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74 The Bible, Racial Injustice, and Individual Responsibility Sep 28, 2020

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Today I want to look at the Bible's take on how Christians are called to respond when racial injustice is occurring in our land. I am not going to devote any time to making a case that America is an unjust society. If you believe that America is just and fair, I beg you to pick up any of the books on anti-Racism written by a person of color and find out if people of color experience America as just and fair. This episode is primarily for White Christians who have a sense inside of "I acknowledge that racial injustice exists in America, but since I am not personally committing acts of injustice, I am therefore not personally responsible for the injustice that is occurring."

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73 Racial Trauma and My Story With Racism Sep 14, 2020

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Today I talk about racial trauma, and, in particular, the racial trauma that African Americans experience. One central tenet of all story work is that in order for healing to occur there has to be an honest naming of what has been true. This is true in your individual story and it is no less true in our collective story as a nation.

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72 Judging Others: Is It Okay To Judge Those Who Have Harmed Me? Aug 31, 2020

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One of the things that prevents people from engaging the ways they have been harmed is the simple objection, "Who am I to judge my parents?" The premise of the objection is simply, "It's wrong for me to judge my parents. That's God's job, not my job." In today's episode, I take a look at what the Bible says about judging other people.

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71 What If I Don't Remember Much Of My Childhood? Aug 17, 2020

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Many people look back on their growing up years and simply don't remember very much. In today's episode I offer some suggestions on what to do when you are having a difficult time remembering your stories. If you want a summary of today's episode, you can go to adamyoungcounseling.com and get a free resource called "What If I Don't Remember Much Of My Childhood?" This document also outlines several written exercises you can do to help you remember your stories.

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70 What's Actually Happening When You Interact With Someone? Aug 03, 2020

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What is actually happening when two people interact—whether that's two spouses, a therapist and a client, or two friends? What is actually happening in the brains of the two people who are interacting? Primarily, nonverbal messages are being communicated from one person's right brain to the other person's right brain. This has profound implications for why interpersonal interactions can be so fraught.

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69 How Trauma Affects Your Voice Jul 20, 2020

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I am joined today by Susan Cunningham, a California-based counselor, life and soul coach and spiritual director. Sue shares one of the most formative stories of her life. It's a story about a first grade girl who decided to use her voice. Your voice is one of the parts of you that is most frequently targeted by Evil. If you have a history of trauma, it's likely that you struggle with using your voice.

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67 Your Story, Your Body, and Ritual Jun 22, 2020

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I am joined today by Heather Stringer, a therapist with The Counseling Collaborative. Not only does Heather take the body seriously when it comes to engaging trauma, she is also very skilled in designing rituals that facilitate healing. Today we talk about both our physical bodies and the importance of rituals.

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66 How Your Body Can Help Heal Your Trauma Part 2 Jun 08, 2020

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This is part 2 of my interview with Jenny McGrath about the importance of paying attention to the sensations in our physical bodies when it comes to healing from trauma. Some of the ground we cover includes what can be done when you can't feel the sensations in your body. We also talk about doing body work to heal the trauma stored in your body. When it comes to healing, paying attention to your body and working with your body is extremely important.

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65 How Your Body Can Help Heal Your Trauma May 25, 2020

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I'm joined today by Jenny McGrath, a therapist in Seattle who focuses on how trauma is stored in the body and how the body must be engaged in the healing of trauma. Jenny talks about how and why she began to take the body more seriously when it comes to healing. Topics covered include why our body has a fight, flight, freeze response and how to work with our nervous system to facilitate healing.

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64 Emotions: Writing Your Own Psalm May 11, 2020

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What would it look like to begin writing—and praying—your own psalms? When we are feeling big feelings, it can be very healing to put words to those feelings and then to pour the feelings out in prayer. By writing and praying your own psalms, you can facilitate integration in your brain and liberation of your heart. I've developed a guide entitled How to Write Your Own Psalm which you can access from my website.

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