trans sexuality.

2:00 a clarifying anger

6:00 I want clients/people to feel lovable

9:00 psychoanalysis was designed to be intensive

13:00 what does Yes and No feel like in the body?

17:00 “these poor people”

20:00 what is anti-trans sensationalism

23:00 how people are misled to believe transphobia

28:00 what is muffing?

31:00 balls and labia are homologous tissue

35:00 https://fuckingtranswomen.org/

37:00 what are puberty blockers?

40:00 kids choosing their own identity prevents self harm

44:00 “ambivalence is essential to the change process”

47:00 top surgery and boob jobs

52:00 I need help with asking how to name their parts!

55:00 how do we name our parts?

59:00 what is Project 2025?

1:05:00 what’s next for Lucie?

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See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows

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The Weird History and Sexuality Episode Sep 25, 2023

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Let’s explore Oregon and and particularly Old Town Portland, which has its roots in racism, beer, gambling and sex work, and predatory policing. This city truly was built by alcoholics and hustlers: Let’s talk ghosts of old-timey Oregon with Weird History Podcast Host and author, Joe Streckert.

3:00 why weird history is important

8:00 tour guide in Portland

11:00 a brief history of Vanport, Oregon

14:00 early Portland history demographics

17:00 beer and gambling and sw

19:00 why is Oregon so white and covertly racist?

23:00 Oro Fino Saloon and enforcement against sex work

26:00 why factory-working women also did SW

29:00 policing and sex work

32:00 Nita Belles is a modern day Lola Baldwin

35:00 psychics, bowling, shooting galleries were targeted by cops too

38:00 Chinese business owners and respectability politics

41:00 Marie Equi and birth control and lesbianism

44:00 a note on eugenics and early birth control

47:00 prostitution and “green” attitudes

51:00 why are Oregon clubs so different from neighboring states?

55:00 all old downtown buildings may have been used as brothels or rooms

58:00 the myth(?) of Nancy Boggs and the floating brothel

1:06:00 QAnon is like early century white saviorism

Find your guest on JoeStreckert.com and WeirdHistoryPodcast.com

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See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows

Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com

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Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Bl anket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX

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Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :)

The Brothelkeeping Episode Sep 18, 2023

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Bella Cummins has owned her Nevada brothel for thirty-seven years and talks about venue management, what the regulations are like, and how to create a safer and more fun environment for everyone.

1:00 beginning the day at the brothel

3:00 administrative and staff training

5:00 only cis women working here at this time

7:00 decrim vs legalization discussion

10:00 clarification on decriminalization in NZ

14:00 safer working in brothels than outcall

17:00 discounts to Utah residents!

21:00 laundry is important at the brothel

25:00 is this a calling for you?

28:00 how staff can be proactive

33:00 process for business approval by police and city

36:00 law enforcement regulation

41:00 condoms used to be way thicker

46:00 deadname and origin story

49:00 more legal distinctions

54:00 why discounted rates for Utah?

58:00 more on regulated work

1:00:00 sex advice

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See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows

Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com

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Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :)

Ask Us Anything - Sex Educator Edition Sep 04, 2023

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Do you have sex questions? She’s a Black sex educator who advocates for HIV prevention, sex toy exploration and straightforward communication: Ashley Cobb from Atlanta, Georgia offers straightforward and candid input on common questions about anal sex, penis size, and more.

1:00 began teaching sex ed in 2015

5:00 she thinks redheads are cute

9:00 38 vs early 20’s

11:00 pRep for Black women

14:00 raw sex equals pregnancy or STIs

17:00 syphilis and COVID going up why?

21:00 why to have sex before you get married

24:00 why insecure men might prefer sexually inexperienced women

27:00 how often should I get screened?

31:00 when one of you wants to have sex more often

34:00 ways to be intimate without PIV

37:00 ethical porn discussion

42:00 more anal tips for newbies

45:00 small penis tips and use your hands

48:00 on “sex-negative feminism”

53:00 Somaya Critchlow art discussion

56:00 what’s next for her?

FIND YOUR GUEST on IG @sexwithashley

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See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows

Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com

Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order!

Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Bl anket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX

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Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :)

The Dominatrix Episode Aug 28, 2023

Show notes

She’s a self-taught therapeutic dominatrix and touch provider, who specializes in helping people play and explore boundaries and kinks. Meet Lara the Divine Theratrix and learn about what it’s like to explore feeling big, small, and primal.

3:00 therapeutic approaches to hands-on work

6:00 autism and body language learning

9:00 Dr Stewart Brown - on play and communication

14:00 protection from obsession

19:00 humans are animals

22:00 being fluid and changing

26:00 creative Safewords

30:00 special interests are so important

36:00 JoyClub, Beducated, Fetlife

41:00 discrimination against dominatrix by doordash

44:00 sex workers rights and SWUnionUK

47:00 examples of worker controls or protections

52:00 examples of types of play

54:00 play makes life worth living

FIND YOUR GUEST on DivineTheratrix.com

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See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows

Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com

Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order!

Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Bl anket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX

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Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :)

The BoySlut Episode Aug 21, 2023

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Let’s talk about male bisexuality, biphobia, role-modeling mental health and have a raunchy, fun time with Zachary Zane. He’s an advice writer and the author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto.

1:00 a book about bisexuality and shame

3:00 having OCD as a child and now

6:00 mental health and spirituality

10:00 bisexuality and stigma

13:00 not enjoying sex due to stress

16:00 a darn good therapist session

20:00 how do you role model healthy male sexuality?

25:00 tips on coming out to family members

28:00 more discussion on this ^

31:00 how to address my gf’s biphobia

34:00 Bi-Men, By Women book

38:00 if they aren’t 100% enthusiastic, maybe avoid them

42:00 real non-fiction erotica stories

46:00 theragun in the butt story

49:00 Boyslut things and projects

52:00 cancel culture vs call-ins

55:00 any sex tips for our audience?

FIND YOUR GUEST on ZacharyZane.com

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See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows

Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com

Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order!

Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Bl anket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX

Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com

Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :)

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