The Jayson Gaddis Podcast

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SC 48 - Men And Their Relationship Issues Apr 26, 2016

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In this short episode, I cover why men are so locked up relationally and 3 steps to help a guy transform this so that, you both can have a great relationship.

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What is at the core of men’s challenges in modern day. [3:20]
Some of the big pain points for men in relationships. [4:45]
What is the “boy code”? [5:15]
How Jayson struggled in relationships. [6:30]
Do men really know how to listen? [8:15]
Why shouldn’t believe when your man says he’s just “in a bad mood.” [12:00]
The missing step after getting good feedback. [15:05]
Jayson’s challenge to the men. [17:40]

SC 47 - Powerful Sex Practices with Layla Martin Apr 20, 2016

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In this episode I talk with Layla Martin, a zany and wise, sex teacher who will remind you of your brilliance in the bedroom. From handjobs to female self-pleasure practices, this one is full of powerful sex practices for a couple ready to deepen their sex life.

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What happened in Layla’s childhood that started her path to helping people improve their sex lives? [5:30]
Layla shares the biggest struggle and opportunity she sees in couples regarding sexuality. [10:40]
What do women and men each struggle the most with sexually? [12:00]
A simple exercise a woman can do to improve her sexual experience? [20:10]
A simple three-part exercise to do after sex that will deepen your sexual connection [26:15]
What to do when a woman has a stronger sex drive than her partner. [32:35]
How to respond when a guy loses his erection? [33:15]
Should a woman have sex even if she’s not wanting to? [34:05]
Layla explains one practice to transform a woman’s orgasms and sex life. [36:40]
Layla’s take on threesomes and polyamory. [37:15]

SC 46 - Want A Peaceful Relationship? Learn This Apr 13, 2016

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In this episode I give you 3 steps toward a more peaceful relationship. And, when I talk about peace in a relationship, it isn’t the BS fantasy most people think of. Check it out.

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Why everyone is dumb in some area of our lives. [4:00]
How can we just “all get a long”? [5:01]
Your two choices when uncomfortable stuff comes up? [10:24]
The number one reason people get a divorce [13:37]
Powerful 3-step process to resolve dumb fights [16:00]

SC 45 - One Key To Get The Best Out Of Your Partner with Alison Armstrong - Apr 06, 2016

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In this episode I talk with Alison Armstrong about some major differences between men and women and how to use them to your advantage in your relationship. While I get that the labels of masculine and feminine or man/woman can be incredibly narrow, they are very effective for teaching basic relationship principles. Notice how Alison does this with some age old “labels” to help you see where you naturally orient and where your partner does. Also, notice when and where you feel you are at your “best” in your relationship. Check it!

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What caused Alison to become hungry to learn about men? [5:30]
Why do woman throw their husbands under the bus? [9:50]
The metaphor that helps explain why men and women see each other so differently. [12:05]
What one factor determines when a man or woman will act at his or her best. [16:30]
The best time to talk about a challenge in your relationship. [17:45]
How being more accurate about time can help women connect better with their man. [24:05]
The ideal perspective to thrive in changing life circumstances. [26:15]
The missing piece that women don’t get about a partner who is on his purpose. [32:45]
What is a “no-blow” date. [35:00]

SC 44 - Long-Distance Relationships, Entitlement & Sex, Blended Families, Winning Him Back, & Much More Mar 31, 2016

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In this episode I answer listeners’ questions on long-distance relationships, how to win him back, entitlement and sex, blended families, divorce, and much more. It’s a shorty but a goodie.

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What does an over-supportive relationship look like? [2:30]
What does it mean when a man says he “needs a break” from the relationship? [4:15]
How to win back a guy? [6:14]
What’s the best way to break through your triggers? [7:43]
How to make a 2nd or 3rd marriage work out? [9:07]
What to do when your partner only feels criticized? [11:33]
How to deal with a man who feels sexually entitled? [13:20]
What is the viability of long-distance relationships? [15:28]
Jayson’s one-question challenge to listeners [18:17]

SC 43 - Revolutionary Sex for Men with Alex Allman Mar 28, 2016

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In this juicy episode I talk with Alex Allman about men, orgasms and sex. Giving her an orgasm isn’t what you think. Alex helps us get more honest and more present with our sex lives and how crucial it is to have other men in your life to bust your balls when you need it. While this episode is for the men, if you are a woman, I know you’ll appreciate how our guest is trying to help the men dance with you in the bedroom.

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How Alex’s childhood impacted his view of masculinity [5:50]
The two types of change [11:10]
Why being beautiful and successful early on makes change harder [12:45]
What happened when Alex was 39 that forever woke him up. [17:55]
Why only loving your partner for their positive traits will make you disappointed. [23:30]
The most important thing for a man to get that is so simple yet so complicated. [32:15]
How the “doting husband” can be sexually repulsive. [34:15]
What to do when you have erection troubles in the bedroom. [43:00]

SC 42 - The Definition of True Love Mar 23, 2016

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Love. This word is one of the most commonly misunderstood words in the English language. In this podcast I give my definition of what true love really is. Here I cover the 3 stages of love in a relationship. Before age 30, I never got past stage 1. I think by looking at your own experience you too, will see that it’s time to update your definition of love.

SHOWNOTES

The difference between love and infatuation. [3:30]
The truth about love songs on the radio. [5:45]
What are the three stages of love? [6:37]
The huge gifts and power in a long-term relationship. [10:50]
Two action steps to get started today [12:40]

SC 41 - Boundaries Part 2 -Relationship Tool Mar 16, 2016

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Here I cover 2 types of boundaries. Both are important to learn and practice on a regular basis in your relationship. I also build upon last week’s episode (with Lisa Dion jaysongaddis.com/podcast40). Boundaries separate the classic co-dependent couple from the the smart couple and believe it or not, generate a more fulfilling type of closeness.

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The childhood dynamic that affects our relationships today. [3:27]
One powerful reality-check question to ask yourself. [5:34]
An example of when betraying yourself hurts both you and the relationship. [7:45]
The two types of boundaries [11:05]
How boundaries help weed out people in your life that aren’t a fit for the real you. [12:30]

SC 40 - Boundaries: Relationship Tool With Lisa Dion Mar 11, 2016

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Boundaries are by far one of the most important tools in intimate relationships. How much do you struggle to say no says a lot about how much you value yourself. You must get boundaries if you want to go the distance in a relationship.

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The huge breakthrough insight about boundaries that Lisa shared with Jayson [5:13]
The four things our brain is always scanning for to determine there is a threat or challenge [7:24]
What is Lisa’s definition of a boundary? [13:20]
Jayson and Lisa demonstrate how to set a boundary [16:33]
The big fear we all carry in ourselves [20:05]
The weakness many of us have in receiving a boundary request [22:02]
What are the most common feedback signs our body tells us? [25:50]
The three types of boundaries [30:56]
Jayson issues a boundary challenge [43:04]

SC 39 - Why You Need To Earn Love Every Day Mar 09, 2016

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Is love earned or given to you? In this podcast, I explore what happens when people say “Can’t you just love me as I am?” and then hope for a great relationship. And I also talk about the best practice to do every day if you want a thriving relationship that works, not just one you stumble through.

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