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Win the Fight. Lose the Marriage: How to Stop Fighting with Your Wife — Alyson and Tripp Lanier Oct 13, 2026

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Do challenging conversations with your wife turn into long, drawn-out arguments?

Today Alyson and I discuss a simple framework for clearing up the kinds of problems that lead to nasty, draining fights. A single podcast won’t make you a pro, but our aim is to show you what’s worth working on so that you stop wasting energy fighting the same old fights.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/10/how-to-stop-fighting-with-your-wife

COACHING
- To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
- To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com

BOOK
- We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.
- Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Why Losing Your Job Feels Like Losing Yourself — Alyson and Tripp Lanier Sep 21, 2026

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Today Alyson and I dig into money, self worth, and identity. We explore what it means to be a provider, how we can become a burden to our wives, and why it can feel so personally devastating to stop earning money.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/09/losing-your-job

COACHING
- To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
- To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com

Pushing Through Resistance: What If Resistance Is Trying to Tell You Something? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier Sep 09, 2026

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Today Alyson and I explore the topic of resistance — the part of us that hits the brakes when it’s time to take action. We talk about the pressure to be our best version of ourselves and how we can learn to question what we ‘should’ do in order to find our own sense of authority.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/09/pushing-through-resistance

COACHING
- To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
- To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com

Why Trying to Have Good Sex is Killing Arousal — Alyson and Tripp Lanier Aug 25, 2026

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Today Alyson and I talk about how sex in the real world can often become awkward or mechanical. We explore why striving to meet expectations kills the mood and why amplifying desire might require you to do the exact opposite of what you think. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/08/low-arousal COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Afraid of Her Emotions: Stop Walking on Eggshells — Alyson and Tripp Lanier Aug 11, 2026

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Today Alyson and I talk about why so many guys feel powerful at work but ultimately feel like a wet noodle when they get home. We explore why someone else’s emotions have us give up our power, the reason this is a cancer to any relationship, and why any change is going to depend more on you than her. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/08/afraid-of-her-emotions COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

I Was Wrong About Masculinity: Macho Jerks and New Age Wimps — Jason Lange Jul 27, 2026

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How can you tell if you're too soft — or too domineering — as a man? Why are so many modern men afraid of their own masculinity? And how do we build a sense of purpose and belonging while knowing someone's really got our back? I asked Jason Lange to join me today to help me see what I'm missing about masculinity. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/07/modern-masculinity COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

The Problem with Trying to Fix Your Life — Alyson and Tripp Lanier Jun 30, 2026

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Today Alyson and I explore how the positive desire to fix and change can turn us into what scientists call The Personal Growth Junkie. Whether it’s fixing your marriage, optimizing your health, or dialing in your productivity we explore what’s really driving that need — and what it might be costing you. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/06/fix-your-life COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Why a Sense of Humor Makes You Stronger — Alyson and Tripp Lanier Jun 16, 2026

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Whether it’s urinating yourself in public, surviving horrendous gas during a date, or just having spinach in your teeth during a zoom call, today Alyson and I share some true, embarrassing stories. We explore the importance of laughing at ourselves, how humor is a love language, and why our sense of humor tells us how tough we really are.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/06/humor-makes-you-stronger

COACHING
- To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
- To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com

Are Men Intimidated by Successful Women? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier Jun 03, 2026

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Alyson and I dig into the notion that being a successful woman is unattractive to quality men. We talk about why the drive that gets professional results can unintentionally kill attraction, the role of armoring, and why creating connection is just another skill to learn.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/06/men-successful-women

COACHING
- To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
- To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com

David Deida and The Man of Zero May 13, 2026

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David Deida discusses how The Man of Zero differs from The Superior Man, why there’s more to life than purpose, and how meaningless is the doorway to something truly fulfilling.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/05/david-deida-man-of-zero

COACHING
- To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
- To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com

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