The Confidence Chronicles

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Why are you seeking validation? Sep 14, 2020

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For whatever reason, we may have something happen to us in our past (most likely our childhood or adolescence) that has us seeking validation or acknowledgement from others in some form.The overachiever/workaholic who’s constantly trying to prove to someone that they’re good enough (that’s def been me)The self-conscious woman who obsesses about her body image and how she needs to look externally (that’s also been me)The workaholic who hustles their face off trying to be the most successful they’ve ever been, make the most money they’ve ever made so that they can finally get the approval from society, their parents, ex bullies etc ... (been there too!)The list goes on and on.You finally reach a point where you realise that you don’t need validation or acknowledgement from anyone else but yourselfThis is when you gain your freedom to just BE who it is you want to be.This obviously requires deep excavation of the self and a commitment to letting go of the thoughts, beliefs and things that no longer serve your growthLinks We Mentioned:Power Couples MasterclassConnect with Hamish:Join his free meditation courseInstagram: @manfulnessmenConnect with Erika:GRAB MY FREEBIE - What It Really Takes To Change Your LifeInstagram: @thequeenofconfidenceFacebook: @TheconfidencequeenYouTube: The Queen Of ConfidenceLinkedIn: https://au.linkedin.com/in/erika-cramer-ab695571Sistahood Program: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/sistahood/Website: www.thequeenofconfidence.comWAYS TO WORK WITH ME:Join my online coaching program for women – the SistahoodLearn how to Conquer Social Media through my new Confidently Conquering Social Media Course

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Are you jealous? Sep 07, 2020

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I have been in some terrible relationships y'all. If you've been following me for awhile, you'll know the kind of men I used to date and the way I allowed them to treat me. I was jealous of other women, jealous of what they had and I felt like I could never have that. But after years of working on myself and marrying the most wonderful, respectful man, I thought I was past all of that jealous bullshit. But something came up for me recently that was unexpected.I was on Hamish's phone on the explore section of his Instagram and there were all of these hot women in workout gear popping up. I know that the explore section fills with what you search for - it's all algorithms, so I was confused. I immediately started thinking that Hamish mustn't like my body, that he's looking at fit women because I'm not fit enough, that he doesn't want to have sex with me...all these things that deep down I know aren't true.So I confronted him about it. I asked him straight up why there were all these women on his feed and he told me honestly what was going on. It wasn't that he had been looking at women, that he didn't appreciate my body - he tells me all the time how sexy I am. It wasn't anything like that. He was just looking at fitness clothing.I had made up this story in my head about what Hamish was doing and it all stemmed from what I had dealt with in the past. If you're jealous or comparing yourself to other women, get excited about that. It means you can work on it. You can heal that and change your story. The three questions I asked in this episode are:What actually happened?What did I make it mean?What else could it mean? (this is the game-changer)Connect with Erika:Instagram: @thequeenofconfidenceFacebook: @TheconfidencequeenYouTube: The Queen Of ConfidenceLinkedIn: https://au.linkedin.com/in/erika-cramer-ab695571Sistahood Program: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/sistahood/Website: www.thequeenofconfidence.comWAYS TO WORK WITH ME:Join my online coaching program for women – the SistahoodLearn how to Conquer Social Media through my new Confidently Conquering Social Media Course

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What to do if you lost your job during COVID Aug 31, 2020

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If you’re out there going through some trouble regarding work during this long ass pandemic that’s just never-ending it seems, this is an episode that you’ll want to tune into.So many businesses have been forced to close and many jobs have been lost. If you are someone that has lost their job, I feel for you and I want to arm you with some steps that you can take to turn your situation around.Firstly, you got to get your money sorted right? Whatever it takes. Apply for welfare, jobseeker, jobkeeper and any government funding you can. There’s also small business grants and other grants that you can look into. Otherwise, if you’re not able to pay your bills you might need to get a non-sexy job that gets you over the line for now. Work at a gas station, look for freelance work online, get onto Fiverr - whatever it takes to get your money sorted. Then you need to get out of the headspace of “I can’t”. This is a very easy place for your mind to live right now. I can’t work, I can’t exercise the way I’d like to, I can’t leave my house. Although these may be true for you, it’s not healthy to live in that mind. Instead, focus on what you CAN do. You can rejig your resume, you can get a job you don’t love for right now, you can spend more time with your kids. You can really think about where your life was heading, and where you need to pivot. I’ve got a lot of tips to share with you today and I hope it helps you feel armed with some positive action.Connect with Erika:Instagram: @thequeenofconfidenceFacebook: @TheconfidencequeenYouTube: The Queen Of ConfidenceLinkedIn: https://au.linkedin.com/in/erika-cramer-ab695571Sistahood Program: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/sistahood/Website: www.thequeenofconfidence.comWAYS TO WORK WITH ME:Join my online coaching program for women – the SistahoodLearn how to Conquer Social Media through my new Confidently Conquering Social Media Course

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Healing is not linear Aug 31, 2020

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I'm writing my first book right now and the journey I am on with this is incredible. I am going deep into my childhood to try and understand the timelines of so many things that I can't really remember. I didn't initially think I would be including a lot of my story in this book but I'm realising how important it is to share as much as I can.As I've gone back through the memories that I have of my childhood, I've been realising how much is missing. I don't know timelines, I don't know ages and I really wanted to do some digging to see if I could join some of the dots for my book.So I started Googling the social worker I had as a child. I remembered her first name and where I was during that time, but that's about it. Sure enough, her name came up and the minute I saw her last name, so many emotions came flooding in.This social worker still works in the same place. I was able to contact her and leave a voicemail. It was incredible. Again, as I heard her voice on her voicemail more emotions came flooding in. I sobbed and sobbed after I left her a message.I didn't expect her to remember me. I didn't expect her to email me back, but she did. And again, a flood of emotions washed over me.So I wanted to share this with you today to let you know that healing is not linear. I have done years and years of work on myself and I have processed so much trauma. I have a wonderful life, a gorgeous family and everything I need. But it doesn't mean that my healing journey is over. The journey will never e over. There will always be things to work through, emotions to process and that is okay.Allow yourself to feel your feelings and know that you will work through them.Connect with Erika:Instagram: @thequeenofconfidenceFacebook: @TheconfidencequeenYouTube: The Queen Of ConfidenceLinkedIn: https://au.linkedin.com/in/erika-cramer-ab695571Sistahood Program: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/sistahood/Website: www.thequeenofconfidence.comWAYS TO WORK WITH ME:Join my online coaching program for women – the SistahoodLearn how to Conquer Social Media through my new Confidently Conquering Social Media Course

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Slaying Social Media with Emily Osmond – Biz Series Aug 24, 2020

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I’ve got a Biz Series podcast coming at you today and I’m so excited to introduce you to my guest, Emily Osmond. She helps women market themselves authentically online and runs two amazing online courses with hundreds of members all around the world. Emily loves helping women build businesses, feel comfortable selling on their social media platforms, and doing it all in a really authentic way. She is all about connection over perfection and I enjoyed our conversation so much.Not only does Emily talk about her journey to becoming a marketing educator, but also her struggles with imposter syndrome and finding her feet in business. So much of what we spoke about will really resonate with you whether you’re new to business or you’ve been at it for awhile and you need some fresh ideas.Connect with Emily:Instagram: @emilyosmond/Website: https://www.emilyosmond.com/Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com.au/emilyosmond/Modern Marketing Collective ProgramScalable Program - How To Build Your Own Online CourseEmily's Instagram Stories ChallengeConnect with Erika:Instagram: @thequeenofconfidenceFacebook: @TheconfidencequeenYouTube: The Queen Of ConfidenceLinkedIn: https://au.linkedin.com/in/erika-cramer-ab695571Sistahood Program: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/sistahood/Website: www.thequeenofconfidence.comWAYS TO WORK WITH ME:Join my online coaching program for women – the SistahoodLearn how to Conquer Social Media through my new Confidently Conquering Social Media Course

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How to coach yourself Aug 21, 2020

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I've been thinking about what you really need right now, and my love you need to know how to coach yourself. I coach myself all the time, and it is so powerful. So, I'm laying it out for you today in the form of 7 steps and I've got a funky-ass cheat sheet for you in these show notes too below.I want you to print out this cheat sheet, or save it to your phone so that you always have access to it, because it's great to listen to this episode and get the tips, but if you don't remember and take the action, then nothing is going to change. You won't get the result. I want you to know what people that are successful in their lives do in order to keep their mind right. We all struggle. We all fall down. It's about learning how to deal with what you've got going on and bounce back.Download your cheat sheet HEREConnect with Erika:Instagram: @thequeenofconfidenceFacebook: @TheconfidencequeenYouTube: The Queen Of ConfidenceLinkedIn: https://au.linkedin.com/in/erika-cramer-ab695571Sistahood Program: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/sistahood/Website: www.thequeenofconfidence.comWAYS TO WORK WITH ME:Join my online coaching program for women – the SistahoodLearn how to Conquer Social Media through my new Confidently Conquering Social Media Course

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My Journey – Becoming a transgender man with Riley Kelso Aug 19, 2020

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Today is a very, very special episode. As you know, I like to share the stories of my students in the Sistahood. Well, this particular student is going through quite a remarkable journey and was eager to share it with you all. Riley started his journey as a woman, and is now going through the experience of transitioning into a transgender man. He joined the Sistahood and has been doing such incredible work on himself. I've found him to be so inspiring, so honest and so willing to be vulnerable. His journey has been difficult and I want to acknowledge him for really doing the work and seeing the results.As you'll hear Riley speak about, since joining the Sistahood he has experienced a community connection and safe space to be able to share his feelings, develop self confidence and drastically improve his self confidence. I am so honoured and excited to be sharing this very special conversation with you today.Connect with Riley:Instagram: @love.fromrileyEmail: rileykelso@hotmail.comGo fund me: https://gf.me/u/x4wa9rConnect with Erika:Instagram: @thequeenofconfidenceFacebook: @TheconfidencequeenYouTube: The Queen Of ConfidenceLinkedIn: https://au.linkedin.com/in/erika-cramer-ab695571Sistahood Program: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/sistahood/Website: www.thequeenofconfidence.comWAYS TO WORK WITH ERIKA:Join my online coaching program for women – the Sistahood Learn how to Conquer Social Media through my new Confidently Conquering Social Media Course

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Girl, we got this with Laticia Rolle Aug 17, 2020

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Ladies, I cannot wait for you to hear this episode and to soak up all the goodness. I am so happy to introduce you to my girl, Laticia Rolle. This woman is all about empowering other women through connection and giving them a voice. She has her own podcast, "Girl, We Got This" where she interviews incredible women and spreads the message that we're not alone. We're all connected. We can all be empowered and live the lives that we want to live. Laticia is the most sexy ass human on the planet. She's a model, an actress, she has a company that makes hats for curly hair called Tress and she's just an absolute boss. Laticia is so open with how she got to where she is, and all the things she needed to overcome to step into who she wants to be. Hit this woman up on Instagram and listen to her podcast. She truly supports women, she empowers women and she has been an absolute pleasure to have on the podcast.Connect with Laticia:Tress: https://tressforus.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/laticia.rolle/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LaticiaRolleGirl We Got This Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/girl-we-got-this/id1458071333Instagram for The Podcast: @Girlwegotthis.coConnect with Erika:Instagram: @thequeenofconfidenceFacebook: @TheconfidencequeenYouTube: The Queen Of ConfidenceLinkedIn: https://au.linkedin.com/in/erika-cramer-ab695571Sistahood Program: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/sistahood/Website: www.thequeenofconfidence.comWAYS TO WORK WITH ERIKA:Join my online coaching program for women – the Sistahood Learn how to Conquer Social Media through my new Confidently Conquering Social Media Course

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My journey with spirituality Aug 14, 2020

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If you've been following me for awhile and know my story, you'll know that my childhood was hectic and through this time I really rejected spirituality and religion for many reasons that I go into during this episode. I didn't believe in anything. I thought religion was terrible. I wasn't spiritual and life was just full on all of the time. I was always fighting, always angry and always cautious of anything spiritual.Then I met Hamish. Now anyone who knows my husband or follows him on social media will know he's a spiritual guy. He does shamanic work, he grew up in a very Catholic household and Hamish has always been intrigued by different religions and has studied many of them. When I met him, he started to break down some of these blocks I had around spirituality and what I'd made it mean to me up until that point. In this episode today I walk you through my journey with spirituality and where I have landed today with it all.Some of the books that helped me with my spiritual journey:Wayne Dyer - Theres a Spiritual Solution to Every Problemhttps://www.goodreads.com/book/show/20972.There_s_a_Spiritual_Solution_to_Every_ProblemWayne Dyer - Change your thoughts change your life Deepak Chopra - The Book of Secrets Deepak Chopra - 7 Spiritual Laws of Success Joe Dispenza - The Placebo Affect Movies:What the bleep do we know - Down the Rabbit hole - https://whatthebleep.com/down-the-rabbit-hole/The Shift - Wayne Dyer https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7SnWOTDykAc&t=599sThrive - Youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lEV5AFFcZ-sConnect with Erika:Instagram: @thequeenofconfidenceFacebook: @TheconfidencequeenYouTube: The Queen Of ConfidenceLinkedIn: https://au.linkedin.com/in/erika-cramer-ab695571Sistahood Program: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/sistahood/Website: www.thequeenofconfidence.comWAYS TO WORK WITH ME:Join my online coaching program for women - the Sistahood Learn how to Conquer Social Media through my new Confidently Conquering Social Media Course

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Biz Series: The power of digital marketing with Carolina Millan Aug 12, 2020

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Ladies I'm so excited to be bringing another Biz Series episode to you. It's been awhile and y'all know I love to talk about business. My guest today, Carolina Millan is an absolute boss of the digital marketing world and I learned so much from this interview. Carolina and I are in a mastermind together and the knowledge and confidence this woman has is so inspiring. Carolina has built an incredible business over many years in the digital marketing space and also has a fantastic business podcast where she has spoken to some huge names like Gary Vaynerchuk, Evan Carmichael, Russell Brunson, Grant Cardone and John Lee Dumas. She's so incredible and I hope you learn so much from this episode today!Connect with Carolina:Instagram: @carolinamillanWebsite: https://www.mentesexitosas.comPodcast: Beyond The HustleConnect with Erika:Instagram: @thequeenofconfidenceFacebook: @TheconfidencequeenYouTube: The Queen Of ConfidenceLinkedIn: https://au.linkedin.com/in/erika-cramer-ab695571Sistahood Program: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/sistahood/Website: www.thequeenofconfidence.comWAYS TO WORK WITH ME:Join my online coaching program for women - the Sistahood Learn how to Conquer Social Media through my new Confidently Conquering Social Media Course

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