The Psychology of your 20s

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Overcoming your fear of being perceived (rerun) Apr 22, 2025

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Our fear of being perceived is more than just social anxiety, its a real phobia around being scrutinised, observed and primarily judged by others. It's also greatly limiting your potential and ability to be your true self. But there is a way through, there is a way to escape the constant fixation on what others are thinking about you. In today's episode, we discuss:

The origins and effects of scopophobia
How our fear of being perceived is both a social and specific phobia
Why do we worry about what other people think?
Perfectionism and our fear of being perceived
The impact of early childhood experiences
Three mental shifts to overcome your fear of being perceived

Listen now for all that and more!

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The Psychology of your 20s is not a substitute for professional mental health help. If you are struggling, distressed or require personalised advice, please reach out to your doctor or a licensed psychologist.

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It's okay for your friendships to change (rerun) Apr 18, 2025

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In our 20s there are four things we worry about more than anything else: love, money, the future, and our friendships. As we grow and change, the relationships around us will also naturally change and we may begin to notice how we are seeing our friends less and less, watching certain friendships fizzle out or completely outgrowing each other. It's not the same as it once was. This can cause a lot of panic. But underneath the fear of our changing friendships is a more primal fear of being alone.

In today's episode we break down the psychology behind our evolving friendships, the four types of friendship breakup, and how to adapt to these new kinds of relationship in our 20s, alongside the biggest friendship misconceptions that keep us in unfulfilling situations. All of that and more. Listen now!

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The psychology of self doubt (rerun) Apr 15, 2025

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Our self doubts are what is keeping us in our own way. It is the foundation for our inner critic to tell us: you're not good enough, you're not talented enough, intelligent beautiful, hardworking to have the life and success you want. When we let our self doubts take control, it often means that we end up self handicapping or sabotaging before we get to the start line. In today's episode we are going to talk about the psychology of self doubt and how to silence those false beliefs, including:

The origin of false beliefs in childhood experiences
The impact of bullying on adult identity
Overcoming failure and setbacks
Imposter syndrome + self sabotage
The power of a persona + the batman effect
Doubting your own doubts
Asking 'why not you?', and so much more

Listen now!

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How to get your spark back (rerun) Apr 11, 2025

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We lose our spark and love for life for many reasons: burnout, mental ill health, people pleasing, a breakup. When we do it can feel like life gets very boring, it loses colour, we lose interest and we can become cynical towards all of the small joys and brilliance of being alive and being human. In this episode we break down six tips for getting your spark back:

The power of rest
Choosing to live light versus live heavy
Reconnecting with your inner child + play
Seeking inspiration in the mundane and The Alchemist
Exercise + the healing power of nature
Ignoring the urge to compare

Listen now for when you're in a rut or have lost your spark!

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290. The complicated psychology of PMS Apr 08, 2025

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PMS can be a bit of a black box - we know we don't feel right, we know the days and weeks before our period can be sluggish, but we don't really know why because we aren't taught what's actually going on in our bodies. In today's episode, we break down the real psychology of PMS, including:

Do you have PMS, PMDD or PME? What's the difference?
Why we confuse PMS and depression/anxiety
The interactions between PMS & ADHD
The role of serotonin, estrogen and GABA
The misconceptions about PMS and dealing with the shame
Some of the best mental hacks for tackling PMS + more

Listen now!

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289. The psychology of high functioning depression Apr 04, 2025

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We are used to seeing depression one way: tears, extreme sadness, never leaving the house, pure misery. But for many of us, we experience depression differently. High functioning depression, a kind of depression where an individuals presents as seemingly 'fine' if not successful and thriving is on the rise. But despite outside appearances, it's just as debilitating as the depression we expect. In today's episode we discuss:

The bad vs. sad stigma present in society
What we expect depression to look like + why that harms people
What HF depression really looks like
What factors increase the likelihood
The link between overachievers, childhood trauma + hyperindependence
How to support a loved one with HF depression
How to cope ourselves + so much more

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288. "Your calling, won't stop calling" ft. Victoria Hutchins Apr 01, 2025

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So many of us worry about finding a purpose and progressing in our career from an early age, but sometimes our path through life looks different to how we imagine it. The poet Victoria Hutchins is one example of this being the case. In today's episode we break down:

How to find your calling
When to take risks
The best decisions you can make in your 20s
The power of vulnerability
Why hope is the answer
PLUS, her best anxiety tips and more

Listen now!

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287. Being a late bloomer in your 20s Mar 27, 2025

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Some of us take our time when it comes to finding love and dating. For some, that feels like an asset, for others it feels like a burden that they are yet to have experienced a relationship, intimacy, a first kiss, sex. In today's episode we break down the struggle of being a so called 'late bloomer' in your 20s, including:

The burden of single + virginity shaming in our 20s
Social clock theory
Managing milestone anxiety + the emotional consequences
Why there's no need to rush
My 5 best dating tips for first timers
PLUS, stories from the listeners

Listen now if you're struggling with feeling behind when it comes to love, relationships and dating in your 20s.

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286. How to actually FEEL your feelings Mar 25, 2025

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In a day and age when 7/10 of us are chronically stressed, living in survival mode, too busy intellectualising our feelings to actually feel them, unsure of whether we will ever feel great happiness again, sometimes we need to return to the basics: how do we actually FEEL our emotions. In this episode we break down:

What emotional blunting really looks like
The root in trauma + stress + childhood
Why we intellectualise our feelings
The consequences + risk of emotional breakdown
How to reconnect to your emotions through the body
The emotions-physical sensation map
The 90 second rule + so much more

Happy listening :)

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285. Overcoming relationship OCD & anxiety Mar 21, 2025

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Even in the most perfect of relationships we can have doubts; even when everything is happy and wonderful, questions can still linger in the back of our mind like 'is this person really right for me, should we break up, should I be feeling this way?' This feeling is a symptom of relationship anxiety or relationship OCD and it can be debilitating.

In today's episode we are joined by the incredible and wise Rebecca Ore to discuss: