Stay ConnectedTIRED OF THE LIES AND THE SPIN perpetuated in the culture about men and women, sex and love, marriage and motherhood? If so, get ready to hear hard-hitting truths that will make you cry out “Yes! Finally someone tells it like it is!”
In her signature no-nonsense style, author and relationship coach Suzanne Venker offers support, motivation, and countercultural guidance on how to prioritize love and family and build strong relationships at home.
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A new Gallup poll shows that America’s trust in media has dipped to second lowest on record. This is such a massive divide in our country that I don’t personally think is going to get better. People are so far apart in terms of their worldviews that there’s just no common ground anymore,
I wish there was better news about the state of love and marriage, but there’s no question that marriage is on its way out as being the norm in America, which means countless relationships will continue to struggle as we move more and more away from a family first mentality, toward a more individualistic society.
So that’s the bad news. The good news is that just bc other people are going to struggle in finding the love and security they seek doesn’t mean you have to as well. Here are ten of the most pressing reasons modern love is such a mess—and what you can do about it:
#1: Your marriage mindset: Why your mindset is significant as to whether your relationship will stand the test of time.
#2: Prioritizing money and career over love: People have been encouraged to pursue the wrong thing! What are the effects on dating, marriage and family?
#3: The undeniable influence of feminism in our culture: Women have been taught to fight biology at every cost.
#4: Believing you can have it all at once You have to accept each stage of life for what it is and you cannot have everything you want (high-powered career, family, marriage) all at once.
#5: Not living near family: because we are a transient society, women don’t typically have family around when they have children and therefore, no help in raising them.
#6: The decline in religion: People who attend church regularly marry at much higher rates.
#7: How young people in particular think about money: Young people come to the table with a “his” and “hers” mentality. This is not marriage.
#8: The proliferation of social media: You are inundated with temptations and comparisons all day long as a social media user.
#9: Women's ridiculously high expectations: Womens’ high expectations are impeding their ability to find and sustain love.
#10: Our anti-male, anti-marriage culture
Merry Christmas, Everyone! Here are a couple of updates related to emails from readers/listeners, long-term coaching and more!
"King David" is a young man with a big dream: to burn down the $97 billion worldwide porn industry, one man at a time.
King David is the world’s only Quit Porn Strategist. His history with porn dates to his teenage years and before; and though he's out of his teens now, every year more young men are still discovering the world of porn. David wants to help them find the exit. His website is https://enroll.quitpornstrategies.com/.
IN THIS EPISODE:
3:25 David's story
19:30 Porn is a drug
21:00 Porn increases dopamine and is a super-stimulus, which is why it's so appealing
25:25 You don't watch porn because you're horny; you watch it because you're hurting
25:40 There's a difference between wanting to have sex and wanting to watch porn
28:20 Asking yourself why and getting to the root of it is crucial to get rid of any addiction
30:00 You have to actually VOCALIZE to yourself about why you want to watch porn
35:00 Young men growing up w/ porn do not realize that that's not what sex with a woman is truly like
35:40 How porn changes your view of sex and women
38:30 Women feel like they're being objectified when their man uses porn
39:40 How can a husband determine if he’s done w/ porn for good? And how will a woman know when he really is done watching porn?
42:00 Men and women need to understand what each other needs sexually
44:50 If you're married and you have to think about porn when you have sex, you have a problem!
46:10 It is NOT TRUE that porn is good for you and your relationship
47:00 38% of millennial women (under 40) have experienced choking, gagging, or spitting during consensual intercourse
49:00 With porn you always need more “exciting” and “more extreme”
50:20 There's no communication in porn
51:50 One-third of all porn viewers are women
52:30 Women need to know that men don’t turn to porn because YOU as a woman lack something
56:40 Couples need to communicate about sex
59:00 David's 31-day Quit Porn Mastery Program
Suzanne talks to women who want to stay home with their babies and who have to convince their husbands that it's the right thing to do.
Suzanne makes an announcement about the new schedule for The Suzanne Venker Show. Make sure you subscribe to the YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SuzanneVenkerAuthor
Question #1 - Suzanne reads an email from Mark who describes how women are mistaken to think having a diploma is enticing to men on its own and how that's not the issue with women having trouble finding high-status men.
Question #2 - Suzanne answers questions from a young woman who is in a serious relationship, and they are looking to move in together. Both come from broken homes.
- How do I get him to propose without nagging him?
- My boyfriend’s family has a history with alcoholism. Am I right to worry about this and how it could affect our marriage in the future?
- How do I bring up the fact I want to be a stay-at-home mom?
When was the last time you heard something positive in the media about men? It could be in the news, or in a commercial, or in a television program, or in a film. Yeah, that’s what I thought. And when was the last time you read a magazine article or a novel in which a man was not at the root of a woman’s problem? I’m guessing I’m hearing crickets right about now.
Today I’m talking to CEO and entrepreneur Anthony Dream Johnson, aka President of the Manosphere.
IN THIS EPISODE:
4:20 Feminism is the religion of modern women
7:00 What is the mission of “Make Women Great Again”?
9:00 What IS the Manosphere?
10:00 MRA’s + MGTOW + Pick up artists + Red Pill
15:00 Suzanne and Anthony find common ground by talking about the issues from a secular point of view
23:40 The general public need to start speaking up
25:40 Feminism has weakened both sexes and has destroyed the relationship between the sexes
28:50 Most women do not realize they're living according the feminist values
29:00 Universities, courts, governments, etc. are ruled by feminism
31:05 What's a good comeback when people say feminism is about “equal rights”?
36:50 Women are typically around 30 when they’re ready to hear “the truth”
44:50 What is 21 Studios? What is the 21 Convention? What is 21 University?
52:50 Who or what is the ideal man?
1:00:00 What happened with Good Morning Britain and Piers Morgan?
1:09:10 How did Anthony get the middle name of “DREAM”?
1:11:55 Infighting among men in the Manosphere: How to weed out the frauds
Hello Dear Listeners, We are taking a short break for Thanksgiving. We will be back with a new episode this Sunday, November 28th. This upcoming episode is a long-form interview with Anthony Dream Johnson, President of the Manosphere. Make sure you tune in.
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Something is happening in the world of men: a global awakening, a time of rediscovery, a rebirth. Men around the world are drawing on the best of masculinity from all of time to redefine what it means to be a man—on their terms. Stanford grad Will Spencer is on a mission to help men learn what it means to be a man and to grab their masculinity with gusto
"For thousands of years, men’s mutual improvement happened around a campfire. Tribal chiefs instructed the young men, who tested each other to build prestige and skill." Our society lost this long ago, says Will, and he's on a mission to bring it back.
IN THIS EPISODE:
2:05 What is the “Renaissance of Men”? and the history of the Manosphere?
12:50 Women’s liberation had a lot of cascading effects we don’t realize
18:30 What does it mean to be a man?
19:15 Why did Will start The Renaissance of Men?
20:10 Our beliefs about ourselves shape the course of our lives
21:40 What is masculinity?
25:30 Victim ideology hurts no one more than the person who holds that mentality
26:30 People who remain in a victim mindset remain weak
27:10 Men are isolated, and male only spaces are few
29:00 Women have shaming power over men
30:50 Men will hide who they are to keep peace in the home
33:00 Women do not realize how much they are emasculating their husbands
40:40 What should men’s relationship standards be?
42:00 Will discusses his own previous long-term relationship
45:35 It's okay to NOT want to marry a career woman
48:15 You have to marry someone who has the same priorities
50:00 The culture is blatantly lying to men and women for political purposes
51:40 Why is physical fitness important for a man?
56:15 If men want to lead in their relationships they have to lead themselves
1:00:20 Men need to protect women from other women
1:06:00 The great reconciliation between men and women happens through Truth
1:08:45 Will and Suzanne talk about poetry
1:13:40 Iron John: Why was this book the beginning of The Renaissance of Men?
Suzanne discusses the uncomfortable reality of a giant earnings gap in which the woman is the higher earner by highlighting an article in The New York Times entitled, "How I Fell for an 'I'm the Man Man."
IN THIS EPISODE:
2:35 Suzanne reads from an article in the NY Times entitled “How I Fell For an ‘I’m the Man' Man”
4:35 The relationship dynamics described in the article are commonplace today
5:30 A seismic shift has happened in the dating world regarding this sexual dynamic
6:10 This dynamic makes most women miserable
8:25 Men have become emasculated
10:20 Once kids come along, things change
11:00 Women have the ability to get pregnant and give life, which makes her role in society immeasurable
12:20 When a man does not provide, he will not be happy
13:15 By saying women and men are the same, we set them up to fail by ignoring biological reality
16:40 Move with the biological tide and you will most likely succeed
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