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**They Talk Sex**

Certified Sex Educator and adult entertainer Elle Stanger hosts weekly guests to discuss common sexuality topics, including non-monogamy, STI’s, sex education, jealousy, pleasure, relationships and more.

Latest Episodes:

The Curvy Sex and Fatphobia Episode Oct 25, 2021

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For all genders: size anxiety, euphoria, acceptance, and individuality is explained to us by author Elle Chase, CSE.

1:00 this is about body acceptance, not love

5:00 the burden of negative cultural influences

10:00 gender roles for body image

15:00 how are bigger bodied people treated differently?

20:00 FOSTA/SESTA has hurt fat people

25:00 how can straight-sized sex workers help?

31:00 Listener Questions

35:00 fat jiggling is really sexy to a lot of people

45:00 elle’s tips for anxiety and masturbation

50:00 what IS restrictive eating?

54:00 share what you love about your partner’s bigger body?

58:00 elle loves scissoring

1:02:00 more book resources and breathing reminders

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The Internet Pornmaking Episode Oct 17, 2021

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Learn some behind-the-scenes secrets and production tricks as we talk to a xxx performer who has been making adult content for a decade.

1:00 Gem makes porn - meet your guest

5:00 nude model contracts can be weird

10:00 would you prefer to let your spouse manage your OnlyFans?

13:00 likes/dislikes about adult content creation

17:00 chafed labias are a downside of a busy calendar

23:00 this stuff isn’t always easy!

26:00 on setting boundaries during live shows

30:00 filming feedback and mishaps

36:00 it sucks getting your period on camera

40:00 how to not get your IG deleted by OnaArtist

43:00 how we feel about anti porn people who claim they fight trafficking

48:00 what could change about the web porn industries?

52:00 sex tips and advice from Gem

FIND YOUR GUEST: Gem on Twitter and OnlyFans @lilshawtygem and @theshawtysupreme

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The Gay History of Fitness Episode Oct 12, 2021

Show notes

Gay and bisexual men have been hugely impactful on modern fitness and gym culture, and our writer and fitness expert explains how.

2:00 meet your guest

5:00 a famous bisexual sex worker flexing was one of the first film clips

7:00 beefcake magazines

9:00 excessive carbs can lower your libido?

14:00 men, what keeps you closeted?

18:00 discrimination prevents success

22:00 hormones and steroid use

27:00 ethical steroid use and applications

33:00 how often do you come out to people?

38:00 homophobia/misogyny/racism in fitness on social media

45:00 the Proud Boys and Vice relationship

49:00 labial and scrotal wax can HURT

53:00 carnivals and wrestlers and strippers

1:00:00 good hygiene is good sex advice

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FIND YOUR HOST: st ripperwriter.com

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The Anti-Sex Trafficking Episode Oct 04, 2021

Show notes

How do current laws and beliefs perpetuate opportunities for sexual abuse of people, specifically children, immigrants, trans people, BIPOC, and sex workers? Let’s talk with an Executive Director for a nonprofit that supports survivors and offers resources, the Cupcake Girls.

2:00 meet our guest - why does a civilian work in anti-trafficking?

5:00 police abuse in oregon

10:00 *deep breath reminder*

13:00 doctors, lawyers, nurses might Out or report sex workers to police

17:00 examples of how criminalization hurts people

20:00 critically question your spirituality

21:00 more examples of how criminalization hurts people

25:00 domestic violence can link to sex trafficking

29:00 generational trafficking is more common than you might think

35:00 resource for secondary trauma - emma sullivan

39:00 tips for talking with a partner about trauma

43:00 sex workers are taxpayers too, LOL

50:00 most anti-trafficking organizations require people to quit sex work to receive services

55:00 How to donate

1:00:00 planes and flights with people being transported

1:05:00 gender myths and trafficking
1:10:00 don’t make assumptions

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FIND YOUR HOST: st ripperwriter.com

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The Masturbation Education Episode Sep 27, 2021

Show notes

Let’s talk about genital self-touch with author Vic Liu and learn from Bang For All - their inclusive book on masturbation.

2:00 why write a sex ed book on masturbation

10:00 how masturbation can be good for you

13:00 masturbation myths

20:00 how to increase sensitivity in your vulva

25:00 be mindful of your anal play

27:00 anal numbing creams are so dangerous

32:00 vibrator dependency - why the brain can rely on simple methods

40:00 elle asked listeners: what have you masturbated with?

47:00 why teach sex education to k-12?

49:00 child sexual abuse *trigger*

52:00 resources

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The Queering Up Sex Episode Sep 20, 2021

Show notes

Which sexual scripts and stereotypes do you follow, even if they don’t feel good or make sense? Dr Chris Donaghue explains how to have sex outside the lines and expand your skills and attitudes with yourself and partners.

5:00 throw out your expectations about what sex “should” be like

12:00 approach a partner’s body with curiosity regardless of gender

18:00 controversial idea: fluid and expansive educators will understand sexuality better

25:00 trying new things all the time

30:00 goth kids do it in the cemetery

33:00 dirty talk tips

39:00 everybody likes different things, sexually

44:00 using toys: our entire bodies can be stimulated

52:00 on “heteroflexible” as a term

57:00 other examples of sexual scripts

1:00:00 resource requests

FIND YOUR GUEST: https://www.drchrisdonaghue.com

FIND YOUR HOST: st ripperwriter.com

See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows

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The Kink and Trauma Episode Sep 13, 2021

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What can it mean to be kinky and how can we play more safely and creatively? Domina Franco M.Ed has two decades of experience and gives advice and info about kink play and trauma.

4:00 what is kink?

8:00 how some types of play and relationships are pathologized

12:00 on being a joyful sadist and human furniture

20:00 slut play

28:00 a theory on why some people love submission

32:00 Consensual Non-consent play or “rape role play”

40:00 how to screen for safer dominant partners

45:00 topping is a sacred responsibility

54:00 mint green bandanas mean mommy kink

1:00:00 book recommendations on kink and BDSM

FIND YOUR GUEST https://www.dominafranco.com

FIND Y OUR HOST st ripperwriter.com

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The Jealousy and Relationships Episode Sep 06, 2021

Show notes

We all experience jealousy and feel it on a spectrum: learn how to manage it with relationship-building expert Dr Joli Hamilton.

3:00 different relationship styles

6:00 why call it CNM instead of ENM

14:00 what purposes does jealousy serve?

18:00 people don’t like identifying they are jealous - feeling shame about feeling jealous

19:00 how mismanaged jealousy can do great harm

24:00 how do I ask to open up an existing relationship?

29:00 I hate my partner’s partner - what to do?

38:00 how to own your jealousy

48:00 germophobes and sharing

52:00 celebrities who can’t be open

55:00 polyamorous and parenting rights?

1:00:00 stories can be helpful

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The Stripper and Hustle Episode Aug 30, 2021

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How to run yourself as a more sustainable, cheerful and profitable business: business coach Carmen Santos from Racks-to -Riches offers advice for veteran strippers, baby strippers, and civilians.

1:10 most of us auditioning have zero or little knowledge of how to do the jobs

4:00 communication and sales skills matter

7:00 viewing yourself as a business

10:00 intergenerational and gender issues relating to financial education

15:00 employee vs contractor status

17:00 annoying things that clients do - don’t do these!

24:00 how to deal with those same old questions

36:00 alcohol wears people down

40:00 how to reframe aging in sex industries

45:00 privacy and disclosure advice

49:00 social media use is energy

53:00 bad legislation and laws

55:00 what makes a good club

59:00 business advice resources

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FIND YOUR GUEST: RackstoRiches.com

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1:03:00 on dating yourself

The Herpes and Relationships Episode Aug 23, 2021

Show notes

Facts, FAQs and communication about a common virus that many of us live with, with herpes educator and suicide-prevention organizer Courtney Brame.

2:00 - herpes diagnoses can make people suicidal

7:00 - shame about COVID and herpes

12:00 - skin friction is how herpes is transmitted, sexually or not

19:00 - mental health and sexuality

26:00 - disclosure: when should I?

30:00 - the three most common responses to “I have herpes”

38:00 - different ways to disclose to partners

42:00 - therapists should be herpes literate

52:00 - immune system support is critical

1:00:00 - what's' it like telling strangers you have herpes, regularly?

FIND YOUR GUEST: SPFPP.org

FIND Y OUR HOST st ripperwriter.com

See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows

Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com

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Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :)

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