The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

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59. Understanding The Sex Languages For Better Sexual Intimacy! Apr 05, 2022

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In this episode, Nick and Amy have the pleasure of having Dr. Emily Jamea on the podcast. Emily is a certified sex therapist and LMFT with Revive Therapy and discusses the concept of the different Sex Languages with us. Most couples have heard of the 5 Love Languages and understand how important they are to a relationship, but have you heard of the Sex Languages? We hadn't either! Here are a few of the things we discuss in this awesome episode:
What are the sex languages?
What is the language of the body?
What is the language of the mind?
Why is vulnerability so important in sexual intimacy?
Why is understanding these sex languages so important?
If you want to learn the sex languages and have a more meaningful and enjoyable sexual relationship with your spouse, then this episode is a MUST listen!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and review of the podcast.

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58. 10 Mistakes Women Make In Marriage That Impact Intimacy Mar 29, 2022

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Last week we tackled the 10 mistakes men make in marriage, now it's time for the women! A ton of research and preparation was put in for this episode (just like all other podcasts we do) and almost all other articles had these 10 mistakes women make in marriage, so this is not according to Nick and Amy, but what most relationship experts agree across the board. Most marriages want to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in their relationships and this episode will help you achieve that! Some of the mistakes women make are:
- Putting the kids first
- Not wanting physical intimacy (look for excuses not to have sex)
- Not being direct with your feelings
Listen to the episode to find out all of them :)
If you haven't already downloaded the Ultimate Intimacy app, what are you waiting for? Go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and review of the podcast.

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57. 10 Mistakes Men Make In Marriage That Impact Intimacy Mar 22, 2022

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Let's be real, sometimes we as guys say dumb things or make stupid mistakes in our marriage. We often don't do things intentionally, but sometimes the things we do or say can cause issues with our spouse. In this episode, Nick and Amy share a fantastic article by Knot Easily Broken and discuss the 10 mistakes men make in marriage. Some of these include:
- Only thinking about yourself in the bedroom
- Reckless spending
- Dont confide in your wife
Listen to the episode to hear all the mistakes we as men often make :)
Now we understand that not all men make all these mistakes, but you will probably find one or more of these mistakes that you have made or deal with in your marriage. So, if you are a man and want to have a better marriage and relationship then this episode is for you! Check out the 10 Mistakes Women Make In Marriage in our next episode.
If you haven't already downloaded the Ultimate Intimacy app, what are you waiting for? Go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and review of the podcast.

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56. Is It Healthy For Couples To Have Arguements? Mar 17, 2022

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Many married couples think if they are fighting or arguing, then they have an unhealthy marriage, but this is not the case. In this episode Nick and Amy discuss 12 reasons why it is actually healthy to argue in marriage, AND why it is not healthy to hold things in or sweep things "under the rug". Some of the benefits from arguing include:
- Arguing shows you really care about your spouse
- Helps you become a better listener
- Helps you to communicate better
- Helps you see other perspectives and solutions to issues
They also discuss tips to help couples argue fairly, and respectfully. This is an episode you won't want to miss!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and review of the podcast.

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55. 10 Steps To Rekindle Sexual Chemistry And Bring Back The Excitement, Passion And Connection Mar 14, 2022

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Do you feel like your sexual chemistry between you and your spouse has dwindled or is no longer existent? In this episode Nick and Amy discuss and share 10 tips to help couples rekindle their sexual chemistry so they can find the excitement, passion and connection in their relationship just like when they were first married.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and review of the podcast.

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54. Want A Better Marriage? Your Kids Can't Come First Feb 23, 2022

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In this episode Nick and Amy discuss a great article by focusonthefamily.com about why your marriage and relationship with your spouse has to be priority above the kids! "When a parental team breaks down, children become the biggest losers."
Research shows that marriage takes a hit when you have kids. According to an analysis involving 31,000 married people, the drop in marital satisfaction after the first baby is born is a staggering 42% larger among the current generation of parents than their predecessors.
Many couples just think "after the kids are gone, we"ll get to be a couple again". The problem is by the time the kids leave, so much distance has become in between each other, many couples dont even know each other and divorce often happens.
Parents get so busy now days with the kids and everything else going on, they make no time for each other and their marriages suffer.
Here are some of the things that are covered in this episode:

Make your spouse the top priority and your kids will be better for it
How to make time for each other
Dont over schedule your kids
No more excuses
Dont let your kids run your house

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and review of the podcast.

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53. Why Comparing Your Marriage And Life To Others Can Destroy Yours! Feb 16, 2022

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Do you find yourself comparing your marriage and life to others? Do you envy other marriages, families, vacations, and lifestyle and wonder why yours isn't like everyone else's?Well your not alone... We took a poll and the results found many other people and couples feel this same way.
The problem is what we see is a mirage, and we only see the what others WANT us to see, or what the companies want us to see to convince ourselves we need something to be happy. It's "our" perceptions but often times our perceptions isn't real. We never see what is behind the curtain or what is really going on.
In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss how comparing your marriage (and life) to others can destroy your marriage and life. They share the results of the poll on social media, and discuss 5 simple things you can do in your life to become happier as they have experienced this in their life and marriage.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and review of the podcast.

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52. The DNA differences between a man and woman... and why it works! Feb 09, 2022

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As men and women, we are biologically different...and that is how God made us and wants it to be. The world wants us to think we have to be the same and there is no difference between a man and woman biologically. This is not how God made us and it is good that we are wired differently and have different strengths, weaknesses and emotional and physical desires as men and women. When we understand how we are biologically different and how men and women function, it is easier to create "Ultimate Intimacy" in the relationship.
In this episode, Nick and Amy talk with Dauren Francis of Knot Easily Broken about the 10 differences he states in a post he did. Some of these include:

Men are thinkers while women are emotional feelers. Men analyze things while women feel things.
Men go to the store and buy what they need and leave. Women go shopping and they have an experience. It can be therapeutic.
Men just need a place to have sex. Women need a reason to have sex. Sex is wired to her brain.
Husbands typically just want to solve your problems, and women want their husbands to listen about the problems and talk about them.
Womens sexuality is tied to how she is treated. Love, honor, affection, time spent, vulnerability, intimacy, date night etc. A mans sexuality is based on what he sees. He is very visual.

*We recognize and understand that not everyone falls under these categories or is wired this way, but we are using this as the differences of "most" men and women.

This episode will offer so much insight and help! This is an episode you won't want to miss and we feel will help your marriage tremendously!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and review of the podcast.

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51. Men's Survey Answers About Sexual Intimacy... Feb 02, 2022

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In this weeks episode, Nick and Amy discuss the poll answers from social media. "Husbands answers to their Sexual Intimacy wants and needs."
The questions husbands answered were:
Do you have a hard time talking about sex with your wife? Why or why not?

Can you tell your wife what you want sexually? How do you bring up the conversation?

Who wants to make love more often, you or your wife? How do you find balance in your desire differences?

Do you enjoy foreplay? What foreplay technique that your wife does for you do you enjoy the most?

Do you feel like you make it a priority to help your wife orgasm each time you make love?

Do you want the emotional intimacy in marriage as much as your wife does?

How often would you want to make love to your wife?
Many men are scared to talk to their wife about sex, what they want in the bedroom, sexual frequently, and so many sex topics for fear of rejection, what their spouse will think, or afraid of causing an argument. Listen to this episode to find out the results... and ways to overcome these difficult conversations and things that can get in the way of having "ultimate intimacy" in your marriage.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and review of the podcast.

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50. Our Women's Survey About Sexual Intimacy...The Answers Might Surprise You Jan 26, 2022

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We did a survey and asked questions to women about sexual intimacy and got over 600 responses. Here are the questions we asked:

Do you have a hard time talking about sex with your husband?
Do you understand your body and what feels good sexually?
Do you communicate to your husband what you want to need sexually?
Do you feel resentment from not having an orgasm when being intimate?

There are many women that have a hard time talking to their husband about sex and communicating what they need sexually. There are also a lot of women that don't understand their body and what feels good to them sexually. In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss these things and how women can get to know their bodies and find more enjoyment and sexual fulfillment.

This episode also discusses

How women can come to enjoy sex more fully by getting to know their body, and what feels good sexually.
Talking to your husband about sex and what you need and desire.
Getting to know your body through foreplay.
Trying different positions, motions, techniques and tools to help find out what feels best sexually.

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