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**The Modern Therapist’s Survival Guide with Curt Widhalm and Katie Vernoy**

The Modern Therapist’s Survival Guide: Where Therapists Live, Breathe, and Practice as Human Beings It’s time to reimagine therapy and what it means to be a therapist. We are human beings who can now present ourselves as whole people, with authenticity, purpose, and connection. Especially now, when clinicians must develop a personal brand to market their private practices, and are connecting over social media, engaging in social activism, pushing back against mental health stigma, and facing a whole new style of entrepreneurship. To support you as a whole person, a business owner, and a therapist, your hosts, Curt Widhalm and Katie Vernoy talk about how to approach the role of therapist in the modern age.

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When Your Client Dies By Suicide: An interview with Dr. Nina Gutin Mar 17, 2025

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When Your Client Dies By Suicide: An interview with Dr. Nina Gutin

Curt and Katie chat with Nina J. Gutin, Ph.D. about to discuss the emotional, professional, and systemic impact of client suicide on clinicians. We break down the common reactions of guilt and blame, highlight the importance of postvention support, and explore strategies to navigate grief and maintain clinical confidence.

Transcripts for this episode will be available at mtsgpodcast.com!

In this podcast episode, we talk about the impact of client suicide on clinicians

Losing a client to suicide is a devastating and often isolating experience for mental health professionals. We asked suicide expert, Dr. Nina Gutin to join us to talk about how therapists can take care of themselves when they have a client die by suicide.

What do therapists need to know about client suicide and its impact on clinicians?

The stigma and self-blame clinicians often experience after losing a client.
The importance of using “died by suicide” instead of stigmatizing language.
Statistics on clinician loss: One in five mental health professionals—and up to one in two psychiatrists—will experience a client suicide.
The need for postvention protocols and structured support in mental health workplaces.
How reducing caseloads and fostering support networks can help mitigate the long-term professional impact.

Processing Guilt and Self-Blame After a Client Suicide

How hindsight bias can make clinicians feel responsible for a client’s death.
Shifting from guilt to remorse or regret as a healthier perspective.
The fear of legal repercussions and how to navigate it after a client suicide.
Best practices for reaching out to a client’s family with compassion and professionalism.

The Professional and Emotional Toll of Client Suicide on Therapists

How losing a client to suicide can shake a clinician’s confidence and clinical identity.
The importance of workplace support and structured postvention after a client death.
Why systemic change is necessary to ensure therapists receive the help they need.

Resources and Support for Clinicians

The Coalition of Clinician Survivors – A support network offering:
A listserv for peer support.
A bibliography of research and clinical resources.
Postvention protocols to guide clinicians and organizations.
Dr. Nina Gutin’s email – For clinicians seeking consultation (nguten@earthlink.net).

Breaking the Stigma and Advocating for Systemic Support

How the stigma around suicide impacts both clients and clinicians.
The need for better suicide prevention and postvention training in clinical programs.
How organizations can prepare for and respond to client suicides to support their clinicians effectively.

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Stop Wasting Your Time on Awareness Campaigns Mar 10, 2025

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Stop Wasting Your Time on Awareness Campaigns

Curt and Katie chat about the limitations of performative awareness campaigns and the need for action-oriented advocacy. Inspired by the article Stop Raising Awareness Already by Ann Christiano and Annie Niemand, they critique viral campaigns like Kony 2012 and the CDC’s zombie apocalypse campaign, highlighting the importance of targeting the right audiences, crafting compelling messages, and developing a theory of change.

Transcripts for this episode will be available at mtsgpodcast.com!

In this podcast episode we talk about the limitations of awareness campaigns

Curt and Katie talk about what to do instead of focusing precious time, energy, and resources on advocacy that is solely about awareness. We look at what has worked in the past and how to implement that now.

Why Awareness Alone Isn’t Enough

Performative awareness (social media posts, profile filters) often doesn’t lead to real change.
Examples of failed awareness campaigns:
Kony 2012: Viral but lacked sustainable action.
CDC’s zombie apocalypse: Popular but ineffective at promoting emergency preparedness.
HPV vaccine campaign: Faced backlash due to misinterpretation of its message.
Some awareness efforts even create harmful counter-movements (e.g., “All Lives Matter” in response to BLM).

The Importance of Targeted Advocacy

Broad awareness campaigns often miss key decision-makers—advocacy should focus on specific audiences.
Examples of effective advocacy efforts:
Lobbying for minors' rights to amend therapy records.
Medicare reform efforts for mental health providers.
California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT) educating legislators about MFTs.

Developing a Theory of Change

Advocacy needs clear goals and strategic planning.
The story of Rosa Parks demonstrates effective timing and targeting in advocacy.
Successful campaigns require repetition, patience, and clear calls to action.

Practical Steps for Effective Advocacy:

· Move beyond awareness—advocate for policy changes, funding, and direct action.

· Target specific audiences (lawmakers, healthcare providers, educators).

· Craft messages that resonate—ensure they lead to measurable change.

· Develop a theory of change—plan advocacy efforts with long-term impact in mind.

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MFTs Providing Therapy Across State Lines Through License Portability in the United States: An interview with Roger Smith Mar 03, 2025

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MFTs Providing Therapy Across State Lines Through License Portability in the United States: An interview with Roger Smith

Curt and Katie chat with Roger Smith, Chief Advocacy Officer and General Counsel for American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists, about the challenges and progress in licensure portability for Marriage and Family Therapists (MFTs). He explains why AAMFT opted for an endorsement model over interstate compacts, the success of the Access MFTs initiative, and what’s next for portability efforts in 2025.

Transcripts for this episode will be available at mtsgpodcast.com!

In this podcast episode, we talk with Roger Smith about LMFT License Portability

As more and more therapy is happening online, therapists have an opportunity to work with clients from all over the world. In the United States, there have been efforts by social workers, mental health counselors, and psychologists to create inter-state compacts to help regulate these therapists (and provide opportunities to deliver care legally in other states). Marriage and Family Therapists have been left behind and are now seeking a different path (reciprocity or portability) due to the unique characteristics of the LMFT profession. We reached out to Roger Smith of AAMFT to help us understand why this decision was made as well as what it means for MFTs.

Why AAMFT Chose the Endorsement Model Over Compacts

· Interstate compacts were considered but ultimately deemed too costly and unsustainable.

· Large states like California and New York have not adopted ANY healthcare compacts, limiting effectiveness.

· Endorsement model: Allows MFTs to practice in other states if they hold an unencumbered license—without having to meet initial requirements again.

Success of the "Access MFTs" Model

· In 2024, 7 out of 10 targeted states passed the Access MFTs model law.

· States that adopted the model include Arizona, Georgia, Illinois, Iowa, Maryland, Tennessee, and Virginia.

· Efforts continue in Kentucky and North Carolina for 2025.

Future of MFT Portability & Barriers

California is not pursuing portability legislation but is working with CAMFT on national exam advocacy.
Exam requirements can be a barrier to full portability.
Expansion plans focus on pro-telehealth states and underserved regions.

Member Interest & Cost Considerations for MFTs seeking to practice across state lines

A 2022 AAMFT survey showed strong member interest in portability, especially among younger therapists.
Costs are a factor—both the Access MFTs model and interstate compacts involve financial considerations for therapists.

National Licensure for therapists: Why It’s Not an Option

Licensure is a state-level issue, and federal intervention is unlikely.
A national exam or license would face constitutional challenges and resistance from state regulatory boards.

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The Advances in Artificial Intelligence for Mental Health: An interview with Dr. Alyssa Dietz Feb 24, 2025

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The Advances in Artificial Intelligence for Mental Health: An interview with Dr. Alyssa Dietz

Curt and Katie chat with Dr. Alyssa Dietz, a clinical psychologist and digital mental health expert, about the evolving role of AI in therapy. Dr. Dietz discusses how AI can enhance therapy by delivering evidence-based care, particularly in structured approaches like CBT, while acknowledging its limitations with complex, multi-diagnosis cases. She emphasizes the need for collaboration between therapists and AI developers to ensure ethical, patient-centered innovation in digital mental health.

Transcripts for this episode will be available at mtsgpodcast.com!

In this podcast episode, we talk with Dr. Alyssa Dietz about Advances in AI for Therapy

Artificial Intelligence has already come for mental healthcare. The question is, what should therapists be doing about it? We dig into what AI therapy looks like from the inside, from a clinician’s perspective.

AI’s Growing Role in Therapy

AI can enhance therapy but won’t replace human therapists soon.
AI is particularly effective in skills-based therapies like CBT.
AI currently struggles with complex diagnoses and comorbidities.
The most active users of digital mental health tools are 50-60 years old, surprising many industry experts.

How AI is Changing the Therapist’s Role

AI can automate administrative tasks and support therapists in data-driven decision-making.
Although tech and insurance folks say we can use AI to work at the "top of our license," this approach could lead to therapist burnout.
Clinicians should work alongside AI developers to ensure ethical, patient-centered care.
AI’s judgment and decision-making remain limited, requiring human oversight.

Evaluating AI’s Effectiveness & Ethical Considerations

The tension between innovation, regulation, and evaluation in AI-driven therapy.
Importance of clear safety protocols and escalation (emergency) measures for client care.
AI must be rigorously tested for safety and effectiveness.
Understanding how AI products are trained and evaluated is critical for therapists before incorporating these clinical tools into your practice.

AI and Complex Diagnoses

Current AI models struggle to address comorbidities effectively.
Need for personalization and context-driven interventions.
Future AI tools must move beyond a one-size-fits-all approach.

How Therapists Can Adapt to AI in Mental Health

Educate yourself on AI’s capabilities and limitations.
Stay informed through online courses, conferences, and tech-focused therapist groups.
Engage with organizations like the Digital Medicine Society to understand responsible AI use.
Connect with the "Therapists in Tech" Slack group to network with others in the space.

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Exploring Systemic Trauma and Relational Privilege with BIPOC and LGBTQI Couples: An interview with Akilah Riley-Richardson, MSW, CCTP Feb 17, 2025

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Exploring Systemic Trauma and Relational Privilege with BIPOC and LGBTQI Couples: An interview with Akilah Riley-Richardson

Curt and Katie chat with Akilah Riley Richardson, MSW about the challenges therapists face when working with BIPOC and LGBTQI couples. Akilah discusses the impact of systemic trauma, how it affects relationships, and the importance of creating therapeutic models tailored to marginalized communities. She introduces The PRIDE Model for therapy and The BIOME Stance for therapists, offering actionable strategies for inclusive, trauma-informed care.

Transcripts for this episode will be available at mtsgpodcast.com!

In this podcast episode, we talk with Akilah Riley-Richardson about what therapists get wrong when working with BIPOC and LGBTQI couples

Too often, couples counselors take traditional models and make slight tweaks for couples from marginalized backgrounds, with little success. Akilah Riley-Richardson has developed a stance and a new model to help support therapists in doing more effective work with these couples.

Understanding Systemic Trauma in Therapy

Defining systemic trauma: Chronic, unpredictable, and disenfranchised trauma caused by systemic forces (education, legal, and healthcare systems).
Examples of systemic trauma: Microaggressions, mispronounced names, assumptions about authority roles, and misgendering.
Effects on individuals and relationships: Reduced sense of safety, rejection sensitivity, emotional disconnect, and difficulty setting boundaries.

Challenges in Therapy with BIPOC and LGBTQI Couples

Common therapist mistakes:
Ignoring systemic realities and the impact of privilege.
Adapting existing models without acknowledging their white, cishet origins.
Failing to create trauma-informed, inclusive frameworks.
Importance of relational privilege: Self-acceptance, social acceptance, and feeling protected in relationships.

The PRIDE Model & The BIOME Stance from Akilah Riley-Richardson

PRIDE Model for Therapy:
Relational curiosity: Actively exploring the client's lived experiences.
Setting intentions: Creating space for safety and vulnerability.
Trauma work: Addressing systemic trauma's long-term impact on relationships.
BIOME Stance for Therapists:
Bravery: Facing discomfort in recognizing privilege.
Intimacy: Fostering deep emotional connections.
Openness: Being receptive to client experiences.
Micro-liberatory movements: Small but impactful actions toward social justice.
Epistemic embracing: Validating client knowledge and lived experiences.

How Therapists Can Engage Clients in Systemic Trauma Work

Transparency in therapy: Clearly communicating the goal of liberation.
Allowing resistance: Accepting client pushback as an assertion of power.
Embracing uncertainty: Being comfortable with not having all the answers.
Participating in decolonization conversations: Learning through community engagement and allyship.

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How Therapists Can Truly Help After a Disaster Feb 10, 2025

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How Therapists Can Truly Help After a Disaster

Curt and Katie chat about the impact of the recent Los Angeles wild fires on therapists, their clients, and communities. We explore the importance of self-assessment, responsible crisis response, and balancing personal care with providing support. From donating (and marketing) services ethically to understanding trauma timelines, Curt and Katie provide practical advice for therapists navigating community-wide disasters.

Transcripts for this episode will be available at mtsgpodcast.com!

In this podcast episode we talk through how therapists can help during and after crises

Curt and Katie live in Los Angeles, which was recently ravaged by wild fires. We decided it would be important to reflect on our experience and provide support to other therapists seeking ways they may be able to help their own communities.

Self-Assessment and Prioritizing Personal Care during a Natural Disaster or Community Crisis

Therapists are encouraged to assess their capacity to provide support, ensuring they do not overextend themselves during a crisis.
Curt emphasizes radical acceptance and forgiveness for cancellations or temporary service disruptions caused by disasters.
Katie highlights the importance of therapists taking care of themselves before offering services, noting the potential for long-term impacts on both providers and clients.

How to Market Therapy during a crisis without feeling like an ambulance chaser

Curt and Katie stress the importance of donating services ethically, avoiding lead generation tactics or branding during a crisis.
They discuss reviewing scheduled marketing campaigns to ensure sensitivity to the current situation.
Therapists are encouraged to work with established organizations (like the Red Cross) to maximize the impact of their efforts.
Curt and Katie discuss the risks of using disasters to build personal brands and stress focusing solely on service and support.
They suggest volunteering with experienced organizations to avoid complications and maximize resources for those in need.

Recognizing Individual Needs and Trauma Timelines for disaster survivors

Not all clients experience or process trauma in the same way; therapists must tailor their support to individual needs and stages of impact.
Curt shares insights from his experience supporting clients after the Boston Marathon bombing, emphasizing the importance of addressing varying levels of trauma severity.
Katie highlights the need for long-term care systems to address ongoing trauma responses.

How Therapists can balance Caretaking and Personal Needs during a disaster

Curt shares his experience of being overwhelmed by personal messages and work demands during the crisis.
Katie emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and giving oneself permission to focus on personal care.
Therapists are reminded that they are part of the crisis too and should ensure they meet their own needs before taking on the caretaker role.

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Helping Parents Become What They Needed as a Child: An interview with Bryana Kappadakunnel, LMFT Feb 03, 2025

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Helping Parents Become What They Needed as a Child: An interview with Bryana Kappadakunnel, LMFT

Curt and Katie chat with Bryana Kappakunnel, LMFT about conscious parenting, discussing how self-awareness, emotional regulation, and healing personal triggers can help parents foster healthier and more connected relationships with their children. With a background in infant and early childhood mental health and her upcoming book Parent Yourself First, Bryana offers valuable insights for therapists and parents alike.

Transcripts for this episode will be available at mtsgpodcast.com!

In this podcast episode, we talk with Bryana Kappadakunnel about Conscious Parenting

We invited friend of the show, Bryana Kappadakunnel, LMFT to talk about her work, including her new book, Parent Yourself First.

What is Conscious Parenting?

Conscious parenting goes beyond positive parenting by prioritizing self-awareness, personal healing, and understanding the root causes of emotional triggers.
Bryana explains how addressing parents’ unresolved issues can create a healthier environment for children, often alleviating behavioral challenges.
She highlights the importance of building authentic connections with children and fostering emotional safety through open communication and modeling accountability.

Common Pushback and Misconceptions for Conscious Parenting

Bryana addresses resistance from parents who view traditional parenting as the norm or feel threatened by relational approaches.
She clarifies that conscious parenting is not permissive but a balanced, authoritative style that combines high warmth, nurturance, structure, and boundaries.
Bryana emphasizes the need to manage stress and prevent burnout by helping parents regulate their own emotions before addressing their children’s behavior.

How to Help Parents Navigate Challenging Parenting Scenarios

When parents feel disrespected by their children, Bryana advises focusing on their own emotional reactions and understanding the child’s behavior as a form of communication.
She stresses the importance of setting consistent boundaries while staying attuned to the child’s perspective.
Bryana shares her own practice of apologizing to her children when she makes mistakes, modeling accountability and respect in the parent-child relationship.

How Conscious Parenting Helps Kids

During the pandemic, Bryana shifted her focus to working with parents directly, leading to significant improvements in family dynamics in shorter timeframes.
Her work underscores the importance of addressing systemic and relational patterns within families rather than focusing solely on child behavior.
Bryana highlights the benefits of her approach, including better communication, a deeper sense of connection, and raising compassionate, empathetic, and confident children.

Bryana’s Online Presence and Upcoming Book

Bryana creates content tailored to the needs of parents and her clients, sharing bite-sized videos that inspire reflection and change.
Bryana talks about her decisions on what to post as a licensed therapist with a big following on social media platforms
She discusses her book, Parent Yourself First, which helps parents heal their own wounds to raise resilient and empathetic children.
The book focuses on empowering parents to become the caregivers they wished they had, fostering healthier and more connected family systems.

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Identifying the Graduate Program for the Career You Want – Special Series Becoming a Therapist: An interview with Eden Lathem Jan 30, 2025

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Identifying the Graduate Program for the Career You Want – Special Series Becoming a Therapist: An interview with Eden Lathem

In this new series, Curt and Katie interview graduate students and will follow them on their journey to becoming a therapist. Our final interview is with Eden Lathem, a second-year Marriage and Family Therapy (MFT) student at Lipscomb University in Nashville, Tennessee. Eden shares her path from working in prison education and with individuals with disabilities to finding her passion for systemic thinking and family therapy. She candidly discusses the challenges of grad school, balancing internships, and navigating financial constraints while exploring her future career aspirations. She also talks through how she did due diligence to find the “right” graduate program.

Transcripts for this episode will be available at mtsgpodcast.com!

In this podcast episode, we meet Eden Lathem, an aspiring therapist

We continue our new series on becoming a therapist, with Eden Lathem, who is a first career professional who has done a lot of due diligence and strategic thinking to plan her trajectory as a therapist and professional.

Eden’s Background and Path to Therapy

Eden shares how her experiences in prison education and working with individuals with disabilities shaped her desire to support families and underserved populations.
Initially hesitant about becoming a therapist, Eden found her passion for MFT through her commitment to systemic thinking and helping others.
She highlights the unique role of MFT in addressing the needs of families with disabled members, a demographic often overlooked.

Grad School Expectations vs. Reality

Eden discusses her experience in an in-person, cohort-style program that meets weekly.
She was surprised by the program’s emphasis on self-awareness and the “self of the therapist” work, which has become a significant focus.
While expecting more hands-on training, she found the program leaned heavily on didactic learning with limited opportunities for shadowing and hands-on therapy practice.

Balancing Dual Internships and Financial Challenges

Eden balances two internships: a paid position at a family therapy center and an unpaid internship, navigating the complexities of these experiences.
She shares the financial struggles of grad school, reflecting on the challenges of unpaid internships and the economic realities of the helping professions.
Eden highlights the need for strategic financial planning and managing responsibilities while pursuing a meaningful career.

Advice for Prospective Therapy Students

Eden encourages prospective students to thoroughly research programs by talking to professors and alumni.
She stresses the importance of aligning program values with personal goals and considering the broader implications of the chosen education.
Her advice emphasizes due diligence in selecting a program that supports future career aspirations.

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Becoming a Therapist as a First Generation Immigrant – Special Series Becoming a Therapist: An interview with Marvin Vasquez Jan 27, 2025

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Becoming a Therapist as a First Generation Immigrant – Special Series Becoming a Therapist: An interview with Marvin Vasquez

In this new series, Curt and Katie interview graduate students and will follow them on their journey to becoming a therapist. Our third interview is with Marvin Vasquez, a first-year Marriage and Family Therapy (MFT) student at California State University, Northridge (CSUN), which is an all in-person program. Marvin shares his journey into therapy, shaped by his immigrant background and personal struggles, as well as his passion for serving underserved communities. He opens up about the unexpected sense of community within his cohort, the financial challenges of grad school, and his concerns about the future of therapy in an increasingly technological world.

Transcripts for this episode will be available at mtsgpodcast.com!

In this podcast episode, we meet Marvin Vasquez, an aspiring therapist

We continue our new series on becoming a therapist, with Marvin Vasquez.

Marvin’s Background and Motivation for Becoming a Therapist

Marvin reflects on his upbringing in a large immigrant family and how his experiences inspired his desire to help others.
He explains how his personal struggles and a passion for underserved communities led him to pursue a career in therapy.
His goal is to use his background and understanding to make therapy more accessible and impactful for marginalized groups.

The First Semester of his MFT Program: Expectations vs. Reality

Marvin discusses his expectations of a theory-heavy and clinical program, contrasting it with the surprising sense of community within his cohort.
He highlights the supportive environment, where vulnerability and shared resilience among students foster personal and professional growth.
Marvin appreciates the program’s emphasis on creating a safe space for learning and self-awareness.

Community and Support in an In-Person Therapy Grad School

Marvin contrasts his undergrad experience, which lacked connection, with his current program's close-knit and empathetic cohort.
The program’s in-person setup has created a unique intensity and camaraderie among students, helping Marvin grow as both a person and a therapist.
He emphasizes the importance of authenticity and vulnerability in building strong connections within the cohort.

Navigating Family Dynamics and Self-Awareness

Marvin shares how the program has deepened his empathy for his parents, particularly their struggles as first-generation immigrants.
He reflects on how their survival strategies shaped his upbringing and his understanding of family dynamics.
The program has helped Marvin foster greater authenticity and emotional awareness in both his personal and professional life.

Balancing Academics, Work, and Relationships during his MFT Masters Program

Marvin explains the challenges of balancing his academic workload, job responsibilities, and personal relationships.
He discusses the financial stress of grad school, including student loans, and the sacrifices involved in pursuing his degree.
Marvin acknowledges the importance of maintaining connections with friends and family to avoid burnout and maintain a healthy work-life balance.

Financial Concerns and Career Aspirations as an MFT

Marvin shares his worries about student debt and the economic realities of being a therapist.
He expresses gratitude for his supportive employer, who provides flexibility to balance work and school.
Marvin is exploring career options, including the importance of finding fieldwork opportunities that align with his values and schedule.

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Finding Alignment in a Second Career – Special Series Becoming a Therapist: An interview with Iris Wilson-Farley Jan 23, 2025

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Finding Alignment in a Second Career – Special Series Becoming a Therapist: An interview with Iris Wilson-Farley

In this new series, Curt and Katie interview graduate students and will follow them on their journey to becoming a therapist. Our second interview is with Iris Wilson-Farley, a 54-year-old trans woman and graduate student pursuing her Master’s in Clinical Mental Health Counseling at the Chicago School of Professional Psychology. Iris shares her journey moving from a 32-year corporate career to becoming a therapist, her passion for working with the LGBTQ+ community, and her reflections on safety, technology, and additional training opportunities.

Transcripts for this episode will be available at mtsgpodcast.com!

In this podcast episode, we meet Iris Wilson-Farley, an aspiring therapist

We continue our new series on becoming a therapist, with Iris Wilson-Farley, who in her process of self-discovery realized that her career was misaligned. She is now pursuing a degree in counseling.

The motivation to transition careers from HR to Therapy

Iris shares how her personal journey as a transgender woman and her positive counseling experiences inspired her to pursue a more meaningful career in therapy, focusing on giving back to the LGBTQ+ community, particularly older adults.

The challenges and surprises in an online graduate program for therapists

Iris discusses the challenges of adjusting to an asynchronous online program, balancing studies with her HR job, and the valuable multicultural and social justice emphasis in her curriculum.

The perspective gained from entering therapy grad school as a second career clinician

She highlights the wisdom, emotional intelligence, and lived experiences she brings as a second-career student, including her unique insights from being a client herself.

Discussing safety concerns and multicultural awareness in the mental health profession

Iris reflects on addressing safety concerns as a trans therapist, particularly in the face of potential discrimination, and shares her commitment to finding a supportive and affirming work environment.

How is AI and technology addressed in therapist graduate school?

Drawing from her corporate experience, Iris explores the integration of technology and AI in therapy, advocating for its potential to enhance the field while emphasizing the need for ethical considerations.

What additional training can be helpful when starting out as a therapist?

Iris expresses interest in pursuing additional certifications in sex therapy and religious trauma to better serve the LGBTQ+ community and address gaps in her training.

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When Your Client Dies By Suicide: An interview with Dr. Nina Gutin

In this podcast episode, we talk about the impact of client suicide on clinicians

What do therapists need to know about client suicide and its impact on clinicians?

Processing Guilt and Self-Blame After a Client Suicide

The Professional and Emotional Toll of Client Suicide on Therapists

Resources and Support for Clinicians

Breaking the Stigma and Advocating for Systemic Support

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Stop Wasting Your Time on Awareness Campaigns

In this podcast episode we talk about the limitations of awareness campaigns

Why Awareness Alone Isn’t Enough

The Importance of Targeted Advocacy

Developing a Theory of Change

Practical Steps for Effective Advocacy:

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MFTs Providing Therapy Across State Lines Through License Portability in the United States: An interview with Roger Smith

In this podcast episode, we talk with Roger Smith about LMFT License Portability

Why AAMFT Chose the Endorsement Model Over Compacts

Success of the "Access MFTs" Model

Future of MFT Portability & Barriers

Member Interest & Cost Considerations for MFTs seeking to practice across state lines

National Licensure for therapists: Why It’s Not an Option

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The Advances in Artificial Intelligence for Mental Health: An interview with Dr. Alyssa Dietz

In this podcast episode, we talk with Dr. Alyssa Dietz about Advances in AI for Therapy

AI’s Growing Role in Therapy

How AI is Changing the Therapist’s Role

Evaluating AI’s Effectiveness & Ethical Considerations

AI and Complex Diagnoses

How Therapists Can Adapt to AI in Mental Health

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Exploring Systemic Trauma and Relational Privilege with BIPOC and LGBTQI Couples: An interview with Akilah Riley-Richardson

In this podcast episode, we talk with Akilah Riley-Richardson about what therapists get wrong when working with BIPOC and LGBTQI couples

Understanding Systemic Trauma in Therapy

Challenges in Therapy with BIPOC and LGBTQI Couples

The PRIDE Model & The BIOME Stance from Akilah Riley-Richardson

How Therapists Can Engage Clients in Systemic Trauma Work

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How Therapists Can Truly Help After a Disaster

In this podcast episode we talk through how therapists can help during and after crises

Self-Assessment and Prioritizing Personal Care during a Natural Disaster or Community Crisis

How to Market Therapy during a crisis without feeling like an ambulance chaser

Recognizing Individual Needs and Trauma Timelines for disaster survivors

How Therapists can balance Caretaking and Personal Needs during a disaster

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Helping Parents Become What They Needed as a Child: An interview with Bryana Kappadakunnel, LMFT

In this podcast episode, we talk with Bryana Kappadakunnel about Conscious Parenting

What is Conscious Parenting?

Common Pushback and Misconceptions for Conscious Parenting

How to Help Parents Navigate Challenging Parenting Scenarios

How Conscious Parenting Helps Kids

Bryana’s Online Presence and Upcoming Book

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Identifying the Graduate Program for the Career You Want – Special Series Becoming a Therapist: An interview with Eden Lathem

In this podcast episode, we meet Eden Lathem, an aspiring therapist

Eden’s Background and Path to Therapy

Grad School Expectations vs. Reality

Balancing Dual Internships and Financial Challenges

Advice for Prospective Therapy Students

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Becoming a Therapist as a First Generation Immigrant – Special Series Becoming a Therapist: An interview with Marvin Vasquez

In this podcast episode, we meet Marvin Vasquez, an aspiring therapist

Marvin’s Background and Motivation for Becoming a Therapist

The First Semester of his MFT Program: Expectations vs. Reality

Community and Support in an In-Person Therapy Grad School

Navigating Family Dynamics and Self-Awareness

Balancing Academics, Work, and Relationships during his MFT Masters Program

Financial Concerns and Career Aspirations as an MFT