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Use Your Sh*t: Turning Pain into Power Oct 21, 2025

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A sunrise canoe in Hawaii cracked something open for us. A guide looked a boat full of strangers in the eye and said, “Use your shit,” and it landed like a bell. From that moment, we trace how pretending to be fine starves our growth, why shame hoards our evolution, and how vulnerability becomes the bridge from isolation to intimacy. We name the quiet performances we all run to protect what hurts and offer a clear framework to shift choices in real time: fear, love, or habit.
Together we unpack the difference between authenticity and truth in emotions, and why fear can feel real in the body even when the story is false. We talk about the “personality of pretending,” imposter feelings, and the subtle ways we hide in everyday moments—at the store, at dinner, in quick greetings—because keeping an image intact seems safer than being seen. Instead of burying discomfort, we invite you to use it as fertilizer. Small, simple practices—breath, a brief pause, a line in a journal, a mantra like “maybe, maybe not”—become pattern interrupts that rebuild capacity and help you respond, not react.
We also explore the convergence that makes change stick: message, messenger, and timing. You can’t force receptivity, but you can prepare the soil. Self-compassion tools like a hand on the heart and “I’m here” reconnect the inner child you once abandoned. Working the low-hanging fruit—traffic, a tense email, a changed plan—trains your nervous system for bigger moments. The payoff is tangible: cleaner energy, deeper bonds, and choices aligned with love over habit. If you’re ready to own your impact and grow something honest from the mud, press play and join us. If this conversation resonated, subscribe, share it with a friend who needs it, and leave a review so others can find the show.

We explore how pretending to be fine keeps us stuck and how vulnerability turns pain into growth. A sunrise canoe in Hawaii sparks a practical framework—fear, love, or habit—to help us own our impact and use our “fertilizer” wisely.
• releasing the personality of pretending
• shame, secrecy, and using pain as fertilizer
• choosing between fear, love, or habit
• authenticity versus truth in emotions
• inner child care with breath and self-compassion
• simple practices that build capacity
• small wins as pattern interrupts
• message, messenger, and timing for change
• owning your impact in relationships and habits

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Secrets Our Pets Teach Us About Love, Life, and Healing Oct 14, 2025

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What if the bravest kind of love is the one that knows how it ends—and chooses it anyway? We open our hearts to the animals who share our homes and our inner lives, asking why we invite a goodbye into the story and discovering how pets return the favor by teaching presence, trust, and unconditional love. From Peaches, the seventeen‑year‑old “Buddha princess,” to a campus‑famous therapy dog named Ralph, this conversation moves through aging, anticipatory grief, and the quiet rituals that turn care into connection.
We share the small pivots that matter as pets grow older—less ocean play, more soft blankets and ujayi breath hummed against a ribcage so they can feel the calm they can no longer hear. We talk about meditating with animals, ignoring dogma in favor of dogs, and how energy entrainment makes the whole room softer. There’s honest talk about responsibility and timing, especially for anyone who’s not ready yet, and a clear call for ethical guardianship: adopt when you can truly commit, train with kindness, and let animals be the animals they are. Cats hunt. Dogs sniff. Both sense our moods better than most people.
Along the way, we explore how animals reopen the door to trust after loss, how a cat’s routine can anchor someone’s healing, and why our pets may be the little bodhisattvas of our busy modern lives. If you’ve ever checked for a sleeping pet’s breath in the night, whispered a secret into fur, or felt your nervous system settle when a warm weight leaned against your leg, you’ll find yourself here.
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We explore why we choose pets knowing we will say goodbye, and how impermanence, presence and unconditional love shape the way we care, grieve and grow. From meditating with animals to elder care for Peaches, we share stories that turn responsibility into reverence.
• choosing pets despite impermanence
• daily care shifting to palliative comfort
• a non‑owner’s perspective on bandwidth and regret
• trust, memory and living in the present
• cats as nature’s lesson in instinct
• animals as healers in times of loss
• meditating with pets and energy entrainment
• stewardship, adoption and ethical guardianship
• therapy dog co‑regulation and anxiety relief
• Peaches teaches: presence over projection
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Are you ready to change? This is your moment Oct 07, 2025

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Have you ever caught yourself thinking that people never really change? Or perhaps you're convinced that transformation is not only possible but inevitable? This fascinating tension between fixed and growth mindsets forms the heart of our exploration into personal transformation.
davidji and Elizabeth dive deep into what makes genuine change possible, revealing that the first step isn't focusing on others but turning inward. "Put down the magnifying glass and hold up the mirror," Elizabeth suggests, offering a powerful metaphor for where true transformation begins.
We unpack the cycle of change - from believing it's possible, to willingness, to taking courageous action, to celebrating small wins - and how this process creates lasting transformation rather than temporary change. But perhaps most illuminating is our discussion of how many of us live trapped in reward/punishment cycles, postponing joy while waiting for weekends, vacations, or some future moment to truly live.
Drawing from Eckhart Tolle's wisdom, we explore how to transmute ordinary waiting periods into moments of presence and enjoyment. Those five years we collectively spend waiting in lines throughout our lives? They can become portals to mindfulness rather than sources of frustration. By anchoring in our bodies, connecting with nature, or simply noticing what's around us, we reclaim these "wasted" moments and infuse them with meaning.
For anyone feeling stuck in patterns that no longer serve them, we offer practical techniques, including a beautiful meditation practice: "Hello, eternal loving presence." This simple phrase can interrupt negative patterns and invite connection with your deeper self, especially during difficult times.
Whether you're crawling through metaphorical glass or quicksand in your own journey, we remind you that honoring where you are without judgment is the first step toward freedom. And while transformation doesn't guarantee happiness, it does lead to something perhaps more valuable—peace and a profound connection to something larger than ourselves.
Join us in this episode to discover how the journey itself, not some distant destination, is where life's richness truly resides.

davidji and Elizabeth explore whether people can truly change, examining how our focus on changing others distracts us from the internal transformation that matters most.
• People constantly change on a cellular level, but psychological transformation requires specific conditions
• True change requires belief in the possibility of change, willingness to change, and readiness to do difficult things
• Breaking free from reward/punishment cycles helps us experience joy in the present moment
• Waiting periods (like lines or traffic) can become opportunities for mindfulness rather than frustration
• The Buddhist concept of kleshas (obstacles) explains what prevents us from experiencing our true nature
• Transformation doesn't guarantee happiness but leads to peace and connection with something larger
• Simple practices like saying "Hello, eternal loving presence" can interrupt negative patterns
• Using the body as an anchor helps bridge from mental distraction into present moment awareness
If you're struggling with being stuck in patterns that no longer serve you, honor where you are wit

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Regulating Your Nervous System for Inner Peace Sep 30, 2025

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Feeling triggered, stressed, or carrying that proverbial chip on your shoulder? You might be experiencing what meditation teacher davidji and psychotherapist Elizabeth Winkler reveal as "emotional fight-flight" – a modern evolution of our ancient survival mechanism that's wreaking havoc on our health and happiness.
This eye-opening exploration takes you deep into the physiology of stress, explaining how everyday emotional reactions trigger the same hormonal cascade as life-threatening dangers. When someone comments on your appearance or questions your choices, your body responds as if facing a predator – perspiring, breathing shallowly, increasing heart rate, and even preparing your blood to clot before you're injured. The consequences of repeatedly activating this response are far more serious than momentary discomfort.
davidji and Elizabeth share their most powerful "stress hacks" for instantly regulating your nervous system, including the "Fill Her Up, Top It Off" breathing technique that signals safety to your heart's natural pacemaker, and the "16-Second Reset" that breaks thought patterns and brings you back to the present moment. For those with trauma histories, they offer grounding practices that create safety before meditation, emphasizing the importance of options and awareness of your surroundings.
Beyond formal techniques, discover how simple lifestyle adjustments – spending time in nature, taking walks, incorporating even five minutes of yoga daily, and maintaining a consistent meditation practice – can create what David calls "a parachuted life." Experience the immediate relief of Nadi Shodhana (alternate nostril breathing) and the powerful energy release of the "Ah" mantra as demonstrated live in the episode.
Ready to transform those reactive moments into opportunities for presence and connection? These accessible practices don't just protect your health – they create the foundation for experiencing life with greater joy, clarity, and authenticity. Try them today and notice how quickly your perspective shifts from threat to possibility.

Our nervous system's fight-flight response evolved from physical dangers to emotional triggers, causing the same harmful physiological changes and potentially leading to health issues when repeatedly activated.
• Evolution of fight-flight response from physical to emotional triggers
• Physiological changes during fight-flight: perspiration, shallow breathing, increased heart rate
• Suppression of non-essential functions like immune system and digestion during stress
• Emotional triggers can cause the same hormonal cascade as physical threats
• "Fill Her Up, Top It Off" breathing technique to instantly reset your nervous system
• The "16-Second Reset" technique to break thought patterns and return to present moment
• Trauma-informed meditation approaches that create safety through grounding
• Importance of giving options when guiding others through mindfulness practices
• Simple lifestyle changes: nature time, walking, yoga, and consistent meditation
• Nadi Shodhana (alternate nostril breathing) for balance and calm
• The "Ah" mantra for releasing stagnant energy and regulating the nervous system
Try these techniques whenever you feel triggered or notice that "chip on your shoulder" appearing. Even a few

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Law of Attraction: Ready to Use It? Try This Now Sep 23, 2025

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The Law of Attraction isn't just New Age philosophy—it's a fundamental principle operating in our lives whether we recognize it or not. davidji and Elizabeth Winkler dive deep into how this universal law actually works, exploring the fascinating relationship between attraction and distraction.
"Everything's frequency," Elizabeth explains, introducing her powerful "seven, seven, and seven" concept—the seven people you spend time with most, seven places you frequent, and seven behaviors you engage in regularly all contribute to your energetic resonance. This frequency directly influences what you attract into your life.
In a breakthrough moment, they discover that attraction and distraction are opposite sides of the same coin. When we're distracted, we create static in our energy field like splashing in a still lake. True manifestation happens from stillness—from being present enough to direct our attention deliberately.
davidji shares a compelling story about a friend who, after dating three married men, wrote down that she wanted "an unmarried man." She got exactly that—a man who wouldn't commit exclusively to her. Her intention came from fear rather than clarity about what she truly desired, demonstrating how our emotional state profoundly affects what we manifest.
The hosts explore five meditation approaches that strengthen your "attention muscle": mindfulness, mantra meditation, body scanning, guided visualization, and embodied practices like metta. Finding the right practice allows you to move from distraction to conscious creation.
Ready to transform how you manifest? Try Elizabeth's "seven, seven, and seven" exercise to evaluate your current resonance, then use meditation to clarify what your heart truly longs for. As David reminds us, "If the universe is inviting you to take a step, take that step and see what's next."

davidji and Elizabeth Winkler explore the Law of Attraction as a real, energetic phenomenon that manifests through stillness, presence, and intentional focus.
• Everything is frequency, and our energy is influenced by the seven people we spend time with most, seven places we frequent, and seven behaviors we engage in regularly
• Attraction and distraction are opposite sides of the same coin—distraction creates static in your energy field while stillness allows for conscious creation
• Meditation strengthens your attention muscle, allowing you to direct your awareness deliberately rather than being pulled into worry or fear
• Five meditation approaches that might work for different people: mindfulness, mantra meditation, body scanning, guided visualization, and embodied practices
• Manifestation must come from trust and love rather than fear and desperation—what you attract depends on your emotional state
• Being "drawn" to something feels different than being "driven"—it's a magnetic pull that emerges from listening rather than forcing
• Ask sacred questions like "Who am I?" or "What does my heart truly long for?" to spark deeper connection with your authentic desires
Check out our episode on longing and the car seat meditation from Season 1 to deepen your practice of conscious creation.

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What is your deepest longing? Manifest it here!!! Sep 16, 2025

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The journey back to wholeness begins with understanding our deepest longings. davidji opens this profound conversation by proposing longing as our earliest post-womb memory – that immediate yearning to return to a place where everything was perfect, where our mother's heartbeat was our constant companion.
Elizabeth Winkler shares how longing manifested in her life after losing her mother, revealing a universal truth: "The longing out is actually a call to go within." This simple yet revolutionary perspective transforms how we understand our cravings for connection, wholeness, and unconditional love.
As the conversation unfolds, we discover that what appears to be longing for future experiences often masks our desire to recreate that primal state of being completely held and cared for. Whether it's craving a specific food that reminds us of childhood or fantasizing about an idealized family life, these yearnings point to something deeper – our search for the "four A's": attention, affection, appreciation, and acceptance.
The hosts introduce a powerful reframe through the acronym WOMB: Wisdom Of My Becoming. Rather than seeing the womb as merely a physical space we've left behind, they suggest we can access this "womb wisdom" within ourselves through present-moment awareness. This shift allows us to transform longing from a painful experience of lack into a doorway to self-discovery.
Elizabeth shares insights from her therapy practice, illustrating how holding onto fantasies of how things "should be" prevents us from embracing the beautiful messiness of what actually is. Meanwhile, David offers practical wisdom about communication patterns that poison our relationships when we make assumptions rather than asking clarifying questions.
The conversation culminates in a powerful reminder from the Bhagavad Gita: "Yogasta kuru Karmani" – "establish yourself in the present moment and then perform action". For when we're truly present, there is no fear and no longing – only the infinite possibility of becoming.
Next time you feel that familiar ache of yearning, pause and ask: What wisdom is this longing trying to reveal? What am I being called to embody or create? The answer might just lead you home to yourself.

Longing is embedded in humankind's DNA, stemming from our first experience of separation when we leave the womb and instantly begin craving that safe, connected state where all our needs were met.
• Longing often manifests as looking outward but is actually a call to go within
• Our first memories after birth may be of longing to return to the safety of the womb
• Whether longing for past or future, we're seeking the memory of our wholeness
• WOMB: Wisdom Of My Becoming - a way to understand the present moment's power
• Fantasies of how things "should be" prevent us from embracing what actually is
• Asking questions rather than making assumptions helps navigate feeling disrespected
• We poison ourselves with assumptions about others' intentions toward us
• Longing isn't a problem but rather shows us what we truly value and desire
• The present moment is where we access unconditional love and conscious choice
Remember that longing is natural - there's no shame in it. Instead of wishing for the past or future, recognize these feelings as signpos

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The Alchemy of Pain: From Heartbreak to Healing Sep 09, 2025

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What happens when we face our deepest betrayals—whether they're inflicted by others or emerge from our own self-betrayal? This raw, heartfelt conversation between Elizabeth and davidji explores the transformative journey from betrayal to healing, offering profound insights on reclaiming our power through pain.
Elizabeth reveals how self-betrayal lies at the core of our suffering: "The ego really is just a self-betrayal. When we go into our ego, we are not being true to ourself." From perfectionism that masks deep self-loathing to ignoring our inner knowing, we betray ourselves in countless ways before we ever betray others. This perspective doesn't absolve responsibility for hurting others, but reveals the deeper healing needed.
The hosts delve into why we avoid difficult truths, fearing that honesty will "change the fabric of the universe forever." This fear keeps us trapped in patterns of deception that only grow more painful with time. As Elizabeth eloquently summarizes with her powerful acronym: "Secrets hold all my energy/evolution/empathy"—S.H.A.M.E.
Perhaps most moving is their exploration of lost innocence through Billy Collins' poem "On Turning Ten," capturing the universal moment when we realize "there was nothing under my skin but light" gives way to "I skin my knees. I bleed." This loss happens repeatedly throughout life with each betrayal or disappointment we face.
Yet within this pain lies profound opportunity. "The wound is the way," Elizabeth reminds us. By walking through our suffering rather than around it, we can transform our deepest pains into compassion, power, and purpose. What once felt agonizing becomes, with a different understanding, the very catalyst for our healing and elevation.
Ready to transform your own wounds into wisdom? Listen now and discover how the alchemy of pain can become your greatest teacher.

We explore how betrayal—especially self-betrayal—can become the foundation for our greatest healing and personal growth when we're brave enough to face it directly.
• Self-betrayal lies at the root of many relationship problems and forms of suffering
• Perfectionism often masks deep self-loathing and becomes a form of self-betrayal
• People-pleasing is self-betrayal because we're not being authentic with ourselves or others
• We avoid difficult conversations because we fear shattering illusions or changing relationships forever
• "Secrets hold all my energy/evolution/empathy" – an acronym for SHAME that keeps us stuck
• The fear of being changed by truth-telling prevents us from healing and growing
• Loss of innocence happens repeatedly throughout life with each betrayal or disappointment
• Billy Collins' poem "On Turning Ten" captures the universal experience of lost innocence
• We connect not through perfection but through our shared brokenness and vulnerability
• "The wound is the way" – only by walking through pain can we reclaim our power and true self
• Life's most painful moments can become quantum leap opportunities for transformation

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Are You Longing for a Soulmate? Find Your True Match Sep 02, 2025

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The quest for a soulmate sits at the heart of many spiritual journeys, but what are we really seeking when we say we want someone who "gets us" completely? davidji and Elizabeth Winkler dive deep into the soulmate concept, challenging our preconceptions and expanding our understanding of what true soul connections actually look like.
We unpack the different types of soul connections that might enter our lives: the electrifying Awakener who stirs transformation, the Mirror who reflects our thoughts and feelings, and the Anchor who provides that sense of homecoming. Yet beneath these archetypes lies a profound truth—soulmates don't complete us; they awaken us to aspects of ourselves we haven't fully recognized or expressed.
Perhaps most revolutionary is the idea that our rigid criteria and checklists might be blocking us from recognizing beautiful connections that don't fit our preconceived notions. When we fixate on finding that one perfect spiritual partner who meets every requirement, we develop tunnel vision that blinds us to magnificent people sitting right next to us.
The conversation takes a powerful turn when we explore vulnerability as the foundation for genuine connection. Through the touching story of two grocery store workers—where one had the courage to say, "That hurt my feelings. Can you say it in another way?"—we witness how true soul connections form in moments of authentic communication and repair. These connections can happen anywhere, not just in romantic relationships.
At its heart, the journey toward finding your soulmate is actually a journey toward yourself. We attract what we believe we're worthy of, and the deeper you fall in love with yourself, the more you attract aligned people into your life. By releasing the fantasy and trusting divine timing, you create space for connections that truly serve your highest good—even when they come in unexpected packages.
Ready to transform your perspective on soulmates and open yourself to deeper connections? Listen now, and discover that the most special person in your life might have been with you all along.

We explore the concept of soulmates and why our search for the perfect spiritual partner might actually be limiting our ability to recognize profound connections right in front of us.
• Different types of soulmates: the Awakener who electrifies our soul, the Mirror who reflects ourselves back to us, and the Anchor who feels like home
• The importance of vulnerability in building deep connections rather than focusing on a checklist of qualities
• Why seeking someone to "complete you" limits your potential for genuine connection
• How temporary relationships can still be sacred and meaningful if we extract their purpose
• The power of making repairs in relationships, regardless of how much time has passed
• Journaling exercises to uncover what qualities you truly seek in a partner and where you've experienced those qualities within yourself
• We attract what we believe we're worthy of—when we feel whole, we attract people who resonate with that energy
• Soul connections can happen anywhere, not just in romantic relationships
To attract aligned love, embody the love you desire to receive, heal spaces where you feel unworthy, release the fantasy of the perfect soulmate, and trust divine timi

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What is Spiritual Ego? Find out Before it’s Too Late! Aug 26, 2025

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The spiritual journey is fraught with an unexpected obstacle—the spiritual ego. That sneaky voice convincing us we're "enlightened" while separating us from our humanity. davidji and Elizabeth dive into this profound paradox, revealing how spiritual language and concepts can become a sophisticated mask rather than a path to authentic awakening.
What happens when we exchange our old ego patterns for spiritual jargon that isn't truly embodied? We explore the dangerous territory of spiritual bypassing—using teachings to avoid pain rather than transform it. Through vivid metaphors, we distinguish between intellectual understanding and the messy, beautiful work of integration through the heart.
The most powerful revelation? Universal connection happens through our brokenness, not our perfection. "People don't fall in love with perfection," Elizabeth notes, "they fall in love with imperfection because they can relate to it." This insight turns spiritual achievement on its head, suggesting that our humanity isn't something to transcend but the very doorway to our awakening.
Drawing from Buddhist wisdom, the Bhagavad Gita, and modern teachers like Eckhart Tolle, we examine the bodhisattva path and the practice of non-duality—holding both shadow and light simultaneously. Our invitation is simple yet profound: meet each moment with acceptance, embracing the paradox of being both divine and flawed. The spiritual journey isn't about reaching a destination but continually unfolding in the precious present moment.
Subscribe to Shadow and Light for more conversations that honor both your humanity and your divinity. How might you recognize spiritual ego in your own practice? We'd love to hear your thoughts.

davidji and Elizabeth explore the concept of spiritual ego and how it can blindside even the most dedicated practitioners by replacing old egoic tendencies with spiritual language that isn't truly embodied.
• Spiritual ego arises when we recycle spiritual concepts intellectually without integrating them through lived experience
• True spirituality requires balancing awareness with the full rainbow of human experience, including emotions and fears
• Embodiment is crucial for authentic spiritual growth rather than bypassing difficult feelings
• Connection to universal truth happens through our brokenness and vulnerability, not through claims of perfection
• Non-duality exists beyond the mind's tendency to categorize everything as good/bad, worthy/unworthy
• The present moment is where transformation happens, not in concepts about the past or future
• Meeting each moment with acceptance helps unravel the knots of ego that create limiting identities
Visit our previous seasons for more insights that might resonate differently now that you're at a new point in your journey.

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Breaking free from S.H.A.M.E.: Secrets, Healing, and Self Evolution Aug 19, 2025

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What secrets are you keeping that are holding back your evolution? In this illuminating conversation, Elizabeth introduces a powerful new framework for understanding shame through her acronym SHAME: Secrets Hold All My Evolution. With remarkable vulnerability, she shares her personal journey of avoiding medical care due to fears connected to her mother's death at a similar age—and how the simple act of admitting this "embarrassing" truth to her partner created immediate liberation.
davidji responds with his own story of survivor's guilt after having worked in the World Trade Center before 9/11, illustrating how finding deeper meaning helped transform his shame into purpose. Together, they explore how shame grows exponentially in silence, creating an echo chamber where our secrets become increasingly loud and constricting. The moment we give voice to these hidden parts—whether to a trusted friend, therapist, journal, or even a pet—we begin to dissolve shame's power over us.
The conversation delves into various manifestations of shame—body, sexual, cultural, identity, familial, and achievement-related—all stemming from the core belief "I am not enough." Elizabeth offers the profound insight that what disgusts us in others often points directly to our own shadow material, while David shares his practice of transforming his inner critic into an "inner guardian," giving that critical voice a new, supportive role.
What makes this discussion so powerful is its practical approach to healing. From journaling with the prompt "I'm embarrassed to admit..." to transforming your relationship with your inner critic, these tools honor the delicate nature of shame work. The hosts remind us that we always have a choice—to remain imprisoned in shame or to step into freedom through conscious awareness and self-compassion.
Ready to reclaim the energy your secrets have been holding hostage? Listen now, and discover how speaking your truth can become the doorway to your most profound healing and evolution.

Shame keeps us trapped in silence, but when we find the courage to voice our embarrassing truths, we discover freedom, connection, and evolution. Elizabeth introduces her powerful acronym SHAME (Secrets Hold All My Evolution) while sharing a personal story about avoiding medical care due to fears connected with her mother's death.
• Elizabeth shares how admitting her "embarrassing" avoidance of doctors transformed her relationship with fear
• davidji discusses his experience with survivor's guilt after having worked in the World Trade Center before 9/11
• Shame grows louder in silence, creating an echo chamber of self-judgment that constricts our energy
• Different types of shame include body, sexual, cultural, identity, and achievement-related shame
• What disgusts us in others often points directly to our own shadow material
• Journaling with "I'm embarrassed to admit..." can be a first step toward healing
• Transforming your inner critic into an "inner guardian" changes your relationship with shame
• Speaking our truth, even if only to ourselves initially, releases trapped energy
• We always have a choice to move from judgment to compassion
With each breath, I am reborn. Today I begin again. I am not my shame, I am my healing.

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What’s your Soul contract? Find out why people come into your life? Aug 12, 2025

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Soul contracts shape our journey in mysterious yet purposeful ways. Whether you believe in reincarnation or not, you've likely encountered people who entered your life for clear reasons—to teach, challenge, heal, or transform you. These connections aren't random coincidences but carefully orchestrated encounters designed to catalyze growth.
davidji and Elizabeth share a profound exploration of these sacred agreements we make before birth. "There are no random connections," davidji explains. "We're all energetically moving together and moving apart and then bumping into each other." From heart-shattering losses to beautiful synchronicities, our soul's curriculum unfolds through relationships.
Elizabeth vulnerably shares how losing her mother at age 19 initially felt like punishment, until years later during meditation when she recognized it as a profound soul agreement. "Had she not died, I would not be living the life I'm living now," she reflects. This shift in perspective transformed her grief into purpose, enabling her to work with dying patients and bring healing to others facing similar pain.
We explore how people enter our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. Some arrive to meet a specific need or teach a particular lesson. Others accompany us through a growth period. And those rare souls who walk alongside us for our entire journey. Understanding which category your relationships fall into helps you honor their purpose without clinging to connections that have fulfilled their contract.
The transformative question becomes: "What did my soul learn from this?" Rather than viewing difficult circumstances as punishment, recognize them as critical components of your evolution. Every person who triggers you holds up a mirror reflecting aspects of yourself that need healing or integration.
Take a moment now to consider one person who has changed you, positively or painfully. What did your soul learn from them? What sacred agreement might be at play? Remember that you always have a choice in how you respond to life's circumstances. There's a teacher in every tension and a gem inside every conflict—waiting for you to discover its wisdom.

• Soul contracts are spiritual blueprints encoded with intentions and growth opportunities
• People come into our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime
• Pain isn't punishment but preparation for soul growth and awakening
• When a relationship ends, it may indicate a completed soul contract
• Free will coexists with soul agreements—they're opportunities, not obligations
• Abandonment and loss can become powerful teachers when we shift perspective
• The WEAK mantra (Welcome Energy, Allow Kindness) helps transform resistance
• Every person who triggers us holds up a mirror reflecting what needs healing
• Working with "low-hanging fruit" irritations builds capacity for handling bigger challenges
• There's a teacher in every tension and a gem inside every conflict
Remember that you always have a choice in how you respond to life's circumstances. Recognize the sacred role people play in your awakening and look for the teacher in every tension.

We transform the world by transforming ourselves.
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BONUS EPISODE : What do the stars say about your life right now? FIND YOUR COSMIC BLUEPRINT!!! Mar 20, 2025

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Discovering the cosmic blueprint that shapes our lives can be transformative once we understand how to read the signals. In this riveting exploration of astrology, Elizabeth Winkler shares her deep knowledge of celestial influences and how they manifest in our daily experiences.
We begin by examining Saturn Returns—those powerful transitional periods occurring roughly every 27-30 years that strip away our pretenses and force us to confront our authentic selves. Elizabeth vividly describes her own first Saturn Return as feeling "like a chicken being plucked feather by feather," a profound dismantling of identity that ultimately leads to rebirth.
The episode breaks down the core elements of astrological understanding—from the four elements (fire, earth, air, water) to the three modalities (cardinal, fixed, mutable) that create the twelve zodiac signs. You'll learn why knowing your sun, moon, and rising signs offers a more complete picture of your astrological makeup than just your birth sign alone.
Particularly significant is our discussion of Pluto's recent shift into Aquarius after 20 years in Capricorn—a transition with far-reaching implications for technology, human connection, and revolutionary thinking. This powerful planetary movement coincides with the rise of AI, potential advances in space exploration, and a growing awareness of our interconnectedness despite surface divisions.
davidji shares a remarkable personal story about his encounter with a Nadi palm leaf reader in India—an ancient tradition that claims to hold written records of individuals' past, present, and future lives created thousands of years ago. This extraordinary experience raises profound questions about fate, free will, and how we navigate our destined paths.
Whether you're an astrology enthusiast or skeptic, this episode offers practical ways to work with cosmic energies through lunar cycles and planetary awareness. Remember: we are literally made of stardust, spinning through space on this blue planet. Understanding these celestial patterns reminds us of our connection to something far greater than ourselves.
Ready to discover how the stars might be influencing your life's journey? Create your personal birth chart at astro.com and download our houses of astrology handout at elizabethwinkler.com to begin your cosmic exploration.

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The Space Between with Dermot Whelan Mar 11, 2025

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Welcome to our Season 3 Finale, where davidji and Elizabeth Winkler explore the magical fusion of passion, purpose & trust. What happens when a burned-out radio presenter discovers meditation and decides to blend it with comedy? In this captivating season finale, we're joined by the incomparable Dermot Whelan, who takes us on his remarkable journey from sleeping in his car between commitments to becoming Ireland's leading voice in mindful living.
With refreshing vulnerability and his trademark humor, Dermot reveals the moment his body literally closed his throat while reading the news—an early warning sign his conscious mind couldn't yet recognize. "I was always very driven...but at the same time there was that feeling like I had one foot on the accelerator driving with passion towards my goals, and another foot on the brake." This powerful metaphor captures the struggle many of us experience when pursuing our dreams while battling self-limiting beliefs.
The conversation delves into misconceptions about meditation, particularly among men who fear it might make them "soft" or less effective. Dermot flips this notion on its head, sharing how mindfulness actually clears away mental clutter, enhancing performance rather than diminishing it. We explore the unique power of humor as "a beautiful lubricant for easing people into places where maybe they wouldn't have naturally gravitated to"—a gift Dermot brings to his sold-out "Busy and Wrecked" tour across Ireland.
Perhaps most profound is our discussion of identity and transition. After leaving a successful radio career at its peak, Dermot faced the disorienting question: "What do you do?" His advice for navigating such changes isn't about dramatic reinvention but rather "loosening your grip" on who you think you are. "That's enough. That's a place to be for a while where you haven't totally reinvented yourself...You're just letting go enough."
The episode concludes with Dermot sharing his discovery of "Akasha"—space—and how creating moments of presence amidst our distracted world unlocks insights impossible to find while constantly busy. "The more we step into that space and make ourselves OK with uncertainty...the more we can just settle into our little cube of calm."
Want to transform your relationship with busyness and find more meaning? Listen now, and discover how humor and mindfulness can work together to open your heart to what matters most.

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GURU or PETTY TYRANT? Who's Your Most Powerful Teacher? Mar 04, 2025

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Dive into a powerful and enlightening conversation that explores the intricate dance between our shadows and light! Join meditation teacher davidji, and heart healer Elizabeth Winkler as they delve into the essential teachings of personal transformation, revealing how our greatest challenges often serve as our most profound teachers.
In this episode, you’ll learn about the concept of the inner guru, how acknowledging our shadow side can lead to personal healing, and why even our most irritating encounters are gateways to growth. davidji shares stories of his journey through India, highlighting the epiphanies he experienced while discovering that the guru resides within us all. Then he goes deep into the concept of the “petty tyrant,” those people who test our patience and prompt us to look inward for strength and resilience. Elizabeth shares a powerful story of the Samurai & the Monk - to take us even deeper into the understanding of the GURU.
Tune in to uncover practical insights on embracing mindfulness, cultivating compassion in challenging situations, and transforming frustration into opportunity. This engaging discussion between our co-hosts invites you to reflect on your journey of self-discovery and empowers you to see every challenge as a stepping stone to enlightenment.
Join us for a transformative experience that blends ancient wisdom with modern psychology, and learn how the shadows in your life can help you shine brighter. Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and leave a review if you love what you hear!

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What are you being called to do right now? Let's find out!!! Feb 25, 2025

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What if the small, seemingly insignificant moments of your daily life were the keys to unlocking your life's purpose? davidji & Elizabeth Winkler invite you to explore how everyday interactions and unexpected opportunities can align you with a deeper sense of meaning. We delve into the potent combination of ancient wisdom and modern psychology to encourage you to quiet your mind and pay attention to the whispers of your heart or higher power. Elizabeth shares an inspiring anecdote about Martin Luther King Jr., urging us to follow the breadcrumbs of inspiration that guide us to our true calling.
Join us as we navigate the journey of life's phases through davidji's Theory of the Dhri Arc. From the fervor of new beginnings to contemplating the next chapter, we discuss how these transitions are not losses but rather gateways to new adventures. Life is about showing up and trusting the process, and this episode provides guidance on how to embrace change and foster personal growth.
Through stories of personal transformation, we illuminate the power of trusting in life's natural arcs. Change, as challenging as it can be, is an invitation to growth and renewal. Listen in and discover why trusting the unknown and allowing life to unfold can lead to unexpected and exciting opportunities for growth, healing and self-discovery.

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Transform Regrets into Freedom & Healing Today! Feb 18, 2025

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What if the grudges we carry and the regrets we harbor could be transformed into sources of healing and liberation? davidji & Elizabeth Winkler unravel the complex web of emotions tied to regrets and grievances, those heavy burdens that often shape our subconscious and influence our everyday actions. With the help of poignant metaphors, such as canoes across a river, and personal stories, like davidji's touching experience with her dog Peaches, we examine how these lingering emotions can manifest in our lives. We emphasize the significance of timing, readiness, and the therapeutic journey toward forgiveness, encouraging listeners to confront these emotions with courage and introspection.
Imagine navigating life with a greater sense of flexibility and acceptance. Our discussion moves into the realms of adaptability, exploring how expectations and personal preferences mold our reactions to life's challenges. By reflecting on experiences like a restaurant accommodating a unique dietary request, we highlight the power of creativity and understanding in human interactions. Through practical suggestions, such as conducting an emotional inventory and adopting mantras like "let go and flow," we offer tools to help release attachments and embrace life's unpredictability with humor and grace.
We journey into the interplay of light and shadow, exploring how both elements can illuminate our path to personal growth. Drawing on insights from meditation, Buddhism, and personal anecdotes, we reveal how accepting both our inner shadows and light can lead to transformation and newfound beginnings. Love emerges as a guiding force, encouraging us to view challenges not as obstacles but as opportunities for growth. Together, we navigate through adversity, finding hope and freedom in embracing life's full spectrum, ultimately shining brighter than ever. Join us in this compelling exploration of the emotional landscapes that define our lives and discover the profound liberation that awaits when we learn to embrace both the shadow and the light.

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Ready to Let Money Flow To You? Try These Secrets of Abundance Feb 11, 2025

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What if you could always be on the receiving end of money??? Join davidji & Elizabeth Winkler on a journey where we unravel the emotional and cultural threads woven into our financial lives. Inspired by Ken Honda's "Happy Money," we explore how our upbringing and cultural narratives shape our financial mindsets, often binding us to a scarcity mentality. We share personal stories and insights that reveal how viewing money as energy can transform these narratives, creating a flow of abundance that positively impacts our lives.
Experience the surprising magic of affirmations as we recount stories of unexpected financial gifts, from mysterious checks to diamond rings. We navigate the curious interplay between money and energy, where beliefs significantly influence our financial experiences. From humorous takes on the IRS to the buzz and skepticism around cryptocurrency, we untangle how our attitudes shape reality, emphasizing the importance of shifting perspectives to harness positivity and abundance.
Finally, we ponder the deeper meanings of financial empathy and generosity. With insights drawn from Elizabeth's commitment to charitable giving and innovative experiments in social finance, we delve into the power of aligning with one's "North Star" and treating money with kindness. Embrace the philosophy of balance and flow, as illustrated by the concept of "happy money," and discover how these principles can lead to financial freedom.

This episode delves into our relationship with money, exploring the emotional complexities and how our upbringing impacts our financial mindset. The conversation encourages listeners to recognize money as energy and embrace practices that foster abundance, healing, and gratitude in financial transactions.
• Discussing childhood experiences shaping our attitudes toward money
• Money as energy and the importance of healthy transactions
• Exploring the concepts of happy vs. unhappy money
• Personal anecdotes about affirmations related to money
• Examining the power of generosity and receiving abundantly
• The transformative effects of trust and flow in financial matters
• Insights from a community experiment focused on the free circulation of money
• Encouraging mindful spending and gratitude in financial interactions

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Are You Ready to EAT~PRAY~LOVE with us? Let's DO THIS together! Feb 04, 2025

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What if the shadows in our lives are just as important as the light? Elizabeth Winkler and davidji invite you to explore this compelling question in "The Shadow and the Light" episode of our podcast. Through personal tales reminiscent of "Eat, Pray, Love," Elizabeth recounts her transformative journeys to Bali and Tibet, where she encountered spiritual mentors like Ketut Lear and a wise Himalayan monk. These experiences taught her about the profound interconnectedness of all beings, weaving a narrative of growth and awakening that fuels our mission as meditation and healing practitioners.
Unlock the ancient energies of Sanskrit mantras with us, tracing a golden thread of connection that runs through the body, uniting us with the world around us. Elizabeth shares the impact of her travels in Tibet and Bhutan, where their unique nourishing cultural philosophies offer powerful new perspectives on life. We delve into the vibrational power of ancient languages, how these chants have deepened our understanding of ourselves, and how they can awaken a deeper essence within you as well.
Reflect with us on embracing both light and shadow as we share our journey from personal loss to inner peace. Discover how the gratitude from overcoming life's challenges can illuminate a path toward your dreams. Encouraging you to lower barriers and pursue your desires, we explore the duality of love's power—how embracing both the dark and the light can set you free. Join us for a heartfelt exploration of transformation and awaken your true essence with love and light as your guide.

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Diving Deep into The 4 Agreements. Come journey with us! Jan 28, 2025

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Can we truly change our lives by simply altering the way we think and speak? Find out as we navigate the transformative teachings of Don Miguel Ruiz's "The Four Agreements" with Elizabeth Winkler, and davidji. Together, we step back into the fertile spiritual landscape of the 1990s, a time when influential figures like Deepak Chopra and Eckhart Tolle were reshaping our understanding of growth and awareness. We explore how these four powerful agreements can unlock new levels of personal development and fulfillment, echoing ancient principles like the Buddha's Noble Eightfold Path and the often overlooked fifth teaching of domestication.
Early in our life, we craft our persona, our assumptions, and our belief systems which ultimately & silently shape our relationships and worldview. Through an insightful story of a client's struggle with co-parenting, we unravel how these hidden narratives can interfere with genuine connections. By embracing openness and curiosity, as Don Miguel suggests, we can learn to let go of these projections and foster more authentic interactions. This episode invites you to question your own stories and move towards a mindset that celebrates curiosity, transforming how you build and maintain relationships.
The words we choose can create or destroy, and we delve into the importance of impeccable speech. We uncover the universal wisdom passed down through cultures, urging us to speak only what is true, kind, and necessary. Equally, we confront the shadows of gossip and personal ownership of thoughts and feelings, offering practical practices like davidji's signature LET GO meditation to relieve emotional burdens. As the conversation unfolds, we explore the duality of light and shadow, encouraging you to embrace both as pathways to liberation and love. This episode is a heartfelt guide through ancient wisdom and modern psychology, designed to awaken your true essence and facilitate profound healing.
The conversation encourages listeners to embrace these teachings to foster emotional freedom, authenticity, and understanding in daily interactions. We dive deep into:
• Exploring the historical context of the Four Agreements
• Understanding the importance of being impeccable with your word
• Learning to not take anything personally
• Insights on avoiding assumptions for clearer communication
• The significance of always doing your best
• Discussing the secret fifth agreement: domestication
• Encouragement to practice the agreements in everyday life
• Reflecting on personal growth and self-acceptance

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UNLOCK Your Secret Love Language & TRANSFORM Your Life Today! Jan 21, 2025

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What if understanding the way we express love could transform your relationships? Join us, davidji and Elizabeth Winkler, as we journey into the realm of love languages, introducing a groundbreaking sixth language – "honoring space." Drawing from personal experiences, we unravel how recognizing these languages can make you and your loved ones feel genuinely seen and heard. Discover how this new language emerged from my own journey and why it could be the missing piece in your connections. We promise you'll gain invaluable insights on enhancing communication, nurturing empathy, and fostering deeper connections in all facets of life.
In this thought-provoking episode, we guide you through practical tools and techniques to master love languages and communication dynamics. Learn the art of receiving gifts gracefully and the importance of personal space in communal living settings. We'll equip you with charts and resources to help identify different communication styles, paving the way for more intentional and harmonious relationships. Plus, embark on a journey of self-discovery with us and explore how embracing both shadow and light can lead to personal growth and freedom. Visit elizabethwinkler.com to delve deeper into this transformative practice and share the love by inviting friends and family to listen along.
Listeners learn practical ways to communicate their love needs effectively and foster deeper connections.
• Discussing Gary Chapman's five love languages
• Introducing 'space' as a sixth love language
• Understanding individual love languages
• Importance of non-verbal communication
• How to avoid common communication mistakes
• Practical applications in different types of relationships
• Encouraging self-reflection and dialogue
• Stressing the universality of love languages and their evolving nature

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Here's How to Shift from Fear to Confidence & Emotional Courage! Jan 14, 2025

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Internationally renowned meditation teacher davidji and heart healer Elizabeth Winkler guide us on a journey of empowerment and self-discovery. Unearth the secrets of inner authority and confidence as we explore how stepping into your true power can transform your life, especially in times of adversity. Inspired by the wisdom on perseverance, we introduce the empowering mantra, "I am, I can, I will, I do," to help you harness self-leadership and take actionable steps toward personal and professional growth.
Our conversation leads us into the intricate connection between emotions and decision-making, drawing on the ancient wisdom of the Brihadaranyaka Upanishads. Together, we unpack how desires shape our destiny and the importance of self-care in bolstering resilience. The discussion highlights vulnerability as a catalyst for growth, sharing insights from experiences with law enforcement and college students. Learn how to trust the process of growth, manage life transitions, and use mantras to foster emotional courage.
Celebrate your victories, big or small, with a mindset of gratitude that raises your vibration and transforms life's transitions into opportunities for growth. We introduce the concept of the "Enlightened Exchange," encouraging you to release non-nourishing elements and make room for positive changes. Finally, embrace the dance between shadow and light, recognizing how both guide you toward freedom and enlightenment. This episode promises a wealth of insights, encouraging kindness, continuous learning, and the wisdom to navigate life's challenges with love.

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Are you Struggling with a Relationship? Try this Powerful Healing Practice! Jan 07, 2025

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Can conflicted and estranged relationships actually be transformed into sources of healing and understanding? Join us on The Shadow and The Light podcast as we explore this possibility with the guidance of internationally renowned meditation teacher davidji and heart healer Elizabeth Winkler. We begin by diving into the often painful dynamics of relationships, whether with family or significant others, and the emotional havoc they can cause. Through stories like the monk and the empty boat, we highlight the crucial role of self-awareness and encourage thoughtful responses over reactive patterns to foster genuine resolution and peace.
Discover the hidden power of heart-centered communication and its role in transforming interactions within our relationships. We discuss how tapping into our internal energy can lead to new paths of self-healing, urging listeners to set intentions that encourage healthier communication. Using relatable metaphors and real-life examples, we illustrate how true winning in relationships revolves around empathy and connection rather than competition. This approach lays the foundation for stronger and more balanced relationships, emphasizing the importance of maintaining open communication.
Our journey continues with an exploration of "mindful untethering" and its potential to revolutionize how we handle separations and family dynamics. Elizabeth's insights guide us in viewing others' behaviors as reflections of their inner selves, prompting a shift towards a non-reactive mindset. We advocate for inner work and love as catalysts for healing, inviting listeners to embrace both light and shadow as integral forces in personal growth. As we celebrate our podcast's global reach, we're reminded that the transformation of the world begins with the transformation of the self, one breath at a time.

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Can Gratitude Change Your Life? Here’s how! Dec 31, 2024

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Unlock the secrets of gratitude and transform your life with davidji and Elizabeth Winkler. What if you could rewire your brain in just 20 seconds a day? Tap into the power of gratitude to enhance your well-being, build resilience, and nurture stronger relationships. We guide you through our personal stories and insights, drawing wisdom from the likes of Oprah, to show how gratitude can be a balm for stress and depression. Learn how a simple note of thanks to your younger self can be as healing as it is empowering, acknowledging your past courage and strength.
Journey with us as we explore practical gratitude exercises that can revolutionize your emotional well-being and strengthen personal connections. From gratitude jars to exchanging messages of thanks with loved ones, we cover it all. We delve into the balance between gratitude and letting go, teaching you the importance of reframing challenges as learning opportunities. Discover how meditation and reflection can help you release regrets and grievances, opening the door to personal growth and self-discovery.
Unravel the mysteries of your own nervous system and see how gratitude can shift your emotional state from fear to calm. Dive into the science of the vagus nerve and learn how the simple act of extending your exhale can change your perspective. We illuminate the journey from hardship to enlightenment, using light and shadow as symbols of hope and resilience. By embracing both sides, you can unlock new perspectives and shine brighter than ever. Let this episode be your guide to finding fulfillment and a deeper sense of gratitude in your life.

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The Power of Love with Laura Wright Oct 08, 2024

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Welcome to our Season Finale of Season 2, we are so grateful to be on this journey with each of you! In this episode join meditation master (and soap opera fan) davidji & transformational healer and therapist Elizabeth Winkler for an enlightening conversation with the amazing Laura Wright as she shares her remarkable journey from humble beginnings at her dad's gas station to becoming a globally celebrated soap opera actress. Laura opens up about her early days juggling multiple jobs and the emotional challenges she faced transitioning between significant roles on daytime television. With heartfelt anecdotes, she reflects on two decades as Carly Corinthos Spencer on "General Hospital," offering insights into the personal growth and resiliency required to thrive in the entertainment industry.
Discover the intricacies of evolving beloved television characters over 30+ years and the unique challenges of bringing authenticity to the small screen. Laura explores the delicate dance of balancing character motivations with personal emotions, ensuring each scene resonates with brilliance. We uncover the transformative power of trust—both in oneself and among co-stars—and the importance of embracing joy and gratitude, which Laura believes are key to crafting impactful performances and living an abundant life.
Laura's wisdom extends beyond acting as she shares her commitment to creating supportive communities and sacred spaces for women. Together, we explore themes of acceptance, embracing life's uncertainties, and the joy of making "fun choices" in both acting and everyday life. Laura's authenticity and passion for uplifting others shine through, leaving us inspired by her journey and the light she brings to every role, both on and off the screen.

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What's your deepest desire? Here’s the SECRET to MANIFESTING! Oct 01, 2024

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What if everything you seek is already within you? Join us on the Shadow and the Light podcast with davidji and Elizabeth Winkler as we illuminate the transformative art of manifesting your true essence. We promise you'll uncover how to move from the prison of the mind to the prism of true being, where relaxation and alignment with your authentic self pave the way to becoming a conscious creator. Learn the power of co-creation with the universe, trusting your heart's desires, and inviting supportive energies into your life.
Navigating the intricate dance between doubt and manifestation, we'll explore how embracing doubt can actually be a powerful catalyst for personal growth. Through heartfelt discussions and personal anecdotes, such as emptying life's metaphorical junk drawers, we illustrate how facing fear and self-doubt can lead to profound transformations. Drawing from revered thinkers like Rumi and Joseph Campbell, we underscore the hero's journey and the importance of aligning with your deepest desires to harness universal support.
Anchoring into abundance, we dive deep into the teachings of the Bhagavad Gita on dharma, reflecting on purpose, duty, and gratitude. By grounding ourselves in gratitude, we enhance our manifesting abilities and shift our mindset and vibration to attract what we desire. We also address the importance of empathy and compassion in understanding different perspectives, fostering forgiveness, and trusting the natural unfolding of life. Tune in to embrace your inner essence and become a conscious co-creator in your journey.

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What do you need to feel whole? Try this powerful technique! Sep 24, 2024

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Have you ever found yourself wishing others could just understand your needs without having to say a word? We know that struggle all too well, and in this episode, davidji & Elizabeth share how conscious communication is a game-changer. We dive deep into Marshall Rosenberg's Nonviolent Communication to highlight how articulating our desires for attention, affection, and connection can lead to more fulfilling relationships. By focusing on making life wonderful rather than playing the "who's right" game, we share practical tips to foster healthier interactions and genuine connection.
Facing fear, shame, or vulnerability when expressing your needs? You're not alone. We discuss how slipping into "Jedi mode" (Justify, Explain, Defend, Insist) can create barriers rather than bridges. Instead, we introduce the W-E-A-K (Welcome, Energy, Allow, Kindness) practice to help manage these emotions. Through a personal anecdote involving a challenging situation, our hosts emphasize the importance of being proactive in seeking support and understanding our hidden vulnerabilities to strengthen our bonds.
Elizabeth & davidji explore the delicate dance of honoring our own needs and healing from past pain. We unpack the intricate relationship between our sense of self and perceived vulnerabilities, challenging the ego's dualistic nature that fuels judgment and comparison - all on a pathway to growth and healing. With powerful affirmations and practical insights, we encourage you to journey from darkness to illumination, discovering the transformative power of love and light along the way.

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Are You Living a YES life? DO THIS & TAKE THE LEAP! Sep 17, 2024

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What's stealing your YES energy? This is our episode on living in the House of Yes. Ever wondered how a simple mindshift can inspire you to face your fears -and move through them? Join davidji & Elizabeth Winkler us on "The Shadow and the Light" as Elizabeth takes us through her incredible and transformative surfing journey in Costa Rica. Despite battling unexpected injuries and mental hurdles, Elizabeth shares how mindfulness and meditation empowered her to stay present and harness the best surfing experience of her trip. Her story will leave you inspired to not let past setbacks dictate your present actions.
Discover the wisdom of ancient Vedic goddesses like Kuan Yin, Lakshmi, Saraswati, and Durga, and how their energies can guide you in embracing life's challenges with confidence. We dive into the significance of saying yes to the present moment and leaning into experiences. Our hosts share personal stories of skydiving and horseback riding to showcase the transformative power of facing fear and seizing opportunities, leading to profound fulfillment and growth.
Explore the contrasting philosophies of Jerry Buss's relentless pursuit of excellence and Michael Singer's approach of surrendering to life's flow. Through compelling anecdotes, we highlight the importance of being present and making conscious choices. Finally, we'll discuss the interplay of light and shadow, revealing how facing our inner darkness can lead to personal enlightenment and freedom. Join us for a journey of resilience, transformation, and the empowering strength of the divine feminine.

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Ready for your best life? davidji shares his 5 secrets! Sep 10, 2024

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What if you could step into your highest power by simply examining your daily interactions and habits? Join us in this transformative episode of The Shadow and the Light podcast, where hosts davidji and Elizabeth Winkler guide you through core coaching and therapy techniques designed to heal, clarify, and elevate your life. We kick things off by taking a snapshot of your present state, focusing on the key people, places and activities that dominate your mental landscape. This practice of self-awareness and mindfulness sets the foundation for meaningful personal transformation.
Ever wondered how to balance the various aspects of your life and achieve genuine satisfaction? We explore the5 realms of your life: the physical, emotional, material, relationship, and spiritual realms. Elizabeth shares her unique insights on setting intentions through new moon rituals and discusses the addictive nature of social media, particularly platforms like TikTok, and its impact on our mental well-being. Learn how meditation and mindful breaks from digital distractions can reset your dopamine receptors, leading to more fulfilling real-world interactions.
Discover the importance of surrounding yourself with supportive individuals who genuinely root for your success. davidji shares his teachings of asking WHO IS IN MY FRONT ROW?, to illustrate this powerful concept. We dive into the intricate nature of relationships, exploring how they evolve and how even past connections persist in new forms. Through engaging discussions on finding purpose in life's challenges—like navigating divorce and embracing both the shadow and light—we offer practical tools for making small, incremental changes that lead to a more fulfilling and balanced life. Let this episode be your guide on a journey of reflection, transformation, and healing.

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Are JUDGMENTS holding you back? DO THIS & Finally be FREE! Sep 03, 2024

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Why do we get caught up in judgment, and how does it impact our self-esteem and relationships? Join davidji and Elizabeth Winkler as we embark on a journey through the labyrinth of judgment, with insights from nonviolent communication and Advaita (non-dualism) philosophy. We explore how our minds, with their inherent negativity bias, shape our perceptions and interactions, often leading to destructive self-judgment and comparison. By examining the role of judgment in gossip and negative commentary, we shed light on the crucial difference between judgment and discernment, helping you master your thoughts for more mindful connections.
Ever wondered why negativity and gossip are so pervasive in our society? We dissect the underlying motivations, such as feelings of inadequacy and a longing for connection, that drive these behaviors. Through the lens of compassion and empathy, we reveal how seeing ourselves as equals can transform our interactions. Drawing on the profound wisdom of the Two Wolves metaphor, we illustrate the internal battle between positive and negative forces, offering practical tips to steer conversations toward positivity and meaningful connections.
Discover the power of mindful communication with the "three gates"—is it true? necessary? and kind? Inspired by teachings from Lao Tzu and Ayurveda, we highlight the importance of timing in processing emotions and communication. Uncover the fascinating "boomerang effect" and how judgments often come back to us, fostering self-awareness and empathy. Concluding with a reflective meditation, we invite you to embrace both shadow and light within yourself, expanding your capacity for joy and reducing judgment. Tune in for a transformative episode that promises to leave you with practical tools for a more mindful, compassionate life.

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Is it really true? LETS FIND OUT! Aug 27, 2024

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Have you ever wondered how the beliefs you hold on to might actually be blocking your path to true happiness & deeper fulfillment? This episode of The Shadow and The Light podcast features davidji - the internationally renowned meditation teacher, and Elizabeth Winkler, a heart healer and alchemical psychotherapist. They dissect a powerful Pema Chodron quote that could change the way you perceive your deepest convictions. And, they dive deep into personal stories and real-world practices that illustrate the transformative power of self-inquiry. They build on this foundational concept, revealing how questioning long-held beliefs can lead to profound breakthroughs and healing. You'll gain practical techniques for clearing mental and emotional clutter, helping you to embrace your true essence and unlock the abundance of truth beneath those stubborn thoughts.
Elizabeth & davidji bring their rich experience to the table, offering compelling insights on how our beliefs, often just recurring thoughts, can obstruct our spiritual evolution. Together our co-hosts explore the synergy between ancient wisdom and modern psychology, giving you actionable steps to transform your shadow into light. Whether you're seeking to heal, find inner peace, or are simply curious about the intersection of spirituality and psychology, this episode promises to be a treasure trove of wisdom and practical advice. Join us on this enlightening journey and learn how to release the beliefs that no longer serve you.

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Anxious? Stressed? Overwhelmed? HERE'S THE ANTIDOTE!!! Aug 20, 2024

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Transform your inner turmoil into lasting peace in this transformational episode where we go deep into how to start & maintain a daily practice. Join Elizabeth Winkler and davidji as we unfold the journey from "crisis meditator" to establishing a robust daily mindfulness routine. Elizabeth shares a profound tale of a samurai and a monk, illustrating the transformative power of devotion to truth and practice. We discuss the significant impact of mindfulness on groups like law enforcement and military personnel, highlighting how consistent practice can foster more conscious decision-making and personal growth.
Curious about how to cultivate stillness in the chaos of everyday life? We share the time-tested secrets that are evidence-based!!! And davidji guides us into the space of the present moment and you'll feel the shift. Discover the benefits of a morning meditation routine, guided meditations, and embracing a beginner's mind to bring freshness and creativity to all your experiences. Elizabeth and davidji emphasize the importance of witnessing our thoughts and emotions to foster emotional intelligence and strengthen our connection to the present moment. Learn how these practices can help you remain calm and centered in even the most challenging situations, enhancing your overall well-being.
Unravel the mysteries of ancient meditation techniques with us as we tackle common obstacles like time constraints and wandering thoughts. Comfort is key in meditation, and we advise adopting a flexible posture to ease into your practice. Elizabeth shares her transformative experience with Sanskrit mantras, such as "I am" and "Aham Brahmasmi," encouraging you to recalibrate your energy and perspective. Finally, we delve into the balance of embracing both the shadows and light in our lives, fostering growth, self-discovery, and ultimately, freedom. Join us on this enlightening journey and unlock the potential within you.

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Ready to FACE your F.E.A.R.? DO THIS & transform your life!!! Aug 13, 2024

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Transform your relationship with fear and discover your inner strength with life-guide davidji & esteemed psychotherapist Elizabeth Winkler as they share their definitions of F.E.A.R. and share transformative techniques to shift your focus from the head to the heart. Learn how to recognize fear, pause, and use mantras to move from a reactive state to one of creativity and presence. With these insights, you’ll be equipped to convert fear into a powerful ally on your journey to personal growth.
We then explore the concept of anxiety through a fresh lens, viewing it not as a debilitating emotion but as an inner activation ripe for transformation. By employing mindfulness techniques and grounding practices, we showcase how to navigate anxiety, embrace discomfort, and convert inner blockages into opportunities for growth. The importance of staying present and using the body as an anchor is emphasized, helping you transform anxiety into a source of inner strength and light.
We round out the episode by delving into profound themes of impermanence and trust. Listen to a touching story about confronting mortality and learn the practice of noticing "gones" to cultivate peace and equanimity. Discover how meditation alters pain perception and how the Buddhist mantra:
gate
gate
paragate
parasamgate
bodhi
swaha
(Gone, Gone, Gone to the other shore. Gone completely to the other shore. Awakening. Make it so.)
can guide you from fear to enlightenment. By embracing both the shadow and the light within us, we uncover the path to true freedom and enlightenment. Join us on this enlightening journey to awaken your true essence, heal your wounds, and transform your shadows into light.

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ARE YOU LIVING YOUR PURPOSE? Let's discover your NORTH STAR! Aug 06, 2024

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Can you remember the last time you truly felt that you were in total flow with your purpose? Join us in this life-changing episode as we embark on a profound journey of intentional living with meditation master davidji & the transformational alchemical goddess, Elizabeth Winkler. We'll reflect on what it means to live a purposeful life, starting with an eye-opening exercise that will spark your purpose. By identifying your core values and weaving them into each moment, you'll discover how adopting simple mantras like "let me be kind" or "let me be love" can profoundly enrich your life, creating a tapestry of meaningful memories.
Ever wondered what it really means to live with intention? We'll explore the Japanese philosophy of ikigai, which inspires us to make each moment meaningful by focusing on what we love, what we're good at, how we help others, and what fulfills us. Elizabeth and davidji break down how to find joy and purpose in everyday life. Drawing inspiration from figures like Abraham Maslow and Rabbi Hillel, we also touch on the significance of self-improvement and contributing to the greater good, offering a roadmap to truly fulfilling living.
Navigating the blockages that hinder our true desires is pivotal for an intentional life. Through relatable anecdotes like blocking a Starbucks line, we illustrate how our defense mechanisms often clash with what we genuinely seek. Elizabeth offers practical tips to stay focused on your intentions. We conclude by embracing both light and shadow, finding hope and new perspectives even in moments of darkness. By understanding that darkness can become a friend, we can shine brighter and foster positive energy in our interactions, helping everyone thrive.

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Stop SHOULDING on Yourself. DO THIS INSTEAD to access your authentic power! Jul 30, 2024

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We kick off Season 2 with powerful tools to help you shift from victim to thriver!!! What if the key to reclaiming your personal power lies in the simple shift of your everyday language? Join us as davidji and Elizabeth Winkler reveal easy real-world steps to help you break free from the relentless cycle of negative thoughts. You’ll discover practical language hacks, such as switching "have to" for "choose to" and transforming "should" into "want," that can fundamentally reshape your mindset and align your actions with your true desires. This episode promises to equip you with the tools to foster a more empowered and intentional life - and in doing so TRULY STEP INTO YOUR POWER!
Together, we navigate the complex terrain of victimhood and empowerment, emphasizing the transformative power of the present moment. davidji and Elizabeth delve into the concept of karma, illustrating how our judgments and actions can reverberate back to us like a boomerang. By embracing present moment practices combined with a bit of self-inquiry, we can move beyond pain and fear, tapping into our boundless inner capacity. Concluding with an inspiring message about the light and shadow within us all, this episode encourages you to embrace transformation and live in the brilliance of your true essence. Don’t miss this enlightening conversation that could be the catalyst for an empowered, intentional life.

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The Power of Vibration with Jamar Rogers May 07, 2024

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Welcome to our Season One Finale Episode!!! What a beautiful journey this season has been - and we can't wait to help, heal & serve you in our upcoming Season 2! Feel free to re-listen to all of our episodes & share them with someone you love💚💜🖤
When shadows meet light, transformation begins. This episode is a celebration of that very journey, featuring our very first guest - the soulful & incomparable Jamar Rogers and his guiding light, Mama D. Together, they weave a tapestry of music and spirit that not only birthed our intro tune but also reignited Jamar's creative fire, leading to new music that promises to touch the hearts of millions. We reflect on the power of our darkest and brightest experiences, learning how they shape us into conduits of love and growth, inspiring others in their own transformations.
davidji & Elizabeth guide you in a journey of discovering the resilience of the human spirit. We travel together across the landscapes of mantras, chants, affirmations, and the wisdom of ancient practices. From the streets of San Diego's Hay Rides to the divine vibrations of "Om Namo Narayanaya," to the soul-awakening sacred whispers of Jamar's newest hit song "Sugar Baby" - learn how sound and intention can alter our state of being, guiding us towards peace of mind & even deeper into peace of heart. In sharing our personal stories, we highlight the importance of affirming our worth, and through Jamar's encapsulating performance, we offer a moment of serenity amidst life's unceasing dance.
Navigating the path of self-awareness and personal growth is akin to the journey of a lotus, emerging from murky waters to bloom with radiance. We explore this theme, delving into the power of self-reflection and the courageous act of revealing our true selves. Our discussion extends to the relationships that shape us, from the familial to the divine, affirming that by embracing our totality, we become beacons of healing and abundance. Join us as we celebrate the victories, reconcile with the struggles, and evolve through the ever-unfolding narrative of our lives.

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The END of SUFFERING Apr 30, 2024

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Let's heal together! Have you ever felt the sting of words spoken without thought, or been on the receiving end of a careless comment? Elizabeth Winkler and davidji, open up about these all-too-human moments on our latest podcast, revealing a poignant incident that led to a profound personal revelation. Through our conversation, we explore the traps of JEDI—Justify, Explain, Defend, Insist—and the necessity of impeccable speech for personal growth and the well-being of others.
Sometimes the hardest confrontations are with ourselves, and that's where healing begins. We take you on an inward journey of self-forgiveness and repentance, reflecting on the powerful impact of a sincere apology and the ancient faith traditions that teach us the importance of remorse & reconciliation. Elizabeth and I share intensely personal stories about facing our own shortcomings and how the act of embracing our transgressions can lead to a cathartic release and self-liberation—lessons that resonate with anyone seeking to mend their own internal wounds.
Then there's the transformative power of a morning meditation routine—before the day's chaos ensues. We discuss how this practice serves as an alchemical process to transform overwhelming emotions into growth and understanding. The episode culminates in an exploration of the delicate dance between our shadow and light, and how embracing both can catalyze profound personal transformation. Join us for a journey that promises to move you from heartache to healing, and from darkness to an enlightened new beginning.

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Ready for some ANCESTRAL HEALING? Let's make Peace with Your Past! Apr 23, 2024

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Our latest episode of The Shadow and The Light Podcast beckons you into the realm of ancestral healing, where we reveal how the gifts and burdens of our forebears shape our present and future. In this transformational episode, davidji & Elizabeth Winkler unravel the tightly woven threads of familial dynamics and healing. We provide keys to unlocking patterns that have echoed through generations. Our insights shine a spotlight on the importance of distinguishing beneficial legacies from harmful cycles, and we offer wisdom on how to foster the former while courageously putting an end to what doesn't nourish us.
Embarking on a personal journey can often lead us down unexpected paths, and in this episode, we discuss the power of life transformation through dream work and meditation. A single dream that Elizabeth had, brimming with fear and rats, became a doorway to profound healing and the realization that energy work and mindfulness have places of power within therapeutic practices. Our dialogue weaves through the potential of ancestral contracts and how confronting fear with relaxation can be transformative, illuminating the initial steps to mend emotional wounds and guiding you closer to the best version of yourself.
The episode reaches a poignant crescendo as we navigate the tender process of connecting with those we've lost. davidji shares the solace found in an unlikely gift—a copy of the Odyssey—and its symbolic reflection of his own odyssey through grief and connection. We also discuss how others who have lost a loved one, like the couple at Zach's House (zachshouse.org.uk), find comfort and connection through research and spiritual communication, reinforcing the idea that love's reach extends far beyond the confines of this physical world. Through our stories, Elizabeth and davidji celebrate the duality of life's light and shadow, affirming that both are present not to hinder but to liberate us. We invite you to join us in this enlightening exploration.

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Are you seeking enLIGHTenment? Start here! Apr 16, 2024

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This is our episode on Spirituality! Are you a human being having spiritual experiences OR a spiritual being having this human experience???
Embark on a quest for wholeness with Elizabeth Winkler and davidji, as we traverse the landscape of spirituality and self-discovery in this episode. We promise you'll leave with a profound understanding of how exploring the depths of your Soul can illuminate so many aspects of your personal life, and also ripple out to those around you. Together, we share a refreshing take on the interconnectedness of our inner world, and guide you to reinforce the transformative potential of embracing your full self.
Journey with us as we share powerful stories of unexpected transformations that unfold on our path to self-awareness. We delve into the core elements that are needed to navigate our ever-changing world, awakening our individual healing processes and stepping boldly into uncharted territory. We explore the lasting imprints of childhood experiences as preparation for life's uncertain moments; and different scenarios that unfold on our quest to balance our inner shadow and light. This episode is filled with rich insights for fearlessly taking your steps on the path of personal change. Tune in for an enlightening conversation that is not just thought-provoking but brimming with actionable wisdom for anyone on the journey to personal transformation. Dont forget to subscribe & share with those who could use a little light in their lives.

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ARE YOU STRUGGLING? Let's do some DEEP THERAPY! Apr 09, 2024

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This is our episode on EMOTIONAL FREEDOM. Have you ever felt the weight of the world upon your shoulders and in your heart, only to realize there is a way through it all? Elizabeth Winkler joins davidji in an intimate discussion on the art of releasing the burdens that hinder our happiness & personal growth. We share a compelling tale of two travelers - the baggage they choose to carry with them... or don't... and the diverging paths they experience, as one holds on and one lets go. davidji reveals his own struggle with hoarding and fear of loss which unveils the complexities of emotional clutter, as we unravel the courage it takes to part with objects that tether us to the past. Our insights into the emotional decluttering process shine a light on the pivotal role of trust and support, guiding us toward healing and the acceptance of new experiences.
In this episode, we delve into the roots of attachment, sharing personal anecdotes to illustrate the freedom that awaits us on the other side of trust. And then spontaneously, Elizabeth guides davidji into a deep therapeutic visualization using her signature H.A.T.E. transformational process. He fully surrenders and what unfolds is a profound journey of healing that culminates with a powerful LIVE energetic release.
As you go through Elizabeth's process with davidji, you will also peel away your own layers of constriction, feel a weight lift off of you, and experience a powerful healing. This liberation is one that will continue to transform you long after the session. So, join us for this life-changing episode and discover the pure freedom & joy that rests within you waiting to be awakened.
If you have any pain that you are ready to transform to power, you can access Elizabeth's signature healing H.A.T. E. virtual course below.
https://www.elizabethwinkler.com/heart-healing-course/

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ABRACADABRA! Do this and TRANSFORM your life! Apr 02, 2024

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In this episode, davidji and Elizabeth Winkler guide you into a deep inner place of quietude & tranquility. We dive deep into the core need of safety— in the areas of your personal relationships, emotional health, financial stability, and spiritual practices. Discover how this fundamental need impacts the choices we make and the paths we tread. Not only will you gain fresh perspectives about your own life, but you'll also unlock the intricate dance between scarcity and abundance in ways that stretch far beyond your relationship with money.
davidji reveals powerful ancient breathing techniques to drop you into the space between your thoughts- so you can truly be the calm amidst the chaos - soothing your mind and healing your body. We share the practice of Nadi Shodhana, a calming, healing & cleansing breathing technique that promises mental serenity and energy equilibrium, even as you go about your daily routine. Whether you're looking for a burst of vitality or a moment of quietude, Elizabeth and davidji reveal how tapping into your breath -in the moment- can be your secret weapon against the overwhelm of everyday life. We even share an advanced variation of this practice, ensuring you can embrace its benefits wherever you are, whatever you're doing.
As you journey with us, you'll encounter the serene yet powerful landscape of your deeper Self. Elizabeth's lemonade cards, mantras, and intimate storytelling illuminates a path toward self-connection and integration. As we venture through these uncharted territories together, you will feel a profound shift in the way you feel and the way you see the world. Join the conversation on The Shadow and The Light Podcast, where introspection meets inspiration, and every step forward is a step towards wholeness.

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Trapped in The PRISON of Your MIND? Step into Your PRISM of AWARENESS! Mar 26, 2024

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Embark on a profound journey with meditation maestro davidji & transformational heart healer, Elizabeth Winkler, as we navigate the intricate layers of our deepest needs & their undeniable influence on how we show up in every moment. In this episode, we unveil the importance of feeling safe as the foundation for every healthy relationship. And how we can break free from the prison of the mind into the prism of deep awareness, which is the bedrock for cultivating love and belongingness.
With hearts wide open, we dissect the complex web of emotional patterns and the pursuit of self-approval, sharing transformative methods to shift from knee-jerk reactions to a heart-centered existence. Elizabeth imparts her wisdom on the alchemy of awakening to your whole Self to forge healthier connections and the remarkable impact of grounding techniques to keep us tethered to the present moment. We close with empowering mantras to dismantle fear - and reshape negative thought patterns. The episode is filled with powerful meditation insights to help you step into your power & awaken to your innermost potential as you navigate your path of self-discovery and inner peace.

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Ready to be THE CALM amidst the CHAOS? Here's how! Mar 19, 2024

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The power of presence is a superpower that leads to deeper fulfillment in life. And in this episode, meditation master davidji & transformational alchemist Elizabeth Winkler share the secrets of living in the present moment as the key to greater clarity, happiness, empathy, emotional intelligence, and creativity. Our co-hosts share the surprising tranquility that a meditation practice brings to our most important relationships, our daily decision-making, and navigating the often chaotic morning routine of getting ready and out the door to work & school.
Parenthood, with its relentless pace, often leaves us yearning for a pause button. Elizabeth shares her own journey of finding peace of mind amidst the turbulence of restless kids in carseats. davidji takes you through the power of Pratyahara, the practice of releasing all of our senses and turning inward, and its application in our daily hustle & flow. As they exchange stories and insights, you'll discover how a consistent meditation practice can not only offer a refuge of calm but also enhance the dynamic bond with our children. It's about being the stillness inside the storm and learning to welcome life's interruptions with grace and laughter.
Wrapping up the episode, the transformational pair boldly discuss the illusions we all chase: our perceived need to be perfect, the finish line of life, adulthood's pressures, and the ever-lurking impostor syndrome. The Shadow and The Light Podcast casts a light on these hidden facets of ourselves, celebrating a holistic embrace of life's full spectrum. We leave you with practical mindfulness techniques and an invitation to hold up the mirror and continuing to explore the depths of our shared human experience.

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Why are you REALLY angry? Let's find out the TRUTH. Mar 12, 2024

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What rests at the underlying center of your frustrations, irritations, and limitations? Listen in and find out powerful answers to heal & transform you that rest at the core of your being!
davidji & Elizabeth Winkler guide you on a mind-blowing exploration of what rests at the root of your anger. And how your understanding of what rests within can influence your journey towards happiness, fulfillment, and self-realization. Together, we uncover the often-misunderstood facets of this fiery emotion, where the flames are fueled by our inner depths rather than external provocations. Elizabeth's wisdom illuminates the path as we offer you transformative tools to not just manage anger but to harness its energy for growth and empowerment. Prepare to shift your perception of anger, as we promise to guide you through its labyrinth to find a sense of peace and understanding that lies beyond its heat.
Throughout this episode, we examine the creative potency of anger and the importance of using it to assert healthy boundaries. We delve into the hidden forms of anger, such as guilt, our fear of disappointing others, and our compulsion to please everyone around us, revealing how these emotions can bind us.
Implementing real-world practical application, we share how to navigate life's provocations with grace and awaken to your most enlightened self. This journey promises not just insight into anger's nature, but also a transformational experience that leads to healing, understanding, and empowerment.

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How to Turn Your PAIN INTO POWER! Mar 05, 2024

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In this episode of "The Shadow and The Light," davidji and Elizabeth Winkler embark on a journey to explore the transformative process of turning pain into power. We illuminate the secrets of attention, intention, resistance, and acceptance, showcasing how these four characteristics can become our greatest teachers. Join us as we guide listeners out of the weeds of the mind and into the fertile soil of the heart, where profound shifts await, empowering you to step fully into your power.

Key Points:

Our Deepest Truths: davidji and Elizabeth delve into the importance of illuminating our deepest truths, highlighting how attention, intention, resistance, and acceptance are pivotal in this introspective journey.
The Four Needs of the Heart: We unpack the concept of the four needs of the heart, urging listeners to explore your emotional soil to foster personal growth and fulfillment.
Intention & the Soil: Drawing parallels between intention and the growth of an acorn into an oak tree, we emphasize the significance of nurturing one's inner garden to manifest positive outcomes.
Anti-Anxiety Tools: davidji shares practical anti-anxiety tools and stress-alleviating techniques, showcasing the transformative power of attention and intention in reshaping one's perspective.
The Observer Effect: We discuss the observer effect, emphasizing the importance of redirecting attention away from negative thought patterns, likening them to weeds in a garden.
Acceptance and Resistance: We highlight the role of acceptance in overcoming resistance, illustrating how attention, intention, and acceptance can serve as profound teachers on the path to self-discovery.
Transmutation of Energy: Elizabeth Winkler offers profound insight by teaching that "The Wound is the Way," emphasizing how our wounds hold trapped energy which have the potential for transformation and growth. She provides valuable pointers to assist listeners in transmuting pain into power through the alchemy of self-awareness and healing, urging them to soften their resistant walls and embrace vulnerability to pave the way for profound transformation.

Conclusion:
davidji and Elizabeth remind listeners of your innate power to shape your reality by aligning attention with intentions. We encourage embracing life's uncertainties and tapping into the transformative power within to cultivate love, gratitude, and personal growth.

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Are you an EGO J.E.D.I.? How to step into your true power! Feb 27, 2024

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Are you stuck in your ego?
Are you stuck in patterns in your relationships that limit your happiness and personal growth?
Welcome to the inaugural episode of The Shadow and The Light Podcast!!! In this episode, hosts davidji and Elizabeth delve into the darkness of the ego and share powerful techniques to help you heal your relationships. Deploying their signature fusion of timeless wisdom & modern psychology they will help you unshackle your heart and mind from the binds of the EGO and learn to step into your power!
Discover how to maintain your inner calm amidst life's ebb and flow, as davidji & Elizabeth share practical tools to escape the grip of the J.E.D.I. responses and find harmony in the present moment. As always, our hosts provide listeners with actionable tools for self-awareness and growth on your journey to transformation and healing.
Key takeaways for listeners:

How to Navigate Relationships Mindfully
How to loosen the grip of the EGO
How to cultivate equanimity as a vital ingredient for happiness and fulfillment
How to empower yourself to make better decisions and connect more authentically.
How acknowledging and working through shadow aspects can lead to profound personal transformation and healing.

Conclusion:
In this enlightening episode, davidji & Elizabeth invite listeners to embark on a journey of self-discovery and transformation by embracing the principles of JEDI, mindfulness, and ancient wisdom. This episode is not just a conversation; it's an invitation to witness the brilliance that unfolds when we courageously step into the light and embrace every aspect of our being. Join us next time as we delve deeper into the interplay between the shadow and the light in our lives.
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Global Reveal Teaser Feb 19, 2024

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Teaser featuring Jamar Rogers Feb 16, 2024

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